Reasons she's suddenly ignoring you and what to do about it

[@JessicaOS]

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[@jaycruz2975]

If she doesn't want you then don't force it just try and improve on yourself and stay focus

[@jefferystackhouse3434]

I believe that whether you are in a relationship with a lady or just in the Get To Know you stage, if she starts blowing you off and not answering your messages or calls, this is a signal that maybe she is not the one for you. Move on!! Find someone who is for you and interested in things like communication and honesty. Never allow anyone to take you through unnecessary changes. Believe in yourself and respect yourself ✌️❤️💪

[@roser8911]

It doesn’t work that way. Human interaction is what makes people fall in love. For example: at job/school… you see this person everyday and you get to know each other like that. Otherwise…. Any relationship would failed.

[@4yajustblazin]

She got somebody that she thinks is better than you, but not secured him yet, so don't be surprised if she comes back after failing. Don't let her come back, ever

[@ayandamakhathini2457]

Facts brvh👏

[@vickythakur8259]

Absolutely true..

[@nickbushta3542]

Bruh same shit happened to me she went to California to visit family and then blocked me for no reason and starts paying abt other dudes honestly wtf

[@Mysteryguy651]

There is no way my man if am the best option

[@roser8911]

It doesn’t work that way. Human interaction is what makes people fall in love. For example: at job/school… you see this person everyday and you get to know each other like that. Otherwise…. Any relationship would failed.

[@rayraydewitt4132]

If you're getting ignored..please protect you're mental health & move forward because if a person can't be an adult to tell you that it's not working out..relationship was doomed from the start.

[@Jerah-b2n]

agreed. it means she's not mature enough over a simple communication matter

[@thyeocroft205]

The fact that she's ignoring u simply means she already has gotten better option than u or hoping for a better option on her level in the nearest future.

[@carlosverde-datingtips7001]

I hear ya - Thyeo! One of the main reasons why women lose attraction for a man is because, attraction is like a plant. If you don’t keep watering it, it dies. Getting a woman attracted to you, that’s the easy part - now keeping her attracted, that’s a whole new ball game. One of the most powerful ways to keep the attraction going is by learning - how to “build a deep emotional connection” with a woman. Once you have learned that, you won’t have to worry about her leaving you - she’ll be chasing you instead. Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips

[@josephgreen7481]

Very true. They ignore you when they have better option

[@Nile04467]

Not even true my girl was going through things with her family it’s not cus she has a better man in mind

[@thyeocroft205]

@@Nile04467 And?..

[@crystalclimenhage7159]

Not true. I've ignored guys if I saw flags of narcissism

[@nana1official]

You are Enough!! If someone ignores you let them go,,,,, work on you, your values, goals and finances 💯👌

[@omogeinnocent9460]

The solution to all relationship issues is in this commandment, "thou shall have no other gods beside me" I.e always place ur purpose(which is God's will) as priority in your life; do not place another human being no matter how deep the attraction is over ur life. P.s: not even ur mother. And always have the abundance mentality. You will always be right.

[@McComb_T]

It's been 5 months since we spoke and I feel like we've forgotten about ourselves even though we see ourselves in church every Sunday. The moment I saw that she wasn't interested in talking anymore, I pulled away out of self-respect and moved on.

[@pradeepkuttykrishnan4530]

Nice bro. You have done the right thing

[@soulassassin4847]

Similar situation except she started acting funky with me. I think she stop talking to me and also avoids my gaze even for greeting is for her own self respect. We were friends though but I never initiated anything for very very good reason. I was/am very attracted to her but i dont think its Gods will for me and her so I always held back but been friendly. Not any more though.

[@samekatfromyesterday2780]

You can’t miss what you’ve never had. You can’t miss anything that you can’t measure. Her loss

[@656540317706]

@@samekatfromyesterday2780 exactly

[@NathalieLazo]

To anyone watching this... GIVE YOUR BEST THIS WEEK FOR EVERYTHING YOU DO! 💪🔥

[@gideonhoward790]

I would say to all Men out there, if she wants to leave let her leave. She ain't your sister, aunt or mum. Go where you're appreciated.

