Q+A | Love, Conflict, Finances, Date Nights + MORE KIDS?! | Part 2

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Join Josh and I today as we answer some questions about our marriage and relationship.
WORDS I PRAYED OVER JOSHUA:
Able- Philippians 4:13
Adequate-2 Corinthians 3:5
Adopted-Ephesians 1:5
Alive-Ephesians 2:4-5
Anointed-1 John 2:20
Apple of His eye - Zechariah 2:8
Appointed by God-John 15:16
Aroma of Christ- 2 Corinthians 2:15
Belong- John 17:9
Betrothed- Hosea 2:19-20
Blameless- 1 Corinthians 1:8
Blessed-Ephesians 1:3
Bold- Proverbs 28:1
His Bride-Isaiah 54:5
His Brother- Hebrews 2:11
Called- 1 Peter 5:10
Calm -Philippians 4:6
Cared for- 1 Peter 5:7
Changed- 1 Samuel 10:6
Child of God - John 1:12
Cherished- Ephesians 5:29
Chosen-1 Peter 2:9
Clean- Ezekiel 36:25, John 15:3
Complete in Christ- Colossians 2:10
Confident- 1 John 4:17
Conqueror- Romans 8:37
Content- Philippians 4:11
Courageous- 1 Chronicles 28:20
Created in His image -Genesis 1:27
Delivered- Psalm 107:6
Delightful- Psalm 149:4
Desired- Psalm 45:11
Determined- Philippians 4:13
Disciple- John 8:31-32
Disciplined- Hebrews 12:5-11
Empowered-Philippians 2:13
Encouraged- 2 Thessalonians 2:16-17
Enlightened- Ephesians 1:18
Enriched- 1 Corinthians 1:5
Equipped- 2 Timothy 3:16-17
Exalted at His right hand- Acts 2:34-35
Faithful- Revelation 17:14
Favored- Job 10:12
Forgiven- Ephesians 1:7
Free- John 8:36
Gifted- Romans 12:6
Glorified with Him- 2 Thessalonians 2:14
God’s Child- John 1:12
God’s gift to Christ- John 17:24
Gracious- Proverbs 22:11
Guiltless- Romans 8:1
Healed- 1 Peter 2:24
Healthy- Deuteronomy 7:15
An Heir- Titus 3:4-7
Helped by Him - Isaiah 44:2
Hidden with Christ in God- Colossians 3:1-4
His- Isaiah 43:1
Holy- Ephesians 1:4
Honored- 2 Timothy 2:21
Humble- Philippians 2:24
Included- Ephesians 1:13
Indestructible- John 6:51
Instrument of righteousness- Romans 6:13
A joy of the Lord - Zechariah 3:17
Justified- Acts 13:39
Kept- Isaiah 38:17
Known- 2 Timothy 2:19
Lavished with riches of His grace- Ephesians 1:7-8
Liberated- Romans 6:23
Light- Acts 13:47
Loved- John 3:16
Loyal-Psalm 86:2
Minister- 2 Corinthians 3:6
Mountain Mover- Mark 11:22-23
Named- Isaiah 43:1
Near to God- Ephesians 2:13
New- Ephesians 4:24
Not ashamed- 2 Timothy 1:12
Obedient- Isaiah 1:19
Over comer- 1 John 5:4-5
Pardoned- Jeremiah 33:8
Peace- Philippians 4:7
Pleasing to God- Psalm 149:4
God’s own possession- Titus 2:14
Powerful - Acts 1:8
Prosperous- Psalm 1:3
Protected- Psalm 91:14
Provided for- Matthew 6:33
Qualified - Colossians 1:12
Ransomed- Isaiah 35:10
Rare- Proverbs 20:15
Reconciled- Romans 5:10
Redeemed Galatians 3:13
Refined - Isaiah 48:10
Renewed - 2 Corinthians 4:16
Rescued- Colossians 1:13
Rich - 2 Corinthians 8:9
Righteous- Ephesians 4:22
Royal- 1 Peter 2:9
Safe- Psalm 4:8
A Saint- Psalm 34:9
Sanctified- 1 Corinthians 6:11
Satisfied- Jeremiah 31:14
Saved- Ephesians 2:8
Secure- Deuteronomy 33:12
Sheltered- Psalm 91:1
His Soldier- 2 Timothy 2:3-4
Son of God- Romans 8:14
Stable- Isaiah 33:6
Strong- 1 Corinthians 1:8
Transformed-2 Corinthians 3:18
Treasured- Psalm 83:3
Triumphant- 2 Corinthians 2:14
Unafraid- Isaiah 44:2; 51:12
Understood-Ephesians 1:8
Upheld-Psalm 37:17
Upright- Psalm 7:10
Unblemished- Colossians 1:22
Useful for His glory- Isaiah 43:7
Valuable- Luke 12:24
Victorious- 1 Corinthians 15:57
Warrior- 2 Corinthians 10:4
Washed-Titus 3:5
Welcome- Luke 11:9
Whole- Mark 5:34
Wise- Proverbs 2:6
Worthy- Revelation 3:4

