Speaking to Hawaiians…

[@MerpandDerp42069]

I think the biggest issue to bring awareness to is how you are NOT SUPPOSE TO TOUCH THE TURTLES AND SEALS. We have a lot of turtles and seals depending where you go, and the biggest thing that tourist don’t know is that it’s literally illegal to touch these two animals. They are protected because Hawaii is like a sanctuary for them. I don’t blame the tourist because we don’t have enough awareness on this topic up until recently.

[@kw2927]

I would think this is common sense, but damn.

[@kiimmig2293]

We have visited several times. We always knew not to touch them, but I researched a lot prior to coming. And I’m a bit of a Dr Doolittle type. Rescues come to on their own often. Everywhere we went, and every island turtles and seals. ♥️ It was very touching to see these animals creatures.

[@ItsAMbutyoutubechangedmyname]

It’s the same in Florida with the manatees people touch them and think it’s okay and cool it’s not and not allowed

[@dazj3965]

No one should touch the wildlife in any country unless they need the help and then only minimal

[@athomewiththemrs9410]

People will try to touch wildlife no matter where they are. I live in Virginia near the Shenandoah national park and you would not believe how many stupid tourists I have seen get out of their car and try to touch a baby bear or take a picture of or with a bear. Like are you stupid?!! That animal will eat you alive especially if it’s a mama with her Cubs. Common sense seriously does not grow in everyone’s garden.

[@Mila-gx1dg]

Ppl dont seem to realize its not a paradise. This is a hometown ppl have to clean up after ppl leave. Clean your trash ...respect the animals... Respect your workstaff where evet you are...restaurant or hotel or rentAls. Sad fact tho you should do this everywhere not just here. We all struggle to survive...support each other just by being good ppl

[@NEOSPORIN7777]

truth! abusing the planet will only bring destruction. she will take it all back one day, maybe including our ashes (asses😉). treating one another with respect is just the "golden rule", I know why it is straying, it's sad. I watch folks here in Denver & Aurora Colorado just throw trash straight out the window.

[@Shellydobbs]

#truth

[@MBLIFTS]

Amene

[@jiggerinokobalis609]

No haoles dropping trash. That's bullshit.

[@KatK2]

She JUST said this.. 😂 lmao..

[@zb4730]

Show how much Hawaiians love all keiki. Everyone is the keiki’s auntie or uncle. If want want to highlight a local business, please ask the owners first. Sometimes they are doing just fine and don’t want the name advertised bringing tons of tourist, and driving away locals. Some businesses want the tourism and some do not even need it so it’s always good to ask. Most locals do not name the trails, beaches, and hikes they are on for the same reason. They show pics but won’t say the name. Show the kindness and how the culture is about being together as a family (blood related or not). Weekend hangouts with family and friends. Where your looks don’t matter but the company your with does. Enjoy hawaii, 6 months won’t be long enough 😊❤

[@drroidhammer3218]

I agree

[@cherellej8440]

Can I ask what is Keiki?

[@Teestar519]

@@cherellej8440 it means “the child/children”, all children in hawaii refer to adults as “auntie/uncle” 💖

[@cherellej8440]

@@Teestar519 I love that.

[@Teestar519]

@@cherellej8440 i agree! The people of Hawaii seem to truly understand the concept of “it takes a village to raise a child” and look out and love each other even when not blood related 💖💖

[@lynellerulloda6368]

Talk about the homelessness. How it’s such a big problem. How the government will make deals with other governments and ship off mainlanders to Oahu cuz we don’t have a harsh winter and then we have over population of homeless. Talk about how small mom and pop stores have to close because of inflation. Beaches are meant to be relaxing not taken over by people especially tourists and be touching turtles and seals. Or killing fishes. Because that’s our future. Water is so precious here. Be mindful of the water usage. Our keiki need the wai for their future.

[@McAnultyBunch]

Minus the turtles part. This sounds just like California 😢

[@K1LLmatic]

Everywhere has insane population in homelessness right now.

