Why Do Women Run When Men Have Financial Problems? || STEVE HARVEY

Steve Harvey turns the tables and shares with his men what women really think about trust issues and when their man makes less money than them.
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[@Kadaf1]

A women’s loyalty is tested when her man has nothing A man’s loyalty is tested when he has everything

[@chiefalfredbiggie3253]

Yo, so true. I f*@#cks with that statement.

[@reginald6643]

Am I the only one to get that I heard Royce DA 5'9 say this

[@theleftphalange7588]

PREACH IT BROTHA

[@dragonkight64dragonslayer62]

@@johnnormal1422 you're absolutely right I'm living proof

[@alialahmad4329]

John Normal it might be or might be not how do u know it wasn't

[@maylynbayani]

On the first year of dating, my husband lost his job and got into a depression after being unable to get re-employed. I supported him emotionally and financially for almost a year while he struggle in getting his licence as a registered dialysis nurse (career change). He eventually passed and got a job. Then I had to go back to school later on and he supported me. Now, we both have good paying jobs. Be patient with each other. Building life together does not happen overnight.

[@sunny24t]

Respect..

[@sandysamuelman9205]

Both have to be committed to the marriage for his to work. Much respect that you both were able to support each other. I married too young didn't know myself or may husband. I didn't even know he has a pretty severe disability undiagnosed he wasn't able to read and comprehend what he was trying to read. He needed to learn NFPA codes in order to keep his job and gain his certifications. I sat reading every code that was required reading ao boring 14 hours of non stop reading codes into a tape recorder so he could listen in his truck while driving to calls. He passed his test first try. I guess he also sold the tapes to friends so they could pass the tests too. Once his carers took off he began cheating feeling like this options were open.

[@maylynbayani]

@@sandysamuelman9205 that's sad. They did say that a man's loyalty is tested when he has everything and a woman's when her husband has nothing. But im hoping that the world will bring you happiness. Im a firm believer that kindness is always repaid.

[@sandysamuelman9205]

@@maylynbayani I am so much happier without him in my life. To be that young and gullible for the idea of love. I truly do understand why everyone said I was too young. Romeo and Juliet wasn't a love story in the end neither are most young couples. Usually one of not both don't realize what marriage actually is. You love in spite faults of not because of how you feel That is what love really is.

[@erowo8767]

@@shivasuresh5957 but why do men always have to let their ego get in the way, i don't mind paying for something if my man can't but why do they think you're trying to upstage them that way, you guys talk about wanting a woman who sticks with her man when he doesn't have money and contributes to bills and all that, but when you actually find a woman that makes good money maybe more than you, you run away cause of your egos.

[@marialutta]

My husband is currently in a point where he can't support us economically. I luckily got an internship that is paying a stipend and I really believe its only because of our situation that I even got the opportunity. I will support him no matter how long it Will be.

[@shashvat.dwivedi]

You're a good person Atieno. May you and your husband sail through these tough times together and get all the happiness in life.

[@greighenning9091]

Good for you! Wishing you the best.

[@user-he5fd4bc2e]

❤️

[@avelaziba9904]

keep on supporting him as ur enchor

[@josiahbravo1649]

Thank you. There’s so much more to a relationship then finances. money can’t buy that emotional connection or sleeping alone or with someone that doesn’t feel the same about that you do for them.

[@hajar2549]

i am a woman and i can tell you most of the ladies were not being very honest when answering lol

[@Blatt.online]

Yha, but every adult knows that deep inside. Why can't they just admit the truth??

[@digthewarmth]

No they were honest. I was thinking the true answer to the last question is A, but B has happened to my friends and is the truth. Most men want to feel needed and like they're providers and agree with A, and they do resent their women when they feel emasculated and can't live up to A. It's common.

[@edwinmurimi5942]

and you are surprised. most of the women lie and they have done it so long that their first instinct is to lie. So if I am asked this thing about women steve should just not do it anymore. Let's talk about something like investments or men but not women

[@jasminehouston-burns1691]

I totally agree. A lot of these questions seem to be answered favorably to the person answering them. Maybe some women/men do have the exact type of problems they claim but that ain't the truth for everybody answering them questions.

[@datboi42]

@@Blatt.online because it would expose them as not perfect little innocent misunderstood angels who just have to deal with "mutt men" and show that they’re a huge part of the problem

[@joshuawafer3488]

So we “need” women’s approval for everything but if this was reversed women would say we are too controlling

[@jorisbonson1990]

Stay single brother

[@1_Lando]

Barrier Boy 💯💯💯

[@mstwelvedeadlycyns]

@Barrier Boy sex and procreation

[@gaijin140]

because it's called hypocrissy. Many women do that without noticing.

[@asahmosskmf4639]

@@mstwelvedeadlycyns artificial womb is coming. Im married. Trust me , there is barely any sex and definately no procreation 😂

[@noglovenolove98]

every single one of those guys said in their head "thats a lie".

[@dustinhenderson6434]

You can see the second guys body language go "wtf that doesn't even make sense" after the womens answers appeared.

[@BrokTheLoneWolf]

Obviously

[@tearealdavis2212]

Both b and c for me

[@ranip7644]

I'm a woman and even I will admit that was a lie. It's both A and C.

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[@drakath5395]

“To approve of what you’re doing” its either a lie or a nicer way to say they dont trust you

[@lonewaer]

The answers to B and C can basically be clumped together. Just those who answer B own up to that, because it is exactly that, and those who answered C are lying. Why do they want to give their approval if not because they don't trust their guy ? It's exactly why.

[@gabrialblast2007]

FACTS!!!

