r/EntitledParents + r/Relationships - Disgusting Entitled Father DOES WHAT?

[@darincampbell5440]

I just have to say something about the so called father who accused his daughters of clogging the toilet. The writer called him entitled, but abuse is what it was. There is never any excuse to abuse a child. While he never physically laid a hand on them he withheld food and verbally and mentally abused them. And it wouldn't be a stretch to say he was a pervert for wanting their panties.

[@Dohyden2]

precisely, I think that maybe because he and his wife are separated he was coming up with some hairbrained scheme to have the ex-wife pay for a new toilet. Obviously the correct way to have that conversation would be to say "Hey, I found some underwear in the toilet. It doesn't matter who it is, and no one is in trouble, but that's not where we put soiled underwear" But I assume there was no underwear in the first place and that his hope was that one of his daughters were on their period and he could frame them with breaking to toilet to cover all or half the costs of replacing it.

[@utatanepiko7087]

@@Dohyden2 He was yelling because there was underwear in the toilet? I thought he was only asking them for their underwear to inspect them for blood since there was "blood in the toilet" I thought it was clogged normally like like with human feces? Either way though, this was abuse, not just entitlement

[@MsKaz1000]

he did it himself or it was the son the blood could come from piles or tear if the 💩 was big enough to block the toilet

[@SCUBASUEReynard]

Once you own a boat or go for trips on a boat you get blamed for every tampons down the head. Ya was on a dive charter I was blamed for a clogged head. Not only was it not my time I said I myself with my sisters were made to unclog a head that was blocked by an obstruction not a tampon. I would never toss feminine items down a head or toilet , when you can place them in the proper disposal places. Turns out the night before they did a wine moonlight cruse. Since none of us had been to the head that AM. We know no one on the AM charter did the clog.

[@SCUBASUEReynard]

If a woman had her kid stand for hours demanding her kid confess to something they didn’t do. Then stand over that kid and do an aggressive stance breathing down on them hate. This is how kids get PTSD. The parent is mentally f.ing with them. That women would definitely be called abs..and YTA …So stand ,no food… what is he military? The kids are living in fear of their DAD. But when the boy comes home dose he ask him if he may have accidentally thrown something down the can? Like a razor paper towel ect. No .onlythe girls are taking the blame . And if they live in an apartment it may not have been anything his kids did. But the 4 year old upstairs flushing cars, or plastic fish ect. Dad should have the girls help unclog said can. And give them valuable tools on how to fix a problem not create one every time they look at a toilet.

[@CloverRose]

The story about Karen in the smoking section is mine. Thanks fore reading it

[@franl155]

Years ago I was at a friend's party and a man I didn't know offered to get me a drink. I said that I didn't drink, and he said "What did you come to the party for if you don't drink?" as if the only reason to go to a friend's party is to throw alcohol down your neck as fast as possible until you fall over. I've also had dates try to spike my plain Coke; one tried rum, which was pointless as I could smell it from ten feet away. And even vodka was not completely undetectable. What is it with blokes thinking that if I don't voluntarily want to get drunk enough to say Yes, they can still score by forcing a drunken Yes upon me? Later I said that I couldn't drink because of the medication I was on, but still - people don't demand to know why other people don't smoke or why you don't take hard drugs, but still think it's ok to demand why you don't drink?

[@shersmk90]

Imagine coming from Amsterdam and not drink or smoke or use anything, and everyone else assuming you lying....

[@WobblesandBean]

I've had many men try to spike my drinks in my 20's, as well. That's....also how I unfortunately lost my virginity at the age of 21. What is WRONG with men??

[@franl155]

@@WobblesandBean - it's the quantity of scalps nailed to their totem poles that count for them, not their quality

[@rowan5335]

if they are not trying to take advantage of you then they don't want you to remember tomorrow what an AH they will be tonite

[@franl155]

@@rowan5335 - lol sounds about right!

[@Allantitan]

“Thor ran out the door at my stalker” That dog received an amazingly fitting name 😂

[@Karenseiley]

Holy hell, how are you going to go to a native American event and be pissed that they are doing native American things????? Lol like where is the common sense lol!

