Secret Service Agent: Psychological Tricks to Influence People & Get What You Want | Evy Poumpouras

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On Today's Episode:
When you hear about influence, maybe you think of influential people or you immediately think of social media influencers. Have you considered, however, your own influence? To varying degrees we all have some level of influence over someone or something. You probably have more influence than you take credit for and acknowledge. So, how are you using your influential power and do you know when and how to activate it and get the most out of it?
Evy Poumpouras, a former secret service agent, is sharing her own strategies of influence so that you can find creative ways to connect with people and stop getting steamrolled over. Having influence and knowing how to activate that influence is another ingredient for becoming unstoppable. In the first episode of this series, we talked about confidence, in the next episode Evy and Lisa took a deep dive into the skills you need to start using your voice. In this episode it’s time to add another layer and look at how to effectively off balance people’s perception of you and better adjust and navigate to the people and situations all around.
You can use these strategies to get people to say yes, stay in the forefront of their mind, and connect in a more authentic way.
Influential Terms:
Priming: exposure to one stimulus influences how a person responds
Reciprocity: exchange of something between two or more people where something is given
Stereotype: widely held and oversimplified idea of a particular type of person or thing
Common Ground: opinions or interests shared by two or more people
If you didn’t catch it the 1st time:
1st Episode of Unstoppable, Be Confident As Hell: • Enter Your Badass Era!...
2nd Episode of Unstoppable, Use Your Voice: • #1 Interrogation Exper...
SHOW NOTES:
Priming | Tips for priming people you need to influence [0:57]
Pink Is Life | How to influence Evy into wearing pink on set [12:32]
Do Something for Them | Evy explains the idea of reciprocity [14:35]
Branding | The way you see yourself vs. the way others see you [24:08]
Swag Bag | Lisa reveals what’s inside Women Of Impact’s Swag Bag [31:27]
Common Ground | How to find common ground or create it [33:28]
Influence in Action | Evy shows how all these strategies work [48:32]
QUOTES:
“This is not about manipulating people, this is about setting you up so that you understand people, understand behavior and put them in a space where they feel comfortable and feel connected to you.” Evy Poumpouras [6:34]
“As long as you’re not manipulating or as long as You just don’t want this stuff to come off as disingenuous when you use influence techniques” Evy Poumpouras [41:35]
“We are resistant to things we don’t understand, we are negative towards things we don’t know, and we really want to break down those barriers and find the threads that connect us.” Evy Poumpouras [46:25]
“If you can just simplify people and find ways to connect and find that human element [...] how can I make you feel good about being with me and because I do that now I’ve influenced you to want to have a relationship with me.” Evy Poumpouras [48:12]
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[@enchanteddryad6500]

Sometimes what helps me in different situations is to '' audition for the role ''. I struggle with confidence and triggers all the time, but when I '' get into character '' it's so much easier. When someone is mean/judgemental/rude, I don't care as much because they are projecting onto a canvas, not the real me. The authentic me, is for private intimate moments. I don't need everyone to see the inner parts of my soul. They don't deserve that deepness out of nowhere, they wouldn't know how to deal with it and feel overwhelmed by what's going on inside. I used to be '' authentic'' all the time and it was a disaster. I really think how we present ourselves is a choice, and only when we feel safe and in the right space should we show the layers. The world is a cold, hard place so I'm going to dress for the occasion in my big coat, I don't want to expose myself to harsh conditions!

[@relaxwithme__]

I appreciate you sharing your perspective. I never looked at it like that.☺️

[@hulagirldeedee]

I love this! I need to practice your method. I really like that idea of keeping my authentic self safe.

[@coreyanderson7424]

I think you have a good point. I am very authentic, too, by nature. But if I must, I will be much quieter in more ways than one.

[@coreyanderson7424]

@@hulagirldeedee Me too, I was reading that comment, and I thought, wow, good point.

[@alessandraalchemia3863]

I really appreciate this! Very true and I’m not going to think of which situations I need to be more cautious of! Thanks so much

[@kibibishaw1194]

I could watch for hours these Two Friends talking together…

[@lisafrench7087]

I do watch for hours! A part of my morning routine. I love their souls!

