Putting An End To Toxic Narcissistic Scapegoating

[@ac80577]

Scapegoating is an interesting phenomenon. I think this: scapegoats are normally the more creative, intuitive, insightful and out-of-the-box thinkers in a society or family unit. The more a social unit is conformist, mechanized, organized and predictable in the patterns of behavior, the more the scapegoat represents a threat to the social unit. This is the reason the scapegoat is targeted, because he is very dangerous to the survival and reproduction of the social structure.

[@jukejointjezebell8774]

Andrea Catalano ❤

[@fifilafleur5555]

👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

[@ladybug947]

So smart, you captured the underlying reason and of course it makes complete sense! The narcmonster doesn’t need to target the ones who are drinking the kool aid, the sg is the one who isn’t drinking their damm kool aid

[@cindywells9119]

This is correct in generic terms, although the presence of one or more narcissists into the family unit as the ones holding the power (and even if they weren’t initially holding the reins, they would insinuate themselves there via manipulative maneuvering) means that the family system is soul-crushingly toxic. This varies by degrees, but invariably everyone but the narcissist suffers as a result, but unfortunately the children within such a system will have no awareness that any other system exists. The intriguing thing here is that the narcissist can usually convince all of the other members in the system that they are-to one degree or another-winning with the sole exception being the scapegoat. The irony is that I probably would never have questioned the system if I could “win”, but as I couldn’t win I had to question and reexamine everything. Otherwise I would have perished due to the health issues I had suffered from since infancy. Now it saddens me to see them still dancing to the puppet-strings that cause them immense suffering and lack of self-worth, despite the narcissist father being retired and no longer at the center. Sadly I know too well that-because he was so successful at discrediting me-they would never believe that I have anything worthwhile to impart.

[@amandatarkington6877]

True. I'm the only grounded one in the family!!!

[@sueb6885]

Usually the TRUTH TELLER in the family is scapegoated. The narc HATES to hear the TRUTH. They prefer to be told lies. So they will scapegoat the honest child. Usually the golden child is the one who just tells the narc what they want to hear.

[@lindamaemullins3086]

No wonder they say I am dangerous. The truth is not in them and as they have used my I.D.,stolen almost everything from me, it is now time for me take back what is mine and see that they are made to swallow the truth

[@janethomas78]

SO TRUE!! KILL THE MESSENGER!!! AND THEY DO KILL YOU!!

[@coolboy-ty8kf]

@@lindamaemullins3086 Take care ♥️

[@taraarrington2285]

Yes and no tell everybody your whole life and their smear campaigns against you that you are a liar when you are the most honest member of the family it's crazy making it's gaslighting

[@taraarrington2285]

@@lindamaemullins3086 it's probably projection they are probably dangerous I know for me like I'm the peace lover in a military family so it's like an inversion kind of deal

[@FetchTheSled]

11:20 that was it, she just nailed it. That's my family. Gossiping, back-stabbing, being hypercriticaL, shaming, triangulating. This is how they operate. The products of a narc mother.

[@nickpaulie]

The same with me. But now already NO

[@jeanneeber]

"I'm sorry I'm such a disappointment"? I apologize? For what? This role doesn't suit me? I'm not apologizing for being totally abused and my life ruined by psychos? NOT! I'm not shaming anyone but I'm not apologizing for anything!! Not my monkey-not my circus!

[@ashwajeshi1558]

This is so me...

[@fifilafleur5555]

Jeanne 54, amen!!!!

[@kcole5177]

💥💥💥💥!!!👋👋😁

[@misstery5942]

THE END... and now the scapegoat has left the building they are free to IMPLODE on EACHOTHER!

[@CradleEpiscopalian56]

They raise emotional crippled childen then wonder what's the matter with them?

[@lemonspring6425]

So true!!

[@Reanna863]

CradleEpiscopalian56 yes 👌🏽❤️

[@janesmith8894]

In my opinion, keep a healthy emotional distance... Don't say anything to anyone. Live a Virtuous life.

[@GreenTurtle181]

You should not be apologising to them or thanking them for a roof over their head. They've destroyed your life!

[@ladybug947]

Lyn H cmon preach it! This is something we need to really get behind the truth we need to be aware when we start to apologize we’re once again taking the responsibility of what really belongs on THEM! Put some anger and strength behind any statement is what the sg needs to do

[@karlataylor1172]

yup

[@kimsullivan]

Don't apologize to them. There is no "sorry but". I've said sorry enough to this person.