[@katherinejackman4190]

Kristen, I think you and Josh hit on some of the best points for a successful marriage: viewing yourselves as a team, having a shared sense of humor, and extending grace to each other. This episode will help people for sure. Best Wishes from a plant selling free spirit and her engineer husband who have been married for 47 years ❤

[@christined2495]

I see Rosie’s sparkle in her eyes come from Josh, her laugh too I am married to my husband 51 years, I was 15 when we met, and has been my only Love, like every married couple we have had a few ups and downs, but that being said one needs to forgive, have great communication and love the other person more then you love yourself, and laughter is everything…. I have never been high maintenance, a walk after dinner is a date as far as I’m concerned , I am just happy to be with my husband , it doesn’t have to be anything fancy Loved these two videos, thank you for being so open xo

[@lakelady7793]

Thank you so much for sharing this. It helps to validate what I still am going through six years after my husband’s affair. At they time of the affair we had been married for 21 yrs…(childhood sweethearts) there are still times that I feel like I’m losing my mind because I get triggered, so being able to relate to somebody else on this level helps me so much. God bless you both ❤

[@patriciaraschdorf5514]

SOMETHING BOTH OF YOU HAVE DISCOVERED THE KEY TO A HAPPY LONG MARRIAGE BE HONEST AND UPFRONT WITH EACH OTHER AND ALWAYS LAUGH WHEN MY MAN AND I GET INTO IT I ALWAYS SAY I LOVE YOU HONEY AND THAT ENDS THE ARGUMENT IN A FLASH AND ONTO BETTER MORE EXCITING THINGS

[@Ms19741979]

My husband and I still talk on the phone at least 5-6 times a day. And we've been married for almost 23 years!!

[@maryswift6014]

You can see the amazing love you two have for each other. You can hear it in your honesty. You two smile at each other as if to say what we have is truly forever. ♥️

[@preservid]

My Husband and I are celebrating 44 years of marriage, 3 children. What we did thru the lean times was carve out Saturday nights as Date nights, but we couldn't afford a babysitter, etc. We rented a movie (Hey it was VHS rental era LOL) and husband brought home whatever we could afford for take out. The kids all knew that this was Mom and Dad time. We set them up with the second tv we had. Fast forward kids are all grown with families of their own and Hubby and I STILL use Saturday night as at home Movie night. PLUS the kids all remember this tradition!

[@KristenHoffman]

Love this!

[@Cass6]

You had the exact words I had been searching for while now about the things you did prior is still traumatizing to me. Takes God and time to get over those traumas, and to trust that there a new person, and those actions won’t be repeated. Something I’ve had to not hold against my husband. ❤

[@KristenHoffman]

It is definitely a process!

[@nancyschaffer7568]

I love the honesty in your marriage. For such a young couple that is the key to success. Also I love the fact that you’re both Christians and you love God. You have a beautiful family and I pray that all your dreams come true. Love Nancy Nana!

[@musicdiva9365]

You guys are an amazing couple! Buddy and his “interruptions” were hysterical!!!😂

[@vickiewinfrey2439]

Just loved this.

