how to stand up for yourself & set boundaries

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@simonesimmons
@simonesimmons Жыл бұрын
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@kamadotanjiro223
@kamadotanjiro223 Жыл бұрын
simone i love youuuu! your videos are really informative and it really opened my eye in some cases so yeah don't stop because its really helping me
@yuhmi88
@yuhmi88 Жыл бұрын
sometimes arguing with someone is so emotionally exhausting i literally don't even bother anymore😭😭
@moon-xu5kv
@moon-xu5kv Жыл бұрын
This is literally me 😭
@hilycool_
@hilycool_ Жыл бұрын
@@moon-xu5kv fr sameee 😩😭
@queensheem3337
@queensheem3337 Жыл бұрын
For real 😩 imma protect my peace 😭
@soya.seungocado
@soya.seungocado Жыл бұрын
fr i hate crying in front of people so i stay silent
@nessedian
@nessedian Жыл бұрын
the upbringing of girls has to change because everything starts in childhood. whenever I tried to have boundaries as a girl, to defend myself, to argue, my parents stopped me and that killed all the self-esteem in me. I'm working on it , but as a teenager I couldn't stand up to anyone at all even when I was in the right. Just a good little girl. If I'd had what you had, I'd have ended up in an airport bathroom crying because the guy was mean to me. We have a lot to learn.
@lovepersonaa
@lovepersonaa Жыл бұрын
Yess and i was always supposed to be the nice sibling too
@idontknowwho1728
@idontknowwho1728 Жыл бұрын
i got bullied in school where people come and throw insults at me and when one time there was a bunch of bullies who threw my stuff around and they were smaller then me i was embarrassed
@shutup7134
@shutup7134 Жыл бұрын
I remember when I was about 12 and a little girl who was around 4-6 would literally bully me and belittle me and all I could do is cry, and since I’m getting older people are getting meaner it’s hard to defend yourself when u can’t even clap back a little girl for making fun of u.
@yiselle222
@yiselle222 Жыл бұрын
I feel you,my family is also very toxic, I was taught to be silent whenever someone older than me insult me,...or even hit, punch me, I never have the right to stand up or else I will get judge and harrash even more. That destroys me, until now I still have to suffer.
@urstrulyflo_
@urstrulyflo_ Жыл бұрын
I was just told today by mum that tomorrow I shouldn’t go and fight when these girls are continuing to do so and she knows that too so this is sooo relatable
@jayaprasad9266
@jayaprasad9266 Жыл бұрын
Simone is always pretty but she’s actually glowing in this one, i love her
@simranshehzadi9430
@simranshehzadi9430 9 ай бұрын
Reading the comments made me realize I'm not alone and there are people out there who are working on themselves, failing then trying again and never giving up... also people thinking I'm short tempered when I stand up for myself? people thinking I'm a crybaby when I'm unable to stand up for myself and have a breakdown instead? it gives me courage and motivates me to keep going especially after knowing that I'm not the only one facing these issues as nobody really talks about it irl. Y'all inspire me
@marylynn259
@marylynn259 5 ай бұрын
Exactly, people are always like, "don't take it so personally, chill out" but proceed to make everything so personal and disrespectful. Well I won't take it no matter who you are. I'm the type of person who would NEVER put others down or disrespect them without a reason. I just don't care. You know why? Because I was that person to always let go, say nevermind, understand others' frustrations and stupid comments, but hell no, I'm no more that stupid. People just love to take any kind of advantage of you and your personal space as well as boundaries, or lack of them. Not anymore. It takes guts to be a genuine and respectful person, and once you cross the line with me, you'll lose my respect for you because if I don't respect myself, who will?
@teetotee
@teetotee Жыл бұрын
I had a boyfriend who didn't see our relationship as... a relationship. He told a friend of mine who he wanted to cheat on me with (it didn't work out, she told me immediately afterwards) that we were just "smash buddies", and he was never clear to me that that was all he wanted from me, probably because he knew I'd refuse that idea. After breaking up with him he came to me like 4 days after, having the audacity to play dumb about everything, and when I told him what he did, HE ACTED PISSED because he was played just as well as he was trying to play me. We were friends before all this, and he came to me today asking to go back to that. I basically said, "No way, bastard, you're delirious."
