BALLERINA FARM DRAMA GETS CRAZIER (hannah speaks out)

[@chelseaxjaye]

i think them being mormon answers every question i had 😂

[@spookmagook]

Ikr😂😂😂😂

[@someusername4129]

Pretty much. Everything they say and the follow up... Very Mormon 🤷‍♀️

[@TreeThing912]

When I saw confirmation that they were Mormon I was like oh yeah this all makes sense🥴

[@rr-rg7ot]

Exactly. People don't understand that most Mormon girls go to college or any school to get their "MRS" degree. (Aka their wife degree)

[@myopinionnotyours.6053]

I couldn't have said it better.

[@Asian6oy]

idk the husband giving an apron to her instead of tickets to Greece despite his father owning a literal airline is still very off.....

[@houski4242564]

This! I saw their early videos when they started their farm and they made it sound like they worked so hard and saved to buy it. I thought it was sketchy because they are young and buying a farm is insanely expensive even if it was small. Now I know where that money came from.

[@umokay5516]

Exactly! Hannah’s response is what any trad wife would say to protect her husband. Dude seems like a douche.

[@happylizard7741]

That's what she wanted. After everyone was flipping out over her present she posted on twitter that's what she really wanted was the egg apron & it made her happy

[@user-bq3wf3ws6g]

stop reaching

[@genesisansbro4936]

Running a farm… doesn’t mean you can just up and walk away. Maybe he has it planned you don’t know. Sometimes things can’t happen exactly when you want them to happen

[@nyxx0122]

Still mad about the egg apron and no Greece trip.

[@twistedrealitys742]

"Your welcome" 🤢

[@jessicadavis3989]

Still mad about her pausing raw milk as safe and him being to clean to be a farmer FAKE

[@ptcglass]

She can afford it herself, it was probably rage bait

[@MarinaPerla9]

@@jessicadavis3989 if that got u mad you ain’t really had much trouble in life

[@jessicadavis3989]

@@MarinaPerla9 I know I was born to a family of Christian extremism in a small town of farmers! I never seen a farmer so clean as that guy in my life! You don’t know is exactly right weirdo!

[@Captain_Crusade]

Him still getting his info from his dad to get plane seat next to her is still very creepy!

[@angeldavis5352]

Right!! And not even using those same connections to get her tickets to Greece 👀👀

[@bluehairedvixen]

@@Captain_Crusade exactly. I don’t like how spill out this video. It was almost like condoning the stalking.

[@misschokesondique_yt]

Such are the whims of love.

[@mirrojas]

Is that even legal? I was wondering that.

[@misschokesondique_yt]

@@mirrojas of course it’s not!!!

[@xjbgforeverx]

I think people are forgetting that she is Mormon, not just him. She grew up believing being a traditional wife and mom was what women do.. religious people don’t have the same mindset that us non religious modern women do.

[@Shiizun]

Ok i might be very wrong on this one but although she grew up mormon, she did not want to follow those beliefs anymore because her family was allegedly very controlling (If im wrong please don’t flame me this is what ive heard others say)

[@user-sw2wv1zx1t]

There are religious people who don’t follow men (maybe not Mormon though lol). In Christianity a lot of men suppressed women after they no longer needed their money. Paul and the others put their opinions out there that essentially dehumanized and infantilized women because they put men ahead of them in importance to God. God let it happen and chose men because of the curse of Eve that said men would want to rule over them but the women would only crave them. Which can be broken like how land can be arable. God/Jesus uses women too now so those days are gone. I don’t like it and it’s sad that we have to put up with it but I think certain things had to happen. There are churches now where women lead as well. If you think what I’m saying is ridiculous lol look up shroud of Turin including where they debunk the debunking. There’s camera footage of demons and angels. Stories from witches who met Him.

[@pmill95]

Ok but I’m Mormon and while yes it is common for many woman to be like this, not all of us are and we still are modern and independent. Also, it is extremely common for media to twist storylines concerning our faith.

[@whysnana]

@@pmill95 this. def not a trad wife xD

[@user-sw2wv1zx1t]

There are religious women who don’t follow men. Maybe not Mormon though lol. There are Christian churches where women lead as well. The opinions of men like Paul where they dehumanize and infantilize women can be rejected.

[@brit_barr]

I can’t get over the fact her husband looks like a discount Mark Ruffalo

[@requiemunicorn1329]

That’s just such an unfortunate statement for mark ruffalo 😂

[@Stoneheadass]

Lol 😂 I’m so glad I’m not the only one who sees it

[@KayJoyy]

😭 doing mark so dirty

[@brit_barr]

My bad 😂

[@genesisansbro4936]

I think it’s the other way around haha but they do look similar

[@kirstyferguson7194]

I don't know, something still feels very off about this... The video, the story of how they met and how he wouldn't leave her alone for MONTHS when she said no?? Feels VERY off and almost like she's in denial or they're saving face

[@hamosally3860]

Fr…. She’s trapped and can’t just publicly go “yes I am unhappy and trapped!” She has like 8 kids

[@brit_barr]

What if she is happy tho? I mean that’s still a possibility

[@Coralillyliz]

@@brit_barr I mean you could be right she could be happy and that’s great but I think they’re a lot of times where you think you’re really happy and then suddenly you realize like you’re not happy I’m not saying this is her. I’m just saying it seems weird where he’s talking about how she you know works herself so hard that she literally can’t get up for like a week that’s not normal, if I was there other person I would insist on at least you know OK maybe knowing with the kids but someone to help lighten the load on the farm they can afford it also it’s not the biggest deal but the fact that he couldn’t get her the ticket seems like wrong? I know I’m not trying to start anything or anything like that. It’s just like I think there are many people who like oh yeah, I’m really happy and then all of a sudden it’s like oh no I convinced myself to be happy because I didn’t know, if I could have another life? I don’t know if that makes sense or anything like that again I’m not there’s no attitude and what I’m saying I’m just you know I don’t know.

[@Katie_Jo_21]

It sounded scripted to me. .. the response. I agree. “Front line view” “incubator” … sounds, to me anyway, like he wrote it …

[@Jen_Agnes]

I won't lie, many girls feel this is what a guy in "true love" is suppose to do. It's bonkers to me how crossing boundaries is romanticised

[@vxx3576]

Nah that egg apron video was actually horrendous. He really said “You’re welcome” cause she didn’t say “Thank you” 🤢

[@jessicadavis3989]

@@vxx3576 he’s comments and his voice made my skin crawl!

[@donkeydeck5263]

If that's the worst thing that happens in your marriage you're doing fine.

