STOP WASTING Your Time & AVOID These RED FLAGS In A Relationship | Lily Collins & Jay Shetty

Are you happy with the relationships in your life? Don’t waste your time and energy with toxic relationships. Learn to spot the characteristics of a good relationship so you can weed out bad relationships from your life.
In this ON Purpose episode, Tune to hear Lily Collins tell Jay Shetty about her past toxic relationship. Learn how she identified the red flags after she left and turned the negative experience into a roadmap of what she wanted in a healthy relationship.
4:29 - Memories of growing up in the UK
8:47 - Toxic relationships
14:15 - Self-esteem
20:19 - The difference between a healthy and a toxic relationship
24:17 - Navigating post-traumatic stress
31:3 - Meditation
36:2 - Lily’s most inspiring role
44:26 - The danger of comparison
46:36 - Playing the role of Emily in Emily of Paris
56:35 - Final five questions
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[@joyugbome]

My number one rule in a relationship is to feel peace. Anything that disturbs your peace, communicate it. And if it is not respected or worked on, walk.

[@danielsea6479]

Peace ? How about Honesty?

[@RockstahRolln]

Amen! Well said! This is absolutely TRUE!!

[@sarahalex2360]

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[@terribustillo1989]

It doesn’t matter how many women or men you can have as relationship if you do not know Christ Jesus in your life, you would never find that person you wished for.

[@newoaknl]

I think that's true. I tried with her, but she wouldn't talk to me, refusal to do so every time. And i felt no peace.

[@gokss1972]

"By all means, fall in love. if it works be happy but if it doesn't, you'll become a philosopher”

[@milah344]

Omg I love this.

[@gokss1972]

@@milah344 thanks.

[@jyotianeja372]

I just got to know why I've become a philosopher. Thanks 😀

[@stanwalkerlover23]

That’s true

[@TheTalkshowwithKingsman]

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[@ValeriaYenisei]

Dating a narcissist is really hard but after that you growth a lot

[@karmabeliever__]

If you are never enough for yourself,,,,you will never be enough for someone else...🙃

[@WardzVloggz]

how can i feel like im enough?

[@karmabeliever__]

@@WardzVloggz Some days are better than others. On those days that go less well, we usually end up being hard on ourselves. Here are some tools to avoid doing so. 1. Keep going. Don't let life's changes throw you off track, but remember that most extenuating circumstances are temporary. Gain more clarity by staying the course and channeling your energy in a positive direction. article continues after advertisement 2. Trust yourself. Believe in your inner resources, no matter what, and you'll grow from the experience. I believe that the answers usually lie within and you are probably smart enough to figure out what you need to do. Give yourself a little time and have patience. 3. Be friends with life. Remember that the world is not out to get you and it does not punish you. You do that to yourself. Learning to focus on other opportunities or in another direction can give you some perspective. 4. Watch your thoughts. Your thinking will never be 100 percent positive. You must learn to dismiss the negative thoughts and stay open to other ideas that will help you move in a positive direction. Start recognizing negative thoughts and use your mind to quell them. 5. Summon the strength you have inside. Learn to access and direct your strengths to the highest good for all concerned. Believe that your strength and intelligence can help you deal with anything. Remember that you have survived worse. 6. Learn to love yourself. You do not have to be who you are today, and your life is not scripted. Changing how you feel about yourself means creating a strategy, gathering some new tools, and making yourself into the person you want to be. A good way to start is to stop doing things that hurt. 7. Don't want too much. Desire can be a powerful motivating tool, but wanting something too much can be very painful and very expensive, so don't live beyond your means or covet the unattainable. Seek your desire, but keep your integrity. article continues after advertisement 8. Don't get insulted. It is wise to be dispassionate about critical comments. Human's will always bump heads, but consider the source, and if it's the other person's issue, ignore it. Learn to respond instead of react, and don't show your ire. 9. Recognize that disappointment is part of life. Even the most successful people have to deal with disappointment, but they've learned how to use it to get to the next level of life. The trick is to process your feelings, then take some kind of action. 10. Deal with your fears. Overcoming fear makes you stronger, and being a little scared can make you better. You want to have butterflies; you just want them flying in formation. It helps to understand and admit your fears. Then you can kick them to the curb. Feel good about yourself, no matter what life brings. Know that each time you wake up, you have another chance to make things better. Don't waste it.

