It was the surprise she was waiting for || STEVE HARVEY

[@nayefalqahtani982]

I love Steve Harvey because he's a straight up talker and honest.

[@jazieltripp1040]

Sorry to be so offtopic but does anybody know a way to log back into an Instagram account?? I stupidly forgot the login password. I appreciate any assistance you can give me!

[@karensamuel1139]

Yes 👍

[@sabrositachica1]

If I waited to be financial stable before I got married, my husband and I would not be celebrating 21 years. The journey is part of the process of a great marriage. We started out not financially stable. We built our home and moved into for our 21st anniversary. The marriage does not have to cost all that. We had a justice of the peace of $300.00. I am happy we did not wait until we were financially stable. Good for you.

[@netta2158]

Mr. Harvey is absolutely correct on every aspect in this regards.

[@GR8119]

After his 3 marriages, Im inclined to think not.

[@TheNaijaboy007]

If you try something 3 times, you will get more perfect.

[@GR8119]

Bond 007 lmao

[@mnight207]

No hes not. You cannot say what time is good to do what. The only people who believe that are the ones who dont believe in God. Things happen at different times for different people. You know what that means? You dont need to be married before youre 30. You arent expected to have a career by your late 20s. No matter how hard you try, you wont have it all figured out. You wont have all your crap together. If you arent living in the spirit, you dont have anything at all

[@jonathananderson7990]

yeah bro, ur wild...

[@renren52722]

I love it when Steve is frank, states his opinion and don't care how he will be judged.

[@karensamuel1139]

I agree with you

[@lildasani]

He really showed the world he loves her on National T.V. many happy years together.

[@BoodaSDavis]

That was pretty damn smooth my guy. I didn't see that one coming, I completely ignored the title lol Congrats

[@dbodooley]

Booda Davis he's a good friend of mine. Great dude

[@jessicastrong6006]

She deserves a LOT ! You can tell she's a really nice & good person

[@Cybraxas]

4:39 that's why Steve is such a wise man.

[@isaiahjack3140]

DrIncognito he's quite dumb on this one

[@chantal2920]

My favorite part of this clip was seeing her accept his proposal before getting a good look at the ring...she may actually want a marriage vs just a wedding. Good for them!

[@Avembe]

Wow the guy just nailed it.............

[@georgiashellhammer2913]

Mr. Harvey is absolutely right. God Bless him and his wisdom!

[@wb5188]

LOL TAP WATER WITH FROSTED FLAKES LMAO

[@MagicLM]

That was funny but I know people who actually had to do that....it's what happens when you grow up poor as hell.

[@MarcoPolo-mp6ry]

Been there

[@olsenpedro5106]

Ben David

[@asmith8673]

You had water for your frosted flakes? You were lucky! I didn't have milk or water. Heck, I didn't even have frosting... or flakes. :)

[@reginadeniseclarke8358]

Ben David LOL

[@sarahshallow8770]

Steve is a love expert genius. Love this man...

[@annetenorio983]

i cried too .. thank you Mr. Steve Harvey for your compassion in sharing life's realities with us your viewers!!

[@therealm.ssulun4649]

What are we playing house for?!! Steve is so funny

[@leratoshadare3515]

I love Steve!!! His points are valid!!!!

[@kharizmaaa]

Damn, he did it right. This is probably the first tv proposal I didn't see coming. He damn sure grabbed his balls with this one. 👀

[@shisuk4121]

SlayerMarth damn me for scrolling the comments and seeing a spoiler 😭

[@davidblajan722]

@@shisuk4121 I definitely saw it coming, it's in the video title

[@lischentjaveondja9236]

Sure, he did it well. I also didn't see it come straight away

[@aaronhopping1349]

So the title didn't give it away for you?? Damn..

[@na-eimhuman7054]

Honestly this guy needs to be in a movie or something his way to cool and chilled 🤷‍♂️🤣

[@Fireplay29]

Bethenny, not all of us women are impulsive and impractical. The ring is 1/1000 as important as the actual marriage. Steve Harvey is on the dot. Think things through.

[@karabomatubatuba7565]

Exactly

[@KilledByWimbie]

here i am again 2 am and stuck watching this kind of videos

[@rhodaalvarez3142]

KilledByWimbie I'm enjoying Xmas 2017. I 💘 Steve!

[@freshkid1876]

that proposal was very touching i bet she didnt expect that

[@andyrattan7796]

I love this couple... And it takes alot of reasoning and psychological thinking to live forever... I love the way they approach things

[@denisefoster6156]

I loved this one Steve. You are right about wanting the benefits without the commitment

[@maryanderson7748]

Love Steve Harvey! Feel exactly the way he does about this.