[@chowfun5588]

Jessica, you are so on points. I have known this girl for awhile and I like her, suddenly she ignored me for a few days and then talked again. Didn’t know what I did wrong and i didn’t bother to ask.

[@dhanrajmohan701]

Public comment. It is important to fight against lust and greed and anger false pride and jealous and attachments. Seek inner peace with your self will allow you to achieve success. Understanding body and mind only pure soul. Self realization is the key to success. Pure taught and actions base on how you procieve life journey begins with you in words and taught or deeds weather physical mental or emotional self realization is the key to success in words and taught or deeds. Serving the purpose by control and discipline your mind . Inner peace is what matters in life. God bless you Ms Jessica.

[@antilaw9911]

I reject all the lame excuses for her ignoring you especially since you were good to her and did nothing. Us men are aware of your actions, behavior and it does cause us to be alert and bit insecure. Most likely the truth is she is talking to other men. Facts.

[@dhanrajmohan701]

Public comment. Ms Jessica you are right on point about everything you say. Wonderful message to clarify one feeling.

[@jossell911]

These are some mistakes I’ve made in the past. This is legit. Thanks for this vid Jessica!!

[@derrickbondzie7871]

I always love to see my phone ding with notifications from Jessica, I know there’s some soothing advice for us all We love you Jessy♥️🥰

[@markoperic5023]

About sign 8. I do something that bothers her. And she doesnt tell me, and goes silent. And withdraws communication. And by doing so she is only teaching me how to live without her and how to move on. And that I should look the other way. And after me being silent for 3 days. She came back .... theres no point proving to someone who ghosts you how good you are. They just walked away, its on them to come back or not. I know, because I was once the one to go silent after being disrespected. Because I didnt know how to communicate what bothered me. And when they reached out to try and fix when I wasnt ready I just ran even further away. So if someone ghosts you. Be ready to move on. If they cant communicate. Ive been on both sides of the ghosting

[@tonydonalds850]

This woman is facts itself love you Jess ❤❤

[@authenticpromonnie4861]

As if Jessica knew what I was going through. Thanks so much Jess

[@sarahforson7556]

It's not easy but God dey

[@mwilangalamika4385]

This is very helpful But letting go is not easy but things get better with time.

[@ianbetts4435]

If she goes cold just ignore her and move on. The man always needs the power.

[@jordanyoung1836]

If a girl is ignoring me then I don't give a darn, I can do better and I can even find better...I'm not gonna get all hung up on that crap, if you don't want to talk to me then go, step off...😑🤚🤚🤚

[@nnaemekanwachukwu7966]

Simple

[@jordanyoung1836]

@@nnaemekanwachukwu7966 exactly...

[@sk3ffingtonai]

Men don't want a Rubik's Cube. Men want a real woman. Too bad many modern women can't handle that fact of life.

[@Wizaveli_SOE]

I feel that's very disrespectful especially when your been in an relationship for almost an decade

[@SaiJin]

So if a girl tells you to text her if you want but yet she never text you to start a conversation or text you after that, then it will be a good time to stop talking to her then?

[@dhanrajmohan701]

Public comment. It is important to building quality relationships by understanding the person properly and not just take life for granted. No games. Seek inner peace with your self will allow clarity. It is important to love your self before you can love others. Control your feelings and desires will allow you to control your taught and actions base on how you procieve life journey begins with you. Knowledge is powerful use it wisely.

[@fambaassumani2253]

Jessijessijessiiiii, I am very happy and fully of joy each time I watch your videos. You are Amazing. If you were to be a school teacher, no any student gonna fail. You so so so Good.. Thank a lot for helping us. Love u.

