7 Psychologically-Backed Signs To Ask Someone Out

Are you considering asking someone out, but you're not sure if it's a good idea? Well, here are some psychologically-backed signs to ask someone out. Feeling nervous? Check. Worried about how they'll react? Check. Doubtful about your skills as an asker? Double check! In this video, we're going to share seven signs that say it's time to ask someone out. After watching this, you'll be ready to go for it!
Subscribe to psi and friends here: / @wholesomeanimationbyp...
Writer: Michal Mitchell
Script Editor: Brie Villanueva
Script manager: Kelly Soong
Voice Over: Amanda Silvera @amandasilvera
Animator: Ayacchi @ayacchi
KZbin Manager: Cindy Cheong
Sources:
Locke, B. (2022, January 5). Should I ask her out? 30 signs she's waiting for you to make a move. LovePanky. Retrieved from www.lovepanky.com/men/dating-women-tips-for-men/should-i-ask-her-out
Team LovePanky. (2014, August 27). 12 obvious signs she wants you to ask her out. LovePanky. Retrieved from www.lovepanky.com/men/dating-women-tips-for-men/obvious-signs-she-wants-you-to-ask-her-out
Theodore. (2020, April 8). The basics of asking a girl out. Practical Psychology. Retrieved from practicalpie.com/the-basics-of-asking-a-girl-out/
Brown, A. (2020, September 18). How to know if you like someone: Ask yourself these 5 questions.

[@Psych2go]

After watching this video, did you confess to your crush?

[@BluSeventyTwo]

doesn’t matter because there’s no way I’m doing that again lmao

[@AllieAnn02]

@@BluSeventyTwo same, it backfired on me

[@BlobFishSucksAtThings]

No

[@lieaparisss08]

Hes tooo good for me😭

[@garrisondodd9253]

What's the point? She doesn't feel the same way about me 😔😔

[@shoelace7676]

0:14 They look at you often 1:11 They smile and blush but only at you 1:47 Their friends know alot about you 2:12 You can't stop thinking about them 3:10 Flirtation 3:35 They Remember 4:12 Proximity and Comfortability You can do this!✨

[@ashbulmer8797]

I really can't 🤦‍♀️😖

[@studiooftheoldwind137]

I have a crush, but I'd rather work on growing my business

[@dothogs28]

@@studiooftheoldwind137 i respect that

[@orangToast]

u forgot some 1:47 Their friends know a lot about you 3:10 Flirtation

[@memor22]

They remember is so sweet! Im melting

[@AGayMess]

"What are you waiting for!?" Well you see. I have this thing called anxiety and fear of rejection 😀 Update: I asked them out and they said yes

[@jorged.8502]

Ah I see your a man of anxiety as well

[@Mangle_the_Pirate]

Same.. 😅

[@AGayMess]

@@jorged.8502 Indeed

[@genevievehansen211]

Well, i can't speak for anxiety, but as far as fear of rejection goes, if your crush reallt values you and wants to be friends but doesn't think of you as anything more, it's still so much better to know than to not know, and it also gives your feelings room to grow or slowly fade. Nothing can grow if it isn't nourished. It's gonna be okay😊

[@birchtree5884]

I've heard it said that confidence is like a muscle. You can exercise and make it stronger. Muscles grow by repairing microtears formed when working out. Confidence grows from getting rejected a lot and moving on.

[@DeRez19]

Honestly, I'm glad I don't have a crush at the moment. It was interesting when I had one, but I have so much nonsense to clear up in my own life. I feel better knowing that I don't need anyone else to make me happy.

[@alexandred.4248]

I really wish I could relate. I've been going from crush to crush for almost as long as I can remember.

[@loonasthirddisciple9299]

same i’ve gone years without a crush it feels so freeing, especially with how hectic my life already is. i remember craving the feeling of having a crush on someone during that time period and now that i have a crush again my life is spiraling completely out of control

[@sniper8717]

I remember when I didn't have a crush it felt so good now I do I hate it is that weird?

[@DEMiURGE455]

That is a lie and you know it. You need relationships for your mental health. If you went to an island away from humanity you would go insane.

[@DeRez19]

@@DEMiURGE455 Better than going insane from trying to date a modern woman. I've tried sevral times. It hurt too much. Women do not care about men anymore.

[@A55a551n]

Timestamps 1). They look at you often 0:13 2). They smile and blush but only at you 1:10 3). Their friends know a lot about you 1:47 4). You can't stop thinking about them 2:11 5). Flirtation 3:10 6). They remember 3:34 7). Proximity and comfortability 4:11 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙

[@cute_marshm3llow950]

This channel makes love seem like a beautiful and innocent thing. We exist for love and care. ❤️

[@Psych2go]

Aww. That's so sweet. Love your username.