[@asbok180]

Steve Harvey amen!!!!! Damn right!

[@TheChande]

And there’s the jumping point, whoooo, nice ring. He did better than me, i prepared a looong speech, at the moment, couldn’t remember a thing 🤣

[@willnzeh8004]

Wow...Steve has some real wisdom going into this

[@peteromeizaadabara9727]

Harvey got me real good, I never saw this coming, my eyes are teary right now..😭😢🤣

[@Jazz32933]

"You don't wanna jump into nothin but you ain't got no problem jumping in her bed"

[@tahjrose-fagan6742]

I tell you, when he said this it struck every nerve..... swear some people better start reevaluating their lives man

[@Teeyah2]

+Teej Ess I agree

[@GR8119]

Show me a girl who would date a guy for 3 years and is just happy with ONLY kisses and hugs, and Id eat my hat. Sex is thrown so much on men, but females want it too.

[@marslipton3874]

+Jasmine Bardere it's not always about sex woman !

[@Qman1416]

i hate dudes with the name brandon

[@tiffanysepiphanies]

I absolutely love Steve Harvey. I feel like he’s such a father figure to so many people.

[@wowso4]

That Bethany chick is so annoying, she loves the sound of her voice so much she doesn't even take time to listen to the other person.

[@Bayouma777]

Yes, she's very rude (AND her voice is annoying).

[@nkwari]

It is called being from the New York New Jersey CT tri state area.

[@jovesatukana9612]

Oh my goodness yeah she is, I tolerate her

[@parson7260]

All that wine brah....

[@caribbeanpilot6962]

@@parson7260 😂😂😂

[@alexandersideras5099]

its the season of suprises! its the steve harvey show! lol love you steve

[@JB11334]

Preach it Steve!!!

[@RoyalMasterpiece]

+Jezel Bow YES!!!!!

[@lawlzbaebee]

I WASNT EXPECTING THE PROPOSAL

[@idomagirlabahi7786]

That is a lovely ring.

[@IamAhmedMohammed]

The first time I change my mind Yes steve is right, 3 years is more than enough period.

[@purejoynlove533]

Awesome advice Steve. Also loved the proposal

[@nethansmomma9795]

awwwweeee such a beautiful ring🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰i love love❤️🙏

[@benitamaiorano3970]

I'm with Steve on this. Life is never going to be perfect. Prepare and be supportive however take a leap in faith

[@jessicastrong6006]

She is Beautiful ! !

[@zubaabbas]

They have been together for 7 years, married for 3 and have a beautiful baby girl.

[@1961casey]

This is a total setup. Good on you man and good on you Steve.

[@blackunknown7404]

Watched it twice, cried both times.

[@rachelsclassESLEnglishvideos]

What a cute smile he has :)

[@karis3145]

Can Bethany chill it's Steve's show

[@vivianavillarreal79]

Thank you!

[@triciasargeant8439]

Wat is your profile picture

[@tumi98]

Her perspective is messed up

[@chinemeremudoh3732]

It's her 5mins so...she decided she was gonna milk it.

[@Bee-dp3st]

I think she was a little drunk

[@katealexandria5664]

the woman in the white dress..... her voice..... kmn

[@shrgh1876]

Agree with the guy 💯.. both my parents grew up in financially unstable homes, making my dad irresponsible with money and my mother insecure, wreaking havoc on our family.. only a kid coming from this mess knows this.. love is NOT enough- without maturity it turns to crap

[@svetlanavukolic8242]

Very good and true, but they already live together. So what is the difference? He is getting all the benefits like in a martiage but just doesn't have any obligations nor has he to provide??? Does this fact pop a light in your head???

[@karenhardie1132]

after 3 years it is a respect thing congrats happy for them, you know after 3 years

[@steveobura5081]

men i respect this dude

[@RoyalMasterpiece]

He's a really good guy. I am glad he's taking marriage very seriously. I do love what Bethany and Steve said. The only problem I have with what Bethany said, Not all women focus just on the ring. There are women that focus on the character of the relationship, the man they are marrying, and their marriage.

[@Bayouma777]

That is true! Bethany is NOT speaking for ask women! Maybe for her and some women like her getting that big diamond ring is all that matters. But some of us actually spend time and are concerned about more than getting a big diamonds ring and the couple of hours the wedding ceremony and reception will last; some of us are actually concerned about and focusing on the man' character, how our marriage will be/work, the family will eventually have, etc. Trust me, Bethany does not speak for all women!!

