r/NotHowGirlsWork - Girl Science 💅✨

[@neonrelmsproductions4224]

"Don't tell the feminists but I'm choosing my own path in life that makes me happy which is literally the point of feminism"

[@NightEyeStudio1995]

It's also "I live a privileged enough life to have this option of being a housewife, and I'm gonna ignore that most people can't effort living off of a singular income. Lol, did I mention that feminists suck and you can buy my online course!"

[@n0xure]

More so, most schools of feminism advocate that being housewife should in fact be recognized as a full time job; which means being entitled to full pension & unemployment benefits in case marriage doesn't work out. Women who're completely financially dependent on their husband and then go homeless when their husband screws them over is the problem. It's not a trivial matter about which lifestyle is "better".

[@toxiczombiewolf5692]

​@NightEyeStudio1995 they always git an online course no shade but its hilarious 😂

[@jiaswan22]

That section made me self-conscious…how are you supposed to cut onions???

[@Gingersnaps_the_pumpkin_kitty]

Well feminism also requires them to not be a dick to other women for existing.

[@astrisperspecto4130]

That "don't tell the feminists" girl isn't that smart. Otherwise she'd know that her being able to *choose* being a stay at home wife is the point

[@davidribeiro1064]

I was too busy cringing at her knife skills. JFC...

[@nathanthom8176]

There are a minority of feminists that feel that choosing to take on the previously patriarchal enforced role of stay at home wife as a betrayal of their movement; the "feminists" in question often are also TERFs

[@astrisperspecto4130]

@@davidribeiro1064 I ignored it. I'm not very well chopping onions and yes, many dishes need rough and bigger chunks. But what she did was a.crime

[@eingill7614]

@@astrisperspecto4130 thats why she was crying cause shes terrible at cutting onions

[@OmegaII]

@@astrisperspecto4130 She is a lefty using a right handed knife. As a lefty, I can tell you she is doing an OK job.

[@StephAntic93]

The scary thing about "If she menstruates, she's an adult" is that the youngest mother in history was 5 years old when she gave birth, She started having periods at 2 and a half years old. Just because someone can bleed it does not make them an adult. These men are creepy and need to stop.

[@kavehkavehkaveh]

oh my god thats fucking terrifying. that poor 5 year old..

[@little_moth]

There was an a 8 month old who had a period 😐

[@oakenshadow6763]

​@@kavehkavehkavehif I remember correctly, they raised her kid as her sibling, and he didn't find out for YEARS.

[@aleksabanjevic8316]

I can't even tell if they are pedos or don't know when girls actually get periods.

[@skyrie_on_talons]

This is true

[@urgenturchin7070]

Men comparing childbirth to a MILD HEADACHE is the craziest thing I have ever heared. Having intense cramps for hours on end, literally tearing your vagina open, having a dinner plate sized internal wound, the "husband stitch" and the expectation to go back to normal a few days after that doesn't sound mild to me.

[@manen2391]

It resonates on the same level as “periods can’t be that painful” for me, even though both have been proven to be about the same pain level as a heart attack, stroke or even a severe migraine at the mildest for child birth, but not so fun fact some women will forget the pain of childbirth because their brain produces so much dopamine that they just don’t remember, or the pain was so bad that the memory just gets removed from them and people will point to that to say it’s not painful

[@MostlyGhosted]

Childbirth is the second place of the most pain you can feel, the first place is rocks in kidney

[@exwhyzee_]

As a biological male, if a friend complains to me about a period, I just go “ok” and continue talking about whatever cause I know that whatever I say will be the wrong thing to say 😅

[@kohlicoide2258]

I have a disgussion about them with 2 male and 2 female friends and one of the man was literally "Lol.. so i can also stay at home when i have my "morning wood"?" as we talk about that, that in some countrys you can stay at home when they have their periods, where i think.. "yo wtf?" Im a man but _every_ woman i talk about that was "Very unconfortable" to "Painful (one of them say she literally cry because its so painfull, but thank god she get professional help for that)" or "Imagine some person kick you "soft" in the balls all 5 minutes" to explain me how it feels

[@Just_Reading_Comments]

@@manen2391 sorry but your fun fact is not always true. I gave birth to my daughter over 20 years ago and I still remember ALL of the pain, pretty much the whole 3 days of it. That and how sick I was throughout the pregnancy was why I was adamant about not having anymore. I’m not an anomaly either as I’ve spoken to numerous women who also remember all the pain from their labor and delivery. Some still went on to have more children, some didn’t.

[@erinmalone2669]

I drove for Uber and I picked up a WASTED girl. She had a guy with her, but it felt off. I asked “innocent” questions of him as we drove and all the red flags were there. She was completely unconscious by the time we got to the complex she had put as drop-off. She couldn’t answer which unit she was in. Dude clearly did not know her. I called the cops and refused to let this man “just take her out and find her place.” He took off before the cops showed up. She was taken away by ambulance and I think I saved her life. If it feels wrong, ask and act.

[@grenade8572]

We need more people like you.

[@isabelmcgaugh711]

Thank you! Don’t leave vulnerable people alone if you think something is wrong!

[@ranimeRAT]

You're an angel

[@Erika.D84]

Awesome, that girl was lucky you were there. ❤️

[@JoshSweetvale]

Most people won't even register the girl as a person.

[@SpeedyCheetahCub]

Bro, wanting to be a housewife is not anti-feminist. The whole point of feminism is that you are able to choose how you want to live your life regardless of your sex/gender. It doesn't matter if you are a man, a woman, or anything in between. If you want to take care of the house, go for it! If you want to get a job, go for it! The point is that you aren't forced to do one of them based on arbitrary societal rules. So that lady who wants to be a housewife? She can do that just fine! But that doesn't mean that we should force every woman to be a housewife since it's not something that every woman wants.

[@vxicepickxv]

This Cheetah gets it.

[@mistycrawford2098]

After watching many of these videos I'm beginning to think that they may not know that. Some of these videos about how some people don't gets simple things is making me both feel smart and scared.

[@abigailgriffin-wc3fm]

Exactly! the problem with trad wives is that they also have a weird superiority complex in believing that they are better than women who choose to work outside of the home

[@80sgaytrashgoblin]

Feminism is also about giving women options if they find that they are in a housewife position or in a job and don't want to be. Having a job and having a family and staying home to take care of a family are all different phases of life, and life is going to change. If you need to escape an abusive relationship or a shitty job, you should be able to. Also "crying over a job," the problem is capitalism, not feminism.

[@arthurspils2565]

I will never understand how they think more than a fraction of people will hear "I'm enjoying MY life doing it THIS way!!" and respond with anything other than "good for you, don't judge me for doing something different"

[@LesbianImpact]

“An ex means a man has been inside of her fallopian tubes” If a man has been inside of anyone’s FALLOPIAN TUBES, I promise that cheating IS NOT what you have to be worried about

[@Firsona]

well. He was in his mom's as an egg once. Which is probably as close as he's been to having physical intimacy with a woman.

[@hmnhntr]

You mean the weird anime pron he watches doesn't have accurate anatomy?? 😱

[@mjrasco]

That one literally made me nauseous. 🤢

[@moogle9148]

That wasn't her ex that was her surgeon

[@mjrasco]

@@moogle9148 This comment deserves SO many likes! Lol

[@Evibbles]

"it has pockets" is 100% something a woman has to do when someone compliments our dress because that just makes it 1000 times better than it's just pretty

[@cevatkokbudak6414]

Yeah because prettyness aint gonna save your wallet

[@user-jy3zl2vp4b]

Some women want practical....as well as pretty.

[@Vox-Multis]

I love how the takeaway of the old-timey memes is basically "If we let women vote, they'll start treating us the way we currently treat them."

[@arandomkobold8403]

Ah, those who abuse power think everyone would abuse power if they had it Edit for clarification: I know that its just how people work, but they think that becoming president of a local sports club would turn you into a modern day Ghengis Khan

[@esmeraldaloschuetz9120]

I was thinking the same thing!

[@geoffreyentwistle8176]

Love that you've perfectly summarized a dozen memes in a single sentence. 😂

[@VerdeeMusic]

I thought the same!! Same thing for some white Americans: if we give black people power, they will punish us for all those horrible things we did to them, maybe by doing the same things to us.

[@Luci-morningstar--]

YES LMAOO

[@murpl1462]

The irony of “sex classes” but also “modesty” is hilarious.

[@welcome-the-chaos]

And the fact that when they walk out they are topless but are taught modesty

[@Madame_Enyo]

​@@welcome-the-chaos modest around any man that isnt me

[@noobslayer6915]

Exactly...I was thinking he walked into a brothel or something.

[@0piumvm]

@@Madame_Enyogross

[@Madame_Enyo]

@@0piumvm ?

[@Unikay]

Also as an asexual woman every time someone says something about women thinking their sexual organs are of high value I'm like *tf are you talking about its just a nuisance that stabs me in the stomach and leaks blood once a month*

[@undyla-chan1675]

As a pansexual woman, same here. Not even about wanting or not wanting sex, I have honestly never met a girl who thinks so highly of her lady bits.

[@DIRTkat_ofc]

Not a woman but can confirm, i live with my cousin and every single time her periods come she absolutely can't stop complaining about it, and she never complains about anything

[@VideosForYou90]

Same!

[@girl1213]

Thus the reason I went on depo: there's nothing high value about my sexual organs, expect how high on the pain scale they made me. (I'm so thankfully I only ever had female doctors who didn't argue about my ability to be pregnant when they presented this option to me)

[@kinsato6500]

Same

[@svire3370]

the wife academy sounds like a bad anime where the women find a way to break out of the system

[@Sleepdeprivedsimp1]

Omg like a bad version of the promised Neverland

[@Allay_Animations]

@@Sleepdeprivedsimp1true and sad

[@ZoobiethePopplio]

A bad version of Utena?

[@yohanfye]

This is just the average hentai plot

[@walterpost9073]

Im gonna steal that sorry. I probably never make it to being in charge of a real anime company so I hope it’s fine

[@DakotaMPA]

Girl: “don’t tell the feminists but I want to be a housewife and not work” Feminist: “ok that was always allowed”

[@semnome9536]

Me as a feminist: you're a woman and you're doing what you really want! That's feminism at its finest!

[@Littlemissdidi]

Women now get shamed if they want to be a housewife. They hate on the lifestyle, they call the woman oppressed, say that she's setting women's rights back, she's just being used, that men will cheat on her, that she has no value, isn't happy blah blah. We see this time and time again in modern society. It might be possible, just like some women working back in the day, but it's not accepted or valued.