[@cryingwatercolours]

@@donkeydeck5263strangely, some of the most abusive people use small tactics to gain power over and hurt you. i say small tactics bc idk how else to word it, but it’s not always shouting or hitting or just “you’re not allowed to do x”. the abuser will also find small ways to control you, or orchestrate pain towards you. on their own, most aren’t big issues. put together, they’re red flags.

[@donkeydeck5263]

@@cryingwatercolours if him saying "you're welcome" unprompted is evidence of him being abusive to you then you need to get your head checked. He still took her to Greece btw.

[@cryingwatercolours]

@@donkeydeck5263 scroll down in the comments section, there’s a part about coercive control. this is the kind of thing i’m referring to. alone, yeah, a bad present isn’t an issue. glad he took her to greece.

[@jettyl23]

I still stand by my original views. She sacrificed too much for his level of carelessness and disrespect to be ok. I never thought he trapped her, I always knew she chose this. It still doesn't justify things like getting your wife an egg apron for her birthday when she wanted a trip to Greece while you have more than enough money and your dad owns airlines.

[@ellegrey13]

But she isn't complaining so I think she loves everything people are hating on. That's what I see from an unbiased pov where I don't even know who this lady or man are.

[@illumigk6307]

well they've been on several trips abroad so it would make the most sense to assume that a trip to greece just wasn't possible for them then or didnt cross his mind. You don't know the man and instantly think the worst why?

[@elianashaw8776]

@@ellegrey13 it's that thing about "you don't have to feel victimised to be a victim" ykwim

[@ellegrey13]

@@elianashaw8776 that works for minors and DV victims, not rich ass people who know what they're marrying into and go through it still iykwim

[@jettyl23]

@@ellegrey13 yeah, because they’re Mormon and she’d be punished for complaining. She didn’t seem to love receiving that apron instead of a trip in the video, but idk. I’m just saying, regardless of who it is and whether they’re traditional or whatever, things like that show a lack of care and respect for your partner. My ex said he wanted a certain funko pop for his bday and I had more than enough money for it so I got it for him. I told him I wanted a purple vintage heart cake for my bday and he knew a woman who could do it so he got one for me. It’s the basics of caring in an interpersonal relationship.

[@lilyl8927]

... this is just a PR coverup. I believe she loves her children and being a wife but that doesn't mean her husband doesn't control her and put his wants and dreams above her over and over. The dude is CREEPY.

[@M_k-zi3tn]

Lol the coping is off the charts in this comments section

[@codematters7970]

Daniels is the CEO of Hanna. She answers questions very carefully and immediately looks at her CEO's face for validation. Awkward vibe ....

[@patrickkairu7752]

You're just miserable and lonely. Get a life .

[@TomikaKelly]

Lily...this woman would never in million year trade her life for yours or her husband for yours, not even on her worst days.

[@lilyl8927]

@@TomikaKelly 🤔 I said she loves being a mother and a wife in my comment. And I wouldn’t want her life just cause she’s married to a rich man. Their religious, and cultural experience is very off putting to many women outside of the Mormon community.

[@indipendentopinion915]

Why would they sue the journalist? They gave the journalist access and she wrote the story based on her perception and credited based on quotes they gave looks like they thought this would be a glorified PR piece, journalists can't control how the public will react to news reporting.

[@masonguthrie1257]

Yeah but it’s also extremely clear that there is a huge bias from the author I mean she states that “he was 23 and she was almost two years his junior” that is trying to make it seem sinister when she was literally 22 so not even 2 years younger.

[@user-bq3wf3ws6g]

the author made a second article about what she wrote before and said herself that she made assumptions about them..

[@Ashbrash1998]

​@masonguthrie1257 That's covered on "about" as it isn't staying for sure she was 2 years younger.

[@Banana-st4dd]

I personally think both the journalist and the family are trying so hard to sell their views as "the right one" when both can be wrong. I feel that all these conservative people gaining attention and more followers make others angry (like the journalist) so both trying so hard to sell one side as the "right one" gets results like this journalist and her writing. I don't agree with anyone but I think both are trying so hard to sell their views and make it a little bit political. I just think we should all live our lives and not force others to agree with our opinions/ideas. Want a farm and 10 kids? Go ahead and find someone that can help you sustain that lifestyle. Want to be child free and just live your life single or travel the world? Do it if it makes you happy, no need of the public's approval or make it political.

[@masonguthrie1257]

@@Banana-st4dd just curious but how has the family tried to sell or push their views on anyone else I mean in this instance all they did was defend/set the record straight responding to a hit piece.

[@jangminoona]

Coercive control is very very subtle and difficult to notice. Having experienced it myself, it's totally possible that Daniel said "you can continue dancing if you want" but with his behaviour and subtle other remarks, subliminally communicated that he didn't want her to. Still think he's awful and there are things that will never look good no matter what they say, like how we followed her onto a plane when she didn't want to date him, or didn't allow her to wait a year before getting married. What a creep. And yeah I totally believe she read a script when she defended her life, the way she spoke was so flat and lifeless, and how she tried to convince us that the best day of her life was when she got married? Yeah I'm not buying it

[@clairewillow6475]

Honestly their kids reaction to the egg apron was very telling. You could hear the anxiety Edit: men who control their wives are also abusive to the kids 😢

[@cosmicgalaxystudio1539]

Agree. She grew up that this is the life she's supposed to have. No matter how she defends her husband nothing can convince me this is all okay and we are all wrong. All the red flags from the start. If not now, I hope she'll realize this in the future. Being married to a wealthy man can also have disadvantages. Good luck to her.

[@illumigk6307]

Damn so a flat out statement won't convince you guys. What would you guys need from her then? Of course she wrote it out she's trying to handle it professionally and not just blurt out whatever and why would she have a happy tone in her voice talking about someone misrepresenting her family that would be hella fake. You guys are starting to sound obsessed and delusional i can't lie.

[@oliviasayshi7517]

​@@illumigk6307as someone who grew up in the same faith as her, you can definitely be in a lifestyle that is stifling and be choosing it while not realizing you're slowly being suffocated. She can enjoy her lifestyle and it still not be healthy for her (the whole, "she's laid up in bed for a week at a time from exhaustion" is telling).

[@illumigk6307]

@@oliviasayshi7517 thats fair, but then shouldnt you being discouraging her from things like professional ballet for the same reasons, because of the physical and mental effects it would have on her, despite her wanting to do it? Same goes for anyone who is trying their best for what they want despite potentially acquiring physical and mental exhaustion from what they want to pursue?

[@Salazarsalsa]

"A business from scratch" lmfao the husband is loaded

[@brookeb1753]

Him building a massive extension onto their farm (but no ballet studio btw), them transitioning their entire farming direction to A2 milk cows, selling frozen meat boxes (insanely expensive and the shipping is crazy) that isn’t even all meat from ballerina farms (they state they combine it with outsourced meat), they want the profit but do not have the cows and “inventory” to support it - wealthy people are very good at investing and also scamming 😂

[@user-bx4ti6ig3i]

Still started from scratch. They became farmers without any knowledge of the field. Doesn't take away from it but it sure does make it easy.