[@barryp9463]

I wasn't feeling this guy but he pulled this out the bag glad he did that

[@theoneandonlymutumurembo8198]

3years, that is longer than a phone contract. Steve is soo correct 👌😊❤️

[@DrZoom2023]

Financial stability FIRST!!! Lady with white dress is rational, I love her😶

[@gracew2194]

Its not the mans problem he is getting whatever he wants even without a ring if we women refuse to give ourselfs before marriage men will act quickly if they mean what they say.THE RING DOESNT CHANGE ANYTHING FOR THE MEN . But most importantly lets do it Gods way.

[@lawlzbaebee]

prreaccchh!!!!

[@fucker661]

or we'll find someone who will put out.

[@RaisingHellAgain]

+Balzac T. Bagher a skank with aids

[@JadedBeast]

Female *trigerred*

[@ahmedsha11]

grace w, as a man I tottaly agree with you, you are very brave to say this opinion

[@josephellsworth1373]

Great ending

[@feisalabdalla1711]

Bulshit after 4 years still want to know more, i knew my wife for 6 months when i married after 18 years still happy and we will be happy forever, you dont need that long time to know the ONE

[@boylee6138]

Steve is CRAAAACKKING me up with that cheeky silly look thou😂

[@Latina65]

Betheny is so wrong! Steve, kudos to you!

[@deeward729]

Amazing

[@Mario-ur8ti]

Great family in the making.

[@marialuisacruz7514]

YOU GO STEVE HE ALREADY JUMPED IN!

[@chrystaldsinor7625]

I totally agree with Steve 100%

[@moginger7170]

Bethanie doesn't need to be giving any relationship advice

[@Ganon999]

She's probably been married a long ass time and super privileged to be so. Obviously most people in relationships especially marriage give the worst advice in my opinion.

[@jodana7006]

She's crazy as heck!!! So annoying

[@verliehowser718]

V

[@marciaduncan9040]

Agreed. A little too emotional and chatty

[@arocks1234567]

she almost ruined the proposal

[@MagicLM]

The thing I dislike about marriage is people treat it like it's something you have to do to prove you love someone. In my opinion, there is no greater proof that you love someone than standing by them through thick and then even if you are not married.

[@kyararoethof6240]

you're right. everything has its time, a time to know each other very well because a marriage needs to last forever. (hope my english is good😊)

[@HawaiiYou88]

MagicLM You have a great point but it's much easier to leave your partner if you're not married to him/her. For an example, if you're doing business with someone, it's best to sign a contract so that both parties proved to be committed in carrying out the plan. Otherwise, if one party backs out without any repercussions the other will suffer greatly.

[@isaiahjack3140]

MagicLM I agree with u man

[@billwilson5341]

Thi Hoang 黃詩: Exactly.

[@billwilson5341]

kyara roethof: Your English is good and your logic is excellent.

[@marciaduncan9040]

Wow! What a beautiful ring!

[@ii-nf8fg]

3:49 that's right Steve

[@ColoSon]

0:36 "if he's not ready I gotta have to move on". Lol... that's real love... After such a statement I would have left her. She's the type who will left him if she does not get what she wants. They will end up like their parents. Divorced.

[@kostapolitis2639]

ColoSon............my man

[@monicawoodland2945]

We have been together for 7 years, married for 3 and have a beautiful baby girl. Thanks for your kind words. 💜

[@arocks1234567]

@@monicawoodland2945 dont worry Monica, we all got your back! you just knew your worth. Thats all steve talks about on his show, thats what his show is about. We all wish you and your family and beautiful life

[@madmex2k]

I agree, its a threat to get what you want. That thought should never have left her lips.

[@Dingx5566]

same here

[@jackiekantan48]

Oh my God am dancing here so happy for you darling girl.

[@Jayli0]

To be honest I agree with Bethany. The man just wanted little bit more time. They both knew marriage is going to happen. So what is she needing to know here? Financially he wanted to be just little bit more prepared. Nothing wrong with waiting like another 1-2 years if you know it's going to happen.

[@sosmcs]

Try 8 😂

[@NihonWoYumemite]

+Jayli0 Exactly, I don't know why everyone is being so harsh to Bethenny in these comments, everything she was saying was the truth! Like Bethenny said once you get engaged you've got all these things to worry about, the wedding has to be payed for and he wants to make it the best day of her life. It's clear he wanted to spend the rest of his life with her (even though she gave him a straight up ultimatum on live TV!)