[@_..Rae.._]

Fr. Why do traditional women think we WANT them to work? So dumb lmao

[@JDMimeTHEFIRST]

Yeah, Ali Wong already made this joke 😅

[@Evibbles]

they really don't understand that the point of feminism was giving them the right to CHOOSE that life, as in they have other options but can do what they want

[@SappyDuder]

The Suffregette memes just shows that misogynists haven't changed at all. God forbid a man has to **looks at notes** be a REAL father and do house chores

[@boogiebear3095]

My dad would help with things. My favorite pic is of them doing the dishes together. My mom has off days so he did things to help. I miss them so much

[@mammadingo9165]

❤

[@mammadingo9165]

​❤✨ @@boogiebear3095 thankyou so much for sharing such a precious memory 😊😊😊 truly made me smile and feel like a happy child for a moment thankyou ✨ ✌🏼🦋

[@minestar2247]

Why do you think they married women then? To do specifically that, the chores! (This is a joke, forcing your wife to do it is dumb)

[@Idkpleasejustletmechangeit]

@@minestar2247 is this why the gay exists? A refusable to do chores?! Abominable!

[@amorphousbob]

the dude describing trafficking as his fantasy was an actual nightmare I had a couple months ago about a cult facility that trains men and women for pairing for mating.

[@muggleintheupsidedown]

You should write that down and make a book out of it

[@Mr.Agateophile.]

@@muggleintheupsidedown It's a common trope in dystopian fiction.

[@Darth_Bateman]

Cult is such a strong word…. We prefer to call them …. “Social groups for Mental optimization.” 😇

[@amorphousbob]

@@Mr.Agateophile. sounds interesting! I don’t think I’ve ever got around to watching stuff like that yet

[@muggleintheupsidedown]

@@Mr.Agateophile. yes, I’ve read some lmao. Doesn’t mean a new one wouldn’t be good🤷🏼‍♀️

[@6ear9er]

One of the creepiest parts of this is the amount of people saying the “cutoff” is 25…which just happens to be the average age where people’s brains are completely developed… yikes

[@Cinnq-Bxnni]

At this point I think it's bcuz they're less easily manipulated :/ what a wonderful world...

[@Dovah_Slayer]

That's horrible theres some many horrible people out there stay safe ladies

[@DreemyDreemz]

As a woman, I have no clue how many times I've discovered pockets in clothes and excitedly yelled "GUYS I HAVE POCKETS" and shown off to any woman in the vicinity (usually my family). It's so simple but so awesome because if you buy from the women's section pockets are rare. Even pants have no pockets or FAKE POCKETS??

[@kerrinbrittain4393]

Omg I did that when my Halloween dress I bought arrived last year. Was trying it on & shrieking. My poor brother thought something was horribly wrong while here I am jumping up & down shrieking 'omg, it has pockets.' I'm 45 & the excitement never goes away lol

[@minestar2247]

Wow, must be hard, I can leave my house without at least 6 prockets

[@FeralFelineFriend]

I bought velvety pants and let me tell you how disappointed I was when I discovered that there were no pockets. How am I supposed to carry things when my hoodie pocket is too shallow.

[@grenade8572]

I couldn't find a solid jeans to ride my bike in the women section. So, I went to the men's. It fit and have GIANT pockets. No way I'm coming back to women's jeans. 😂

[@panda.with.a.pencil]

Right? That comic was the only one where it was like "No that's exactly how girls work.."

[@celticphoenix2579]

"If she menstruates she's an adult" just wow. My mother in law had precocious puberty. Hers started when she was four. Any person who can look at a four year old and think "adult" is not okay with me.

[@Sly-Moose]

🤮🤮🤮

[@ruthfischer7615]

I have heard of newborns being able to menstruate but I don't remember where and I have trouble tracking it. So maybe it is wrong. Nevertheless it is pretty early - if usually a problem created by environment/genes.

[@sleepysera]

​@@ruthfischer7615I mean sure, that kind of early menstruation is obviously abnormal but we don't even need to go to such extreme cases. Even with just the average age of 12, who TF looks at a 12 year old child and says "I'd tap that"?

[@GenderedMess]

Literally! A girl I knew had her first period at SIX. In no way is that an adult, that is a child.

[@Sly-Moose]

@@GenderedMess That reminds me of the Dog Breed sketches by Johny Devaney 😂

[@thelorax616]

The “short gf” one grates me. I am quite smol - 5 foot, right around 100 pounds. People ask me what the worst part is. It’s not scaling shelves at the grocery store. It’s not never being able to see at concerts. It is, in fact, being fetishized by men who LOVE to remind you how easy it’d be to PHYSICALLY HURT YOU 🙄

[@CelestialBunnyPaws]

That... sounds awful. You're emotionally stronger than I am, I'm not a violent person but I would've felt the desire to punch someone if they said that to me.

[@sleepyspacegremlin]

That's fucking awful. I'm only 4 inches taller than you and I didn't know about this.

[@sleeparalysisdemon1164]

That's messed up... Honestly if I was I guy and I have a small gf, I'd do everything in my power to protect the smol girl

[@sleeparalysisdemon1164]

@Cicikus-px2by Ah, so that's why no guys wants to get near me at school, I'm too tall 💀

[@sleeparalysisdemon1164]

@@Cicikus-px2by Do they just think that their girls are les or what- Like do they just constantly fear about their gfs suddenly getting stolen by a random girl?

[@Kiippie]

12:10 scientists have proven childbirth can be up to 100x more painful than a HEARTATTACK. I understand being kicked down there is painful but that's all that it is. Childbirth is 9 months of physical and emotional pain, a horrendous pain of stretching up to 10mm to birth a child the size of a watermelon. IF it isn't upside down otherwise you get CUT open. Followed by having trouble peeing, walking, practically anything while also having so many hormones. And periods are symptoms of pregnancy which means from ages 12ish to 45-50 you're experiences this pain. Only reason women do it more than once is because you get rewarded with a child after. You don't get rewarded for getting kicked in the balls which may hurt for what a week or even less if it wasn't a hard kick

[@RegalHyacinth]

As am amab person, being kicked down there doesn't even hurt for a week, it lasts like a couple hours at most lmao

[@_StrayKidsForever_]

Women actually have hormones released too which makes them think giving birth isn’t as bad as it was

[@NikkiBudders]

I love the sentiment that "when women vote" men are then required to do basic chores and raise their spawn.

[@fedgirl]

chores and child care are not enough i need to get men pregnant

[@LeSpongedeStardust]

@@fedgirl Hell yeah, equality means equal pregnancy!

[@shewolfinubaka]

I know how DARE they be asked to know their children’s names and wash their own socks!!! The AUDACITY!! lol

[@ErezElene]

I DIED at this 😂😂😂​@@fedgirl

[@eulennachathen449]

The picture of the man doing laundry and the women playing cards and smoking is literally that time's reality with the genders swapped. Were men scared to be put in the same place they put women in because they knew how bad it was?

[@sinswept]

“I like to cook and clean for my husband. Don’t tell the feminists!” Feminists: “Good for you, you found what makes you happy - we just want the right to choose without judgement?”

[@therealjammit]

That's similar to an "inverted" marriage where the woman has a job and the man becomes the "house wife" and people make fun of them. Both of these couples are happy doing what they do and it just works for them.

[@sinswept]

@@therealjammit my brother in law keeps telling my sister he wants to be a stay at home husband, but they have yet to win the lottery 😂 If the income of one person supports it and both agree, I say why not! 😊

[@thecauldronkeeper4458]

​@@therealjammit my goal in life is to make enough money on a regular basis to let my husband be a househusband. That's what he wants to do, and I'm not about to not let the man have his dream.

[@Patrick-857]

Said no feminist ever.....

[@therealjammit]

@@thecauldronkeeper4458 I wish you the best of luck.

[@Mori_oop]

I refuse to believe being kicked in the balls, hurts more than being pregnant in general. Not even labour. I paralyzed my mother. I fell asleep on her spinal cord, and she was paralyzed from the waist down until I moved. This is a very common occurrence for mothers and sometimes they don’t just not feel nothing. They feel a ton of pain from it. Epidurals are extremely physically painful when they’re being put in. If your skin is not elastic enough, your baby bump can bleed. The wound from placenta can be the size of an average dinner plate which is 8 inches. You can be kicked so hard by your baby your bladder ruptures. Your baby can kick you so hard it can break ribs or cause a heart attack

[@realnamehidden1314]

And yet plenty of women ask for more children I don’t know any man who asks to be kicked in the balls again 😂

[@chrystallia821]

That’s actually crazy did not know babies could do that

[@StrawberryEV]

The pain Is so intense it often can't be processed by the mother and she remembers it not as bad as it actually was. And it is still often the most painful experience they remember, I also agree that there's no way it is less painful than being kicked anywhere

[@nicholas-dv1mg]

until men can get pregnant and women can have fully functioning balls, we'll never know, there's also the option of scanning the brain before, during, and after it, but that would be hard to really measure pain, so we're stuck with recreations of it.

[@Mori_oop]

@@nicholas-dv1mg we have done brain scans of men being hit in the testicles. And women during birth with electrodes. Not as a partnered study though.

[@underur_bed]

Technically speaking, on rare occasions, some women have periods since birth. So let's reconsider the whole ''If she is old enough to bleed, she is old enough to breed'' and maybe respect women for more than just incubators and maids?

[@bruna7534]

It just creeps me out how more than half of this is basically about pedo fantasies and their self explanations about how they want a teenager, child looking submissive "wife" so badly and how 22y/o is almost too old for them to "want" them

[@bobbythompson6017]

The alphabet Mafia want kids to conet to sex cough cough Jeffrey Marsh

[@ly_sho]

Don't forget the objectification part and the fact it feels as if they want a second mother mixed with a maid 💀

[@bruna7534]

@@ly_sho and "maid" on their heads, and I'm pretty sure what are their reference for "maid" and where it came from. Gross.

[@pissapocalypse]

It's even more disturbing that this mindset isn't uncommon

[@Zookiethecrimecookie]

​@@bobbythompson6017 Catholic church wants children since the dawn of time

[@DarkRose342]

I’m a housewife, and it’s so depressing for me. I like cooking and cleaning, but I like working as well. I'm glad that I went back to school to finish my degree. I’m fortunate that I can stay home and take care of my kids because not many people can. Also, I’m a feminist, and the point of feminism is having women choose what they want to do. Also, it feels like this is the new pick-me-girl attitude. “I’m not like other girls; I like staying home and being a housewife.”

[@lilpoo22]

Omg this is exactly it ! It really look like the new pick me girl vibe for 25+ women.

[@kimineko7856]

My mom was lucky that she was able to stay at home and be a housewife because my dad made enough. She would substitute teach sometimes in our district which moved to babysitting a teacher's child during the workday when my sister and I were teenagers. She always loved children though, so it was a good fit for her. I, on the other had, am not the best with kids, and have a more scientific mindset like my dad. I like that she had the option to do that while I have the option to not do that. At the same point in time, I do find some people to shame a parents that both want to work and have a career while having their child in daycare during the day when they don't have to both work for money. The "how can you still want a career instead of constantly spending time with your child", which unfortunately is normally directed at the woman too. You also find that with other caregiver tasks, like taking care of elderly parents vs having them in assisted living. First considering I had a friend whose grandparents would get violent with her and her mother in old age (but the rest of the family refused to pay for assisted living). Then I also saw my own grandfather get violent with people in his dementia and have medical issues that were beyond our capabilities, I know that assisted living can definitely be the best choice for some people. Considering daycare can also provide interaction with other kids and socialization that might be hard to get at home, why is it so frowned upon? I really don't get anyone that makes someone feel less than, either as a parent or as a woman due to their different life choices, unless there is actual abuse going on.