[@Just1Bum]

She needs a better publicist or whoever it is who brings her movie scripts b/c she's a much better talent than most of the movies she's been in. She deserves better. Also, she is too talented to just be an actress. She has so much more to give than just her acting.

[@prokurbah1308]

The one reading this You are phenomenal my friend. you are not alone. You are Loved. You are beautiful, we are all connected through our pain, and in our pain we come out stronger. For all of you hurting inside, for all of you wanting to scream, to jump, to cut, to fall, to pull the trigger,- for all of you who can't do it anymore, I'm here and I pray for you. *Hug if needed - take care of yourself and stay safe❤.

[@susanlong8978]

Thank you!!!❤❤❤

[@TheTalkshowwithKingsman]

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[@sadicr7]

Thank youu! Right back at ya❤

[@SY-sp8uo]

If someone is not looking at you like you are the most beautiful thing in this world, he/she is not the person. MOVE!

[@samjones2015]

Very true

[@Hisgirl222]

Just be careful with that because narcissists will love bomb you to manipulate you.

[@himal_pillay]

Love is the single best and worst thing in the world cause it can bring so much happiness but also so much pain. But either way we learn and grow. We just gotta take that leap of faith 🗻

[@BusyProFitnessFatLossforWomen]

True very true

[@TheTalkshowwithKingsman]

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[@stephaniep1761]

Well said

[@fitnfab6522]

I experienced the same emotional and mental abuse! It’s like she is speaking for me! When I finally left, I was so comfortable leaving. There is a time for everything, and if I or she had left sooner, we may look back and say, oh, I miss him, go back and such. Because the amount of abuse, the heart and mind will no way turn back! That’s why I believe that if I left soon, a part of me may have continued to say what if based on all the comfortable abuses... expect for me, I had no support, no one knows about it, and I’m still dealing with the healing. But the moment I stopped all interacting with him, I started to slowly become strong, feel lighter, and all. I manifested illness, sickness, because of a lot of repression and had no one to express it out so it repressed in the body! But, with Gods saving and love to me, He is helping me heal, and I hope to meet someone who will bring out the best in me and make me shine, rather than destroy me! I am healing and headed towards greatness! Her story is similar to mine, and hearing her speak about her partner that supports her through those anxious moments is refreshing

[@shriya3142]

Hey. I am so glad to hear that things are getting better for you. You're gonna rock and be the best person you ever can, I know it! 💕

[@VerenaSatriani]

Let someone respect you and love as you are. Be brave enough to walk away if they don't. You deserve the best love. Happy Monday to you all dear friends. You are more that lovable

[@BusyProFitnessFatLossforWomen]

Indeed 👍🏾

[@TheTalkshowwithKingsman]

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[@brendaavila7655]

This is so real and at some point love hasn't been as beautiful for some of us. A bad relationship will drain the pores out of you and lower your self esteem. In my case, walking away even while still being in Love was the best choice I ever took in that bad relationship. Today I cry when I realize all the pain I put my self through. Along with those tears, is a smile knowing I overcame that bad love story.

[@sonalibhat5149]

It takes courage to leave a relationship when u are in love with the same person who is also your emotional abuser

[@neverlosehope4091]

Accept the pain and failure. But never stop to learn and fight. Life’s too short 🙂

[@ilovegoddoyou7003]

WE DON'T KNOW WHAT TOMORROW WILL BRING. SO DON'T STAY ANGRY FOR TOO LONG LEARN TO FORGIVE AND LOVE WITH ALL OF YOUR HEART. DON'T WORRY ABOUT THE PEOPLE WHO DONT LIKE YOU. ENJOY THE ONES WHO LOVE YOU.💕💙🌻

[@ladennayoung2939]

That is good advice. Thanks for sharing. Have a blessed day. The joy of the Lord is your strength.