[@Bestisyet2Be]

Me too!! Ever since I watched their first interview, I got hooked on them!!! Love Love these two women in power, helping other women redeem themselves after so much hurt, pain, heartaches, betrayals, and all the negative and toxic waste a damaged human being comes and dump on you. “I will redeem myself from this one “ I am a new woman, because look at what I am injecting to my brain so I too, be “UNSTOPPABLE”♥️💕♥️Love you ladies! Keep up these great videos for the greater good 😌

[@kibibishaw1194]

@@lisafrench7087 SAME! Today’s episode was too much fun!

[@kibibishaw1194]

@@Bestisyet2Be well said, Sister ❣️💖 #Unstoppable 🥰

[@ChristianaSenibo]

Absolutely beautiful interview

[@Requiem4Tuesday]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE I am over 50 and when I started to listen to these two and afterwards, I was able to handle my triggers better, family members and know when to walk away.

[@lisabilyeu8103]

OMG I love this so much!!!! ❤️💪

[@OnyxxRose]

Priming people 101 (to create less resistance with people) •welcome people warmly -provide food/tea •create an open environment -open windows -open space -open books IM UNSTOPPABLE

[@LisaBilyeu]

Congratulations! You’ve won a 30-minute group call with Lisa and Evy! Please email [e-mail] with the subject line “I Am Unstoppable Winner” and we will follow up with more details on how to claim your prize. *Important Note*: You have until Wednesday, November 24th at 5pm PT to respond or we will choose a new winner. Again congratulations!

[@marie-antalessy6352]

These two are the inspiration and support system that all women should know. Thank you both. You've helped me so much and we've never met.❤️

[@carrino15]

Yes they are so complementary and boosting each other, it is beautiful to look at

[@ChristianaSenibo]

Totally agree. They’re doing a fantastic job!

[@jeanwagner1977]

Don't worry I personalized service you

[@chelseyl880]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE - “it’s not about manipulation, it’s about connection”. 🧠 💜 ✌️ 😘

[@patriciarenshaw8047]

But these suggestions make it easier to influence people. It is just plain smart. Would yoi try to get something through to people when they are hungry or in a bad mood? No! She is quite an I fluency and helpful to all of us that choose to listen.

[@rubybellisima6385]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE ‼️💖💪🏼 “You want people to respect you the person, not your status.” I absolutely love this!

[@lova368]

This is deep

[@yes7855]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE My favorite was the idea that you can’t just “be yourself” all the time. Such a pressure to be that in the self-growth community, and I do think you CAN choose to be intentional about how you present yourself.

[@marymcmahon4363]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE I love when they talk about getting past "that's not fair" because the fairness of people's perception of me doesn't matter, what matters is what is my goal, how do I want to present myself. How people see me may not be fair but I can't change what they think, it's just what is, try focusing on the version of me I can mold and highlight, and act with authority.

[@MamaRavensCreations]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE. The confidence between you two makes me cry. The support between you two is so beautiful. Strong women supporting strong women. Raising each other up with love and Genuine compassion.

[@realtalk675]

The reason i follow Lisa honestly is because she gives me genuine vibes, openminded. She is truly herself and she is not scared to be vulnerable. Not many people are like that on youtube. She is a business woman but also a great human being. 🌹🙏🏼 respect

[@Kaleighc]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE! Evy mentioned the term “overly cooperative” and her explanation was what I really needed to hear! I’m so glad Lisa opened up about her story leading to that discussion! It helped tremendously! Thanks for all the insight and motivation!

[@RippleDrop.]

An honest friend is gold. Fully bravely as they are, not occasionally. You end up accumulating sh*t momentum if no one points it out.

[@ellam9332]

Thanks for bringing Evy back. She is great, another valuable lesson.

[@ChristianaSenibo]

Beautiful conversation right there!

[@growwiththeflow.]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE‼️ “Planting a seed- Priming with understanding of where I was coming from.” Love this! Playfully shows the courage and vulnerability it takes to share a desired outcome with another, to discuss possible co-creation. Respect you ladies, would love the opportunity to have an awesome conversation of badassery women empowerment!

[@hivyfalou1393]

Hey Lisa, your gift idea is really great, and you know what occurred to me? when your guests reach out for the mug and all of that they'll also remember their feeling of accomplishment, success and why they started in the first place, because you hosted them for their impact and that's what they're gonna remember as well, so I just wanted to say that's really great feeling to bring.