[@Deb_deCoder]

Guys do not marry a woman. Go MGTOW. For all of the great Big John's MGTOW videos go to : www.bitchute.com/channel/DmlvhGJ48LNg/

[@APsupportsTerrorism]

There's a hidden element to C. They think any moment a guy isn't hustling, he's failing them. See the original topic of the discussion... she wants the $$$ and status, and too often we're just a vehicle to accomplish that. The type that freaks out if your hobbies aren't "constructive" to the bank account. Or answer "nothing" next time she asks what you're doing... they hate that... nothing ? nothing !? You could be working her honey-do list... We just slave labor... and they ain't even loyal.

[@jaemane1]

Facts

[@michaelmartin3655]

Women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally.. Men are loved on the condition that they provide something

[@rodw.9050]

- Chris Rock

[@jowazup1]

and women are loved on the condition that they look hot. we are both superficial, just in different ways

[@don8668]

@@jowazup1 If guys cared so much about hotness, some women would never get married at all.

[@jowazup1]

Don some dont

[@don8668]

@@jowazup1 True but quite a few unattractive women manage to find a husband (usually men with limited options themselves).

[@Satsujiki]

5 years relationship was very good. Kept telling me how ''I was the one''. We were talking about marriage. Even though she had gained 100lbs and her libido was gone because of her medicines, I still loved her unconditionally. Even helped her pay her gastric bypass. Then I lost my job and my health got worst. She then left me. Now she's lost weight, has met a guy few months later that makes a lot more then me. That one hit deep. Really thought she was the one.

[@axcvwy5220]

it's okay, look at it from a positive side. you dodged a bullet before marriage..

[@driggo912]

Somebody once said: "Some people are as long in your life until you learned a specific lesson."

[@Someone-qi1rr]

That's sadly. Life

[@smokeylovesfire1589]

I really wish Steve is still doing these shows plus his tv shows. Steve is the real deal and I have major respect for this man. A great man!

[@DmanDice]

yeah pandering to feminists..

[@samuraixyz22]

Same here.

[@MonumentalDong]

Steve literally left his wife and son to pursue his comedy career. great man my ass 😂

[@itsyagirlnatasha2158]

@@MonumentalDong Nobody is perfect but look at where Steve is now. His family never has to work again.

[@MonumentalDong]

@@itsyagirlnatasha2158 His kid grew up without a father

[@Paragon231]

And people wonder why many men are afraid to get married.

[@deenadream]

FA S understood

[@bestfly8558]

Its a good thing less and less people get married at all. Be free.

[@truongthuylan1990]

FA S Because women today don't want to marry men. Do you think women want to get married?

[@imrickjamesbitch6574]

Lan Phạm thị Uhh yes. But y’all don’t want a marriage, just a wedding.

[@drenee1416]

@@imrickjamesbitch6574 .. now this is true for a lot of women.

[@afrodude4782]

I've never seen such a large group of ppl lie simultaneously.

[@reneemyricks4306]

I agree

[@afrodude4782]

@Toni Gee oh im fully aware. But on this level? It goes to show women are fully aware of their fuckery and are willing to back each other up to not let the secret out. Its like women who claim to not be a feminist, but still reach to grab the benefits that feminism has brought them. Its disingenuous

[@Jaslath]

@@afrodude4782 Congress is bigger. Lol.

[@nettybm6833]

😂😂😂

[@jasonasdecker]

That is exactly what I was thinking.

[@RayMak]

Women are financially very capable today

[@redclover7105]

true

[@leo-wr6do]

Very true....but still won't reach for the check or a utility bill.

[@sadmanrafi5503]

and still they can;t stop running. Might aswell buy them a trademill

[@elcompapanic1720]

So funny how all them ladies are not being honest lol

[@someone-ji2zb]

Nope, and most of them never will be. We live in an era where most people don't want to be held accountable for anything.

[@TBTrade]

If the scripts were flipped, and a guy said that his wife needs his approval to do stuff, everyone would be up in arms. They're just insecure as hell.

[@BaseballCards35]

+TraitorByTrade you're absolutely right....It probably wouldn't even air on television.

[@staceykersting461]

True, unless one spouse has a bad spending problem and the other's worried about losing the house or an equal disaster The only other thing I can think of is a medical emergency, where one wd be SO concerned about the other being OK. Still don't know why you YT guys are so ready to jump upand holler, "INEQUALITY". Just use a little common sense. For example, I'd be interested if anyone else cs thinl of a time when they'd want a snapchat of their spouse like they were talking about in the video. Let's work tghr.

[@diyonnamiller5107]

exactly

[@thothheartmaat2833]

we used to understand it was normal for a wife to do what her husband says now she thinks she's smart and gets to make the rules.. that doesn't work..

[@patluvsvettes]

Yep! Double standard. That's why as a guy I see no point in getting married. What's a woman bringing to the table that I can't get for myself?

[@HeyAveon]

so he needs her permission to buy something with his hard earned money? That right there is the problem

[@dougdimmadomeownerofthedim2918]

Who said it was all his money? Even it was spending recklessly is not ideal regardless of the gender.

[@Pinky_Piie]

ツNo Face well if it IS his money he can spend it however he likes and the women should then have to ask for permission instead. It’s like women think they own your money when they really don’t

[@dougdimmadomeownerofthedim2918]

Imersiion Yeah he could, however, if HIS spending is reckless then it's only fair for his spouse to confront him. No different than gambling issues.

[@Pinky_Piie]

ツNo Face oh ye I get the bit about him going overboard on the spending even if it’s his money but I’d still say she would need to ask permission to get some money from him

[@dougdimmadomeownerofthedim2918]

Imersiion I don't think she ever said she was borrowing money from him, but if that was the case and they weren't sharing then yah she should ask for permission.

[@kokalti]

I was in two different relationships where as soon as she felt that I wasn't as successful in my career as I should have been, she was out. No lashing out required.

[@guy9854]

May God always bless your mother Mr. Steve You are such an incredible man, all I wish I could become

[@The90roman]

Remember, dont marry for looks, they fade.Dont marry for money it can be lost.

[@storres9198]

Then marry for what?