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[@samjones2015]

Very encouraging...can I Dm you please🙏

[@shreosheebanerjee202]

I think the problem that our generation has is the time given to develop a friendship before a relationship starts. When people take time they will get definite hints about what they can expect from the person. Still some people might fool u in the beginning. Because in the beginning, people can be like fantasy. We have to observe how time changes a person. The scale of a genuine or a toxic relationship is whether there is "challenge" or whether it is "trauma". Ur true lover will atleast try to deliver to ur wants amd wishes...not all but atleast as much as possible. Brilliant msg from the podcast. To all people who are hurt, U will find ur genuine love. There will be struggles but it would be a safe and secure space. Just let ur past hurt make u experienced but not bitter. Thanks for readings. Stay blessed.

[@rb19518]

Shreoshee Banerjee Amazing message! 🙏❤️

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@@rb19518 ❤️❣️

[@ladennayoung2939]

Learn when to walk away. Embrace knowing that everyone is not for you, and you are not for them, and that is okay. Ask God to show you how to love Him and self. Everything will work out on God's time. But we must learn how to release things and people that are not beneficial to us first. Seek healing, counseling, and/or therapy. Travel, go to school, take up a new hobby, and do whatever you need to do for you. We are not taught that we matter, and we are not taught that we are enough. This encourage us to seek love, value, and support from anyone or anything outside of ourselves.

[@ilovemydog3542]

Really love this.

[@danieller9778]

Love this🙏🏻💕

[@samjones2015]

Very encouraging...can I Dm you please🙏

[@sandraokeme7808]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@mygoalistohave1ksubscriber141]

You can't breathe while smiling... Glad I made someone smile for no reason. ..bless you all *motive is to spread love, happiness and positivity*

[@himmoykhan5676]

U got me

[@mygoalistohave1ksubscriber141]

@@himmoykhan5676 bless you

[@TheTalkshowwithKingsman]

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[@yaye8672]

May you get 1k subscribers lol

[@gridrek3507]

Love this😂

[@aknightofcamelot]

Sounds like she was dating a narcissist to me. She was love bombed, gas-lighted, manipulated, isolated, and her individual identity was being eradicated.

[@daifukurinn]

Definitely. I was with one for like 5 months and didn't even recognize him as one until a close friend pointed it out.

[@danielsea6479]

@@daifukurinn Sounds like you need to learn your worth! You spot a clown immediately!

[@daifukurinn]

@@danielsea6479 Definitely. I spent the past few months working on that and it's the best thing I've ever done for myself.

[@gotDIBS]

Zac Efron

[@claudiao7743]

I really respect her candor, what she said about that amnesia after a bad fight is so true.

[@PhoenixRisingCollective]

Thank you for sharing this. A lot of people don't even know they're in a toxic relationship and I'm so glad you are bringing awareness to this. We need more influential people doing this.

[@ladennayoung2939]

I am so glad that I watched this. This really blessed me. I needed to hear/see this. Again thank you all for sharing this, and being open to share your story openly to the world. There is healing in being willing and open to sharing your story.

[@ladennayoung2939]

This is a good video. Thanks for sharing. It sound like she was dating a covert narcissist more then likely. They always start out as loving and kind, and the answer to your prayers. Then slowly but surely they start verbally, emotionally, and abusing her. Their goal is to destroy who you are, and who God created you to be. I'm glad that she is out of that relationship, and I'm glad that she is willing to share her story in Jesus name. Amen. God is so good. He keeps us during the dark times, and He brings us out as pure gold. Again blessings to her.

[@angiea5995]

Sometimes we refuse to get out of a toxic circle until later and not God, yet he’s always there to help.

[@dianamartinez1962]

I loved this interview so much! Lilly is so honest and so open about her own experiences, and she truly makes you feel like yo can overcome any setback in life just by being yourself and wanting to grow and be your better version.... Thank you for that!!!

[@dr3nno]

Lily ♥️✨ thank you for being so brave and open to share this with us. I’m in that level of my life where I got out of an abusive relationship. Your words gave a sense of relief and clarity about where I want go from now on .... So much love here for you ♥️

[@prosperousrlt3110]

Jay it's 2am, I'm trying to go to bed and you drop a video, well I'm staying up. Thx man, Godbless.

[@discoveringfev5307]

Lol

[@shamarthomas3449]

So inspiring thks

[@TheTalkshowwithKingsman]

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[@Veronica-xt8tw]

Thank you Jay for sharing this beautiful interview with Lilly! I was amazed to hear that she`s experienced something very similar to what I experienced myself in my life and I`m so delighted to have heard her empowering story and message!