[@scrumbun1251]

That’s like saying you didn’t make a cake from scratch if you bought the ingredients from a store instead of foraging them from the earth

[@0Jayla230]

She meant starting a business from the ground up and building it up together. Just because you have the money doesn’t mean your business will be successful

[@b3thamphetamine]

@@0Jayla230 Honestly, I think it makes it more likely to fail because there's a safety net that allows for more risk on top of a potential clouding of judgement due to having the funds in the first place.

[@ryudeen]

"If you wanna dance, go dance." Let's also have 8 kids and have zero nannies, but go dance if you wanna dance baby!

[@ricaramos9631]

And oh you want a ballet studio on the farm? Nah let’s turn that into a classroom for the kids. But if you wanna dance, go dance! /s

[@Opinionakadatruth]

She literally said she wanted a big family because she herself comes from a family of 9! Not to mention, not all people have nanny’s. There are some people who actually like taking care of their OWN children instead of hiring someone else to do it for them.

[@LoveLife-oo9cz]

And also no car for you, baby. Get stuck in the farm and obey like a good maid. No epidurals for your childbirths because the religion says so. All the assets are in the husband's name. Sum up: Stinginess doesn't discriminate the rich. Marrying to this type of rich, you still have to earn every cents and give away free labor, which might be a million dollars in labor throughout the marriage. Religions can be very brainwashed. I believe in God but follow no religion especially spreading out the info out by sinful people.

[@mscptizzy]

And in Brazil!! When she didn't even want to move out there 😂. What a stellar husband.

[@chiarat4103]

Zero nannies is for the tiktok viewers... come on... don't you see that's it's all staged? Look at the background of the videos, spotless and perfect, even the mess have order.

[@cataboss8288]

Daniel ,,yeah you can still dance and be a wife and mom" Daniel (inside he's head) ,,good luck having the energy to do all that,I'll only do laundry and forbid you to have nannies-evil laugh 😈🤣🤣😂

[@k.a.2241]

Don't believe anything. They're stinking rich and have loads of help in the background they are not telling us about. All those videos and scenes are so carefully curated. That is NOT AT ALL what regular farms look like.

[@k.a.2241]

I don't feel sorry for her at all

[@chiarat4103]

It's all perfectly staged. It's like a movie, created to be reality but it s fake. Look at the background, perfect and clean or if there's mess it's howsoever staged. and the shots: mainly it looks like a phone placed on a piece of furniture but sometimes it looks just like if there were an attendant

[@sarahtonin6281]

Kinda like Pioneer Woman does.

[@Kate1427]

All ranches have help. A lot of help because it’s a business.

[@Mlv2123]

The apron was still atrocious lol

[@Ohnothetableits]

Looks like he got it at the Dollar Store 😅

[@OliviaMae-g7g]

You guys just sit around and talk shit about your friends all day huh?

[@bluepurrrgrey]

it’s for collecting eggs, is it possible to make that cute? lmao

[@iamnotaconcept]

her response sounds written by Daniel lol

[@jessicadavis3989]

@@iamnotaconcept 💯

[@fussbrain9161]

We this we that but never I

[@sarab3417]

Horrific

[@Minister-Delina.]

She is enslaved in plainsight 😢😢😢

[@jessicadavis3989]

@@Minister-Delina. she in the cult of Mormonism

[@suupanoova]

They aren’t done having babies ??? Girl you got 8

[@JBrodo]

Gotta fill that 15 seater bus!!

[@hennywig]

It should be illegal to have that many kids

[@oliviasayshi7517]

Former Mormon here: knew a family who had 23 kids (5 were bio,the rest adopted). Any kid from a big of family can tell you that at some points it's kids raising their siblings

[@Herstyleseduier]

I scrolled until I saw a comment like this because I feel the exact same way more kids? That is also abuse in the sense that kids will not get the attention that they deserve and like the above comment, kids will have to raise the other kids.

[@elizabethr4107]

Mormons have as many babies as they can bc they think it will earn them planets in the afterlife

[@KayJoyy]

HE didnt like the way the article portrayed their life. This man couldnt even be bothered to buy her tickets to Greece or build a dance studio for her in their old barn. Hes a selfish POS and hannah can say all she wants but her voice and eyes say something different. I also said I loved my life when I was in an extremely toxic snd abusive relationship. Youre brain washed in that situation. Of course she stayed for her children but for her to say they arent done having children is crazy. Shes exhausted to the point of laying in bed for a week at a time and gets no help with the kids the majority of the time.

[@jangminoona]

The fact he doesnt get her help around the house when she repeatedly needs a week in bed to recharge is so cruel to me, that is not love 😢

[@whitneykawahara]

That's the cult of mormonism for ya.

[@jessicadavis3989]

@@KayJoyy and ultimately the kids suffer!

[@baktar6806]

Who said he doesn’t help around the house? I swear she said they split things up when he’s not working. Unless they mentioned a housekeeper that I didn’t notice

[@Daqueri22]

How can anyone type "this man couldn't even be bothered to buy her tickets to Greece" as if that is just a totally normal thing to do. 😂 We literally know nothing about the exact status of their money and all the ins and outs of running a farm on this scale and having 8 kids and being in the process of building a dairy and the cost of what exactly she's wanting. 😂

[@Bananabob12]

Idc what Hannah or Daniel says; actions speaks louder than words, BOTH actions have shown he is very controlling. Oh how I’d love to be that fly on the wall.

[@Jeniveve]

The airline seating is still weird. And they’re Mormon. With hella money. That explains everything.

[@justasmolbug]

Anyone saying Daniel is the reason she had to give up her dreams is forgetting she is Mormon. Hannah giving up what she wanted to become a wife/mother is the fault of Mormonism and what it teaches

[@idoitforchina]

She was raised with this mindset, just like he was raised to expect that from a future partner. The culture is strong.

[@dominiqueallen3847]

Idk how u can read all her statements and listen to all the tapes and not believe that she’s a strong woman choosing her life and her family just bc it doesn’t look like the new “modern woman?” P anti feminist rhetoric here.

[@dotcom3015]

@@dominiqueallen3847 idk there was a lady on tik tok that explained how mormonism works like a cult. Combined with how often ex Mormons speak out against the religion, it’s just suspicious. Thinking back to ruby Franke, I remember ex Mormons explaining that the issues extended into the rest of mormonism. I don’t think its a feminist stance to be concerned for Hannah as much as it’s how much we’ve been warned about the problems within mormonism.