@pragyaa_aa
@pragyaa_aa Жыл бұрын
My respect for you >>>>
@Booktuber07
@Booktuber07 Жыл бұрын
Yasss girl!! We need to show these their place
@alex-55X
@alex-55X Жыл бұрын
The fact that he was a friend before!’ is sad ‘ good for you bab
@Josh-Owen-Vlogs
@Josh-Owen-Vlogs Жыл бұрын
He was in the wrong, but your solution here would have been to confront him from the moment you felt off.
@VioletEvergarden-pn7xx
@VioletEvergarden-pn7xx 9 ай бұрын
You did it girl!!❤
@hannaheli
@hannaheli Жыл бұрын
perfect timing. i had to stand up for myself today in a situation where i was totally being disrespected for a month. i said how i felt, and cut that situation out of my life. but i have been feeling anxious and guilty about it all day! for literally standing up for myself like what!?!?! anyways, this really reassured me that i made the right choice, even though i'm used to being the 'nice person and people pleaser' all the time. thank you!!
@Josh-Owen-Vlogs
@Josh-Owen-Vlogs Жыл бұрын
You will continue to feel anxious about this, every time you do it, until you get to the point where your brain/ego stops shooting the negative hormones through your system. It has been trained to behave one way over a lifetime, and it's your responsibility to fight this battle with it. But do it nicely: "brain, thank you for trying to protect me, I'm going to be okay though and this is the right thing to do.
@Octaviacliosisley
@Octaviacliosisley Жыл бұрын
You are allowed to stand up for yourself! It is your birthright ❤😊
@kristellemayvillasin149
@kristellemayvillasin149 6 ай бұрын
I was having a bad day today, I just cried, and I started typing, "how to stand up for yourself & set boundaries". Earlier this day, this neighbor, despite having 9 kids, couldn't keep his hands out of my business and started insulting me about the income I make while working from home. In many situations in life, because I was brought up in a way that my parents would just shut me down whenever i try to explain myself, later in life, whenever someone is being rude to me, I literally get stunned. Afterwards, it makes me feel really bad that I'm not able to clapback. And that's exactly what happened earlier. This video of yours is a blessing. I just subscribed. These words were very powerful: "You don't have to like yourself in order to be deserving of respect." Thank you, Simone. I've always hated myself too because of my weight, and that adds up to my lack fo self-esteem and confidence.
@b.k.701
@b.k.701 5 ай бұрын
Your weight is not the defining trait of your character. I'm certain you can make a list of things you do like about yourself if you gave yourself the chance to do so. The fact that your boundaries were violated and your reaction was to look up how to set them effectively rather than giving in to hopelessness already shows me one item on that list. Also, he insulted you about your income? That's rude as heck. Some people really never learned any manners. Sorry your neighbor sucks.
@DilCards
@DilCards Жыл бұрын
Setting boundaries and standing up for ourselves can be challenging, but it's an essential journey toward self-respect and healthy relationships. This video provides valuable insights and practical tips to empower us in this process.
@tarasdiary
@tarasdiary Жыл бұрын
I had to cut out so many toxic people from my life because they didn't respect me or my boundaries. I used to think something was wrong with me for the amount of people I've had these situations with especially within close amount of time. I'm now here with much more healthier friendships & relationships around me and currently healing from my past trauma from the past toxic relationships. Thank you for sharing this as it generally helps
@Cupidaaaa
@Cupidaaaa Жыл бұрын
@WackyChu AWWW I’m proud of you. But seriously how long did it take to fully cut him off? And did you ever have any regrets? And how did you get the confidence because I’m struggling now😭
@tarasdiary
@tarasdiary Жыл бұрын
@DazedDomino Honestly it depended on the situation with each person, some I just literally cut off without a word because of a build up & then they pull another thing that made me done and I no longer have the energy to try talk it out with them. I wouldn't cut someone off without attempting to try talk stuff out first, but if it came to the point where it's literally not working and they keep disprecting me & my boundaries I was out just like that. I've had rare situations where I literally told the person to have a good life and goodbye then I just cut off after that, I haven't got time for arguing with someone who choose to not listen multiple times. I generally had a lot of love & care for these people and put my full 100% in, so having to cut them off was a hard choice but was the best thing for me to move on and have room for better people who generally appreciate me and the relationships are both ways & not one sided. I'm not perfect either, I can make mistakes, but I generally do admit when I do make them and have always apologised to the other party for them - I just never get an apology back sadly.
