Russell Brand On Feeling Unloved!

Do you ever feel unloved? Why?
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[@LowleyUK]

I spent 8 years in total isolation, lost all my friends and even my family, I felt lonely as can be. I thought it would never end but a few years ago it did. Never lose hope if you're going through loneliness!

[@brunildamarrero2095]

LowleyUK Thank you! You give me hope reading this.

[@LowleyUK]

@@brunildamarrero2095 Ah that's great to know :)

[@sjwillis1137]

You will be okay . You just basically have to nurture yourself like you are your own mother . That is survival . Go for it !!

[@the_original_Bilb_Ono]

Buts it's like I run away from love yet I'm sad that I'm alone. I can watch myself sabotage my own happiness. I don't want to be this way but idk... It's like Kurt cobain said "I miss the comfort in being sad" it's like my brain has only known loneliness. I'm not sure what's my issue..

[@MaxMustermann-hd7oe]

Thanks!

[@adaumisasmr6620]

"look for your soul, mate. Not your soulmate."

[@moretrenmoremen3421]

😂

[@pspencer4096]

🙏

[@calvancandy8384]

I was feeling lost. I was playing the character of “it’s all good and life is great. The truth is I was isolating myself more and more because I didn’t want people to know I was suffering with mental health issues. I couldn’t even work (and still don’t) I’m a graphic designer. I went to a talk on mental health and on the way I decided I was going to make a book on it and put all my passion into it. I decided to go to counselling on the journey and to be honest it’s the best thing I’ve ever done. I don’t care if the books not published or that I’m not working right now. All that matters is my recovery. I found real hope again and I wish everyone love, light and healing in your life. Thanks Russell as well it’s great to listen to your videos

[@annacatherineevans]

Please seek the Lord. I feel all of what you wrote. Truly. I was there. Searching nonstop for the right career and relationship. I hardened my heart to get through. I got the nickname "little Bliss" bc I was playing the part of the free spirit, life is love thing.... but I ended up even more deeply depressed, hating myself since I was 5 years old. Never feeling good enough. Last year I had weird thoughts of not even wanting to live anymore. Things changed after I began to seek God. He got me to my lowest point in life and brought me back up. Jesus became my rock. He's the only way. He will help with any addictions or struggles you have. I promise. My life has never been the same. I've been on my walk just under a year. Jesus can and will change you and give you a new heart.

[@annacatherineevans]

@B. Greene you're right RELIGION is a con. I wasn't promoting religion. I was suggesting a relationship with our Creator through Jesus Christ. I spent my twenties searching for the right career. Picking up passion projects, smoking weed to find inspiration which worked for a while here and there. But all of these DISTRACTIONS were keeping me from the truth of who WE ALL ARE IN GOD. I'm sorry you've had issues with religion and religious people. I had a Catholic Church tell me as a teenager that I wasn't Catholic enough so they wouldn't let me participate in bible study. So I totally hear you. But you all seem to be searching for something and you are still not finding true fulfillment in what you are distracting yourself with. Listen, everyone has their own path and journey I get that 100%. I know it may take a trip through new age to get you back to the creator of the Universe, the creator of everything and everyone on this planet. I did my own thing for my entire life, putting God on the back burner. But I'm telling you, if you have eyes to see and ears to hear, please reach out to your Heavenly Father through Jesus Christ. You're never going to fill the void you feel without a relationship with him. And in all seriousness you have talents given to you by God, talents he could use to help more people like us to find peace instead of depression. This all may seem like the worst advice to you now, but one day everything will make sense. I just hope it's not too late for you or anyone else who reads this. God bless.

[@annacatherineevans]

B. Greene i recommend going over to the youtube channel "torch of christ ministries" to watch some great street preaching and encouragement videos. that is if you or ANYONE at some point on here is interested in hearing the truth. I'm not affiliated with them, but these videos have helped me on my path.

[@annacatherineevans]

@@cheshiregrin7892 WOW! Amen! I've been feeling so down lately (past couple days) regarding my walk and slacking and feeling far from Jesus! I've felt so guilty like I'm not doing everything right! Especially honoring the Sabbath (it's so confusing on how to rest properly!) I'm so glad what I said has helped you! All glory be to God! You sharing with me and reminding ME to stay close to Jesus is really something I needed to hear!! THANK YOU SO MUCH for YOUR encouragement! Wow. And you answered something for me too.... I realize I need a refresher of asking for the Holy Spirit! Stay blessed! :) And I'm really happy that you came across this thread. How wonderful! :) Everything we both are going through is being worked out by God. All the good, all the bad. It's His perfect order! His will be done! I pray that you stay on the narrow path and continue to be a light for others. :)

[@littlelily4]

I'm so happy you are doing better. I'm dealing with mental health issues and I can't work. But most people around don't believe me nor understand me, and I live every single day with the fear of being abandoned by those who I love. It's horrible Much love and strength

[@rl6985]

we feel unloved when we allowed ourselves to have people with no love in their hearts into our lives. It is a painful experience to communicate with someone who does not love us as we do them.