[@eyesofthecervino3366]

I think there's some of that, but I'll bet a lot of it too is that the workplace is such a hellhole these days, we've got a lot of young women with underdeveloped critical thinking skills jumping to the conclusion that they need to protest being allowed to work and have their own bank accounts (?!?) instead of protesting, I don't know, _the horrible work conditions and poor wages making them so miserable at work in the first place._

[@justanautisticnerd8969]

​​@@eyesofthecervino3366bro, they do protest that thought. Thats stuff about rights to open bank accounts and getting jobs was a thing when inflation wasnt even a problem and that women werent litteraly allowed to work.

[@eyesofthecervino3366]

@@justanautisticnerd8969 I think either I'm misunderstanding you or else you perhaps missed my point. We're talking about women like the lady in the video, who explicitly is complaining about women protesting for the right to work when working is kind of BS and she'd rather stay home and work as a housewife instead. Not that there's anything wrong with preferring to stay home, obviously, but if your entire reason is that you hate the workplace experience, not that you love homemaking, then maybe you should be protesting for better worker's rights instead of complaining about having the right to work in the first place.

[@LizA-me9zp]

I work with kids. A few weeks ago, one of my 1st graders went on a why-don't-my-clothes-have-pockets rant and my coworker and I were just like, preach. It was adorable. The kids are noticing.

[@bobbythompson6017]

What are they going to put in the pockets sand and leftover food?

[@LizA-me9zp]

@@bobbythompson6017 You'd be surprised. One of the boys put worms in his pockets. They were found after the pants had gone through the dryer. The boys use theirs, I'm sure the girls would too.

[@Angel_Kittichik]

@@bobbythompson6017Change? Candy? Cool rocks? Have you never been a kid? Lol

[@ElleriaZer]

​@@Angel_Kittichik Tiny pinecones. Dead bugs. A pretty bead they found on the ground. Pretty sure I'd have put worms in my pockets as a kid if I hadn't been stopped. Kids put weird stuff in their pockets.

[@MythicMachina]

Finally. The generation to overthrow the purse industry.

[@JD-fx9ly]

"Them spots and scars are not cute." They're not supposed to be, I was attacked by a dog, was a victim of a car accident, workpoace injuries, had accidents on my bike and self harmed (I burned myself.) If anything they're a physical representation of my trials and tribulations, I would rather not have that be sexualized. People really do feel the need to say the most vile shit on the Internet just because they can.

[@_StrayKidsForever_]

Fvck…bro…I don’t know what to say. In someone’s eyes, and definitely mine, you’re attractive. Those scars kind of show you suruved a lot and can survive more right?

[@JD-fx9ly]

@@_StrayKidsForever_ There definitely are people out there that are turned on by scars (my ex was!) I'd say the craziest one is the bite/puncture wound in my abdomen (the dog that attacked me was a 140lbs Neo Mastiff, big guy!) I've gotten a range of reactions from "What happened to you!?" to "You look tough!" I wouldn't say I'm the toughest person around, but I've earned my stripes. (LITERALLY!)

[@_StrayKidsForever_]

@@JD-fx9ly your ex was turned on?..by memories of pain? Or do they get turned on bcuz they read too much wqttpad?

[@ScarletShipp-fu4hh]

I believe that scars are beautiful because it shows your strength Edit: I am sex repulsed asexual, and so do not sexualize scars. I just think they show strength

[@Eldrisaur]

“I’d rather cry about onions rather than cry about a job” She’s definitely never done any actual house work cause being a stay at home wife and mom literally is a full time job. With no real break or vacation time. And unless she somehow married a really rich guy, she’s STILL gonna need to get a separate job herself to help pay bills.

[@Insertia_Nameia]

Exactly. Most SAHMs I know now are getting at least a part time, stay at home job of some kind. Especially since covid really changed the landscape and made legitimate stay a home jobs much more readily avaliable. Like one i know she doesn't make much and only works a couple days a week, but with her job they KNOW they got enough for thongs like the electric, gas, and water bills every month. Means his check has farther to go for buying food, paying rent, or just to save up. She also usually has enough left over to put aside for herself if her of the kiddos want something extra or for an emergency like when her car got t-boned and she needed a tow to the repair shop because they used all 4 of their AAA tows for the yr.

[@marymcnamara447]

I would guess she doesn't have kids yet. Cleaning up and cooking is not hard when it's two adults. Things change when you have child(ren) to care for as well. I have done substantially less work after each child was born. It is simply impossible to be a parent/housekeeper/chef/etc when you have young kids.

[@gramathy999]

just goes to show she REALLY doesn't know how to cut onions, if you do it right you don't end up getting crying fumes.

[@randomlyswatching9481]

i bet she didnt was those onions before cutting

[@ViridianFlow]

They certainly don't seem to know how to cook because learning how to cut vegetables is like one of the first things you need to know. She's going to cut her damn fingers off doing it like that and those are bad cuts anyway, they're uneven and not even vertical. Maybe the knife is just terrible and blunt, but if you cook you should also know how to sharpen a knife.

[@Matpit18]

I love how that “don’t tell the feminists” girl doesn’t even realize how contradictory she’s being by saying that she WANTS to be a housewife. Yes, being a housewife can be seen as being more old-fashioned or traditional nowadays, but saying that she WANTS to be a housewife implies that she chose this for herself, which is part of the whole point of feminism. That women should get to CHOOSE how they want to live and not be forced into it.

[@JoshSweetvale]

These days, 'feminism' means machismo for women.

[@Cyrus_T_Laserpunch]

I have seen people who call themselves feminists who get upset if a woman decides to be a housewife, I assume she has experience with those types. They think being a housewife and working to make the person you love happy is demeaning, ironically by saying they should get jobs instead they're telling women what they can and cannot do.

[@boop3nowurded538]

​@Cyrus_T_Laserpunch we call insufferable feminists like that feminazis 🫶

[@ButMadNNW626]

@@Cyrus_T_Laserpunch Just going to say that "people who call themselves feminists" does not necessary equal "people who are actually feminists".

[@Cyrus_T_Laserpunch]

@@ButMadNNW626 That's why I made the distinction in the first place.

[@Hibiscosaurus]

That girl talking about being a house wife annoys me because she clearly seems to think feminism is forcing women to work when it’s quite the opposite. Feminism is about getting different choices, and if yours is to cook and clean that’s perfectly fine, but don’t act like it’s the case for every women. That’s the problem with “tik tok trad wives” because they don’t seem to understand that just because the alternative choice isn’t attractive to them doesn’t mean it’s the case for everyone. Just because you don’t care about having a choice doesn’t mean we should take it away from those who want it. Anyway, great video as always Click !!

[@einienj3281]

They have never googled the definition of feminism, they know only what some angry men have told them what feminism is..

[@myaren0101]

She cant even cut a fuckin onion correctly 😂

[@comedyblastYT]

Not to mention her ability to choose a husband that she would like to serve, her ability to have a whole life in the meantime while she looks for that man, the ability to have her own bank account/credit card/financial profile, the ability to live on her own without a chaperone are all thanks to feminism. Being a housewife isn't the opposite of feminism, housewives also benefit from feminism

[@hmnhntr]

​@@comedyblastYTSee, but realizing any of those things would require knowing literally anything about history and the unique context she's grown up in. She's the kind of person who's basically allergic to that.

[@apolimeow]

“I want to be a HOUSEWIFE and NOBODY will stop me!” Okay, that was always allowed :/

[@Kyropinesis]

the connection between these ideas and AI "art" is not coincidence. the "alpha males" who think women don't deserve rights are the same people who think that artists need to get a real job

[@Niko_Bellic2]

It scares me when I try to think about where the hate started

[@inferiorinferno8859]

As a woman and an artist, they can choke on my acryllic paints.

[@cevatkokbudak6414]

​@@inferiorinferno8859lol

[@absurdengineering]

@@inferiorinferno8859The crustiest from old jars!!

[@erinw.9256]

That dude’s livestock and human trafficking fantasy is literally The Handmaid's Tale but somehow scarier????

[@D3ADB07]

cz its real ( literall skin bones and muscle ) with a WORKING BRAIN probably 30 smth 4chan user whom is stating their *standards* on women

[@kirakookie]

Fr, I hope he at least is on a watch list...

[@x-foliage-x]

i think people whos fantasies could easily also be extremely messed up horror stories are usually cool & shouldnt be grouped in with people who actually want a world like that outside of their imagination just based on their tastes in imaginary sex.

[@erinw.9256]

@@x-foliage-x If the fantasy is for a story that's fine. If the fantasy is what you want the world to be like and it would be harmful, that's not cool.

[@hyperswag506]

It’s Borrasca

[@rukki024]

"Steve, you realize that people literally eat ass" was not a quote I was expecting but I wholeheartedly appreciate

[@TruceLucid]

I had to search way too long for that comment 😂

[@naolucillerandom5280]

People are into that, Steve 😂

[@riveramnell143]

I came to say the same thing. 😂

[@Vampress09]

That guy needs serious mental help.

[@lazykbys]

I half-expected him to say something about the male reproductive organ being used for waste removal as well. If the human body was designed, the designer had a _weird_ sense of humor.

[@probably_not_jim]

"Don't tell the feminists." What, that you can't properly cut an onion? If you wanna be a homemaker, you have to figure out onions, they're in everything.

[@RawbeardX]

I am not sure she held a knife before.

[@lazyperfectionist3978]

These tradfems are the worst homecooks I've ever seen for a bunch of people who put "traditional values" on such a pedestal, her knife "skills" alone were making me anxious

[@rosevalety3408]

Makes me wonder if she cleans like she cooks, cause if she does, this poor guy apparently works his ass off to support his stay-at-home gf/wife and well, let's order something to eat and pay a cleaning-maid XD

[@RavenEsc]

And how to hold a knife. The Irony that she probably wants to be a housewife because she is no good at anything else, and is also probably no good at being a housewife because people just going to eat big chunks of onions for dinner xD

[@funnyusername8635]

This whole onion cutting thing is highlighting the fact that I really need to go get new glasses because I cannot see what she's doing wrong-- it's too blurry!

[@VforVendettas]

Recently, my 6-year-old niece was wearing a cute dress and the first thing she said to me is "It has pockets". Which was adorable and a little sad in a few ways.

[@silverdragonazura]

35:10 “Women denying their husbands sex is considered fornication and grounds for divorce” Does he know what fornication means?

[@gabrielleomaresha-sj1mz]

I’m assuming he doesn’t😭

[@Sleepless_dave]

I don’t think he does lmao

[@Wall_Terwhite]

Can someone educate me pls

[@silverdragonazura]

@@Wall_Terwhite fornication just means sex

[@danielomar9712]

​@@Wall_Terwhite beating le meat

[@lilharm]

“don’t tell the feminists” somebody needs to tell her the point of feminism is supposed to be women’s choice to do what they want, and people who want to force all women out of the home should really only be considered extremist…

[@itsthejavavoid]

'lol dont tell the feminists that i'm being a feminist by choosing what i want to do in life!' like. girlie.