@TilikaVispute
@TilikaVispute Жыл бұрын
Saammemeee .. I am so proud of myself too..
@jialeiq.7026
@jialeiq.7026 Жыл бұрын
I know there have been times I didn’t stand up for myself because I didn’t know how to articulate my stance. and then it kills me afterwards when I think about what I could’ve said 😫
@kathiex780
@kathiex780 Жыл бұрын
same😭😭 its so annoying
@annau1203
@annau1203 11 ай бұрын
I cry a lot after those situations bc I didn't stand up again and after that was feeling bad
@samco63
@samco63 Жыл бұрын
I’m the same when I end up in arguments with people after sticking up for myself. It comes out of me so naturally too. People think I’m a bitch sometimes, but that’s because they aren’t used to women standing up to themselves I need to work on saying “no” without an explanation
@harshitadaryani221
@harshitadaryani221 Жыл бұрын
I was this girl who would never say a word to defend myself, but I remember and yes so distinctly coz I just started watching you, and your words were like God sent angel, once i defended myself coz there was friend who always sarcastically body shamed Me for being skinny
@luluphaam
@luluphaam Жыл бұрын
09:50 Simone, what makes u different than other self help youtubers is THAT UR BEING REALISTIC!! this video needs to get viral. WISE WORDS! SLAY
@farizayaur
@farizayaur Жыл бұрын
There is a person in my class who is super annoying and can’t stop making fun of me and my friends. This really helped. Tysm I hope I can set boundaries soon!
@aura9773
@aura9773 Жыл бұрын
I don’t usually comment overly sentimental stuff like this but I just wanted to say you are truly one of my favorite youtubers ever😭💕 You’re so naturally funny for one but along with being entertaining you also genuinely help me A LOT. i so often find myself throughout the day thinking to myself “oh, I remember Simone said this..” or “what would Simone do in this situation” LOL and it literally always helps me get through whatever it is. even on the rare occasion when i don’t 100% agree with your take on something i always still benefit from gaining a different perspective you just always make my day better 😭💞💞 thanks for existing queen ✨🌼
@simonesimmons
@simonesimmons Жыл бұрын
illlyyyyy
@tarsilaribeiro
@tarsilaribeiro Жыл бұрын
Idk if this will help someone, but sth I've noticed, also by listening to these tipps is: Imagine someone is getting affected and hurted because of u not standing up. I guarantee u won't be able to be silent for too long. Imagine u had to defend a little kid when u want to defend urself. Just imagine this. It's so powerful. Like for me these mother bear instincts just kick right in and I just get this attitude of: get out of my f* way. Hope that helped, loved the video ^^
@frxncece
@frxncece Жыл бұрын
Simone you have saved me and have woken me up from my daydreaming and have taught me how to actually set boundaries against people, i'm truly grateful!!
@kausha7135
@kausha7135 10 ай бұрын
FINALLY! A fellow clapback queen. I was feeling bad for being so quick to shut shit down, like maybe I'm an overly angry person. It's made people I'm hanging out with at the time uncomfortable in the past. I had to have an internal conversation with myself that their discomfort is their problem. I'm allowed to stand up for myself. More recently, I've had coworkers and friends pull me aside and thank me for saying what they were too nervous to say. I just try to be mindful of who's a jerk and who's going through something and acting out of character, but otherwise, I'm golden.
@ハンナ-c6j
@ハンナ-c6j Жыл бұрын
Thank youu simone, I’ve been struggling to set boundaries lately and now you posted!! LOVE YOU
@monumii7616
@monumii7616 Жыл бұрын
im working on this, i always felt rlly small whenever i tried standing up for myself bc I'd turn red and my mind would go blank. But this vid helped so much, thank you!!
@eknoor1169
@eknoor1169 Жыл бұрын
I was smiling almost throughout the video. I aspire to inculcate atleast this in my life. I do stand up for myself but yes i do justify my actions A LOT. It's time to stop.
@fionageorge7014
@fionageorge7014 Жыл бұрын
For me the problem is that I don't trust myself to be able to tell in what situations I am "allowed" to react a certain way. Im always concerned that I am overreacting or that my behaviour is not justified.
