Baby Sized Zucchini (a talk about capacity) | VLOG

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There was a time that all I wanted in the world was a little farm where I could raise my family and grow our food. Now, that is exactly what exists outside my door. In watching it unfold, a new dream was formed in my heart - to share this beautiful life with others and teach them the lessons we've learned along the way. Welcome to our journey, friend. I am so glad you're here.
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[@kathleendodds5309]

I think the difference between your life and the “rat race” is that your life is with and for your family and you are in it together to your benefit and it makes you happy and gives you peace. Even though it’s exhausting at times it’s not the same as running on the hamster wheel all day with nothing to show for it but a lot of time missed with your children and a paycheck. Your life is a gift and I’m so happy you find joy in it.

[@Kris-ut4ju]

It really is a gift to be cherished. Totally agree.

[@dawnwilliams8766]

Beautifully Said and I agree totally! ❤

[@debbiejackson7846]

Well said. Hard work, but so much more fulfilling. A beautiful life..really. 💐🌹🌸🌺🌻🌷

[@carriekassick7311]

❤

[@susanwinslow9361]

Good for you for your honesty

[@hitthacienda]

The coolest I’ve ever seen Jess look: standing in her high tunnel, a large zucchini thrown over her shoulder, hat backwards, tank top customized with her catch-phrase, and tats glistening in the sun. 😎

[@kayrabey1344]

I’ll have to go back and check it out.

[@Kris-ut4ju]

Too cool for school

[@autry9562]

LOL came looking for this comment 😂👏 100% agree!

[@elainemarie1473]

I went looking for that shirt, but the shop on the link said there were none there to see.

[@thebarefootgardner4687]

Me too!!!😢

[@HeatherCooan]

Miah is the rock to your balloon and it is the most beautifully composed partnership. The comic relief is a bonus..."and said I'm on the struggle bus".😂😂

[@susanwright3843]

The backwards hat and tank top, the excited look on your face, calling that zucchini a premature baby.... You're in your element today! 😂❤

[@SageandStoneHomestead]

I appreciate the validation in this video more than you know. People that are not deep into this life tend to not understand. You get us. ❤

[@Youcangarden]

Capacity…love it. I’ve been hitting a wall lately, feeling overwhelmed by tasks, kids home from school, rising prices, trying to open my store on Shopify, tending my garden (which went from two 4x10 beds and 20 containers to 9 beds and 35 containers!). I’m 52 and I have arrived at the place where I must accept my capacity. Accept that I just can’t do everything and it’s okay! No one’s going to die. Yes, I could’ve done more in a day 20 years ago than what I can do now BUT I also know my days used to be filled with BUSY. Now my days are filled with purpose. I think ahead and decide what’s make or break vs what can wait, what my body can do vs what I think it OUGHT to do. Accepting my capacity, losing the guilt, and receiving the joy that comes with caring for growing things. It’s a good way to live.

[@michellerose6721]

"What my body CAN do vs. what I think it SHOULD do......I am 55 and frustrated with the amount I can get done in a day. I have done manual labor for 30 years and am now reaping the pain. Priority lists are my new process. I am trying to learn to be satisfied with maybe only one thing crossed off the list. I am not 25 anymore, lol!

[@MissBetsyLu]

@@michellerose6721 it gets easier. Lol. Lol. It seems like more brains show up to make up for it. Many blessings everyone, everywhere.

[@sharonhaas8503]

💝 those little frogs playing their music behind you! They play on as you explain. I just smiled and smiled. Thanks Jess! Your boys put those little frogs in just the right place!!!

[@cheriebrinker3301]

I'm not sure which filled my heart most... Sweet Miah pulling up with his horse drawn carriage or Sweet Jess's incredible giggles.