[@Antsaboy94]

Which side of feminism has more influence: the extreme or moderate?

[@Idkpleasejustletmechangeit]

@@Antsaboy94 probably the moderate side, or do you see a giant wave of women being forced to not be housewifes for reasons other than money problems?

[@Antsaboy94]

@@Idkpleasejustletmechangeit No, but I see women being shamed for settling for anything "less" than some masculine role. Also affirmative action.

[@Idkpleasejustletmechangeit]

@@Antsaboy94 just because someone screams a lot does not mean that they have actual influence. It's just some people being stupid on the internet. If I formed a group of 20 people that constantly scream about needing to put shiny stones in your backyard to keep away the aliens, then that wouldn't mean that it has any actual significant influence on the town I live in.

[@snowangelnc]

"Don't tell the feminists that I'm going against them and choosing to be a housewife because it makes me happy and I find it fulfilling. They might come back by saying that the freedom to make that kind of choice is exactly what they spent generations fighting for me to have, and I don't think I could handle that. It might make my head explode."

[@starry.princesss1115]

This is almost exactly what I said when I heard her say that

[@Mojo_3.14]

Exactly, the feminists want the CHOICE. and here's a shocker, they want men to have the same choice too. Being a house husband or house wife is just as valid as being a career man or woman. That's what feminism is, equal rights and opportunities to all genders. DUH. Why don't people get this?

[@ButMadNNW626]

Yep, I was thinking the exact same.

[@SysterYster]

Exactly! XD

[@Veltrosstho]

I'm screaming at her knife skills. For someone who wants to be trad, she needs to fuckin learn how to handle a knife.

[@thefutureisqueer3899]

38:32 My “sex Ed” in America (by a state run school) was them separating boys and girls into different rooms and teaching them individually the basics of puberty. As for actual sex itself, the girls were just told to 1) not have sex, 2) if they did they’d immediately get pregnant and 3) to leave the baby at a fire station or police station instead of in a dumpster

[@WiloKun]

I hate the "if she's old enough to bleed, she's old enough to breed" argument. You think the average age of twelve is bad? The youngest mother in recorded history was only FIVE YEARS OLD. There's no two ways about: that is disgusting! It's all p-word rhetoric and it's flabbergasting how boldly so many people state it.

[@Tokru86]

But yet the saying is completely right from a biological view point. You even prove it with your example of the 5 year old. Morally however, it's a completely different matter....

[@girl1213]

@@Tokru86 One of the many reasons women hate their periods

[@peacefulchaos333]

​@@Tokru86 that's actually untrue, their bodies aren't developed enough to handle a childbirth and they're more likely to face complications than an adult woman

[@lolarichter9415]

Not even acurate biologically. Bleeding DOES NOT MEAN THE BODY IS MATURE ENOUGH TO SURVIVE PREGNANCY ​@Tokru86

[@jaylicious4694]

​@@Tokru86Then explain how a 5 year old is "biologically" fit to sustain a pregnancy mr. or mrs biologist. When the body of the mother is still developing itself. Period isn't an indicator of a woman being fit to be pregnant.

[@llegando-al-umbral]

I love those old suffragette memes because they show that mysoginy will hate on women no matter how reasonable their demands are So many people in the 2010s-2020s say they miss the first and second wave of feminism, because those feminists were "respectable", but back in those days they were mocked to hell and back, when they were asking for the bare minimum

[@tomlxyz]

Yeah, these people just want to steadily erase rights by keep going back. If we reached 2nd wave conditions again they'd probably say something like "see how much better it got with less feminism? Let's go back even more"

[@ering2467]

They were also put in jail.

[@33melonpaws77]

Exactly, anything the victims do to free themselves is something the bullies will mock and criticise - what that particular thing is is besides the point.

[@mandudeguy558]

Ok but the thing is back then they actually made realistic and understandable demands like voting rights and being able to chose what they want to do, now feminism has gotten to a point where people are just assholes to men and scream “kill all men” or smth of the sort.

[@skywoofyt5375]

​@@mandudeguy558that's not feminism, that's just sexism, people are just fucking idiots so they keep calling themselves feminists

[@betsyapples23]

So wait, we’ve heard “women are a financial burden to men”, & also that a woman shouldn’t make more money than a man (because it makes some men insecure). So, are women supposed to be independently financially stable, or are they supposed to not have a paying job, & rely on their spouse’s income?! We just can’t win!🤦🏻‍♀️

[@solli2330]

those men don't respect women. you could be the skinny blonde 18 year old virgin housewife they want and even then they won't really respect you. we "can't win" but that means we might as well just laugh in their faces when they say dumb shit and enforce our boundaries and call out harmful jokes. because they don't respect us anyway and nothing we can do or say could change that. honestly felt really freeing when i realized that.

[@peacefulchaos333]

At this point women aren't supposed to exist apparently because everything we do is wrong 😭

[@realnamehidden1314]

Those are different groups of people saying that. The real world is full of mutually exclusive goals between different groups. That’s can’t possible be news

[@joshuawargo6446]

I don't understand why a man would act like he's "manly" if his masculinity is SO FRAGILE , his girlfriend making more money would make HIM feel less in some way? that's SUPER INSECURE. Not to sound like a lot of guys sometimes in these comments, but honestly , there's a part of me that feels I would kinda LOVE being a stay at home dad. I've had to work all my life, Honestly I really love kids....but I've had bad history dating....and honestly I need to find a better path in life and I know you need to love yourself before you can love someone else. So sadly I've slowly been coming to terms with the fact I just may NOT end up with someone sadly , i know I still have a chance I'm just...not in a good place right now. But even WITH all that....even when I worked, I would NEVER be UPSET that a girl i dated made MORE then me? like FUCK YES? get your bag girl? that just means we as a couple would have MORE MONEY to work TOGETHER with. Unfortunately I hadn't had luck finding that, or just anyone who wanted to try to work as a partnership....so honestly I'm just working on myself for now. But everything you say is ONE HUNDRED percent right. The amount of men in a position like mine ...that want to BLAME IT ON WOMEN , rather than taking ANY form of accountability or rationality in the fact that YOU HAVE to be a worthwhile person...if you want to be with a worthwhile person. and if all you're doing all day is COMPLAINING about women....I'm PRETTY sure a LOT of them arent gonna have MUCH they can talk to you about? That's always been one of the things that blew my mind the most....how men have so much "TROUBLE" talking to women...as though you are some type of different species?!? I dunno TRY TALKING TO THEM LIKE.....hmmm here's an idea.... LIKE ANOTHER HUMAN WITH INTERESTS AND HOBBIES AND IDEAS ?! 🤦‍♂🤦‍♂ I dont know Imma stop rambling but just....i feel men and women are practically at war with each other sometimes, and i always feel we always do best when we work together...its just so frustrating

[@Null-value]

No no, you’re supposed to be financially dependent on him AND made to feel like you’re a burden on him. That way you can’t leave and can be easily pressured into doing anything he wants. These people don’t want a wife, they want a slave they can fuck.

[@Gojo_miku]

5:07 it's kinda ironic that feminism is the reason that she has the choice to choose whether to work or stay at home, it's also the reason why she can share her opinion on the internet and talk freely

[@kirsty735]

I think the problem with sex ed in schools is the fact the class is often separated between boys and girls. The male teachers explain to the boys details about male pubity, male contraception, etc. and the female teachers do the same with the girls. You are often not given the opportunity to learn about the experiences of the opposite sex as you are completely separated. I understand it's done so people feel more comfortable asking questions without fear of judgement, but they could keep the class separate and still teach about both sexes. It's important to learn about your own body and what to expect, but I think it's also very important for teenagers to learn about the experiences of their peers too. A lot of kids don't grow up in a household where they'd be comfortable talking to their parents about this so instead they ask their friends or rely on adult videos to 'educate' them on the opposite sex.

[@ballorawan7672]

This!!! I agree wholeheartedly I remember having this conversation with my lady friends about this and how a lot of guys misinterperate women's anatomy which is hilarious and terrifying I just wished that someone would beable to teach not only boys but girls as well about these stuff

[@kimineko7856]

You can also have people that just seem to be able to purposefully forget or black out about what sex is. I have a slightly older sister, and we both went to the same school and read the same books. I know that she had sex ed in junior high, had the talk with my parents and read fantasy books that weren't shy about sex. She still didn't understand where the parts actually went during sex (as in entering, not sure how youtube treats this type of talk) while she was in late high school. Her fellow classmates were worried about me too since they thought it was a family/parents thing, but no, it was just her. It was even worse because she was a part of the theater/music wing group in school, which doesn't tend to be vague about sex if it comes up in their conversations. It is amazing what people can decide what to not know when they don't want to know.

[@kirsty735]

@@ballorawan7672 Absolutely, it shouldn't be a taboo topic to learn about the opposite sex. I'm autistic so following social norms has never been my strong suit, but I still remember in highschool when we did swimming in PE i had my period one week and had bad cramps and wasn't going to be able to swim that day. I just put my hand up in front of the class and said "I'm sorry, I've got my period and the cramps are really bad so I won't be able to swim this week." The teacher looked like she saw a ghost and pulled me to the side saying I shouldn't just say that in front of the entire class. I was so confused as to what the problem was and why I was meant to be embarrassed. Later that day one of my male classmates came up and wanted to ask me some questions if I was comfortable with it. He was genuinely asking why girls on their period never seem to do swimming lessons. We sat down and chatted about it and he was really thankful at the end as he said he never knew who to ask about these things. It's definitely something that has stuck with me in life.

[@katchan228]

I guess my school system was more detailed back in the 2000s lol In 5th grade before the end of the school year they did separate us into boys and girls and we watched a VHS on the roll in TV. And we watched the girls portion first, went through the "goodie" bags and how to properly use em (no tampons they left that for parents). And then 6th grade nothing but then in 7th grade they had sex ed and it was a mix of boys and girls, and it was a very detailed class especially when they send us him with a parent permission slip to be signed. I remember the un censored photos of both genitalia that have "x" disease/infection. That was an interesting day in class. And another time was child birth 1st a medical school lecture type video and then the 2nd one with a slip was an actual child birth. Cause we had a guy that was assigned to the cluster of desk I was at, he looked at us girls and said ouch 😳😆 thankfully only one person fell sick and no parent complained either

[@charis6311]

This is very puzzling to me because where I live (Germany) sex-ed isn't taught in separate classes. Not to say it is perfect over here, btw, but this is a non-issue - of course both genders and anything in between should know about both sides of the equation!

[@acetheenby1475]

Honestly, both the toilet seat and the toilet cover should be down after everyone goes, so that when you flush, you don't get that spray over EVERY surface in your bathroom.

[@Broeckchen]

It sprays up and out up to 12m around the toilet, so yup.

