How to Flirt without being Creepy (HOTAPE Technique)

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[@Rien--]

i usually show her my runescape account

[@zookiatookya320]

Smooth

[@biteme9869]

Instantly laid

[@curts7801]

Fukkin Chads and their beast ass RuneScape accounts. . .

[@benjaminjeppsson]

I used to show them my Tibia account... the good old days...

[@saintsfearful]

I like older ladies so I typically use Everquest

[@anduro7448]

4:33 "Walk like you just won 1 miillion$" Walks in a paranoid fashion whilst looking in every direction with a death grip on my brief case and running at light speed when someone gets in a 5m radius of me

[@theorganicway2go]

seems legit

[@tptonypham2323]

Just say “I am Bruce Wayne. I am batman

[@kylefer]

Lol like Edward Norton running in his underwear in Fight Club.

[@robertwellman7194]

AnduRo kk

[@robertwellman7194]

kylefer t

[@pacho640]

Idk why my mom looked so surprised when she saw me practice flirting with the fridge but we've never been closer

[@appledough3843]

HOT APE Flirting Method: H - Humor: Very attractive trait. Don’t take life so seriously. See the humor in mundane situations. O - Openness: Have an open and relaxed body posture. Point your feet towards her. Don’t cross your arms. T - Touch: Shows confidence and dominance. Start by touching hands or upper back. Look at her face when making contact. A - Attention: Too much attention is bad. Don’t double text or compliment them too much. Treat her like she was a guy friend. You wouldn’t hurry to hang out with them, double text them, or what they thought about you. P - Proximity: If she stands close to you that’s good. Arms length is good to stand near her. E - Eye Contact: Very important! Differentiates between friendly and flirty.

[@GNParty]

Underrated comment. 👍🏻

[@appledough3843]

Just did this for myself. Didn’t expect all these liked lol

[@GNParty]

@@appledough3843 It's great because it means I don't have to spend all the time to rewatch the video. Screenshot worthy. 👌🏻

[@anduro7448]

H - Humor: Tell a joke with such bad timing that everyone within earshot commits suicide O - Openness: *A R M C R O S S* T - Touch: *SCP-049 TOUCH ACTIVATE* A - Attention: What did u say i wasnt paying attention? P - Proximity: Girl ran away like i am carrying the black plague E - Eye Contact: Stares at bob instead

[@DavidMorris90]

@@anduro7448 seems legit

[@111Panda]

It's funny I pick up girls alot more than my friends who rely on tinder. My dad always said " a man who isn't willing to risk talking to a women deserves to be alone"

[@g.j]

@@Aurum_Bromide just act friendly.

[@Haxior5506]

I deserve to die

[@shreddedguy679]

your dad knows what he is doing and looks like he passed those genes down to you, you inherited his charm and confidence around women

[@fulol]

nowadays there's a different saying tho why pay for the milk if you can get the cow for free?"

[@groverkiinmuppetborn714]

@@Haxior5506 real.

[@kylefer]

2:53 "Observe other funny people" A few hrs later Cut to me with a notepad at the comedy club laughing like Arthur Fleck as I write notes.

[@shua_the_great]

When people hold hands before marriage- *Pukes*

[@jonothandoeser]

huh?

[@lukedhoffman12]

@@jonothandoeser woooosh

[@ElixirEcho]

You are flirting when you're attractive and creeping on her when you're not.

[@TheHitmar99]

happens in both genres honestly lol

[@greenlitlleman]

@@TheHitmar99 Not really, men aren't offended when unattractive women flirt with them.

[@SamS.7598]

In my opinion no ones unattractive they are just unfit. Play a sport or go to the gym. It's such a basic advice that it has become a cliche, but that's the plain medicine in sight. However your facial features are if you look lean and sharp and have a good body shape you will never look unattractive. Couple that with the confidence you get from finally quitting your bad habits and doing things that are not enjoyable but necessary like exercising and diet you are already there.

[@NickBrennanA]

@@SamS.7598 This is such a great statement. "No one is unattractive, they are just unfit," is very real. I've seen plenty of guys and girls alike become absolutely gorgeous people when they make a habit of taking care of their bodies and holding themselves with confidence.