[@rl6985]

@@t7569 Sorry to hear that.

[@BlairBryngelson]

My God. My life right now. Just pulling my ass out of a brutal situation

[@Damaged69Youth]

What is the right thing to do when it's your own family and friends? Leave them all together?

[@kiringuyen]

キラキラ I think probably it’s something inside you that stops you from feeling loved. Love yourself first, fill your own cup and things will fall into place

[@mariedelmar9429]

Yeah like people who think about money 24hours a day. I had a friend with a lot of money who lived in a really nice suburb me being the opposite found her conversations to be soul less with no joy. Her conversations left me feeling so empty. I have money now but the thought of having a conversation with her now would be so much worse because money to me is like having two packets of biscuits instead of one it’s no big deal....but gelling with people and talking about common interests or at least something of interest has much greater life force.

[@Andrewclovis]

You look so well. There's a sense of peace in your eyes. I have realised that comes when you find inner peace.

[@purenrg4life]

totally agree.. its also a very nice lens though!! haha Am a HUGE fan of Russell and love his energy by the way before anyone thinks I'm a hater!! :)

[@paulsmith3128]

Mister Stag C STFU 😂😂😂

[@electroswine]

He's also dyed and trimmed his beard, conditioned and combed his hair, and got a spray tan. Namaste.

[@Andrewclovis]

@@electroswine yes, don't you think. Loving self is looking after self!

[@electroswine]

Yep, not criticising.

[@Scullkrusher13]

Being unloved by one person , the one that matters the most to you , can be so disheartening. It can seem like no one ever can love you just because this one person can't or doesn't. Just focus on loving yourself exactly like you would someone you're in love with. You are the most important person in your life. Show the world you love yourself first . By eating well, getting rest, exercising, listening to good music. Treat yourself to things you love. Do this and you will discover who you really are and what you want.

[@EnglishWay1]

Thanks for this

[@christopherdouglas512]

Russel can you hear me matey?… you are a retarded shithead please just go away😎👌🏻

[@12BY6]

Thank you for posting this

[@Scullkrusher13]

@@12BY6 you're welcome. I have been watching Kevin Samuel's content lately. He passed away but has alot of knowledge about modern women and relationships. Good stuff

[@gregmay9613]

The want to feel love from a person is the Ego/mind interpreting emotional attachment as love. You can’t seek love outside of you! It’s like trying to see your own eye ball. When you meet someone that you love they are the mirror that reflects what you recognise to be love within yourself, your counterpoint, the frequency of pure awareness. ‘Your task is not to seek love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it’ Rumi.

[@CC49889]

aAA

[@Bleublaze]

I wish I could get over my depression, this just made me cry more

[@FaveORitt]

Hi Hello so sorry, wish I could talk with you

[@raysunshine1987]

How are you?

[@user-rc4bg5nj4u]

Don’t give your power to an empty word depression to me it sounds like strong impression so live lighter Allah God will carried by my will Like don’t die by drinking eating 🍽 well keep do like house keeper for sea and land that is almost it

[@fierypickles4450]

Look at the channels 343, charisma on command, mind and magick, jordan peterson, and tim ferriss

[@Mohammed-yd4uc]

عبدالله A You know nothing about depression, you can handle loneliness but if we talk about depression that totally another case

[@nammyohorengekyoooooo]

Russell Brand is such a beautiful soul, u are so loved!

[@exo-grey-fox]

@Richard Head you're dumb

[@tornghost]

i come to youtube for the quality of debate in the comments.

[@vinnie97]

@@tornghost lol

[@liteknight]

@Richard Head username checks out.

[@osse1n]

Whenever we draw our sense of wellbeing from the outside, it should be a sign to look inwardly. Happiness is an inside job.

[@youssefrochdi1994]

Like 9/11

[@JanjayTrollface]

Happiness is a choice.

[@buckwheat6245]

@@youssefrochdi1994 lmao

[@nowvoyagerNE]

i think Jesus would have said otherwise. ;-)

[@kuldeepkaur5080]

O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me agreed brother!!!