[@cyriapaul1799]

I just LOVE this new concept. It's like watching a Netflix movie. You just can't get enough. I must say Evy and Lisa are a VERY interesting and entertaining combination because of some opposite personality traits. Keep them coming divas.

[@yeswevalidate1590]

Reciprocity was definitely something I needed to hear, I give WAY too much! My husband says I am too good of a friend to my friends, and I guess this is evident because I just took a friend on vacation to Cancun. I don't know that she would do the same but now I know that I use generosity to get people to like me. The time stamp is quite convenient so we can go back to that spot and listen again and to further know whats coming up! This show is remarkable!! Love these 2 Dynamic Greek Girls!!! I AM UNSTOPPABLE!

[@ChristianaSenibo]

So good that you can identify what you need to work on. That’s half the job done. Now you can begin to take steps towards giving and receiving love without the need to use generosity. Well done 👏🏾

[@rosesicurello7712]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE! Priming while done subtle and in good faith is not manipulative. People who Prime and want to manipulate the situation or have bad intentions it will blow up at some point. Priming can be used to help you and bring a relationship closer and in good faith it is a wonderful thing.

[@kirbyd0g]

Evey's eyes say, "this girl has a lot to learn." The look has kindness too.

[@stephaniebaldwin39]

Agree

[@jeanwagner1977]

I love Opera. ♪

[@mahoganysoul1798]

Lisa?

[@KathrynBGro]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE!!! Nothing centers me more than these ladies. If I listen enough, confidence spills out of me and I see the effects of creating a future I want.

[@Rotthound]

Wow Lisa I’m so glad you got Evy to give that feedback on the niceness factor- I learned a Ton in 2 seconds about how I do the exact same thing and how I resist learning by saying it’s not fair- it is what is is lol 😂 I laughed in complete understanding and an aha moment ps. 💕 pink should be power it can be done!

[@kimerjo]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE: I love how you guys get into the nuances of different situations. How one person can offer a drink to be nice and make a connection, and it'd be perceived as having authority in that space, and another person can do the same thing and be perceived as just the servent. i fell i struggle with this line as well.

[@tch4874]

This is the most in depth talk I've seen in while, anywhere.. I'm listening & I'm hearing. Thank you so much for putting this out for us all. ❤

[@ChristianaSenibo]

Such great content

[@J43862]

I love her ❤️ I love how articulate she is and how well she puts things into perspective

[@mauraronda1265]

I totally agree. She is calm and collective and has great teachings😀

[@emithomas2990]

You two together is such a dream team! This is so inspiring, and honestly helps so much. Thank you for everything you two do, and for being badass role models for modern day women

[@sandrarosales8604]

I'M UNSTOPPABLE! (When I don't have a migraine :/ )For me having a common ground with people was the technique that I liked the most, because I feel that it's like you're putting yourself on the other's person shoe, and like Maya Angelou said: "They may forget your name, but they will never forget how you made them feel"

[@johannahpellascio5543]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE. I love the discussion about generosity, reciprocity, and equity. We all have a desire for equity, and by being willing to be generous we can appeal to the other party to reciprocate. Sometimes sharing real generosity is a big risk/vulnerability too, it puts you in the position of being “one down” to start, but it’s also an interesting way to take control of the situation because you’ve already played your cards, so if someone wants to reciprocate or not that can color the entire interaction. I’m definitely going to be using some of these methods in my trauma coaching sessions to help others feel more at ease!

[@savii3101]

“I”m unstoppable” My best takeaway from the program was finding common grounds even having nothing in common with someone even over a drink like Pepsi. I thought that was quite a powerful skill to establish trust with someone so they listen and co-operate with you. Wicked episode Thank you both Lots of love Savi x

[@MayThereBeWorldPeace]

I recently needed a meeting with upper management of a hospital. I agreed to meet but this time in a location of my choice, not at the one staff's office as usual. I plainly told them I need to remove that aura of me going to the principal's office as if I have been a bad girl. I am not the one who answers to them. They need to answer to me as a client. They did accommodate my request and though I am so angry with them still, and so much is still unresolved, I felt much more empowered by this simple request.

