I hate videos that waste 2 min telling me what they are about to tell me about. Get to it
@TruthInspector24 күн бұрын
Yeah it's so insulting to your intelligence because they've already said what it is in the title and then they spend 2 minutes telling you crap that you don't want to hear
@kararonin2 жыл бұрын
Did you find these tips helpful? Which one will work best for you?
@bernardmithi4718 Жыл бұрын
I love your videos. Keep up the good work
@mnsuchak Жыл бұрын
All vides are helpful. Great work !
@weeklyfascinationАй бұрын
Prefacing the conversation with, "I've got 2 points to make" and letting them know that they'll get a chance to chime in with their thoughts after you're finished. Excellent pointer.
@stummkind7 ай бұрын
Only watching this video makes my blood boil again. I had a meeting last week when at times I had a hard time bringing one sentence through and three different people interrupted me. Yes, I understand that i need to take over responsibility for adopting a more assertive speaking style and setting boundaries, but still its so disrespectful and overpowering. For talking with the interrupter personally: at this point I would have to talk with nearly every person in my company.
@Maha_s1999 Жыл бұрын
What if someone is trying to undermine you and the interrupting is part of their strategy to diminish your influence? Would you have that private conversation in that case? Could you make a video for the scenario where group meetings are used by ill-meaning individuals as opportunities to undermine co-workers?
@TheCrain6 ай бұрын
I'm very timid as well. I find just straight up saying "Hold on please or 1 second" and then continuing my sentence to help. I have a lot of practice at this because I have a long distance friend who will literally not pay attention to what you said until their paragraph is over. He tries to interject and when I stop he just continues on. Lol Frustrating sometimes but funny when I think about it.
@glorymkhonza8578 Жыл бұрын
Powerful and useful information, much appreciated
@mach1gtx15010 ай бұрын
I work with a guy like this and he doesn't back down with the stop sign and my continuing to talk. He just talks faster and louder, and he doesn't even care. So how about a back hand instead?
@Carroty_Peg Жыл бұрын
love love love!
@rudbeckia8854 ай бұрын
How bout on the e phone ?
@christopherbowers2685 ай бұрын
If she keeps trying to interrupt me but I can’t understand what she’s saying because her mouth is full, so I still use the hand raise technique? My concern is that she’ll think I’m about to slap her and inadvertently bite down. Asking for a friend.
@robnkellfrancis2518 Жыл бұрын
What about in virtual meetings?
@green4black Жыл бұрын
Thank you - the simple raised hand and “I’m not finished yet” is a confident, assertive, graceful alternative to an aggressive approach I’ve sometimes witnessed in meetings: “Would you let me finish?!” Love your channel!
@kararonin Жыл бұрын
Thank you very much!
@eriyonadams2353 Жыл бұрын
I straight up say I'm not done talking
@pinkpastelstudio10 ай бұрын
Summary: [00:27] 💼 Fight for your talking space. Don't give in to interruptions easily. [03:14] ✋ Raise your hand to signal that you're not finished speaking. [04:22] 👀 Make eye contact with the interrupter to convey your seriousness. [04:51] 🗣 Directly tell the interrupter that you're not finished yet. [06:00] ⚖ It's the interrupter's fault, not yours. Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself. [07:25] 🗣 Have a private conversation with the chronic interrupter to address their behavior. [08:35] 🛑 Reset their expectations and set new boundaries to prevent future interruptions. [09:02] ❗ Use strong language to convey your message clearly and make an impact. [09:43] ❌ Avoid passive communication that dilutes your message and confuses the other person. [10:11] 🛑 Deter interruptions by using phrases that set expectations and request space to speak.
@ArtOnWings2 ай бұрын
I have a friend who just interrupts me whenever she gets excited about the subject and then keeps going and going and goes off on tangents until I get so frustrated I yell At her to shut up. That never works well. Other times I do it more kindly and she finally stops but when I continue, she begins to yawn and yawn and obviously is no longer listening. I basically stopped hanging with her. She has told me That she doesn’t understand why her friends avoid her. I tell her but she is never listening. 🙄😤😡
@archangele18 ай бұрын
Great advice. There is one thing to consider though. Are you taking too long to make your point when talking. I have heard people many times say 'Please, get to the point". My father used to say to me, when I would ramble on about a certain subject I was trying to talk about to get to the point. He would also say 'You're loosing your audience'. I just mention this because a lot of times when I have had to deal with a 'talk over numnum' I noticed that I was rambling on and on about the subject and taking too long to get to the point. Not saying this is always the case, but sometimes it is and it is something to consider.
@weeklyfascinationАй бұрын
"I've got something I want to run by you, and then I want to hear your thoughts." It tells the person you've got something to say, and that they'll get a chance to speak after you're finished. It works.