@savannahrice7560
@savannahrice7560 11 ай бұрын
i am the same way, i never react to a situation immediately because im worried that i might be the one who has to change something instead of someone else, and because of this i always sit on it and think about whether its a me problem or a them problem, and then if i realize its not me then i feel like its too late to bring it up again. if you find a solution to this please let me know :')
@ilovefairiesverymuch4867
@ilovefairiesverymuch4867 11 ай бұрын
me too and as simone said, i think it’s because we don’t like ourselves. your perception is just as important as any other’s. so if you felt disrespected, you have all rights to react to it, and maybe the person will explain it wasn’t their intention and will apologize :)
@Lol-v8j
@Lol-v8j 2 ай бұрын
Same here
@elsa-wq9zw
@elsa-wq9zw Жыл бұрын
I wish you'd do a video like this but for work or friendship environments - like how to maintain self respect when the issues are coworkers or friends you consider yourself close with - just for a twist instead of strangers
@simonesquared20
@simonesquared20 Жыл бұрын
Same thing
@Dragonfruitxd82
@Dragonfruitxd82 Жыл бұрын
It's the same thing girl 💅🏻
@yeki.
@yeki. 5 ай бұрын
Yes
@katizzle92
@katizzle92 Жыл бұрын
It's funny. I've never had a problem standing up for myself with strangers that are rude but when it comes to the way men treat me that is something I for sure need to work on.
@ClassyJohn
@ClassyJohn Жыл бұрын
I'm really glad you included "pick your battles" as part of the decision making in conflict resolution (which encompasses this topic). Especially if you're a woman bringing up conflict to a man, make sure you're safe before you bring up the conflicts. I don't blame women for being extra cautious around men. If I was in your shoes, I'd be scared too. Its 100% reasonable and you have to adapt to the situation and the current state of the world.
@inezz5172
@inezz5172 2 ай бұрын
Society thinks that we're mean and heartless for speaking up for ourselves, we literally have the most caring heart, that's why we care what we feel and would not be able to stand the feeling of having to think what we could have said back and just letting it all slide, it hurts thats why as normal human response we stand up and let our thoughts out, being rude is depressing yourself until you feel worthless because of what other people do to you, that is being heartless.
@growlinda
@growlinda Жыл бұрын
I love your confident energy. I will stand up for myself this school year. f them beaches 🙄
@etherealmoonlight67
@etherealmoonlight67 4 ай бұрын
Slay
@Octaviacliosisley
@Octaviacliosisley Жыл бұрын
I stood up for myself firmly and there was no combat. If I even hesitate and try to be nice, it never works. ❤ thank you
@gajabsejal9254
@gajabsejal9254 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. I wish I had known you earlier. Watching this video reminds me of every single time I have let things go and not stand up for myself. People you don't realise how important it is to do that. When I last stood up for myself I was being called dramatic. I questioned about it every single time and I was dumbfounded but now I can think clearly how much had I allowed people to treat myself poorly. Please stand up for yourself it's not dramatic it's necessary.
@Labuenavidasurf
@Labuenavidasurf 9 ай бұрын
Humour and a smile along with assertiveness can charm you out of a lot of situations.
@theexperimentalgeek3489
@theexperimentalgeek3489 Жыл бұрын
You won't believe this but I think universe is sending me signs. There was a guy who I always helped even though it meant putting myself at inconvenience. No matter how bad the situation is I still try my best to help others even though they don't help me enough. I trusted and supported him when everyone was against him. Irrespective of all this, he would show his entitlement and not value my efforts and be a lil bitch. Long story short, it was just this morning that I confronted him and said that I'm not going to help him anymore by compromising on things I'd do for myself. I'd do wonders if I put even half the effort on myself. I've had enough of his entitled-ness and need to step up my game. After saying all this to him, after a while I felt bad for being rude, but that's right when this video got uploaded! Now I know I did the right thing! Universe definitely sending me signs!
@identityv5843
@identityv5843 Жыл бұрын
This made me cry. I've been dealing with alot of stuff lately but this video really helped me. Thank you!
@macotter1878
@macotter1878 Жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I need right now thanks queen 💛
@jayaprasad9266
@jayaprasad9266 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for always slaying simone. Always putting out videos at the perfect timing 💃🏽
@izzypaynee
@izzypaynee 2 ай бұрын
This is something I’m really working on. I get so nervous standing up for myself bc of bullying. I have a complex that im wrong and I’m really sensitive to anyone being “mad at me”
@angelkaur2756
@angelkaur2756 Жыл бұрын
I automatically get so happy when you post! Really needed this ❤️
@Laniya.