[@daralizumab]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE!!!! 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿 Amazing takeaway was not to be "overly cooperative!!! I am always overly cooperative because I think it will make life easier for me but I have found it makes life harder at times when people think they don't need to respect or listen to you! I would definitely rather be kind than just "nice/polite"! Another great takeaway was the respect doesn't come from status and the moment you need to ask for respect you already lost it! So powerful and it shows it doesn't matter who you are and what you have done to get respect!

[@phoenixrising8007]

Coming across as overly polite or overly co operative comes across as excessive people pleasing seen as weakness versus confidence 💥 Genuine connection is built by sharing common ground. Branding is how others see you not how you see yourself💥 Ty for the powerful shares 😎

[@alyjacobsen]

I can 100% relate to what Evy was talking about with her students. For my management students, I spend the first week of class priming and building rapport so I can lower any resistance they might have towards me or my class. Through this experience and my own research, I've found that the key to influence lies in your soft skills. Your capacity to connect with others and empathize with their situation and perspective. What's tricky (and also exciting) about this is that the way you go about this is entirely unique to you. What works for one person is not going to work for another. You need to experiment with different approaches to see what best aligns with your true self (and professional self). As Evy says people can see bull shit a mile away. Thanks for this video. I AM UNSTOPPABLE!

[@shanalucille]

I loved learning about the internal and external branding…. How you see you and how others see you. I also appreciated the positive intentions and focus on being genuine AND strategic. Love this energy between you two! Great book Evy; I listened to it and bought a hard copy. Lisa, so much gratitude for this container!

[@consentparenting]

I'm UNSTOPPABLE in my mission and this is the kind of energy I bring and love being surrounded by with others who are also on their own mission!

[@andiim5540]

You go girl! Feel your energy fron here! You are definitely UNSTOPPABLE AND POWERFUL! Own it queen! Much love and good vibes 🙌

[@santbr]

I absolutely LOVE this collab!! You two are amazing together. I love that you put some practical examples so we could clearly understand how to do it. You are changing lives, thank you Lisa and Evy!

[@alexbecerra2142]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE!!! Every time I watch an Evy and Lisa episode, I learn something that I would of never thought made a significant difference. For example, speaking fast demonstrates that I don't believe what I have to say matters or I'm not worthy of other people's time. I do this and I'm working on that. Thank you 💙

[@elliecraig1520]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE. You all have truly filled me with confidence. I have struggled with anxiety and OCD for as long as I can remember, not having the resources or money growing up to get help, your videos have been my treatment and I can say now that after alot of practice I am finally at a place of peace in my life, and damn is that freeing. You ladies are so inspiring and you have inspired me, a mom of a 1 yr old, to get up and pursue my dreams. I lost 40 pounds after I gained weight from depression and pregnancy, and now I'm working on becoming a personal trainer and working in a Muay Thai gym. I can't say thank you enough for being my inspiration to get off my ass and stop feeling sorry for myself. I loved this video because I truly believe you become what you act like, that is what got me over my anxiety and OCD. I acted as if I didn't have it, and I did whatever I would do if I never had those problems at all, and now I don't fear the things I feared before. I act at peace even when I'm not, and eventually my emotions catch up with my body and it is incredible!

[@shellyvanraden7382]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE! 👢💃🏼 Learning so much from this. I think the “overly cooperative” behavior is my influence “handicap”, as well! I’m a helper/humble, like to serve people by nature - and it’s definitely to my detriment. I diminish myself in the process without even knowing it

[@ChristianaSenibo]

The first step to progress is recognition. Now you know you are over half way in addressing it

[@melaniekeeling7462]

You're doing great!

[@triciamedora9274]

Lisa, you bring tears to my eyes. You have changed the way I will use the word grateful. Learning people have to earn my trust and appreciation. You are an amazing example of strength and honesty. Thank you!!

[@tom6253]

as a bloke i enjoy listening and learning from these 2 chicks great content 👍

[@Itsmzgabz]

The very first episode made me fall in love with you two! It was life changing actually! I'm excited for these series!