[@thefryinator7774]

I live in Washington state and while we were there for my wedding once, we saw quite a few homeless and my husband was telling me how they kinda just get shipped off between California, Oregon and Washington state. Made me feel so bad for Hawaiians. I don't know a ton about it, but I do know that the tourism hurts Hawaiian people a lot sometimes, I hope that I was a good tourist while I was there with my family and inlaws

[@teeciewalk]

@@McAnultyBunchyes other states ship their homeless here because of the weather

[@zintlezinja]

It's sad really sad but it doesn't happen only in Hawaii, here in South Africa, Cape Town to be specific we're facing the exact same thing

[@factorxracing]

Just the fact that you are aware of the real lives of locals and are making sure you are respectful is a huge part of the "aloha spirit". You will be fine....I was born on molokai and raised on maui. Have fun and enjoy yout time with your ohana!

[@beast1728]

You Hawaiian girl!! True and true. Us Hawaiians love and respect people like yourself. Who understand what we represent and how challenging it really is to be Hawaiian. You Ohana girl!!! Mahalo big time! We got your back! Aloha, J. ;-)

[@ziarhhibrahim6777]

Yeah

[@mikehall1995]

Ima go there for vacation!!!! Enjoy the beach and have some drink , and probably enjoy some Hawaiian bbq

[@maraliske4544]

I love and appreciate you! We live in Hawaii so our son could experience some part of the childhood I grew up with in Samoa/Polynesian/Aloha/Alofa culture. Increasing awareness, respect, kindness and generosity for our natural island beauty, the ocean animal and bird life and the people who live the day to day life in Hawaii is beautiful. I would also ask, when and as often as our visitors interact with our local natural beauty, people and families. Clean up after your selves and anyone who may have left trash. Give generous tips for your servers. Shop at local restaurants, food trucks, grocery markets, coffee shops etc. Likely, they work 2-3 jobs supporting whole families, college dreams. Compassion, and acknowledgement for those suffering with the lack of mental healthcare, PTSD and who may be unsheltered and uncared for. Write and highlight to the local leadership about the poverty and homelessness needs. When visitors tell leadership how it impacts future tourism when basic needs for people on the streets are not cared for. It shifts priorities and resources toward those in dire need. Mahalo and Aloha to you, your family and the service you provide in your work 🌺

[@aubreyfb]

That is so thoughtful of you. Love how you are using your platform to help others ❤

[@teanigrace-keanu1502]

Thank you for actually caring about us Hawaiian ‘ most influencers don’t

[@Mulchedd]

*you have a beautiful soul..keep on shining with that family mama*

[@ashleyloki4457]

Wow, what a beautiful pure heart. Mahalo ♡

[@mahalawisner1739]

Everyone my whole life has asked me if my name was Hawaiian 🌺 now I see why I had to look up whay mahalo ment 🫶🏻

[@hanabadah5037]

Mahalo for your concern! You don’t owe us anything. We hope your kids really embrace the culture and live and love the way we do. Aloha to you and your family. Enjoy your stay

[@lauraward3501]

Your so thoughtful,love how your showing your babies part of their and their dads culture you are truly amazing and beautiful and have a beautiful family

[@NEOSPORIN7777]

maybe this is why he took her as his queen, and they are teaching the future. 🙂

[@derekdelanoza2128]

You are Truly a Wonderful Wife,Mother, I appreciate your Mindfulness Mahalo

[@tenwaystowearit]

You’re such a nice person. I can feel the sincerity. It makes me sad that Hawaiian people have to deal with so much disrespect that they now despise most tourists. I’ve been 3 times and I was in awe of the beauty of Hawaii and it’s people every time. I tried my best to leave a little impact as possible and support small businesses and restaurants. 🤘🏾♥️♥️♥️

[@graceb001]

Mahalo Nui loa for making this video. Cost of living is so high but it's like that everywhere. I would love for you to capture your kids learning the culture so tourists understand the love we have for the land and people...please.