[@cute_marshm3llow950]

@@Psych2go Thank you! 💖

[@saulbueno5640]

Trust is the absolute foundation when it comes to loving someone. You don't want to fall in love with someone who isn't able to hold up their end.

[@peachy.x7510]

My crush shows all these signs, but when I asked them out last week, they rejected me 🙁

[@lucakiami8988]

That's the danger of looking into signs. There's only one true way to find out if your crush likes you back... by asking them out. Signs simply do not matter, anything goes with relationships.

[@josecorchete3732]

@@lucakiami8988 Unrelated: "Anything Goes" is also a great music sketch in "Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom". Always great to rewatch. IIRC the actress also married the director, so given this video, that is a plus :)

[@dhanushraju8528]

maybe it was not right time or she had personal issue or somthing , try understanding more and after checking circumstances and analysis it after that ask him or her only out not "them"

[@kittenmimi5326]

....or they didn't actually show all these signs and you deceived yourself into thinking that they show those signs in your head because you like them so much? At least now you know and don't end up wondering about it all your life Asking people out is good just so people know what's actually going on

[@kittenmimi5326]

@@dhanushraju8528 a no is a no, please stop the false hope and continuing to chase someone after a "no" is stalker behavior

[@CuddleFish124]

Lol I KNOW I’m gonna get shot down by my crush, like, 1000% sure. But I’m still gonna do it. Because it’s the first time I’ve had a crush in over 15 years and not saying something is driving me crazy. I don’t expect jacksh*t from my confession, but they are by far the most interesting person I’ve come across in my entire life, and I respect them enough to be honest with them, and let them make their own informed decisions, because I feel it isn’t fair to them for me to say nothing. Will I ruin a good friendship? Possibility. But I feel like honesty is the way to go with this person. Hopefully they will still let me be a part of their life, even with this new info. But if they don’t, I will respect any and all decisions they make, and at least be thankful for the time I was friends with someone so cool. I don’t care if I get friendzoned. I am 💯 ok with that. I just hope to continue to be a part of their life.

[@genevievehansen211]

Dude this is the best comment. I LOVE everything you've said here. And hey! My mom was in the same situation where she knew nothing would come of it, and she was pleasantly surprised, so maybe it'll happen for you too!

[@olisa_hehe]

First of all, good luck! You seem like an awesome person, your crush is definitely lucky to have your in their life. And secondly, thanks. I don't want to make it about me, but you have me hope. I've neder had a crush in my life and I'm 16, so hearing that you didn't have a crush for the past 15 years makes me feel that that's ok and that I'm not alone

[@kathrynholland4474]

Goodluck hope it goes good and you guys still be friends if it does not work out

[@sisisisi9416]

WHAT HAPPENED?

[@ravenx0x033]

I hope it goes well for you

[@Amuckli]

😂 speaking of this video i did this today! It was a no but gladly were still friends. Thank yall so much for making this kind of content, you’ve rlly helped me alot with anxiety much love keep up the work!

[@Psych2go]

No worries! Glad that you guys get to still be friends!

[@DeRez19]

You're blessed your crush still wants to be your friend. None of my crushes wanted to be my friend in the end (besides this one girl but she got a boyfriend so we barely talk now).

[@christinashuker6202]

Hmm.. good luck for your next crush!

[@angeloaquino6766]

Confessed to my best friend a few days ago that I liked her. We’ve been close for a over a year, but I told her that I’ve recently started to look at her as a potential love interest. She asked me to promise we’d stay friends no matter what, and we reassured each other, while I added that I knew we both were busy and I’m not looking for anything serious or intensive. She said she’ll think about it, and that she’ll tell me when she’ll give her answer. Hoping it’s a yes! If it’s not, welp.

[@Iveraxi]

Did she answer yet or nah?

[@angeloaquino6766]

@@Iveraxi “I can’t date you ___, since I’ve only ever seen you as a friend.” Just like two weeks ago, but she did tell me that she thought about it and reconsidered. I’m still slightly confused but I’m doing my best to move past it.

[@DemiFiend-nu2ho]

​@@angeloaquino6766 how are you doing now?

[@neofulcrum5013]

Me: hey, I know this is strange but I was curious if you’d like to hang out sometime. Just you and me? Crush: sure! Where do you wanna hang out? Me: *I didn’t think I get this far*

[@genevievehansen211]

Ooooo yay !!! You go!!

[@Psych2go]

Nice! Do they know it's a date?