[@storres9198]

Lol

[@harriette-paulaosakwe598]

Love. The good qualities the person possesses. Loyalty. Care. A kind and good heart

[@northern_moss]

Just don't.

[@harriette-paulaosakwe598]

d3thron3d why won't people marry? It's like one of the things that should be done. I know sometimes people get hurt in the process, but still

[@gabrialblast2007]

If a woman leaves because of struggles happening, YOU DODGED A BULLET

[@dincerekin]

getting divorce raped is dodging a bullet? dayum

[@HN-bv7li]

paying child support is not dodging a bullet bro

[@gabrialblast2007]

@@HN-bv7li 1. What they hell are you talking about? 2. If he has to pay you child support, then by all means, I hope he's not your man. Not being relationship with a woman like that, he 10 times dodged a bullet.

[@juanguajardo8359]

I came for the second guy from TikTok because that video cut out right before I could get a answer. Im glad I came because that answer is the truth. Steve is a man of wisdom

[@jusukallon721]

As men, we are wired to play egoistic and providers ...

[@DrCalviny]

My ex left me when I had lost everything lol. After several years and building several successful businesses, she popped right in my DM's asking how I was doing and asked to meet up again. What a parasite.

[@praisedsnake907]

I hope you met up with her and stuck her with a bill

[@DrCalviny]

@@praisedsnake907 Hahhahaha would have been great, Douchey but great.

[@misteromega5354]

Hey man congrats. Its good to hear your doing better after that BS. Its better to just stay single honestly. We are viewed as nothing more than a bank in todays age. Hope things are going well

[@faismasterx]

​@@DrCalviny It ain't douchey when someone truly deserves it.

[@DrCalviny]

@@misteromega5354 yeah, understood. I'm married now with someone who thought I was broke for 3 years yet stuck with me.

[@wavybump]

The men knew they were lying, that's why they kept booing. Classic!

[@efisgpr]

yeah...SO obvious. This is pointless when they'll just lie about every answer.

[@marxmanw3877]

actually no they weren't you think that because your not a man

[@mikewilliamsjudo6160]

heehee mefunny Smh...shift all the blame why don't ya

[@kiararose3499]

heehee mefunny Exactly

[@fidelisbekong9954]

@heehee, women don't mind being broke because society puts little to no pressure on them to be providers. Men have been told since back when that they are providers and it makes a man feel really worthless when he can't provide for his family.

[@TIFUH-PRINCE]

Us the men being ashamed is true, also telling the truth to your lady you don’t and bring down our Igor for her to support , I think 🤔 is the BEST WAY TO TACKLE THIS ISSUE. Thanks to all the ladies and men who participated. Love ❤️ daddy Steve abundant blessings

[@BeyondEducated]

Steve has a great way of understanding human psychology

[@Oridginale24]

“Fellas, if you lose your job, you’re going to lose your girl. She may not leave you the day you lose it but the countdown has begun.” -Chris Rock

[@hihaters2004]

100

[@gthrusterg2858]

Well, you just might lose your life if you dont have income, how would you buy yourself food?

[@ericruiz1036]

Bwaaaahahahaha!!!! 😝😅

[@lawlessx9]

Facts..and everyone knows it. Meanwhile a women can lose her job and the guy is just supposed to carry the extra load with no fuss..no complaining..because he loves her right? But if he lost his job you best believe she's already thinking about her options

[@marlonmoncrieffe0728]

There was an eye-opening episode of the brilliant sitcom, 'Designing Women,' where one of the very liberal characters is shocked and ashamed that she is no longer attracted to her recently laid-off boyfriend, despite the fact that he picked up all the domestic duties without complaint.

[@DeathGodPain96]

I'm a girl and I know damn well these women only picked the answer that would not make them look so bad, all their answers put blame on the guys . That's what people do though

[@williamharrison2757]

Both b and c are essential the same answer. If someone finds themselves reacting this way in a situation the should walk away because it's already over

[@Yahreshohn]

That's what women do :)

[@motina10]

William Harrison, For both questions. One is what their reaction is(untrustworthy/loser), and the other answer is their rationalization of the situation (he needs my approval/he is upset). And their rationalization does not make the situation any better. Needing approval is condescending, and saying he gets upset is invalidating.

[@giopuriromano98]

"That's what women do tough"

[@liandel]

Men have died and still are dying so they dont break their ethics. From prisons to even protecting their home. Its something women do and somehow feel ok when they trash the very core of human nature

[@macchrisanyanwu9407]

I'm normally the type that won't comment at such; But honestly this whole show and way things were broken down is a 100% for me, plus Mr Steve Harvey can be said to be a genius at the way he understands and explains out these men's characters/attributes. They should do much more of this... God bless!

[@Dinakara777]

Love the way Steve is handling the forum. Lovely!

[@Spiritualgazi]

i would rather be single than have some woman who only loves me when im doing good.

[@johndavis6719]

Facts

[@princejiminofbusan9209]

A broke man should not date and also men have standards so let us have them too

[@gammaphoenix5893]

@@princejiminofbusan9209 Yes we have standards. But they are not as demanding as yours are. We just want someone that is physically normal and cares about her own health and wouldn't leave me when I am at my worst. If you leave your man when he is going through a financial crisis. You don't deserve him when he is back stronger than ever.

[@ryanj357]

@@princejiminofbusan9209 Marriage is a vow. Till love do us part, for better or for worse, for RICHER OR FOR POOR. It's in the marriage laws and It's what you sign up for. If all you care about is money then you belong to the streets.

[@bibinthomas5282]

@@princejiminofbusan9209 for ur knowledge,we wouldn't fkin care if u aren't pretty

[@mitchelllake9684]

Ever notice in a relationship how the money she makes is HER money, But the money you make is OUR money?

[@josephhage9377]

That is the women’s creed They live and die by it

[@chottabeamm]

I smell lenin lurking in the corner

[@metallboy25]

Only if you let her. My girl pays half of everything, rent, food, bills even gas. I told her right from the start, " I do not date freeloaders. If you want to be with me, you have to pull your weight."