[@katta309]

This! I’ve seen so many people of both genders just flush their toilet without closing it and then they just have po op bacteria all over their bathroom

[@minestar2247]

Simple cleanliness

[@Broeckchen]

@@AIHumanEquality All toilets spray. It's usually not the thick droplets of a water bottle, but just a cloud of bacteria imperceptible on the macro level. I really recommend researching this a little. The agitation of the wastewater from the flush does send that little puff out and if it isn't stopped by the toilet lid, it quickly expands pretty far. Even with the lid down, there's still an uncomfortably big radius there, but it's a fraction of the 12m I've repeatedly seen cited without. This is also one of the many reasons why washing your hands after your business is so important even if you never touched yourself down there throughout it. Also, just as a bonus thing for everyone reading this: disinfect your phone regularly I beg you!

[@masterjunko]

@@Broeckchen The germaphobe in me is absolutely horrified. I never liked touching the toilet lid because it grossed me out to do so but tha is far far worse.

[@lostinmymind8147]

Every cis man who downplays the pain of periods and birth should be put on period/ birth pain simulators once in their life. And not just the pain from the simulator, no. They should be expected to go about their day and act totally fine.

[@AragornElessar]

Yes! It would be so neat if anyone with uterus pain could send their symptoms to those cis men.

[@wandelndeslexikon1614]

Oh yes! The backpain, being on the edge to vomit just because you can smell things, the headache, the urge to shove chocolate into yourself... all of it on top of the cramps and the Niagara falls between your legs. 😒😑

[@justaperson4656]

Didn't the try guys do that? With like, beet juice "blood" and everything? As a transmasc, it made me laugh so much

[@Kiyokori]

Not just cis men, everyone in general. I've seen even woman and trans look down at this type of pain

[@naomikatepp]

Some women look down on it if they haven’t had a brutal Period. My mom had the most painless basic period. She had a couple of weird symptoms like she did sneeze a lot, while she was on hers, and it was ridiculously irregular, but it was always three days long, almost no cramps, and low likelihood of leaks. And here I am getting mine at 12 and I have crippling cramps for the better part of two weeks, the week preceding, and then the week of. I have a smorgasbord of obnoxious symptoms, including migraines, nausea, back pain, sneezes, and more. Honestly, the menu of potential PMS symptoms is ludicrous, and each time I get anywhere from 2 to 10 of them, but I never know which ones are going to hit. She had so little sympathy until she had a Proto menopause from chemo and then her cycle came back and she had all the cramps and pain and more. She flat out, apologized for not realizing or understanding how much worse than hers they could be.

[@Froggsroxx]

4:35 her knife handling is terrifying, thats how you loose a fingertip. Always curl your fingers so the side of the blade is against your knuckles!!

[@Aldurtz]

Many men forget how often women have something slipped into their drinks. Years ago, I was with a buddy at a bar and these two girls came up to us asking if they could hang around and leave their drink at our table because it tasted funny when they got it. They stayed with us for a while, we chitchatted and after some time they said goodbye, my friend took a sip of their drink and yes, it absolutely tasted off. About ten minutes later my friend and I were leaving and he started behaving oddly, I took him home and the next day he told me how he had trouble sleeping, we suspected the drink was probably laced with some G based on his behavior. Years later I was at another bar with some friends, and a girl I thought was part of my friend's group passed me a drink (did not learn until the day after it was a random girl that hung around our group all night) I didn't think much of it, had the drink... 20 min later I was half-consciously dancing shirtless in between a group of strangers getting groped, my friend pulled me aside and took me home, I could barely walk on my own, the smell of food made me wanna puke, I was restless and semi-conscious, I spent the night fighting an anxiety attack and trying to sleep it off. Lesson of the story, always pour your own drinks and have a buddy. You may not have the intention of getting blackout drunk, but you never know who can see you as a potential victim.

[@coco-kl3xr]

ikr it's scary it is better to have someone while clubbing or partying and never drink anything a stranger gives you buying your own edible is better

[@kaelin_cherise]

I've heard a good rule of thumb is always watch your drinks being made.

[@pancakelord83]

I'm really sorry that happened to you. It really sucks that you had that experience and I hope you've recovered okay. And to anyone who needs to hear this: be safe out there! Once someone has already slipped you something you're going to be really dependent on the kindness of others to stay safe. Trust me, it's wild how much it can mess with you and your perception without you even really knowing. TW for this last part (mention of drugging and assault): I had a similar experience a few years ago just after I turned 18 and unfortunately the friend I was with did not get me home despite noticing I was very not-okay. I ended up going home with a stranger because I was scared of getting lost if I tried to get home on my own and he offered to get us a cab so I could sleep over at his place. I literally just thought he was being kind. But yeahhh that did not go well at all. I also got groped on the dance floor that same night and some guy pulled my shirt off (i barely noticed but it's one of the last things i remember before being in that other dude's apartment). I only had two gin&tonics that night which usually wouldn't even get me tipsy but I was STUMBLING around, according to people who were there.

[@Aldurtz]

@@pancakelord83 thanks for your kind words, I’m still in therapy and it comes up in my support group. I really feel sorry to hear about what you went through, you are not alone. It is a horrible experience, how people will use false kindness to take advantage of others really takes a toll. In my case that was the first time I got laced, but at the time it didn’t quite sink in how bad things were. TW: SA, substances and child ab I’m a very average looking brown gay man born in the early nineties, and got into the adult stuff really early in life (by age 14 I’d had all my firsts both with other teens and adults and an early introduction to alcohol). So I got kinda messed up with feeling way too confident in really messed up situations. I would usually be the one looking out for less experienced kids I met at parties, specially when someone they didn’t know offered them rides. My friend’s story happened when we were 18 (the legal age in our country). I was about 20 the first time I got laced. The second time, I got r worded by a guy I met on Grindr who had me over for a movie and some drinks, two glasses of wine and I was really out of it dissociating from my body. I had already been SA’d and R’d before, so I didn’t think much of it, I would have probably slept with him without the drugs tbh. When I was about 26 I got something put on my drink again, I guess they didn’t account for the fact that I was already dealing with substance abuse so it didn’t have much of an effect on me and I could absolutely tell it wasn’t even the good stuff. Six years latter, I’m trying to stay clean, go to therapy and support groups. Trying to get my self back together. I spend from three months to a year clean, struggle back, and spend another three months clean. I haven’t worked in over a year, I burned out after I found myself consistently landing high-demand jobs that threw me back into a culture of alcohol and parties. And since I got paid pretty well for my country, age and position I’d end up right where I started (for the life of me, I’ve never been able to figure out how my AuDHD ass always gets sorted into high paying sales roles or how I’ve had my family think I only struggle alcohol for as long as I have). Sorry to be a downer, wish my story was more up lifting. Guess a good thing is I’m currently in training to become a Sex Ed counselor. Figured my experience could help others and it has helped me to stay clean thinking about the good I could do.

[@pancakelord83]

@@Aldurtz I'm happy to hear that you're in therapy and working on leaving behind your addiction

[@octochan]

I think the thing about these tradwife types is that for them, woman = married/cooking/cleaning/babymaking/parenting/etc., and this idea of womanhood is their whole personality. So when you suggest that "hey, maybe being a woman isn't tied to all these things", they interpret that as "THIS IS A PERSONAL ATTACK ON ME AND EVERYTHING I VALUE"

[@runicspyder]

THIS 10000% THIS

[@toxiczombiewolf5692]

Funny thing these men want a trad wife but can barely work themselves is the funniest part about the tradwife tred?

[@minestar2247]

I think i can relate to That, because I use similar logic for other thing

[@anthill1510]

They don`t believe anything they say. They are business women. You can make a lot of money on TikTok and they are making bank off of this 1950`s scharade. I actually saw a video where someone followed the life of such a tradwife before she became a tradwife. She tried to get into the music business, acting, have Tiktok channels with different topics, none of it worked. Than she married, changed her image and became a "tradwife" which was when her carreer in entertainment finally took off and now she is a star like she always wanted to be. That`s what this actually is. They have a business. They either do all the work themselves or more often they employ people for planning out videos, setting up the cameras, editing videos. They work as a social media influencer, making money. They are not "mom and housewife."

[@DaemonMunkir]

"Don't tell the feminists" Ma'am feminism is about getting to choose what you want and not being expected or forced into one or another.

[@juliac2687]

Exactly! Please do tell the feminists! We'll be happy that you chose what makes you happy ❤

[@veniii000]

9:39 theres actually a medical condition called precocious puberty "A condition in which a child's body begins changing into that of an adult too soon" There are some people who have started menstruating at just 6 years old, not to mention the youngest mother was 5 years old. Just because she bleeds does NOT mean she is an adult.

[@cyqur1436]

9:45 I got my first period when I was 8 and I was praised for it. PRAISED. My mother was practically singing how I got my first period. She told me "Welcome to womanhood!" Ma'am my age wasn't even in double digits. Jokes on her, I'm no longer a girl

[@girl1213]

That's why I am so glad the first thing my mother said to me when she saw my bloody underwear and bloody bed sheets was, "Don't worry, I'll help you clean it up." She knew this wasn't really a thing to be "praised" about since, while natural, it really isn't pleasant. It's embarrassing, messy and sometimes even scary even when you do know what it is. My first few times, she was right there teaching me how to cope, then she followed me into the embarrassing OBGYN appointments when the flow showed signs of amoralities and we learned I had menorrhagia. 'Horray' indeed. Mom was right when she told me, "Periods are a Bitch." I'm still a woman, but I no longer bleed and I'm *waay* "too young" to have menopause.

[@virgil714]

Ugh I'm so sorry for you. My mom told me I should be flattered that a dude tried to convince me to cheat on my partner with him. I was ,14, he was 17. I kicked him in the nuts.

[@Echo_Rin]

I was 12. When did a doctor take me seriously? 19. I'm also not a girl anymore lol

[@Trivial_Whim]

For half a second I read this and sleep deprivation had me think you were agreeing with her. Like 'I'm now a woman' sort of thing. Ugh, I'm disgusted with myself. Anyway, congratulations. Hope you also got away from everything else that attitude implies.

[@-mokerly-5984]

​@@girl1213Sorry to be a comma f*cker (as we call volunteer grammar auditors in Finland) but I think autocorrect got to ya there, assuming you meant to say 'abnormalities' instead of 'amoralities'. (Of course, if your flow was off playing poker with your parents' savings and stealing candy from little kids, I take it all back.)

[@Magis_Ghast]

It's not that anti-feminism memes have come full circle, they just never stopped. We're still dealing with the same angry men.

[@francesca5295]

and the fact that the most common ways to argue against it are and always has been, insulting the appearance or hold the partner to his responsibility of fatherhood is just incredible ironic, funny and sad at the same time.

