How To Never Be Lost For Words

[@MasculineMan]

It's too bad youtube does not promote channels like this, it's clear that you care about your audience and want to add value to them, oppose to the other money grubbers on KZbin. If you ever want an animation done for you you, let me know :) Keep up the great work Charlie

[@FishyFox]

Masculine Man Dude, this is sweet! I hope he sees this because it's obvious that him caring about his audience makes us care back!

[@Yonatan24]

What exactly makes you think YT doesn't promote channels like this one?

[@Gerard-uo9zb]

Yonatan24 Because of the fact that they don't perhaps.

[@Yonatan24]

So the 100 million views this channel has, from KZbin promoting his videos hundreds of millions and even billions of times, doesn't count?! I agree that this is a great channel but come on...

[@Gerard-uo9zb]

Yonatan24 Let me make myself clear, in comparison to the absolute trash channels such as the Paul brothers, this channel isn't promoted enough for the quality content it produces.

[@StephenRogue]

As an introvert, every conversation is a high pressure situation

[@spaak3465]

Oof the relateableness is of the charts

[@fryphilip7474]

Stephen Arellano buy the program

[@BaioWithMayo]

started using these tips and now there is sexual tension with every person i meet, idk which was better

[@flamecrew9atroblox958]

Yes lol

[@Dubhe68]

@@BaioWithMayo dude 😂😂😂

[@aNighthawk]

"do the opposite" Interviewer: Charlie: you're hired

[@maxclark5244]

HawQ Interviewee?

[@MrJayXo]

@@maxclark5244 No, he did the opposite. Instead of the interviewer saying you're hired, the interviewee told the interviewer he's hired

[@_viridium_]

@@ARMYALEX1869 "No, YOU'RE fired"

[@mukulkopulwar]

Lol 😂😂😂

[@mikethompson2745]

I had a friend who hired himself like that. It's actually a common tactic to interview the interviewer to help you get a job.

[@MrLazini]

Watch this vid in 2x for 20 times faster thinking.. Works trust me

[@hellterminator]

Shouldn't that be 100 times faster?

[@mswriter3612]

WOW it works..I had to speed up my listening and my brain adapted. I needed this.. I can do this with many videos..

[@MrLazini]

Not sure, we'll have to investigate it

[@Peidaqsai]

I've always done it with all videos. Your mind can get all the informations normally and it consumes less time, your mind just needs to adapt to the new speed

[@varunr4526]

Lazini lmaaaooo

[@ispitmygumonthesidewalk9753]

I watched this video 10 times already now I’m think at 100x speed

[@mikethompson2745]

If each time made you 10 times faster, you'd be 10,000,000,00x speed. 10^10. ;P

[@godzilla8690]

Logic level🦸

[@GreenZapperZ]

It sure didn't improve your math as far as this comment shows.

[@Ezra_27]

*YEAH, IT'S BIG BRAIN TIME.*

[@donnersmom]

Ha ha ha... You are great

[@Diegoaub]

I used the "hey, I don't think I've met you yet. I'm charlie", now people call me charlie. How do I fix this?

[@veganminimalistpastor]

Just roll with it. You are a Charlie now. Accept it, move on, and see if you can find another Charlie out there who can't figure out how to substitute proper nouns in pre-set introductions.

[@CharlieilrahC]

I made this mistake once before as well. You just have to accept your new life as a Charlie

[@miguelpereira9859]

Just change your name smh my head

[@thomasfiesel2898]

Damn you Charlie, go back to Vietnam! 😝

[@ananyan5686]

@@miguelpereira9859 shake my head my head?

[@annocount7990]

Teacher: Did you do your homework? Me: You are asking me if I did my homework? Teacher: Yes. Did you do it? Me: Hey, I don't think I've met you yet. I'm charlie

[@ekin4691]

LOOOL

[@kakarot1568]

🤣😂😂😂

[@s2knightryder]

LOL

[@noeliamontalban7087]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@mehranzare-bidoky1541]

LOL

[@DashingPartyCrasher]

I'd like to expand on Charlie's summary: 1. Do the opposite of what your body wants to do: Take a deep breath, put your arms down, and stand "tall" with shoulders back, chest out. 2. Have a "go-to" phrase that you can say each time you meet someone in a certain situation, such as "Hi! I don't think we've met yet. I'm (your name)." Your go-to phrase(s) can be anything that have worked well for you. 3. Know your framework or "step by step" process. For example on a date, start with fun banter, then share each other's values, and then make longer eye contact or even non-sexual touching. (Charlie has a link to the different frameworks.) 4. If you ever feel lost in a conversation or are unsure of what to say, you can repeat what you (think you) just heard as a question. This forces the other person to repeat or clarify what they said.