[@mansisachdeva248]

She is so genuine and full of infectious energy. Loved this interview. ❤️

[@lingheshwarikakkanaiah8290]

Lily Collins is one of my favorite actresses, this was such a pleasure to hear her talk about her growth through toxicity and finding her voice. It was enjoyable to listen to a fellow 30-something be so open about her introspection and hear as well as see how happy she is now having learned from her past experiences. Thank you for interviewing Lily!

[@enyaefir4355]

me toooo, been one of my beloved role models since I was a child!

[@jenniferjohnson9419]

Woah this came at the right moment. I just experienced something related to what Lily was saying and I am embarrassed! I have opened up to colleagues and co workers who I have been in relationships for years now and didn't even realize how relatable and close to home this was. I genuinely appreciate you Jay for bringing this to awareness. It was wonderful! Thank you

[@Nikthehermit]

Watching his videos at home, planning a trip to Paris, Emily in Paris comes out, in Paris, Lily collins and jay shetty collab... 🤯

[@LittleThingsinJapan]

Your book is one of the most inspirational one I have read in years! Thanks a lot for bringing us such a gem!

[@ioana-marialazar2566]

Thanks, Lilly for sharing, and Jay for giving her the platform!!!!

[@nathanbackflip]

"Its okay to show someone that you are not perfect, it doesn't mean that they are going to leave."

[@brigitta689]

Really loved this interview. After coming out of a relationship recently it resonated so much. Podcasts, reading and therapy. Such great lessons learnt and love conquers all.

[@ShelTenAwesomeness]

Some good advice here guys stay away from toxic relationships. Value yourself. Great job Jay we are learning from your content.

[@faznakhan7289]

Been in the same situation just like Lilly. Now every relationship freaks me out... Thinking of a Relationship send me chills down my spine now... 😭😭😭

[@leslievalentino-montero8401]

Very brave to speak so eloquently about it. I can relate about this topic. Thank you so much for sharing

[@asia6625]

Sitting at home sick and your book is lifting me up. Thanks

[@anniematthews5040]

What an amazing topic, just love this, it's me me me. Thank you,,,now I know I am not alone,,I got out 4 months ago and I am free. I kept hearing this voice saying no one is going to love you the way I do, or do these things I do for you, then use it against you.( Oh boy that hit home) I prayed, read, talk whenever I could have. I got the strength to walk away, those panic attacks were ugly I almost died. But I am here and I am strong, so much stronger. My health and sanity were more important to me. I had to walk away and left a very lucrative business. But I can sleep better, I have regained my health, my friends and family. I love me. Thanks again for this topice, your next should be how to regain yourself after a toxic relationship.

[@azzandavid3219]

Thank you Jay, I don't have a girlfriend for some months but I'm learning how to be a better version of myself and for my future partner thanks to you!

[@yawrpg]

I'm proud of you! So proud 😭

[@RonTon89]

Wow..what an interview! I whole heartily agreed with every single thing she said. She is amazing! 👏🤩 I hope to find someone like her to share my life with!

Knowing you deeper could make the difference and as Lily said, raise the volume of your voice. We matter and we have to put ourselves first.

[@awesom1awesom13]

Jay you seem like a great wise man and continue on your AWESOME journey. Peace to you and your family

[@sunnieskypark1899]

This is really amazing!! Lily Collins and Jay Shetty in one frame is HEAVEN for me!!! Thank you both so much.. as always... #raw #authentic #real talk.

[@azcactusflower1]

Be whole alone within, no one can complete you. If you are making excuses or losing your voice, move on. Go slow

[@ishitabhattacharya4154]

Love this session Jay...it like helped me to realise so many things about my present relationship.... Thank you so so much❤️😌

[@myhannibal4806]

Great interview, I enjoyed it very much! Many words of wisdom have been shared here!

[@TherapyTalkWithTammyPauline]

Jay you are amazing. Love the dent you are doing in the MH field. Healers are needed more than ever this year. This is why we started a KZbin channel! Keep up the amazing videos! ❤️

[@StreetTalesIndia]

One of the best book i have ever read...totally life changing...thank u jay for the book...more power to you....god bless....

[@hillarydonahue3259]

Sitting here wondering if she and I dated the same guy?