@flowerchild894 ай бұрын
I have a coworker who does this. It's so irritating. She's rude. She puts her 2 cents in on EVERYTHING!!! All day. Ugggg
@user-xs5dp4gw8e Жыл бұрын
That's what I like about my computer ... I can interrupt anytime I like 😂
@vlogginmylife3 ай бұрын
I can't stand that shirt when they rank over you or won't let you talk then say you got a problem. Crazy ass people.
@vlogginmylife3 ай бұрын
And then mid conversation they change the subject then cut you off again. Stupid. I just stop talking.
@rolandovillareal438510 ай бұрын
Thank you very much Cara. I suffer from childhood ptsd. This podcast is very helpful. It gives me the ability to have control in my conversations and overcome my own fears and insecurities.
@DoctorSoyemi10 ай бұрын
❤ Quiet Speaker! You don't have to allow that interruption. ‘Fight for your talking space’. I got that. Thank you for the Valuable tips 👏🏽
@Irinacraft Жыл бұрын
Just found your channel this morning and binge listening your videos, very helpful for my career, thank you!
@kararonin Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad to hear that Irina! Thank you for binge watching 🤗
@ChristFan868 Жыл бұрын
I'm so happy I found this channel. Thank you Kara.
@kararonin Жыл бұрын
I'm so happy you found my channel! Thank you for watching!
@periteu10 ай бұрын
I just start saying "im talking, im talking", when other shut up, i continue.
@clausmte12 жыл бұрын
I found of all the tips very helpful. Thank you very much for your videos!
@kararonin2 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you found this video helpful Claudia! Thank you for watching!
@cyrilgeorge5644 Жыл бұрын
Very practical tips...thank you Kara
@kararonin Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Cyril!
@vickbennett4637 Жыл бұрын
I just found your channel and great content. I have been in sales for 25 years and your subjects are very enlightening! Keep it up!
@We_Must_Resist Жыл бұрын
Very good. Not aggressive or rude - just factual and open to negotiation.
@kararonin Жыл бұрын
Yes! I'm glad you enjoyed this video!
@transitionsnc Жыл бұрын
I've had men become outright angry when I have said, "Please let me finish my thought," when I am interrupted.
@Himmiefan Жыл бұрын
Keep standing up to them!
@starrystarrynight98228 ай бұрын
That's a shame, isn't it? Very disrespectful.
@transitionsnc8 ай бұрын
Yes. It is. Unfortunately, it happens once in a while.@@starrystarrynight9822
@papabird44254 ай бұрын
I've had women do the same thing. And men. This is a thing people do.
@minato42034 ай бұрын
Then you have encountered an immature human being. And there’s no point to continue my conversation.
@susanw489Ай бұрын
My husband and his cousin both interrupt (any talker) constantly and take hostage of any conversation. It pisses everyone off. I have repeatedly asked him to not interrupt and it does no good.
@sunvaj6754 Жыл бұрын
Kara, your 5 tips are really great! Now, I know how to defense myself. Thanks for sharing.
@rapatel1642 Жыл бұрын
Its time to obliterate the interuptors.
@775shahrukh17 күн бұрын
i love how u use phrasal verbs
@775shahrukh17 күн бұрын
m inspired
@WallyWally-c1y Жыл бұрын
Great advice, thank you
@jzee10073 ай бұрын
Clear, practical advice with examples. Love your channel - wish I’d found you earlier 😊
@chrispine7572 Жыл бұрын
The speech was well spoken thanks a lot for this guidance it's working incredibly keep it up you are helping a lot.
@kararonin Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@dp-r.est.89953 ай бұрын
Thank you, I always hate when two people talk at the same time. As the saying goes, we can sing at the same time but we can’t talk at the same time so I’d let people go ahead and speak.
@rokaskundrotas48056 ай бұрын
That’s a very common and frustrating thing that happens in conversations, especially at work, where important issues are being discussed.
@rdel4575 Жыл бұрын
This is great advice. Thank you.
@kararonin Жыл бұрын
Thank you RDel!
@asifmuniruniverse7732 Жыл бұрын
If they wanna to do Interruption of my words, no problem I think they already doing that
@rebecca.smith. Жыл бұрын
This is excellent !
@kararonin Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@asifmuniruniverse7732 Жыл бұрын
No! you informed me truth about some people thoughts
@asifmuniruniverse7732 Жыл бұрын
I understand their all game of business now
@livinglegendsempire68936 ай бұрын
Great tips
@moonermuhammad420 Жыл бұрын
You are a gem. ❤ from Kenya.
@taliazane73349 ай бұрын
As the meeting leader, some people need to be interrupted. They're aggressive, sending the wrong message to the team, spreading negativity or annoyingly repetitive or rude. If you're being interrupted also think about why.
@womblytenrecpetit2845Ай бұрын
Or just don't stop talking.
@womblytenrecpetit2845Ай бұрын
An email that says it makes me feel insignificant simply tells the stronger person feel confirmed that his strategy to make you look less important is working.