[@Jay-og4yb]

@@metallboy25 and whether they believe it or not... Your gfs going to love you forever because that's acting like a boss

[@juainott5281]

Same for the relationship, it's not our relationship its HER relationship. A sheila thinks and acts like that, you should run.

[@torababdullah7952]

wow Steve is really doing a marvelous job at advocating for the men in their weakest. not all men are capable of conveying what they really feel. Thanks a lot steve for your amazing support.

[@KhemBoBeatZ]

Thank god my wife is a loyal piece of diamond 🙏

[@g2879]

These chicks are lying!!!

[@tanyabanks1918]

Gregory Fullilove I agree!

[@wesnorthcutt639]

thats what they do, their mothers teach them, I guess...

[@magnusqwerty]

Gregory Fullilove MGTOW.

[@traykunable]

Gregory Fullilove What were you expecting???!!!

[@Thoughtseaux]

If men ran from women with financial problems damn near all of us would be single

[@condew6103]

I have herd from at least 3 buddies how they paid off her credit card debt when they married. That's like a $30,000 financial gain for her on day one. Do they take that into account when they divorce, that he came in with savings and she came in with debt? No, she still expects half of everything, maybe more.

[@salemsaberhagen8390]

they also need to take into account the time she spent under a roof he provided basically how just like how a hotel would have cost for the amount of time she lived there, if anything it should be the woman that owes the man in these situations.

[@r3sianon975]

Damn truth

[@denergized7993]

Karina Peters, won't have sex? Wow! using sex as a weapon and power tool. Withholding sex as a form of punishment because of reduced earnings whereas the man can't buy her what she wants. Notice, I didn't say what she needs.

[@denergized7993]

Karina Peters does that truly justify lesbianism?

[@ej7866]

Some women say that they would be there regardless, for their husband or long-term boyfriend, but let me ask you this, Had that just been a guy you met? Would you still consider seeing him? despite his financial and emotional hardship? It seems like the only woman that cares about my emotional problems is my own mother

[@digthewarmth]

No, I wouldn't date a guy if I learned at the start that he isn't financially where I am. It's not worth making him feel ashamed that he can't afford places I want to/normally go to.

[@DCD762]

@@digthewarmth that's unfortunately where you went wrong. A man proves his loyalty to a woman when he has everything... A woman proves her loyalty to a man when he has nothing... Your choice only shows you are not ready to be in a relationship with a real worthwhile man that will stand by you on good and bad. Only true relationships where money is not the most important survive... Everything else is just waste of time

[@AnonymousGuy12]

​@@digthewarmth i guess you would be with him happily when he makes more than you😂

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[@jacksonmagnus2876]

Well I totally agree with you

[@jacksonmagnus2876]

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[@ryanconnorlucas7579]

Investing in crypto in this current economy crisis will be one of the best thing to do this year.

[@ronicamampuya2954]

@Jagcava Tulsin I truly agree with you on that,

[@tsiyimonroe6206]

speaking of investmentl. I know I am blessed because I wouldn't have met someone who is as spectacular as Henne Nate

[@boogymcguiness9649]

Most of the survey the women are lying.

[@salmanesultane3482]

Women lie all the time ; this is Mother Nature to survive at best .

[@TheBangTV]

LOL.

[@efisgpr]

Most times in LIFE lmao.. .

[@Dres_Anatomy]

Hell Yea! Women ALWAYS make themselves sound practical & simple. Lies

[@sim6699]

I agree

[@johnowen9349]

"I have trust issues because my boyfriend bought an unapproved motorcycle." Your *BOYFRIEND* doesn't need your approval to buy a motorcycle.

[@SpikeLanta]

a real man takes what he wants and never let's anyone push him around!!

[@tonyjones1560]

I've got a job, live on my own, and can afford to drop $10,000 on a bike? Satan will die of frostbite in hell before I ask for "approval" or "permission" to do... anything.

[@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823]

I had that about a car. Dumped him, still have the HEMI.

[@aphilipdent]

Would she ask permission to get a $1000 designer handbag? Doubt it.

[@johnowen9349]

@Alina Temnenco Unless they have a shared budget, it doesn't matter if he spent a 100,000. It's his to spend. She's not an authority figure, she's not his money manager, she's his girlfriend.

[@kida746]

I could honestly say that my step-dad getting laid off from his career (and not being able to get back in even 10 years yes later) killed my parent’s marriage (or at least that’s what started it)

[@TheAnthropol]

The questions aren’t given the opportunity to be honestly answered. The answers are framed.

[@jeffrosko6322]

I did security in a bar. Woman like men with money period.

[@afisemenaborevlaka48]

Maybe the women who go to bars. 😁

[@Jez2008UK]

Bro', those are hookers.

[@jeffrosko6322]

Hue hefner had parents gladly giving their daughters away. Probably was cause he was a really nice guy.

[@marcilk7534]

I don’t. But I also don’t generally hang out at bars since I don’t drink.

[@biobelewilliam-west1310]

Jez2008UK hookers are very thirsty and cheaper than a “girlfriend” or “wife”🥃🍷🍸🏦💵💵💳💰💰💵💎

[@WHBJr]

Ain't no more love! Only a never-ending search for stability!!!!

[@eternalyfeful]

WHB JR...Sad but true.

[@ryndonjalandoni2319]

WHB JR dats what i think 2. Wen d priority is money... there s higher probability that wen dats gone, dey'd run..

[@wtfwrongwithyou5222]

Ryndon Jalandoni But you shouldn't be seeking a relationship as a grown ass person and not be stable.

[@sunnyjim1355]

Love is just a Medieval concept that now only children get hooked on, as mythical as Santa Claus. But women continue to either truely believe in it (they never emotionally grow up) or they use it as entrapment. All healthy, mature relationships are built as a civil partnership - there is no place for 'love'. Respect, yes, love, no.

