Revive Your Romance Overnight: A Must-Watch for Couples!

Struggling to revive the passion and intimacy in your relationship? Discover the power of attachment work in transforming your love life. In this video, Adam Lane Smith, a retired licensed marriage and family therapist with over 15 years of experience, teaches the secret to tripling the sexual intimacy in your relationship or breathing new life into a dormant bedroom.
Using real-life examples like Jack and Sarah's journey from a sexless marriage to reigniting their desire, Adam explores the critical role of emotional and physical connection in fostering a fulfilling sexual relationship. Learn the foundational steps to build an oxytocin-fueled bond that can bring back the spark and sustain it.
Whether you're facing challenges like avoidant or anxious attachment styles, communication gaps, or a lack of physical affection, this video offers hope and practical strategies to turn things around. Don't let attachment issues hold you back from the passionate, connected relationship you deserve. Watch now and take the first step towards reigniting the flame in your love life.
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If you’ve struggled in dating or marriage and worry you’re not good enough, worry no more. The Attachment Specialist Adam Lane Smith wrote this guide to show you how to stop fearing abandonment and start building healthy relationships. Through his proven step-by-step method for repairing attachment, Adam will teach you what people really want from you, how to give and receive love without fear, what red flags to avoid, and how you can build a lifetime love with a partner you trust.
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Key Topics:
✅The Importance of Attachment Work - Explains how attachment work can significantly improve intimacy and sexual satisfaction in relationships.
✅Jack and Sarah's Story - A case study of a couple who transformed their sexless marriage into a fulfilling relationship through attachment work.
✅Understanding Attachment Issues - Discusses how unrecognized attachment issues in both partners can lead to a lack of emotional and physical intimacy.
✅The Role of Emotional Connection - Highlights the crucial role emotional connection plays in maintaining a healthy sexual relationship.
✅Building the Oxytocin Pipeline - Describes the process of building emotional intimacy that leads to increased sexual desire through the release of oxytocin.
Common Attachment Styles and Their Impact - Details how different attachment styles (avoidant, anxious) can negatively affect relationship dynamics and sexual satisfaction.
Strategies for Improving Intimacy - Offers practical advice for couples on how to enhance their emotional and physical connection.
The Importance of Non-Sexual Physical Touch - Emphasizes the significance of non-sexual physical affection in building a strong emotional bond between partners.
Addressing Sexual Misconceptions and Challenges - Debunks common myths about sexual desire and addresses challenges such as erectile dysfunction and low sex drive.
Actionable Steps for Couples - Provides actionable steps for couples to take in order to start repairing and enhancing their intimate connection.
Chapters:
00:00:00 - Attachment Work: Restoring Intimacy in Relationships
00:02:22 - Boosting Your Sex Life with Attachment
00:04:49 - The Oxytocin Pipeline
00:07:11 - The Role of Oxytocin in Female and Male Sex Drive
00:09:29 - Avoidant and Anxious Attachments and the Impact on Sex Drive
00:11:52 - The Disruption of the Oxytocin Pipeline
00:14:19 - Fixing the Relationship and Increasing Emotional Intimacy
00:16:30 - Building Emotional Intimacy through Sharing and Physical Touch
00:18:49 - Building Intimacy through Nonsexual Touch

[@ivonesilva6084]

90 minutes minimium per week bonding. Non sexual physical touch. Holding hands while walking in nature, dancing as a couple, listening to live music together, courtship …

[@christyannceraso]

This is so good. Please change the thumbnail or release with a new one. I have an avoidant partner of a year, it’s been exhausting, total dopamine addict, and, I love him and I see hope. I’m sharing these videos with him. The title in the thumbnail will scare him away off the bat. As will the word marriage. Thank you.

[@AttachmentAdam]

That's valuable feedback about the thumbnail. What kind of imagery do you think would better capture the essence of the content for your partner?