[@iyaayas]

Lol! She's the guest......it's very wrong to offend your guest in your territory. Change everything about yourself whenever you have visitors so they can feel at home in your house (but you gotta obey the rules of that Karen's house when you're her guest). *eye roll*

[@x-itsamystery-x1132]

You know it's bad when a Karen is pissed off about a "Karen" 👀

[@Karenseiley]

@@x-itsamystery-x1132 lol 😆 😂 🤣 its true tho

[@MINGIRL1979]

The lady who tied her guy's boot laces together, geez, if I were the guy, I'd go sleep in another room with my boots and gear with the door locked so she can't touch them.

[@inichan8786]

The one thing I find interessting is: How she does it with his shoes but HERS weren't. Which to me shows a deliberate choice was made and it can not be argued to be any type of condition ect. She is gaslighting and controlling him aka putting him into stressful situations in which ANYONE would become unhinged. If a life is on the line, noone remains calm when they know they should be doing something but can't because of someone being a petty piece of garbage. I honestly would have thrown her out in that night once back from the job. That is willingly endangering other people. The pussy can not be that good, let her have her pity party somewhere else.

[@princesssunshine874]

She is so freaking crazy I would have a hard time controlling myself. I'd probably get a divorce because her craziness would hurt my mental health.

[@judelbugsrutter6727]

💯

[@DaydreamingCrow]

Dear God the boot tying story. As someone who's husband nearly died of a heart attack last summer, that EMS volunteer's wife has me seeing red.

[@redtankgirl5]

I hear you there. As a former volunteer firefighter all I could think was wtf is wrong with his wife? Then she she had the nerve to get butt hurt because she couldn’t get out to go for a dammed run right away. She wasn’t wasn’t saving any lives. Shaking my head.

[@judelbugsrutter6727]

💯

[@Mimino55-y5k]

It's not about the boots, she is a controlling psycho. OP was conditioned by his mother to live in abusive relationships and now he is happy to be abused by his wife. Sad really, seems like a stand up dude.

[@Joey76767]

I hated the boots lady. she was repeatedly told not to tie them and that it WASN'T helping him, she made that a way bigger deal then it needed to be.

[@judelbugsrutter6727]

Oh 💯 imho she Fd around and found out. What a b....!

[@Cottontailart]

As a disabled person I’ve constantly had the same issue of the disability spot being taken by those not disabled, I’ve even had a guy online admit he bought a fake badge and didn’t realise in the uk we pay for the blue badge to park there

[@DedraAmbroseandSnow]

I'm also disabled and I have a service dog. I live in the USA & I have the paperwork to get my handicapped parking placard but with Covid19 crap going on I can't seem to get ahold of the department of motor vehicles.

[@Cottontailart]

Dedra Ambrose that sucks :(

[@lorisreality8681]

Debra Ambrose, you might wanna try the website for the dmv in your city. Ours started making appointments online to turn in paper work for anything. The appointments are about booked about 2 weeks out. I had to do that to get a title to a new car. I'm in South Carolina USA .

[@Allantitan]

It always made me angry when perfectly able people parked in a handicapped parking spot especially in my grandfathers last few years of life since it was harder for him to walk anywhere and I’d have to drive him to a store just to drop him off at the entrance cause all the handicap parking was taken

[@Cottontailart]

@@Allantitan it’s disgusting isn’t it? I’ve had people thinking I’m faking it till they see me struggle out the car and waddle a few steps to my wheelchair, even been asked what’s up with me cos mine are chronic pains, yet I never see anyone say owt about people parking in the spots when they shouldn’t

[@kellymcmanus1207]

the one about the dog ''thor'' almost made me cry. most dogs will not attack intruders, maybe just bark then run and hide . theyre scared just like we are. Thor wanted to protect her because she adopted him and saved him, and he did it out of love. their relationship is so beautiful. most goodest of boys

[@markedwards3647]

Thor's owner will probably answer her door armed. I wonder what SIL thinks of people who get training and practice and carry firearms. When OP had to run to get her CCW, while she was being hunted, that was shocking.

[@cheerfulsatanist]

Hang on just a bloody God forsaken minute...there was a time *before* Corona?!

[@lkayh]

Imagine finding out like that that your husband/father is a perv (tho I suspect the friend had an inkling or she might have tried to defend him). I feel so sorry for them. And no matter what he did, I’m sure it was really hard for them to see him like that.

[@Nope148]

"Not only do I not get paid enough for this shit," _points to VOLUNTEER stitched into my shirt_ "I don't get paid at all to deal with this shit."

