Transactional Analysis Ego States and Transactions

[@sakurakissb]

This was very well explained. You have a clear and engaging way of talking and appreciate you taking the time to explain this so well.

[@tonyrabone4668]

How about when the other party refuses to switch to adult and finds a calm rational answer frustrating? What to do in that scenario please?

[@LewisPsychology]

Stay in Adult and avoid playing games. Best wishes, Teresa.

[@tonyrabone4668]

@LewisPsychology thank you

[@TamagoEgg]

​@@LewisPsychologyWhat if the rationality comes from an avoidant that makes it sound rational but just the avoidant tendency being triggered and it's actually not rational?

[@LewisPsychology]

Stay in Adult. Best wishes, Teresa.

[@pres8531]

Interesting theory

[@Amor_y_Alma]

Love how simply this was explained. So clear! Thank you!

[@AlexBett-v6j]

So pleased I found this video, as I teacher this theory is so relevent when interacting with children...really well explained

[@sabrinaszabo9355]

Is it difficult to apply to one’s self, Will more ego states become apparent as time goes on? Trying to work with JUNG’s ideas simultaneously

[@LewisPsychology]

There are no additional ego states. Best wishes, Teresa.

[@ShonWilsonOfficial]

Subtext of my divorced parents conversation to and about me, "You have to take care of me."

[@sabrinaszabo9355]

Who identified an ego state that is be on this in one’s authentic self, where one acts in service to others as opposed to self and understands these driven moods in order to step out? This is the point of meditation, a nonjudgment to step out of the non-duel thinking, observe

[@LewisPsychology]

The idea behind this model is that you are made up of different parts (ego states). When your ego states are in balance you are in good psychological health. Best wishes, Teresa.

[@oleeb]

I haven't heard anything about Transactional Analysis in probably close to 50 years! My parents were into it in the early 70's and it seemed to be a very popular means of approaching communications and relationships. I hadn't really thought much about it but I suppose its popularity must have diminished over time. Watching the video recalls many memories of my parents using TA in groups. My memory as a kid was that this method was revelatory for many of the adults learning about it.

[@LewisPsychology]

I’m such a big fan of TA, it’s actually my favourite theoretical model. I’ve been using TA for 30 years. It’s great to hear that your parents were using TA in the 70’s. Best wishes, Teresa.

[@yvonnewykes7091]

It has been for me

[@Penetra_Edits]

Thank you so much ma'am this TA gives me the hell now things are clear for me.

[@greencertifiedweb]

The Sandler Selling System is based in TA. We are taught to come from an Adult Ego State. They say, "leave the child in the car." The way I learned it, the child has a natural state, a compliant state, and an rebellious state. I'm assuming, in this case, the Adapted Child represents the compliant, and rebellious child!? Or has more been learned about TA since I studied it 15 years ago?

[@LewisPsychology]

TA has evolved tremendously over the last 15 years. Best wishes, Teresa.

[@greencertifiedweb]

@@LewisPsychology It's a powerful system, you explain it well... I have a friend doing some self discovery, I referred her to your channel. Best wishes to you too!

[@sumanarayan01]

Thank you for this amazing video..❤

[@LewisPsychology]

You're welcome 😊

[@Luuu_Ann]

Дякую, дуже цікаво, я завдяки вашому відео покращую свою англійську)

[@LewisPsychology]

That’s great to hear. Thanks for your support. Best wishes, Teresa.

[@yoursocialmediaassistant-d1827]

Subbed and liked- actually made me realise the link between parents and my adult romantic relationships, thank you! :-)

[@LewisPsychology]

Thank you for your support. Best wishes, Teresa.

[@jenniferodea8641]

Really excellent explanation well done and thanks!

[@LewisPsychology]

Thank you. Best wishes, Teresa.

[@eternalreality4346]

Thank you so much❤❤❤❤

[@tristantierney3969]

This is so empowering.

[@LewisPsychology]

That’s great to hear. Best wishes, Teresa.

[@karissasamos2578]

Explained amazingly thank you

[@LewisPsychology]

Glad you liked it. Best wishes, Teresa.

[@karenmazzola8758]

❤

[@Yamenrtfffrd]

🌹🌹🌹🌹

[@boxbino]

This resonates extremely well

[@LewisPsychology]

That’s great to hear. Best wishes, Teresa.

[@francesking2701]

Excellent explanation

[@LewisPsychology]

Glad you think so! Best wishes, Teresa.

[@JonasEricson]

Brilliant insights. Thanks.

[@LewisPsychology]

Glad you enjoyed it! Best wishes, Teresa.

[@jared8038]

Great videos thanks

[@LewisPsychology]

Thank you so much. Best wishes, Teresa.

[@elainetaylor914]

Thank You 🙏

[@LewisPsychology]

You’re welcome 😊