[@ahnaflfc369]

The vid JUST expalined how to get women while being ugly lmao. Giving off incel vibes

[@theartofmastery3674]

Me: Looks at a woman She: I have a boyfriend 🤦🏻‍♂️

[@iwantlee9510]

Nope.

[@AscendedMasculine]

Happens a lot haha

[@bobbobbob3943]

💀

[@lovepeaceisneverguaranteed7385]

For me its the opposite, I hardly even know that women exists thy all seem ignorant and don't even probably know that I exists its basically the norm in my life😅

[@MichaelChromeTran]

Big facts 😤

[@PowerMatrixAnime]

*To attract the one woman you must learn how to attract all women.* One way to avoid being creepy is not to stare for too long and To avoid escalating too quickly.

[@AscendedMasculine]

I sorta agree

[@luichaosillator6761]

Weak advice. It's only creepy if she finds you physically unattractive

[@BULLTRONHERO]

Great input! Thanks for repeating exactly what was said in the video!

[@lavayuki]

Also to make eye contact, I find some guys just focus more on your chest. It makes me feel so uncomfortable, even if wearing a normal non-cleavage showing top

[@mreverybody1150]

Not always, it's all about how you look. I stared at this new girl for ages. She was by my side for days like a magnet, and wanted to go out / swap contact details. The only time a girl expressed a problem with me staring was after I showed less interest in other ways. She questioned the staring because she wanted validation, yet when she was more certain I was interested, she'd also stare, and had no problems with me doing the same.

[@sidgar1]

Is it Hot Ape or Ho Tape? Either seems to be acceptable 😉

[@AscendedMasculine]

HAHAHA

[@PaperKhaos]

Gotta Tape in them Ho's

[@GNParty]

@@PaperKhaos * Those

[@alejrandom6592]

@@GNParty wow you really defend ur name

[@John.Doe-OG]

@Grammar Nazi Party woosh

[@maskedbadass6802]

SUPER IMPORTANT: Everybody already knows that humor is important, but the most common mistake is to rely on self-deprecating humor. Regardless of a girl's intelligence or social awareness, if you put yourself down for a laugh girl's will start to see you as a dork who is beneath them. Especially nowadays where women can turn to social media for constant validation which inflates their egos. You have to balance this out by making cocky humor and teasing them where you purposely frame the situation like she's the one chasing you. With complete confidence you have to be able to say things like, "Do you normally behave like this, or just around handsome men?" This is one of the reasons for the pattern of women preferring cocky assholes over nice guys. The best time to do self deprecating humor is when you are already perceived as high value. For example, you will notice a lot of likable actors make fun of themselves. In turn it makes them seem humble because their high value is obvious.

[@mintymelancholy188]

Lol my boyfriend kept tumbling over his words on our first date and saying things like "I drink my food" and I just found it funny and endearing

[@megumin4347]

HAHAHAHAA

[@ahnaflfc369]

Cute

[@leonardjoesten1222]

I have lots of experience flirting and this is accurate. But I'd like to add one thing. Always try to look your best; shine your shoes, comb your hair, wear nice clean clothes, lose some weight. You need this to get to the starting block.

[@mreverybody1150]

1) Be good looking. 2) Don't be ugly.

[@rizabantet8493]

And money, dont forget about that dude

[@theguyonthecouch6109]

@@rizabantet8493 it's the most important part! Money

[@spiegeltn]

I'm 6'2, decent looking but once they know you're not the guy to, ahem... "facilitate their dreams" it's game over. They might stick with you for a year or two for fun.

[@mick776gold]

H - Humor O - Openess T - Touch A - Attention P - Proximity E - Eye Contact

[@saintsfearful]

One caveat to the "facing a girl when you like her" thing. Don't do that initially. When you meet her turn your head and lightly smile, over your shoulder if possible, and try to get eye contact for at least 2 seconds. Trust me.