[@mysterylovescompany2657]

A quick PSA; guys, if you ever notice _a small fire_ outside your home, call the fire dept if you're home alone, or divide + conquer if you have company, & have someone else emerge to fight the fire while you stay in + call the police. It's a very common trick for people with bad intentions trying to lure a specific person outside. *Stay indoors.*

[@asherael]

"Men have a hard time talking about feelings because we don't know what they are, how to describe them, how to recognize them" this is why I need feminism, and how feminism most directly benefits me, a man. (that and I'm just unwilling to go to the effort, spend the energy, and do the harm necessary to keep women down. It's hard, scary, and confusing to be a man. Most guys aren't *everything* they're supposed to be but it's ESPECIALLY hard if few or none of them apply

[@lauraanderson8785]

OP in the stalker story was very smart to take her own safety seriously and into her own hands. The cameras, gun, and dog were all great ideas. This just goes to show how important it is for women to take safety measures the moment they sense that they're dealing with a dangerous person.

[@blizzard1441]

Hi markee! Hope you're having a good day (night, sleep, just whatever you're doing)

[@tanukioh]

This comment is criminally underrated

[@asherael]

That dog is FINE arround that kid. The dog reacted to its owner's fear. thousands of years of humans raising and breeding dogs has made us, essentially, parallel species. He understood. You were threatened, and he protected you because he loves you.

[@DedraAmbroseandSnow]

Exactly hun. My service dog if someone broke into my house & attacked me. She'd eat the person. She's super sweet but when she knows I'm in danger she'll make you back up & think twice about trying to hurt me.

[@scifiwriter6092]

I love when you inserted the line, "Oh hi Mark!", without feeling the need to have to explain. People either get the reference or they don't. I've actually gone to a movie theater to see RiffTrax roast that movie and many more. Love your channel! You are brilliant! Thumbs up.

[@ladytenor9876]

Thor has earned a lifetime supply of the best doggy treats ever made.🇦🇺☘☘☘☘☘🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺

[@DedraAmbroseandSnow]

He sure did. I'd have bought him a steak & allowed him to eat it as a reward. That breed of dog is great for protection.

[@oougahersharr]

I have never been officially diagnosed with OCD. However, I recognize some of the symptoms. Others have, too. I get a sudden urge, uncontrollable, overwhelming even sometimes, and very necessary, to stroke the keys on the keyboard three or four times. Not press, just stroke. Then suddenly I feel "balanced" and peaceful? again. It's a weird feeling and I have learned to tell people, "I'm sorry, but I HAVE to touch the keys.. I'm OCD." And everyone has been understanding and let me do the ritual. Then I get back to training them. When at my own computer, I don't apologize, as it's m computer. But when at someone else's station, the urge comes on9not every time, either). More embarrassingly, sometimes I have to "unwind" myself. As if I'm an a rope or string and it will get tangled if I turn in one direction too much without going back the other direction. I also have to, often, trace over what I'd written or drawn several times. It can see it's clear and legible, and it gets worse the more I trace over it, but something inside me tells me that it's not "dark enough" or "clear enough", as if the ink or graphite were faded if I didn't trace over. I have to force myself to stop on those occasions because I'm literally making a mess of what I ahd been doing. Sometimes to the pint f needing to corss out and start again or to erase or white out the original and start again. As these seem to be harmless rituals, I never bothered to get tested or diagnosed . . . except that last one now I think on it. I have others, but those are the three everyone comments on.

[@kirtemoon529]

The thing with the last story isn’t just that he has a fetish. It’s that he *didn’t even plan on telling her before they got married thinking he could keep her if he told her after*. Paraphilias, especially, *need to be discussed* and this dud was like “nah”

[@ladytenor9876]

"Gayer than a treeful of monkeys on nitrous oxide . . ." Thank you! Thank you for some much-needed laughter 😚🇦🇺☘☘☘☘🇦🇺☘☘☘☘🇦🇺☘

[@sammniamii]

The story about the overworked hubs hit home so hard, I'm flipping crying. I'm in his place & can't get the time off.... Work, home, rinse & recycle. 2020 sucks.

[@DedraAmbroseandSnow]

I know I did to. My fiance ended up having a seizure a week ago & he also had a heat stroke. Owing to the apt ac unit not working properly. I know it all happened because of the pandemic he's stressed worried about maybe losing his job. He's stressed about finances as well so am I. I'm disabled and fighting the Social security office about my disability checks.