[@madiramos4423]

I’m Mormon and there are good people and bad people in every religion, race, group and everywhere it doesn’t mean the whole religion is at fault. We believe in the teachings of Jesus Christ and try the best we can to live them accordingly, if you want to know more about the religion from its source look at the churches website or material, if you’re looking at only the bad then that’s what you’ll find. Have an open mind and look for information in good sources not just from social media❤

[@pmill95]

@@justasmolbug what’s wrong with changing what you want and wanting to be a mom?

[@SieMarie]

Did we listen to the same clip? She literally said “it was hard to give up dance” & ngl things sound chaotic with all that background noise. Her written statements & throwing in that her husband said she could still dance sound like things ppl say to protect ppl…

[@vfam.4308]

and her voice... idk if im overthinking it but she sounds sad.

[@_sunchildd]

3:10 the kids screaming and chickens cluckin in the background 😅😭😭😭 such chaos lol

[@apersonwiththoughts]

While she’s saying, “to give up a piece of yourself, you know.” 💀

[@PettyIsMyMiddleName]

😂 exactly

[@mumilia1]

And her tone, resigned

[@AJ-ml7xu]

Great for her!! Enjoy your life being a mother and wife.

[@npc4492]

8 and counting 💀 we know how that goes

[@2degucitas]

Leaving it up to God... he won't use a condom and she feels guilty using protection

[@dm_uncut]

I didn’t know you financially supported them?! That absolutely makes it your business and you SHOULD have a say in how many kids they have!

[@KateeAngel]

​@@dm_uncut daily reminder that parentification is a form of child abuse. And no way nuclear family with no nanny can have 8 kids with no parentification

[@temujin1645]

Less than your bodycount

[@dakotacooperr]

I still think the stalking her on her plane ride to college when she said no to him for 6 months is still cringe, him telling her to marry him and have his baby within months of knowing her is a tell tale sign of trapping and only he can decide when they get a baby sitter yet shes exhausted for weeks paints the picture we all saw. And now the unwrapped $10 egg apron when youre married to one of the wealthiest people on the planet again says it all. I dont really think he allows her to make as many decisions as she claims.

[@eyelovetheskyandthesea]

She has a fram, 8 children, land, all she needs. More than people can imagine

[@SavannahAlexandraArt]

i rarely comment but I feel like the story is somewhere in the middle, tbh. I think as people grow and experience more things, the stuff they thought they wanted might not be what they wanted after all. I can't speak for her, but I have a friend who went to school for fashion and always wanted to work on movies. Well, she moved to CA and eventually achieved her dream- she's worked with Marvel and DC, as well as doing things for The Boys, etc. But the industry ate her alive and she's leaving it now feeling burnt out and bitter because of how much she gave and how toxic the industry is behind closed doors. I went to school for animation... worked in studios for years. I thought I wanted to do animation for the rest of my life. The industry sucks, I ended up leaving it as well. My priorities have shifted. It's ok and honestly natural for your wants and needs to shift and evolve over time. She said herself she danced for a while but dancing takes so much out of you. There IS a possibility it could be similar to the movie industry where it just TAKES so much from you that it ends up being not sustainable for mental health. It could be that she loved dancing but had children and loved taking care of kids more. That's a possibility as well. And then alternatively, there could be some sort of coercive control situation happening. He could be shitty behind closed doors. Or maybe they don't see eye to eye on EVERYTHING but in general are happy. It's hard to say when you just see snippets here and there of someone's relationship and you can't see the whole picture and the day to day. The greece/egg apron thing was shitty. People can also make mistakes and missteps. I just think everyone is too quick to make assumptions that she's miserable or that she's 100% happy always.

[@lilemont9302]

To be clear, it's ballet. It's not exactly some golden industry that's nice and peaceful and cozy lol. Much like fashion, art, etc. Basically any industry that seems glamourous on the outside. Well, in any case, that means we're talking about a very conscientious person in the first place, the whole angle about how she's tired now, but wouldn't be with ballet (the dream and NYC and blabla), is nonsense. However, from what I've seen, she did want to get a ballet studio on the estate, so she still has interest in that, but this wasn't granted. That wasn't very nice. I think the egg apron thing is a PR fluke. They kind of have to LARP now as a trad farm family, but they're not really, they're, of course, a billionaire family which has an airline in their estate, so it sounded totally out of touch (because you know, if they were actually literally some trad farm family, the kind of gift would've made sense and would've been sweet, so I guess that's what they thought when they made the video). Idk of course.

[@hirakanwal4842]

that was exactly my thoughts like for some people they get tired of their dreams or burnt out we all know that how toxic and hectic ballet industry is. i know someone that wanted to be a chef so bad but after graduating and working in big restaurant she kinda doesn't want it any more now she works in tech company in that field as we grow our mind dreams passions changes and thats okay

[@es0516]

She may be willful in it now but that doesn’t necessarily mean she wasn’t coerced. It’s quite the drastic difference from her life before pursuing a dance career after attending such a prestigious school like Juliard. I’m still very sad for her that she only got an apron for her birthday. That’s still her husband not really valuing her and honoring her for everything she does for their family. We see a LOT of women living a life married with kids, and while they may not necessarily feel like they gave something up, they’re still not being fully and properly appreciated by their husbands.

[@JewelApril13]

I still feel like her husband isn't the best, and doesn't think of her wants like a loving spouse should.

[@jessicadavis3989]

So we blame him or Mormonism

[@whitykitty2651]

ya definitely he is. i think it is inherent with religion in this case. she just likes that/agrees so shes not going to hate on him for having the same views as her.

[@whitykitty2651]

@@jessicadavis3989 its both because he believes thats womens role in society to give up their dreams, he keeps his ofc because he can keep working .

[@layaf8579]

You dont know these people lol if shes happy & shes saying shes happy then let her be happy. everyone is always so quick to hate the husband & man and want to tear down a family

[@jessicadavis3989]

@@layaf8579 if they don’t want to be judged they shouldn’t be influencers lol

[@LizG-M]

I am a stay-at-home mom of two toddlers, and it is exhausting. I can't imagine 8 kids!!!! With no nanny !! Even though the husband is rich rich

[@amandapeterson3659]

He's so mean. Narcissistic

[@lilemont9302]

To be fair, they have cleaners. But yeah, no nanny usually.

[@Acer.21]

the fact that he can get info to sit beside her on a plane and not get plane tickets for a vacation is still not right..not to mention her being bedriddden from exhaustion and still not having any nannies to help with the kids

[@_Bonkers_]

Ok? But what about the apron and Greece tickets thing?? Still seems like the husband sucks

[@IxiaRayne]

I believe her when he puts her as owner into their company.