[@aur9035]

Oh! Thank you so much!

[@unknownface284]

Great work, mate

[@tarylouisa7054]

Thanks a lot !

[@giantchook3368]

The Dale Carnegie Conversation Stack is a great tool to use to keep a conversation moving.

[@selfdalireza4826]

Well done Gary

[@Trophonix]

I walked up to a woman and said "Hey, I don't think I've met you yet. I'm Charlie" and shook her hand We're married now She still thinks my name is Charlie

[@creeperawman4779]

?!

[@calebmills985]

😂😂

[@darkstar3656]

Nice one

[@unknownface284]

😀

[@roxxyhaze]

😂😂😂😂

[@pawefornalik6638]

First time driving a car: Instructor: stop on the red Me: *do the opposite*

[@JermaineToussaint]

Paweł Fornalik best one😹😹

[@isabelac4758]

Turn on left.. Do the opposite lol

[@Cher1111]

I failed my drive test because of my instructor she’s a b¡tch she also yelled at me

[@brickabang]

@@Cher1111 Yeah they told me that I’m not allowed to go at 80 mph so I went at 400 and still failed

[@lincolnlogs9907]

I just asked my barber what he did for a living...

[@melissa48027]

So... what does your barber do for the living?

[@philly8068]

One billion IQ😂

[@TrueJEMtheArtist]

Lincoln logs lmao that’s just as bad as my situation: Server: here you go and enjoy your food Me: thanks you too

[@housebrigade]

Looking at ur haircut he probably turned around and said he was a butcher

[@ryantheapple7682]

Lol

[@joostvanrens]

I start all conversations with: "hey do you speak English?" Most co-workers don't even talk to me anymore

[@yokaibyte2133]

Hey, do you speak English anymore? Try that... 😄

[@QuackersMcCrackers]

Maybe they didn't speak English...

[@savagenovelist2983]

314 likes. The math lover inside me: *joy intensifies*

[@terrybyrd3738]

I'm gonna use that one at work - thanks!

[@petershelton]

They must not speak English

[@NightOwlGamingz]

Me talking to a girl that I have a crush on in class: “hey, do you speak English?”

[@yetypicalmusic1869]

Her: *Angry Vietnamese*

[@thedeadlinger6992]

School: *Turns into a Vietcong infested Forest*

[@mikeymorrison272]

@@thedeadlinger6992 *Fortunate Son plays*

[@dabruh5741]

SOILDER:FAILS BUT GETS A SUPPLIER FOR BLUE MAGIC AND IS NOW A INFAMOUS DEALER IN NEW YORK NAMED BUMPY JOHNSON

[@roelinamackintosh5376]

👏👏

[@candyheartsart]

Thank you so much for creating this content! As someone who has ADHD and Autism I struggle so much with social interactions and you are really helping me learn more about what to do, even if I don't really understand it.

[@DaveE99]

Even for me just adhd, there is so many layers to things humans do. Understanding it can help but is different than learning how to relate to it to some extent.

[@CuriosityCulture]

I usually don't like talking head videos. But you just have that energy man! Love it

[@Charismaoncommand]

Thanks man!

[@grivar]

Not sure this qualifies as a talking head video. A bit too much torso for that :P

[@mahesh-re5ln]

Harshil Patel tom

[@EscapingElyisum]

it's almost like he does charisma tutorials

[@joshmesser374]

Not even once in a lifetime? That's a good music video come on

[@SelfMadeMillennial]

I didn't start doing this first tip until a few months ago when someone told me, "Anything you feel, besides physical pain, you have the power to change." This has got me to start controlling my breathing, taking control of my feelings. Once you even have even just mild results it feels amazing!

[@saarahturtle]

This video is so needed for me. When I feel like there’s a lot of attention on me (from presenting or even putting my hand up in class to group situations) I feel like my mind goes foggy and I can’t think straight. I’m usually pretty confident but I become a different person and it’s the worst because I feel like there’s a physical boundary that I need to put the work in to stop.

[@Kavehbussy]

Social Anxiety? Because I have that too...

[@bellaw.5195]

That happeneds to me too!

[@saarahturtle]

LotusStream OceanMermaid I never thought that I had social anxiety. I might look into it.