[@debwiley3914]

Jess, tonight I feel seen and heard for the first time in six months. I'm a special educator - and I had the child I could not help last semester. I showed up every day. I did my job, but I wasn't having fun. In that same six months, my ex husband died, and guardianship of my disabled twins was on the table. That battle is on-going, and extremely stressful. My sewer backed up into my basement THREE times, and I had a contractor working on fixing things in and out of my house for months. At capacity? And then some! School has been out for two weeks, and all I have done is rest. My head is chronically hurting, the dogs are barking and seeking attention, and I don't have anything left to give. I finally planted tomatoes purchased from my local greenhouse last Sunday. Maybe they will grow. I didn't do anything special this year - I just stuck them in the dirt. I haven't checked in with friends, I wasn't attending worship, and family events were not happening. However, because I put my head down and kept pushing, I'll have all of those costs paid off before Christmas. I know that I need to be prepared to move - I don't know where I'm going, or when I'm going, only that I am going. When the twins come to live with me, we need more space. We need a bigger, more functional kitchen. We need a garden to grow our food. I need a gas stove so Joe can work with the pressure canner (he's the heavy lifter!) So tonight, before I go to bed, I'm going to pack one box and sweep one floor. The pups are shedding, as is the cat, and there is hair everywhere. I may be at capacity, but I can sweep one floor, and I can put 10 items in a box. Blessings from the at capacity crowd.

[@MissBetsyLu]

This is terrible! I'm so upset for what's pressuring you. I want to help. What can we do??? Many blessings everyone.

[@debwiley3914]

@@MissBetsyLu thank you for your caring words. You can pray that God works a miracle and allows my sons to be with their surviving parent

[@MissBetsyLu]

@@debwiley3914 blessings and hope and love and laughter and peace be yours in abundance. Many blessings everybody.

[@marking-time-gardens]

Absolutely... praying...

[@foreversettled9144]

Prayers for favor and blessing. May the Lord multiply your every effort with strength, energy, and healing. "I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me."(kjv). Little by little, it soon gets done has been my mantra since injury slowed my "capacity" down quite a bit. I rest in Jesus. When I am weak, He is strong .

[@samanthahoos9827]

I just told my cousin I’m down to 42 animals and suggested that if she’s overwhelmed (as a plant hoarder) that she not have more house plants than I have animals. 😂 Neither of us can keep up with the house work alone, but in gardening season we don’t visit people to see their homes. We visit to see them! 😊

[@gafairbanks2434]

So with you on house work! Garden is priority in my daily wanna do's. I'm about 1 month behind in the house. NO BIG DEAL in the way I see it!

[@juliedalgardno3361]

I needed that message. That makes total sense to what is happening in our 8 year homesteading life. Thank you for fitting us into your capacity Jessica. I read something just yesterday: You aren't tired because you are doing too much. You're tired because you aren't doing things that give you life.

[@lionheartfarmandgardening]

🦸❤ MIAH TO THE RESCUE!! ❤🦸 Thank you MIAH for being so dedicated to find the card, and thank you Jess for all of the hard work filming and editing!! Another great video!!❤❤

[@heatherpfeil2939]

Miah! You are a hero! Thanks for digging through the grossness! Jess you need a break! 😂

[@autry9562]

“Slow living” is an acknowledgment of your capacity, and choosing to stay within it as much as you possibly can. 🙌🙌🙌

[@vintagecurio676]

Loved your last podcast and your warning is so validated. In my opinion, people don't see until something happens to them. As you mentioned in so many of your your videos, our food industry is harming us in so many ways. I'm in my middle age and when growing up our only fear was getting cancer at old age but today is much more worst. 60 yrs ago, we never heard of food allergies, obesity was rare, children with autism was unknown, immune system deficiencies and so many other issues were unheard off.. God is speaking to you for you to spread the word and warn those who are searching for answers.. Thanks for your faith and knowledge. Many Blessings...

[@shamancarmichael5305]

Thank you for your dedication and commitment to the vlog, Miah! Your garbage trauma is most appreciated. 😏 Especially because what Jessica was talking about was so important. It took me decades of overdoing to the point of damaging my health to finally realize what you covered in this video, Jessica. Glad you learned earlier than I did!

[@charmainemrtnz]

You are beautiful, inspirational, intelligent, and real! Thanks Jess! And thanks Miah for rescuing Jess!