[@nerdygeekgamer5528]

I'm in my early thirty's and I don't even drink alcohol because I can't stand the smell of alcohol so I know I'm not going to like the taste so I don't bother I have two BFF'S who don't drink alcohol either and when they got engaged and planed their wedding they decided to have a DRY WEDDING

[@nicholasf5742]

Hey handsome! Thanks god my parents don’t know my KZbin account. They would be disappointed by my gayness( plus they don’t know)

[@tinkerbob1018]

Same here

[@CatNagTaylorsVersion]

Same

[@biljanaivanova5018]

Same

[@JeremyBolanos]

I need to speak to your manager. LOL I'm 51 and that secret got out a very very very very very very very very very very very ... long time ago.

[@findingbalance3566]

On OCD, it runs throughout my family. My mother is no longer allowed in my house. My kid has caused medical emergencies to himself.

[@lkayh]

I love the “volunteer” story. I have a kind of similar story. Very different facts but the gist is similar anyway. I had graduated from high school the previous year. I returned for Homecoming, and was at the game when the band director, a friend as well as my former teacher, came over and told me his bass drummer had not shown up. They were able to do the halftime marching show without him, but some of the cheers and songs would be better if someone banged the drum. I had played bass drum for marching band (other instruments for jazz and concert bands), and I didn’t mind, so I went and sat next to him, a couple bleachers above the actual band, whose members were all in uniform. Back then I smoked (in fact, long story short, I’d picked up a lot of detention during high school for illicit smoking. My band director friend knew about it-which is why what happened next amused him). He also smoked and when he lit up (I’m dating myself but back then adults could smoke on school grounds) I pulled out a cigarette and he lit mine too. We were chatting and I was beating the drum off and on when the cheering section needed a little thunder, when this man I’d never seen before came over and told me to “put it out.” My friend was already chuckling when I stared at the guy and asked “why?” He glared at me and said, “you’re already getting ten hours’ detention-care to make it twenty?” It dawned on me who this guy was-I’d just heard a story about the hardass new vice principal that nobody liked. I grinned and replied, “sure, why not?” He got really red in the face and sputtered-clearly hadn’t expected that answer-then said, “that’s a two week suspension, smarty pants.” The “smarty pants” did it-I started laughing along with my friend. By then half the band and cheering section had tuned in -most of them knew me from the previous year, so they were trying not to laugh as well. The VP glanced around, still red in the face, and said, “What the Sam Hill is wrong with you people?” Which of course set everyone off again. By the time the band director managed to explain, the poor man looked like he might explode. He just stood there for another minute or so, his entire body in a clench as he tried to figure out what to do next. Finally, he muttered “fuck it” and stomped off- and of course those of us who’d heard his inappropriate language burst out laughing again. My band director friend caught hell that Monday for not clueing him in before he made a fool of himself, but the principal pointed out that he might have noticed that I wasn’t in uniform and wasn’t sitting with the band, and he could have saved himself a lot of embarrassment by just asking who I was. As I understand it, the man didn’t finish out the school year because he didn’t take the lesson, and continued to dole out disciplinary actions before learning the facts about situations. A few parents complained and he was invited to resign.

[@mysterylovescompany2657]

Tom theoretically had "first right of refusal" to an introduction to Lily. He utilised it, that is to say, he refused. That's where his claim was discharged. End of.

[@candiebarr6745]

You don't need a period to leave blood in the toilet...

[@thedragonmaster1436]

Jesus, man, i just realized this was 2 hours long o.o

[@franl155]

I only realised when the matchsticks holding my eyelids up were bending from the strain …

[@MeanPsyduck]

i realised reading your comment and noting that i've been watching for 45 minutes

[@virtualatheist]

Thor didn't "snap", he did his f*cking job!

[@Cottontailart]

It’s upto Lilly to choose if she wants to go on a date or not with Tom, he screwed up with being a douche just because a friend wants them to get together doesn’t mean it will work

[@catpoke9557]

Dogs are not dumb animals. They can tell when someone has malicious intent. A dog attacking a stranger in the house isn't a dog snapping, it's a dog being defensive.

[@Dohyden2]

"Taking the time to get dressed properly won't cost a life" um no, First responders need to get to the scene as quickly as possible. The difference in 2 minutes between putting pressure on a bleed and not does mean life or death. And think about it, 2 minutes to put on boots, 2 minutes to find your keys, 2 minutes on driving a slower route / traffic, 2 minutes to find the patient...that's 8 minutes... can you hold your breath for 8 minutes? cos that's brain death territory for someone not breathing... Every minute counts, they all add up. That wife infuriates me, she is trivialising a key stone of modern, life saving, emergency response services.