[@LeFroge]

The part where you said how the woman's eyes light up when their husband begins to talk had me furiously nodding, "Yes! Exactly!" Its so so so true how vital this is, and fatel if not. I feel no better joy or closeness than when someone (anyone, for that matter!) Really opens themselves up to tell me their inner thoughts and feelings. Its a very rare and special thing. It can be as simple as, "i love that red lamp, because when i was a young child there was a red lamp in my room that made me feel safe in the darkeness when i was left alone." Its a beautiful thing to open up, and even more beautiful when someone is there to LISTEN. So if you have a spouse willing to listen, OPEN YOURSELF UP! It will make a world of difference! You're the best Adam. Saving all your videos 🙏 Also bought and read your book. Excellent stuff my friend.

[@AttachmentAdam]

Thank you for your kind words and support! I appreciate you. It sounds like you deeply resonate with the power of meaningful connection. What's one small moment of openness or listening that's stood out to you recently?

[@srikrishnavasanth3895]

I love absolutely love when someone plays with hair. One person who is elder to me did that and affectionately talk to me I was just shocked and happy that was one of the best moment of my life.

[@AttachmentAdam]

That memory sounds really special! Have you found that simple gestures like playing with hair enhance your relationships in other ways too?

[@kerensegevnoy]

Hi Adam, i have partner whom i love and adore but is very much Avoidant attachment style. We are both from and in israel. Any chance of getting your help with couple consultations? How can we do this with you? I tried the adress you linked but am not sure what and how to do there

[@kerensegevnoy]

We need couples coaching pls. We are. Both in such pain over not succeeding to keep each other happy Pls help

[@AttachmentAdam]

@@kerensegevnoy Hey Keren, I'd love to help you with that. We should talk in private, please send me an email to [e-mail]

[@jdprettynails]

I used to touch my bf all the time and over time he started to physically push me away. Over the course of our 21 year relationship sex dwindled over time gradually. One Valentine’s Day I made a huge effort, bought lingerie, cooked him a nice breakfast and when he saw me he yelled “oh no! You want to have sex??” I told him we didn’t have to then left the room to cry. I backed off because I thought I was putting too much pressure on him and we didn’t have sex for three years and he didn’t notice. I tried so many times over the years to talk to him, to find out what I could do for him to make him want me more. I told him I didn’t care about orgasms I just wanted to touch him. But everytime he just completely shut down. I never blamed him or attacked him. I just wanted to know what was going on. By the time the relationship ended he was watching porn every single day, his Twitter feed was flooded with naked women and I eventually developed feelings for someone else. We just completely fell apart.

[@AttachmentAdam]

I am so sorry to hear this, it sounds like you've experienced a lot of pain. In my experience, we often connect with the wrong person when we don't know how to filter at the beginning. As you're moving forward into a new life would you like some help learning to filter future partners better so you never experience this incompatibility again?

[@jdprettynails]

@@AttachmentAdam I don’t know just yet. I’m currently in a….I don’t know what to call it….situation with an avoidant guy. A month ago I clearly stated my feelings for this guy and he has feelings for me too but told me he couldn’t maintain a long distance relationship and didn’t want to let me down. Plus he’s a lot younger than me and that’s also making him back away. But then a couple weeks ago we attended a concert together “as friends” and things got physical between us for the first time and now he’s completely backed away. He barely messages me, he does respond when I message him but it doesn’t lead into a conversation anymore. I know he’s going through a lot. He has exams at university and his dad is sick….then this situation with me has gotten complicated all of a sudden…. So I get him taking some space. But I’m anxious and I’m going crazy not knowing how he truly feels about me. I’m trying not to bombard him with messages and demand answers. I’m desperate to fix my attachment issues because I want to be able to calm myself without requiring validation from everyone around me.

[@katykat8582]

What if HE has had low sex drive from the beginning on? He also doesn't seem to be interested in other woman. 11 years in the realtionship we are now at zero sex. But this doesn't seem to be a problem for him. For me it is a problem! I tried every few months to change the situation, I asked him about his fantasies - he has none. And he claims to find me still attractive. And he doesn't want to open the relationship. Now I am kind of frustrated and bitter. I refuse to cuddle with him. And I think about having an affair.

[@AttachmentAdam]

This is so serious, you have to start asking for your needs and set some ruled for this relationship to be going. did you try talking honestly about your needs?