[@Kavehbussy]

No no... if you doubt you have that, you might decide yourself that you have social anxiety. Go to a KZbin channel named Vanessa Van Edwards and look at her recent about how to deal with social anxiety. This might help you.

[@PracticalInspiration]

Responses like these are usually because you're so focused on yourself that you lose confidence. The techniques in this video are genuinely helpful. One other thing is working on your mindset as you'll develop your confidence. Do things, routines, that put you in a frame of mind that will have you believe the day ahead is going to be an amazing day. You'd be amazed how much of a positive effect this will have. In addition, practice! Seriously, if you get nervous in a group setting, then don't be afraid to push yourself to speak your mind. At first it's hard, but I promise it gets easier

[@xXSaberToothSamuraiXx]

How to be Light Yagami 101

[@Kavehbussy]

But how can I stop time to think things like for five minutes?

[@xXSaberToothSamuraiXx]

Ask Ryuk ;)

[@deepakdahiya7471]

He really should go through that topic because that man is the idol human being.

[@LuisCarrots]

L and lighto

[@geryldpina7091]

Definitely not Light Turner

[@brayjsanimation6165]

is talking to my robber "Hey, do you speak english" *gets shot* "I don't think we've met yet, I'm Charlie."

[@adadadrian9117]

i tried this in my kickboxing lesson. i opened up, found a solution to handle the punch and my partner broke my nose, thanks dude!

[@iamyouare4308]

You couldn't knock the froth of a cappuccino

[@nathanjuan8737]

situation? application.....

[@metas1779]

This guy's the guy! These vids are super helpful without being over the top like some other stuff I've seen. Well done.

[@Charismaoncommand]

~ Glad you're digging them!

[@DMM-cv5fh]

In the Marines, we are taught a phrase over and over when dealing with high pressure situations- “slow is smooth, smooth is fast.” What do you think about that? I thought about that especially on your first point.

[@BULLTRONHERO]

03DM M240 My Soul Mirror was in the army; she taught me many things, along with “slow is smooth, and smooth is fast” and it has been absolutely one of the most consistently useful bits of mindware I’ve yet acquired.

[@epicmautauche2233]

I'm not in the military or in the marines, im 14. What does that mean?

[@DMM-cv5fh]

Epic Mautauche It means to slow down your movements and thought process enough for your rational mind to keep pace. For example, in Boot Camp the drill instructors are constantly screaming at you to go faster and faster and faster while you are required to perform different things from simply unlocking a combination lock to disassemble and assembling crew served weapons for cleaning and maintenance. You have to be fast and accurate in your movements, because in a combat situation your body movements will often go faster than your mind which makes you spaz out. So just take a breath remember slow is smooth and smooth is fast and you will find that what you’re doing is much faster than if you just go as fast as I can but really all you’re doing is shaking and spazzing out.

[@epicmautauche2233]

@@DMM-cv5fh Oohh, okey thankss

[@GoblinQueen2008]

I found your comment very helpful and have learned something today. Thanks for sharing that. Also, kudos on the way you treated 14-year old 'Epic Mautauche'...your patient explanation, I think, clarified it for more than just him/her and we have gained valuable insight on something we didn't know that we didn't know. You have the makings of a great teacher, as well as, no doubt, being as chilled as a cucumber in an iceberg when under pressure. Awesome stuff. :}

[@thesquirteler4520]

Charlie, thank you again for your words of wisdom. They really do work! I was in a public setting all of today, and just by opening up my arms and rolling back my shoulders, I was totally at ease! Thank you for your dedication to this channel, it really does make a difference.

[@Charismaoncommand]

~ That's awesome :-)

[@randynelson5998]

How is this guy so genius. The sheer simplicity of the things he says blows my mind. “Hey, I haven’t met you yet. I’m Randy.” That is the simplest easiest thing I’ve never thought of. You can say that to ANYONE you don’t know and it’ll just unfold into a conversation. Thank you Charlie, I’ve watched your videos for years and you’ve helped my interactions so much. There’s just nowhere else to get this help!! Not everyone has the confidence to trial-and-error human interaction

[@nikitbarapatre]

I am thinking only 8.23X faster please help.

[@salaarsultani]

omae wa mou shindieru ! :D

[@saiarakawa]

@@salaarsultani NANI!!

[@gavingregory1180]

Bazinga

[@thegoodkidboy7726]

bing bong

[@angrywaffle2860]

Slacker.