[@vickiray1346]

Love love love this and yall!

[@unicemarquez9850]

Love the conversation. Beautiful

[@robinalexander8429]

your q and a was so sweet. My husband and I have been married 43 years March 15 and we dated 3 years before that, I was 15 and he was 18 when we met,,,, We are also "imperfect" Christians, and not gonna lie, it has been some "really hard seasons". My husband also was a "secret keeper" and that has been the most difficult aspect for me in marriage,,,,, Bit we are committed to making it work and our love grows each year,,,, love hearing your open hearts and honest answers. Josh is a sweetheart

[@jenfandrey1528]

Thank you both again for sharing❤️. Oh…and the dog farts were epic🤣

[@kathryntrapman3917]

Many Blessings to you both and to your family..

[@KRC-es1xi]

Beautiful video ❤

[@barbb.7028]

I loved that you added some wedding pictures to the end of this video.Beautiful!! Once again, I appreciate your honesty. I remember how tight our finances were for many years in our marriage. It forced us to be creative and appreciate what household items God blessed us with even if they weren't new.

[@rhondahall782]

I love how honest you are with each other. 😊

[@CB-pf7go]

This was super heartwarming to watch, yes even the dogs digestive issues, I, mean it doesn’t get any more real than answering some pretty personal questions and hearing the family pets input in the background.❤️

[@rachellebrooke4614]

Thanks for sharing! Praise God for His testament in your marriage.

[@mattiewilliams1138]

ADORABLE PICTURES!!!!!!!!!!!! GOD Bless!!!!

[@curban616]

Your honesty and love are so evident in your faces and glances at each other. I love your channel!

[@sharikosobuski7580]

Loved this video!

[@KristenHoffman]

Thank you!!

[@cindyhancock5261]

Awww, loved this! And we refer to being on each others team, as well!!!! May God continue to bless your marriage!! #45 years strong

[@deborafranklin7469]

Hu Kristen. Great Q and A. I enjoy getting to know you both better. Thank you for sharing😊

[@KristenHoffman]

Thanks for watching!

[@TheChosen761]

So beautiful 💞 Thank you so much It’s good to hear other couples speak

[@KristenHoffman]

Our pleasure!

[@teresaortiz9902]

I can totally relate to all you mention in this video. Many blessing to you, Josh and your girls. 💗

[@KristenHoffman]

Thank you so much!

[@lauraanderson2199]

I love your channel and your authentic style. Thank you!

[@KristenHoffman]

Thank you so much!

[@janinewoodbridge3814]

How wonderful to be real Janine 🇬🇧

[@mola.s]

Thank you for sharing!

[@KristenHoffman]

Of course!

[@cathyhare5058]

Love you both! What a nice couple❤

[@KristenHoffman]

Thank you!! 😊

[@sondrasix1668]

Incredible you two. Beautiful testimony. This will help many 💚💚💚💚💚💚

[@KristenHoffman]

I hope so!

[@brendabrooks9699]

Time has literally made you two more beautiful people inside and out ❤ I love the way Josh looks at you❤

[@dianeforsman2179]

Thank you both for your transparency! You are such a blessing to do many!

[@KristenHoffman]

Thank you so much!

[@emilyhammer4192]

Thank you for both of these videos! I love that reminder...my hubby and I, really are on the same team ❤ thank you for sharing the prayer over your husband too (in the last video). I need to do that more!

[@KristenHoffman]

You are so welcome!

[@marthamatteson5280]

Y’all’s honesty amazes me. That’s what got you through such painful times. Your love is palpable and a joy to see. Thank you for making these videos. Love ‘em!

[@debbyyoung9454]

I love this! God is always first.

[@KristenHoffman]

Yes! Thank you!

[@k.crosbie261]

Your honesty and openness is truly a blessing. Thank you for sharing.

[@KristenHoffman]

I appreciate that

[@OurLittleGreenHouse]

Loving your channel! Your relationship and the way you interact with each other is so refreshing and encouraging.❤️ More videos of you and Josh, please!

[@KristenHoffman]

Thank you so much!!