[@steveegbert7429]

Jess, your distinction between busy and capacity is spot on. People need to understand that their capacity may not be the same as someone else, so being honest with yourself and not comparing what you are capable of doing with that of someone else is so important. On a totally unrelated note, the beautiful warm evening side light on you in the pavilion would make for some great portrait shots!

[@ournuttylifeheritagegrovep4030]

Thank you for the reminder, Jess. We both work full time somewhat stressful careers off the farm and get our farm work done on evenings and weekends. There are a few other variables in the mix as well. At capacity indeed, especially when harvest is coming in. We prioritize and do what we can with the energy and time the Lord gives us and try to let the rest of it go. We're working toward a slower life, but we're not there yet. In His time... My husband is my Finder Man. I often say, "Where did I put my.....???!" and he'll say, "I'm coming!" Usually I put it in a "safe place" 😉🤣 He ALWAYS finds it! 🤩

[@ChaosMakersHobbyHouse]

I make zucchini gummy candy all the time! It’s delicious! I have the recipe on my channel but basically you peal, de seed the squash, cut into pieces boil in fruit juice, I prefer pineapple, boil until transparent then dehydrate until chewy 🙂 absolutely delicious!

[@MissBetsyLu]

Wow! That's something I want to try. MAny blessings everyone, everywhere.

[@marking-time-gardens]

Thank you for sharing your recipe idea! Headed to your channel...🥰👍

[@celiahilbrand6943]

Love your honesty- and husbands can equal heroes more then we realize! Grandkids and I made mock “apple” pie- no one could tell we used zucchini and not apples.

[@tracycrider7778]

I made one last year for 4th of July and no one knew that it was zucchini 😂😂😂❤❤❤

[@celiahilbrand6943]

@@tracycrider7778 the kids KNEW what it was and loved it so much they were disappointed when the next pie was actually apples. Go figure. Kids, but aren’t they the best. 😊

[@laurahenderson2384]

Fun side note: i was sad that I didn't have a video of yours to watch the other day, so I went back and looked for an old one I missed and found a devotional about Love Languages. Such a gift for my heart. Thanks for always shining the Light - whether sharing spiritual truth or helpful gardening tips and everything in between and around. 🧡

[@maryannodell7856]

I adore that video 😊

[@MissBetsyLu]

Look at those muscles. Wow. Gardening does wonders for a girl. Many blessings everyone.

[@gaitedtrailsfarmandlonghor8986]

Do many things a day. Slow and steady. Trust an old woman. Right now watching my husband get round bales out of a field and count them and for emergency. Listening to birds and Jess. Watching deer and babies. This is my slow part of my day. 🐂

[@smegilligan77]

Jess - so appreciated this. Thank you! I have come to believe naps are a blessing and sometimes I just need to "get away" and be in HIS presence - sitting - resting - listening - AND sometimes talking and recording. I have followed you and Miah for years. You are one who has restarted my love for the garden, being in the dirt, staring at wondrous creations AND even in the struggle of disappointing harvests - the hope and promise that seeds hold potential promise and eternity. Thank you. I think "know your capacity" is right up there with make your waiting room a classroom. BTW - I quote you often in BIBLE study when anxious hearts arise at expecting desires that are not the path GOD has chosen. Now my turn - I BLESS YOU UNTIL NEXT TIME. IN HIM, Sandy

[@waykeeperfarmandnerdery]

I haven’t heard the term “not a one person garden”... that resonates a lot, especially for a farm, business, even families. ❤

[@DigitHomesteading]

Capacity is a great term! I feel this as a new KZbinr, wife, mom, animal keeper and still working outside the home! Some days there are multiple things that get put off and I'm learning to be ok with it.