[@CJWhyte-f7y]

1.) change your state by doing the physically opposite -High pressure situations make you do the opposite. We need to do the opposite of what you want to do. -Example. If your bieng critisized rather than close your arms. Open them 2.) know first thing you can say or do in a high pressure situation. -know what you can say 3.) know your framework -start with first fun stuff then share values 4.repeat what the person said in a question. -it gets people to clarify

[@DepressionTalks1]

These tips are helpful for sure. I think overall you just have to be yourself, and be okay with slowly growing.

[@DepressionTalks1]

Solutionist ' Hm.. slow growth is better than no growth.

[@woodsofchaos]

And it would have been equal to normal growth too, until you called it slow growth.

[@Shifterfire]

In personal growth, usually any meaningful growth is slow. And if you think it's fast, you realise later you haven't actually grown that much.

[@DepressionTalks1]

Himanshu Singh Cool perspective:]

[@DepressionTalks1]

Shifterfire Never thought of it that way:]

[@njamison1000]

"Do the opposite of what your body tells you to do." *twerks against management table* Job Interviewer: "What are you doing?" Me: *In a more relaxed tone* "Relieving my stress. Why the concern?"

[@_omaradnan]

no you should say "what am I doing ?"

[@abdulvahid4203]

TurtleTroll lol.

[@Creepernator]

Hahahah, this made me laugh out loud.

[@sockpuppet2109]

@@_omaradnan b b bbbb:b ::g

[@sallymichael2355]

NO U DIDN'T Hahahaha how did u even think of that

[@X2StealthZeikon2X]

I can't express how thankful I am for coming across this channel. As a person who has gone through a very rough year on my personal self worth, it's amazing how motivational these videos are to get myself back on my feet; whether its taking mental or physical notes on my diary. Keep up the good work!

[@AirElegant]

Take a deep breath. Oxygen is our best friend

[@hellterminator]

The Apollo 1 crew might not agree with that.

[@boslyporshy6553]

Doesn't directly injecting oxygen into your blood stream kill you?

[@hq4290]

Bosly Porshy as does injecting any gas would reallt.

[@Horesmi]

*hyperventilates in front of a crowd*

[@EB8-1.1]

Even if i‘m a Fish ?

[@GnosticTraveller]

I’ve been watching you for two years now and love how you still bring new skills to bear!

[@Charismaoncommand]

~ Thanks Cody! Appreciate you sticking with us since the beginning. :-)

[@harithomas1911]

I just wanted to say thank you so so much. These videos help someone who has a behavioural disorder to read other behavioural traits and stop them from feeling lonely and unwanted. On behalf of myself and others like me, thank you ever so much!!!

[@SergioRugerio]

Charlie i have recently seen all your *infront of the camera* videos, it is amazing how much you have imporved your presentation skills, honestly i dont think there is a better presenter considering that you only make one take videos, with no cuts. I would love if you could go deeper on explaining how you prepare the videos. I know you already did a videos called "zero notes needed", but if you could go a little deeper it would be awesome. Thanks for sharing amazing, mind shifting content.

[@PracticalInspiration]

This is what I was thinking, his on camera charisma is amazing when you consider the subtleties of how he communicates. In general, I feel they've really done great work with how they generally edit videos, it's really come a huge way.

[@Up_wa_rd]

Good stuff; here's my summary: • If there's something valuable to win, a high-pressure situation is usually the gate-keeper, e. g. dates, exams, job interviews etc. • 3 strategies to excel in high-pressure situations: 1. Do the opposite of what u'd do by instinct □ We tend to do the wrong thing by instinct, that is get nervous, shut down, close off etc. □ Better: Consciously open ur body language, take a deep breath & calm down □ Think of the rituals athletes use to change their physical state 2. Know the first thing to do/say in a particular type of situation □ Have a standard go-to-strategy, e. g. particular ice-breakers for meeting new ppl at networking events □ e. g. "Hey! I don't think I've met u yet. I'm [insert name]." 3. Know ur frameworks for each type of situation □ There are many different frameworks (due to processual regularities), e. g. for dates, first impressions, case studies etc. □ e. g. good dates have 3 elements (in that order): 1. Intrigue / interest (first spark; light fun; air of mystery) 2. sharing of values, ambitions etc. (make a deeper connection) 3. physical / sexual tension (comfortable long eye contact etc.) □ Use these frameworks as mental checklists to navigate these situations • Extra tip: Caught off-guard by a question? Rephrase the last words as a question ("Blablabla. What do u think of X?"->"Oh, u want my view on X?") ○ That gives u valuable time to change ur state, think etc. ○ Bonus points, if ur opponent even elaborates the initial question as a follow-up

[@ryansecord8071]

Step 1: Stop caring.