[@vaskylark]

You're not the only ones who loves the land. Most people save for a decade or more and their visit to Hawaii is a once in a lifetime trip. Then you get some cruel local who flips them the bird and tells them to go home on the first day of their honeymoon when they were just sitting at a stoplight. Then I get a call as their travel agent asking me why the locals are being mean to them at stoplights and when they were just holding hands walking down the beach. Not littering, not speeding, not doing ANYTHING but trying to enjoy their honeymoon. Then they have me pricing out French Polynesia because the wife is crying and the husband is beside himself because he planned the trip of a lifetime to be perfect but the locals seem to be so unfriendly. You Hawaiians are very hard to please and at some point people just say eff it and go elsewhere. Your islands aren't the only islands and once those travel dollars go away it's very hard to get them back. Now after the fires you really need tourism to help pay for rebuilding and yet what do I hear from Hawaiians? "Please don't come but give us your money instead."

[@hiilanisakugawa808]

Maui is my home, born & raised. 2 specific topics to raise awareness is the amount of homeless here & why they are being sent here. Haoles coming to our islands buying land & homes so locals are forced to be house less or move away from their island home.

[@nunyabiz3557]

That’s everywhere 😔

[@gavindy_Sv2]

Lol I didn’t know there was a word to describe white ppl who are outsiders. Kind of messed up tbh but it’s the norm now I guess

[@Buttercup697]

so are many Japanese. 🤷‍♀️

[@PotatoesAreNeat]

I’m so happy to see a creator actually valuing the places she goes and using her platform to spread awareness.

[@jtbubbz3798]

Just by acknowledging all of this puts you way ahead of all the influences and tourists who don’t understand that Hawai’i isn’t a paradise for all!

[@chrishofmann8779]

Alaska is a paradise for many. Your not the only place with warm weather and lush tropical forests and volcanoes ever been to the Philippines? Nobody owns anything we are all on this planet together even if you live in the middle of the Pacific. You aint special! I hate it when people take themselves so seriously they think they are somehow above others or have more of a claim on land and its use. Someday none of us will be here and non of this will matter. If anything tell people to have less kids we don't need 22 and counting thats why everything is getting crowded, families with 3 or more kids!

[@cherylmadeira5134]

I like & respect that you are showing your children part of their heritage! I think its important that children from different cultures learn both! My oldest Son is part Italian/ Portuguese his father is from Europe & our Son speaks fluently in English , Portuguese, Italian, Spanish & Latin!

[@CyclingBritt1231]

You are amazing! Keep doing what you’re doing and know that your children will remember this for forever. Continue showing all of the love and respect you do for the beautiful Hawaiian couture and things will fall into place. Love from Utah!

[@VibewithacapitalV]

I can see how much thought you are putting into this and continue to put into it, and I just want to say that’s amazing. I know you don’t want the focus or the positive attention to be on you personally so I’ll keep it brief as to not distract from your main message. I just think it’s really beautiful how you absolutely respect and are completely committed to the preservation and honoring of a culture that isn’t your own and isn’t something you’re trying to appropriate or get credit for. You can tell it comes from a genuine, selfless, and informed individual. Keep using your platform for good as much as you can! You’re not perfect, you’re human, and I’m sure there will be times where you miss the mark, or even just think you did, but the most important thing is that it’s all coming from positive, loving, and empathetic intentions. ❤ As for your question I’m not giving any specific answers, other than to keep up the good work and keep that same energy, simply because it’s not my culture or my home to speak on. I know how important it is to keep in touch with your culture and heritage though as a first generation immigrant to the US. It’s been even more important for me to stay connected to my roots now so I don’t lose touch with that part of myself just because I’m not surrounded by it 24/7 anymore. So, I have mad respect for what you’re doing. 🙂

[@scrapbooksundries4590]