[@ibetternotseeyousimp556]

Love is an illusion. If you want to experience True love get a dog. They're man's best friend. When it come to women it's Mutual business

[@khandelwalgautam]

Kudos Steve for nailing down both the questions.

[@jdonsimon3070]

And this is why I decided to stay single after my last relationship

[@stevemccollum2011]

I am a grown MAN I don't need anyone to approve of what I am doing, IF the women does NOT trust me then she needs to find someone else.... I know I move on pretty quick when a women thinks she needs to know every single thing I do...

[@ChiBoomyBoom]

+stevemccollum2011 I'm going to get some flack for this. But, I agree with you completely. My boyfriend is a grown a*s man. If he wants to use HIS money to buy something go for it. If we are sharing a bank account though, it becomes a 50/50 decision.

[@caramelveganprincess6389]

Well, tell us how you really feel! lol I agree with you.

[@llgla]

+stevemccollum2011 I understand your point if you're a man who think it through before you purchase something. If you're a man who likes to buy expensive toys out of impulse which you might not be able to afford and would often regret later, what do you expect your girlfriend to do? Let you feel the pain first?

[@llgla]

Some couples would agree on a financial goal for their family, say they want a new house, so they create a shared bank account and would hold each other accountable to the percentage of salary put inside per month.

[@llgla]

It's called financial planning. Some couples have to be serious in finances otherwise they would spend their salary away on shopping, games, beers, etc. Some couples are poor thus they have to be serious in making sure they have enough for rent and grocery and some savings for rainy days.

[@marcoarends31]

Those women literally chose the most politically correct answer. Shoulda hooked em all up on poligraphs.

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

I would love to see a show like that. Both sexes strapped to polygraphs.

[@andrewbradley3305]

This show is the biggest proof that you can trust men to tell you the truth but never women

[@curtisbrearley1111]

Agreed

[@rainbowreaper4801]

@@andrewbradley3305 Well that's not sexist at all... 😂

[@andrewbradley3305]

@@rainbowreaper4801 That’s female language. It’s not sexism or anything like that. It’s the truth

[@Obie077]

A real man’s purpose is to provide for his family. When he finds himself in a situation where he is struggling, in his mind he is failing you. This more often than not is where most men become vulnerable and weak and look to their partner for support. But that support rarely ever comes. The moment you show any sign of weakness or lack of being able to facilitate a womens dreams you are done. She already looking for the next man, if she doesn’t already have one ready to sub into the game.

[@dennisnyaga6684]

Harvey you have given a very candid answer to that last question. I love that answer

[@heaty007]

actually its because women love money and not you. she never liked you it was always what you have to provide.

[@heaty007]

When I wrote this message 3 months ago I put my then gf to the money test. I literaly acted like I had no money. I think I gave her 20 bucks in 2 months and she lost it offcourse. and dumped me yesterday. So I dont believe you can have a real partnership with a woman because the terms are pretty one sided.

[@cuervothorn3947]

It's a good thing you learned this way instead of the hard way.

[@nathanwoodruff9422]

You would have lost everything if you had married her.

[@nathanwoodruff9422]

+noah overton I feel for you man. If there was something that I could do for you I would.

[@moonshine9964]

noah overton You will overcome stay strong God always delivers

[@patluvsvettes]

The men are grumbling because unless you helped him earn that $10 grand that he just spent on a motorcycle, then you have absolutely NO right to complain about it.

[@bpaige12]

patluvsvettes exactly chicks feel all your money is hers and her money is hers

[@cornellgreen3692]

bpaige12 They have the same mentality: What's mine is mine and what's yours is mine. They want to come off the streets and do nothing and still think that they deserve what amounts to a Super Bowl ring. No thanks: I'll make like Pete Carroll and pass.

[@dukedazombie1033]

Sooo true especially when he said HES NOT LASHING OUT AT YOU HES REALLY LASHING OUT AT HIMSELF‼️‼️‼️🫡

[@asuniqueasthespellingofmyn1124]

When my husband lost his job I stayed...but he is a habitual job loss. So many times he had good job and self sabotaged. His mental health needs help...but if he's not willing to do what is necessary he will repeat it. I've supported him by returning back to work, homeschooled our children, went to counseling with him and he still hasn't gotten it together. 15 years later, I'm out. It's not on me or the kids...he's almost 50 and won't stop the train wreck. We have 4 small kids.

[@Opal5674]

Well Inwoukdnt have kept having babies with a man that could get his crap together. Never understood why women do that. When I realized after my first child my ex was like your soon to be ex I locked down my uterus with an IUD. That being said good for you for finally leaving. 👏 It's so completely disappointing that these grown men from 25 to 50+ can't get their crap together and adult Oh ya my ex at 40 now says he's a woman so isn't that just a fine example for our soon to be going through puberty son

[@loveoneanother133]

@@Opal5674 wow. Be strong. I will pray for yall.

[@Peglegkickboxer]

You were with him for at least 15 years knowing this and decided to have kids with him? Now you bail because it's convenient for you and you plan to destroy the lives of your kids? Plus you're probably going to take everything from him and demand child support (or he goes to jail), and you women wonder why men don't want to get married. You're what's wrong with society.

[@Opal5674]

@@Peglegkickboxer Lmao she just said he didn't work for 15 years and she's been the one supporting him. What do you think he has that's actually his for her to take and what makes you think losing a usless deadbeat thay won't work is going to destroy kids lives lmao. Men think just gracing a family with his presence is enough. If she was looking for convenient she would have left long ago. She gave him too many chances already.

[@Peglegkickboxer]

@@Opal5674 her paragraph isn't clear if he's been on and off the jobs for 15 years or jobless for 15 years. If he has been jobless for 15 years then that's even worse, why would she have kids with a jobless guy, especially if it's so bad that she has to go back to work. If not that he must be making good money for her not have to work while he was bouncing from job to job, then there's more to this story. Clearly there's not thought for the children just two selfish "parents".

