to manifest or not to manifest

[@lizhalll]

I did not grow up with examples of healthy conversation/discussion/disagreements, so this was really enlightening as a 29yo

[@jesslamken]

At the end you guys were talking about if it’s annoying, helpful, etc when you have these conversations. I am here to affirm that these, to me, are your most helpful AND entertaining episodes. In this conversation, you both are realllllllly great examples of what it looks like to be a clear communicator, giving your partner the benefit of the doubt, taking accountability for your sides ~ being reflective, clear and kind. Seeing a couple talk things out in a healthy way is so valuable, so please, don’t feel like you’re annoying!! For as much as you’re comfortable, please keep sharing these types of conversations. You both showed so many admirable qualities in this! 🖤

[@stayinguppod]

im so glad this feels useful to watch!

[@cheugyw]

I love y'all so much and your vulnerability and this is just an observation - Feels like Taryn always has to have her perspective heard and validated and Cammie always does that, but when Cammie finally sticks to her guns on an issue Taryn refuses to validate what she's saying. This is the first episode I haven't seen Cammie go into a softer voice and apologize to taryn when they disagree (even though she did apologize here). I feel like the Cammie in my relationship sometimes and Im unsure of how to navigate that, I wonder if Cammie gets exhausted by this dynamic and how much harder it will be to do that emotional labour when the babies come.. not saying you guys dont have a wonderful healthy relationship, I think you do and you're going to be great parents

[@gilmoregirls1606]

Love this episode!!! I love the multiple topics and life updates ❤

[@stayinguppod]

it's so hard to tell which vibe or flow people like the most so thank you for the input!

[@Carriehammer718]

Cammie, I love your hairrr. It's soo gorgeous. I don't know if you did anything different but I love it. I always like your hair lol. Js

[@stayinguppod]

thank you!! i gave myself a blowout! :)

[@nkb420]

Taryn - your POV can def be seen as negative because its like walking around saying you and Cam will likely get divorced because of the marriage stats you shared last week. Or walking out of the house and saying "I have X chance of getting hit by a car today, love ya honey!". I struggle with anxiety too and have found knowledge isnt always power. It may feel comforting to know these things in the moment, but you have to believe you are resilient enough to *not* know and still move through the world and be okay and ready to handle whatever outcome the universe gives you. Its a happier existence to believe you create your own reality rather than be held to previous stats and stories.

[@stayinguppod]

i get your perspective on this but i think these scenarios dont correlate to what tar was saying here. i think those examples definitely apply to her health anxiety and just fearing the worst case scenario but with IVF it is something that is already happening. it's something that does have very low odds and can take many rounds to work. since her first retrieval didn't result in any embryos and it was so hard on tar physically and mentally after hoping for the best outcomes, being realistic in this situation is to protect herself from disappointment. rather than feeling sad if we only get 1 embryo, it will be exciting bc she knows that is the statistically probable outcome, then anything more than that is amazing! it is all good outcomes but obviously some are better than others. and then if we get no embryos that will be something we just have to process. as a person who leans 'always be positive' it took me a bit to understand why this wasn't a negative outlook too but now it makes so much sense to me -c

[@madaleeX]

Frankie J mention!! Suga suga how you get so fly I laughed at BC- before cam 😂 When you brought up the most stereotypical lesbian, I thought of Ellen lol

[@stayinguppod]

ellen will always be the blueprint. for good or bad haha

[@CatmakesUhappy]

Love you guys from the philippines💕

[@heatherangel101]

As someone somewhere on the demi/ace spectrum I relate 1000% to your attraction/crush experience cammie 😂

[@stayinguppod]

ah this is soooo nice to hear someone else feels this. i guess i for some reason didn't think of it as a spectrum which is silly bc i do with all other sexualities. makes a lot more sense when you put it that way

[@heatherangel101]

@ I’m glad ☺️ honestly was so validating for me to hear you verbalize it too!!

[@Carriehammer718]

Thank you for talking about the skinny celeb trend coming back 😢 It's so scary. Also, I'm 4'10 ". Shorter than sabrina 😂

[@stayinguppod]

it's so concerning and really a bummer to be going so far backwards.

[@Carriehammer718]

@stayinguppod yes. I remember it all too well. Here for you ♥️

[@strongerthanfear3]

Loved this episode! 💛 If you're still waiting for the call, I'm sending good vibes to the eggies!!! Also, I totally agree about costumes being creepy. The anonymity is scary! I'm glad other people enjoy them, but I know it's not really the character, so it's just kinda spooky. 😅

[@stayinguppod]

still waiting!! 🤞🏼 ah im so relieved someone else gets this haha it just freaks me out. they dont speak and i know it's just some adult in there looking at me but i cant see them. spooky. -c

[@95najay]

I love the convos, but I'm missing the listener stories at the end

[@stayinguppod]

ah we keep running out of time! we will absolutely make sure to get them in next ep! i actually have 3 prepared so maybe we will do a bunch!

[@13rubbs]

They already said aliens live under water .

[@stayinguppod]

they have said they live there but i havent seen them saying they came from there - C

[@fairly3259]

i love you guys

[@stayinguppod]

🤍🤍🤍

[@autumnrose3829]

Cam’s listening abilities are just top tier in this episode 🥹

[@stayinguppod]

that's so sweet 🥹🤍 -c

[@permatired_]

Hall pass for Dua Lipa incoming.

[@stayinguppod]

alwayssss

[@alexisa2301]

Glad to be this early 🙂‍↕️

[@stayinguppod]

glad to have you so early :)

[@AlexandraBryn]

How you two work through miscommunication should be taught in school❤ beyond refreshing, thanks for sharin🥹