Mahalo, I was very fortunate to live and work in Honolulu, Hawaii for 3 years and I was horrified at the amount of homeless people living in the streets and in parks. Not on main streets that tourists see but on the side streets when you take local buses. You never hear about that on the mainland. Mainlanders always think it's just a vacation spot. They don't realize that Islanders have to live and work there...like "normal" people. I learned to appreciate the culture of Hawaiians and respect their traditions. I always shopped local and when friends or family came to visit - I took them to local events and businesses. I hated to leave the island but it is ridiculously expensive. I just could not afford it anymore and I made $76,000 a year! So you can imagine how hard it is for the locals to actually live there! You are doing the right thing - sharing the real Hawaii. 😊

[@khi7302]

Thank you for being so honest! From a local working for hawaiian airlines I need the world love hawaii

[@rowenaramsaran4256]

I love her attitude & respect toward the Hawaiian people. Her husband chose very well.

[@katherinehayes9110]

I would love to know more about the Hawaiian culture. Hawaii is more than beautiful beaches.

[@tracyhaver6178]

Kat, I am not Hawaiian but visit often and love the culture tremendously. Please remind people not to stack or unstack rocks. Sometimes these are ancient heiaus-sacred worship places. It would be as irreverent as kicking over tombstones. You’d never do that, so don’t do the equivalent in Hawaii. If you don’t know expectations, just ask. We have been so blessed to learn more of the culture from kind locals by just asking with the intent to be respectful and learn.

[@annabellahawaii]

you have a rlly good point:) I live in hawaii and even though tourist do come over al the time and disrespect the culture tori’s mom is our main money maker and in covid it was tough for family’s to provide because all of their money was coming from hotels, restruants, food markets. I love how your so passionate about it 🫶🫶🫶

[@kaeobermoy4401]

Girl that’s all you need is respect that’s it if you give it you will get it . I’m glad you’re bringing your Keiki back to there roots they deserve to grow up here

[@ehukai2003]

There is no one “biggest issue.” I appreciate what you’re doing and here’s my suggestions for issues: 1) tourism and its adverse effects 2) military and “ “ “ 3) The Overthrow, Annexation, Statehood all illegal/fraudulent 4) displacement of our people 5) oppression tactics and systems here

[@NEOSPORIN7777]

3 & 4 go together. not harassing you. the most horrible thing humans have perpetrated on one another is killing in the name of the creator. horrid! going out and finding folks that are flourishing and just destroying it and making them take a book and destroying their origional ways. I will never understand. I know why they did it but it's sad human game.

[@cowgirl_in_pink_pearls]

#2? You’re welcome.

[@felishaanglebrandt6268]

You are such a well rounded smart and thoughtful human. ❤

[@EggchaserNZ]

As a Polynesian I would say that as you are considered part of this absolutely large community as you have a loving wonderful family with a fellow Polynesian.

[@tvommy]

You trying to be respectful is what matters and they will still love you for trying dont worry ❤

[@abdurahmannuradin3900]

Well, you are really a kind person that even cares about the possibility of harming people unconsciously that you have not meet or lived among them before. I know that what makes you ( a kind person), worrying and caring about others.

[@PiperSchad-wy1ie]

You’re so respectful about the whole thing, you just talking like that makes you sounds like a very awesome person.

[@werethewilsons]

I'm not Hawaiian, but how sweet of you to want to do this. It really shows your caring heart and respect for the culture. Best of luck and huge blessings to you.

[@sultanismael]

I live in a small Island In The Indian Ocean Called Mauritius. We experience the same things, we have wealthy immigrants from Europe and South Africa who makes it hard to live for the natives. Thank you for bringing awareness about it .

[@Mahinaking]

Hawaii is a people not a place. That’s all that needs to be known. This woman’s doing her due diligence and being really respectful about it all in the process. Ignorance can come from either side of the track because unfortunately it’s a world wide trait that certain people share. Biases can be harmful if not carefully treaded or shared with mutual courtesy.