[@Emerald_Solace]

"Oh you don't have money no more? F*** this I'm gonna find another person to leech off of!"

[@efisgpr]

yep...the actual truth

[@jlewsd]

this is unfortunately how majority of women think

[@LVCWHITEBOY]

lmfao amen

[@vanaphill2454]

No, it's "Oh you don't have money no more? Well I can't pay for you and me. Later.

[@TheBangTV]

Leeches! LOL.

[@mikekins6545]

I had financial problems and I left my wife after 20 years of marriage, because she was the financial problems. She always telling me I never made enough No matter how much I made or how many hours I worked. I gave her all my love and all my money and she couldn't respect it. Now I raise my 2 teenage kids all by myself With out any assistance from her, she's a dead beat. She didn't even call her kids on Christmas. Now I have plenty of money in the bank. I bought me a nice red challenge super bee and a lifted 4 door Jeep Rubicon and I can afford everything now without her controlling my finances. Also I live in a bigger nicer house And my kids are very happy. They have everything they need and a lot of what they want. She was my financial problem I should left her years ago. "MGTOW" I will never let another woman rest her toothbrush in my house ever again!

[@northern_moss]

@mike Kins Man, ... I think you're richer than most guys made out. Even if you didn't turn out to earn a solid income... you got your kids. Way to get it done brother.

[@mikekins6545]

@@northern_moss tks. You're right.

[@don8668]

It is called addition by subtraction.

[@c0cochan3l29]

Mike Kins as a woman I’m saying I’m proud of you

[@matthewgaines10]

I wouldn't make it with this woman 20 days; forget about 20 years. I don't know why you would do this to yourself.

[@eddieboggs8306]

"In sickness and health. For richer or poorer." So soon they forget.

[@mark9294]

Yep. Took her only a couple of months

[@childofthemighty1341]

These Episodes are fantastic

[@DanielDouglas555]

“only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally,” whereas “a man is only loved under the condition that he provide something" - Chris Rock

[@rithwiksingh3156]

Lol that's why i hate kids.

[@formidablefoe157]

@@rithwiksingh3156 yeah

[@catarina81]

not really, if a woman gets fat the guy will dump her

[@DanielDouglas555]

@@assi4237 according to who? You? LMAO.

[@DanielDouglas555]

@@assi4237 show me the stats to back up your claim.

[@MrSeanMDolan]

No loyalty, just hypergamy

[@sautiyapsamu]

Wow! I'll try, especially the part of saying no to somethings. Thanks Jessy for this

[@bibimjomba2630]

One of the best videos that I've watched. Thank you for the insights

[@rrrigbyyy1494]

This was so damn funny every time the men went ‘BOOOOOOO’ It was so funny bc they knew the women were lying.

[@Stupid33]

@8balln8 killingu65 5 percent tho? Its actually more often than not.

[@ChooseFreshAtSubway]

A woman once told me she was looking for love, I said they make movies for that

[@graciousharry7580]

So you think women only want money

[@blakenorman6281]

Ok nice guy

[@qvCELESTIAL]

10/10

[@stephaniep1761]

A man once told me he needed sex. I told him they make porn for that.

[@brownie6933]

@@graciousharry7580 most of them do

[@trent1984]

When I got my first job my mom made me give her all my money, as she said I owed her for raising me. If I didn't pay her she would have kicked me out, she wouldn't even let me have a phone even though I had to pay her and my sister's phone bill. I tried to move in with friends but I had no money even though I had a job. This is common with black moms, I had a few friends who's moms did the same thing, it makes us realize why our dads left.

[@LonjeMarie7]

This is very very correct when a man is not where he wants to be financially he feels ashamed and he may lash out or not be his best emotionally. My daughter I didn’t go to her dress fitting for her wedding.I’m having a lot of health issues , and a lot of pain and I’m financially struggling temporarily thank God because I’m not able to work as much as I would like I told her I feel ashamed I’m not where I want to be .I feel like I don’t have anything to offer you. I can’t even help financially. She said mom I just wanted you there I told her please don’t take it personal I am in a bad place , in a lot of pain,and I isolate and take a step back so I don’t make everybody else around me miserable. I can relate to how men feel when they’re not where they want to be financially.

[@melaninbotswana2474]

And for the most part especially for men that's the time they really get a lot of disrespect from society as a whole 💯 am currently in that situation and I have really taken a distance from people am alone for the most part even when am with my fiance am alone because she doesn't get it ,when ever I get a little I will always prioritize buying something in the house than let's say go to the barber to cut my hair because as a man your dignity and respect you only get it on condition that you can provide 💯 the love you get for the most part always seems like is based on conditions

[@richcook2007]

Haven't dated in 14 years. The peace is outstanding!

[@MP-ut6eb]

@Nidhi Roy a man who controls he's lowly instincts it's invincible. Dude achieved greatness, gotta just learn.

[@bitik9847]

Same. I am 14 year old.

[@yurTherapizt]

Haven't dated for 20 years...

[@alien2974]

@@bitik9847 😹😹😹

[@chromeboi9]

Amen to that.

[@SOSsmokedoutsam]

This is BS...when i was struggling financially id never lash out and they'd still leave...I think they were making up stuff just to try and not look bad

[@slothop7541]

SmokedOutSam your right bro it’s called being selfish

[@don8668]

I think most of the men do not lash out. If they do lash out, it is only after being nagged and questioned to death.

[@kermitdafrog8]

Of course it was all just man shaming.

[@don8668]

I do not buy the explanation the women are giving either. I think it is just a convenient excuse to make the women not look as bad for leaving a man when he struggles financially.

[@kermitdafrog8]

Don that is all it is. And the first answer was actually another way to not look bad for not trusting the man. They don't trust him to make wise choices.