[@Tubeytime]

Step 2: Be based.

[@makeithappen8906]

Golden

[@htoodoh5770]

Teodor Lukas what?

[@DirectlyFromMusic-DFM]

Ryan Secord this works 100 % if not then u still care but when u dont give shit anymore ur rock solid but yes u do end up as a litte cold on the inside haha

[@kenonerboy]

If i didnt care I'd leave...

[@freshprince8919]

I had a similar experience with this, had this one friend that always attacked me in a social situation, I tried this technique. after a while though all the humility, I started speaking up ... go for it!

[@MCFishNuggets]

Boss: you haven’t been reaching your goal, your on thin ice Employee: hi, I don’t think we’ve met

[@nabeel9187]

This channel has improved my life and mind a thousand times more than anything else.I found all the videos I have watched on this channel useful. Thank You

[@moritzschroder]

Loved the video! Staying sharp under pressure has been a problem for me for a while now... when I create content, such as blog posts or my youtube videos, I can take my time with thinking and aligning my thoughts. But when put on the spot I tend to crash and burn. Definitely something I need to work more on in the future! 😉

[@sdaisyclaire]

This video just magically appears right after I worked in a shift where we were severly understaffed and a crowd of people exceeded our projections. Awesome!

[@nicspinks]

I really liked the zoom in when you took a deep breath

[@creampuff966]

camera angle intensifies

[@QwertyTSecond]

One thing I'd add is knowing what you want, gearing a framework to a specific goal you want and figuring out if you're on the right track to that.

[@imransurbakti4417]

"OH MY GOD! YOU KILLED THAT GIRL?" "heyyy, do you speak english?"

[@Baz87100]

Farewell.

[@shirothehero0609]

People, this stuff is gold. I used to have people tell me I was bizarre for "always thinking about situations constantly" and it was just my OCD when I'd ask if other people did that. (I think about every conversation I've had or will have over and over and over and why I said and why they said, etc) Turns out, if you think all the way through possible responses and your answers and again, their responses, you can literally queue up an automatic response to anything a person says because you've already 'loaded the magazine' and just have to shoot off your response. Because you've already "experienced" the situation in your head, it's like muscle memory and it's all right there for you to use. Sure there are an infinite number of responses, but you can ALWAYS narrow it down to just a couple of the most probable situations yeah, this is good stuff.

[@sebastianelytron8450]

Under pressure? Stay cool as ice, ice, baby.

[@iadjjisciajad3682]

It's the terror of knowing what the world is about

[@williams7787]

Watching some good friends screaming let me out

[@thomas.02]

best reference ever, unfortunately not quite original ;)

[@fclp67]

du du du dudududu

[@akashchoudhary8162]

But ice melts under high pressure...

[@celticsfangreen]

You’re a genius making a video and then linking 4 more of your videos that tag along with the main concept no wonder you have so many views

[@talkingwalex2163]

Who else is here to learn how to human? 🙋‍♀️

[@shriharir6450]

Meeee

[@savagenovelist2983]

Turtle behind video screen with pfp of some random kid: Same...

[@SoulTouchMusic93]

Gotta prepare to sneak by in case they decide to raid area 51 again ...

[@TorontosFinestKrew]

I’m good enough to trust in my recklessness

[@davidthor4405]

I mean I do have autism, so yeah

[@deathsoulger1]

This channels content is changing my life radically. Highly recommend this to anyone

[@Blessthemartyr132]

I love every video you make and I think you do such a great job gettingyour message across. I've definitely learned a lot from you and thanks so much.

[@SeffyWeffyy]

The fact that there are no cuts or jumps in this make it so much better. Nice

[@vm3mm3mv29]

This channel is for aliens that want to mingle between humans

[@thenoblemute7669]

vm3m m3mv ~ oh no they've figured me out

[@ishpeeedy]

You got me! Pshhht! Alert master Zucc ASAP!

[@machduel]

Jokes aside there is a lot of stuff that he covers that you'd expect people to have already (charisma wise) then you go out into the world and everyone's a jerk.

[@mihlalipotwana7448]

You dont have to be soo loud

[@scrapthatwithmatt9520]

Mythron na, not everyone, just the majority (80%)

[@h4468]

I hope you know how much impact your videos make in the world. You have literally shifted my entire life and how I view it

[@PracticalInspiration]

Great video as always! This video focuses heavily on high pressure social situations, but the principle ideas can be extended to other pressure situations too. I've personally worked a lot on coping with stress myself and doing so allows me to achieve so much more in life.