[@InfinBee]

Thank you for the tour! I really enjoyed it! It also reminded me I need to put up the art prints I have received.

[@GeorgeHope10154]

This entire time I've been scoffing and laughing and then the burnt out husband story came up aaaaaaaaaaaand now I'm happy crying.

[@cchastant8251]

Pretty sure I have a... milder form of OCD than the bootlace-tying wife. Most of the things I do are helpful. How do I gauge this? When someone asks, "Why do you do that?" I tell them, and they look floored. "I never thought of that... That's a good idea!" Cashier work. Tenth bill from the bottom in the ones I flip green side up, and all others (all denominations) are completely bankfaced, heads up. Why? Well, that (usually) gives me the warning to contact someone to bring me more before I run out. Not all transactions are cash, and it's rare to need to give out more than 3 ones to any one person, but I can handle at least two where I give out four singles. (shrugs) I've run out before, I hate making the line wait on something that a small tic like this can fix. I've taken over drawers with three or fewer ones, which I only find out once the drawer pops open to give change. HATE THAT. Took over for a sometimes-supervisor; she'd left only a single one in the till! If you haven't cashiered, perhaps you've been the customer, wondering why the cashier wasn't on top of their change situation. Well. I try really, really hard for that need for change to interfere with the swift checking out of my customers. I keep a box knife on me at all times when at work. Don't like struggling to open the new box of bags, and some places threaten to take your pens away if you use them to break the tape. Don't understand or approve of that. Pens are every bit as dangerous (in the wrong hands) even if you don't use them to break the tape seal you're trying to get past, and you still need them. I always carry my own pen (or two) with me to work, because far too often I've needed one, and work didn't have one for me. I often carry a Sharpie to work if I might need to mark things, and need it bold enough to spot from a distance. At home, I have ONE room I allow to be at least somewhat messy. It's usually the room I sleep in. These are all things that I ran across one too many times and said, "I just need to carry my own (item) so I don't have to hunt for one work should be supplying me with." Again, when I explain why I do it, the logic of it seems to smack others upside the head, and they wonder out loud how I ever thought of that. Finding I need X, and work not supplying X, of course!

[@toonytailspin2792]

Reminder of the day: Emotional support animals don't have public access rights, unlike service dogs. If your dog has EVER attacked someone - they should not be doing public access work.

[@tristanthomas9325]

whats up with people thinking a gay display is forcing it on anyone? its so embarrassing for them

[@iyaayas]

EMT: I don't blame him one bit and his reactions was completely normal and made the point. It's not an overreaction. Then she ties his boots again?!?! She's an idiot! Maybe he should put his boots in a bag so they're out of sight....never mind, he's tried similar. Keeping them in the car seems to be the best idea until a better solution comes up.

[@scarysara9364]

I rolled my eyes about the wife getting "scared"; and fearing that her husband was going to "hit her", like give me a break and stop acting like a damsel in distress who thinks the big scary man his going to harm her.

[@dawnelayos3785]

Love the beard

[@JMac7395]

Story 5: the father is ABUSIVE. Just hearing what he did to the daughters reminded me of my own abusive childhood. Needles to say I developed anxiety issues & became depressed well into my adulthood. It's hard to cut the hand of an abusive parent but when you get the opportunity leave & never look back. An abusive parent will never change. They will forever be toxic to your life. The abusive father is well aware that OP & her sister are innocent. He simply doesn't care & takes pleasurein the abuse. He stopped after the brother came in because he doesn't want anyone to know what he's doing to OP & her sister. He's two faced.

[@Dohyden2]

Oh man, That woman is wife of the year, she helped her husband when he turned into a robot.

[@johexxkitten]

