Child abuse is the foundational destroyer of human potential in Sri Lanka, first by the parents and then by school teachers and religious leaders. By early teen years, the child is a broken, traumatized, emotionally abused, physically abused, verbally abused, sometimes sexually abused, paniced, ashamed, fearful being, devoid of any possibility to realize his/her true life potential. Then as a grown up adult, he/she will simply continue that fearful submissive traumatized mindset, in fact, later as a parent will inflict the same trauma unto their children, and so generation after generation, child abuse was never stopped in Sri Lanka. It's a vicious cycle. Children are the foundation of a society, when that foundation is broken, a society will manifest its brokenness. Sri lanka is a broken society today, because its foundation was broken by every generation. Violence is a coping mechanism for abused minds, to defend itself from further harm, this is why Violence is so dominant in SL culture. Father figure is the first thug school teacher is the next thug, then boss at work, then the politicians ans presidents , all thugs, because they were also victims of child abuse as children. Now you see why our system is broken, because the most important thing in our system, our humans, were broken as children. Only a broken child will break others as an adult, it's a survival mechanism. It will take another 100 years or 4 generations to correct this. Yakka, thank you so much for this video.
@Yakagekatha2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your invaluable thoughts ❤️👍🏻 keep in touch and take care brother ❤️🔥
@dilupawickrama10082 ай бұрын
Owa kochchara kiwath lankawe ewunta therenna ...specially educated kiyana ewunta ...hodama example eka thama lankawe campus culture eka ....raging seniority....grouping...the bad practices never get stopped....mama katta kawa ..ubath katta kapan kiyana mind eka thama samajeh hama thanama thiyenneh..
@Yakagekatha2 ай бұрын
කියලා වැඩක් නැහැ ඒවා ගැන නම්
@mahindaekanayake5446Ай бұрын
100% agree
@aveeperera80582 ай бұрын
90% agree 🤝 , Australian social relationship ගැනත් විඩියෝ එකක් ඔනි..❤️ Thank you Yakaaa❤
@Yakagekatha2 ай бұрын
Sure thing bro, we'll do 💪👍🏻
@sampathjeewananda79242 ай бұрын
A Super Topic to comment and think openly. I'm enjoying very much your presentation and comments. Very important to analyze and see the world without any religious or rational mind. Thank You Very Much and Highly appreciate your effort.
@Yakagekatha2 ай бұрын
Highly appreciating your encouragement and compliments. Keep in touch and take care ❤️👍🏻
oba thumata sthuthi.meyage video mama balanawa samahara dewal gana danuwath wenawa.methma wena rataka purawesi bawaya gaththa kiyala upan rata gana demawpiyo gana hela dakiya uthuda ape sanskruthiya ekak e ratawala saskruthiya wena ekak eka hodai meka narakai kiyannawath meka hodai eka narakai kiyannawath apita be oya dekama hoda saha naraka thiyenawa. hoda tika aragena inna tikakale hodin innai one.
@nadeshesudesh55222 ай бұрын
Oo ithin helaya maara kirilak karala thiyeno awrudu 70 k ma 😂😂😂 maka nathath merayawal walaeun upades denna dano Habi un karagathapu magulakuth na oopa dupa withari hoyala thiyene 😂😂😂😂😂😂
You are correct. Our social and economical present situation main thing reasons to this inyer relationship in our perent and others. We want to deeply discuss this topic to social development in srilanka.
You are correct. Our social and economical present situation main thing reasons to this inyer relationship in our perent and others. We want to deeply discuss this topic to social development in srilanka. 5:50
@HelaTwist2 ай бұрын
Really good topic. In my view our country - SL would have had a great parenting system based on trust, respect, kindness, bond, support etc... a long long time ago. Gradually our society has changed a lot but still trying to embed a value system that can not be applied or interpreted similar to what it used to be. Then the parenting in SL mostly looks like controlling & mean. Then children are dependent & made to think parents are always right and become followers. However, the society - world needs independent, brave, courageous, creative & balanced people :-) I hope you understand this dependent mindset is what keeps the current political system in SL.
@Yakagekatha2 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your invaluable thoughts ❤️🔥👍🏻 keep in touch and take care
@shazferds79132 ай бұрын
I totally agree with you 💯. Majority of Lankan parents totally control their children.
Family backgraund and cultural aspect are very importat tropic. It's dependent to present economical situation. We want to discussed deeply for social and economical development in srilanka.
