Repair Rocky Relationships FAST with These Simple 6 Steps to Become Secure (Part 3)

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In this 6-part webinar series, Thais Gibson reveals what secure attachment looks and feels like in relationships. Uncover the 6 stages of a relationship as well as the foundational pillars of becoming securely attached as Thais offers up some guidance and useful tips. For more information check out the course, Emotional Mastery & Belief Reprogramming above on how to boost your next level of secure attachment by setting healthy boundaries, expressing needs and meeting your unmet needs as well as targeting core wounds.
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00:00:00 - Intro
00:01:02 - Core Wounds and Emotional Regulation
00:04:26 - Needs and Communicating Them Clearly
00:11:20 - Becoming Better at Setting Boundaries
00:14:40 - BTEAs
00:18:57 - Building Deeper Relationships
00:21:58 - Conclusion/7-Day Free Trial: Emotional Mastery
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Leave us a like and a comment if you are finding this series helpful so far!

[@JacobCarlson-uq1my]

I'm not sure where you came from or how you popped up in this life or on this phone ,but I just really appreciate your guidance, knowledge, & help. I will try to dissect and deeply understand what you say because I can tell it is all so very important. Thank you for sharing and being such an incredibly beautiful person ,Thais.

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

@@JacobCarlson-uq1my Thank you for such a lovely comment! I wish you the best on your journey :)

[@SS-in1ts]

Is it unreasonable to expect him to call when he says he’s going to and then makes a list of excuses why he didn’t each time?? I said bye until he’s ready to figure out why he keeps avoiding following through.

[@karencoleman6800]

-Recondition your core wounds -Know your needs -Learn how to communicate your needs -Emotional regulation -Have healthy boundaries -Learn healthy coping strategies

[@gameroom1014]

I don’t understand how u haven’t broke KZbin. I haven’t seen a channel more critical than u

[@GadgetsGearCoffee]

Just a note, if you're going to name this part 3, have it consistent and name the others that are related.. with the same initial title and part #. Otherwise there is no consistency and too much guesswork and hard to reference. Having them in the descriptions as well will be helpful.

[@Nowthatswhaticallsedona]

Maybe just use your brain a little bit and look up the part 2 and part 1 in the search bar they are not hard to find. You could have easily found them in less words than typing that comment

[@GadgetsGearCoffee]

@@Nowthatswhaticallsedona I used my brain to provide valuable feedback as a content creator. So ya. I did use my brain.

[@johnmaus4408]

I feel we all are in need of increased self awareness. There are 3 insecure attachment styles 'basically " and one secure. That means 75% of the population we have dt with a d will deal with are insecure in some manner. This is intended to encourage self awareness, personal responsibility and growth rather than point fingers. My long time partner "DA" was a nice person but had struggled as a DA will. The symptoms were very confusing but looking back I failed to set boundaries. I have learned that I should have done that and revisited the issues as long as it took, setting up good times for discussion's, then having the discussions until the needle would move one way or another. This is generally speaking since this comment cannot elaborate. I have learned I must in a loving way see to my own boundaries rather than hope someone who struggles with thiers to be supportive of mine. This is extremely important.

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

We want to balance the relationship to the other person while maintaining the relationship to self :)

[@blueaqua2122]

As an AP, I've experienced disconnection in adult relationships (platonic and romantic) when setting/enforcing boundaries, not just in childhood. I seriously cannot see things getting better after expressing a boundary because it just never happened.

[@anyaroz8619]

Thank you so much, Thais! I bought a life-long membership and I have completely changed. Still get problems to solve, but the level of hurt is so much less. I can actually talk about my wounds, boundaries and needs easily without sounding too needy or desperate or blaming. Thais's program has made such a wonderful difference in my life. I can't recommend her approach enough.

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

So wonderful to read! Can we use this as a testimonial?

[@howtosober]

I really do wish multi-part videos were titled sequentially so it's clear and easy to find the whole series.

[@SeyoDeline]

Thanks for these. I have been doing this work for a few years now but without a 'label', I just knew I wanted a better, stable life for myself and my kids. Then I came across your videos and they have been a support to confirm that I'm on the right path and can move even closer to the SA side. My healing journey is also healing for my kids, they are so much more chilled at home now.