[@travismonakea2099]

Mahalo for this. Wishing more people can come here with the aloha and respect that you have. You are amazing ❤

[@dtrujillo60]

Your heart is pure and wonderful! I grew up in Hawaii, and each person on this comments page have mentioned much of what is important in Hawaii. The only item I would add is immerse them in the culture, the actual Polynesian culture. If you have daughters, have them take hula lessons- both ancient and modern, they will also learn about the language. Teach them the history of Hawaii, good and the bad things. If there is an opportunity, have them taught in the language. The app Duolingo has Hawaiian words they can start learning the meanings and pronunciations. Just immerse them in culture and there are some beautiful museums to visit, historical landmarks. Have them try the food- I go to Hawaii every year to recharge my love for Hawaiian food and culture! They can start learning now before the trip! Good luck and looking forward to seeing you blog on your stay.

[@machone539]

You are doing just fine. If you are screwing up, your husband will let you know. I lived in Pearl Ridge for 6 months back in the 90's. I also learned to respect the culture because it is rich and it made those 6 months so much richer. The local vendors even tried to offer me the kamaaina discount which I always refused telling them I am not a local but have been staying there for awhile.

[@pamdavis8869]

HAWAIANS WORK MANY JOBS TO BE ABLE TO LIVE THERE. THEY WORK HARD

[@zinamanalo5906]

We thank you for the respect and understanding of the struggles we go through. Our island ways and beliefs are the most important thing. Keep going straight forward teach your children the ways of living and teaching them to love not judge and bring that Aloha. Save our island keep it aloha.

[@nsokdhaiwjwbwbwi]

I love when people respect our ‘āina and don’t touch the honu. Lol. Some of us really appreciate that

[@Sunsethomestead]

I'm not Hawaiian, but I have visited the big island. ❤ One day I was walking down the street and picked up a flower that was on the ground, put it in my hair. Then picked up gum wrappers and threw them away. I had locals tell me I was welcome anytime and thanked me for respecting the island❤

[@-TheFourYs-]

Don’t feel pressured or discouraged in Hawaii! In the lands of Hawaii, we are supposed to comfort you! No matter who you are or where you are from, as long as you are not causing a problem or disturbing the island, there will be no shame towards you! You don’t have to know a lot about Maui or Hawaii to be respectful! I hope that this helps and have a great day ❤

[@AdrianMunoz-xz3dy]

You and your family are such beautiful people with huge hearts

[@momiau-keliikoa4975]

Ur husband has taught you well! Thank you for the respect!

[@devanynavarro3244]

I'm not Hawaiian but maybe you could look into and talk about food and resources. Inflation is high everywhere but I imagine it's crazy there.

[@HooLeeYo]

Homelessness in Hawaii is a huge issue. I lived on Oahu, and the issue was rampant. Tents everywhere, on almost every corner. Something needs to be addressed and a resolution found to not only help the homeless but to keep them off the streets. Many of these people are mentally ill and either spit, hit, harass or steal from you. Hawaii is NOT the paradise the mainland believes it is.

[@michellemendiola9237]

Same goes for GUAM 🇬🇺 We are not to to far from Hawaii 😊 Life here gets harder and harder everyday. Everything is so expensive here for such a really small island.

[@llXchonll]

I'm not a cultural practitioner but I am Hawaiian. Just the fact that you are aware of the problems that plague our communities and want to be involved in helping means a lot to us.

[@cheries.5469]

I’m sure you’re husband has already mentioned this but in Hawaii, no body honks the horn. Unless to say hello. It’s considered rude. Also like others have said, take your trash with you. Wear reef safe sunscreen and leave the wildlife be. I’ve seen so many folks get too close to them. No flashes when taking pictures of them either. It scares them. As someone who is part Hawaiian, I thank you for wanting to know more about my ancestral homeland.

[@Bella-oc4mt]

I was born/raised in Hawaii. Born on the Big Island, raised on Maui...it's ON Maui...you cannot be "In Maui". You are in the state, on the island. The only way to be "in Maui" is if you happen to fall into a volcano or get buried lol. Just giving you a hard time, but that is a pet peeve of mine 😂

[@December-oj2un]

Hello! I’m on Los Angeles 😂

[@sweetvibe]

Show light on the homelessness. I now live on the Mainland. But when I’m home it breaks my heart seeing the locals priced out of housing

[@russhonda1]

Born and raised in Hawaii... everyone needs to realize that no matter where you are in the world we need to always be respectful and enjoy the world's beauty. The people are a large part of it's beauty.