[@lifegameplan9477]

Humor is always key when you are flirting. Thanks for the tips! Much of success to everyone :)

[@AscendedMasculine]

Nice comment

[@ishaanarora4851]

Well KZbin knows me well enough to put this in my recommendation!

[@AscendedMasculine]

Oh yea!

[@shaikhayan5487]

You are India

[@ishaanarora4851]

I am Indian.

[@marioyungblood]

lol cheers

[@John.Doe-OG]

That's because google is stalking you (even offline).

[@AscendedMasculine]

Thanks for having me! :-)

[@John.Doe-OG]

Josh, you should collab and take him out to pick up girls (like some of your older vids)

[@AscendedMasculine]

@@John.Doe-OG Yea, he should come visit

[@zedizdead]

Ow mate! What a difference from your past videos speech speed to this one. So much better now, much more pleasant to listen! Congrats on your work 👏👏👏

[@chazzeo]

6'0" = Confidence 5'11" or less = Creepy Any questions?

[@Razgar_Voxel]

chazzeo you forgot people who have a disfiguring disease like neurofibromatosis type 1 or 2

[@JoeJ-8282]

I've always said that dating, relationships, even just getting a girl to be interested in you enough to start talking with her, shouldn't be this damn complicated!... There's *way* too many societial "rules" of what to do, what not to do, for how long, etc, etc, but the way I see it, it all just keeps the world's population from exploding out of control to the point where this planet can't adapt and handle all of us living here, so it's ultimately probably a good thing that it's rarer for people to really have a connection and hook up, than it is for so many more times, a girl just ignores a guy and doesn't even acknowledge his existence even though he might be attracted to her... and yes, I guess the same goes for women liking guys who won't give them the time of day.

[@DFX2KX]

You're not the only one to make that observation. our social structure does act as a check-valve for our population, and in all likelyhood, it's been that way for longer then modern humanity has been on the Earth.

[@almendrinybailarin6204]

The eye contact is the most key part, and also something that isn’t on the video. When you flirt you should focus on listening more than monologuing, so if a girl speaks to you and you just genuinely listen to her while making eye contact with a slight smile, you can get more girls with less work, I swear it always works and confidence is always key too don’t be afraid to getting rejected

[@AndresRamirez-uy1jd]

I like you’re getting more and more followers, deserve it 100%, love your content man.

[@PracticalInspiration]

Your point about humour being a skill that can be developed is absolutely true. Makes me think of how methodical Jerry Seinfeld is in his approach to comedy. Also great collab, really like Joshua's channel

[@lifewithlouie420]

Stare at her without blinking till she laughs. Works every time.

[@MegaInfamous101]

6:53 "However, for most men, these girls are usually trouble." Right on! 😂

[@Siberwar]

How to firt without being a creepy: Step one: be handsome. Step two: Read step one.

[@CalvinJGreen]

Not true at all, that's just an excuse for staying afraid. I'm pretty good looking but my game is pretty garbage and I've creeped out more than my share of ladies which brings me to videos like this one. Social status/weath and charisma will get you 1000× farther than looks alone so get to work and stop whining

[@SoulforSale]

I groom my nose and ear hair

[@Siberwar]

@Vox Deus Women seem to be doing a lot of fun things with money in USA it's been some years already, no wonder 80% of debits on credit card are from women.

[@Spiceodog]

better, walk up, put your hand on her shoulder and say " hey, are you my IQ, cause your a solid ten"

[@Siberwar]

@@Ez-sl5dz Actually even if you are average looking, the chances for you to be bashed down is very high just for saying hi, all it's need is for you to look poor.

[@HumansOfVR]

it's been a while, good to see that you're back

[@AnalRampage]

I don’t have any emotion to transfer

[@ashtonrouzan5028]

I'm so glad this video didn't come with a link to buy somebody's overpriced self-help romance guide. Just a nice video with some helpful relatable tips

[@branden4030]

Why has no one here mentioned the truth that its all about look? The game has already been figured out... be attractive and nearly anything works, be unattractive and play the game on hard mode (if not impossible mode)

[@Slamazzar]

Looks are not given from heavens once for life. There are so many other things that matter beside genes: hair, facial hair, glasses, clothes, amount of fat, posture, mimics...