[@jeannetterodriguez4663]

Thank you Russel for delivering these messages with such kindness. Sone of us are so broken and in such pain that the more aggressive approaches of other speakers scare us away from receiving the message.

[@rollerbladinggeek5507]

Not everyone feels unloved while being saturated in love. Some people genuinely are unloved.

[@Churlz]

This.

[@elinannestad5320]

I did. Now it's 30 years after my mother died, and my grandmother too. I was blind! Didn't appreciate them and miss them more and more now.

[@rollerbladinggeek5507]

Eli Nannestad .. Then that's on you. Not everyone is in the same position as you.

[@rollerbladinggeek5507]

Eli Nannestad .. it's true that people who are too ignorant to appreciate it get love, but those who would appreciate it, receive none.

[@rollerbladinggeek5507]

In the same way, good things happen to bad people & bad things happen to good people

[@user-me6fw2pk7x]

Your videos always come at the right time! Thank you!

[@damotheman4196]

Yep...and i might've just went through the night not knowin that i felt unloved! Damn you russell you sexy,love guru!😂

[@skyejacques]

💗💗💗 try exploring emotion code. It helps to heal stuck emotions 💜

[@damotheman4196]

@@skyejacques Emotion code?..elaborate please if you can,thanx.

[@LeeVickers]

Yup. It's as if Mr Brand has a direct insight into my mind, and is making videos just for me...

[@michaelmyers4847]

I know right? Whenever I'm going through or feeling something, his videos always pop up and are relevant to my situation. I take these as signs that I really need to listen and apply

[@MeandHim84]

Russell, you are a beautiful human. I love your depth of soul, heart, intellect, both mental and emotional. Your humor is exquisite. Thank you for using this forum to share yourself and your wisdom. Your baby daughter is blessed. They grow so fast. Enjoy every moment, especially the moment when she looks at you and says, "NO". It's all precious. All the Best.

[@kiringuyen]

It was me 2 years ago. Felt insecure, felt unloved and had low self esteem. When I started filling my own cup, loved myself enough that I didn’t feel the need to seek validations from other people, I noticed the fundamental changes in the world around me. Because I am now a happy and self-sufficient person, people love being around me. I have no fear connecting with people because I don’t care much what they think about me. As a result, people start responding the same way. Now I feel loveable and unstoppable because I believe in myself more than anything or anyone in this world ☺️

[@Lucywald2012]

Such a hard time filling myself with love. I grew up in a home with a lot of shame so it’s hard to have respect and love for myself. I hope someday I can connect with that.

[@natalieohlsson7777]

There’s no shame in Jesus Christ. Receive Him and let Him free you 🙌🏻🔥❤️

[@sillywillie5076]

You look like love, you just need to feel it, listen to Burt Harding he talks about love in the way it is supposed to be! He is another Russel brand type

[@garyreeves5835]

Your looking so healthy dude. You have come a long way. I look forward to seeing some more of your comedy as you truly have an amazing personality and you cheer up so many people 👍🏻

[@gatack75]

I always liked this dude, never understood the hate he got

[@garyreeves5835]

Ramza X most likely jealousy. Some people can’t appreciate others

[@carolburke9153]

I 2ND THAT!❤💕

[@its_me_dave]

He was a bit of a dick at times. Brand has certainly matured of late...

[@craftyjackie547]

Thank you Russell, this new series is such a breath of fresh air on youtube. Keep inspiring! ☮

[@TheHermitTeller]

The message in this video really made me cry. Such a pure and simple message in it's entirety. Thank you Russell 🙏🏼❤️

[@JosefFlynn]

Thank you for this. I’ve been meditating far more frequently lately and it’s really helping my overall experience with existence. I’m learning to love myself and be a more pure version of me. I’m almost unapologetically me (to a fault) but it’s nothing some fine tuning can’t fix. Thank for these kind words mate. You are a pure soul.

[@leatheljamie]

Russell brand just said I'm so lovely and loved.. I have completed life.

[@GlockAndARock]

bgrgrh Actually talking to the person behind you lmao jk hope u do feel that way tho, makes everyone feel better

[@cherryRedStilettos]

Thank you Russell. I needed this right now . :/

[@zacharycedeno6638]

Nice pic Brandi (: very cute! Hope you have a great day!

[@nintendude794]

Same

[@crystaliss]

Yeah. Precisely what I needed today. So grateful.

[@cherryRedStilettos]

@@zacharycedeno6638 Thanks :) Hope you have a great day as well love.