The father with the blocked toilet reminds me of an incident at my old school. This was YEARS after I had finished college & was working. But the “primary school” (I’m in UK) I don’t know how the newer grade system worked. Back when I was in school you went to Primary from 4/5yo until 8/9 when you went into Junior School until 12/13 when you moved into Senior School. So the Primary school was little kids from right out of Nursery/Kindergarten, well there was apparently a pooping issue, someone was not wiping their butt properly, then they touched the cubicle walls and left poop stains. Gross I know, but some of these kids were like 4yo and kids were not screened for any issues back then. So some of these kids had behavioural issues, some were were not neurotypical. Well the teacher in the classroom closest to those toilets decided it MUST be someone from their class. Ignoring the fact there were 6 classrooms on that corridor. So, I swear this is 100% legit, because you’re about to go shocked pikachu face... This teacher made the entire class line up to get their underwear “inspected” and to bend over to have their bottoms checked for “unclean habits” the teacher even “touched” the kids to check between their cheeks! This came out over several days of kids speaking up... most were afraid to speak, because they’d been told they’d get spanked if their parents found out that they were “dirty”. But kids were afraid of school, some were bedwetting, others wound up sick because they were afraid to poop. The teacher was fired eventually for this, but did NOT lose their licence and was NOT arrested. Oh and that teacher? She was a frigging woman in her late 50s apparently she got off with a deal whereby the cops would not be called as long as she retired and left ASAP. Eventually the parents filed against the school and their lawyers brought the cops in. The headmistress also lost her job, cos teacher was her friend and she didn’t want her friend to be hurt by this “petty drama” both women finally lost their pension and were stripped of their teacher’s licence...

[@margaretannfrank5480]

This is for the woman still suffering from PTSD from the horrific experience with a stalker. Kisses for your wonderful dog by the way. Find a therapist that does EMDR. You don't have to live with this crippling fear anymore. EMDR is a somewhat new and very effective therapy that reprograms the brain to lessen and in most times eliminate the feelings of fear and upset associated with traumatic experiences. I live in Canada and my Sister is a Therapist that does EMDR and has seen miraculous changes. She has had war Vets with PTSD who have had their first full night's sleep after a session. It seems like such a simple method but it works amazingly and without having to relive the original trauma. People don't have to suffer and "cope" with PTSD and traumatic experiences anymore. Please give it a try. It will change your life!

[@DedraAmbroseandSnow]

What is EMDR?

[@melaniescribbles]

For those who don't know or find it difficult to guess from the context of the casino story's sentences: Heineken is a Dutch beer brand. It's pretty much a popular brand over here in the Netherlands too, so I won't be surprised if that casino story happened there.

[@tsubakiofmelancholy6297]

It's pretty common and popular here in America too.

[@shemkovach2549]

About the weight blow-up: All of the comments plus this. Don't feel bad for still loving the man you thought he was. He may have decided to change completely years ago, but you only "lost" him months ago. It's ok to mourn the "death" of your friend and love, but don't confuse that with thinking that he will ever come back to being the guy you fell for. He is way too happy being his new self and has already proven that he is willing to lie to "keep" you. So move on but understand that emotions won't move at the same speed as logic and that it is ok to mourn and love the man you lost. (I hope this makes sense. I don't know if I explained it very well.)

[@princesssunshine874]

All of my brothers became eagle scouts... NONE of them were given chewing tobacco. What the heck? What year did this happen? The woman is absolutely insane btw. Can't stand people like this.

[@ladylilith06]

Thor is a very good boy, and the sil needs a chat with op about how she is doing mentaly or her brother to get him to help

[@parisisaprincesss]

oh god the story about the dad and the clogged toilet is HORRIFYING thats not entitlement, its *abuse*

[@amberleeannalee1999]

“No locked doors” aka I want to stare at little girls. Jesus H I would have called my parents immediately

[@MrSmooth273]

I won`t call SIL a B---- because it`s an insult to Dogs ( Sorry Thor).

[@Pinkfan112173]

I think maybe the wife of EMT is scared that something is going to happen to him so she tries to keep him from going on the calls. Hoping he will be called and told never mind and it was already handled. Just a thought.

[@alanstuff]

About Tom and Lily- as a female, it annoys me to no end when a man seems to think he owns me in some way. You don't get to call dibs on a female. You don't get to stake a claim. If a female is interested in someone else, it's her call. Grow up for crying out loud. You aren't entitled to attention from anyone else.

[@tanyajohnson1166]

Ummmmm born & raised in Texas and have been accused of being 'too nice' or "too understanding" or asked why I smile so much etc especially in other states. WHAT is "aggressively Texan"????

[@charliekezza]

Wonder what he thinks Freddy Mercury dies from?

[@earlinejackson8151]

My daughter is a first responder. Her boots lace up for a perfect fit, but then they never get untied because they have zippers in the back. So maybe those boots would be helpful for the op with ocd gf. You just have to get her to not zip them up.edit for spellcheck

[@earlinejackson8151]

Sounds like sil has been looking for an excuse to keep the 4yo away from you and just decided to stupidly say that his heroic defense of you was ‘snapping’ so she can pretend that’s why she doesn’t want the child to visit you. She’s so stupid that she doesn’t realize that the dog would likely lay his life down to save the child from ANY threat. Edit to add, Thor can go in Walmart, they let any kind of dog in there, even ones that crap in their floors and stink.