[@bugbug00]

I actually confessed to my crush earlier today! to be fair I didn't exactly say it was me (it was a little note with candy), but I did draw a little planet as a hint, so hopefully he gets it lol Also he shows a LOT of these signs, so I think i have good chances :] UPDATE, he infact did not get the hint, but my friend ended up convincing me to straight up tell him. Long story short, I now have a date to the next dance (and also one next week) :)))

[@Xuejinyuan]

Update how it went!

[@kindafunnyngl]

good luck pal I'm sure they like you!

[@nina93102]

Good luck!

[@hydrothemushroom]

men dont usually get hints but gl

[@nothingmuchha]

Good luck! C:

[@antti-karhu]

I've been watching these videos for the past couple of days and I'm becoming more and more certain about two things: 1) I'm crushing on my friend like an ice breaker. 2) She does not have feelings for me. I'm not sure which one is tearing me apart more, keeping quiet about it to not ruin a great friendship, or the growing realisation there is no hope for anything more. 😣

[@alexandred.4248]

Honestly I'm still recovering from confessing to my bestfriend 2 years ago, but my advice would be to move on whatever it takes, and that you're responsible for your own happiness, even if it means confessing to her because you want things between the two of you to be clear and that you're eventually the one who needs some distance from her.

[@SasisaPlays]

It's always nice to snap back to reality, realising, that nobody liked you ever, and probably won't

[@JohnSmith-fo5cx]

I highly doubt it mate.....I used to think the same thing, but was surprised after i become more observant of how people react around me. Of course it wont be everyone, but next time you meet someone you like try and maintain eye contact and see if it is reciprocated longer than normal.

[@christinashuker6202]

I relate to this.

[@user-rn4py1qp1s]

there's a small feeling of stability in it. i relate.

[@blankslate8002]

That's not reality bro

[@jalencurtis7222]

This came just as I was thinking about somebody. What timing.

[@Psych2go]

Good luck!

[@RelationshipNucleus]

Go ahead then :)

[@SB-dx7kb]

I love this lady's soft and gentle voice.

[@ajpiper2791]

Tysm for all the videos they all help me alot with socializing and being able to read people... Great channel

[@Psych2go]

Glad that they can provide value!

[@PetoGasparr]

I asked her out... she said no... 6 months ago, but she still looks at me and reacts to it; yesterday, I sent her a message, and she simply wished me a Merry Christmas. And thats all, no response. :D pff :D

[@thesilliestrat]

EVERY SINGLE TIME I see some kinda tutorial on how to make a cute gift box or a cute card or something I THINK OF THEM. I barely know them. HELP.

[@Jinxedagain65123]

Love the vids! As always! I always watch your videos and can relate to a lot of them

[@Psych2go]

Thank you! Are there other vids that you would like us to publish?

[@Jinxedagain65123]

@Psych2Go hmmm, maybe one on the 4 stages of grief? I think it would be a really good vid

[@Algreymitnoe]

I wish i could ask my fictional crush out 🗿

[@maem7462]

The struggles are real lol

[@The_Primitive]

maybe you should go touch some grass and realise that you can't have a relationship with something that does not exist

[@pyrolord2k977]

@@The_Primitive dang 💀

[@blackonefifty]

@@The_Primitive so edgy you didn’t even notice the satire, astonishing

[@thebutcherspecial]

I too have a crush on my tulpa

[@AllisonSingleton]

I’ve had a crush on someone for 10 years while only talking to them a few times… We’ve gone to the same schools since elementary but I’ve always been too shy. Advice would be appreciated!

[@RelationshipNucleus]

10 years is a long time 😀

[@AllisonSingleton]

@@RelationshipNucleus You’re telling me! 😂

[@alexandred.4248]

Talk to them, about literally anything, literally anytime you can get to do so. It will help if you can pretend that you haven't been noticing them for a straight 10 years though...... See if they would be interested in talking more some other time, and try suggesting some such other time for the two of you to talk more. I know you might be shy, but there's no going around talking to them! Be interested in what they have to say, and try getting to spend more time with them, preferably one on one.

[@christinashuker6202]

Take the opportunity. I was friends with a guy for nearly 3 years. I confessed to him to get closure. He rejected me but actually in a nice way. I ended our friendship after that but it's given me space to forgive him, get less obsessed and realise that our friendship was toxic but I didn't miss any opportunities.

[@AllisonSingleton]

I appreciate both of your advice, however, I don’t think it works in this situation. I go to a big school so I only ever see him passing in the halls (which is rare). I also haven’t had any classes with him in a few years but when I did, we didn’t talk. We’re pretty much strangers to each other; I know little about him but would like to know more. All of this to say, I’m pretty much looking for a way to start talking.