[@branden4030]

@@Slamazzar true

[@AA-lz4wq]

@@Slamazzar All of that is related to genes besides glasses and clothes, which is a matter of taste, and you also need money for fashionable stuff and everyone knows attractive people earn more.

[@Slamazzar]

​@@AA-lz4wq How long you grow your hair is genetic? Getting fat is, to an extent, but with some work, it is malleable. So is behaviour (posture and mimics included). And I don't mean clothes that are "fashionable" (I never cared about fashion), just"well put together", ones that suit each other and your body (and personality) in terms of style, shape and colour. Well, as for me, I look and feel best simply in t-shirts ;)

[@PaulPeixoto]

Great stuff. Keep up the great work!

[@nicola-socialmediasuccess8687]

This topic is really useful! A great way to make new connections!

[@AscendedMasculine]

With people in general, yea

[@philippstarlinger6215]

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR BRINGING BACK YOUR INTRO ❤️

[@brandonwilliams1195]

Glad to see your back

[@srilanka96]

Woah! Touch amd Eye Contact?!!! Definitely not worth the risk. These days saying "Hi" is sexual harassment.

[@SG-tx1fz]

True 😂

[@dariusalexandru9536]

Try with mentall health girls

[@zakuro8532]

@@dariusalexandru9536 I agree

[@sid98geek]

"Hi" is sexual harassment? What era do you live in? Not being more than 5 metres away from her is assault!

[@stevengucum]

I hope you are just memeing. And I don't mean it in a sense that "I hope you are wrong", I know you are wrong in 99% of the cases, I just hope you are being ironic

[@midu9309]

Actually your techniques worked for me . Thanks !

[@nexinin5801]

I lost you at the moment you said "this time you actually work up the courage to talk to her"

[@maxlethe3973]

Step one. Be attractive. Step two. Don't be unattractive

[@conorneligan7694]

aka the loser mindset excuse

[@rajatkishore2233]

Nice Stuff Dude , Liked it 👍

[@billfreeman7770]

@Martyn: Bro.. just hit up UnbreakableConfidence, com.. You're not gonna die alone LOL Read those books, revamp your mindset and you'll find it much easier to attract women. The key is just not showing any insecurity because security is what women seek the most.

[@paula.nasmith]

Yo Theo I love your intro music! You are my hero

[@marcosluna7792]

Super helpful video!

[@lovepeaceisneverguaranteed7385]

I don't wanna flirt with anyone why am i here😅

[@officialapex2137]

Because you want to learn to flirt obviously, don't disagree 😑😑

[@guythat779]

Curiosity

[@daurham]

Procrastination

[@lovepeaceisneverguaranteed7385]

@@daurham not procrastination bruh maybe curiosity Idunno😅

[@daurham]

Ahaha psychology tips can come in handy anywhere

[@jonasharris6]

Great points.

[@janetteruiz9347]

This is very insightful !

[@AntoninoCurra]

I use to look at girls in the eyes untill they break eye contact. Once one girl told me it was a great way to flirt, it shows confidence. Idk, just do what you think is more appropriate

[@benjaminjeppsson]

Good tip! If she feels safe and has good confidence it works, but If she is shy or feels unsafe it’s a risky move. But a very good move for Women that are confident and know they are beautiful. Women that are deemed 7’s or 8’s by the majority of men are far more approached that 9’s or 10’s, because avarage Joe is intimidated by the most pretty women so a man that has the confidence to look her in the eye is such a difference to what she is used to. So a good tip,Tony. But use it smart ^^ Btw I only used the hot rating as an example. I don’t mean to objectify women. It was just the best way I could convey what I meant

[@tannergy1729]

Lucky... i broke up. :

[@codemiesterbeats]

Yea you don't want to stare like a goof ball but in general consider it a tennis match of eye-contact. You want to win the first serve.

[@rahulk2633]

Only works if you are handsome

[@andyjackson2910]

great video, more like this, please.