[@ChristianaSenibo]

It was and is absolutely beautiful conversations

[@samdasuleiman73]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE When first I saw this channel my intention was just to improve my English but now am addicted to and can not stop watching it. This channel made me proud who am I and believe myself and realize my potential thanks ladies. you two are amazing and wish u the best.

[@c.a.sword26]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE! 💪 The segment about understanding how others perceive us vs. how we perceive ourselves was FIRE! 🔥 Currently taking a hard look at how I can mold myself to come across the way I intend in situations with different groups of people, and will work on the art of priming & ways to find and establish common ground. Thanks for the MANY brilliant lessons, Lisa & Evy! 💜

[@SandcastleDesigns]

This was fabulous! Thank you two! I AM UNSTOPPABLE! I love the priming part...Lisa also convinced me to start my KZbin channel at the age of 65 and it has been a huge success! What Evy says about people prejudging is dead right on! Thanks again! Renee Weal

[@toulagatoula3633]

Will subscribe to your channel!

[@SandcastleDesigns]

@@toulagatoula3633 Aww thank you! I design custom handbags. Not sure it would be relevant to you but I appreciate! I love to teach and I coach a bit of growth mindset in there as well. I am a student of Impact Theory University!

[@jgastonguay]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE!! Many of us hear about realtors staging a home to sell, but I’ve never thought about the importance of staging a space for “openness” when meeting. Brilliant!

[@marnellkent3682]

I love the part about how branding affects the way people perceive and react to me. I've definitely experienced what Lisa described. As a big-time people pleaser I need to work on what my appearance and demeanor projects. Thank you I look forward to meeting you ;)

[@sophies8002]

Loved the section about ‘understanding how others perceive you’! Never thought of that really before, in terms of influencing other x

[@ekaterinapavlenko5212]

I 👏🏼 AM 👏🏼 UNSTOPPABLE👏🏼!!!! I AM UNSTOPPABLE! There, I said it on my own again 👊🏻 Thank you so much girls for doing these series!!! I was in a very bad situation with my boyfriend and your 1st episode really opened my eyes and pulled me out of my misery. This one is also so full of good advice and the techniques! Thank you again for doing this ❤️

[@MsHipmonkey]

Love watching Evy as her insight is on another level. Thank you Lisa for introducing her through Woman of Impact. ♥️♥️♥️

[@Tribeofthecosmic]

I am UNSTOPPABLE!! Thank you for teaching someone who never used to set boundaries with people. Ive learned being nice is overrated. And i dont have to be a doormat to be liked or loved!!! Ty queens!! 👑 👑💝

[@matlalimasitha6539]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE! I love how it's not about manipulation but authenticity. I love when Eny says you can be nice & professional but not too much which is something we struggle with as women! Thank you for a 💣 video!!!

[@Zeek509]

I love the funny scenes in between the discussion. Lisa: No matter what, is that I DONT. WORK. ON THE WEEKENDS. Evy: She is GOING to work on the weekend. 🤣🤣🤣

[@Q_Lashai]

I am unstoppable!!! I'm learning how to communicate better, to stop being a people pleaser, to understand that everyone is still human at the end of the day. I'm grateful to have found this channel!

[@analicewws1583]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE. I love how Evy seems to know much about compassion and empathy when talking about connection. Some people would interprete this as manipulation but only if they see it superficially. Also love the contrast between these 2 in regards to personality.

[@thisgiftcalled_life]

Every episode is so interesting and valuable! I have never come across something similar on KZbin. Thank you both Evy and Lisa for sharing! I AM UNSTOPPABLE!

[@sharone9230]

I am UNSTOPPABLE. I relate to your comments on Authority. As someone who is the same height as Evy, I have learned to carry and conduct myself as if I am in command and demand respect and authority. It's all in how you carry yourself and speak to others. I also like your comments on being overly polite. I've had to work on this and I have found my balance. I also like that Evy touched on Branding. I know what I need to do to feel confident, whether it's at my job or going for my much treasured runs or bike rides. If I'm viewed as being confident, fit, athletic, hardworking, then that's my authentic self. I have worked hard in my professional and personal life to be the person I've always dreamed about. I simply set my mind to who I wanted to be and visualized it until it came to fruition.