[@charliekezza]

Omg those sisters need to leave, that was way too far

[@afchicinfla]

Obesity can also cause nerve damage. My dad was over 400 pounds. He was a big guy all of his life even through ones twos threes all of it till he died in he got to a point where that spot that tells us we have to go the bathroom that her bladder is full he couldn’t feel that anymore. So he tried to put himself on the schedule but working at pro shop so lotta times can’t just tell the customer to leave and go bathroom

[@shemkovach2549]

About the boots: You said they are the kind that both zip and tie, but that the zip doesn't/can't replace the tying, right? What if you had her tie them while on your feet, then use the zip to loosen them enough to take them off or put them on. That way she will (1) see that they are tied already, (2) be reassured that they are tied correctly - beause she was the one to do it - and (3)MAYBE be able to cross them off of her compulsive "have to" list of things to do. I don't know if that will work but it's what came to my mind as a compromise. Especially if this is beyond her comfortable control. If it's a beauty thing get a decorative screen to put around your gear maybe, so she isn't seeing it every night. Idk if this helps but I'm just so heartwarmed to see that you legit love her enough to want to support her no matter what. Great hubby!

[@SCUBASUEReynard]

That EMT needs to get his wife to the Dr. For her Obsessive compulsive disorder. She is not disrespecting his property she cannot help herself. Especially if she is blaming him. Especially if she cannot stop herself of this. Also if you get her to sign a statement after she repeats the statement several times. Explain that this is a promissory note. You can use this at the Dr. Office to illustrate how bad the problem is. He should have just explained imagine that the rain was someone’s life …you didn’t make it out of the house before time ran out. ..I can’t have you kill somebody imagine how I feel. When I cut it close. It’s just a matter of time. Then give her the halves rule. In fact I would give her the basic First Responder manual. She needs to understand how time is the enemy. She has OCD. She needs to get to the DR.

[@sharyebethancourt3660]

1:35:04 this! There could be a serious mental problem, but everything is on the wife’s terms and then the wife minimizes what the husband does and how he feels. That’s the part that’s hard to forgive.

[@CatNagTaylorsVersion]

Have a good day

[@SCUBASUEReynard]

All I thought about with the clogged toilet was when our brother had constapation . He pushed out a huge poop . With a lot of blood from not being able to stretch. And it was too big to be flushed! He just flushed and left for school. The toilet was full and water all over the floor when the scream went out from the next kid going in. Of corse dad was blaming us girls seeing the blood . Until he saw what wasn’t going …. Our dad did apologize to us. But then patted my brother on the back for doing something so Manly! Ya sure dad! I think he just didn’t want him to be embarrassed.

[@SCUBASUEReynard]

No girl wants to talk about an insulting narcissist all night. Tom was a jerk. This is why she didn’t want to take a drink from him. He might spike her drink. He could have apologized. And maybe she might have forgiven him. But once soured your not likely to drink the milk. So if she talked up anyone else at the party would he give up the number. She would then be made at everyone associated with the friend group.

[@zoedujour]

Eww. That Tom dude who thinks he owns Lily is gross af.

[@hvymax]

Other guys flew off the handle because she is a mindless Dingbat!!!

[@misfit1395]

honestly maybe I'm evil but if my wife kept on doing that to my shoes, risking peoples lives, I would have told her the girl died because I couldn't get the in time. let that sit for a bit

[@iyaayas]

Fat Fiance: RUN! He's lied to OP and I wouldn't trust him again!

[@Gregarious3]

Lilly, alpha guy got the alpha girl. Take the prize and live.

[@tinkerbob1018]

Hi Hi Hi

[@GreenKnight1982]

You know I find it funny that on the overweight fiance story they're Towing the female that has a problem to leave him find somebody better this that and the other but if the roles were reversed we all know for a fact that they would be lighting the dude up for body-shaming and any number of things for thinking that of a woman

[@jingerjar1365]

I became very depressed had a great therapist. Really helped me please suggest therapy. If you can't afford it there is sliding scale in towns cities don't need to be HUGE

[@carolbridges6484]

To the last OP: this is your life for as long as you stay with him. He has to make the changes needed, and at the present time he has no incentive to change. If you cannot live like this, YOU will have to leave. That might provide the jolt he needs.