[@12345gerrard]

I just wanted to say total respect it's so cool that Russell is using his fame to help people with day to day issues total respect keep up the good work you are a hero in my book 👍

[@jennyfromthedock]

john I agree. He's hero material.

[@12345gerrard]

@@jennyfromthedock your right but when I watch his positive messages I can't help but to think that he is a example of how amazing we all can be if we would let it we all can be heroes if we all did more positive things rather than putting people down if we picked people up instead by saying amazing things and doing positive things we all can be heroes

[@jennyfromthedock]

john, yes, excellent points!

[@12345gerrard]

@@jennyfromthedock thank you so go out there inteli Jensia and be amazing and a hero make every one around you feel good about themselves I know I don't know you but Russell is a great example that anyone including you can be amazing so go out there in the world too and simply be the best you you can be love life and simply be amazing thank you for sharing your thoughts with me

[@302475]

Also I love that your adding in the comedic level, making it assessable. No one else is doing this. John Leon but with música, carry the touch. Much love x

[@alluramichelson8792]

Have always loved you. Today’s video though was what I needed. Thank you Russell. 🦋✨

[@TheBipolarOg]

I feel unlovable. At least in a romantic sense. Though I have been successful managing my bipolar disorder and ptsd - and I'm not ashamed of my illnesses, I'm afraid of being thought of as "broken". I'm actually very strong, but people hear that "Bipolar" word and you might as well have the Bubonic Plague! 🤯 I think I need a person with just a bit of madness...but it's not like one can advertise- "Looking for someone with a touch of madness. Preferably under control - Exception: No Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Been there, done that" 🤣

[@itsIouie]

You can find someone who loves you enough to understand and respect your space during those episodes. With love, communication, and discipline, I can see you having a happy romantic relationship 🙏🏼❤

[@TheBipolarOg]

@@itsIouie That's so very kind of you. I'm hoping one day that will be true ❤️

[@jankyjeans7203]

TheOptimistikChic - Kristina Coming from someone who has BPD (a narcissistic personality disorder) I find this comment very hurtful, you say it’s hard to find love when you have Bi polar yet are doing the same to people who can’t help having BPD 😞 you can’t help having bi polar either the contradiction in what you are saying is horrible

[@TheBipolarOg]

@@jankyjeans7203 I'm really sorry if my comment was taken badly. unfortunately I was married to a man who had narcissistic personality disorder and he was very abusive to me.

[@jankyjeans7203]

TheOptimistikChic - Kristina it’s okay 😊 thank you for your apology it means a lot, I’ve been with people who have all sorts of different issues and it’s puts me off too lol just kind of took it personally when I shouldn’t have

[@patsywhiddon1832]

I was almost 50 before I figured this out, now I live alone but I am not lonely because I finally love myself and understand my alone time is purposeful. I do look forward to meeting someone special but my happiness no longer depends on that factor. Thank you Russell for your sharing your enlightened knowledge with us, it is powerful stuff and you have a mission as we all do! Much Love to you!

[@youtrippin35]

I been a fan of you since your rough days now I'm just motivated I'm so proud of you man you have no idea how inspiring you are to me I quit drugs about 6 7 years ago and now I spend my sober years watching motivational videos like yours keep up the good work you came a long ass way my dude

[@iambeliever1052]

What an incredibly inspirational man! Appreciate the positive vibes you're putting out in the world. 🙏

[@joeinglesfield7446]

Lad's on holiday in his caravan and still has time for us. Cheers mate! ❤️

[@ShadyDogg]

@Nelson Giles lol chill you dont even know whatchu talking bout

[@missnikita86]

I love your messages and short videos on topics. One thing that really resonated with me, which should be obvious but sometimes I feel we are so wrapped up in the chaos that the obvious becomes oblivious, is you saying "you have to be open to the possibility of change now that you've acknowledge there's a problem." Some get scared of the unknown and the change itself but it's either sink or swim. So thanks for the inspiration.

[@claireclews5298]

Thank you so much for today's video message - it has brought me comfort at a time when the emotional pain I'm feeling is excruciating xxx love always

[@nicholasrourke3836]

2019 russel brand the new buddha for us odd ppl 😂😂

[@valideno9592]

Why "us odd ppl"?

[@RussellBrand]

The anti-Buddha, Siddhartha for misfits. Thanks.