[@LisaBilyeu]

Congratulations! You’ve won a 30-minute group call with Lisa and Evy! Please email [e-mail] with the subject line “I Am Unstoppable Winner” and we will follow up with more details on how to claim your prize. *Important Note*: You have until Wednesday, November 24th at 5pm PT to respond or we will choose a new winner. Again congratulations!

[@deeTheG8T]

The way she described branding sheesh, she dropped so many gems.

[@NWats-ik6ou]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE. I love the part about you not being fake but tapping into a different part of yourself. Also knowing how people see you, how you come across.

[@pranali3061]

I M UNSTOPPABLE My takeway from this particular episode would be how to project our own brand. Its necessary to show up in a certain way in a professional environment. We can choose how people perceive us in certain situation and we can have different versions of ourselves for different areas of our life like personal or professional.

[@marzena4086]

I am unstoppable. At some point on my life I realized that I was continuously giving away ownership of the situations I was in with other people to them. With time, by consciously reminding myself to create balance between my authentic self and what I was willing to share with others, I eventually felt comfortable enough to claim ownership over my reactions, what I was sharing, and in turn, how I would be perceived by others. As women, we are raised and conditioned to be polite and accommodating, not realizing that it often results in us losing ourselves and giving our lives, our voices, and our image away. Thank you for another insightful episode.

[@treebs9516]

Hahahaha Evy's sitting on the couch opposite on the phone to Lisa. Love these two😁

[@madeleine5313]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE. Taken me a long time to get to place of having more confidence in my own capabilities but everyday (as a 44 year old & mother of two) I am learning how to be stronger mentally in a variety of situations. Learning more how to ‘read’ people and learn from my own mistakes and be more mindful of myself and my intentions 💜 Loving these two women and the wisdom they are sharing

[@ThatcrazygirlNunu]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE. Really loved the part where they both spoke about priming people especially when theres bad news coming as well as understanding how your being perceived even if its not a reality of who you are. Thank you so much for your educational. Extremely life changing 🙏🏾

[@taffylove6193]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE! One Takeaway~ Meet people where they are even if it makes you uncomfortable. Drinking the Pepsi, in order to connect with a person to extricate the information you need. Wise Wisdom without force! Thank you Lisa & Evy~

[@embest425]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE! My take away is being over nice or over kind is not good in a professional setting as well as not "being yourself" in a professional setting is good and needed a lot... picking the side of you that comes out based on the circumstance. Love you two!

[@vickybibiris1792]

I am unstoppable. The advice here is incredible and I’ll be playing it to my team and asking them to train each-other (and me) on what they took away. Genuine, bad asses. Forget how proud I am of you two.. you should be so damn proud of yourselves. Thank you. 🤘🏼♥️

[@ChristianaSenibo]

We’ll done! That’s how you pay it forward 👏🏾

[@joannekeane2126]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE! My takeaways are that your episodes are powerful, amazing, and unique. Such truth you share here. Let's hear it for bad-ass women, Women of Impact!

[@AshleyEhSMR]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE ! I love the priming technique with the micro expressions of openness. Thank you both for this amazing discussion ☺️🤩 You two are rockstars and I’m so grateful for this information. You have made a huge impact on my life and self esteem. 💕

[@liza8577]

Ok, so I'm late to the party, but I AM UNSTOPPABLE!! I'm not sure how I stumbled across your chanel but I am so very grateful! I love the information about "openness' and creating an open space even by using an open book. My favorite lightbulb moment was " what is my brand, and what do people see"..........wow, what a powerful visual. And for the record......Lisa, your hair is ridiculously gorgeous 💜

[@lisabaer2964]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE! I can be AWARE of how I am being perceived by the people that I encounter in life and choose what facets of my personality will be most effective to reveal in order to achieve my desired outcome. Outstanding ladies! Thank you.

[@maribellef4476]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE! My favorite takeaway is the distinction between influence and manipulation. Practice self awareness and be cognizant of the intent of the action. The intention will color the outcome of the action.