[@anrim7537]

Miah is like my King, whenever I lose something and search the whole house, he finds it in a few minutes. Without him, I would have left my head somewhere 🤣 The nerves and patience that such men have are rare 😘

[@gafairbanks2434]

Oh so thankful for the 1/2" rain we just received! Garden here grew 3 full inches overnight. Weeds, ah yes, 3 years and now retired, i just took a claw by hand, and got rid of 26 wheelbarrow loads of grass roots and rocks! First time full garden has been planted in 13 years. Someday i should purchase a tiller. Love to be in nature. 😊

[@yvettesaxon8572]

I love the distinction you make about working at capacity and busyness. It’s totally true. Working your own land provides food for the soul so you are not inactive and it is a lifestyle lived with intent toward a goal. It is about being responsible and thoughtful and writing lists (in my case) to get the best result with the routines in place to make that happen. It definitely is about prioritising needs daily for the positive result without overwhelming everyone involved ❤

[@lindasommers5181]

Thank you Jesse for being honest about capacity and being intentional in all that you do. God blesses that kind of living. Today, I didn’t want to go out into my small suburban garden because I get migraines. Listening to your story with the chill music in the background gave me the motivation to bless my garden and get the work done so thank you. 😊Blessings- Linda

[@brandimarsh7875]

Always appreciate your wisdom! I love the positivity of ‘I’m just at capacity’ instead of ‘I’m busy’. 🙌🏻 Thank you for that perspective!

[@bhavens9149]

thank you Miah for todays video! :) what a trooper!

[@AB-ol5uz]

yes - thank you for your personal sacrifice in going through the trash - eek!

[@barbarafunk5118]

We are having the most beautiful cool spring this year, trying to do it all, planting, building a green house, designing a new space, where we lost a large tree last year, lots of stuff, adding a trip with my daughter and grandsons 10 days away from my garden not good. My dog is not well i have started making all her food as well. it all adds up and then you just are fried, rest is all you can and should do. New deck chairs arrived just in time, i sat in my new furniture and read books on food and flowers and growing and cooking. The breeze would blow through and i relished my fresh clean deck and fresh deck railing paint, i love that i did get it all done. I love all that is coming in the garden, you are so right i was maxed out. We all have such big dreams and it does take time and very hard work to get that dream. I love the work so grateful to be able to do. Tomorrow i will hit the ground running and try to pace myself. love love love this video.

[@jessicakurtz837]

I love that definition of busy versus capacity!

[@shaunamiller3235]

I love getting to take a break during my day and enjoy your videos. We plant clover in all our walkways for a living mulch. It helps control other weeds, adds another flower for the bees, and the chickens and bunnies absolutely love the easy treat we can give them for free everyday.

[@marigoldmeadowsfarm7495]

And this is why we love Miah !!!

[@peggy1844]

I felt that my husband and I spent so many years building this big snowball that kept growing up a mountain...having 10 children, building a business an hour away from home, building our own home on 15 acres, starting a church and homeschooling....and we have spent the next half of our live running as fast as we can so that snowball doesn’t roll right over us😊 😂

[@mojoflyingsolo639]

I just wanted you to know that you have changed the way I garden, for the better. That is saying something good because I have been gardening for over 47 years and I thought I knew a lot you definitely gave me a better way to see my garden. So I want to Thank You for spending your precious time with all of us here in KZbin land.

[@catracampolieto8989]

I push myself forward even after working 10 hour days. My garden calls to me, come play. I don't feel taking care of my garden is work or a chore. Being in my garden is the most relaxing part of my day. I'll have a sandwich or salad for dinner most nites. Listening to the birds singing their songs and bees buzzing about is music to my ears. Does life get any better, I don't think so. Loved the hummingbird distracting you.

[@maryhensey5485]

I just love listening to you talk, taking a walk through the garden spaces, seeing a hummingbird and your honesty. I’m a 66 year old mom and Mimi to 3 grandchildren. I retired and we have a garden, flowers, a newly planted Green Stalk and my greatest joy is walking through my yard and garden and watching my birds, including hummingbirds. Keep up your wonderful channel and recognize your capacity and we will love anything you share with us. Blessings to you and your family.

[@val4valor]

Jess, you are such a blessing. I love your chats in the garden. Keep doing what you're doing and God bless ❤

[@zoebehave]

Even the best mommas sometimes need looking after 💚 Living with chronic illness makes it SO DIFFICULT to manage capacity. What was totally do-able a few days past is suddenly an impossible endeavor today and tomorrow who freaking knows? One of the best things my medical practitioners have ever told me is always have a backup plan. There's stuff in the freezer the kids can heat and eat, as well as easy favorite recipes on cards with everything needed ready in the pantry. There's people to help with the things that absolutely need to be done. I truly believe in my heart that the heaven that matters most is the one we create here through love, community, and fellowship. Glad to see that you're reaping what you sow in so many ways.