[@nicholasrourke3836]

holyshit Russell brand replied to my comment that is cool. love seeing u on this journey while u share its very inspiring how honest u r

[@Cat_StJames]

You have to be odd to be number 1

[@carolburke9153]

@@Cat_StJames love your reply cat💖💕

[@JoshsHappiness]

Love these little vids, such a digestible snippet of our everyday mental activity in the ant colony. From trauma and failure comes a great sense of thought process and knowledge, to find self love after breaking down the many layers of ego, is a process well worth the experience. Thankyou Russell ❤️

[@sk8ter409]

stopped feeling unloved when I started doing things like bjj, hiking, & doing things that make me feel good like working out. Am in a very different place from when this video was first released. much love everyone, hope you find your peace too.

[@18Bees]

Amen brother. Getting out in nature and (doing things for others - the hardest one ) takes the focus off POOR ME.

[@corvusbright]

People like you have helped me get over my anxiety and start talking about issues that are important. I'm trying to work on myself enough to be able to do something like this for others

[@mistys2616]

You have such a gift of language, everything you said was spot on!

[@kforjustice2884]

Wizard of lovely timing

[@mistys2616]

Kim Tobias yup!

[@zoeycorrigan1944]

For some reason it made me feel really good when Russell Brand said you are so loved and lovely 😂😂

[@MiauxCatterie]

i like when he asks us if we're having the title problem "are you feeling unloved?"

[@Hisokas_taint]

Your books have inspired me so much to wake myself up spiritually, I left a toxic relationship after repeatedly listening to the Revolution audiobook. It really made me evaluate the importance of making connections with people who care about my wellbeing. I could never thank you enough for everything you've created.

[@pandawan4]

This was recommended by some guy in a comment section of a Ted Talk video and I'm so happy I found this. Your voice is so soothing and confident

[@alexanderscott7839]

Thanks Russell, love these videos. I'll have to listen to your podcast!

[@qpraulitoqp]

Russell.. this is absolutely amazing. Thank you 🙏🏼

[@poeticposturing3850]

I love you Russell Brand! I love the energetic integration of how you take a tender approach to challenging the status quo. It's so yin/yang perfection! I'm impressed with how far you have come with smothering emotion in drugs to opening the heart as a clear and loving channel for those of us comforted by your words. So Lovely!

[@peachesjackofski8363]

This really resonated with me. I recently just found your videos, thanks Russel .xx

[@paulcooper5748]

Russell brand would make a good friend much wisdom.

[@BecauseHelives7]

I can’t think of one word to describe this lovely human being that would be enough to describe just how great he really is❤️

[@charlottasophia5311]

Great video again. Think I saw this on Instagram too... it seems one of the biggest issues in this world is ppl try to heal from the outside.. thanks for sharing your insight. Keep shining your light xx

[@living4ward2it]

good insights man. I always discover that when I feel lonely it's actually that I'm feeling disconnected from (lonely for) some part of myself, or just wholeness, interconnectedness, unity as you said...

[@alanacarson7695]

I needed to hear this BLESS YOUR HEART

[@LemonadeMe88]

thats sweet.. I hope you are doing well

[@scottishblueberry]

Could listen to you all day. You always make me feel better about who I am. And I am trying to like myself Hugs to you and your family 💘

[@Pugetwitch]

As long as you aren't a breathy, high pitched voiced whisperer, you are loved. 😁

[@Kyutenessss]

You are so loved! Please take care of yourself.

[@TheKMG143]

Thank you for making me smile. First time I have ever been compelled to leave a comment. I have been on a binge of your videos. I am happy for your success with your inner world. I am seeking to heal my own sense of self. I relate and I am grateful to have your insights. Love & Light☮️💟🕉

[@smogz7023]

What a brilliant fluent speaker. You are a true inspiration, thankyou so much mate. I needed this.

[@mrhelixx8944]

Love ya tons brother! Everything you’ve cultivated is beautiful and empowering. Thank you for sharing this time with us all. Hope to guide you on a yoga class one day Namaste

[@ssinclair7018]

@Richard Head coming from Richard gives head😂

[@mattwhite8837]

Russell stop coming onto me mate, I’m a happily married man 👨

[@charlottasophia5311]

Matt White 😂

[@alexandriasimms4842]

😂

[@chriscunningham8807]

Just burst out laughing. Nothing like some bent humour and wishful thinking.

[@katstevens4462]

I loved it when you put your hand out and said,"...you are so lovely", I felt that. I needed to hear that, thank you luv.

[@TheRemo76]

This is the healthiest I've ever seen you. You practically glow. Who would've thought you'd life would take such an amazing turn?!?! I really enjoy your videos and your wisdom. You've truly become an excellent teacher!! ❤️

[@romanp6521]

Cataclysm can indeed create positive change. Thanks for the great video!