[@tarikalakkad2005]

Man can't get enough of your videos. I see sincerity in every single video.

[@alexanderSnilsson]

These are all great tips I've tried to apply lately to varying degree. However, I must say that working on being conscious and aware throughout the day, really has paid off good to these high-pressure situations. It's like I've gotten better at "slow-mo" down the time to think and be less reactive. This is the more longterm fix that also requires tons of work. I've been using meditation, journaling and just focusing on being more present and aware. Thanks for GREAT content as always Charlie, /Alex

[@Charismaoncommand]

I'm getting hooked on meditation. Definitely more videos on that soon!

[@alexanderSnilsson]

SWEET! I'm starting to fall in love in it as well

[@patriciavideojourn9117]

i have been watching their videos since the quarantine every morning as I prepare breakfast. Very helpful!

[@MagicLink43]

I've recently had trouble formulating my sentences and expressing what I want to say. Any advice that can help me overcome this hurdle?

[@Charismaoncommand]

My guess is that the number one thing that would help you is slowing down. Often times we think we are speaking much more slowly than we are (if you've watched yourself on tape, it becomes obvious). Take a deep breath, collect your thoughts without filler words, and take advantage of the silence. In addition to giving you a few extra seconds to think, it can be great for commanding attention if you don't interrupt it with filler words

[@Charismaoncommand]

My guess is that the number one thing that would help you is slowing down. Often times we think we are speaking much more slowly than we are (if you've watched yourself on tape, it becomes obvious). Take a deep breath, collect your thoughts without filler words, and take advantage of the silence. In addition to giving you a few extra seconds to think, it can be great for commanding attention if you don't interrupt it with filler words

[@MagicLink43]

Charisma on Command I think you're right. Many times I scramble through thoughts in my mind and can't seem to get anything out. Slowing down will definitely help. Looking back, I also do tend to interrupt silence and use filler words often. I will make a conscious effort to stop that. Thank you very much!

[@PracticalInspiration]

lol, I was about to respond with the same suggestions as the guys at Charisma on Command (not sure if it was Charlie or Ben). Another thing that might help is consider where your focus is. Often when we stumble on words or feel nerves it's because our focus is so heavily on ourselves rather than who we're talking to. For example, if you struggle in social situations, one really good thing is to keep asking questions, because if you ask others about themselves, then your focus is on them, not yourself. This can be a great confidence booster as you feel more comfortable in the conversation. I'm aware that may not be an answer to your specific issue, but hopefully identifying where your focus is when speaking will help you understand how to overcome it.

[@dannyclub09]

I'm like this. And then I try and jokingly address the fact I'm being inarticulate but then am inarticulate in doing that and come across as a complete mess. Charlie is right though, I slow down and try and form the sentence in my mind first, even if it means pausing for a while mid-sentence, and it does help.

[@Iron-Bridge]

I'm glad this channel has passed the million subscriber mark. Lot of value to be found. You're doing very well and I wish you the very best on your rise. Cheers!

[@missestomlinson99]

cashier: that’ll be 1.99$ me: “think fast” also me: hands her 25 cents

[@aleksszukovskis2074]

Her: "thing fast" *hands change*

[@parkerhalter7316]

Idk why but that got me dying

[@saarahturtle]

Even after a year of subscribing to this channel, I can’t get over how you managed to do these videos so well in one take

[@claeswelinder2014]

I can’t overemphasis the value in making a habit of visualizing possible scenarios and mentaly practice routines. This might require you to put down the phone and study your surroundings though ;)

[@sgnome1725]

Darn

[@CBLK159]

Phone bad speak good

[@rodrigozanabria2978]

@@CBLK159 yes

[@Resunaa]

Oh people dont already do this? It's actually nice to visualize a universe with a conversation that I'm anticipating. Sometimes you can take replies you used in that scenario and place that in a real convo you're having, almost like reading a script from your memory. The more you do it the more accurate you can become and the more fluent your sentences will be.

[@bsivoljr]

@@Resunaa The crazy thing is that Im really good at this and can visualize tons of scenarios, however I never practice this.

[@TheDenisedrake]

Fabulous! Four times a year I am the lobby manager for huge dance recitals (300+ dancers). There are always a few parents or grandparents etc. who think they should be let in early, can go backstage or have some other issue that I have to say "no" to. I love the open body language and repeating the question or request. Thanks!