[@lorraineharris9906]

💕💕💕Thankyou I cried and cried when I heard this. Thankyou 💕💕💕

[@greeneyes6430]

We have nothing to be sorry for

[@onlythetruth208]

I told my family years ago that I was done being their doormat or owning what they thought of me as my opinion of me anymore anymore. I told them I was not willing to live in their matrix any longer and if they ever decide they are going to treat me as the wonderful person I am, we could talk again. My sibling told me the new cult like family leader was even crazier and more dangerouscthen the previous one and that I needed to be vety careful because that cult leader plans to destroy me. It is difficult to not be freaked out by threats like this but the world is now my oyster. Thank you for this very empowering video. Happy New Year 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@janethomas78]

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR WORDS OF SUPPORT AND UNDERSTANDING!! Immeasurable Gratitude!!

[@williamwarren5269]

they see no need to change, and never will. no contact!

[@tx-sweet-pjg3547]

Healing is not easy

[@francisthecat7855]

This is one of the main problems with society today. The ego/self centeredness has overpowered any sense of community or cooperation. It is literally tearing society apart. People listen to a story and just believe it, not understanding that every story has at least two sides. How does one explain this to a person who has already fallen for one side and won't consider the other. Common sense has left the building. Communication is therefore cut off and no reconcilation can be made. The remedy alludes me.

[@kevinn5976]

Thanks for your excellent post, peace and harmony. I was scapegoated as a child.Blamed for many things I didn't do. An aunt who was living with us at the time recently verified this to me, 'they were horrible to you' and I don't know why, there was nothing wrong with you' She said. When I heard these words they cut deep, but at the same time I was relieved someone had witnessed this treatment. Thank god I went no contact 13 years ago. I am still healing from the wound, but I'm slowly leaving them behind. I release them with love and forgiveness.

[@jeanetteoneil4562]

I love this video and you. You spoke to my soul and to 56 years of suffering. Thank you for showing me how to get liberty and expand my boundaries and my horizon. Thank you so much. I was letting people belittle me and speak down to me. Thank you.

[@angelaelizabeth1754]

This is so sad to me. I've been going thru such a rough time with nowhere to turn except these videos to learn about narcisstic abuse and toxic energy. I confided in my mom for so long then I realized I'm her codependent and in so many ways I'm dealing with this toxic relationship where I'm constantly triangulated between siblings. I have realized in all my life that finally it's not me, it's them! My mother is the culprit and she can't accept any responsibility for any of her shit! I'm ready to go no contact and disassociate entirely but I feel terrible about it. It's like a double edged sword.

[@sk00bydoom33]

Angela Elizabeth did u ever break the contact?

[@valeriegaddy8833]

Plenty.... PEOPLE... Made....The... Mistake...Didn't.. Settle.. For...Lies.

[@goansunborn]

I hear you... Totally going through this right now, realising how I've been treated for years... It's shocking really... I've completely disconnected from my brother and still working on a way to handle this with my mum. So many mixed feelings.

[@elmaleanbrown8738]

Thank you peace and harmony you have been the mother I never had

[@dawnhopkins9178]

Thank you! I have a mother and a daughter both that treat me poorly. I'm good enough when they are in need, be it money, babysitting, someone to pay their fines and tickets when the dog catcher picks up the pets or the cops pull them over.....on and on, then my daughter accuses me of being a narcissist. Both have no concept of empathy, yet play on my heart to get what they want. It doesn't matter how much I do or try to make them happy, I'm damned if I do or don't. Both are physically violent towards me, especially when I say no. I am always searching for an answer as to whether my choice to walk away was the right thing to do. I have let go, walked away.....I finally have said enough, I have a life to live.

[@casse1458]

Dawn Hopkins same here

[@bonniel4325]

Thanks for your guidance. I have been limiting contact with a family member who has targeted me as a doormat. I was my parents' scapegoat and accustomed to being disrespected. It has taken me 20 years to see that my sibling adopted my parents' way of relating to me. Recently I have taken steps to limit contact and they have gone into a tailspin attempting to manipulate me through another sibling. I asked the other sibling to keep themselves out of the middle, however that sibling only wants family unity and mistakenly continues to try to bridge the gap. It culminated in the toxic sibling calling to goad me into a fight, and I stupidly took the bait and told them about a time they hurt my feelings. They became even more enraged of course and accused me of being evil. I ended the conversation and hung up the phone. Now I am waiting for the smear campaign or some other form of revenge to happen. What can I do to get some peace of mind? I realize I really must remain no contact with this person. But I know they are planning to come after me in some other way. Your video speaks to my situation completely. I'm just scared right now.