[@zackna9397]

What is "RC" when it came to the man who gf tried to trap him by getting a baby from him?

[@heatherlee9880]

Strange dad….maybe an affair.

[@rileystewart9927]

1:13:32 its a sad truth. the cops wont do anything till its too late, with how many people die from stalkers/harassment, id think by now it'll be taken more serous. people shouldnt be to the point where their house is broken into, they are in the hospital, or fucking dead, or near death for the cops to be like oh this is serous, we need to do something about it. your the damn cops, your job is/was supposed to protect the people, that person making multiple reports on said stalker and being told cant do anything unless shes harmed says otherwise, you should do something before it gets that far, if they are harmed, are you really protecting them? or protecting the assaulter

[@franciebelcher4594]

Really enjoyed these stories. So impressed with all of the very helpful advice given. Looking forward to hearing another video😎✌

[@shardasydzyik4802]

On the smoking section story. My sister and I took my mom out for brunchat a high end restaurant in the time smoking was common. Both her and I smoke. The wait for nonsmoking was long but none for the nonsmoking. We sat down and ordered. This couple came

[@shardasydzyik4802]

In and sat down and this lady started bitching about the smoke. My sister leaned over and whispered light up. I had my coffee so I lit a cigarette. This lady went nuclear. She had a basic meltdown at us. Demanding we put them out. She was escorted out by the manager and our meal was comped.

[@Dohyden2]

No it's definitely not "Meant to be" Tom screwed it up. If you had spent your time with Lilly talking about Tom you probably would have killed the chances for both of you. Obviously Lilly doesn't like him, and she probably doesnlike the idea of people trying to force Tom onto her. She already turned him down after her girl-friend talked him up, you wouldn't help.

[@Joe.S-99]

I don't know the exact details...but there are some states/countries, that have worker protection laws that allow workers to be able to take time off work (sometimes with pay) for mental health reasons. Burnout is a real mental health issue and it can trigger and/or create other issues.

[@carolinewong1944]

TQVM for your time to prepare story telling, the stories of people's experiences are moving

[@andrewrowe8768]

The stalker story, how do you think he kept getting your new number she was giving it to him. Get your new number once yes twice maybe three times not likely unless someone who has it keeps giving it to him i.e sister in law she has a thing about you and him perhaps she hopped that you would be hurt or killed be careful of her

[@biljanaivanova5018]

Keep up the great work. Love your videos 👍👍👍

[@dunruden9720]

Etc. (and) cetera (so on), NOT Ec tetera . Etc Not Ect! Rummaging through my bag. Trains rumble. Perverts rummage!

[@ladytenor9876]

ODCs cannot wait to punish Short Eyes

[@ArtillaryMan]

At 43 : 12 NO !! He can go some where else !!

[@richardcrary2848]

I’d have said the same about the boots who The hell does she think she is queen of the world

[@katlynhawley5515]

Why does he always say chuck a prawn on the barbe? What does it mean?

[@jessicamacgregor8771]

My stepmom has OCD will... I think I also have OCD but my is not like my stepmom... My stepmom is like 10 times worst than your wife and that is saying something!

[@arleneroberts8886]

Nta, she needs to learn. Keep on doing this

[@princesssunshine874]

I know this woman has a mental illness but she pisses me off so much. I would have divorced her. He had absolutely every reason to yell at her. He was not in the wrong. She was not taking OP seriously when he was trying to be kind. I wouldn't have apologized. She is a grown adult and pretends to not understand why it's important. Still, even the yelling didn't change anything. Again, I'd leave her. I can't believe being married to someone so stupid I'd have to bring over an officer and have an after school special talk like she is a kindergartner.

[@artemisofthemoonandhunt1486]

Hey Intro Markee! I'm the manager!

[@julieswan3524]

Are there no updates to these stories. Some are downright creepy.

[@J.E.L.2658]

holy fuck the weight gain one. holy shit yo

[@CatNagTaylorsVersion]

Hello fellow viewers

[@callofthewild9175]

🙄OMG the whining about quarantine.. This year has changed nothing about my life in the last 16 years.. Everything he described is what a caregiver LIVES. Can't go anywhere, can't socialize, can't pack up and go. I'm 36 and this is my life. Quit your fudging whining about a single year lost.

[@Ecclectic_citcelccE]

Thor is awesome!