Radically honest Q&A with my husband Wouter

This podcast episode features Victoria interviewing her husband Wouter. They discuss their relationship journey, how they've grown together, Victoria's eating disorder recovery, and Wouter's coaching approach. Listeners can expect vulnerably authentic conversations around personal development, spirituality, relationships, body image, and self-love.
Key Discussion Points:
How Victoria and Wouter met in Egypt while Victoria was struggling with an eating disorder, but Wouter could see her true essence beyond that
Wouter shares about his personal growth journey and transition from being a "nice guy" people pleaser to embodying more self-love and integrity
How Victoria used Wouter as a model for what healthy self-care looks like while she was in eating disorder recovery
Their perspectives on what makes their relationship so strong - unconditional love, open communication, intimacy on a soul level, not needing each other but choosing each other
Wouter explains his direct, no-nonsense, spiritual-but-not-airy-fairy coaching approach and why most traditional methods don't create lasting change
Insights on dropping limiting stories, choosing who you want to be in each moment, fear as an illusion, and taking responsibility for your own life and happiness
Wouter (⁠www.wouterklei...) is an author and no-nonsense coach from the Netherlands focused on personal development for high performers. He takes an intensely direct yet compassionate approach to helping clients "get over their bullshit stories" in order to live more powerfully aligned lives. His bestselling books explain his methodology further.
Key Quotes:
"Attractiveness goes beyond the physical body. Attractiveness is the energy source she's portraying." [00:21:08]
"Our relationship works because it's based on 1+1=3, not me giving you something and expecting the exact same level back." [00:10:59]
"I'm the coach, but I'm also not the coach...when we just live life, we just live life." [01:21:37]
"Everything in life is bullshit. So why would we be living in the story which is hurting us, disempowering us, making us weak?" [01:34:39]
"Happiness and being who you want to be is a choice you can make right now." [01:37:16]
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[@karensutherland8908]

This was an amazing interview. What a special relationship you two have, thank you for sharing how you have developed together and thanks for answering all my questions Wouter! There was so much here, it was thought provoking and enlightening. I’d definitely like to hear more from Wouter.

[@VictoriaKleinsman]

@@karensutherland8908 Thank you so much for your lovely comment Queen K! I’m so glad you enjoyed the interview and found it thought-provoking. It means a lot to hear that you appreciate the insights Wouter shared and the journey we’ve been on together. ❤️ I’d love to know-what would you like to hear from him next? I’ll make sure to pass it on and ask him to come back for another podcast episode. Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts-it really means the world to us. Sending you lots of love! Victoria xx

[@karensutherland8908]

@ I’d love to know more about his personal mindset shifts and how he achieved this, for example the body dysmorphia, feeling small when he was big, and the change to becoming spiritual, if that’s what happened, I wasn’t clear on what he believes. Would also like to hear more about how to actually feel peace and heal the wounds that are under the stories. If you take away the story, you still have the wound, how do you heal that, with a new story or something else?

[@VictoriaKleinsman]

@@karensutherland8908 ​​⁠what fantastic questions ❤🎉 we’ll definitely be back to answer these thanks Karen ❤

[@teresaobrien8598]

Wow. What a divine and sacred union. Thanks for this. Excellent and I've learned so much. X

[@VictoriaKleinsman]

I’m so happy to hear this Teresa ❤ we’re so blessed to have what we have and we’ve both worked on ourselves and continue to do so including on our relationship. Everyone can have their own version of what we have if they do the inner work to attract their soul mate ❤

[@teresaobrien8598]

Yes im taking notes(wink) any nice brother in laws.... 😂​@VictoriaKleinsman

[@VictoriaKleinsman]

@@teresaobrien8598​​⁠😅 his brother is married but also isn’t like Wouter in any way and doesn’t deserve you either 😉🥰❤

[@teresaobrien8598]

❤❤​@@VictoriaKleinsman

[@abaslesregimes.sarahb.8366]

Your child is going to be so beautifull !