[@valentynar1143]

Crazy how i have actually been planning to approach my crush lately lmaooo so thank you, but next year i guess

[@Psych2go]

Keep us posted!

[@ryuukokoro1095]

I wonder if there's a psychological study on how to know if a friend online likes you back. A lot of the typical signs are physical so it'd be nice to know if there are different solely verbal signs

[@coronelkittycannon]

online it will be a coinflip. hang out with them and then you'll find out

[@Psych2go]

We do have a video on that actually. Did you find it? kzbin.info/www/bejne/g321n2qsZ6uEicU&ab_channel=Psych2Go

[@ryuukokoro1095]

@@Psych2go Oh I didn't know that, thanks for the link!

[@billy7741]

This came out in a good time. I’m going to meet my crush of 2 years after Christmas and I’m planning to confess. Although I think he might feel the same 👀

[@horizontreasures7701]

Omg that’s amazing! I wish you the best of luck! I wish I had your confidence lol

[@billy7741]

@@horizontreasures7701 oh well, who knows.. I might not be that confident when I’m actually there 😅 but thank you! I’ll try my best

[@horizontreasures7701]

@@billy7741 ofc!

[@Psych2go]

Good luck! Keep us posted!

[@billy7741]

@@Psych2go He said he likes me too and would’ve been willing to give it a shot, but the distance is too much for him 😞

[@quark_squark]

I feel like I will watch stuff like this and subconsciously start doing the opposite of all these things to ensure the other person never finds out I like them…

[@Psych2go]

Sounds like you are not ready to be in a relationship!

[@quark_squark]

@@Psych2go I’m not but I’m also in my late 20s soooo

[@Yashuop]

Claim your “here within an hour” ticket right here🏆

[@thatsdarkiguess]

here within 5 seconds ‼️‼️

[@BrainsofaWeirdArtist]

Yo

[@sparklingdiamondkiwis4390]

HERE

[@jaronpirtle5508]

Here!

[@MrIcenice44]

I have trauma from past relationships, so I’m learning that somebody liking me is the way it should work. I’ve had to relearn the signs that I should pursue because as a guy I’d shut those off after bad experiences with previous women. There’s a girl who I noticed looking at me and I noticed myself looking at them. I was happy that I was still attractive, but I was also sad and scared that I was attracted to them, even tho I’ve been working on myself to be in this situation. I asked her, but she’s a very busy person so she said yes but had to reschedule. The patience it’s taking to pursue is a toll on my anxiety, but I trust myself; I’ve worked really hard on this skill. I deserve to use what I’ve worked on

[@notyetfound_exe3420]

I seriously want to, but my friend likes him.

[@ratkinglmao]

Yeah me too man 😢😢

[@kiramcclure4515]

“They look at you often” Me: Purposefully looks in the other direction cause I’m scared-

[@dannythealien1569]

SO REAL

[@juliepagala975]

The animation is so cute 😍

[@minermole101]

Will I truly ever meet the one? Also: UwU outro dance UwU

[@shishi4349]

this just encouraged me so i'm gonna do it when I see him next week :) thank u for this. the timing couldn't have been any better

[@genevievehansen211]

WOOO GOOD LUCK

[@shishi4349]

THANK U

[@Wind_Cursed]

Sorry, but there ain't no way I'm going to be able to ask ANYONE out 😅 I second-guess and get worried about everything to the point that I won't even hang out with even just my friends unless they suggest it or they start hanging out with me. So asking a crush out? WAY too difficult for me. Even if I think "Will I regret asking them?" I still get too worried to make the first move The only people I do feel completely comfortable with making any sort of "first move" (even just hanging out or talking) is my current family. I am lucky to have such a great family, so I'll stick with them until anyone else starts making first moves

[@genevievehansen211]

Well, if you have someone in mind, hopefully you can show them these signs and they will make the first move :)

[@Wind_Cursed]

@@genevievehansen211 I don't have someone in mind, yet. I can't seem to find anyone who I actually seem to really like at the moment and it has been like that for about a year. I would consider that a good thing, though, because now I don't have to constantly worry about what the person I like might think. Nobody seems to like me right now, either. I also only really start to like someone when I have talked to them on at least a few occasions in real life face to face to the point they could be considered a friend. If I like their personality, then I like them. Since I haven't talked to anyone but my family, I don't exactly have a crush right now Even if I did, though, I try my hardest to avoid showing any and all signs that may hint that I like someone due to being too afraid they'll start being uncomfortable around me and start hating (unless I know FOR SURE the person in question likes me). To me, it's better to only be friends than to ever risk a rejection. So maybe it would be hard for whoever I like to make the first move, too. Oh well, guess I'll be single my whole life, that's fine with me (except the money and work situation...) I just wrote this comment and my first comment based on knowledge from previous experiences

[@Psych2go]

Practice makes perfect! Makes you stronger after getting rejected.