[@iamgraci_]

As someone who was always told to Shut up (I even made a poem about it in the 7th grade haha) in school, with family, and in relationships I can say that being told to not speak up and use your voice is so damaging, reflecting on that and taking time to heal is so so so so imperative to living a truly joyful life.

[@miriamchalmovianska863]

Dear that is heartbreaking but i went through someting similar... many of us do... educational system and parenting need to level up in big way

[@desmarielesch7098]

Loved this episode. Lilly is this the best. I love her vibe so much.

[@sherinadaryanani4392]

Best show I've watched this year, I binged season 1 in 3 days!

[@kawtharahmed7556]

Me too

[@SharonKenny]

Well done to Lilley. Only just saw the last episode of Emily in Paris 5 mins before. Definitely a coincidence as you came up Jay. Great her opening up. Narcissistic people need to be Red Flagged.

[@KassandraG]

I really love this interview❤️Thank You

[@noonsway]

This is the first time in my life I watch a full 1 hour KZbin video ❤️

[@shriya3142]

I rarely ever comment under KZbin videos, but this one connected with me so much I have to share my experience. I'm 19 and have been in three relationships so far. I got into my first relationship when I was 15, it was a wonderful time but he broke up with me because he couldn't handle his emotions of being in a relationship. Fortunately, he's one of the closest friends I have and someone with whom I can share anything without the fear of judgement. He has helped me grow so much as a person. I got into the second relationship when I was 18. It was a horrible experience. My ex treated me badly. He emotionally blackmailed me into sexual activity and always put me down when I tried to be myself. I broke up with him after so much toxicity, but he came after me and tried to win me back. I felt sympathy for a few months and thought that the relationship went bad because of me. Only months later when my third boyfriend treated me with so much warmth I realized how horribly I was treated previously. In October I got together with a close friend whom I had known for a year. We both went through a lot of arguments and episodes of ignoring each other, it was nearly toxic. But somehow we confessed our feelings for each other last month and it was a month of so much happiness. For the first time we were communicating openly with each other. I got to know a side of him which I never saw before. He said that I am the closest person he ever had. But it turns out that he has intimacy issues. I find him avoiding me so many times, being unavailable whenever I need to talk to him, and pulling things under the carpet. I have pretended to notice it, tell myself that if I truly love him, I should have no expectations from him. I don't expect him to be my knight in shining armor, I can stand on my own, but the least I can expect is for him to not hurt me. He is scared of commitment, he is scared that he might fail me and not be the caring person he thinks I deserve. I am so confused now. I don't think we both are ready for a relationship now, because he is of avoidant type and I am insecure about a close one leaving me. But he is my friend too, and I don't want to leave him because we both mean so much to each other. But it hurts every time he ignores me and avoids me, and comes back only when his sense of insecurity is temporarily lessened. I am so confused about what to do and afraid of what might happen. This video helped me calm down and get a clear head. I hope I can find a way to fix things and take care of myself! Thank you Lily and Jay for this episode. 💕 If you are going through a similar experience, I wish you all the best. You are STRONG, you are IMPORTANT and you CAN get through this! I have faith in you ❤❤❤

[@madhuriramchandani1092]

This is so beautiful ❤️ thank you ❤️

[@cancerlight7842]

Brilliant! Ill be bying both of your books, cant wait to read them. Also i loved Emily in paris!!!

[@todayis_Rachaa]

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR EVERYTHING

[@ask_danielle]

Jay, you make my clarity more apparent with every video. Legend. Okay, I'll type feedback tomorrow.

[@lee_annhammant]

Lilly you are amazing, I love watching you in Emily in Paris on Netflix and to watch this interview just embeds how amazing you really are, Well done Jay I am so grateful I got to watch this interview Thank you 🙏💞

[@indyangeltouch]

I love that conversation, thanks to both of you for sharing. 💖🙌🤗

[@takeawalkwithme2742]

One of the best conversations so far. Loved how Jay let her talk so freely.

[@keiph4364]

that's why I love podcasts.