[@patriciaskitch2341]

Thanks guys. Loved part two. You are the best.

[@KristenHoffman]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@lisawitte8038]

Kristen and Josh, thank you for sharing your experiences and being vulnerable with your story. You are an both inspirational.

[@KristenHoffman]

Our pleasure!

[@tessab.2065]

Great Q&A! Love the wedding photos. Buddy......🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@KristenHoffman]

Glad you enjoyed

[@veronicaclark3180]

So sweet of y’all to be so open and honest! May God Bless your marriage as you continue life’s journey together with your girls and sweet pup.

[@KristenHoffman]

Thank you so much!!

[@justasmalltowngirl_lynne5089]

I’m just catching up on all your videos ‼️‼️ TY God for guiding this special wonderful couple in finding Your Truth & Love for not only You…but for each other‼️‼️❤️🙏🏻

[@ptorres8886]

I loved your sharing. I love the hope that you give for those struggling, that there can be joy even in the tough times. And, I really love that God has kept you together. ❤️

[@KristenHoffman]

Thank you so much!

[@shannonjones8165]

Thank you both for sharing, so sweet. I pray for many, many wonderful years together...and more babies too!! 💕💕

[@KristenHoffman]

Thank you so much!

[@kbj3504]

What a lovely couple. May the Lord continue to bless your family.

[@KristenHoffman]

Thank you so much!

[@trumancollie9]

You two are funny together...thanks for sharing your struggles and victories.

[@KristenHoffman]

Thanks for watching!

[@stephaniecripe9745]

Kristen, you and Josh are so cute. Looks like you have a great relationship. Keep God first in your marriage. I'm with you, Kristen, camping all the way!! Love your channel ❤️

[@KristenHoffman]

Thank you so much!!

[@snowcm135]

Wow. I gleaned so much knowledge from these two videos. Thank you for sharing your personal struggles so we can all benefit from what you've been through.

[@KristenHoffman]

Glad it was helpful!

[@lori8058]

Kristen…this was so great. I am definitely going to use the phrase “we are on the same team…I am on your team”. I’m 60, but not too old to try new things/improve. Thank you!❤

[@KristenHoffman]

Love that!

[@monalingan9523]

Thank you so much for doing this part two. Work hard to keep these positive behavior habits in your marriage. God bless you both.

[@KristenHoffman]

Thank you so much!

[@CarolSmall-dy6mi]

Beautiful wedding pictures and I love the connection you both have.

[@KristenHoffman]

Thanks for watching

[@lorizielinski227]

You all are such a sweet couple and so knowledgeable of how to listen and how to listen to hear instead of listening to respond ♥️♥️

[@KristenHoffman]

Thank you so much!

[@tammywilkey5588]

I absolutely adore both of you!!! ❤️❤️ Your smiles are contagious and laughter is so good for the soul! Your girls are just as beautiful as both of you! God is so good and greatly to be praised! Much love and prayers as both of you continue to journey this thing called life. So excited for your family to continue to grow! Can’t wait for more little kiddos, God always gives us our blessings and prayers! Love y’all! 😘

[@KristenHoffman]

Thank you so much!!

[@monika.mitchell]

I love this video and the vulnerability you both shared!! On a side note…THE FARTS 😂😂😂

[@leahfranks3277]

Blessed to have an amazing couple like y’all to look up to. David and I love you guys so much 🫶

[@KristenHoffman]

We love you too!

[@ajacob509]

Would love to see wedding pictures especially a wedding video, do that for you next wedding anniversary!

[@judybryant3880]

That's a very good idea. Kristen's hair was gorgeous and the flowers cascading down, just beautiful. Josh also looked very cute in his suit.

[@betsyopdyke6120]

Being a team and each other's best friend is key! Your wedding photo's are spectacular...the love in both of your eyes is so obvious...and still there.😍

[@KristenHoffman]

Yes! Thank you!