[@roshalllambert]

Webinars are my favourite part of PDS and its interesting Thais is sharing this here!

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

Thanks San!

[@andreatorluemke4982]

Thais Girl! You are so freaking brilliant! ❤❤❤. Oh my goodness amen. Love it! Love you!

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[@lilove6560]

AA now leaning SA with DA/SA partner. I sometimes have a hard time asking for what I need. Asking for undivided attention is a good start. Thanks for the tip!

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[@Calicokitty2]

This is phenomenally helpful, Thais! I've come so far from being AP, but I still struggle. This video helps me see where I need more work!

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

Glad you liked this. You can do it! I am happy you have come so far and that you continue to do the work. You should be super proud of yourself.

[@andreatorluemke4982]

Yeah. But before we get to you Thais. We mess up good things…😢. May we have compassion on ourselves all along the journey amen. Hugs and love dear Thais!

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

compassion is SO important in this journey

[@JacobCarlson-uq1my]

Thankyou Thais❤

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[@jenniferthomas5031]

Hi, love your videos on DAs. Can you do a video about when the DA starts to reach out to you after no contact but it’s more of a indirect direct way , reels , memes, but no real words for months with no real progress . I know they may want to test, keep you in friend zone to avoid commitment obligations . But how to get over this hurtle without scaring them . When to just know time to move on . Thank you 😊

[@meeraraj0]

Reached out after 6-7 weeks. Then I blew it!

[@meeraraj0]

@@sunbeam9222 O my dear friend @sunbeam9222. We were speaking and you were so helpful. I lost our thread and couldn't find you. You last told me how Eckhart tolle saved your life being a DA. How are you. Sorry I went silent I lost our thread and could not find you. And here you are now... a gift from universe. My DA friend messaged me again about a month ago. He is truly a very good kind well meaning person. But then I almost immediately did a stupid thing. I noticed he was following someone and all my anxiety came up and I asked him if he likes blondes. Hahaha why would I do that only heaven knows😊😂. Then I said I will never be good enough please leave me now and go away. He immediately stopped speaking. I sent messages apologizing but he did not answer. He's never ignored me before. Will he ever speak to me. Since you mentioned Eckhart tolle I wished to share you a video that's helped me these months. kzbin.info/www/bejne/lWqndIl7rMlpgtk kzbin.info/www/bejne/mouVeJmomtOXh8k

[@con-can571]

I gave myself this year to learn new ways of being. The amount of trauma I've been through in the past 7 years alone, is more than anyone I know could handle. I started watching your channel and a few others, and I signed up for PDS. I have learned a ton, but I found that I couldn't get over the "hump" until I went to a natural healer who told me that my adrenals were completely depleted and got me on supplements. This allowed me to really implement the things I am learning and has given me the ability to not feel as anxious and overwhelmed. Thank you for your works, you have really helped me change my life. God bless you and your family.

[@stillfire84]

@con-can571 interesting, what type of natural healer?

[@JA99]

What kind of supplements?

[@talipurk5702]

Same. I had to heal kryptopyroluria, endometriosis and lyme. It was not until I tackled those things I could communicate better. My gut and brain needed zinc! It is sad doctors don't test for those things but if we are attracting lots of abuse, then it most likely is related to MTHFR genetics

[@angelinpdx2297]

Thais, if you’re open to sharing, can you share what your Top Needs are? We are all curious to know! 😀💥✨Is there a list of Needs somewhere in the curriculum? Needing some ideas on what to even list. Or are they all customized to each of us? I like sending and receiving a Good Morning text every morning; is that a need? It makes me feel better connected to my boyfriend. (And that black top that you’re wearing is so beautiful!) 💜

[@emilyb5557]

Hi, the needs course has a huge list of needs, core needs and personality needs I think from memory. What you described sounds like a nerd for connection and maybe certainty - in the consistency of regular messages.

[@dukethecolors]

I totally do the reactive dismissive thing when my partner is dismissive 😂😂