[@onslowtheme7357]

With all due respect, I don’t understand why would anyone would want to try to figure out what another person feels about them. It’s a 2 way street. Specially in today’s societies. I would love to hear an answer to a vital question, why isn’t it the other way around? Don’t waste your time trying to figure out what others might or might not think of you. Invest your time wisely.

[@mainaben135]

That is true, especially no 3 and 4 you have said, Jessica

[@jivonstephen6677]

Most women always want the man to figure out what they want instead of telling us, is this some strategy to see how thoughtful we are towards the one we are relating to? This can be frustrating at times for the mind of the man who loves to see women initiate at times too , it makes it easier for the genuine man who might not want to rush things, sticking our heads out without caution but yes showing manly authority is ah turn on for some women but some men don't make moves untill they know for sure, staying behind their hurt defence walls seems less risky. Still it comes down to damn if you do damn if you don't ,yes, can't stay in a shell forever . Thanks Jess love this one too same way hope all is well keep having this day wonderfully beautiful ok. Later babe .

[@narleekchikowore524]

Thats toxic but most pple ar takin t as normal n later on ey realize wat ey are dealin wth

[@michaelg7456]

Great insight Jess! Stay True Green and as always... Live with Passion! 👍

[@richdude8150]

I understand her intentions are good in this video my brothers but as a man if she ignores you just let her go. First just make sure she is alright and not dead or whatever. Try to do it without her even knowing you checked on her and just let her go. It will hurt for a little while but dude many women out there.. chase your dreams and forget whoever don't think you are good enough. They will try to come back anyway. The worse thing you can do is let them come back They will do the same shit again . If you really need to watch this video then you are really hurting and just probably wishing this nice lady will tell you how to get the woman back. Sorry dude no she will not and if you are a good guy and you know it. You deserve better anyway

[@LoQueYoDigoVaAMisa]

I agree pal, but why are you in this channel?

[@yawampofo8529]

It's ladies who mostly throw the leave me alone cues. My guy bounce and save yourself. Jess quotes. ❤️❤️❤️

[@sarahboakye7691]

If she's ignoring you, it's definitely one the points Jessica mentioned 👌. Great video as always 🔥♥️

[@tonyrichardson1335]

That fact is most women are boring, but the expect a msn to make their lives exciting buy dating them on dates, spending money on them and anything else that will bring excitement to their other wise dull and boring life..not all women but a lot of them...

[@daconquerofficial6898]

Knowing the value of your content ,helps me click the like button before watching and guess what?? You never fail me!!!💪💪💪💪👍Thank you🙏🙏

[@johnevans6053]

I have a theory that the type of men who are most successful with women are the ones who have narcissistic and/or sociopathic personality disorders. I would like to hear your ideas on this.

[@narleekchikowore524]

You can't proclaim success wen a relationship is like a tick suckin blood from a cow ...avoid making e abnormal normal @ Evans

[@johnevans6053]

@@narleekchikowore524 I am not trying to say there is anything normal or acceptable about narcissists or sociopaths. What I am trying to say is that these types of people are very charming and personable, and it is therefore easy for someone to think they are good people. It may take you years and much heartache to discover what they really are. It is therefore very important to be able to identify these personality types and to never get involved with one of them.

[@narleekchikowore524]

@@johnevans6053 I think t all goes back to e level of sensetive you ve coz to m there z a certain kind of love that most pple percieve to b love but from my studies n observations I know how to tell

[@narleekchikowore524]

I can show you e kind of language ese Narcissistic use consiciously or unconsciously jus to love bomb you ...n I agree with som of e things you said but to m I will perceive t as love bombin so e PBM we ve is most pple aren't aware of ese kind of individuals thats y ey fall for e trap n on a long run you won't sustain that relationship

[@Fearless-Genius]

BEST RESPONSE. THIS IS THE TRUTH WHICH THE SOCIETY REJECTS

[@smarteysylt8]

Thanks Jesy I met her at church and am developing interest in her even though she inform me there's someone there. She once texted me she is unhappy about me, since then she never answer my calls.