[@blueStarKitt7924]

​@@francesca5295🤔🤔🤔

[@minestar2247]

Ahh, generational hate, sucks that I'm in a place that hates the west too much to realise that

[@minestar2247]

@@RawbeardX Yeah, they've probably been trying to get their right to vote since the patriarchy was invented

[@blueStarKitt7924]

@@minestar2247 Yes. 🤷

[@amanda021174]

For real! Here in the "Bible Belt" of Northeast Texas. Men will NOT even consider dating a women who can't have children. For example, there was this dude who started talking to me at the gym. The man is 57 years old. Here is that conversation. Guy - "Oh honey, you are a doll. You can't be over 35. That is a little too old for my taste, but I would make an exception for you." Me - ( laughing my head off) "Wait a minute, how old are you?" Guy - "Sweetheart, I am a very active 57 year old. Me - "& 35 is too old? Sir, I'm 49. (Dude was mortified!) Guy - I'm sorry sweetie, but you are just too old for my taste. As he was walking away, my bestie & I could not stop laughing!

[@Elizahmations]

Why is he 57 and still single??

[@familykruglov2574]

Because of that attitude

[@mandudeguy558]

And because of those unrealistic expectations

[@NikkiBudders]

@@Elizahmations it's truly a mystery...

[@FrogoisloveFrogoislife]

@@Elizahmationsall that info is in the comment 😀

[@Rosie_Posie13]

2:32 this just reminds me of a horror movie called Level 16 where girls are raised to be perfect and clean so they can be sold as skin suits to women who are unhappy with their bodies.

[@manic_girl]

Who’s gonna tell her that feminism is supporting all women, including homemakers

[@lillyisaacs2929]

Like honestly. These people think feminism is about women superiority when we haven't hit equality yet 😭😂

[@QueenOfTheZombieApocalypse]

Not the podcasters and politicians she’s probably getting those ideas from unfortunately.

[@MikePhantom]

for every of your hypothetical feminists that does this i present you 5 instances of thousands that screech if a women publicly stated it they aim to be a housewife

[@k9_kadaver]

​@@MikePhantombro thought he did something 💀💀

[@llynxfyre]

​@MikePhantom alright. Do it. Give numbers.

[@samsam_smallthing]

Just realised something about myself, when I hear the expression “There’s plenty of fish in the sea” I imagine a fish searching for another fish to love and not a fishermen. I mean fishermen are searching for fish to eat or the take one and then put it back in the water, that’s not very romantic. I love being a simple and lovely mind :)

[@doyuru_14]

Wait, it's not like that??? I've been thinking my whole life that it is like a cute fish love story, not about fishing wtf

[@failtronic2646]

@@doyuru_14 yeah nope. definitely about fishing. same reasons as to why you sometimes hear someone call their SO a "catch"

[@cutieshark]

WAIT ITS NOT LIKE THAT??? HUH??????

[@MostlyGhosted]

I imagine fishes swimming around together in the sea!

[@maddiethesmall]

My entire life and understanding of being has been utterly suplexed… I thought if there were plenty of fish in the sea… therefore I was looking for a fish to date… then I’d aLSO BE A FISH?!?!?! WHY WOULD I WANT TO SMOOCH A FISH IF I WEREN’T ALSO A FISH??? what aRE FISHERMEN DOING WITH THEIR FISH?!?!?!

[@CharlieApples]

For those wondering what darning is, it’s a type of labor-intensive repair stitching in which you basically create new cloth by hand weaving it into existing fabric. It is still an existing art in modern times, and has been kept alive solely by women who love to sew and embroider either as a hobby or a side profession. *It takes ages to properly darn anything.*

[@grenade8572]

So, darning is doing patchwork, or did I miss something?

[@CharlieApples]

@@grenade8572 It’s similar, except instead of using scraps of fabric and sewing it on, you’re actually weaving new fabric by criss-crossing thread over a hole you want to mend. It like building a bridge of thread across the gap.

[@joebloe4734]

@@CharlieApples I know this word from the song Eleanor Rigby, but never was sure what it meant. Thanks!

[@KarmasAB123]

@@joebloe4734 I thought Father Mackenzie was just hanging his socks. Learn something new every day.

[@kwarra-an]

A very useful skill to learn! It's kept some of my socks in perfect condition for more than a decade.

[@Maya_hee]

"I don't understand why women wanted to work" To avoid being financially abused and to not be trapped in an abusive marriage with literally zero support or means to survive in order to leave the marriage and when the husband abandoned their wives, they would have the financial prospects to support themselves and their children, to survive in an increasingly bad growing economy or risk being homeless, you know, like, just a thought?

[@erviatangerine5108]

Yes! I can respect a tradwife lifestyle, but I would never have a courage to trust my financial stability to another person. My dad was a dr*g addict who eventually went to prison, I was raised by my mother and grandmother. For me being financially independent is essential, I would be anxious af If I wasn't.

[@rizuzu]

I see your point but I think with having that kind of mindset is kinda the same as not trusting your spouse, because a relationship must have a trust on each other side, it's just my opinion though, maybe some women have trust issues or trauma with relationship I get that too, so I think maybe instead of that maybe as two people in a relationship they should talk this out, because communication is also the key to trust and prevent miscommunication

[@chantehayward6225]

30:07 I saw a girl take 8 shots of tequila and go on to talk about bio-mechanics no problem. That same girl the next time I saw her(about 2 weeks later) was wobbly and incomprehensible after 2/3 a margarita. Guess which time she was nearly taken advantage of and drugged. Just because the girl looks drunk, doesn't mean she is, she could be drugged and that is why you get asked to prove a connection to the girl.

[@youreasimp5232]

damn, i hope she's ok now :( that must be hell

[@chantehayward6225]

@@youreasimp5232 not to worry, I got people involved. No way was I letting her out of my sight.

[@takki2747]

Good to know, that those types of controls will be mandatory. Do I need to bring my passage check A38 to the control?

[@kogorun]

@takki2747 Yes. Get used to it.

[@takki2747]

@@kogorun Well, I guess I'll better get legal insurance then...

[@yesanameirequested1682]

I do not understand people who say: "Getting kicked in the nads is more painful than pushing out a literal fetus through a gap that literally does not look like a fetus can be pushed through, but yet it can, cause biology is weird." Also, why don't you try hanging around a pregnant person and not be like your father?

[@sleepysera]

​@sh4dysh4deWait what, no you don't 😅 Bones generally move during birth to make room for the baby, but breaking is NOT the norm, it happens in like 1/1000 women. Sure, that means it's "pretty common" if you consider how many humans exist, but it's absolutely not a requirement or anything, or even something that you could say happens to "most" women 😅

[@GenderedMess]

Literally, plus all the god damn complications! For example, your anus and vag could literally become one and tear. Shits painful!

[@LeBatteur]

Technically it can’t fit through- that’s why tearing is so common, and can be so severe.

[@tardybloomer]

it’s time we showed them mothers giving birth. maybe then they’d get it lol

[@maritimponi]

Specifically because both experiences tend to be mutually exclusive...

[@Senchilla]

It feels weird that a man is complaining about a vagina being too close to the anus when the penis ejaculates and urinates from the same hole. Imagine if those with a vagina decided penises couldn't ever ejaculate inside them because residual urine comes out too. (Which is arguably grosser than simply having two orifices near each other.) I'm asexual though, so I just think it's all pretty strange to begin with.

[@marieo305]

If you can't handle my an4s and 🐱 being that close to each other, you need to find yourself an inflatable.

[@Senchilla]

@@marieo305 I think you might be confused. I have no issue with people's genitalia or their proximity and am not interested in intimacy, let alone with an inflatable.

[@MauMautz]

​@@Senchilla I think the comment agreed with you. The men who think that the kitty and the butt are too close to each other, they should get an inflatable...

[@Lara-mx4cd]

Also I bet that person eats eggs and guess what? Birds have a cloaka where the egg actually passes through the same "hole" as urine and feces

[@abigailr.9601]

FOR REAL (I’m asexual too)

[@themangoartificer882]

People be crazy, practically framing the plot of "the handmaid's tale" like a good thing.

[@pizzacatred-velvet9952]

ikr that first fantasy was giving handmaid's tale vibes

[@karubaki_nag_6239]

9:41 As a girl who got her periods at 8 and was pretty much objectified by several older relatives and random old men, this brought back horrible memories. At 8, I wasn't aware that, I was being objectified and therefore, have been felt up and groped without consent. Nevermind the disgusting stuff I've been told, even as a kid. Also, when I say older relatives, i mean not just the gross male relatives, but also their wives who defend their gross behavior.

[@Micah_silly]

​​@@nicholas-dv1mgwhy are defending people who Touch or are being gross to a CHILD!

[@nicholas-dv1mg]

@@Micah_silly why do you think that?

[@infinixuty]

​@@Micah_silly you might want to read that person's comment again...

[@cybernetik.]

⁠@@Micah_silly their comment probably actually meant “you should blame your parents” but worded very weirdly

[@AnEmu404]

@@infinixutydude, putting all the blame on the parents instead of all the other culpable adults IS not blaming the people that need to be blamed. Surely the parents were at fault too, but these things are typically nuanced and multiple people will be at fault. And to the OP, I hope you’re doing okay now, going through that so young is horrific.

[@SysterYster]

I find it funny, like with that first girl "Don't tell the feminists". You can totally be a home wife and still be feminist. As long as it was your choice to be a home wife, and you still have the right to get your education, and equal treatment in society, and equal pay for equal jobs if you chose to work. Being home wife and feminist are not necessarily in opposition. It's when you try to force it that every woman should be home wife it becomes a problem. Why is this hard to grasp?

[@complainer406]

It also becomes a problem when they try to force it on their daughters. They also deserve to make their own choices

[@realnamehidden1314]

Because groups are more commonly than not defined by their loudest and most obnoxious followers. And the loud and obnoxious followers of feminism aren’t fans of traditional lives. Just go to these women’s comment sections and you’ll find feminists complaining about what they’re doing.

[@Seiena]

No joke, take a women in diversity class in California. It was scary. It took taking that class to make me finally say I am feminist and I am against Militant feminism, because a man can be feminist too. The women in that class sounded like women's sufferegette posters. It was wierd they were acting EXACTLY like how the posters said they would and it was stupid.

[@dulcecitarisitas3504]

@@Seiena They really give a bad name to feminism and are sexist :(

[@kevannpankhurst]

Anyone who thinks short girls must be submissive has never met a chihuahua. Sometimes little things have a whooooole lotta ferocity.

[@wolffeathers1]

Or almost every short girl I've ever known

[@ilanarhian]

I’m a short woman…. Submissive? No! 😂😂😂

[@FryingWren]

To quote a former workmate: "My grandma used to warn me about short women, because all their rage is crammed into a vessel to small to contain it." Said to me, a short woman.

[@HalfWolf2]

My mom can attest, her and her truck-bat

[@vxicepickxv]

Anybody who thinks short girks must be submissive has never met a Latina grandmother.

[@election-time-news]

10:10 common mistake: sexual ideas are not "needs". They are "wants".