[@RaisingHellAgain]

+Joshua Kent Simmons-Watkins Yep and she got that damn ring though! How can you plan a wedding without a date set? Steve was spot on

[@liriogalvan9131]

WOW HE IS A VERY BLESS MAN SHE IS VERY BEAUTIFUL AND SHE LOVE HIM 🙏❤️

[@joshb7047]

It should have gone like this: Her: If you don't propose, I'm leaving. Him: Bye.

[@monicawoodland2945]

Hi, we have been together for almost 8 years, married for 3 and have a beautiful little girl who will be 2 in august. Thank you for your kind words!

[@mssummerrose1]

woman: SHUT UP AND LET STEVE TALK !!!!

[@rashun8655]

mssummerrose1 amen

[@Wheatley60]

Steve makes so much sense...I wasnt too bothered with the ring,,It was less than a hundred dollars.My house was fantastic,big & all paid for!!

[@marcaliventialiventi765]

Dude, RUN!!!!!!

[@monicawoodland2945]

We have been together for 7 years, married for 3 and have a beautiful baby girl. Thanks for your kind words. 💜

[@TheArbiterOfTruth]

Don’t. Move. In. Until. You’re. Married. If you’re willing to live with someone, you should be willing to marry them. I’m with Steve on this.

[@phumuzilendimande5982]

Say it louder for the people at the back to hear. They be moving in together and going on tv to ask for rings. What the hell??what r u doing living with somoeone who wont marry u?

[@charmainemalape910]

EPIIIIIIIIIIIIIC!!!!!!

[@yannickachamutah9128]

did u all hear that? he said "will you spend the rest of my life with me?"

[@FlowcastYT]

He gunna get that life insurance money

[@dnnallen5]

Yes! How about I want to spend the rest of my life with you!! This dude has issues!

[@SKB123SKB1]

Oh no, can you imagine how nervous he must have been standing on that stage? Slip of the tongue maybe, not really an issue unless we make it one.

[@mr.melanin7844]

I thought I was the only 1 who heard that. .

[@mervatabdulrahman7468]

He said "I want YOU to spend the rest my life with me", not i want to spend ...

[@hopemmaugwu7650]

So you just allowed to display all those when you know you're ready, so cute

[@christieatuh]

I love how Steve is so old school. You keep eating the bacon and waiting, till you see a fresher bacon

[@summmer77]

That Bethany is all drilling tonight! Hahahahaha it’s all in her face! Chill lady pleaseeee

[@daviaellis355]

"Jump into things"? "What are we playing house for"?

[@kahmarmcfarlane4448]

STEVE HARVEY YOUR GREAT

[@ashfaqqamar6193]

nice work steve god bless u

[@EROBLOX2014]

DON'T GET MARRIED!!!!!!!! DON'T! !!!!!!! LMAO

[@itsjustme9751]

"I want you to spend the rest of my life with me" LOL

[@jayrosi4287]

When you get irritated because Bethenny keeps interrupting Harvey every time he makes a valid point

[@luckyrobinsonotokhile2406]

Everyone there did a good job!!!

[@sanchawath3778]

Wow am so happy for her

[@atomariel4849]

Steve is spot on!!

[@clarlaabmayr]

I Never thought I would cry

[@karensamuel1139]

Steve Harvey is so fair!!😊

[@benitamaiorano3970]

Wish you all happiness

[@watchdog4454]

These are way under liked it’s ridiculous

[@eduardograu477]

Waooooooooooooooooooooo i am on my tears so emocional deep in my heart i am so so so happy for them i wish only the in lefe for them always God give the two of you health and protect you always God give you he's wisdom and revelation and help you discern everything in your lifes take care always please keep up the good work always in God always God bless you always and your families friends cowerkers neighbors and love ones always success Amén Aleluya Faith Love and Peace always Amén 🙌 thanks for sharing you life Amén 🙌

[@birther1968]

Agree 100% with Steve.

[@fantakante2261]

I agree with you uncle steve.😌

[@abdihassan6783]

That can move you emotionally

[@jgyrwa]

MAN I THINK STEVE AND BETHENNEY WORK GREAT TOGETHER, HAND IN HAND ON THESE LIFE TOPICS!

[@kal6844]

Yeah he got me with this one lol

[@buchianagwu5368]

Woooooow!!!!!!!that's so sweet!!!!

[@draithedragonking1376]

Anyone else at 3:24 automatically think about Bill Burrs joke on how a woman annoys you making that robotic sound.