@au61812 ай бұрын
Great talk Yaka👍👍👍
@Yakagekatha2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much brother ❤️❤️❤️
@techblinkfreefire74902 ай бұрын
Great Talk yaka. ❤
@Yakagekatha2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 👍🏻❤️❤️❤️ keep in touch and take care
@user-og9fq6mf4c2 ай бұрын
very interesting discussion.
@Yakagekatha2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 👍🏻❤️❤️🙏 keep in touch 👍🏻
@rashadiiroshani89952 ай бұрын
Aiye godak asa video ekk. Aiye thawa request ekk krnw ausi young life eka genath karannko
@Yakagekatha2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much brother ❤️❤️❤️. අනිවාර්යෙන්ම ඒ ගැන කාතකරමු
Husband and wife relationship ekath karamu ohomama.
@user-kl4cy6ub3j2 ай бұрын
Ani aren one ekath
@Mrattanayake2 ай бұрын
සහතික ඇත්ත මහත්මයා .
@WickramaAriyathilaka2 ай бұрын
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@Yakagekatha2 ай бұрын
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@Yakagekatha2 ай бұрын
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@NewLife-j1w12 күн бұрын
Super speech
@Yakagekatha12 күн бұрын
Thank you 🙏❤️❤️❤️
@tperera10432 ай бұрын
50% agreed but our culture not bad its depending on the family environment .
@Yakagekatha2 ай бұрын
Most of family environments are the problem
@Zoomvibechannel2 ай бұрын
Education eka genath video ekak karanna .... 😊
@game_on45852 ай бұрын
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@Yakagekatha2 ай бұрын
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@chamodhdilan44972 ай бұрын
පට්ට ඇත්ත අයිය.
@Yakagekatha2 ай бұрын
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@susilgunaratne42672 ай бұрын
Torture as a correction measure comes from unhappy mind set parents who either have had been suffered lot of such treatment during their childhood & then think it has been benifited for themselves and/or unhappy (family) life at present due to various reasons- in both cases 'Self-Alination' is at the root of cause - resulting a Self- Tortureing mind set at themselves. Luckily, nowadays we have stick laws against those foolish parents, in almost all countries. Human life must build up & cultivate with principles related to the Humanlike feelings - love of our self, kindness, compassion, empathy at others..but not with otherwise opposite ingredients. ( it's ironic that almost all the religious dogmas asking us to developed the very same attitudes but unfortunately during the process most of us become full of opposite & negative attitudes.)
@Yakagekatha2 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your great thoughts 🔥❤️👍🏻 keep in touch and take care
@yashivaji2 ай бұрын
Praweshaya niyamay
@Yakagekatha2 ай бұрын
බොහොම ස්තූතියි 🔥❤️👍🏻
@liha89ishani2 ай бұрын
99% Agreed ❤
@NoshenCorea2 ай бұрын
In Srilanka, Most Children are Insurance of their Parents
@Yakagekatha2 ай бұрын
😪😒
@SahanMadusanka-wj9cv2 ай бұрын
True! I think it is the same in many asian countries.
Our society and culture are spoiled and misinterpreted by many means….Our Buddhism is spoiled by monks…We are kind of hybrid society…Our culture is teaching kids to respect adults unconditionally…this is leading so many child abuse cases go under the radar…We are taught not to question but accept what adults tell us …this had build a dumb society..that’s why we are fooled by politicians…We listen to “Bana” which doesn’t add any value to our life…We are well trained to listen things we already know,we are trained to waste time,we are trained to accept the thing which is wrong,We are trained to respect people who do not deserve it..Our teachers and parents are dying to make engineers,doctors but not great healthy individuals for the society..
You are correct. Our social and economical present situation main thing reasons to this inyer relationship in our perent and others. We want to deeply discuss this topic to social development in srilanka. 5:50
@lokubaduАй бұрын
You are correct. Our social and economical present situation main thing reasons to this inyer relationship in our perent and others. We want to deeply discuss this topic to social development in srilanka. 5:50
@lokubaduАй бұрын
You are correct. Our social and economical present situation main thing reasons to this inyer relationship in our perent and others. We want to deeply discuss this topic to social development in srilanka. 5:50
@YakagekathaАй бұрын
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@lokubaduАй бұрын
You are correct. Our social and economical present situation main thing reasons to this inyer relationship in our perent and others. We want to deeply discuss this topic to social development in srilanka. 5:50
@YakagekathaАй бұрын
Thank you so much 👍🏻❤️❤️ These topics must discussed