[@wendallparker8420]

I got rid of my toxic family members. It is so liberating.

[@Getnodrama]

I love you peace and harmony. Your presence and message is so empowering

[@erockfreedom6399]

Thank you, thank you. Your suggestions, writing prompts. I'm filling notebooks and drying up pens for the first time in years (experienced early abuse, where my writing was read, shared, exploited, by a malignant narcissistic mother -- with support of others) 🙏❤

[@rufusingle2328]

I am in awe of your intellect and comitment to be the best you can in life. Please know you have given us abused people so much hope and I pesonally have moved on from the abuse and will never return. A lot of credit is given to you , Thank you so so very much. I will keep listening for inspiration and to find who I really am and where I need to go for the best life I can have.

[@MonicaSancio]

Rufus Ingle Awesome that you are grateful 💜

[@mattscott5671]

I'm in awe. The manner and timing in which I stumbled across this video is..... Crazy. It's almost eerie how precisely accurate your description is of the relationship I've been in for the past 3 years. It's helpful to hear you speak on the matter, but the biggest thing to me at the moment is how truly sad I am that I have to let her go. Despite the agony of it all, I've grown extremely attached to the positive traits. It's soooooooo....emotionally confusing and painful to think what we could be together if only this s**t wasn't involved. Dammit 😔

[@lesliegann2737]

Sometimes the golden child and scapegoat is more subtle like in my case. But I have found out that even though it was subtle, it still follows the same exact dynamics but the downside is it takes longer to see and accept as truth. My mother claimed to love us both equally. The problems in the family weren't dumped on me. Actually, my father was the main scapegoat, even after he died he was blamed for everything haha. But our narc mother systematically undermined me from a young age (very subtly of course lol). When I first started exploring narcissism about 3 years ago I didn't even think to look for these things in my brother. But bit by bit I started to realize it. For example, I'd find myself triggered to some degree about how he was selfish and withheld any validation towards me. And then I thought, if the tables were reversed and I was like him I would never have been allowed to get away with it. I would have been told constantly how selfish I am. In short, my role in the family was to be the listening post doormat = selfless. The core damage message to me was that I am sinisterly flawed in some awful way. I was delegated the social misfit role.

[@regulardude7961]

Thank you for your direct communication. I have watched so many videos where the speaker/therapist dances around the subject and talks in a way that I find extremely annoying. Really appreciate your clear, direct communication.

[@teresahelman1252]

Would have a serious problem apologizing to a family that has treated me like a dog for 56 years. You dont have to explain why your going contact , just sets you up for more abuse. Just walk away that simple and only way to stop it.

[@embody_love_and_light5236]

Yes those words, treated like a dog. My dad actually said those words to me. "You're treated like a dog" then he laughed. I couldn't believe how a father could treat his own daughter like that. Always breaking me down psychologically and by constant verbal abuse. And that to as I lived like a quiet little slave so as not to provoke further wrath. Well I would say he paid a considerable amount of karma by suffering with cancer for 35yrs. I know my torment would have been much much worse if he hadn't been drained by his disease. He tormented me and his inner dis -ease tormented him - of course covert narc mother was behind it all. He didn't want to die, but someone had to, it was me or him.

[@ladybug947]

Yea agreed some really good advice here but the part about apologizing is a bad idea for a sg to apologize? that is what the sg needs to not to is carry the responsibility that belongs on the narc parent and or other family member

[@uncleclaw171]

This is a very poignant topic. Thanks for posting and sharing. I basically did this, re-asserted boundaries, threw my NF's projection back into his face, disavowed all his negative attitudes towards me as false and fabricated, pointed out his lies, invalidated his "greater-than/lesser-than" narrative, re-asserted my accomplishments that he denies or ascribes to others, etc.... the cowardly narc had no response other than word salad nonsense, more of the same abuse, and I was swiftly discarded. Toodle-oo, Toxie. So, I would add, be prepared for that.

[@phoenixd9679]

2019 I just find you're channel 💜 I subscribed ! Thank you for speaking to my now escaping from years of narcissistic abuse .

[@cosmicnous7772]

Facts beautiful

[@ilovelearning7463]

Lord have mercy. You know you telling the truth. I really needed this right now.🎯❤😇⚘

[@lawrencemckeon6802]

The scape-Phoenix rises! Giving thanks daily.