[@Dutch_chess]

My disappointment with the Ballerina Farm article was that it made it sound like she never finished school, she went to Brazil stuck at home. And Daniel sounded Iike he came up with the farm thing out of nowhere. The interesting thing is, I've been lowkey watching her a bit fascinated and a bit suspicious for a while now. And the article was not the first time I heard some of the stuff written. For a while, the biggest controversy surrounding them was that they were privileged people playing poor by the whole farming thing. Why didn't Ballerina Farm talk about all the details of her education and and her time in Brazil? It took them being sladered on an article to reveal that stuff. Part of me thinks is because they didn't want to be accused of being more privileged than they already were.

[@Mntsnart]

The article mentions her being “the first pregnant Juilliard grad in history”

[@slothisasin8240]

I mean, she isn't rich. She married into rich and isn't on any business paperwork. People who marry into rich families usually don't walk away with much, due to ironclad prenups and untouchable funds.

[@TomikaKelly]

She isn't required to provide you the details of her life that you want when you want them...😒 Stop being weird.

[@Dutch_chess]

@@TomikaKelly The timing is all weird and that's what I find so suspicious. I was fine knowing the bare minimum until that article was blasted all over the Internet. If she didn't want us to misunderstand her and her family life then she should've been upfront way before that article. To me it's her responsibility to make sure that everything is clear for the rest of us. It's either you share nothing and tell us to butt off. Or share everything appropriate so no one makes up things about you. All of this was either miscalculated or carefully planned PR for Ballerina Farm. Just glad most of us have forgotten it by now.

[@jessicacruz2974]

These days people interpret sacrifice for family as oppressive. Which is honestly sad. Because you have to make sacrifices for whatever you want in life, for your business or passions, it all requires sacrifice in some way. I know it’s hard for progressive people these days to understand making sacrifices for your family. But if she and her husband always wanted a big family, then she willingly made a choice to sacrifice other things in her life to have and raise her family. And that’s beautiful too. Whether it’s ballet or family, she made that choice for herself along with her husband, whom she also chose. If this isn’t what she wanted she could have married differently or chosen ballet. People are so quick to judge as if this was against her will. It seems like it’s not, this is actually what she wanted. Sacrifice is always hard, that’s why it’s sacrifice. I’m sure it’s sad for her to walk away from her passions but again, she did that for her family that she loves so so so much. I think if she’s happy then she made the right decision for herself and that’s beautiful

[@rosaemiliabouillon7053]

People believe that happiness is only living in the city and not having to do household chores, not cooking, not cleaning, not taking care of the husband. Family values have been lost. She is happy

[@megn5871]

Imagine a woman telling you she’s fine and the world trying to convince her she’s not. Woman can never just be happy and people understand it. What you may find unacceptable she may be okay with it. People change their minds on what they want in life.

[@GoingBrokeinTokyo]

Yes she’s repressed. She’s repressed by religion and a crazy controlling husband. That airline story really gave me the ick

[@annjames1837]

Do you mean oppressed?

[@TheEvilOnes666]

How about you go get vaccinated.

[@monicamontano7343]

@@TheEvilOnes666 oh my gosh…that is such an evil comment…it made me laugh bcuz I KNOW you must be joking! 🤣 good one 🙌🏼

[@TomikaKelly]

The woman just told yall that she likes her life, and yall refuse to accept it. 🙄 Yall are as annoying as the red pill guys who keep trying to convince childfree, single women that they are miserable. 😒

[@AncientCrustacean]

She sounds like she's being forced at gunpoint to give this statement

[@HobieInTheBox]

It doesn't matter if she feels abused or not, most abuse victims don't realise it in the first place. The fact of the matter is that treating anyone the way she's been treated, is inhumane and awful. She's straight up lying in the article, probably bc her husband made her. After he made himself look terrible in the original article.

[@TomikaKelly]

You are exhausting af. 😒 You sound like one of those red pill alpha male guys who keep trying to convince childfree single women that they are miserable. 🙄 Stop trying to tell this woman about HER OWN life. It's weird.

[@shadowqueen2134]

Yea no normal person wouldn't want to go on vacation after taking care of 8 kids lol. She must have been coerced or the money must be so good she threw everything away.

[@yelhsasokolova8561]

I only have 2 kids, very close in age, and even I want a nice long vacation. 😂

[@sierrahurd2517]

I have two kids and live a lifestyle very similar to this and have no desire to have a vacation 🤷🏻‍♀️ I would genuinely like an egg apron and would hate the headache of having to find farm help when I’m gone

[@asmrtpop2676]

@@sierrahurd2517You have TWO kids. She has eight. Bffr 😂 And no you do not live the same lifestyle, she is i. a significantly higher income bracket.

[@shelby6]

@sierrahurd2517 think about what you do for the kids, now double it. And double it again. You are not the same, you couldn't handle it.

[@TomikaKelly]

You're projected.

[@annacesarini2161]

Thank you for this news story re Ballerina Farm ... I am 65 and my ONLY regret in life is not having children -- not experiencing the precious gift of Motherhood ... I do hope this story reaches the many young married couples in the world before it is too late for them ... as I travel into my golden years, I know it would have been so much MORE fulfilling for me to have my children and grandchildren in my world as I make this journey.

[@TomikaKelly]

To be fair, you don't know what motherhood would've been like for you.

[@michellewinkler3985]

@@TomikaKelly dumb responce

[@momoz1]

@@michellewinkler3985no they are right, people always expect perfect children, what if they had a kid with special needs, or was difficult?

[@farahjichi4617]

Are you seriously suggesting you’d want to be perpetually pregnant, doing all the domestic work, farming, and raising kids on your own? It seems like you're dismissing a lot of important context here. Moreover, there's a reason you didn’t choose to have children-the regret you're feeling now is only because you’re at a point where you think you’d be enjoying the benefits and rewards of all the hard work and sacrifices required to build a family, without having actually experienced hardships pf getting there

[@sallyparker11]

I recommend everyone watch Jordan and mckay’s recent video on this, they explain how the concern is less about their specific marriage and whether or not it’s abusive (because we can’t know that), but more on the fundamental issues of being indoctrinated in a cult.

[@LibraInSeattle]

That is the only reason I know who Ballerina Farms is. I love Jordan and McKay.

[@brookeb1753]

Their video was insanely good. Very detailed and shared all the information they complied super well

[@lamarconsultores7992]

They are an example of a happy family, it is beautiful to see the love they demonstrate through sacrifice.