[@batintheattic7293]

It absolutely does. I imagine it as like being struck by an asteroid. Hellish, for a while, but it also brings water to the planet!

[@thetrimreaper1019]

@@batintheattic7293- Asteroids dont bring the water, comets do.

[@grumpyaustralian6631]

@Not so usual guy one is ice the other is rock, how wasnt that obvious to you?😂 Lol jk, dw, we learn by asking questions, good job.

[@grumpyaustralian6631]

@Not so usual guy yeah I consider it to be common knowledge, but everyone has different interests, I'm not trying to attack you or anything mate. We make the distinction between them because Asteroids (generally) don't have tails as they aren't melting chunks of space ice but boring old rocks, there is exceptions to that rule too though, icey rocks outgassing for example.

[@grumpyaustralian6631]

@Not so usual guy no thats how the water (the oceans) got here in the first place, billions of ice comet's over millions of years. The water cycle is a complete closed system that recycles itself naturally.

[@reesepeacock]

But I am unloved. Husband dumped me ten yrs. ago for another. Since then, I am a hermit. I don't trust. I looked inward and realize I am fearful, emotional and mentally unstable. So, I live alone with my dog and cat. I have tried many times, but I just don't understand other people, and they don't understand me. I accept that, but it hurts a lot. I don't get people who are married 30 years. How do they do that? I live one day at a time, I feel a little resentful that sobriety didn't make me perfect, even though I have stayed sober through all this. When I am 80 I am going back to booze, drugs and cigarettes. I just am. Twenty years to go. Meanwhile I try to live my life as a compassionate person from a distance. I smile and buy girl scout cookies when they come around. "All the lonely people, where do they all belong."

[@susanbrown2909]

Auntie Social there’s a lot of us around..all ,with our own little stories to tell..I hope your life swings in a more favourable direction one day .

[@4humanity223]

you need ganja

[@patinho5589]

Check out reallove.com

[@thelifeandtimesofjames4273]

Auntie Social feel your pain. I love people. I hate people.

[@slurpdiedurp]

I'm 39 years old and I hate my 9-5 job. I have besides work, no real friends. I lay in my bed after work, browsing KZbin in hope to find a "cure" and released from this prison. I also find that handsome people have less problems in relation to socializing with people.

[@Cindy-qo2uo]

Thank you for explaining this clearly. I suffered loss and trauma years ago and I've been focussing on loving myself without feeling the guilt of my choices when I was less aware. It's contradictory, I know, I refuse to date until I know I am complete. Have some more work ahead, and I'm hopeful.

[@Rudraksha420]

Thank you Russell for this video. I didn't understood before that the compassion and empathy we search for in a person and thing is like we are asking for some limited love.

[@zackattack528]

So hypnotic and such a role model!!!

[@modestalchemist]

i read yesterday that love is like nostalgia for something that you haven't yet lost.

[@jeffersoncrum5575]

Thats a negative way of looking at it mate because you wouldn't sense nostalgia for something you haven't loved?

[@zsazsa8006]

When our frequency is lower our energy vibration is spaced farther apart...when we are at optimal it vibrates in a tighter way ..thats why you are feeling the strength and weakness ..so yeah that's true.🤗 Your message vibrates love in a strong way...I can feel your vibe💓

[@chrissywakesup]

I used to feel lonely and depressed because I was always looking to others to love me in a way I never had growing up, in search of the divine unconditional love , which always set me up for failure, spirituality has tremendously helped me to love myself where I no longer am lonely or depressed , it's so therapeutic to do videos to share out experiences with each other', once we stop having expectations from others for love when we truly need to love ourselves that's when I started to heal

[@WillowsWhimsy16]

This was so hard for me to figure out. Love is in an inside job first and then it just flows out and in and out and in and I can go through life in that flow. But for so long I thought someone else would come along and fix me by loving me.

[@trinidadsanchez3342]

Love was the most repeated word during this video And we love ya for it🤘

[@bumble8588]

Thank you Russell for your love and compassion. I feel it. My father just transitioned and I was his Guardian for 10 years managing six caregivers. I am not grieving him so much, because he lived an awesome life all the way up to his death at 90; thanks to me. However, my "expectations" are perhaps those from the 70's, that "humans" around me would at least send me a card, or gather round me to support me in some way. I guess this is asking too much, and I have been left completely alone. Their loving presence would heal what I need right now, and in this situation, I do need outside support and love. If there is no more love and compassion on earth remaining, just beam me up now! I have always been the empathetic giver to so many, and at times like these, it really underlines the sick self centered world we live in. Why can't people be more loving; what happened to reciprocal care? I give without expecting, but there is also the law that people should love back, and especially when their friend's need it. Do we have to train everyone now on how to be a human being. WTF happened between 1970 and 2021 that has bred self centeredness?