[@ellenvictoria6589]

Thank you for your excellent video. I like the fact that you come from a place of gratitude and forgiveness. Thank you!

[@rizwanqamar1974]

I need this. Thank you!

[@tonytackett3843]

I have LEGAL problems and liabilities attached to the scapegoating. I pray the evidence exposes them. Until then " I miss the family that have bean deceived " . And pray for the others.

[@highplainsdrifter699]

The scapegoat is the spiritual canary in the midst of the Narcopaths dark evil coalmine.

[@brendadrew834]

Great talk! Thank you! I've had to do this with a number of toxic dysfunctional malignant NARC., Dr. Jekyll/Mr Hyde Sociopaths/psychopaths....my whole family of origin and late father who disowned and disinherited me, my late husband after 42 years just before he dropped dead of a heart attack also due to Diabetes Type 2. I went NO CONTACT with my family over 30 years ago and have never regretted it and should have done it with my late toxic emotionally abusive husband but I was co-dependent! My life has mirrored the new movie out " The Wife" with the incomparable Glenn Close in many ways including the heart attack ending and other people erroneously thinking we had a great marriage, only from the outside! Like Julian Fellows who wrote the great Downton Abbey series and what Lady Violet said, "No family is on the outside what it is on the inside" to paraphrase him! So true, ditto for a marriage! Life reflects art, art reflects life! I created a mantra regarding this many years ago to disempower toxic dysfunctional malignant Narcs etc. " You can be as miserable as you want in life, it's not going to be at my expense and I am NOT going to be a willing participant to your abuse anymore"!! "Misery loves company" and "love IS blind" ...no truer words were ever spoken and yes, " Time DOES heal all wounds" if you allow yourself to heal!

[@fifilafleur5555]

Elvis is leaving the building! 😆😆😆 Love it!

[@joanbontje9728]

I put a 5 page letter to resign from the narcs and And addressed all abuse. I sent it to everyone in the family. This resignation has been bringing me a huge release and healing. Its what you said loyality For self

[@peaceandharmony3137]

I am so glad you are finally standing up for yourself. I am so glad you are raising your boundaries and standards. You never, ever need to accept, or tolerate abuse especially from family. I am so glad you got all that true toxicity off your chest and out of your heart, get it out of your life. I am so glad to hear. Embrace, and hold onto and loudly validate your truth. You deserve, peace, harmony and loyalty. Respect. Especially to yourself and then, others. Peace and Harmony

[@josephosullivan9506]

That was fantastic! Personally, I would not say sorry or apologize, because that has been programmed into scapegoats all our lives. They make us apologize for simply being alive. I have had to learn how to stop saying sorry for everything and only say sorry when I actually have done something wrong.

[@whiterock2670]

I love this video. It really says everything that I have been through that I didn't know how to put in words. So freeing to let them go, And focus on my own responsibility to myself.

[@LisaS1]

I think my silence to them, at them, will speak for itself. The thing is I don't even know if they realize how terrible they've treated me. My siblings that is. And it's sad since we all all getting older and we could of been there for each other. But I'm not going to take, or accept, being scapegoated anymore. And the thought of never seeing any of them again saddens me but they've not made it known to me that they really care about seeing me.

[@chasstiles7611]

I walked away permanently 13 years ago. Your doing the right thing to walk away. Don't make the mistake I made doing for a year or 2 thinking your teaching them a lesson because they never learn, they'll try to get you to come back only to pickup where they left off with the abuse.

[@LisaS1]

@@chasstiles7611 Hi Chas! Thank you for your supportive comment. I'm sorry, I just now noticed it and so I'm just now replying. My siblings and connected have been on my mind allot lately; I just don't know why I think about them so much and I feel so much guilt for not having seen them for years. But if they cared about seeing me then why don't they let me know?

[@chasstiles7611]

@@LisaS1 the holidays are hardest time, don't feel guilty about it. It's not your fault, I warned my siblings about them selves and they acted like there was nothing I could do, I had to show them there was 1 thing they had no control over and went no contact. God bless

[@LisaS1]

@@chasstiles7611 Hi Chas, Thank you for your helpful, supportive comments. Yeah, you're right about the holidays being hard due to dysfunctional family troubles. One of my older brothers had hip surgery not long ago and I didn't even get around to messaging him via facebook, not that I've been in much contact with hi m anyhow. I'm sorry you had to go no contact; I've just about gotten, or been, to that point myself.