@Laniya. 25 күн бұрын
For so many years, i was scared to defend myself because i was afraid. That led me to be a doormat for people to step on me and disrespect me. This month I have decided to change that. I am putting myself in uncomfortable situations so that I can build my confidence.
@tolanisimpson5360
@tolanisimpson5360 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Simone, I really needed this!!!
@bella_ishere
@bella_ishere Жыл бұрын
6:39 "PRETTY MUCH 💯" lmao that cracked me more than it should have i absolutely love how you don't take shit from anyone
@isa1104
@isa1104 Жыл бұрын
This came at the perfect time, thanks queen✨
@HungerGamesFan12345
@HungerGamesFan12345 Жыл бұрын
"yeah 100% straight up" you're my favorite person LMFAO
@victoriashorseyspam
@victoriashorseyspam Жыл бұрын
Why are ur videos ALWAYS perfect for the situation I'm in atm!! I literally love u sm babes thank u❤😘
@isabelmae1397
@isabelmae1397 Жыл бұрын
You’re so real 💯
@OceanicEmpress
@OceanicEmpress Жыл бұрын
Simone you are really an inspiration to all of us and I want to tell you Thank you 🙏🌷
@zhiiiyyying
@zhiiiyyying Жыл бұрын
hiii simone! im really happy that you made this video, thank you so much for helping us.
@Nocturnal_Lorena
@Nocturnal_Lorena Жыл бұрын
You're like that good badass friend we all need! Thank you! 🌸
@katlyncampbell2754
@katlyncampbell2754 Жыл бұрын
Hii you have honestly made me such a better, more confident person, and i wanna say ily and ur videos sm stunner ❤
@EchelonPandora
@EchelonPandora Жыл бұрын
Immaculate timing!
@anfelbourenane1
@anfelbourenane1 Жыл бұрын
I wish I had seen this video yesterday because I had to stand up for myself today( I don’t know if I technically stood up for myself because I was pretty scared and shaking but I did) so recently I have moved classes to go with my friend( kinda stupid cuz we broke up soon after) and in this class there was a group of girls that always laugh abt EVERYTHING. There was one who starts the laughing sessions so I’ll just call her “M”. So I noticed that M always looks at me and laughs with her group. At first I was ignoring her and kinda feeling bad cuz someone who laughs ALL the time is probably miserable(based on experience) but then after some time I got sick cuz I don’t go to school to be laughed at. Today after school I asked to speak to her outside class(her annoying friends still peaked from the door to overhear) and I asked her if we have a problem and why was she laughing at me. She literally told me that she wasn’t laughing at me and she doesn’t remember doing so. She gave me a look as if I was crazy or smth and kept denying and I didn’t know what else to tell her so I walked away. Now I kinda feel embarrassed cuz I’m starting to think I might have made the whole thing up in my head(cuz I have a lot of anxiety)
@marieleeart
@marieleeart Жыл бұрын
you re literally the biggest inspiration on yt
@simonesimmons
@simonesimmons Жыл бұрын
thank u!
@caashomaxamuud4548
@caashomaxamuud4548 Ай бұрын
And last month i fought that freind who took my kindness for weakness 😮‍💨🙌🏿
@BonBonHassan
@BonBonHassan 7 ай бұрын
Wow 👏🏾👏🏾 I love your attitude, this is how I'm tryna be 2024
@DexterMag-aso
@DexterMag-aso 9 ай бұрын
Revealing the keys to assertiveness and boundary-setting - your advice serves as a potent guide to personal empowerment! It instantly recalls the transformative teachings of my lifecoach Lisa Haisha during a soul-enriching retreat in the serene Philippines. Your insights and Lisa's wisdom blend harmoniously, motivating me to chart a course towards greatness with confidence and authenticity.