[@freedomflowsred]

These videos are so encouraging!! Thank you for all y’alls hard work

[@erynoruncak2838]

SO GREAT!!! The whole family watched this episode. Many of the lessons and stories Evy talked about in this episode , she includes in her Bulletproof class. As an alumni, I highly recommend it! Like Lisa, I'm always mindful of being authentic. The big takeaway for me today was perception, and bringing THAT side of me into professional settings. You both are helping me and my girls - and hubby, too - To BE UNSTOPPABLE. Sending lots of love to you both!! xo, Eryn

[@fitwithdiana]

YES...THIS! What an incredible value packed, brilliantly funny and inspiring conversation. Connection, respect and staying true to yourself and your values. Thank you Lisa and Evy!! I AM UNSTOPPABLE

[@ChristianaSenibo]

Couldn’t agree more 🙂

[@dorisw2507]

Love both these women! On a side note, I just read Lisa's story and it made me cry. So relatable, so needed right now to lift me out of a dark place. Thank you ladies!❤️💓❤️💓❤️💓

[@paulakulubya2712]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE!!! Thank you so much Lisa and Evy for helping me with my confidence. So looking forward to the next episodes. Loving the practical-life-insights and how well you both work together. #Confidence through competence #Confidence>>>Over-Prepare #Confidence>>Positive self talk & kindness #Power linguistics #Verbal economics & Priming #Thoughtfulness of others (☺️) #How I show up matters #Ownership Things are falling into place, thank you for your online mentorship. 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💛

[@loveme2oo]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE ! this is not about manipulation in fact it's a tool to help connect but how can I stop the resistance of knowing that I'm being primed. I think this message relates to negative thoughts of self that could potentially manifest into what is not. The video introduction was everything you lady's are amazing together any room for one more 💯🙏🏿💜

[@jessicaalvarado846]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE I appreciate the idea of adaptation and authenticity. People are going to make a perception of you regardless and it can be helpful to influence what people see. I’ve had that same aha moment as Lisa when it comes to understanding you are tapping in to a side of you that is still authentic but you are also adapting to the situation. I want to learn more about this to better connect with others. I’ve experienced firsthand how people’s perception of me is inaccurate to the truth and I couldn’t decipher that until I had self awareness and self understanding. I was out with friends and the majority of them thought I was of Asian decent because of my voice/accent when, in actuality, I’m Hispanic. This was a pivotal moment for me because I used to rely on people’s perception of me to tell me who I was although it can be false.

[@dianamontoya996]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE! You two are so amazing. Love from Colombia. We should all learn this to better communicate and have healthier relationships. Thank you for sharing!!

[@LisaBilyeu]

Congratulations! You’ve won a 30-minute group call with Lisa and Evy! Please email [e-mail] with the subject line “I Am Unstoppable Winner” and we will follow up with more details on how to claim your prize. *Important Note*: You have until Wednesday, November 24th at 5pm PT to respond or we will choose a new winner. Again congratulations!

[@dianamontoya996]

@@LisaBilyeu OMG OMG 😱😱😱😱😱 No waaaaaay! Never thought I would win! Thank you! Don't even know what to say! Much love to both of you! 🌸🌼💮💕💕💕

[@mommaceleste]

All I can say is thank you thank you thank you thank your for all you unapologetic and generousness that both of you show have. Especially Lisa you really really are so honest and ask questions that are so worth listening to and vital. I don't think other hosts would ask in fear of not looking confident and the questions you ask I am just like wow that's a good question and I am always eager to know the answer. I am a mother of three I've been building my small wedding venue for a couple years now while simultaneously going on nine years personal assistant for pretty well known CEO in the cosmetic industry they are great great great don't get me wrong I'm so blessed to have them they are like family they really are but it's just not rewarding . This is exactly what I needed it's like prayers combined with meditation but it's finally showing proof that I am being guided in the right direction. Thank you again. And I respect Evy so much and all the knowledge she has shared it was only right to purchase her book. Thanks again ladies. ♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@oh2887]

I can't get over the sage like wisdom being spoken in this video. Its like every statement is a drop the mic moment. You have opened my eyes. God bless you both 🙏💜💙💚

[@mchelle706]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE! ❤️ well I now know that I'm shrinking myself with how I brand myself. I need to assert myself more and not try to be smaller to make others feel more comfortable 🌟 you ladies are AMAZING! 🙌💞

[@LisaBilyeu]

Congratulations! You’ve won a 30-minute group call with Lisa and Evy! Please email [e-mail] with the subject line “I Am Unstoppable Winner” and we will follow up with more details on how to claim your prize. *Important Note*: You have until Wednesday, November 24th at 5pm PT to respond or we will choose a new winner. Again congratulations!