[@PUREtrollin]

The feeling of hope in finding happiness in someone you like. It's very addictive like they say in the video, it's worse though because it rarely comes true. That fantasy cycle thinking of romance in the brain.

[@manygh]

I really REALLY like this girl from my class and she is the first girl i actully love. I love her personality and not her body and i am thinking of asking her out in valentine's day. Wish me luck.

[@duck_named_bread]

I'll put a roze in the pond for you. Good luck.

[@pedramtajeddini5100]

Any updates?

[@circus9556]

Oh man, confessing to your crush can be really nerve wrecking, especially when you are not sure how they feel about you, but I'm glad I did, twice actually hahaha know why? because I got a best friend out of it and not only that, but I can call that bestfriend my girlfriend as well. About to be 6 months in and we love every passing moment when we are together. I actually ended up asking her one day, what if I never confessed that I liked you? Would you have told me you liked me? her answer? Nope, I would have died before telling you anything hahaha (we are both big introverts) so don't be afraid to take a risk, it may lead to something great down the line 😃

[@powerslave0606]

I barely had the opportunity to coincide with my crush at the same place in order to know her better and allow more trust from her to arise towards me. But in one occasion, I think we went beyond getting caught looking at each other (individually); somehow our minds got "coordinated" and both of us looked at each other at the same time. No blushing, just intense mutual staring (about 30s).

[@alexandred.4248]

Talk to them

[@vonnyr1867]

Are you going to ask her out or confess your feelings. I've had a similar experience. Update :, He just liked the attention so nothing to add here.. But he did show some signs

[@powerslave0606]

@@vonnyr1867 I don't even have her number, nor any social media. We don't have any mutual friends either.

[@vonnyr1867]

@@powerslave0606 it's difficult isn't it. But don't give up try talk to her when you see her next.

[@miguelyarturo]

30 year old here, I've never been in a relationship, last year it was the first time in life I got to ask out my crush, I couldnt do it in person but it was through message and she accepted! We had a date and even tho there was no chemistry it felt great to do it! Before I wasnt sure she would accept my invitation and thought she was just being nice, so I recommend to do it, who knows maybe you both will click! Right now I have a new crush and I'm on the same page but I'm eager to ask her out, and this time would like to do it in person, so far circumstances has made it unavailable to see eachother but starting next month I'll have the chance. Best wishes and hope you find love!

[@TugiDeg]

4:22 "...or to perhaps, take them out." Never knew people who like you actually actively attempted to kill you. Does that mean John Wick loves everyone?

[@SoloMotivation]

To my lovely people all across the world, I LOVE YOU AND I WANT YOU TO KNOE THAT YOU ARE A GREAT PERSON

[@Zandezz.]

Thank goodness the advice I give is actually based somewhere. I used to be a very active advisor on the r/crushes subreddit and the advise I gave was almost always just what I thought would be right but now at least I know its actually right lol

[@Windermed]

eyy i know that subreddit, i've been semi-active on there recently (totally not because i have a crush right now or anything haha) and the advice there's pretty good imo

[@mr.cryptic9859]

im getting this goofy stuff after chickening out of asking my crush out earlier today lol

[@Psych2go]

It's a sign!

[@Yulises]

6:53 “…or your crush” Absolutely not. 🤣 I’m keeping this to myself.

[@newospam]

Onb who would send these to their crushes😭😭🙏🏾

[@JackCry.420]

always uploading the right video on the right time don't you?

[@DefinitelyNotAFerret]

Can’t believe you still haven’t noticed they’re in your closet

[@JackCry.420]

@@DefinitelyNotAFerret can't believe you haven't noticed I'm in your closet 👁️ 👄 👁️

[@DefinitelyNotAFerret]

@@JackCry.420 I like the company 👌🏼

[@brolol529]

Alright. I haven't seen her for almost a year now because of military service. But I would think of her when I had free time sometimes, and I talked to her on Instagram a few weeks ago and she seemed interested in how I was. If this gets 10 likes until tomorrow, I'll ask her out for a date this weekend

[@admirbarucija2018]

I haven’t asked someone out in almost 10 years. I don’t think I have it in me anymore to even try or think about it

[@Psych2go]

10 years is the magic number.

