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Should I stay or should I go? Have you ever been in a relationship where you break up only to make up only to break up again and make up again ad infinitum.
As someone who works with couples where one or both parties are struggling with issues of narcissism, this is a common pattern I see. The problem with such repeated break ups and make ups is that they tend to fuel relationship anxiety for both parties and make for a very unstable and volatile relationship.
In this video I talk about the difference between reactive and planned break ups and how committing to not breaking up in the heat of an argument can be an important way to build security in the relationship and also to create space so you can make a stable decision about whether to stay and invest in the relationship or bring an end to the relationship in as calm and kind a way as possible for both you and the other person.