[@J_Somin95]

YESSSSSS,SAY IT LOUDERRR

[@election-time-news]

@@J_Somin95 SEXUAL IDEAS ARE NOT NEEDS, THEY ARE DESIRES 🗣️🔥

[@ErisApplebottom]

10:00 id love to see the "if she menstrates shes an adult" people have a conversation with the "18 is too young to transition" crowd

[@autumnalHalcyon]

Unfortunately they're the same people. :T

[@ErisApplebottom]

@@autumnalHalcyon i was afraid of that 😮‍💨

[@enravotaboyadjiev7466]

It's almost like these people have an agenda... It's almost like all their accusations are actually confessions...

[@Gaukilicious]

😭noooo

[@darkstarr984]

Unfortunately they’re often in the same crowd

[@AngryReptileKeeper]

With the suffrage memes, I can't help but notice that they all imply women becoming equal members of society is bad for men because they' might actually have to be involved with their household and family- and they thought that was unreasonable. I hate to say it, but here we are all these years later, women legally equal in society, and the average man STILL thinks he deserves husband/father of the year just for bringing home a paycheck while his wife works a full-time job only to come home to a second one. There's a reason the term "married single mom" exists.

[@MostlyGhosted]

They have more self love than me!

[@gasterg.continent3118]

As a wise person once said, to a life lived with superiority and exclusivity, equality feels like oppression

[@LaserBread]

Their absurd matriarchy scenarios are _one planck length_ away from connecting to how fucking stupid patriarchy is.

[@badart3204]

At least the early 1900’s guys had the excuse of backbreaking labor 60 hours a week with 0 safety equipment or break requirements. That’s probably why they didn’t want to do domestic stuff. Modern day has no excuse

[@Ks_StayC]

There's nothing wrong with wanting to be a housewife, but please, stop torturing that poor onion 😭

[@db_524]

True. Also, as a half Latina who use onions as an ingredient and use spices that contain onions for recipes, I was sobbing over the onion torture. That knife was also blunt too. Scary stuff.

[@theironrubberduck]

Me when I attempt to multitask

[@dendritic_cell]

"If she menstruates, she's an adult." As someone who got their period at 9, that is a horrifying idea.

[@X3Kattiyy]

Real

[@user-od9sf1wi8l]

some girls get theirs at 8, which is horrifying knowing other girls younger than me, have to put up with it, and the whole "if she's had her period already, she's a woman and needs to have kids as soon as it starts." is absolutely BS. it's creepy asf and just weird.

[@inferiorinferno8859]

I knew a girl who also had a period at that age and had a C cup when she was only 12. It definitely affected her. I personally had just turnt 12 and immediately had a regular cycle. Even at that age, it sounds horrifying to me. I was still in my last year of freaking elementary school as I'm from the Netherlands which has a similar school system to Brittain with us just having secondary school when you're about 11/12 years old. No elementary schooler is an adult!

[@AnalogMachine]

If you want to be even more horrified, mine tried to start at 6. I had to get medical intervention to stop that but yeah. Horrifying, no?

[@eyelash-bug]

@@AnalogMachine omg are you okay?? i got mine at 8 and i thought that was crazy, but 7 and under is a medical issue. do you know what could have caused it? that's terrible omg..

[@loka7783]

"Women shouldn't argue..." A common vow during marriage is "to protect." If a woman doesn't argue with me when I am about to do something stupid then how will I know and she will have violated her vow.

[@LunaWitcherArt]

That's already two levels of thinking deeper than these people can muster

[@FelixsCorner]

the 'kids don't menstruate' one SHOCKED me. I'm AFAB, and I got my first period when I was a whole 11 years old. Ah yes, give me the booze, Rick, I'm an ADULT now, see!

[@HelluvaSwiftie]

I was 9

[@GenderedMess]

Literally, I was 10 when I first got mine. Totally an adult that can make mature decisions!

[@dorothyallspice1862]

I was 12! I didn’t “become a woman”, I was still a kid!!

[@nineblackgoats]

I got mine on my 10th birthday, but oddly enough, in spite of that whole suffragette business, I still didn't get to vote. Could it be because I was still a child? 🤯 /s

[@naolucillerandom5280]

I got it at 10, barely knew how to socialize 😂

[@charchar635]

Onion girl don't get it like feminism ain't about getting women out of the kitchen it's about giving women the option to get out You don't have to do anything you don't want to That's the whole point!

[@krbthewitch]

The onion fumes must have affected her critical thinking skills.

[@ErisApplebottom]

She also dont know how to cut onions. Its terrifying 😳

[@wandauriel]

@@ErisApplebottom this exactly 😨

[@Ishlacorrin]

@@ErisApplebottom I was expecting her to lose a finger any second there!

[@juliaboskamp9666]

@Ishlacorrin yeah i was too, like damm i'm disabled but even i can cut a onion better then her

[@seek9903]

someone told me "if she starts having periods and tummy hurts, shes an adult" i- i was 9 💀 i was 9 when i had my first period 💀💀

[@aaliyah7792]

That person doesn't know what an adult is. Also, I feel you. I got my first period when I was 11. I still had baby fat on my face and wasn't even 5ft yet and was super immature, ya know, as a child that age is.

[@tdelioncourt1268]

oh they know@@aaliyah7792they know what they are doing, excusing their deviant thoughts towards children

[@J_Somin95]

I was 10 when I had my first period and I was never educated properly in those kind of topics,so I know how you feel girl

[@louie5256]

I was...8 💀

[@stormystormstorms]

I was also 9 💀

[@DizzyedUpGirl]

"I love to cook and clean" Then do that. If thats what makes YOU happy. If youre doing it under free will and not under distress, then go for it. Thats feminism. But also, she has Amberlynn Reid level cutting skills and I'm scared.

[@Feynix4]

Omfg was not expecting to see an Amberlynn reference in the comment section of a click video. Have to agree tho

[@angelinaduganNy]

Was not expecteeeeeen a Gorl World comment.😂😂🌝😂🌝

[@jerrimenard3092]

They have choppers that all you do is press the handle down and onions go into a little cube at the bottom. A trip to Ross Dress for Less could change her life. Also, choosing to be a housewife is feminism in action. Just don't pick for other people.

[@staying_silent]

The hymen argument always gets me. Like you should not be getting intimate if you don't even know how that stuff works.

[@ToeTickler-q9s]

Fr, like do they not know that your hymen can rip from other daily activities other than sex

[@LynaLoopS]

@@ToeTickler-q9s hymens don't really rip, they wear off, it's a piece of skin, it's foldable. I'm sorry I don't know how to explain in English, but many science articles avaiblable for free on the Internet explain what the hymen is.

[@ppenmudera4687]

"If you want to catch a fish, ask the fisherman" is stupid not only because like you said in the video women aren't fish, but also because the purpose of dating isn't to kill your date and eat them. This may come as a surprise to the incels reading this, but women also like having relationships, and they like seeing other women in happy relationships too. Mindblowing stuff, I know

[@durabelle]

For some of those guys it probably IS the purpose though. Or catch and release. In either case I'd rather avoid any guy comparing me to a fish.

[@mischmaZOOO]

The analogy is also bad because he obviously knows nothing about fishing. The fisherman knows the fish, he knows where they like to be, knows what they like to eat, knows what they find attractive. He waits for hours until the fish voluntarily comes to him and snaps up his offer. If a fisherman had the opportunity to get ten good pieces of advice on how to catch fish from a FISH, hell yeah, he would listen! 😅

[@galaxychill9578]

as a wise gal on TikTok said, “if a woman is an analogy to you, you’re probably not ready to be talking to a woman.”

[@eyesofthecervino3366]

Also, why would you blindly accept that advice from a fisherman? Why would you not consider the possibility he's in competition with you, he doesn't benefit from you catching fish?

[@mischmaZOOO]

@@eyesofthecervino3366 Really good point! I hadn't even thought of that 😱

[@shreyageorge9942]

The worlds youngest mother was a 5 year old child , she had a condition causing extremely early period. I myself got my first period at 9 years old so any man that says " kids dont menstruate" " if shes old enough to bleed then shes old enough to breed" are absolute monsters

[@WobblesandBean]

23:10 LOL oh, no. Honey, no. I'm a zoologist and former vet student, so trust me when I say that dogs are no better at judging character than a potato. A certain infamous German in the 40s had dogs who adored him. So did Dennis Nilsen. My abusive ex had a dog too, she loved him and hated me. Which leads into my next point: they might pick up on if their owner hates a person, and will react based solely on that, but it has nothing to do with the quality of that person's character.

[@rookideetrainer1635]

well they are honest at least? They don't hold back if they don't like you... But yeah, don't rely on animals to vibe check for you; they might like you as a person because you treat them well, but that doesn't mean you treat people well... I had a friend who had an amazing bond with his cat/kitten to the point he could train her to do tricks; he still abandoned me without a word when things got tough when he knew how I reacted to that type of thing and I was doing my best to show my support for him I was left depressed for months, since I thought of him as my best friend and my period was completely thrown off from stress to the point it was absent for 2 months after I finally started feeling okay again

[@lildemonchan7690]

One of the things I thought of while watching that part about the dogs was that a lot of other women that I am acquainted with who specifically are afraid of getting “S.A.ed” get a “scary looking” dog for the very reason that the “creepy-dude-who-made-the-comment-we-see-in-the-video” doesn't like women having big dogs. A lot of people I know will get “scarier-looking” dogs so that any creeps will see the dog and hopefully leave them alone because of the potential that the dog may sense their owner's discomfort and protect their owner as a result. So in the case of the video, if any man like the creepy commenter that we see featured is scared of a big dog and isn't willing to talk to the owner as a result, congrats puppy! You may be doing part of your job! 😊

[@SingingSealRiana]

Yeah, IT feels nice when animals feel comfortable with you, but they are No reliable good/Bad people detectors

[@jasperjazzie]

yeah, i hate the whole "if a dog doesn't like them they're a bad person and you shouldn't trust them" thing i've seen a lot of people say, i get that gut feelings are a thing for both people and animals and they can be right a lot of the time, but no one is going to be correct 100% of the time, so acting like someone is a bad person solely because your dog dislikes them is dumb.

[@InsaneLaughter01]

Can confirm, I went on a date with a guy who had a rescue who adored him. She was a skittish but loving thing. Her owner pulled a gun on me to make me strip so he could assault me. After he fell asleep, I got dressed and ran away. Dogs are a shit judge of chracter.

[@ralfvandeven3155]

Imagine being so insecure that your masculinity is threatened by a dog...

[@augustniemann2867]

To this Girl Who Asked what women fighted for: For Fredom For Equality For Rights For Savety For being seen as a human Who is able to think Nothing wrong with being à housewife, feminism is about giving women the choice But her comment was disrespectful to all the women Who got violated and raped and humiliated because they had no rights and werent Taken serious

[@mo-s-]

à

[@Tread1]

fought* freedom* safety* weren't* seriously*

[@shenyathewelder9695]

3:40 as someone with some experience with trafficking survivors (as well being one myself), the assessment is spot on. Though I’d probably call it Orgsnized Abuse, or RAMCOA (ritual abuse, mind control, organized abuse) unless there’s an actually trafficking happening. Generally speaking though, those kinds of programs are frequently fronts for child trafficking. Some close friends had it happen to them that way.