[@admirbarucija2018]

@@Psych2go very true! 😄

[@sir_mine_]

Sadly, this is remembering me of the multiple times, that I had a crush and never asked them out. I had so many crushs on different girl and never told them and I hardly regret it. So, don't be like me and talk to the one who you have a crush on or you end up like me.

[@starzintheskyz4477]

I feel like this video only applies to people who are in high school or college.

[@tadisstrange]

Im confessing tomorrow.. I dont have much time left, and I’ve been waiting for so long. Wish me good luck.. ❤

[@Chesshire1]

Yo we need update!!

[@axelwiden-thulin9423]

Boys, im doing it on Valentine’s Day (February 14th). Wish me luck!

[@uriel-ianosei3677]

Bruh, If I saw your comment earlier I would’ve answered. Well now I’m here how’d it go?

[@axelwiden-thulin9423]

@@uriel-ianosei3677 I think you can guess how it went. She friendzoned me.

[@uriel-ianosei3677]

@@axelwiden-thulin9423 Im sorry it went like that for you. I believe one day you’ll find the right person

[@axelwiden-thulin9423]

@@uriel-ianosei3677 You don't have to feel sorry for me, but thanks. I guess i hope ill find the one someday. But it doesn't feel like that right now though.

[@CamDaMonkey5734]

I love my crush so much I can’t even stop my self from smiling I try to but my body makes me smile when I see her

[@-zogekusari-3264]

#3 (their friends know a lot about you) was really big for me So my best friend has a group of online friends, I've talked to them a couple times but haven't said anything about myself. The second time I met them, someone joined that I hadn't met yet and said "ohh is this the person?" Then my friends told them to hush. Then this last time I played with them one of them kept asking my friend "Can I tell Z??" (Z or Zoge being my online name) my friend and her other friends kept telling them not to. have no idea what that's about but oh well.

[@TriqxterRB]

One time when I was walking home from school I saw my crush standing on the other side of the sidewalk looking in my direction. She had previously showed some signs of being interested in me. So when I saw her looking in my direction my heart started to race and I was thinking "is this it is she gonna ask me out" but she just stood there looking very nervous and still looking in my direction, now I know what her intensions were. I think I'm ready to ask her out now. :)

[@christinashuker6202]

Go do it! As a shy girl I never could tell anyone in real life I liked them. I would just stare and mix up my words

[@pedramtajeddini5100]

Any updates?

[@TriqxterRB]

still haven't sadly

[@pedramtajeddini5100]

@TriqxterRB aww mann 😅

[@m60enjoyer70]

My crush is the first thought I have when I wake up and the last one before I go to sleep, and also in my dreams. It's nearly impossible to get it out of my mind lol.

[@Gl1CH_YT]

I’m in this situation where she’s sending me hints maybe but I don’t know if she’s just being nice or if she actually likes me. WHAT DO I DOOOO?!?!? (Plz help I don’t know how girls think)

[@indridcold8433]

I will not be repeating past mistakes. There will never be another date for me again. I learn from my mistakes.

[@RobloxianDoni]

You just have meet toxic girlfriend before I guess and I guess that was just a crush, not love

[@vexar7575]

To be honest, never change VO. She's perfect.

[@rebeccamace1534]

I’m scared to tell mine. But I think I’m going to have to tell him. It’s time. But I’m really scared

[@jasminvalerie]

It’s part of my New Years resolution to tell him. I’m just building up my courage 😅😬

[@torillama4275]

“That secret being that their friend likes you” is so blunt it’s hilarious

[@quintevanveldhuizen7600]

I don't get butterflies, never got them. But with this one boy, i get full-body shivers (in a good way) everytime his name pops up in my head. I'm not good at knowing if i have a crush, but i think i do this time

[@abnormality3345]

I have a crush at my school. She’s quiet most of the time, and only talks to around two people; girls. Even then I find her just making small talk with them. But I’m the only boy or male she actually talks to. We have deep conversations, and she changes her voice and body language. We’ve had bunches of funny moments and interactions and meet-ups, and she rarely talks to me in a group; mainly only talks with me in a group when none of them care, or just when we’re, well, alone. She’s done irrational things with me that I had no idea why she did, and I never can find her more than 2 meters away from me. She always seems to be in my eyesight/proximity. I didn’t really care for her at first; but as more of those moments carried out and our interactions continued, I became infatuated with her, and just have a week or two before I’m ready to ask. And this really helps with that. Approved, Psych2Go. I kinda just wanted to vent about this cause it’s been laying on my mind for a while.

[@RobloxianDoni]

So did you ask her ?