[@StayresIntoSpace]

Thank you so much Jess, I really needed to hear this today, when i have a carpet of tomato seedlings acting as weeds covering my entire polytunnel. I just moved into this place a few months ago, and I've been clearing and reclaiming spaces from brambles. I've done incredibly well whilst juggling a chef job, and keeping a van on the road etc etc etc... I keep reminding myself that a lot of the things I am doing right now, will not need to be done again, or at least will need to be maintained instead of having to do a big clearing job. And I'm doing it by myself, which can amplify the feelings of wanting to find a partner that wants to do this life with me. But, I am so grateful for having a beautiful place to be, that will only get more and more beautiful over time, my capacity will change with the seasons, and I'll keep the ship afloat. I just seem to catapult between awe and overwhelm, and I would like to find that small still space for a moment.

[@dawnburton5961]

Another awesome video! You by far are my "gardening homesteader life coach minister." I'm so blessed that your videos were placed before me! Thank you again!

[@StainedCrimson]

Honestly, your relationship with Miah and the way that you tackle problems together with a smile on your face is so inspirational. I really needed to hear that chat about capacity today, so I very much appreciate that he was willing to dig through the trash to find your memory card! If anyone's looking for ideas for zucchini treats other than bread, my mom's go-to was always chocolate zucchini cake. Absolutely delicious, I don't even know where she found the recipe originally; it's in her well-loved hand-written collection now.

[@cvgardener892]

I, too, am contending with Bermuda grass invasion. I expanded my garden last year (layered cardboard, built beds with landscape timbers and all new soil ingredients, used landscape fabric and pea gravel in the aisles). It still came back with a vengeance!

[@naynerboppers5254]

Thank you, Miah, for being not only her knight in horse drawn carriage but also playing a part in brightening my rough couple of days! We've been on our own struggle bus the last couple days (esp due to hubby being out of work for 7 1/2 months) and your videos have made such a difference in my heart, headspace, and determination to continue building/growing out my garden.

[@jamesbrown8718]

You are in your happy place, you have such a glow, and a smile on your face every time you get in it garden and high tunnels. You find fruit on the vines and you are like a kid at Christmas. I love seeing that, I came home yesterday from a three day trip to find fruit in the vines and I was talking to them like they were my babies. I was so happy to see it coming. My beans were in full bloom and my cucumbers are starting to come on and full of flowers. Tomatoes are starting to form I am ready to eat my first one from my garden. I have already harvested banana peppers and beets. My okra and carrots are growing like crazy. I love fish emotion. I put it on my plants about three weeks ago

[@sandyoklahomatransient8557]

Sweet Jess, Your husband, Sweet Miah deserves a special treat for finding you memory card😊 I so hear you on capacity!!! It's so easy to hit capacity, and beyond. Remember to give yourself the time to relax, and unwind. I cut our grass with the tractor, push mower, and weed whacked, did all the wife, and motherly things, worked in my garden, and said tomorrow I'm not touching any mower, I'm at capacity!!! I deliberately gave myself today. I did NO major property work. Grante, I did work on laundry, dishes, dinner. Oh, and I bexame a Grandma today to a healthy baby boy. Life is good!!!

[@RootsandRefugeFarm]

Congratulations!

[@sandyoklahomatransient8557]

@@RootsandRefugeFarm Thank you!

[@rhodi-anne]

Talking of throwing things in the trash, I threw my phone in the trash on a road trip and my hubby also came to the rescue and had it delivered to us 6hrs later. Love the term capacity, it has opened a new way of communicating in my house hold. Thank you for sharing your pearls of wisdom.

[@kstewart3901]

Thank you, Jeremiah!