[@thewarhammer6606]

Me: *Doing Tai Chi in the office's waiting room* Secratary: Sir... are you ok? Me: Can't talk. Im doing my interview ritual

[@cs_soldier5292]

Unlike other channels he directly entered into subject. Nice video

[@abirdonalilactree]

Under pressure, I'm pretty sure I'm going to say 'Hello, I'm Charly', now 😀

[@amymartinez6477]

Funny if they are like oh you saw the video too!?

[@fyrgebrc4666]

I'm Autistic and have panic disorder. This channel helps so much with social situations - thank you!

[@Charismaoncommand]

~ Glad you're finding the channel helpful. :-)

[@physical_insanity]

Thing is, even if I do say what I want, I still end up kicking myself thinking "why didn't I say this today?" even though it probably went pretty well.

[@LegacyFarmandHomestead]

As someone with agoraphobia and social anxiety, this channel has helped me immensely. Thank you so much Charlie.

[@Charismaoncommand]

~ Glad you found the channel helpful. :-)

[@vik.1903]

HOW TO MAKE ME CLICK HERE 10X FASTER

[@lauragriffin3368]

Wow! This is great advice! I’m constantly surprised at how much value any one of these videos offer. They’re just awesome! They package up so many different things into one context so it’s useful immediately. Thank you for making this!

[@Charismaoncommand]

~ Happy to make it! Glad to hear you're getting value from our videos. :-)

[@charitytoke6461]

Superb video. But, let me share this here knowing it can uplift someone that comes across it. Effective financial management made me rich and it is all you need if you want to build a strong financial future tomorrow. I started with 1000USD, 3 years ago I invested in a diversified stock market and fast forward to now I am worth 500000USD and am currently finishing my 8 unit apartments. I'm only 35 years old. Diversified stock investments have always proven to be very profitable, especially with the help of experts.

[@catherinehughes2155]

I'm really impressed. At 35, i was worth a little over $200,000 from * in the stock market. But what you've done with your *finances* and numbers you worth, is pure genius.

[@torkwaskipolischez8484]

You have done well. It's people like you who set the benchmark for people like us to know that achieving financial stability and transition of status from being comfortable to wealthy is possible with the right *investment* plan.

[@arlingjonathan4263]

I'm curious, is *investing* in a diversified stock *market* a pretty lucrative venture? Can you share how you achieved these figures?

[@charitytoke6461]

@@arlingjonathan4263 Experience plays a key role when *investing* in diversified *stock markets*, which is why I have Rachel Hilda, whose experience has greatly helped me persevere in the diversified *stock market*. For three years she helped me grow my portfolio using her diversified knowledge of the financial *market*.

[@arlingjonathan4263]

@@charitytoke6461 Thank you very much for the response, I don't know if you can share a medium that I could use to communicate with Rachel. It's really a tough time for me due to inflations and an additional source of *income* would be exactly what I need for me in these unprecedented times and does she accept a minimum amount for startup?

[@Brah-bb8of]

Hey, what's up? I haven't met you yet but you're reading my comment. The reason that I am here watching this video with you is because I haven't been social with anyone when i was quarantined during the Covid-19 pandemic. This youtuber is very skilled in helping me with social skills, when I talk to people, I would first introduce myself while emptying my mind and only after the introduction, I will read the other person like a book and if you cant read them, just ask what do you do for a living? It's actually really easy when you think about it

[@thatguyrajat]

Thanks for this one Charlie 👍

[@Charismaoncommand]

~ Our pleasure! Thanks for watching. :-)

[@Rohil319]

I'm addicted to this channel and been binge-watching since earlier this day. Quality content.

[@Charismaoncommand]

~ That's awesome Rohil, appreciate it!

[@klubkudu]

Hey Charlie, I was just wondering if you could cover some texting or online behaviour that is charismatic. Like a certain way of texting because texting is a pretty big part of dating and relationships these days. Just a suggestion, keep up the good work!

[@jonneyblack4458]

I've seen and read a lot of stuff on this topic, and this is the best video I've EVER seen. Very informative and clearly explained.

[@xZankiohx]

I came here in order to learn how to think 10x faster under pressure but now I can think 12x faster than normal under pressure. How can I go back please?

[@Charismaoncommand]

Watch on .75 speed. 9X should be close enough

[@xZankiohx]

Charisma on Command thank you! Hahahahaha.