[@FriendlyFare]

At "you DO know people eat ass?", I did a spit-take, guffawed and smashed the like button. WELL DONE, SIR.

[@Lysiasolo]

I was looking for this comment! 👍😎

[@os5403]

How has this not blown up 😂

[@Myder_Dragon]

As a boy sometimes I learn something from these posts. Often times the thing I learn is my fellow guys have less of an idea how women work then me, a gay dragon.

[@acidsprinkl3r8744]

Nice, a gay dragon

[@AverageConsumer-uj8sm]

so true, gay dragon

[@HalfWolf2]

Agreed, my fellow gay dragon

[@PinkyH-AN-]

You're right, gay dragon

[@AAAAEEURGFHH]

ily,gay dragon

[@chatboulon743]

"Don't tell Feminists" girl: "I don't know why we even started working in the first place." Translation: I never paid attention in my high school history class. 🤦‍♀️ Women going into the work force was pretty darn progressive at the time.

[@radschele1815]

Women being in the work force was normal at all times. It was just a rich thing that women didn't work. I mean... slavery, but also general peasants and proletarians worked. Families were working all together for centuries. Devaluing house work, or any care work is also quite modern. We forgot that no work was ideal for everybody.

[@mundoatena1674]

​@@radschele1815yeah, the protests weren't necessarily for working depending on the social classes and the place in the world, but also so that women's work was given value and so that they could participate in decisions, have actual careers other than just being forced into the bottom and worst jobs and not be looked down upon by society for being a working woman (and, for richer/middle class women, to have the right to work and be independent). As always with history, things are a lot more complex than the simplified version we teach 6th graders

[@rhiwright]

As a feminist, I know our ancestors fought, and we continue to fight, for women to have a choice. Being a housewife is, in fact, a choice. Her choice is valid and I'm glad she was able tto make it. I cheer for her, and lament the fact she's so narrow minded she won't cheer for others' choices.

[@lazyperfectionist3978]

with the way she was cutting those onions, she seems like the type that skipped school altogether. She almost lost her fingers at least 3 times and clearly never taught how to hold a knife if she even did home economics as an elective

[@RandonPersom542]

Housework is still labor, too. It’s just not government paid. And it can be wonderful to do if that’s what you like and you have the support to stay home!

[@LucineDaBee]

"Women who where make up are lesbians" me(bisexual) who has a boyfriend: "guess im a lesbian now"

[@Creepergirl7794.]

Where the heck do people even get this kinda crap from? Do they just make up stuff to feel better about something they're insecure about? I was "friends" with a 9yo when I was 11-12 and she once just randomly touched her tongue to mine (gross ik) and then said "if you do that you're lesbian". My first response to that was "no, that's not true". We weren't friends for long before moving and she actually came from a troubled home. Her older sister actually unalived a few years after us moving, and we were quite saddened about it, especially my brother because she was his friend

[@Sly-Moose]

26:53 Translation "I view myself as a predator and women are my prey! That's right, women, you are not safe around me! You think the law is going to protect you?" 🚩🚩🚩

[@LunaWitcherArt]

More like "I see myself, a man, as a human and women as objects, trophies and slaves to my desires - a female's needs and wants will never be respected by me"

[@siaiirp]

That's total cringe😰

[@blueStarKitt7924]

🤢🤮

[@bloodyneptune]

At least he's being courteous and putting all the red flags out there up front so women can avoid him

[@toxiczombiewolf5692]

When you see a red flag 🏃‍♀️

[@crazytooley]

I went through an "ugly duckling" change, i was a weird kid that got bullied to the point where I was even bullied by staff, not just peers. I was told to unalive, change my body, runaway, and that " i will never be wanted". The summer of 2014, BOOM, puberty. The same people, who knows im still the same person, catcalling me, only thing changed is I'm "more attractive". People assault me and act like im a prop to play with. In 1 year, i went from the weird kid to man's sexual fantasy, and I suffered from their thoughts and actions.

[@artemisjackson222]

I am sorry I hope it gets better it’s so stupid how you are assumed to have no personality

[@artemisjackson222]

I am sorry I hope it gets better it’s so stupid how you are assumed to have no personality

[@artemisjackson222]

I am sorry I hope it gets better it’s so stupid how you are assumed to have no personality

[@artemisjackson222]

I am sorry I hope it gets better it’s so stupid how you are assumed to have no personality

[@artemisjackson222]

I am sorry I hope it gets better it’s so stupid how you are assumed to have no personality

[@averysmolbrownie3856]

“Is this what we fought for, as women?” No, what we fought for is everyone getting to choose how to live their life without being forced into something that will make them miserable. What we fought for is the right to leave an abusive marriage and the ability to build the financial status needed to be able to afford leaving. Also education, but clearly that hasn’t worked because there are people that genuinely think like the woman in the video, whether she was being satirical or not.

[@yukarilolz]

Thank you! You wrote it better than i could! She also might as well have said "my life is great! Why should you be upset?!?" Assuming it is not a joke of coarse

[@aylac3144]

i think amain issue was also that say a man dint want to marry you there was no way of getting money and you just starve ALSO say your husband passed away at the time getting remarried was very unacceptable and you just starved along with your children

[@DigitalRabies-de2ep]

9:37 I got my first period at age 9. I wasn’t even old enough to be alone for more than 2 hours. I was not an adult. The fact that this person thinks 8-12 year olds are adults, they seriously need help.

[@theonlynecromancerever]

i think a lot of the women who want to be housewives nowadays are more tired of capitalism and it's insistence that everyone needs to do backbreaking work for The Economy and how tiring that shit is than they are of feminism, but that's their main target because the idea of Housewife Bad(TM) is associated mostly with feminism so they end up misplacing their critiques and what could become a wildly popular argument for UBI, affordable living, universal healthcare, student loans, etc is flung into the ether.

[@sashadoom]

Very good point. Same can be said of men who would prefer a stay-at-home wife/mother and blame feminism when they are unable to find one, vs. asking why the feasibility of surviving & raising a family on a single income has nearly vanished over the past few decades. Measuring progress in terms of growth, i.e., GDP is a big factor in the rat-race mentality - constant pressure to produce and consume more and more every year is toxic, mentally, physically, and ecologically. Infinite growth in a finite system is not possible, but the denial is strong. How much better it would be to measure progress by decreases in things like homelessness, violent crime, mental illness, debt per capita, etc. - things that would actually benefit the average person. But that would cut into profits, so it's never going to happen, though there would be a better chance of improvement if women and men worked together to defeat the real enemy.

[@TheGamer2001]

The US-style capitalism, you mean. Capitalism is not spotless around the world, but it is not as bad as in the US.

[@LittleMaitea]

And even this women ran into guys that want her to do the household and work as they aren’t open to date „gold diggers“ To clarify these women aren’t golddiggers but funnily in a way those guys actually are

[@LittleMaitea]

@@TheGamer2001a really good point. I would guess in some other countries that would be still the reason. Source: I suffered burn out in IT outside the US but to be fair the IT work culture is heavily US influenced I remember when my classmates imagined moving to the US ~2006 … None of them want to do it, now they can’t even imagine living in the US

[@Renvil_]

36:22 Who's gonna tell him that the fallopian tubes are _rather inexcessable_ from the outside of the female body, being at the other side of the uterus and all...? I'd say if *"a man who has been in [a woman's] fallopian tubes"* is what's considered an "Ex", then all Ex's should be sent to jail for human butchery, because that stuff has to be done with a knife etc. 😰

[@bobbythompson6017]

He a feminine male no poop he not going to know how woman work

[@Null-value]

Right? If the ex was getting in there then he would have to be an actual space alien.

[@Cyberdemon11120]

42:25 This is literally a fictional character. She's from KonoSuba, an anime that parodies the Shonen Fantasy Isekai genre with SitCom plot elements. Her name is Lalatina, but because she's rebelling against her parents (who happen to be nobility, making her a princess of sorts), she'd rather be called 'Darkness' because it is her Adventuring Name, aka her nickname, and the name most fans of the show know her by. Her character is literally a joke, being classified as a Crusader who can't manage to land a hit on someone even if they are literally standing still, but she has the ability to tank heavy attacks without passing out, an ability she aquired from being a genuine unabashed Masochist who looks for punishment (both physical and emotional) wherever she can find it, including from her own party members/friends.

[@matthewprier4340]

Add to this, the "quiet girlfriend" is memeing Depeche Mode, the Enjoy The Silence video specifically. The crown and chair and each "fact" includes lyrics :)

[@Fantaleyt]

For the record, Yumer girl is referring to Yumejoshi, "dreaning girl". Its a type of female otaku that often practice self-shipping (a type of self-insert)

[@kaitlynmorgan4613]

i kinda love her for that actually 😭😭 besides her being a joke, cause shes a badass for tanking hits like that and looking for more lol

[@Li.na_1]

24:53 "Steve, you realize that people LITERALLY EAT ASS, RIGHT?" quote of the year frfr

[@bananaslamma35]

"step out of the elevator onto your chosen floor" You just KNOW this dude can't go up even a single flight of stairs yet is convinced he deserves an "S tier" woman... "I love to cook and clean" >Visibly doesn't know how to cut onions

[@something1600]

If we apply the same "Husband School" standards to him, he would be Z-tier.

[@rolfs2165]

@@something1600 Yeah, if that place the guy dreamt up ever existed, any man entering would be checked at the door and told the maximum floor he's allowed to go. And there's no way they'd let some 4chan basement dweller onto B or above.

[@something1600]

@@rolfs2165 He's going to the Basement.

[@FrozEnbyWolf150]

She cuts onions about as well as Ben Shapiro cuts herbs.

[@annamcb1529]

lol the feminists are fine, you are choosing to cook and clean. The point is you are choosing it, not forced to do it.

[@stampandscrap7494]

And choosing to do it really really badly. She looks like shes never done it before.

[@cannibal_redneck7109]

Wonder if she'd change her mind if the opposite was true throughout history. I doubt she'd like it very much if women historically were the ones expected to work.

[@karowolkenschaufler7659]

the feminists might even be trying to find a way to make your unpaied work count for your retirement somehow. AND keeping safe houses for women open... just in case your keeper starts to beat the living crap out of you and you need to get out quickly but can't rent a flat yourself because you don't have any money. yep. we support your choice and try to change sociaty in a way that makes your choice less dangerous for you.

[@MikePhantom]

@@karowolkenschaufler7659 citation needed. so far i have only seen harpy screeches when a woman has stated publicly she aims to be more of a housewife than aiming for a career.

[@Granad784]

​@@MikePhantomCitation needed for you not being a asshole

[@leavemealoneimintroverted1850]

"is this what we fought for as women?!" Gurl are you serious 😭 this is why the right education is important

[@Azzy-The-Small-Friend]

20:16 bro was so close to sounding so great. Rejecting intimacy is fine, especially if the person who initiated the intimacy was just meant to either pay money or do manual labor. But just for the guy go on about “being used up” and “worn out” is really isn’t cool.