[@kuuleilaniweathington1401]

Baby!! When you came it is never a “You Guys” it’s “We” You are part of our Hawaiian Culture because you decided to accept life with your husband as a kanaka Maoli and to have little keiki. So you my Sister are ’Ohana💕

[@sy253sea]

Thank you for teaching us and showing awareness to the Hawaiian culture

[@ardpihema539]

Ka pai your doing this with dignity out of respect for his and your children including Whanau, Aroha Nui from Aotearoa New Zealand 🇳🇿

[@NSKEIKI23]

Thank you for making this video because it is so freaking hard to make it here right now. I don’t get to live in the nice part of Oahu even though I grew up between Waimea & sunset. There’s no way I could ever afford to live where I’m from now and it breaks my heart. The beautiful place I grew up in once called home it’s just a tourist attraction. It’s overcrowded. It has changed so much and the housing crisis is gnarly for us. So many of my friends are just giving up and moving to the mainland. We are getting pushed out by Rich and entitled.

[@sashacardenas377]

GOD BLESS YOU GURL YOUR HEART IS AMAZING!! KEEP STRIVING

[@lololololo2302]

That’s so thoughtful and open hearted! I think just starting with the little things and supporting the smaller farmers or businesses Instead of the influencer trendy spots yk? Like go support a family of farmers instead of going to the sunrise shack haha that’s just an example but those are things that make differences

[@LB-ec4uf]

Good for you for making this effort! 🥰👍

[@jonnyDezz]

From Maui, Hawaii I just wanted to say welcome to your family's new home you got this girl you have so much aloha.!

[@mailanihawaiimentorship4079]

My husband is a Maui boy too. I love that you all made this a priority to have your husband return home and bring your keiki so they learn and connect with their roots & the lands of their ancestors. That is very powerful and they will cherish these memories and hopefully do the same when they have keiki of their own one day. Government here is extremely corrupt- and you will see in government how lawmakers are creating a Hawaii without Hawaiians. How is that gonna workout ? There are not enough opportunities or options for local ppl in general but especially Hawaiians. Tourism is connected to almost everything here. The biggest problem is our wages are terrible. The biggest problem is our real estate and foreign ownership. Enjoy your time here ! Hopefully you folks can do this every year ! Aloha MM

[@kfu4657]

Good to have respect. Your husband claims he is KanakaMaoli. Your attitude shows that he truly is. No posers wanted, only true Aloha spirit. Which you do have. Mahalo for that.

[@shereecampbell6726]

Get in touch with food banks, homeless shelters and continue to post there links and information every month that you're living there. I'm sure there's a local indigenous community that has a KZbin or Twitter page that you can link with.

[@oliviasmith5622]

i was partially raised in hawaii and i know how it feels to be a local in that situation

[@AishawithanEye]

There are a lot of locals trashing the island too. Every time I'm behind a pickup, it's got trash blowing out its back.

[@liliaalesan8201]

Agree! When Mauna Loa erupted last month the Daniel Inouye highway was lined up with trash for miles!!This was not from tourists but locals. It was the worst ever and shameful. People on their own picked up the trash including myself. So much about respecting the Aina!

[@NEOSPORIN7777]

👁Esah, I got a funny for you. La-a; it's ladasha, tha dash ain't silent. 🤪

[@mommak8342]

I’m old enough to remember the Makua beach clean up. That mess wasn’t made by tourist. Let’s tell the truth.

[@tay4950]

Native Hawaiians aren’t out there littering we respect our land

[@RoElliott]

As a Pacific Islander, I absolutely agree with you. People need to treat people in Hawaii like family. Show the respect and love to the locals and islands. Learn about the culture and family there.

[@tiffanyholden8383]

People should respect, the beaches in Hawaii, or any beaches. Cause you got animals that die from trash.