@yagerr4279
@yagerr4279 Жыл бұрын
So damn glad I found this video & this channel. Bcuz inner G! The last few years have felt like a downward spiral for me and my personal relationships rooted in narcissistic abuse. There’s so many levels to acknowledging that type of abuse especially when you consider the ppl that witnessed u endure it and now subconsciously use that against u in ur new era. They’ll be the ones to poke and agitate at your growth & new boundaries
@Yumileaf
@Yumileaf Жыл бұрын
Everytime i waych Simone i always tell myself that she is that older sister that we didn't have but needed. ilyyyy
@raintoearth
@raintoearth Жыл бұрын
FINALLY A SETTING BOUNDARIES VIDEO FROM SIMONE THANK YOU SO MUCH🫶🫶🫶
@emd4199
@emd4199 Жыл бұрын
It has been a long time since I watched a simone video ,because life just happened but it is good to be back❤❤❤
@narisys
@narisys Жыл бұрын
Thanks I Really need this and I’m literally tired since literally everyone in my family treat me like shit and said I’m too sensitive. My sister throw my things away as she please without my permission, my mom and dad ignore me not entirely but my feelings and what I need (even though I told them tons of times, they just shrug it off) and also my mom always judging my outfit and said I look ridiculous 😫😭, my other sister blame me for not always speak up even though I said that I already did that and the fact they just ignore me 🙃.I can’t wait to get out from this relationship 💆🏻‍♀️
@aishwarya3948
@aishwarya3948 9 ай бұрын
I love you sister ❤ grateful for your existence 😊
@tojimeatrider
@tojimeatrider Жыл бұрын
i needed this ! thank u so much , my fairy godmother
@laviios634
@laviios634 Жыл бұрын
Your videos are always on time
@chuucake
@chuucake Жыл бұрын
thank you so so much simoneㅠㅠ♡ definitely what i needed rn ! i will keep on working towards on myself, improving, learning and growing along the way. thank you for your guidance
@noteg3605
@noteg3605 Жыл бұрын
I swear I was upset from someone and I saw a notification. This was a sign that’s it💅
@alaa7464
@alaa7464 Жыл бұрын
about the first point "stand up for yourself", idk when using silence and ignore it or to stand up for myself. which is better at any kind of situations? i usually ignore them and move on as i was but sometime is better to speak up which i'm not sure when to speak or how not have to deal with their rude response.
@Vininlife
@Vininlife Жыл бұрын
this is exactly what i have been looking for these days ! simone comes at the right time ! our sunshine 🫶🏻
@Sapphire_Bliss_Indigo
@Sapphire_Bliss_Indigo Жыл бұрын
Omg this helped so much. These boys today were making front of my teeth and i didnt know what to do lol😭😭 But now i know what to do. Tysm Simone ur a lifesaver❤️❤️
@hxavens4227
@hxavens4227 Жыл бұрын
how do you get more stunning with every new video omg 🫶 you're glowing!!
@lanyfonok
@lanyfonok Жыл бұрын
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU OMG
@NevaehSandwich
@NevaehSandwich Жыл бұрын
I really needed this video, you're so awesome Simone !
@arianagrande._4565
@arianagrande._4565 Жыл бұрын
Her " Ich liebe dich" was tooo cute tho 🫀❣
@ApterousAngel08
@ApterousAngel08 Жыл бұрын
Thank you!!! I'm a people pleaser and I'm going to finally have boundaries 222nd comment BTW I'm 15
@sanjana9695
@sanjana9695 Жыл бұрын
Girl, you deserve WAY more subscribers on your second channel! Love your content
@sachininimeka9944
@sachininimeka9944 Жыл бұрын
I saw this when I really needed these advices... Thank you so much Simone ❤️
@deffnotria
@deffnotria Жыл бұрын
needed this video sb! thank u sm for this simone, also idk why but u look insanely pretty like black hair makes u badass wow
@jodieturnerx
@jodieturnerx Жыл бұрын
great timing, thank u xx
@eyes1168
@eyes1168 Жыл бұрын
I literally needed this right now thank you
@lovelylively2252
@lovelylively2252 Жыл бұрын
In my life i have always been made fun of my classmates and my relatives and let people make assumptions abt me and thank you for this video bcz it will help me stand up for myself ❤️❤️
@DouchebagPopcorn
@DouchebagPopcorn Жыл бұрын
Simone slaying like always 💗
@aleir_s
@aleir_s Жыл бұрын
When I learned about boundaries, I started saying no to my brother because I wasn’t being his servant anymore. I’m not selfish I’m just setting boundaries between me and the world. He would start sayin please and slowly start screaming at me until I scream at him too and it would be mentally draining to me, he would sometimes start housing his hands to maybe push me so I would fight back but of course he was stronger and he would hit me. I don’t really stay around him now and but for some reason he thinks it’s all my fault that I “annoy” him.