[@dusanslavnic4727]

If you look into your friends eyes for more than 3 seconds it is acknowledged that you have started a starring contest and must now maintain eye contact for a prolonged period of time as no one wants to be the loser

[@Svn6twomm]

So this kind of communication is golden in this time of men who are lonely are feel that way. Even though I got to learn my current girlfriend trough Tinder, the 1 in a million the one with no red flags, I always used to and still talk to women regularly and not coming off like a creep. Yes I had my fair share of rejections but as a man you need to deal with that. Really it makes better over time in general, you learn how to read people in general and how to establish contact and keep the conversation flowing back and over. And it is a matter of trail and error. Yes there are these guys with the natural ability to do that but that must give you more resolve as a man to do better. As males we need a challenge otherwise we will fade away. Giving a women the feeling she is not a commodity but a normal valued person will keep her coming back for more even though you just wanted to trade some simple and nice words to brighten her day. Go out there and after gents it is one of males principal duties to follow.

[@lsporter88]

Fascinating. Good info.

[@Zithorius]

WoooOOOww now I can compound my fakeness and NEVER be 'real' with someone again! Thanks PP!

[@wildfox1994]

How to pick up girls? Don't be ugly.

[@nunyabaznus7851]

ugly guys are getting women though. and tons of above average men are struggling to attract any female. looks simply isn't a relevant factor in attraction.

[@wildfox1994]

@@nunyabaznus7851 look is a huge factor on the first impression though. A lot of girls won't even give you a chance if you are ugly af. I don't think I am ugly in particular but I'm very insecure so i have some heavy struggles with girls

[@mikebizzleuk]

@@wildfox1994 how you walk, carry yourself, dress, talk etc are huge. You don't have to be male model attractive to attract woman. I promise.

[@theguyonthecouch6109]

You forgot, have a lot of money. After all that's all they really care about.

[@runtvision6544]

Not being ugly helps alot. Let's be honest, attractive guys can go all 50 shades and females just see the purty smile.

[@rebelz926]

This is what I need

[@socretesturtelli4577]

I like this as a startoff

[@AscendedMasculine]

Great starting point

[@TheKeefeStone]

Getting to the end of the vid & I'm convinced I have a form of autism. My humor is not an everyday humor, I don't take life seriously but I also don't allow strangers to see my personality. I keep people at an arm & a half distance because I consciously think about my safety, I don't know what your true intent may be - especially if I don't know you. Touching isn't something I'm necessarily comfortable with with anybody unless we are in a relationship & in my world, if we're talking & you break eye contact I WILL doubt your words. In my world, eye contact shows conviction for the things you say, a person without conviction is not a person worth knowing. It also conveys respect to keep eye contact while listening to a speaker. So either I have a new form of autism or something but I don't really care, I'd much rather be alone than be something I am not.

[@ryujinjakka4518]

When I turned 23 or so, I stopped caring what other people thought of me. Suddenly, embarrassing moments stopped being embarrassing, people stopped screwing with me about things, etc. The funny by product of this is that no matter where I am, the store, for example, I can just flirt with women and it comes so naturally. I just figure that if something goes wrong and I say the wrong thing, what are the odds I see that specific person again? So low that it just doesn’t matter. The benefits out way the negatives.

[@mememuhsheen202]

Paying attention, and listening during face-to-face contact is what's meant by "attention." Texting doesn't really apply until after you've HOTAPEd someone. I personally think that text, and online are bad ways to make first contact. Video chat is second to real life contact, but it's not the best.

[@Oddsfeline]

Rah, the guy in the video said "Hey, my name is Theodore, who are you?" and my name actually is Theodore. I guess this video was made for me haha

[@yesno8204]

How to Flirt without being Creepy: Rule 1 - Do not be Ugly.

[@internetman7172]

What if your name isn't Theodore

[@ProjectEchoshadow]

Personally I prefer crippling loneliness

[@robertm.-certifieddaytrade4939]

ProjectEchoshadow I often have crippling loneliness, I usually have to reach for “the bottle “ before I get to the severe damaging phase of the loneliness!!

[@daniell7494]

wow this channel shows me so much

[@anshulgautam7759]

I'm not feeling comfortable listening to your second voice 🙄.