[@michellematthews5875]

Peace & harmony you are such an amazing speaker on this topic!!!❤️

[@janetcanedo302]

I actually feel better after watching your videos unlike many other coaching videos on these subjects, you have this nailed, keep going ! :D ty so much

[@margaretgordy3760]

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[@MaineGalVal]

This is exactly what my husband and I have had to do with his family...although the disconnect is not 100% at this time, it is certainly getting there.

[@Quinefan]

Me From Maine Boundaries. Good luck with it.

[@LisaS1]

I think a person should always be willing to work things out if that is at all possible but with certain types of people I suppose it isn't possible.

[@whiteshadow59]

Why do i feel sorry for them as if they can't help it and that means I find it hard to justify my actions. I'm very new to this realisation of having a narcissist in my life

[@zorajay7116]

The main reason I'm putting distance between my toxic dysfunctional narcissistic family. I've been the family ( both paternal and maternal) Toooooo long. No matter what I did from childhood was NEVER good enough. Enough is enough. I've been in therapy too long and I change but they don't. No more. Leaving the state without regrets. I'm not angry with my family I just have to let them go and live my OWN life without shame. Hopefully when I leave they will get it and find a group discount for family therapy. It could happen😒

[@mariamakinen2651]

I really felt chaotic at home.

[@barbaralytle2707]

I found this at a perfect time in my life. Thank you!!

[@CradleEpiscopalian56]

Barbara Lytle I was hanging on to a very thin thread when I found this. God sent me here.

[@alexandriascott4656]

So true. What my parents do to me! It’s so sad

[@greta9558]

THIS IS BRILLIANT THANK YOU

[@sueb6885]

The weak based system sounds like my family of origin. It doesn't work for me either.

[@MisterGoofy]

This is very helpful, thank you very much !

[@divinadivina2017]

is it about you? No, it's not.It's all about them

[@jmannz1]

Thanks so much for this P & H! I needed to hear this. Being the scapegoat in my narc family, this video resonates with me in so many ways. BTW, would really love it if you could please do more videos that cover narc abuse and narcissism in families in general.

[@peaceandharmony3137]

Jodi Hansen, thank you for your inquiry and appreciate your candid sharing. I would be happy to develop content that speaks to this topic, please stay tuned! :)) Peace and Harmony

[@joanneswartzberg8851]

Thank you.

[@mimiboucher5096]

said his words of abuse meant nothing..I'm too sensitive..then said sorry but i said your words mean nothing...I'm was accused of so much unmerited blame! I wanted to defend myself! i could tell he was projecting bit it grabs one emotionally

[@petuniafarr1560]

love the thats all folkes love your knoledge happiness joy your a great human being love elvis has left the building.

[@jengable4888]

You can try & leave ! Good luck ! I have tried to leave many times & forced to come back for more torture ! This time....I will have to take legal action !

[@mallory5872]

You're right. I need to move.

[@misstery5942]

I left a txt for my mother but it was abusive I couldn't help it... my famiky have been told they are NOT welcome to my funeral and I will have instant cremation to stop them in their tracks I feel that strongly I feel I have lost my life and heart for 41 yrs and they are not using my death to take the stage again for attention

[@DOTMH_1]

I told my sisters the same thing. I'm planning my own funeral so they don't do weird stuff to my body.

[@misstery5942]

I'm considering direct cremation. I didn't want to be cremated but if it is the only way I can have any dignity I will do it. And I do t want them putting guilt trips in my partner and daughter. They ruined my life but they are not controlling my death or using that to get in their soapbox

[@lindamaemullins3086]

I am going to put a stop to it cause I have hardened my heart dried my tears, and if necessary will yank their lying tongues out of their mouths and use it to choke the life out of the evil weak bastards. Love and peace

[@Isochest]

I decided to walk away but not before taking the total piss out of my father. They can give it but they sure can't take it back. The King of Smell didn't take it well. He "cut his wrists" so my brother bollocked him (told him off) for not doing a proper job😊

[@esthermartin-spears6557]

Isochest lmao, you meanie 😆

[@saraoconnor1711]

Have you read Rene Girard 'The Scapegoat' also 'things hidden since the foundation of the world'?

[@JN81224]

Hating the x. Learning from the x too. Ugh. Seeking balance

[@leothelion2096]

Awesome. Thanks so much.

[@bradmcewen]

Perfect sentiments to end a recycle. If you allow it, expect it. Yep...ck,d off the box that they don't not change. two months with enough seen beats two years being a duped by seasoned sociopath. They even forget that they were the ones that provided the narcissism education.

