Staring Is a Form of Workplace Bullying. |

[@lainierayne267]

We had a former workplace bully that used to lurk around the building after hours in the dark when some of us had to work late and we thought she had gone. Then she would suddenly appear at the end of the dark hallway quietly staring at us. She would turn around and walk away w/o saying a word. Creepy AF!

[@clairehuntonline]

That is creepy and borders on stalking behavior.

[@KurosakiLuvar01]

That’s Black witchcraft.

[@christopherholly1392]

God, I know what you're talking about! I can feel their gaze in my periphery, watching my reaction, that turns to sizing me up. I worked at a place where a woman would walk the office every 10min & look to see what people were working on. She wasn't a supervisor & many didn't work in her dept. Karma took care of her when one day she was crying as her delinquent teen son was being sent out of state, to the other side of the country. That made me happy.

[@clairehuntonline]

That's an anxious preoccupied personality style. They don't trust people. They are dark souls who assume everyone is always just like them: up to no good. It's a projection.

[@jesusruiz92212]

I started noticing my coworker kept on staring at me, and as a man I can feel the bad intentions that he gives me that’s why I started watching a video to get clear indication that I am not crazy

[@lulussomich8020]

Staring evil eye 🧿

[@lovelydoll1477]

Hi Claire! I remember when I got cussed out in front of everyone and I tried to play it off. I then went to bathroom to cry and I was standing in front of the mirror weeping. Women that witnessed it were in bathroom and STARING at me in pity. And went to wash their hands . They stared then ignored me and began to talk to each other while ignoring me. It was sooo PAINFUL. Adults are truly disgusting and no matter how strange Michael Jackson was, I can see why he enjoyed the company of children over adults.

[@clairehuntonline]

Ugh, you've really been through it!! I'm sorry you went through all that. If you have some kind of emotional outburst, people will stare. They didn't intervene because they just didn't know what to do - not because they didn't care. It's for the best. If they had tried to comfort you, you wouldn't have liked the attention. I work with kids, and - believe me - they can be just as vile as their nasty parents. I can always clearly see them imitating their narcissistic fathers and mothers. I'm sticking with animals ... and plants. Think Ima go hug a tree ...

[@lovelydoll1477]

@@clairehuntonline it was just the way they had a look of disgust on their face as they were staring which made me even more sad

[@gourmetgheeco.655]

Claire you can make a great business out of this as an expert on tv and start a podcast. I hope you do! These videos are amazing 👏

[@michellescalia2142]

Thank you again for your articulate honesty. My mother was a bully who would scrutinize my every move. It became normalized even though somewhere in my consciousness I felt extremely unnerved, I knew on some level this was inappropriate but said and did nothing because I was afraid of her anger and retaliation.

[@clairehuntonline]

That's stalking. A lot of sick people live vicariously through other people because they hate themselves and have given up on themselves. It's passive control. It is unfortunate how we rationalize and normalize this stuff. When you're a child, you can't do anything else.

[@nfc598]

I can't explain how relieved I am to stumble across someone who UNDERSTANDS what it is really like to be bullied. I have tried to explain these things to so many people and I'm always told that I'm making something out of nothing or that I'm too sensitive and need to ignore it instead of taking everything personally. I have been bullied my entire life starting with my mom and continuing with every job I've ever had (usually from women but occasionally from men as well). The level of anxiety and stress this causes me is so unfair because I have never done anything to warrant this hostile nature towards me when I'm just trying to exist. I can feel a room better than anyone I know and I know the moment I meet someone that they're a disturbed soul and the up and down look they give me is the first obvious sign that I have a new enemy. No one else seems to understand what this is like. I feel like everything you say is something I've been dying to hear and i finally have confirmation that this isn't just something I'm making up to be a victim. It's such a relief to know that other people get it, although it's depressing at the same time.

[@clairehuntonline]

That's why I have this channel. It is to let you know that you are not alone. It is depressing, but there is comfort in solidarity. You sound like an empath, and that's why you get targeted. You take on other people's stuff for them, so they project it onto you. They think you are a trash can for their projections. No one really understand this stuff unless they've been through it themselves. The collective gaslighting from the public is unreal.

[@bambi161]

I am dealing with this problem today. There is a pigstein at my work. He is a manager and he tries to make eye contact and stares in that disgusting way. I'm considering sueing him.

[@anywhoo]

14:20 TYRA BANKS operated as a workplace bully with BW on her show #ANTM

[@KurosakiLuvar01]

In the modeling industry there are A LOT of workplace bullies