[@jonmix719]

I was thinking the same thing. Needs to enunciate

[@nate4703]

I talk about my minecraft kingdom. If she leaves it's better than her wasting my time.

[@madmaxgaming1019]

Kaptain Kek You have my respect

[@bruh-so8vp]

Gamers are the most oppressed group of people of the 21st century

[@jordanleach4937]

I can get down most of the tips, the one I struggle with the most is Attention, I can be too clingy at times especially if it's early on in meeting a girl for the first time

[@morning5tarr]

Humour !?! I just don't know when to stop ! And mostly nobody asks me to!! I stop when i think my humour was dark enough to bring up awkward silence.

[@shamicentertainment1262]

Hey girl, you hear the joke about the dead baby that was eaten by his brother? No... Ok wanna grab coffee?

[@morning5tarr]

@@shamicentertainment1262 that is why i don't tell jokes

[@ARUNMADHAVANEVR]

She - I have a boyfriend Brain to me - BETTER LUCK NEXT TIME 😁

[@osse1n]

Make yourself a catch, fellas, let them come to you. Whenever you catch her casting a quick stare or two, you know what's up. Just make an approach and pray to Zeus.

[@AscendedMasculine]

Pray to Zeus haha

[@lovepeaceisneverguaranteed7385]

Easier said then done😅

[@inferno3080]

God damnit I messaged up so bad she double looked me, and smiled ugg I missed my chance!!!!

[@silentnightstv3051]

Helpful ❤️

[@sherelak]

Thank you so much ... 🌾🌾🌾

[@diegoandres3643]

A lot of you have mindset problems, don’t think about your failures too much, cause we all fail. Just do it. You can do it.

[@itsillusive2288]

Can confirm, walking up to someone and saying "Hi my name is Theodore" does not do anything special.

[@barrymccockinner5061]

ItsIllusive well you got the best head

[@CommandoMaster]

Good tips. These are good things to make sure ur doing with every girl. Just remember that not every girl is gonna be into u even if ur doing all these things, but it's important u keep improving ur skills nonetheless.

[@YehudiNimol]

Isn't that a tad bit manipulative? Just saying. Also, people give empty flirts to each other so much nowadays it's tough to actually discern when the flirting is genuine. What's the use of practicing if everyone does it as well?

[@ageingdragon8132]

Practice is the only answer Sorry but its the truth youre going to get rejected no matter what you do....but with practice you'll find a way that fits ya

[@lovepeaceisneverguaranteed7385]

Yea that's such Goid advice nah I fear rejection and that made it worse atleast my dogs will always me tho.

[@ShaneHummus]

How not to flirt when you already have a boyfriend

[@nightfury2068]

Very interesting video I like it 👍👍👍

[@kono5933]

This was on a TED talk

[@AscendedMasculine]

Yea it was

[@th3airraidsir3n5]

All of his content is from somewhere else, usually a book. He just repackages it into a more consumable form. Like he ain’t gonna sit and think this all up himself 😂

[@mayankgupta6213]

It's like when he started talking about testosterone he actually got one shot of it

[@TheOutlierToday]

Step 1: be attractive Step 2: speak

[@opxjx2301]

Useful tks~

[@kash7768]

I was watching this ho tape and my principle walked in and we watched it together

[@apexrager88]

Nice

[@e.a4194]

Nice bro

[@ieorlich]

The truth behind eye contact: Handsome --> flirt Ugly --> stalker, creepy, pedophile, etc etc...

[@shua_the_great]

Proximity is probably the one I've noticed the most. I mean, I haven't seen it that much, but it's still the one I've seen the most. I never talk to people tho, unless they first talk to me. My only friends are my friends cuz they just started talking to me. lol

[@odallard]

The physical elements (Touch, Proximity and Eye contact) have become sensitive areas in the #MeToo era.