[@chadgrimes252]

This world is fucked up i was born in 1999 so i only experienced a small portion of actual decent human beings in my life when i was younger, now in my early 20's i'm pretty much isolated due to "friends" who tossed me aside like nothing and act like i don't even exist now the minute they have new friends i'm so bothered i can't even sleep at night anymore i just stay up listening to music to relax my soul but i hardly get enough rest i'm beyond stressed out, i miss the Early/Mid 2000's when i was a happy little boy with both parents and cousins next door that cared about me at the time i'd love to go back but unfortunately time machines aren't real so i'm stuck in this hellhole feeling unwanted by society

[@nativewarrior5052]

@@chadgrimes252 I was born in 1989. It seems after about 2010 the world really went to poop. I grew up in a small rural community and we had real connections within our communities that lasted decades. Now, people don't even know their neighbors, and secretly report them for violating the latest government edict. There is no more community. The technology that was supposed to bring us together is keeping us in isolation , glued to our screens interacting with each other virtually across vasts distances, but we never interact with those right beside us.

[@scubawithatuba]

I'm really glad someone with such a huge platform as yourself chooses to share these amazing ideas!

[@defektofsociety3617]

Russell you're that dude mate. Would totally love to have a conversation with you one day. You've been bringing great messages for some time now. Keep it up, one love

[@paulaharries62]

Not only are you oozing sound advice but you're looking lovely.....all fresh well groomed and glowing 😋😘😉 love you Russell xxx

[@jjslosttrain1461]

Brand, your videos help me a great deal, I thank you for taking your time and publishing them. I wish you love, joy, and peace in life.

[@glennpeck471]

Russell, I want to start with thank you for the years of fantastic entertainment that you have given me. And thank you for being you. I'm glad you do these videos. Some don't apply to me but other resonate within me. I am divorcing and felt unloved for awhile now. But I'm moving forward and am liking who I am again. It's not all due to you... but I feel like some of you videos were meant specifically for me. I am beginning to follow what the universe is telling me, and it's really making a difference for me.

[@Posseser9997]

Looking healthy and radient man!! Your love jug must be full :'D

[@nilamborage4251]

Thank you for that I was just about to cry before I watched your video

[@skyejacques]

💜💜💜 crying is good acknowledgement of your heavy emotions, too. Try to research Emotion Code. I found its really helped me 💓❤️

[@nilamborage4251]

Thank you

[@tweakiepop]

skyejacques agreed, when the tears come it’s a relief x and a reset button, at least for a bit

[@nilamborage4251]

@@tweakiepop what if it's a just way to feel even worse than before

[@lauriejanes6511]

Nilam Boeage Then do it again, or go do something nice for someone else?

[@queencallday]

I'm so excited that you're wide awake! So exciting and thank you so much for doing your part in helping our expansion!

[@JamesJohnson-gl8zk]

Hey Russ thank you for sharing I really do find your videos enlightening I think because I'm drawn to those with actual experience with what they're talking about

[@HarryJVaughn3]

This video came just when I needed it the most. Very strange. Thank you Russell. 🙏

[@LeeVickers]

Me too. No such thing as coincidences. I believe it's when you're on the right track in life and the world, and these things just 'happen'. Kinda like Taoism.

[@squttnbear]

Over a decade ago, I don't think I'd have realized how much Russell Brand's messages would mean to me in times of need. A wonderful human.

[@C.Love85]

Beautiful. Thanks for the advice, I really needed that.

[@DavidWoodMusic]

Literally had something happen today that left me absolutely empty. This was beyond timely. Thank you brother.

[@akino17]

Perfect timing to hear this, thanks!

[@ssinclair7018]

@The New Paulo Coelho mate stop asking people with a nice pic how they are you desperate creep. Ask everyone you won't get caught out then. People are so thick. The new paulo coelho. More like the new Fred West 😂

[@ssinclair7018]

@The New Paulo Coelho if you are an author I have a book for you to write its about a 12 year old boy from a well off family who loses his older bro to heroin then his dad dies. He ends up on streets. He has many problems to overcome he is treated very badly but God is always guiding him. Let me know if you would be interested in writing about this I will give you the ending. It does appear that you only reply to people with a pretty pic. Sorry if I offended you. Oh and I'm doing okay thanks! Hope you are too!