@smudge2620
@smudge2620 Жыл бұрын
tell him your not his maid. Teach him how to cook (if you want no pressure)
@aleir_s
@aleir_s Жыл бұрын
@@smudge2620Hes going to tell me to fo the snallest thibg like making him soup bribgibg him water taking his charger cleaning his room when i try to tell my parents they let him off with a warbing later i try to defend myself when he hurts me as a “joke” so he hits me back i try keeping boundries eith him but he dusreepefte them whst do ibdo?
@hi9368
@hi9368 10 ай бұрын
6:34 girl exactly !! and it’s just social media😭😭
@mimis8998
@mimis8998 5 ай бұрын
This is the content I’m here for 🔥
@alina2411
@alina2411 Жыл бұрын
I get scared unconsciously when people yell or speak in unpleasant tone to me. Even if I stand up for myself my voice gets smaller☹️ so for example I’m speaking in normal tone but s1 is trying to take upper hand by yelling and when I yell back at them they get back in their place. But i honestly hate so much raising my voice, that most of the times I don’t. So since I’m not yelling when I argue people start raising their voice and I get progressively scared.
@arianagrande._4565
@arianagrande._4565 Жыл бұрын
Love this woman!!! ❣
@user_user123
@user_user123 Жыл бұрын
your channel is a blessing for me
@rosahosniputeri4735
@rosahosniputeri4735 Жыл бұрын
word omg simone, i had friends telling me to "be more patient" when i stood up for myself ??? and letting people stomp over me when i clearly know they won't do sht for me? lol no thanks
@kissesfromthemrs
@kissesfromthemrs Жыл бұрын
Girl I screamed laughing “I went up to her window and I basically cursed her out.” Lol empath’s have finally had enough we are clapping all season :)
@euphori_cc
@euphori_cc Жыл бұрын
AAH THANKKS I LOVE YOUU
@user-dj7ti8sl3i
@user-dj7ti8sl3i Жыл бұрын
my fav channel for a reason
@heyyy1325
@heyyy1325 Жыл бұрын
Omg i literally was searching for a video like this yesterday but i couldnt find one froma good youtuber, ig the universe is sending me help lol, thank u simone
@End_Domestic_Violence
@End_Domestic_Violence Жыл бұрын
Survivors of extreme trauma cannot set boundaries: at the first hint of conflict, your body begins trembling, your throat constricts and you can't speak, there's an iron band around your chest preventing you from breathing, and your limbic system comletely immobilises you. No amount of deep breathing or thinking calm thoughts will unlock your body when someone is screaming abuse in your face. You might be twice their strength, super-fit, and easily their superior physically, nonetheless, your body totally betrays you at the exact moment you need to be calm, grounded, and strong. We know how we should act, how we should behave, but at the worst possible moment, our bodies betray us by locking into fight-or-flight mode. It is not our thoughts or our understanding of the situation that needs changing; we need to be very mildly sedated, just enough to take the edge off our terror, but no medical professional will listen. Take the edge off our extreme physical reaction and all the rest will fall into place. Best wishes all.
@lovepersonaa
@lovepersonaa Жыл бұрын
ive been learning to respect myself but its so hard when people you live with aren’t respecting your boundaries and seeing it as nothing i would really love some advice 🤍
@izzahrx
@izzahrx Жыл бұрын
You're becoming my favourite youtuber day by day wtf I can't believe I came so early on a youtube video
@shutup7134
@shutup7134 Жыл бұрын
It’s like I’m scared when people say something slick or piss me off I can’t do nothing it’s like I’m just so scared I can’t find a way to speak my mind or defend myself it’s so pathetic, I’m scared of what’s gonna happen, how people would react but I know the real me would slap fire into them. It’s exhausting how I let people disrespect me and there is nothing i can do about it and then years later I absolutely regret not doing anything.
@0ind
@0ind Жыл бұрын
Yes!! Love your videos ❤️❤️
@riyanasn
@riyanasn Жыл бұрын
I needed this
@Addisupdatess
@Addisupdatess Жыл бұрын
THANK U SO MUCH SIMONE
@shriyamandavkar
@shriyamandavkar 5 ай бұрын
Thank you!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@ekanuegas6969
@ekanuegas6969 Жыл бұрын
I admired how brave you are. Anyways, i reallly love your new video mwa < < 3💋
you keep getting hurt because you don't protect yourself.
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