[@louisegorman6570]

Thank you ❤

[@LisaS1]

Sorry to comment so much but why do I think about them so much and why can't I just forget them? (my siblings and connected) Why do I sit here crying over them?

[@firehorse9996]

Because you want a normal loving family. You see what other people have and wonder why you don't. It's all right. Prepare to be lonely for awhile. This process is very painful. Sad and depressed, next comes the RAGE! Be ready for it. Write a letter and send a donation to Ollie Matthews/The Narcissistic Resistance to read on his channel. My story got nearly 100 comments, all much nicer than anything my mother ever said to me. Very healing.

[@igordemy]

My position in the relation with my brother and father, perhaps with my sister is bassed on the jelousy! Is this one of the reasons for psychopaths to feel and do what they do?

[@esthermartin-spears6557]

Igor Demydczuk yes!

[@frostedcornflakes6399]

I used to scape goat my little sister and I wish I never did that to her. She will forever be changed bc of me. That is my own fault. How can I get her to heal?? I'm scared to apologise and bring it up.

[@wannabe8487]

Leave her alone... You are bad news.

[@antonvi1763]

Thanks!!

[@MandeepSingh-fg1jq]

love you mum

[@DrAmal1976]

What if it's in your own family? Should I walk away from the family? It's impossible to go no contact without walking away from the family

[@Quinefan]

Hope Set boundaries, and see what they do.

[@CradleEpiscopalian56]

If you really needed to you wouldn't ask.

[@EveningTV]

If you are no contact with these people are you suggesting that an actual statement needs to be made or is this a figurative statement or a statement you make to yourself. This statement about not carrying the blame, shame anymore. Who or how is this declaration to be made? It sounds like you are talking about relationships that are not yet at the no contact phase. I just want to say that saying this and going no contact in no way ends the scapegoating.

[@esthermartin-spears6557]

Evening Ransom totally agree! Get rid of them and float like the butterfly you are. Toxic people don't deserve explanations!

[@Loribyn]

Indeed it doesn't! My advice would be to make it only with yourself, to yourself, and for yourself alone ~ because a declaration (of any kind) won't make any difference at all to a real toxic narcissist borderline/psychopath (indeed, doing so will only give them an ever greater sense of power over you -- literally increase their narcissistic supply; and - I guarantee! - will just be used against you at a later date). You can tell them you demand they respect your boundaries until you are blue in the face -- and they still never will. One can declare one's intention to never again cop their abuse, and that won't make any difference either. No contact is the only way. And fuck thanking them in parting! If everyone else's toxic family is anything like mine, we've EARNED anything we might ever have got from them and then some (and it was probably little or nothing anyway). I equally disagree with her suggestion to apologise -- again, we have nothing for which to apologise. What we do need to do on that, is recognise that we will never get the apologies that are owed _to us_ -- so the only way forward to cease even needing one.

[@JN81224]

Hating her. Learning from her too. Ugh

[@whiteshadow59]

Do you declare 100% done to them or just yourself and your boundaries you put up?

[@peaceandharmony3137]

Yourself. Be Gone. Peace and Harmony

[@kevinturner3400]

Great video

[@mariamakinen2651]

Thanx.peace n harmony.toxic scapegoat ing

[@mariamakinen2651]

Yes. I wish my own life. Not his role. I wish no contact. Would it help to write the letter? No door matt. This may be continued by Emm,s pa

[@anitavirginillo]

Oooh, that background...what is up with that?

[@mariamakinen2651]

With out genitalia a person has no willpower.Sex gender definition of us has to to include unharmed genital perfection. The role play can best be seen from nature. I wish my genitalia operated back. My self-esteem the way I am is low. I lack the most significant feminine qualities that give me say. I wish no male humiliation. I am too aware of the loss.difficult to interact as I am.i wish operated n home to peace n harmony. I am the scapegoat

[@mariamakinen2651]

How do I stop the scapegoating

[@wannabe8487]

No contact

[@mariamakinen2651]

Maybe this has got to do with the immobility added. It's not mental. I can get things done but I would like to get far. I got the point. I need strength to go far.n the operative tubal reversal. Thanking you

[@mariamakinen2651]

It's hard to feel male.. We were mums dolls i need say on the tubal reversal surgery and more if needed. I will expose the narc abuser. This is a huge hoax. My self esteem doesn't belong with bad ppl.

[@goodintentionslifecoaching]

Thank you!

[@kerripotkonen4300]

Great video