[@mchelle706]

@@LisaBilyeu omgoodness!! 🙌🥰❤❤❤🌟🌟🌟

[@mchelle706]

Done! Can't wait! 🙌💖💖

[@oanavalea8939]

This talk came exactly in the right timing for me! Thank you, ladies! Opened my eyes regarding my instinctive reactions.

[@zeee2813]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE !! I am chocked too!!!!! Because I was waiting for this series ( and don’tmiss any episode !!!) but what is funny is that each week you tackle the problematic that I am currently facing and you freaking answer the questions in my head😭😭😭 OMG i love youuu girlsssss and your work🤍🤍

[@rujutaparikh8449]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE. Not only can I prime others, I can prime MYSELF to do better and be better.

[@kristenoverstreet1705]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE I love when you two do the show together! I have worked hard at studying and learning these techniques in dealing with people in life and business to grow and go further. It reminds of a book, one in which I am sure you will both know of, by Dale Carnegie-How to Win Friends and Influence People. I read it years ago when my dad showed it to me and several times since and began to truly admire the teachings of Carnegie. This episode and others you have done hits on those points in a modern way, and for women in life and business and I am thankful for it! You guys are badass and I have such a respect and admiration for you both! Looking forward to meeting you soon!

[@Fluxushaus]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE! Priming, ethos, goal setting, and non verbal language observation!

[@haleymccaslin9119]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE- fave takeaway was being aware of other peoples’ perception and bringing out the side of ourself that is going to get past road blocks we encounter

[@mstowers1862]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE! Its amazing how much I'm able to take away from these videos. Something as simple as speaking slower in business meetings is something that I need to do.

[@allybata1]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE , favorite part re: molding yourself and the 2 versions of thy self. Leaning into my version of me and my reality

[@outfit-queenkatjoleen]

I Am UNSTOPPABLE! Just found this series and I’m obsessed 😍and I love how much it’s stressed that one should use these techniques within their own authentic attempts to connect with others 👏🏾💖

[@sassykassie6070]

This video was premiered on my Birthday, just discovered Lisa and Evy today. Yaaayyy!!! Belated birthday gift to myself watching, opening up my horizons ladies. Thank YOU..!

[@cherieclough4379]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE. “Priming can be used in a lot of ways. Open book creates a feeling of openness. It puts them in a move to receive something.”

[@candacemarie3881]

DREAM TEAM!!!! Absolutely LOVE the dynamic between Lisa and Evy. Sooo much Knowledge, Support & Value coming from the two of you! Please keep the content coming. I LOVE YOU LISA!!! I LOVE YOU EVY!!!!

[@Rdy2win]

Wow I was looking for an answer and I found it with you two ladies. Thank you for your channel it’s truly a blessing.🥰🙏🏽❤️💪🏽

[@kanksha3653]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE! Undoubtedly, my favourite takeaway was projecting different sides of my personality to influence the way people perceive me. This was really, really powerful.

[@vhayashi7369]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE!!! Evy Pompouras is my HERO for all women!!! Powerful example of someone who claims her own power in life and didn't let men or anything take that away from her... I respect her so much! She inspires me to never give up! Love her! 🙌💖💪

[@deedee5825]

I AM UNSTOPPABLE and more so now that I've seen that last skit. My personality type is more like Evy's meaning I'm not so bubbly and energetic with all the body language Lisa has. I really like seeing both personalities being genuine to themselves while interacting with each other. Sometimes I feel almost wrong for not matching the energy and sometimes that level of energy is overwhelming and I want to get out of the situation as soon as possible. Connecting feels like a huge challenge in these situations but with this episode I'm a bit more open to use the Pepsi thing for example, and connect through those kinds of things so my brain isn't zeroed in on the energy factor. Through the series, Evy is her calm collected self and Lisa remains energetic yet the interaction flows smoothly and no one looks forced into another's personality. That was really the most powerful for me and I'd like to see more on this topic if possible. Thank you for the episodes so far.

[@HillaryPlauche]

I am unstoppable!!!! Love it and cannot wait to watch 💪🏼💪🏼🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