[@sophiegrandii]

she said she sometimes couldn’t get out of bed for a week due to exhaustion and you’re saying they’re a 'happy family’? open your eyes jesus christ

[@beckayyyyyy]

*starts distributing popcorn*

[@pedrotovarlives8361]

girl 6:14 shows a blank white screen just thought you should know! 😆

[@SpillSesh]

Ty 😭 ugh that screenshot kept glitching

[@bluepurrrgrey]

i thought my app froze up lmao

[@donotme8061]

It’s suspicious. I can imagine this is damage control because her husband is mad at her for the way he was portrayed due to his own actions. At the end of the day, she is choosing to stay with him, and I guess that should be respected. But she can’t be mad that no one’s respecting a man who has a father that allowed him to abuse his power to sit next to her on a plane, but that same man can’t be bothered to give her tickets to Greece.

[@Kite_the_KWITERIPOFF]

What would they sue for? 😂 “I don’t like the reaction the article got” is not a cause of action. Defamation is but that requires 1) actual lies and 2) money damages as a result. FYI you might not be a lawyer but you can still google the elements of a cause of action 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@lilemont9302]

We now have to pretend that a brand is actually not a brand. Very unethical to make your family into a brand, and shirk criticism with the lines "home life etc etc". Then don't make your family a brand, consciously blurring the lines between the private, and the public.

[@RaisingReyna]

It’s okay to want to be a mom and wife.

[@amandapeterson3659]

To a worthy living man it is

[@thelight1385]

Only when the husband has money and is a true provider, other than that, no

[@sophiegrandii]

it’s okay to have a life outside of that

[@lesviesblanchescomptent]

​@@sophiegrandiino.

[@gelatinpowder1137]

@@lesviesblanchescomptentwhy not?

[@irinapostelnicu203]

I think the truth in somewhere in the middle🤷‍♀️

[@gelatinpowder1137]

Right?? I agree the hubby is control-freak but Hannah accepts him and this lifestyle so what else can we do? 😅 People act like these two are mutually exclusive when it can happen at the same time.

[@XOChristianaNicole]

The comments are wild. The fact that people believe there is no way she could be telling the truth.. Essentially, calling her a liar/manipulator, all because they can't fathom a reality difference from their own ideals.. Sacrifice is not mutually exclusive to loss. If anything, it's an exchange. And Hannah chose to exchange one way she desired to live life, for another. Why does it have to be more complicated, than that?

[@user-sw2wv1zx1t]

Because there is camera footage of her being mocked by him. And how they met and got married had red flags. Lots of women exchange for abusive relationships all the time--it doesn't make it ok.

[@ririhdirja]

If I lived in a big house with beautiful views , taking care of children, cooking healthy food for my family, having my own business, I would voluntarily do that rather than working 9 to 5 for a company who doesn’t give a shit about me 😂😂 leave her alone.. if she’s tired she could file for a divorce. She is an adult. My grandmother has 10 children and she is a farmer as well as a business woman. None of her family complains about her lifestyle

[@queenthxt]

I mean she also goes through week long bedridden depressions

[@lcarolynghearing854]

Agreed! Besides that, she’s an adult and can make her decisions, Mormon or not. This is their lifestyle…

[@farahjichi4617]

"Yeah, it’s ‘your own business’ that’s not even in your name, while the woman is in constant physicaland mental pain and exhaustion, being perpetually pregnant, raising 8 kids, doing farm work, and handling all the domestic chores. Oh, but it's all worth it because of the ‘beautiful view’ and ‘healthy food,’ right? You couldn’t even come up with a genuine frame to describe the countless tasks this woman has to do.

[@bubblezzxxd15]

Im very glad you're happy with your life Hannah. That's just not what i heard you say 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@miriamthacker6883]

I’ve known Hannah since she was 11 years old. I worked for her parents at the flower shop for 15 years. Only quit due to moving out of state but still go back to visit when I’m able. I was there to witness all of this. I love and adore Hannah like a little sister. Daniel is a great guy and I know that she’s so happy and is living the life she wanted.

[@farahjichi4617]

We believe you. Case close

[@NyreBlackmoon]

From the get go I felt that that reporter doesn’t like the traditional wife role and had it out for them trying to make her life sound bed instead of how it really was the whole article sounded like the writer had her own agenda

[@queenthxt]

I think it was more she was there to interview Hannah but Daniel would let her be alone

[@misschokesondique_yt]

A lot of “I still think” in this comment section. Let them live! She isn’t a sex slave, he is not beating her, the money they make is churned into their life. It’s all good!! STOP SHOULDING ALL OVER THEM!

[@wk8000]

Only non mothers or mothers that didn’t want their children could even think she’s miserable and her sacrifice was a painful sacrifice. Women that aren’t mothers have no clue what it’s like to sacrifice therefore, they can’t imagine how wonderful it is and how fulfilling it is to be a mother. Motherhood is the mist important job and most fulfilling! Sure being a ballerina is neat but being a mother is the greatest it’s above all. To be able to live away from the hustle of this extremely crazy world and live amongst beautiful nature with animals, I mean what a dream!! And then to be able to give birth to 8 babies and love and care for and raise a family with the love of your life, it’s what dreams are made of! She’s incredibly lucky and blessed. I pity those who think otherwise.

[@yeun7917]

idk, I’m not going to feel bad for billionaires

[@sophiegrandii]

you can still feel bad for women, specially in a situation like this

[@TomikaKelly]

​@@sophiegrandii What is there to feel bad for? The woman just told yall she likes her life. 🙄

[@LeaveMeAlone3omgIgotloggedouta]

@@TomikaKellyshe obviously doesn’t, she’s clearly exhausted and isn’t happy and she’s not even rich it’s the “husband”

[@crescentmoon2374]

Every trad wives i encounter and talked too even tell me and other women to not get married. It not even the feminists who tell me that it’s always a house wife who been married for years would say this. And tell me to have my own money. The fact that ballerina farm lady give up her dreams and things she was passionate about her husband refuses to buy her plane tickets to Greece and people wonder why women no longer want to get married or have kids? The fact that I hear details of her husband stalking her is enough for me.

[@michellewinkler3985]

oh stop it, been married for almost 40 years and wouldn't change my life for a minute to be a fem!

[@farahjichi4617]

Why would you want to believe that you’d have wanted anything different than what you’ve got after 40 years? It’s not exactly something you'd want to dwell on now, as it would shatter the bubble of illusions you've kept intact just to make it this far

[@mimimochi8472]

I did think when this story came out that it wasn’t as bad as it looked. As someone who came from a conservative religion themselves, I’ve met many women who have undergone the same thing but are just overall happy people. I believe the journalist who wrote the story should be sued as she painted a woman living her life the way she wants, in a horrible lighting. People have to understand that feminism isn’t just about women being able to have what men have and equal rights, but feminism is about allowing women to express themselves freely in whatever way they choose. It doesn’t always have to be a woman standing up to be president for it to be feminism; it can also be a woman choosing to be a mother. Truly the journalist just went with her own agenda and smeared this family’s reputation for her own gain.