[@osmanhamidu2115]

Move on bro, improve upon yourself,keep your distance and focus your energy on your job. The right woman will stay.

[@smarteysylt8]

@@osmanhamidu2115 thanks Man ✌️

[@kenyattagordon7690]

I think that many women have communication problems and psychogical problems regarding old flames old boyfriends and are very sensitive towards new relationships. all of advice is not the same, so that give people only one option go with your inner self trust in what you believe in. i am not surprised that some women taking this same advice and acting on it

[@ConfidencePT]

Sometimes as guys, we need to realise some women just are t mentally healthy. I do say some.

[@alyajewellery]

Sometimes we have been ghosted for days too many times, and have gone numb and match the energy.

[@clownworld4655]

So because you’ve been ghosted by a guy you’ll go ghost a completely different guy? Nice

[@mariaaaa1128]

​@@clownworld4655I don't think that's what she means, she is saying when a man ghosts her she ghosts him back and ends up losing interest in him so even if he comes back she won't care

[@DTKRDMNK]

Best thing to do Brothers is... NGAF!

[@jacobsonking388]

I really love your content and advise u always giving for we men

[@thyeocroft205]

My guy, don't waste ur time & energy on someone who doesn't deserve u. There's is someone waiting out there with open arms but u r just too busy ignoring to explore better options.

[@jaycruz2975]

I think you're right 🤔

[@brianwaller7383]

No how no way is there anyone out there for me. Nobody it’s all cope to say otherwise

[@morrismwenda9138]

We should move to where we are celebrated more than where we are tolerated

[@janeulo4388]

Wow. Your vocabulary is on another level. Seems like you are a really great mind, a genius of sorts.

[@OiVinn-eq1ml]

Thanks for narrowing it down to 10 things. Now just gotta figure out which ones lol

[@faridabdallah]

Timely video,, been going through this since our last meeting one week ago.

[@markmanjonjo7916]

This other girl we used to chat alot, text and even video calls but after relocating because of her new job she started, I started noticing that she is changing when I asked her what's going on she was saying her job and things on the ground are not good, sometimes she would ghost me and when I try to have a conversation with her she would just answer me in a short way, so few days ago I decided to leave her completely because it was affecting so much, I didn't tell her but I just stopped texting wanted to give her time. So she noticed that am backing down as it was the first time for me to stay days without texting her, she came back and texted me this morning, saying hie how are you!! What should I do in this situation, should I ghost her or what?

[@nnaemekanwachukwu7966]

Follow your instincts bro. If l would speak you are a second option.

[@archspacedesign4124]

I wld say dont ghost her..its one of the most painful emotional torture. My advise is that drift ur emotions frm her and take her like any other gal in ur inbox. Rem the rule, the person who cares less in a relationship suffers the least. Jst dnt care let her chase u koz u r now the prize. You first treated her as a celebrity and she treated you as a fan. Now the coin has flipped to ur favor. Entertaining her so much will take u back to where u started and the same cycling will continue. Jst remove ur emotions and let the heart do its work of pumping blood😂 and u will be good fine

[@markmanjonjo7916]

@@archspacedesign4124 woww thanks so much man. Di weh some women can treat a guy, it's like you can't live or survive without dem unuh

[@markmanjonjo7916]

@@nnaemekanwachukwu7966 dis one hits hard, but it cyaa be true enuh

[@AlexyalanAlexyalan]

I am in the same situation as you man. This girl from work would always text me when we use to work in the same place. But ever since she moved jobs, she lags it more now to respond. And she keeps saying cause she is busy and all that. And apologizes about it. But I don’t think I should really believe her cause sometimes when I say something she replies right away to my text and then she wouldn’t respond back to me till a day or two later. So now I am just gonna not reply back to her anymore. Don’t know if she is playing games with me or isn’t sure if I am the right one or not. 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️ like I can’t tell.🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

[@leslykisia5026]

Very true.......a nice lesson.