[@annpittaro6551]

Boy this video is so so amazing. For me I call it "running on fumes" and I totally understand. Thank you for putting it into words and it is good to talk and let it out. I so appreciate your videos

[@MissBetsyLu]

Miss Jess? There is a meadow mix of wildflowers that are 8" tall. Wouldn't that be the coolest for in-ground walkways. Many blessings everyone.

[@FermentedHomestead]

That is a very relevant point of view for me right now. For em when I get so busy I lose focus on what is truly important and that’s been me for the last couple months for sure

[@michelewhite1150]

I don’t know how you do what you do in your life. I feel guilty that I want to have you be here for us/me to brighten up my life every day ❤

[@shannongriffin63]

Thanks Jeremiah you two are definitely meant for each other

[@kimjensen1217]

As well as shredding & freezing it like Jess suggested I also make zucchini "boats" with the larger ones. I cut them in larger slices (3-4 inches), seed them & put them on a cookie sheet (skin sides down) then put spaghetti or pizza sauce, pepperoni & shredded mozzarella cheese on top. Bake until tender. We love them & it helps to eat the larger overgrown ones up quickly!

[@donnabalisle2645]

Yes those are good. My daughter makes Taco boats & puts stuffing mixture & bake. So Good

[@cloverdo-over2541]

My MIL makes zucchini cupcakes with butterscotch chips. So good! The chips sink down in the batter some and make almost a butterscotch crust. We also use massive zucchini for a flour substitute. Shredded, dehydrated very well and ground. I also slice and dry them to rehydrate for the chickens in winter. If I had more freezer space I'd just freeze it for them. Slower life sounds wonderful. Yet I'd prefer this crazy farm life to being "bored". It's always nice to know we are not alone in the madness.

[@natashacoetzee5489]

A video from Jess makes life alright ❤

[@galeharris6696]

and at capacity with things you love is so different from filled to capacity by meaningless actions or jobs that don't fulfill. I had a couple of decades with a landcare-landscape business of 120 customers, a full time band, a high energy kiddo, and a property I'd inherited from my parents. I was at and sometimes beyond capacity, but LOVED what I was doing. And as you said, it was about being intentional. I knew when I was "Running on Empty", and took a break.

[@debihuntsman9314]

Jess, spending time with you, and your sweet Miah, is always time well spent. 💞

[@GardeningintheNorth]

I loved this video. It touched home for me. I often say I’m sorry, I don’t have capacity for that right now, and It took a long time to stop feeling guilty about it. These types of videos validate that we are not alone. Thank you Jess. 😊

[@barbaramix1683]

Thanks for finding it and for being her night in shining armour. Happy tomato season Jess.

[@amymcglothen2091]

I work with the elderly in activity. I haven't had a vacation since last July. I can tell you that I was at my end I love the way you look at things. Thanks, I have to step back.😊

[@ramblinrosecottage5983]

I needed to hear this. It makes so much sense to me. Even on my little 1/3 acre urban homestead there are not enough hours in the day to accomplish all the things I want to.

[@mj1294]

Ty for using some of that capacity for your viewers, my friend.

[@growjoyfullyhomestead]

I am so happy for you, that you're going to have a wonderful garden this year! It's about time! Guard your health, enjoy your summer!

[@nicoleolson1347]

I am in the thick of a very over capacity season of things that have to be done. This video is so timely. Thank you ❤

[@LizGross]

I needed this video so much today. I run a business that’s at an inflection point, and I haven’t had the chance to think about what my capacity is in relation to that, my large garden, my volunteer commitments, my relationship, and my phone. I’m more likely to think that I’m failing because I can’t do it all. Your reframe helped me today. Thanks, Jess.

[@robinlj5767]

Love your thoughts!!! I feel “busy” is a mental concept that involves a touch of victimhood. Your concept of “capacity” feels much more accurate & meaningful! As always, thanks for sharing!!!♥️

[@jenniferreid77]

I can't tell you how much I needed to hear that today. Thank you.

[@pamelaroden5513]

I refer to it as being on the garden merry-go-round, but what a glorious ride.