[@faszrynef.3606]

But seriously the animation is adorable! 😍😍😍

[@heckincat1406]

I really need to to stop watching these videos. My crippling loneliness and inability to get others to love me is too great. 😔

[@maryquitecontrary1631]

We can’t make people love us. Are you lonely or alone? I don’t have a SO, but I don’t always feel lonely. Would I like SO? Yes, but I don’t want to be with someone just to avoid being alone. I’m an introvert so it is really difficult to put myself out there. I’m just focusing on being the best me possible and hoping I strike someone’s fancy. Hang in there!

[@TheAncientTale]

Last semester I had a table in math class with my crush, one other girl, and I all at it. The girl distanced herself from us so she could see the teacher’s board and so she could talk to other people, leaving me and my crush at the other side at the table in the corner of the room. It was one long semester, but that part went by too fast.

[@trifalgarh]

"What are you waiting for!?" Bro, I am 5'1, I don't get to ask anyone out or it could be some other flaw within me that makes sure that no one ever likes me. Besides, I don't think there's a need to. I am living pretty comfortably. Life can't be perfect, if I am alone then let that be one imperfection in my life. Everything else is going pretty well for me.

[@whatheheck129]

Thank you for confirming that nobody has a crush on me

[@channy313]

Ugh! I miss having a crush. Life was funner in EVERY way 😢😢.

[@kittenmimi5326]

Ikr like how can a glance or a hi make me so happy? It's so much better than now where I'm a mess and not happy about anything lol

[@thelegender110]

I didn't understand what they all were going on about until I basically tripped and fell in, and yeah it's great. Horribly heartbreaking at times, but great. I've liked her for 3 years now

[@vlazarus124]

This asking out game kinda cute 👀❤️ but it hurts in the long run tbh cuz people change

[@genevievehansen211]

You actually!! My friend something to me a few months ago that blew my MIND. Yes, people will change. I mean, how can you expect them to not? They've been growing and changing and maneuvering all throughout their life before they met you, and it has made them into the person you know and speak to today. However, they will still go through so much after meeting you, and circumstances but also just human nature will cause them to change. Loving someone and commiting to a long term relationship doesn't mean to love the one person you fell in love with, but all the versions that come before and after. Adapting to their changes, while they adapt to yours, and supporting and loving and communicating along the way. That's what forever is about.

[@vlazarus124]

I meant as in like some girls change they will find another attractive guy and even cheat on you by sleeping with them and it's the harsh reality nothing lasts forever all those things we saw or were taught probably faded back in the 90's now it's a world full of Fake people cheating and doing dumb stuff negl . Forever is just a lie And i honestly believe there are some people that got their "Forever" and are living a happy life But my friend lemme tell you this not everyone has the same fate / destiny / luck

[@Puffz.Editzz]

Ty for this vid this really helped me out

[@Angelssschanel]

Hii ty for advice love ur content keep it up ❤

[@Alastair-fu3nk]

I zoned out part way through the video and started thinking about them- Now I have to rewatch this- Curse you person that I may or may not have a crush on for always being on my mind!😅😂

[@wisvai279]

Came here for reassurance, Stayed for reassurance, Never got assured bc only- like- half (or less, I wasn’t counting) of these apply to my crush

[@allylambert8470]

Even in the extremely rare occasion that I have a crush on someone I would NEVER EVER dare to try to ask them out. I’ve made that mistake before in my teens and I refuse to repeat that disaster. For me personally I see it as someone else’s job to ask me, never ask someone myself.

[@botowner8623]

I've never had a single girl display any of these behaviors to me.

[@literalammar9259]

Love today's lesson! Brought my drawing tablet. Ty

[@Psych2go]

Woo hoo!

[@kyleslavik6324]

Thank you this was very encouraging.

[@fpslover2468]

I asked out a girl I've been friends with for a few weeks at work and got rejected. Glad I did it though. C'est la vie.

[@bleach6746]

*COUGH COUGH* the only person showing these signs is me, sadly.

[@RevokedAccount]

me and my crush: *wears a mask*

[@xZadkiel]

This is by far the most perfect timing for you guys to upload a video. I just now wanted to tell my crush I like her, now I'll first watch the video. Wish me luck

[@maissie]

Update us

[@loganishere1]

Good luck man

[@xZadkiel]

@@loganishere1 thx I‘ll need it

[@donatsukii]

I am good friends with my crush and she is well aware that I flirt with her from time to time. And recently during our christmas party she asked me to participate in one of the party games with her which is to dance and when the music stops we have to be standing inside the circle and the circle gets smaller as the game progresses so meaning I have to eventually carry her. However I was afraid because I don't know how to dance but as we watched the game start, I realized that none of the participants actually danced as I expected so I regret missing the opportunity of which I could've carried my crush in my arms. I'm never gonna let myself miss such an opportunity like that or any other good opportunities in life ever again.