[@chudiksc]

Thanks Jo's for sharing.... you are the best

[@dennisngira5205]

Thanks Jess ,I was once there but ever since I ever discovered my value am not chasing again

[@SaturnAstronaut]

I have a partner that got angey at me because l told her l was jealous for going on vacation without me.She clearly took it wrong and had the nerve to stop texting me.Everytime shes live,she yells at me and says disrespectful things,but being nice to others,and purposely saying to her friends that l am always in my feelings, when l only say or express if something is bothering me.But when shes angry,its fine for her to express her feelings. Shes making it hard for me to say how l feel, like she doesn't want me to do anything but stare at the wall.This is probably the reason why shes been single for most of her life

[@mariaaaa1128]

I remember ignoring a man not cuz I had options or entertained other men, simply cuz he wasn't man enough to put effort and keep me, he ghosted me so for my self respect I did the same so he came back chasing and asking but I didn't talk to him

[@mjkennedy4049]

You are always on it JESSI

[@christianuzor3766]

Thanks jessi that is almost what am facing right now

[@Mugithi254]

Lost feelings and interests

[@6Four6Films]

I've been speaking to a girl for a while now, I asked her if she was free this friday, she saw the message, didn't reply. I waited two days, asked her again, didn't reply. Later that day I sent a message saying, no worries don't worry about it. She replied 10 mins later, oh I was busy etc. I said cool, no worries. She then messaged me back later, almost begging me to meet up with her. I eventually gave in and said, ok but Saturday night instead. She said, great, I can't wait to meet up etc. I text her last night asking how she was and what time we gonna meet Sat. She replied but ignored the meeting up part. I left it a few hours and then asked again. She saw the message and still has not yet replied! I have let it go now and am no longer gonna speak to her but the way she changed from wanting to meet and ignoring my messages in 24 hours is crazy to me. Any advice would be appreciated, though, just incase this happens again with someone else! lol. Thanks!

[@KrishnaKumar-mx4gf]

She is waiting for someone to message her.

[@pallavid8231]

Please give a talk, over broken friendships between 2 girls, and she blocks u and ignores u suddenly Without any reason

[@blueflame3531]

She ignores me whenever she knows im on the shift. She refuses to make calls if she knows I'll pick up, she leaves, she just goes without saying anything to me. When i'm around doing my work, minding my business, she'll start looking at me. She keeps looking until i clock her checking me out. She looks away and leaves. Idk what to make of it, on one hand its cute, but on the other hand, its like, why are you doing this ? I've never disrespected her nor said anything to her...

[@dubblebarrelnoyz1862]

13:00 Why do women defend other women’s bad behaviour? 🤦‍♂Let’s NOT normalise this! If she comes back and he's not there, maybe she should think about NOT doing things to make the man say ‘Fuck it, I'ma keep it moving’... Forget him losing out on her, SHE lost HIM when she did what she did in the first place. Why wasn’t losing him ever a thought for her?... Weird

[@furydj2311]

Spot on 🎯

[@xxxyyy-iy4hf]

Points noted, Thanks.

[@johnjoseph3071]

Wow. 10 apt reasons. I think I can relate.

[@malik_shaheer_ali_arif]

I just love your videos

[@IssahMusah1957]

I love this video keep the fire burning 👍

[@muzzamirlukabwe989]

All the points are valid,bt in all let me first get some dollars to fall in love again...its all rotating on money

[@kelvinhooru3918]

Jessi your products are really astonishing thank you for everything one love ❤️

[@okonkwohushbaby6307]

Thanks a lot👍

[@tenkler2g2]

Very helpful thanks!!

[@swagsukeuchiha7599]

Stop caring?

[@obomusiqofficial327]

Thank you so much...

[@asandasiphosihlephakathi6330]

As for you will make a mental note 😅 i thought i was the only one who does that...

[@paakwame6822]

hahaaa...i really laughed a lot at that point of the video. In fact, I watched that part like five tines, lol

[@princemkandawiref6963]

This what I face on most of my days.............