[@Vincent-jr3tr]

yeah lilly spoke like 90% of the time

[@chetanyap3610]

This was basically me and my life. But I know now that I rose like a Phoenix

[@aadityamishra3932]

Today Finally I purchased it ........thanksssss JAY for your incredible words

[@andjelamisovic4472]

I really love this interview! So many beautiful messages. On top of everything, I agree with her 100%. P.S. Emily in Paris is awesome! ❤️🙏

[@vendijazemite5407]

I can relate Lilys story, experiance... We just have to schose our selfs, first... And fel thankful for experiance.💕

[@rechellroxas8697]

Worth listening.. such an interesting experience shared by Lily Collins.✨☺️👌

[@annengei2814]

Jay S your a true inspiration.. I love your videos.God bless you..keep going

[@MC-yp5rk]

I needed this today!

[@girdharilaljaisinghani794]

Absolutely fantastic..so grateful ❣️😇

[@Demic289]

This is discussion is on point! Every girl goes through this! Well maybe 75%!! But the breakthrough is what’s bomb about this conversation

[@user-iw5xr5ew3f]

This video and my current situation actually pushed me to finally take therapy! Thank you

[@deesticco1719]

Wow, I could relate to that when I came to go to college in the US ( UWM) how I had to learn saying words such as Bathroom for example, with American way of saying ... ( a to ae ) then getting teased by friends back home in Sri Lanka! Glad your pod casts contribute to helping people become better and share common issues and resolve.

[@florivana12]

I’m a student going for her Masters in Clinical Psychology currently but knowing all the knowledge of what a good relationship should be like, I was also confusing love with fear. All of those emotions of investing too much of yourself into this person, your toxic partner making all other relationships seem less than his own. And you loosing own identity, deciding to stop this toxic attachment with someone that was always going to make my life difficult was the best choice. Even if you are aware of the signs, even if you still love them, it’s really hard to acknowledge in the damage the person you most loved could do, but you have to realize it. At the end in this situation I learned to love myself first and heal out of everything.

[@justlovemusic8182]

So irrelevant, I'm sorry - pleeease tell me where you got your profile picture from? Which artist is that!? Thank you!

[@arianamaritza]

I was dating someone who said "lets work it out" and he was just talk only... no action was taken on what we agreed.

[@stephaniep1761]

A man wants to be accepted for who he is and does not know how to meet someone's needs that are opposite of his own. He must see his efforts are appreciated, or he will withdraw.

[@AchintKaurOfficial]

Woooo....completely relatable.. though I took responsibility late in life.❤️

[@Avinash-ly9pb]

Think like a monk is an awesome masterpiece. love you, sir, your writing is very simple and lucid and anyone can understand and apply all the concept in daily life. I believe it will help in transforming lives and help in being a better version. I am looking forward to reading it and apply till I am alive . ❤🤗😘

[@marciabyrd6590]

Excellent interview!

[@mikefitchNYC1971]

Awesome video Jay!

[@manchukondanandini9234]

Jay Shetty fan forever 💓

[@Jpooja.06]

Jay I don’t miss any of your videos.. huge fan !

[@travelwithayush_]

🙌🙌 wisdom coming!

[@suzylovebug3164]

I will listen to anything with lily in it

[@dippiwaa7258]

Thank you Jay bro and Lily. I hope both of you are well.😁

[@theawakenedreality]

A lovely interview!

[@sincerelyyoursslowliving9304]

Wow, what Lily said about her Toxic relationship, happened to me too. I recently just got out from one. Now I just want to better myself and focus on me.

[@jrot4953]

wow she's is speaking my situation, i recently let go

[@SanctuaryVibe]

It would be great to have a link to Lilly's book. Fabulous interview, I could relate to SO much

[@akosuasherry6384]

This is soo me trying to find my self tanks a lot for sharing

[@jadhurshanashangar]

It’s incredible listening to the book.

[@marciahill6102]

Such a nice interview. Love Emily in Paris. 💋😍

[@paridhishah9893]

Loved it It helped me a lot❤❤

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I Love her she is perfect, glad this interview happen showed to me❤❤❤❤❤🙏🏻

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Amazing ❤️full of energy

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Thanks

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Saw your book on sale here in Cape Town, South Africa Jay. Will definitely go and buy it end if this month.

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omg yes!! You got Lilly Collins! She's a gorgeous, smart goddess!

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Lifes are changing for you.❤

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Thank you.

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This book is quite insightful