[@sldsuperluigidaniel8617]

All you have to do is be respectful not kiss their buts

[@PsycheDude]

It is like this for anyone who lives in a 'tourist destination'. I have lived in the Miami area for almost 20 years. Don't blame the tourists, blame local officials who can't get their act together to improve infrastructure.

[@lazylei6109]

come to this place to learn and cultivate, mahalo for being that example for our fellow haole friends 💜💜

[@energygirl9588]

Many are poor, living in small family homes with multiple families. It is expensive and the jobs are mostly service industry and don’t always pay well. They struggle.

[@waipuilanigrl]

Grew up in Kihei. We used to have ogo (seaweed) in an abundance. It's all gone now. Surf schools operate with so much clients trampling over all the rocks the the ogo grow on and all the sunscreen killing the ogo. I lived where you could just walk on the beach and pick ogo or even ba y opae, it was knee deep at times. Because there was a blding that serviced the tourist, they had someone come with a tractor to scrape up all the ogo, now the ogo didnt go back in the ocean to replenish. Now no ogo in Kihei.

[@waipuilanigrl]

Growing up on Maui and now living on Oahu, one of the hardest is how all these tourists come to enjoy our Hawaii, without respect to the aina and ppl, traffic (especially in Hana). Then they want to move here, especially the retirees, and raise the cost of homes, renting VROBs that the owners can pay the mortgage renting the home out for 1 wk. , now taking homes away from locals. To rent a 3bdrm home $3000-$4000 a month. Then they come because of our beauty then want to change the beauty they fell in love with (ask ur husband how beautiful it is now from Puunene to Kihei to what he saw growing up) to accommodate their mainland wants. That's when we say "Go home"

[@celissewillis9399]

I'm not local, but I've lived on Kauai now over 4 years. What I've observed is the ignorance in both influencers AND tourists who are not there as influencers. It's just sad! People who will glorify being YOLO in areas that even the locals know are DANGEROUS to be accessing... & regardless of any warnings or signs given, people STILL ignore, then end up getting injured or killed & expecting the state to pay out for their ignorance... that NEEDS to STOP... You can see how lacking someone is in the realm of respect, just by how they act on the islands. Full transparency, I was once a tourist back in 2016, yet I've observed that common sense is still not that common, when it comes to basic manners & respects, including in a public or foreign arena... if you would not allow someone to enter your home with muddy shoes, then show respect in a cultural environment... & I can tell you, that the trauma with the Hawaiian culture runs DEEP... I feel most Hawaiian natives/locals would rather not have so many main landers here & the only reason why many are accepting or tolerating, is because the majority of the jobs available that pay their bills, are through tourism-based industries.

[@porshazsoares5325]

Ty for respecting our islands I was born and raised in Oahu ty

[@willsea2142]

Amen! You got it!..you have learned well. Awesome job and message .

[@trina_808]

Finally somebody who really understands!!!! I be telling these non Hawaiian and they think I’m racist but I wasn’t trying to be rude about just telling them from the rights and wrong that come with this island we call our home that got token away from us 😔🙁

[@kerrypham3559]

Please talk more about mindful things people can do when travel to hawaii🙏🏾🙏🏾♥️

[@masterep3576]

Thanks for asking: Our definition of Local is both born and raised on the islands. Hawaiians are only by blood. Locals love and respect people who love and respect locals, our home, our culture and our blended beliefs from before Statehood. We love givers with a generous heart and give unconditionally as we do. Always, always bring more than enough food to a party you've been invited to. We love good tasting foods!! Btw hot dogs and hamburgers are not good party foods to bring here. One last thing to know, never correct a generational island elder about sustainability practices who does not live on Oahu - dude.

[@elizabethmoore3714]

You are such a beautiful person 🦋

[@stormyweather7952]

"I want to make sure that "I" am doing "you guys" justice.

[@fluffernutter586]

🫣🤔

[@fluffernutter586]

Hey isn't that what the u.s. told our people 8n so many ways

[@MysticMan184]

I believe me when i say, a lot of people, before they move here, have to deal with that reality. There's more to think about than just "Moving to the islands".