[@glorianelson9538]

What a beautiful video Kristen and Josh. What you are describing is exactly the way marriage is: Ups and downs and a lot of turns. But you got the most important and that is being on the same team and always supporting each other. On a different issue, I think Josh would enjoy "glamping", that's camping but w/o the inconvenience and the mosquitoes! Thank you for sharing your journey with us. Blessings.

[@KristenHoffman]

Yes! Thank you!

[@sharonsomers5513]

You guys are so cute together. I am so glad you got through the hard times with Joshs addiction. You both seem like beautiful people inside and out.

[@KristenHoffman]

Thank you so much!!

[@jojo-tl5ei]

Yes to your spouse being your best friend, loved that!

[@KristenHoffman]

Yes!!

[@MartinlovesFrances]

Just saw Rosie in Josh or vice versa, so cute, on today's video. Y'all are great for each other and have so much fun and have great conversations. Josh says such sweet things about you. Thanks for sharing!

[@KristenHoffman]

Thanks so much!!

[@conniemalone8939]

I Enjoyed all the Wedding pictures! Loved this Video

[@KristenHoffman]

Thanks so much 😊

[@conniemalone8939]

@@KristenHoffman Your Welcome!

[@judybryant3880]

Enjoyed the wedding pictures at the end. You two looked so happy and do now. Kristen, your hair was beautiful long as it was then. I do like it the way you have it now too.

[@KristenHoffman]

Thank you so much!!

[@tonjaduncan0315]

I love this video and part one. I just now came across it and watched them. I’m married to a talker too. 😂

[@pattysippel1246]

Praise God for our ultimate healer.! Jesus is so powerful!

[@donnamcknight3175]

Adorable! God Bless!

[@KristenHoffman]

Thank you! You too!

[@dianakloster5690]

Kudos for honesty. This is so much heartfelt conversation. And the farting dog is hilarious!

[@cindymarie2475]

I really enjoyed your being transparent about your life together. You really help other young couples going through challenging times in their marriages. You are both sweet and just keep growing together through time❤

[@KristenHoffman]

I'm so glad!

[@joseemathieu2617]

I am amaze about the two of you how the love you have to each other is true and how faith is important in our life to help us in a marriage .you are so funny and simple you made a great couple love you both

[@KristenHoffman]

I agree! Haha.

[@healthwithshalyssa]

Thank you so much for being so open you guys 🖤 This hits so close to home with 20 years together of my husbands issues and hiding things we are continually working through… and yes there are definitely trama triggers that us spouses have to work through to get some peace of mind. It’s a continuous road that’s for sure. Bless you guys ❤

[@KristenHoffman]

It's such a process!

[@cathyhare5058]

Beautiful pictures❤❤

[@KristenHoffman]

Thanks for visiting

[@bettymcintyre8048]

We married 63 years ago. He taught school. We were very poor but I loved thrifting, making things. We had two daughters that I sewed their clothes, window treatments and coverlets. Through the years my husband became a banker and 38 years ago a minister. Years of thrifting was such good training! Now I don’t need to but I still am careful with our resources. God continue to bless you and your family!❤️

[@lisamarielund6292]

Loved this! You were a beautiful bride and you are even more beautiful today…if that’s even humanly possible. ❤

[@sarabrunsvold2461]

Beautiful video and beautiful couple.

[@KristenHoffman]

Thank you so much!

[@morganramos1609]

Praise the Lord Jesus Christ. You are definitely blessed💕 May God continue to bless your marriage!

[@KristenHoffman]

Thank you so much!

[@debrademedici864]

I so enjoyed this video … it’s so nice to see happy people.. but the dog 😂😂😂😂

[@KristenHoffman]

Ya can’t have the good times without the hard times!

[@sherrykahn2474]

Hi Kristen.I admire your personality and honesty.I love your being so down to earth and your decor as well!You two seem so sweet and in love!!! Have a great week!!😁🌼🦋🌷🦋🐞🦋🐌🦋🐛🦋🐇🦋🐰🦋🐑🦋🐣

[@KristenHoffman]

Thank you so much!!