[@emerald637]

BTW, Daniel and Hannah travel the world with, and without their children to amazing places (throughout Europe), and spend the most gorgeous family holidays in the Hawaiian Islands, New England, etc. They are not missing out on anything. They are living the best lives imaginable, that you and I can only just dream of. They have the best of all worlds, but their most cherished is, home.

[@lindanorton2088]

I think every parent has to put aside physical hobbies to raise a family. My husband and all his friends stopped biking for 10 years and are just now having fun on the trail again. Hannah has a magnificent family and lifestyle. I am sure she can go to Greece any time she wants, she was just teasing her husband about Greece tickets because she is funny. Bet she went the next day. She is intensely scrutinized.

[@lysescanuela9861]

The only KZbin channel I’m loyal to! I get all the tea here ❤

[@julieb.1256]

crazy to think i’ve been here for literal YEARS 😭❤

[@iamnotaconcept]

you have 8 kids and the GREATEST DAY of your life was marrying him? Yeah I bet. You're a billionaire once you marry him. But you haven't had ONE GREATER DAY since then??? that is the SADDEST thing I could imagine.

[@nicoledeloncrais5940]

They love one another. Their focus is God, family & then the farm. This is not what society focuses upon, but this is their focus. She wants her children grounded in farm, family and to learn to feel responsible. What a fabulous gift. Parents focused on family that's beautiful ❤️❤️. These woke journalists are cruel & nasty because someone has a different focus to them. This is why this generation of children is mixed up & struggling. If there were more Hannah's & Daniels there would be more stable brilliant kids.

[@ikenjumaoas7895]

I agree they're more pro life.

[@fionamcgroddy1178]

Nothing she says or feels about him now can excuse the fact that he did demonstrate stalking behaviors in the beginning of their relationship

[@TomikaKelly]

....yet she STILL chose him so, clearly she does not feel the way you do. This woman says she's happy and I encourage everyone else to find theirs.

[@tawnyew]

As a former Mormon I still get icky vibes. I hope she's happy truly though

[@sprig.sprout]

I find the sentence about the “moral implications” of sending her to one of the top performing arts schools in the world very telling. Like… it is somehow immoral to be successful in some way other than as a wife and a mother.

[@koul3709]

No, dance is a dangerous world, especially for a young woman who is living in the greatest city in the world all alone. Many parents would feel torn about sending their child far away from them, where they can no longer watch watch over their shoulder and ensure they are not being harmed.

[@TomikaKelly]

No, it's more about sending a young child away to NYC by themselves at 17. A LOT of parents have this concern.

[@sprig.sprout]

@@TomikaKelly having that concern makes sense, but there’s no moral implication there

[@mggardiner4066]

@@TomikaKellyalso for programs that are known to have pretty toxic culture in parts of it/well documented in the past. It’s like gymnastics, modeling, and figure skating, they can be very toxic to women and girls despite being dominated by them. Male version would be exploitive nature of college sports like basketball and football

[@Brud1134ak]

However, many women like this one who watched the video, especially feminists, saw this act as a type of strange attack, saying that Daniel is an "intense" man. People, I wonder if these are the type of women who prefer to be ignored by the men who Do you like it? But in the end they said that Daniel wanted to get married quickly and she accepted and after three months of marriage she became pregnant, the reporter highlighted that Hanna was the first woman in modern history who, by continuing to study at Julliard, became pregnant, which she saw as something negative. But people, the reality is that Hanna and Daniel are from a very large Mormon family. Hanna has 8 siblings and Daniel has 9, so having many children very quickly is something totally normal for them.

[@KateCarew]

They love each other, it works for them. She’s very intelligent, this is the life SHE has chosen whether it’s what a lot of us would want or not. I actually think they’re very well matched. They come from the same kind of…ethical leanings. Hard work, family, religion and traditional values.

[@katelynholmes9504]

"her own version of what Ballerina Farm seems to be?" It's her freaking farm. Her family. Why do people think they know more about her life than she does when we've only seen the parts from social media and interviews? We don't see her entire life, and we shouldn't presume. A lot of people in here thinking they know exactly what's going on. 🙄There's a lot happening behind the scenes that you're not privy to. The few instances that many are zeroing in on are just that, a few instances. People slip up in relationships. If that's world-ending for you, okay, but that doesn't matter. The only thing that matters is her opinion, and she never said she blamed him for it, so it's none of our business and not our place. LISTEN TO HER. If you're a feminist, don't dismiss women. I swear, there are people telling her to LEAVE HER HUSBAND. What are those people smoking that makes them think that they can tell strangers what to do with their lives? Have we lost respect with the advent of social media?

[@eyelovetheskyandthesea]

I would love to live her life. It's beautiful and people (women especially) seem just jealous and selfish to not put others first. I went the academia way. It was stupid

[@farahjichi4617]

Yes, I’m clearly missing out on the dream of being perpetually pregnant with four months of postpartum depression as the break between each, raising 8 children, doing farm work, and handling all the domestic labor. What a dream, right? You people need a dose of reality and some intellect. No, what I'm truly jealous of is the woman who does nothing but live in a gigantic mansion with her billionaire husband, has all the work taken care of by maids and workers, and live to shop and travel the world, and would win half a billion if she ever divorced him. Now that’s something worth being jealous..

[@markspehar9689]

You have a beautiful family! You are both blessed to have each other and be so happy in your marriage. God has blessed you with so many wonderful children and a happy marriage. God bless you and your family and please don't listen to the negative people out there. There are some people that can never be happy and want to bring other people down. We love you!

[@sophiegrandii]

poor woman. hope she gets away from him someday

[@layaf8579]

If they are happy, and she says she is happy then let them be happy. Everyone is so quick to want to find reasons to break-up families, when in reality we don't know them. So what she didnt get tickets to Greece she is very fortunate & lives extremely comfortably. Many people would LOVE to be able to live like that.

[@madiramos4423]

Omg for real

[@slothisasin8240]

She obviously is overworked if she has to lay in bed for a week every now and then? I have a job, a man and we are basically broke and I don't work that hard? A "rich" person struggeling more than I do is concerning to me.

[@lilemont9302]

No, we don't know them. But this is a business, and a brand, which of course, anyone can, and should comment, praise, criticise, etc. It's not anyone's fault they consciously decided to make their family a brand, and blur the lines between the personal, and the public-professional.

[@Sammiejammie521]

I just love these two. They are doing a great job And they even handle someone as nasty as a reporter so gracefully.

[@lexycondeelis]

There's still so much aside from this single article that shows way more going back to when she did pageants. Receipts like her posts saying he was happy she didn't win. There are too many receipts out there to convince me otherwise.