[@lisalee2885]

BTW when will we get smart and teach classes in school at different levels of ALL this Beautiful knowledge!!💕💕 We can be schooling and raising much healthier and happier human beings 😃💕

[@chrisjackson7669]

Thank you Russell, I really needed that, Also, please thank Jen again, she just suggested this on you're "Is it better to be a narcissist?" video, best video suggestion I've ever recieved.

[@Mumu_UwU]

You’re amazing! This is a great video and very accurate, it has taken me so long to finally realize these things, I wish I could’ve seen your videos long ago!

[@sugarbabylove1000]

I have felt unloved most of my life. It's something most of us want. And I think it's fair to say that I don't love myself. Not really. Yes my relationship is wobbly. And I'm also lonely. So I guess therein lies the rub!

[@adamchapman3358]

Start each morning by saying what you are grateful for. Your whole universe will change to love.

[@nicholaskeefe5335]

Love how Russell was slyly checking his notifications on his phone at 3:41 😂😂 Great video as always 👍👍

[@JamesLevineAndSons]

Thank you, I needed to hear that. And will look for it within myself, the connectivity of love, and in the connections I make

[@lisagibson924]

Feeling loved but very alone. Have love for myself and God loves me but very secluded.

[@Ariesbuddha]

I'm in a relationship where he dont love me and I'm lonely...... love your videos your such a lovely genuine man xxxxxxxxxxxxx

[@verfassungspatriot]

What kind of relationship is that?

[@Ariesbuddha]

@@verfassungspatriot a crap one........

[@kellystar8443]

❤️I hope you find happiness

[@gypsysomething1]

Thank you for this post. It was put up at a good reflective time for myself. I'm just now realizing how twisted my thought of love had gotten since my husband took his own life. I'm currently seeing someone that is treating me like a toy and I've been letting him...until now, he really doesn't follow his words with the proper actions. Thank you.

[@rocketdogticker]

Brand has such an amazing voice. I glad G-d gave it to him. He always speaks well for others who dont have as good a voice. 👍

[@AllorNothingLA]

That intro was why I love you so, you cheeky monkey. 😆🤣💀 Mr. Brand I do believe you, and you are my inspiration because I'm sort of a wild child as well and fight the negative energy on the daily 💪

[@Soralella71]

Veganism is definitely working for you, you look very healthy and happy.

[@JamieR1988]

Veganism is not good for you. Not at all.

[@briannab4770]

@@JamieR1988 - Veganism is perfectly fine for you if you supplement for B12 and ensure that you eat a good balance. This is even recognized by the American Dietetic Association. I know people love to make excuses that veganism is actually bad because they feel latently guilty for eating bacon and don't want to be shamed for it, but it isn't bad, no matter how much one says it is. Veganism without vitamin B12 supplementation? Yes, very bad after years of doing it.

[@monkeyseemonkeydo432]

Ranin Zadviylet And that’s just the start ... if you get really bad you’re brain/mind starts to get fucked up and you start talking shit about love on KZbin

[@justdoi8909]

Ranin Zadviylet seriously, you should have done one more day, then all your problems would have been over, Justsaying

[@ChorltonOutlaw]

Don't think it's just that. A stable, quieter family life is probably a help too

[@angeleyesfam8919]

That was so beautiful,it made me cry 😢,I’ve been through a tremendous lose and I don’t really have anyone to just hold me . And that is being lonely 😞,but the way you explain things is amazing,me being an addict and newly sober ,and going through this lose by myself is really my fault,I have my program and places to go that will help make me feel whole again ,and loved , your sometimes to smart for me lol ,I have to listen more than once Russell your too smart damit ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏xoxoxo love you 😘

[@adambsheldon]

Thanks for this man, really helpful/insightful!

[@TerriblyIronic9]

Wow got this notification at exactly the right time

[@Dawnabella]

Love milk?! Lmao! Well said. Just like the Beatles sang *Love is all u need*..

[@littlejosunnyshine]

THankypu Russel , felt unloved most of my life . Crazy childhood , selffish cold family , I fight to love myself after so much trama , Meditation has saved me , to trust & love , I changed so much in my life & people , lifestyle changes , but struggle to feel love , but working on myself 🤗💕🙏🏼💕

[@win4777]

Russ I love you! One thing I have learned in life, it that you have to love yourself, with that you have to have a lot of alone time! I love being by myself for days on days...I love my company! I'm an artist and I can amuse myself!