[@lesliemckinley9615]

Thanks for a continued Q&A. Loving to talk to each other is so key to a good marriage. I married a talker too.😊

[@kathleenjamieson7550]

I’m with you Josh! I love camping, hiking and fishing, but I don’t want to sleep on the ground! Been there done that! I want some comfort! Love this show! Would love to see more Q&A!

[@KristenHoffman]

Right on!

[@catrice7126]

Me either

[@nancymosley708]

Thank you for sharing. You guys are so cute. Love the advice you give. I’ve never heard of the diamond art you shared. That’s really cool. Your dog cracked me up. Our 2 dogs don’t do that hardly ever but we do feed them fairly expensive dog food. I’m unsure if that helps or not. Thanks again for being real.

[@KristenHoffman]

Thank you so much!

[@mishalea]

Thoroughly enjoyed the talk and pics. But the dog stole the show, lol! God bless and keep y'all!

[@KristenHoffman]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@joycemoody9246]

So cute!

[@cathyhare5058]

Sooo cute!!

[@unicemarquez9850]

I always have the same saying, it's not what you say, it's how you say it

[@crazydoxylady7169]

I'm with Josh....lol. No mosquito filled ravines for me either. Those nasty bugs love me!

[@Linda-mv8oz]

Thanks!

[@KristenHoffman]

Wow, Linda! Thank you so much for your generous gift!!

[@Jane-dg3rr]

You are the most beautiful couple . Love all your videos 🇬🇧🇺🇸🌸🌸

[@KristenHoffman]

Thank you so much!!

[@user-ml9go8vl1n]

What a beautiful wedding

[@lindasmith5190]

Beautiful wedding pictures.

[@KristenHoffman]

Thanks so much

[@brenyule]

I so respect you two. Glad you’ve worked through your issues with grace. Your family is precious. Looking forward to more. Poor doggy…try a raw food diet. ✌🏼❣️🙋🏻‍♀️

[@cindyjames4201]

Buddy was the best part of this video! hahaha!!

[@pman2916]

I can relate to past trauma when spouse betrays. Im so glad Josh is in a place where he see's it for what it is and can understand the pain instead of pushing it away. Thank you for this raw insight🙏 I'm not on instagram, as I'm sure many viewers aren't. May I suggest us YT viewers can ask questions for your next Q&A?

[@KristenHoffman]

Good idea! I’m not sure how to do that, but I can look into it!

[@pman2916]

@@KristenHoffman Other channels make mention of it in a video.. I don't mind it either way, it's great to watch anything you post. Thank you for replying🙏

[@carlabrignac9991]

“Mosquito filled ravine, humid, bit up” lol!!! You just describe where I live. 😂 😅 Louisiana🙋🏻‍♀️

[@KristenHoffman]

Josh loves Louisiana!

[@lizanorton2975]

Great video! Last year my dear husband lost his sister and father six months apart, leaving his mother all alone. It has truly been one of the most difficult times of our 11 year marriage, but through giving each other grace and understanding we have come through on the other side. We now have an even deeper love for one another.

[@KristenHoffman]

I love hearing stories like this. I’m so sorry for your loss.

[@catrice7126]

This is about the dog He may have gas because he has too many fillers like grain in his dog food IF he poops out all he eats he is not absorbing it We use dog food that has some grain and protein. DOGS don't need a protein only dog food we get our dog Food at a feed seed farm store Dog food is expensive and a dog food that isnt full of fillers is more costly but it is worth it because when they absorb more of their food and don't poop it all out It is alot easier to keep yard clean

[@unicemarquez9850]

Too funny, that Dog

[@jgg7377]

You all are so cute and have a beautiful family, I really enjoyed your part 1-2 . Hope you continue this. I would like to hear more about your beginning years and what Josh did and what you did? I am still a little confused and remember you saying you had to carry the family for a couple of years. What exactly was the addition? Sorry if you said before) Loved watching the pictures at the end, you are a beautiful couple. P.s. Kristen , how could you cut that gorgeous hairstyle? Lol Also, thank you for not editing out buddy toot toots! Haha lmao 😂

[@KristenHoffman]

I was a graphic designer and art director for a long time. Josh worked all kinds of jobs!

[@jgg7377]

What was his addiction?