[@beogopauletienne9278]

Hi everybody .. My name is PAUL. It is cleat that when she ignore you, It is very difficult to deal with this. But with this topic I am now confidence cause I know what to do about it. I would like to point out that on top of this, never forget that " THE GREATEST LOVE OF ALL, IT IS LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF FIRST ". It is for me another mindset to have when she ignore you.. With kind regards😊😊

[@Proposal12]

I won´´t tip toe around a female just because she feels "insecure" about whatever, bottom line, if she can´t be clear and or direct openly (communication) then that already tells me enough about her and I simply move on. I would expect that behaviour from a 12y old...

[@Wizaveli_SOE]

What about the people that's been in an relationship for almost 10 years

[@JayJay-mr5ln]

Relationship or marriage 10yrs eey

[@intergalactic11]

Impeccable citation! ’you sure you're not an EXPERT in all these? Or is all this some kind of magic? I wonder what professional counseling could've offered more!

[@theChristshow1]

She told me that she's not ready and she wants me as a friend

[@cliffdenis144]

Just move on and don't bother her

[@paakwame6822]

as usual, very insightful :-)

[@knockdadeathstroke3799]

She ignored my text for 2 days, I wasnt gonna be a dick cause I texted everyone a "Merry Christmas" text so I texted it to her too, after I did that I deleted our chat and once she reaches out again I will confront her on it, tell her I don't see any reason to continue talking and seeing her and delete her number. No games, straight upfront.

[@asabarobert1233]

I have now watched quite a number of vids but valuing yourself is key and moving on is a great way if things fail

[@olasupoisrael9220]

Insightful😉

[@MohammedAhmed-nh8ck]

Wow so educative

[@boxoffisa]

Eh. Women are this complicated. My God. Let me chase development and my goals then.

[@stephenndungu3127]

😊 great content

[@nshieeugene3727]

Thank you for the video. I won't just want to be plan B in her agenda. My personal take

[@Jappie.helsing]

Am crying 😢

[@astrochildsr3658]

Or women just not be entitled and acknowledge how their actions impact the poor mental health in men?

[@Florida_gyrl]

Love this video!

[@Raincity1]

Holy f***.... I wasn't tripping at all

[@slamzymessiisalwaysgreat9390]

I met her online things were going fine suddenly she stop picking my calls or replying my text n I like her alot ...what should I do to get her attention

[@JONNYBS22]

Man you goin thru the shit I went thru she gave me mix signals I exploded on her she block me hahahahahahahahh. Shoot she was chipping away my mental got me thinking one thing and the next day im No one to her I felt like she was talking to someone else so yes I exploded lol

[@slamzymessiisalwaysgreat9390]

​@@JONNYBS22tired of her already lols

[@t.m8370]

Nr9 hit deep 💔

[@matsballackdan3183]

Jessica come be the President of Uganda.

[@jesusisjerryallahistom]

Museveni still alive?

[@okikiakinnibosun4953]

Hello Jess hows your day going!

[@JessicaOS]

Pretty awesome...

[@roberttruman8444]

If men did anything like this would there be instructional videos for women on how to navigate? The only problem with videos like this is that they follow along the lines of the relationship being one way and all of the expectations are on the man. We don't live in that world anymore, and both partners are responsible for showing up and being clear in their intentions and concerns. There is no excuse anymore for playing games and testing partners, this is an emotional maturity issue.

[@ladycapry500]

Accurate 💯

[@furydj2311]

Good video.

[@ItsDayDayTv]

What if yall already did the nasty a few times? And she still ghost you? 😒

[@geniezambia2868]

Perhaps for her the incident was just fling, sex is not a true indicator of ones true emotions towards you. If she treats lit like nothing perhaps maybe you read into it too much

[@ItsDayDayTv]

@@geniezambia2868 yea i agree

[@jt7354]

She wasn't comfortable telling you that she wasn't interested in you beyond sex. It was easier and more convenient for her to just quietly exit your life with no explanation.