[@AscendedMasculine]

Maybe man, maybe

[@Carrybean]

A woman won't hold extended eye contact with you while smiling etc if she doesn't want to signal to you that it's okay to approach her. If you are standing somewhere staring and she's avoiding your sight, she's not making eye contact back or she does but looks annoyed/disgusted and you take that as a sign of she likes you, yeah that's wrong and comes over as creepy. About touching; it comes after you've made eye contact and talked to her. They should've made the point of "pay close attention to the girl's face and body language, if she shows the slightest bit of disgust, back away and apologise" more clear. Women want the physical elements if they're genuinely attracted to the guy, the problems arise when the guy ASSUMES the girl must be attracted to them with no attention to the girls reaction or thinking "Is she just being polite or does she seem genuinely interested in me" or the guy thinks that they can intimidate her to get what they want so they go into harass-mode. That's creepy and unattractive as fuck. Otherwise you have nothing to worry about.

[@ronhammersmith2324]

@@Carrybean That won't protect you, though.

[@Carrybean]

Ron Hammersmith From what?

[@phucyu8428]

The only safe way to navigate around females these days is to avoid them entirely.

[@aleksitjvladica.]

Stats: Humour: 6. Openness: 10*. Touch: 8. Attention: 10*. Proximity: 10*. Eye contact 4. Results with "*" are given according to My rules.

[@scottishguy1326]

Listen here lad when you are a good looking guy it's known as flirting, when yer average or below its sexual harassment, that is just how it works m8

[@DJLuckeyLu]

I've seen average- to good-looking girls go out with ugly guys. You can't tell me you haven't either lol I think that as long as the guy shows a cool side of themselves, they're good. Or maybe they're really good at faking a cool personality. Either way works, I suppose haha

[@scottishguy1326]

DJ Luckey Lu, nah m8 I've never even got to that stage with a girl

[@bluefilmsbt6094]

DJ Luckey Lu Or the girls just saw them beautifully, it’s up to standards and personality

[@user-ck8kp8vb4l]

@@scottishguy1326 maybe your personality is the problem mate

[@derrickshowproductions3010]

@@scottishguy1326 have you tried to get a girlfriend?

[@CoLLdNova57]

So basically all i have to do is not be myself for this to work... seems legit.

[@CoLLdNova57]

@KaMi Implying I'm not already good enough as I am now? If I have to resort to what could be described as a type of trickery or being fake in order to be a "better version of myself" then I'll just stay put. Although I do get where you're coming from, some people might be able to apply some of this as a self help method for some social points, unfortunately I view it as kind of the opposite.

[@stevengucum]

Sorry for being late, but what about it is not being yourself? For me the only part that I would have to really force myself to do is touching, since I am not very touchy even with my closest people. But everything else seems to be entirely a skill issue that can be solved with practice

[@duncancameron1377]

Shit yeah I know that feeling but every time I try some guys walks up to me with a smile, waving his finger and say no no no

[@YehudiNimol]

Taking a lot of this with a grain of salt but I guess it shows I'm doing at least some things right. The "touch" thing is tricky. I reached out to hug a girl last week while I was leaving and she wasn't into it, so I had to take off. She's a weird one. Doesn't give a lot of info about herself and doesn't always want to conversate, but is generally nice to me, always greets me with smiles and generally seems to like when I'm around. It's hard to get a read on her. I have no idea how I can get to know her more while she barely gives any info about other parts of her life. It's like a tough puzzle. I have certain hunches, but I'm scared to bring them up because I don't want her to feel like she has to tell me things. Did that mistake before and I'm never doing it again. How do I make someone open up without making it feel forced. Should I open myself up even more?

[@FirdausIsmail1]

has this become a pickup channel?

[@dheerdaksh]

Got it. I'll remember it. The HO TAPE method

[@itsmejay8406]

Ahhh, so that's why my bf said when we were flirting and I kept good eye contact he felt like I was looking directly into his soul lol.

[@jsbt4926]

Great..

[@cobaltcat9536]

I prefer the D.E.N.N.I.S. method

[@LDarlong]

Bohemia Joe explain

[@aklileyt4332]

Thanks

[@LuBiBiLutollii]

So interestig even as a woman, please make a "how girls should flirt " (:

[@Alcohogrifo]

The truth Is that girls dont need yo flirt. You just have to look good and thats it.