[@wayneheidlebaugh9915]

I had a crush on someone at different times but it only got as far as just being friends, nothing more.

[@LaurenLaguzQueen]

“what are you waiting for?” First of all I have ANXIETY

[@toreon0.2]

I gave my chrush a Christmas card and asked him out but he didn't get it and tougt i wanted to be friends 😑😪 (Stil im happy i can hang out with him more... maybe i ask him out again)

[@BirdieSenpai]

She *does* remember details about me I've only mentioned once or twice and sometimes even a year or two ago that doesn't even occur to anyone else. I'm considering writing her a romantic poem for Christmas Eve and giving it to her at midnight in her time zone. Knowing myself, though, I'll probably Birdie out. See what I did there?

[@genevievehansen211]

I say go for it😊

[@BirdieSenpai]

@@genevievehansen211 I'll see if I can muster up the Triforce of Courage for this one, lol.

[@gabriellecureux5528]

Man I wish I had this video when I was younger

[@ell13_]

1) she's bad at eye contact but I have caught her staring before 2) yes 3) yes. ive met like two of them before, but that's it 4) yes. i think about her a lot 5) they actually have, yeah- 6) she has a shitty memory but if i mention something she will sometimes remember stuff 7) yes

[@crustyescaped]

There's a guy I know who - if I didn't know better - I'd swear is flirting with me. I assume it's all in my head. Wishful thinking. Seeing what I want to see. But maybe it's genuine. I kinda hope it is. I want it to be. I usually crush on straight guys, which is safe because they're unavailable. This is the first time I've had a crush on a gay guy in damn near 20 years. Scared and nervous as hell, but at the same time - daring to allow myself to feel some hope. I don't think of myself as a particularly good guy. Not boyfriend material. Even if he asks me out, I'm tempted to warn him about myself. But also - for the first time in my life - I feel inspired to be a better person, so... I dunno. Between this and a few others of yours - these are well-timed videos. If I drum up the courage and ask him out and he says 'yes', I may have you to thank. And then I'll have to get into therapy again so I can be the good guy he deserves.

[@alexcerv]

This is great, good luck king 👑

[@R3y_fr0g]

FIRST! do you know how much your channel has helped me?! A LOT

[@guyonyt]

Rip to all the people who went on the video commented without watching then leaving

[@no1islistening2us]

Honestly this is very helpful! I want to try and talk to my crush after Christmas break and see if I notice any of these signs :) I'll update this comment if anything happens!

[@Apeiron242]

One easy way to ask out someone is to ask them to come along instead. "My friends and I are going to shoot pool. Want to come along?"

[@XxILikePie03]

Animation on point

[@ryansharp9550]

OMG THIS ARTSTYLE IS SO FUCKING CUTE AAHHHHHHHHHHHH

[@Ayacchi]

AHHHH THANK YOU SO MUCH!! 😭😭💖

[@abdhassan1792]

your videos are chanching my life to the better

[@ImKloan]

Hey, I recently found out I'm supposedly a INTP-T (with a little behavior of INTP-A) type of personality, do you have a video on these types of people? I was told its unusual to have this and I would like to understand it more!

[@aleksila]

That 16 personalities quiz is ass, you shouldnt use it. Mbti is way more complicated

[@ImKloan]

@@aleksila I'll definetely look into it when I get home... thank you for the info! But this test seemed to describe my behavior and mannerisms extremely accurately with great detail.. I looked into some websites and they all verified the same thing the 16 personality test said.. I was never really into the testing thing in general, but it was definitely startling on how accurate it was so I couldnt help but look deeper into it

[@sofyp.9048]

@@ImKloan the thing with this kind of tests its that most of the times isnt accurate because of how big and expanded each type is, so yes it can have so many accurate details but these details can also belong to other types, thats why in this specific theory you better look for cognitive functions, which are the ones where the myers briggs theory was based off :)

[@ImKloan]

@@sofyp.9048 Interesting... I didnt know that! Thank you!

[@sofyp.9048]

@@ImKloan no problem :)

[@akiraraiku]

I keep watching those videos, they are helpful. The real problem i have is that i just don't dare to go ask a girl out xD There's also flirting, i have the feeling this is the kind of action that is hard to explain and can only be learned by doing it yourself. But this requires to talk to a girl you find attractive, scary !

[@MARStheFORSAKEN]

if they buy you roses and chocolets and ask if your free on saterday it may be that they want you to ask them out but its still not a for sure sigh so its best to be safe and ignore these jestures while continuing to probe them for subtle sighs they want to get to know you better.