Stop Self Sabotage

1. **Identify Self-Sabotaging Behaviors**: Recognize actions that counter your own interests, like procrastination or fear of commitment.
2. **Acknowledge the Consequences**: Understand that these behaviors lead to stagnation, failed outcomes, and hurt relationships.
3. **Understand the Root Causes**: Reflect on underlying issues such as low self-esteem, fear of change, or a need for control.
4. **Recognize the Protection Mechanism**: See self-sabotage as an attempt to avoid emotional and psychological discomfort.
5. **Commit to Awareness and Effort**: Embrace the need for self-awareness and the willingness to make changes.
6. **Practice Self-Compassion**: Treat yourself kindly, acknowledging that change is a process.
7. **Address Negative Thought Patterns**: Identify, question, and adjust your negative thoughts and beliefs.
8. **Confront Self-Sabotaging Actions**: Challenge your behaviors by understanding their motivations and impacts.
9. **Take Responsibility**: Acknowledge your role in your actions and their consequences.
10. **Start Small**: Take manageable steps towards change to build confidence and momentum.
11. **Be Patient and Persistent**: Recognize that overcoming self-sabotage is a journey requiring time and continuous effort.
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[@smittywit]

To stop hurting your own chances of success, know why you might be scared or unsure of yourself. It helps to be kind to yourself, think happy thoughts, and make small changes. Remember, it's important to keep trying and be patient.

[@dewodna]

🙌

[@smittywit]

Thanks for the comment

[@abundantmason5818]

This def hit! Wow! Amen! Amen! Thank you! God bless you! Shalom❤

[@ojekoma9942]

I truly needed this this morning, the timing is crazy

[@ojekoma9942]

That portion on the death drive is something I truly need to look into, appreciate this piece today