[@emerald637]

Daniel and Hannah have a very unique and beautiful story. They are truly living the American Dream x 100. Hannah still dances at her local ballet studio (even during pregnancy) which brings her joy, keeps her fit, and will always be a part of her life. The reality is professional dancers' careers are quite limited in just a short period. After their performance career has come to an end, ballet dancers can transition into either teaching, choreography, or the business aspect of opening their own dance studio. Hannah's personal decision to commit full-time to their family and their multiple businesses (which are flourishing!!) was the right and best decision for her. It is to be celebrated, not condemned by a woke, FAKE NEWS reporter (Megan) who has far less going for her in her own life. How can this reporter, ever be respected or trusted with anything else going forward in her line of work after staining her reputation in such a blatant manner?

[@Saschj]

To be totally honest… I think she’s just making the most of the life she chose, even if her choice required her to give up her dreams. She wasn’t forced into anything. No one truly is

[@paige393]

Meh some people are

[@jangminoona]

Please learn about coercive control

[@beastlybabes7737]

No... she was born into a cult... and she chose to stay in the cult....

[@riddimgyal]

What a dangerous sentiment. I don't think we can infer if she is or isn't being controlled from the piece, but you BEST believe tons of people are forced into things yearly. It's really no joke...

[@Ashbrash1998]

"No one is" like human trafficking or abuse doesn't exist

[@crownonpoint]

They should sue for defamation

[@mali___4673]

We don’t know that he didn’t take her to Greece after or whatever else. Come on people

[@SuperStarr817]

Utah, BYU, MORMON. That alone lets you know that this life makes her happy, even if some parts feel off to the average person.

[@_sunchildd]

nah i feel like she is trying to convince herself that she’s happy. what happened to sometimes she can’t get out of bed for a WEEK from being so EXHAUSTED???? did the reporter just make that up too? no

[@TomikaKelly]

I feel like youre projecting and refusing to accept what she tells you about her own life.

[@farahjichi4617]

​@@TomikaKellyshe was the one who told use she works to exhaustion right ??

[@TomikaKelly]

@@farahjichi4617 She was the one who agreed to the life she chose to live. 🤡

[@Lanaxparillaxwife]

I'm glad that she came out & clarified for us

[@winxclubstellamusa]

This woman is so Stockholm Syndromed = trauma bonded, that she is defending her abuser, in addition to how he must be forcing and coercing her to do this! This quick coverup job can’t change the fact that she is a victim who is held hostage and prisoner in that farm where she is being worked to death.

[@TheEvilOnes666]

You do realize that "journalist" who wrote the story about the family lied, right?

[@SpiritualBabydoll]

Honestly, I’m envious of how she lives. I wake up every day and drop my child off to be watched by somebody else at daycare five days a week because I’m a single working mom I would love that family. I would love to have my own farm and I don’t think we’re ever gonna know her. I don’t think it’s fair to label her as a victim because as somebody with survivors, I wouldn’t never label their situation for them because it’s never helpful they get to decide for themselves it is their story we’re not there we don’t know what her experience is. We will never know it and I just find it’s so cruel that people are doing that online calling her a victim and coming after him if she says she’s happy I’m gonna believe her.

[@lilemont9302]

There is nothing cruel about criticising a brand. Maybe the onus is on the people who decided to make their family into a brand.

[@slayqueen5996]

She looks exhausted and low energy. No zest for life when a see her on social media

[@farahjichi4617]

Wake up every day and drop my child off? Girl, she has 8 kids and is aiming for more. Considering all the expectations placed on her, you're envious of her life because she doesn’t have to drop her kids off? With everything she has to manage, she barely has time to properly be with her kids.

[@katie-kb6qd]

As a Brazilian them having lived in São Paulo with that much love for it is my red flag 😭

[@lauryntonio]

i hate the "don't call them a victim if they don't feel like a victim" narrative that gets shoved around for stuff like this when like okay sure. that doesn't make the husband any less controlling, coercive, and selfish from what we can see sooooo idk. also straight up ab*sets want victims to feel like they're not victims for obvious reasons but also so they can push away anyone willing to help and by the time they realize they really ARE being ab^sed they have no one left around to help

[@SoosLives1]

There’s a difference between what THEY want and what HE wants! She definitely gave up so much for what he wants

[@anon-mx4jx]

I hate people saying she is a trad wife and that she wants to be perceived only as a stay at home mother when in reality she stresses a lot that she is a business woman, ceo and social media personality, a former dancer and that she has hobbies and aspirations like baking and pageants. How can someone come to the conclusion that she is traditional and oppressed on top of that? Just because she likes to have a big family, loves her husband, is openly Christian and lives on a farm? That’s a very shallow perspective.

[@ecrawl4902]

I just don’t understand why Hannah couldn’t have at least completed Juilliard before getting married and having children. Being a good partner means respecting each others dreams. It was her dream to be in New York and be a professional ballerina and she denied herself that dream to appease Daniel. That’s the part I can’t get over. It’s such a punch to the gut for her to say “he said I could pursue dancing again if I wanted”… She wanted that before you came along! Why couldn’t she have focused on that first!? She could have had BOTH - the family and the pro ballet career.

[@officialmkamzeemwatela]

Cause she didn’t want to. Imagine such a concept- it’s almost like she doesn’t have the ideals you do🫨

[@farahjichi4617]

​​@@officialmkamzeemwatela she literally said she wanted to wait a year to marry but he didn't agree and they married in a month..try again

[@Anythingforyou11]

5:01 sound likes she's reading

[@mechellestewart8439]

This may come as a shock to all you armchair psychologists, but some women genuinely WANT to change a career to make raising children and home-making. It doesn't make them oppressed. And in todays world with rising cost of food and daycare, as well as public schools going to s***, who can blame them? Some people actually do put family first.

[@twistedrealitys742]

That gym would make a great ballet studio

[@suzsiz]

Married and baby trapped at 22😢 and basically been a baby making machine for over 12 years now. Its okey to take birth control to catch a break but no they leave it up to «prayer and God» to decide. 😩

[@gayavardan]

Whether her husband is a true villain or not I still wouldn’t want a life where you’re wasting your talent. 8 children, farm, household? That’s too much! The story of him pursuing her and impregnating so fast to trap her is just evil in my books. Not to mention the apron. Really? The way he proudly says it is from Ukraine as if it’s something phenomenal not just an apron.

[@madiramos4423]

How is that evil? I am actually curious

[@slothisasin8240]

I think it's weirder how she is co CEO and not on any papers for their business.

[@temujin1645]

That is why you gonna be a single muserable karen cat lady

[@Courtney47]

Why don't people leave each other alone