[@mdurham2137]

Is that offensive in some way? She is acknowledging that as a non-Hawaiian she has a lot to learn and asking for help. She’s asking people with the knowledge to assist her in being accurate, helpful and responsible in the way that she is using her platform. If a person wants to be offended they will always find a way but it seems to me that this woman has good intentions and is really trying.

[@stormyweather7952]

@M Durham you're right. The "you guys" is disrespectful. I don't think she meant it to be disrespectful. Its important to get to understand the culture of the island. You guys is kind of dismissive.

[@Nowseemypoint]

Upon arrival of tourists in Hawaii they should be welcomed by Hawaiian policies briefings before they are allowed to roam the area.

[@lonelybagel555]

I think some people just don’t understand this is not vacation for us, we live here and we’re just trying to live like how you live in your hometowns.

[@TheJOHNNYBOY195]

I know our culture in Colorado does not compare to Hawaiian culture, but I relate to some of the points you spoke of here. In my community we were taught to basically implement the meaning of this phrase “love thy neighbor like thy self” and to always respect the land, especially the mountains! It’s hard to see this way of life muddled and lost with the influx of new people to this state (tourist or new residents). I just try hard to outwardly live this way of life and hopefully be a decent example of my community 😅

[@Elliesmama]

If you guys could stay in Hawaii forever please😭❤️ Love you all so much!🤙🏽👏🏽🌺

[@MysticMan184]

As a Hawaiian, I approve this message 😁🤙❤️

[@tboteilho7]

Thank you for this. You're exactly on point. (From: Anahola, Kauai.)

[@mellee9011]

The huge homeless problem in Honolulu is cataclysmic. The people from Guam live a nomadic existence in the bush and need support. Finally, the men suffer poor circulation in their legs at very young ages which doesn't get addressed.

[@All5AJz]

My friend's moved there in 88 or 89 and they absolutely loved it. They learned the ways of the people that are from there and go back often to the regular beats of there.

[@liliaalesan8201]

Mahalo for sharing your thoughts and concerns. You are on point!!

[@808Kapeka]

Aloha I thank you for showing ppl around the world how Hawaiians and locals residence are being push out from our own land. I also feel that making a change for us Hawaiian to speak the truth about how that all became. How our kingdom was over thrown illegally it is so important for us Hawaiians to remember what our Kapuna’s installed in us. My tutu always told me to remember a teach my Keki’s the truth about us Hawaiians and to never forget so our ancestors will never be lost or forgotten. The problem for most Hawaiians is No change? like dropping the Hawaiians 50% for Hawaiian lands. An how our all’i tried to make it 1/8 percent. Now that never been forgotten.

[@tabathaevans5541]

I think that these things are everyday rules. Like trashing places, respect on roadways, giving to your local businesses ect. I believe we all should know these things in general. I mean I see humans that just clean their vehicles out in a parking lot, throwing their trash on the ground. I can't stand humans doing this. I don't want to live in trash. Then people just sitting in the road talking to a friend or yelling at someone on a sidewalk. This causes traffic backups or dangerous situations. I mean adults know basic everyday rules. They just choose to do the opposite which is horrible. Prayers and love to everyone 🙏 ❤.

[@sherryakawimpyrambo7818]

I adore the fact that you respect your husband and your child’s culture. I’m older than you and want to say that: YOU ARE AN AMAZING FAMILY and you owe NOBODY an apology! What a great Mum you are and I presume that you are a fantastic wife as well. #YouDoYOU #StrongWomen

[@MrsHannahSophia]

I’m a haole but I grew up on Maui and was there 20 years! Miss it so much.

[@TCRASPBERRY58]

I learned that the day to day life isn't any different than anywhere else. It's not what you see on TV. Also, I saw so many tourists act so entitled and treat the locals horribly. When I go, I live local, shop local, eat local and do anything I can to respect the culture.

[@elizabethbradley4301]

All places should be respected and all cultures respected