[@grkblsmd]

Steve's answer was very supportive of men's lashing out. He needs to express its not her. He needs to come up with compromised ways etc cause it's not for your partner to make you feel good and the partner shouldn't have to wait all the time to live life b/c the man is depressed that she's able to support. My mom got beat down after my step-dad lost his job from an accident. Its scary when a man can't support when they once could. It can bring out a monster with some. No person, no woman have to put up with that.

[@DanStratocaster1]

I LOVE being single. All I need is to see this once a year.

[@Rose-bs1up]

so.. basically a man should provide for someone who controls every aspect of his life... yeaahhh.. nah we equal baby

[@sosmcs]

#foreversingle #womendonltcontroleveryaspectofamanslife

[@Kyosuke700]

that whole thing about man should provide people realize that it takes both people to get the job done instead one person doing the job by them self and another thing u cant really say that all man lash out cause not all man are the same

[@TheSecondAdam]

When you're an idiot, then she has to take the wheel.

[@marishlong7098]

+Bunny Fuffle Nubbles LOL at those women lying. Women who leave men based on finances believe men should provide for them lol. I hear women talk they know it's true lol. I'm one of the few women who married my broke husband out of love. Now that he is a success the same women telling me I was stupid for marrying him are now envious of me lol.

[@gr8guy900]

+Sage Hawk would you let your woman take the wheel ? because in here men are pictured as all idiots which is not fair .

[@funnyvalentine601]

Why do women hate us for having a simple life with a sofa a tv a fridge and a console

[@davidbolha]

& 20 TB of 720p pr0n. 😂😎 You forgot that.

[@funnyvalentine601]

David Bolha yeah i did

[@Haseeb10008]

Bcoz that bitchs love money and materials

[@Michael1234567860]

Because it’s impossible to satisfy the average woman. Women hate just how little it takes for us to be happy

[@judybash9393]

They don't like to see us happy

[@piusslowman101]

I never had that problem... I always found work because I got a skilled that the world needs... True warrior

[@dammydmeech]

Thank you. Thank you uncle Steve.

[@bsambo8577]

"you lash out at us" = playing the victim

[@nickelhunter3129]

Just look at the questions, it's obvious that they were pushing towards a certain answer.

[@potaterjim]

An "unauthorized toy"? Is she his wife or his mother?

[@aidankiely2765]

potaterjim agreed

[@MRBIGCOHONEZ]

potaterjim My money, my Bike, GTFO.

[@thorntonturner2299]

Last time I checked I only have one mother, an that im the man in this streets!

[@nikkiknowship-hop1466]

potaterjim neither- his gf

[@garybulwinkle82]

She's the slave's MASTER!!!

[@praveentoijam]

Best answer steve

[@maxinewest4096]

Interesting topic, and comments about relationships.

[@MomTheEbayer101]

I'm sorry but some of these women comments are embarrsing!!!! I WOULD NEVER want to rule over or talk in a disprespectful way to my husband. What women don’t realize it doesn't make you look good- it makes you look like you're not worthy of being a wife. IJS

[@heruapocalypse2021]

Mom The Ebayer It makes Me turn into My Primal Self When Women do that.

[@TheOnlyKosis]

Mom The Ebayer I'm so glad there are women like you out there. My girlfriend of 2 years is amazing and she (just like myself) needs alone time, so much so that we always make time for each other when life gets to be exhausting and we always feel better when we're together. She is the only one in my 27 years of living that has stuck with me through thick and thin. I love her to death.

[@DuygusalKasap]

why not?? let the feminism wreck the society as much as they want...they look so carefree about the future of the society

[@markusrodriguez9379]

Thank YOU! Sadly after seeing what happen to almost every male I know once they started dating is all of them are with aggressive narcissist and act like whipped dogs before they get cheated on with "a real man who made her feal like a real woman" I have no want or need for any of that in my life and I am much happier when I'm single and its always been that way for as long as I could remember What's in it for me?? I don't care to ask this anymore I just gave up on the whole situation if there is a princess waiting to be saved well She won't get it Entitlement and catty superior then any man who talks to them killed chivalrous behavior and wants in men

[@SnoopSimmonsSound]

When does your marital counseling start? We really need to pump your mindset into the hearts and minds of this new breed of women! You are appreciated!!! 😍😍😍

[@salmakhalid4387]

Women who leave their man due to finances, all that mattered to them was materialistic things. At some point my husband had just £10 in the bank, did I leave him, no ofcourse not. I supported him in everything and every decision. After a couple of months things got better, his situation changed. Years later we now have our own home and a wonderful baby. If anything goes wrong again, I am down for my man.

[@esiom8810]

He caught a good one.

[@JakeGuitarMusic]

You’re a good wife. Even during hard times, you are looking out for your husband. I want a wife like you some day 😃😃.

[@kenyattamiles3226]

I salute you!

[@keithhinchcliffe4377]

are you built like the other Salma? sorry ...

[@kledmohd4230]

People in general are sympathetic and patient with the ones they love. In case of betrayal due to finance issues, it could be due to lack of love. Also, financial stability is something that attracts female instincts, just like how beauty attracts male. So people acting on their instincts and not being patient would end up betraying the ones they love or once loved.

[@patriciahollingsworth7494]

I just love Steve’s wisdom

[@golfgood456]

Hi baby how are you doing now i hope you are really doing good you are awesome looking at you baby makes happy when I look at your picture it is beyond my imagination that a creature like you really exist like a rose you make the garden so beautiful You are a diamond to any man that have eyes to see goodness of a womanhood Baby am Ben easy going person very understandable Am a civil engineer and a contractor I work at so many places like Asia Europe and Africa I love art craft and I write music I like ideal people when I see your picture am impress I want a good woman that understand what real love is all about who will understand me and perfectly be for me So we can build our world strong enough to care for each other I want you to be mine and I hope to hear from you soonest thanks

[@mohamedmahmed1954]

Steve such events are amazing to show facts and let me say it even with me as a Middle Eastern man with different culture your answers still representing me as a person who is struggling with problems and I understand exactly what you have just said. Appreciate your words man.