[@fields-n-feathers]

Hearing you talk about being "at capacity" and "over capacity" was very freeing. Thank you. Also, realizing how TIRED YOU WERE, shooting this portion of video makes it CRYSTAL CLEAR as to how the SD CARD "fell through the cracks."🧡😁(((BIG HUGE))) Thank you for hanging out with me today.

[@meganmackenzie5993]

This message of being at capacity and making intentional choices is where I am living. My teaching year ended 1 week ago, and I took a lot of comfort in the Nora Ephron idea about juggling many spheres, some made of glass and some made of rubber. Jess, your message was that same idea: milking cows or feeding kids are made of glass and must be done, whereas some things just have to bounce and roll around before we get to them, like dealing with invasive grasses.

[@TiaChii]

I think a slow and simple life is also not trying to be perfect in literally everything. I notice people just being blinded by perfectionism. Sometimes it isn't great, sometimes you miss something, and being ok with THAT is the simple feeling of life. The slow life I think is being happy with what you have and being happy with spending your time and energy on these things. Because doing too many things you dislike or can't perfect to your will, makes it feel like you're in a rat race against the world. So yeah, knowing your capacity is a big part of the "slow" and simple life!

[@stephaniebranstetter5521]

It’s easy in the sense that it’s FUN and fulfilling and great reward at the end but takes great work and next to zero rest. I get it ❤

[@jenniferchristiansen2040]

I love watching you and Miah play about the difficulties you shared. It changes a drama into a dramedy.😂

[@pduplantie]

Spot on! Intention and practicality of what is do+able is so important! ( Especially at 70 with health challenges! But..so rewarding..

[@ChickadeeMountainHomestead]

I just love y'all's team work!! I also use the phrase struggle bus, and that was so fitting for your situation!😂

[@Katsimagination21]

Hey Jess ❤ Love these videos where we just sit and chat , make a note of the time you see the hummingbirds, they follow a schedule , we have one that stops by our zinnia patch every day between 4 and 430 in the afternoon ❤

[@christineherbster609]

I love this. Thanks for sharing and for your honesty about it❤️❤️

[@micheleweatherspoon6399]

I love it when you have these talks with us. Thank you so much 💓

[@BeccaNolte]

Loved this video. So needed to hear it!

[@jenniferdelong5434]

Jess, thank you for your honesty and compassion. It is so powerful to hear you speak the truth. You remind me to give myself grace when I'm at capacity. Thank you ❤

[@badajoma]

Thanks for being real & a great motivator😊

[@ColRubyDimplesManacha]

Much like most of your content, I needed to hear this at this exact moment. Thank you, Jess!

[@thepinkwolfe]

And Bless You and yours Jess, for always thinking of all of us as well!!! We so appreciate you!

[@rachelhenderson3275]

LOLOL This is great. My husband just did this 2x the other day and was so mad at himself. Glad i can point to this right here so he can chillax a little more.

[@TheIntuitiveBodyFoodieNetwork]

Yay!!!! 🤩Congrats on the tomatoes.🍅🍅🍅 What a wonderful harvest you'll have. 👩‍🌾 As for the grass (a.k.a.🌾) ... 🌾 has a mind of its own. Sometimes you just have to let 🌾express its mind & roots, while you live to witness it. 😉🍃😶‍🌫

[@karionhawkins3091]

❤ I so appreciate the effort you put into making content 😀. Thank you Jess

[@nancyschwartz5665]

Jess, you did such a good job of explaining this idea of capacity. Thank you!!

[@susieclark1498]

Thank you again for sharing your life and your wisdom with us.

[@annmariecampos552]

There you go again putting words to what my heart is trying to find to words to express, you are such a gift! Thank you ❤

[@LorrayneHam]

I love this conversation.

[@soilandsazon]

Love the intro😆 the frogs in the background are so perfectly placed!

[@laurahenderson2384]

Beautiful as usual. Glad you're giving yourself time and permission to rest 🧡🙏🧡

[@oliviathacker8151]

Made so much sense!!! Quite literally needed this little pep talk!!! 👌🏼

[@mmegraham]

You are such a delight to know, even in this small way. Thank you, sister Jess.

[@karenl7786]

What a blessing this message is. i've just shared it with my loved ones ❤