[@ChilibombActual]

When my wife and I were dating, I paid for everything. When she finished her degree and the Great Recession was in full force, I paid for everything. When she got a good job that requires us to move, I quit to go with her. She paid for everything. When we had to move 3 times in one year, she paid for everything. When we were both working, we built up credit and paid off debt. When I went back to school, we could afford to live on one income. Now that I have finished and am making more than both of us combined before the degree, she can expand her dreams now. We built this life together and never gave up even when we thought it would end. It was not easy and we did have hard times. That's life but we are living good and making new memories. Find that right person and make it work. It's hard out there but it is worth it when it comes together for you!

[@dafunk99]

Congrats! You've found a unicorn.

[@TheNewps]

Good for you. You found a partner and not a princess.

[@theeroyaltgaming]

Congrats and I wish y’all many wonderful years together!

[@ldwb6625]

Rarest beautiful story

[@sharonsart]

You're very lucky to have each other. :-)

[@SADilNikad]

As we Serbs say:"when poverty knocks on a front door, love get out through window" 🇷🇸

[@user-cb1di3lh9c]

😆Lol

[@zubayeerahmed3801]

Was it Shakespeare who first said it?

[@SADilNikad]

@@zubayeerahmed3801 maybe 🤔. But we say it all the time 🤣.

[@chrissheen123]

That was so touching!!!

[@GodzillaPain]

My dads told me this 🤣

[@EMILY-yw1qy]

This is the truest fact!

[@Ultrawicked]

4:44 goes both ways . When my man was a bum i was there for him. We almost broke up because when i was a "loser" he was mean to me but i never did that to him 😒. Made me question his loyalty

[@josephhage9377]

“You did a lot for me in the past” “But you haven’t done much for me lately” - my old lady

[@Pastor_Sempa]

really, they remember that? It's all about *what have you done for me lately*

[@black_rifles_matter]

And that will never go away

[@daviedood2503]

Janet Jackson song "what have u done for me LATELY" even she divorced her man and got 500 million out of him. The chick I was with 13 yrs decided to just split. 8 months out now. I asked her about this new personality she's been displaying bc it's fn weird. Where's the person she showed me before. That says I'M 100% REAL, THIS IS MEEE, WHAT U SEE IS WHAT U GET ...where they at.. She says " in don't care about that, that was then this is now, I'm not that person" from the horses mouth, they invented a whole person to get my attention and to retain it..pathetic and sad.

[@Neddie2k]

@@daviedood2503 Lol, when you see a lady in make-up and weaves, ask what else is she hiding.

[@burst_ch.]

And you better believe they have that one argument from months ago memorized right when they need it.

[@persocompill2234]

Why do ladies lose interest when men struggle financially? -> Because those men generate no *interest*.

[@purebloodirishman9389]

Brill

[@moonshine9964]

MGTOW Monk BOSS STATEMENT

[@dominicnarorrga9089]

MGTOW Monk thug life

[@triplenaruto1]

Can't use a man with no money

[@mynameisbob7059]

Men debate women rebate

[@edwardheard8000]

Never been in that situation, but the last lady lady appeared to respond perfectly to her guys needs at the time👍

[@Littleprincesa]

Real talk

[@whodis799]

"I've had a lot of long term relationships" Well if that isn't a red flag already, I don't know what is

[@sadieg3264]

😆😆😆😆I thought the same thing

[@commonsensedatcom]

Shes 106 years old

[@altovisemiller9900]

Mu thoughts exactly!

[@abitofeverythingbynastassi6273]

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩😂

[@ajinomoto5788]

LMAO

[@cameronholmes654]

them women lied

[@jamescourtney3610]

They all lied...... they want to know where you are so they dont get caught doing stuff you dont aprove off and they run because they are 2 faced gold diggers

[@LoveLife-xy9ir]

Cameron Holmes yupp

[@lrmcatspaw1]

Everybody lies - House.

[@edyburkay]

Ofc :) that's their defence mechanism.

[@mad_sci_moody]

Their first question they got, last two options were the same thing. "You either don't trust them, or they need your approval first.........because you don't trust them."

[@danielmengistu1080]

Impatience plays great role here

[@cheezesscrusty2471]

I wish knew about this sooner before my relationship fall… thanks young Harvey for showing me now.

[@TimmyJEuchida]

if a man wants a bike and pays for it with his own money, the woman has no right to dictate on what he can or can't do

[@TheSecondAdam]

Woman will view your big male expenditures as a waste and threat to her financial security. And the fact that it was money not spent on her or the family.

[@VHale-yz7hc]

Well if it means she covering shared exspense or you guys are saving up for something at least talk about it first .

[@truebut3243]

+victoria hale lol saving up for what, her gift?

[@TimmyJEuchida]

The only gift I'm saving up for any woman that I'm involved with is 'no babies' aka vasectomy and I have my own reasons for it

[@SashaKay101]

lies...and it's not a fact that it's his money. bikes r dangerous I would b worried. plus I think there should be a conversation, show that u value my opinion about this. it isn't about what u do when ur in a relationship, because it doesn't just affect u

[@iuomasou4178]

Asking women about relationship advice is like asking a blind man to describe colors

[@mrvideosound7693]

Iuo Masou lol

[@balqeesal_khwaitem3653]

Iuo Masou no one can give anyone advice. When it comes to relationships everyone have to fugr out what beast for them.

[@jetaddict420]

@Codec Pryme amen

[@mirandastyles89]

🤣🤣🤣

[@nofybn7794]

SEXIST and wrong. It's the other way around.

[@ginibaardse7482]

For protection.caring

[@saileshram7610]

Steve handled this really really well. 👍