[@vm3mm3mv29]

Charisma on Command 😂😂😂😂

[@Infaviored]

That was actually really funny

[@gcraib]

If you have self belief then you won’t feel the same panic and may even enjoy some of these situations. You might not say the right thing but you will be more relaxed about it and even be able to laugh about your mistakes or imperfections. That’s charisma.

[@ukaszs3986]

Boss: Kowalski where is that crucial report I wanted on my desk yesterday? Me: Hey, do you speak english?

[@joppekim]

I have some friends that I can’t even get past the small talk phase. We’ve known each other for like 3 years now and our conversations still feels so shallow and unsatisfying to me. Where we ask each other stuff like how was work and what have you been up to lately. It’s getting to the point where I don’t know what to ask about anymore, and I’ve started to stop visiting as much because of this. Small talk feels like a waste of time and doesn’t get me anywhere.

[@chiemikaononiwu4985]

The emoji he slid in at 5:14 💀💀💀

[@CaptainCocaine]

I'm surprised I don't see more comments about that.

[@flueepwrien6587]

@@CaptainCocaine exactly, best part of the video

[@DemetriosLevi]

This is the first video of yours I've watched, and I can see why you have over one million subs...this info is GOLD, man!

[@nathanh5448]

Hi charlie, I wanted to ask you, can you do a video on Jeff Goldblum?

[@Charismaoncommand]

He's definitely an interesting character. Maybe for the new Jurassic World? I'll take a look and see if it makes sense

[@victoryzy]

Especially his interviews with Conan!

[@epharonin1524]

Got to do one on Rodney Dangerfield, too 😁

[@suryahr307]

I have the most important interview of my life in 2 days and I get this video recommended. I didn't even watch any videos related to interviews!!

[@1dgram]

Or you could get into a bunch of different extreme sports that seem really dangerous but in actuality aren't that bad and eventually you'll rarely get adrenaline rushes any more and when you do they'll be much sublimed. Then the only thing is that teammates might wonder why you don't panic when something goes really wrong; you just weigh the options and calmly choose one; it can really freak some people out and make them wonder if you really care.

[@raynelrodriguez5616]

Man this Chanel is hugely underrated people should really look in to this guy

[@TrashReturns]

Your biceps just looks... handsome. Ever thought about a video on your workout?

[@MG-iq6lr]

Excellent at speaking and a fast thinker himself.. no pauses, no ums and arrs. Impressive

[@shaun_rambaran]

"Yes, Charlie. The proposal. Weren't you listening?..."

[@judet7340]

I want to cry like I know these tips and I remember doing them before i get in but when I am in that situation in that moment I forget and close down and start being awkward. it's like a roller coaster I'd remember these tips and I stand straight and look in the eye and talk slowly and confidently and then a moment later I'd forget and start panicing

[@ACompleteUnknown97]

“Do the opposite” *George Costanza wants to know your location*

[@eduardo-cf1iw]

I am brazilian, I am glad to know you lived there, hopefully you liked it. Keep up the great content

[@MisterL2_yt]

3:10 "Hey, I'm not sure we've met yet, my name is Charlie" "Hey Charlie" "oh, I'm actually called Markus, I just heard this was a great conversation opener on the internet"

[@zabaoth]

In med school, I learned the perfect way to stall. When being asked questions, my answer was "it depends". Because in medicine nothing is absolute. They will then reply "It depends on what?". Sometimes that was enough time. Otherwise I'd just say "The patient. Are we talking someone young? old? Preexisting conditions? Terminal?..." and so on. I had it in my hard drive so hard I could say it and also think of a reasonable answer. It's not to be used often, or people will see right through it, but it does work, because technically you're answering their questions and even if you're wrong, you gain bonus points for pointing out the question is incomplete. Critical thinking is a thing Doctors value, also learning how to bullshit your way out of an answer. That ticks both boxes.

[@thegoodkidboy7726]

"So, what do you think?" "Yes"

[@ZebyrrusPlays]

I consider and apply that sometimes in my life, but I have other way. Mostly in my free time, when there's nothing to do, I just think of situations: "If this, then that" thing. I don't really need to think about it but because of boredom, sometimes philosophizing makes me interested more.

[@thomasappelflap4433]

1. Don’t let the pressure go to your head in the first place

[@BSJINTHEHOUSE420]

Thomas Appelflap I should consider that because that makes me lose many Fortnite games.

[@thomasappelflap4433]

BSJ IN YO HOUSE AHAHAHAHAH TRUE

[@thomasappelflap4433]

Somesh feeling some form of gratitude, realising that everything isn’t that big of a deal

[@vladb420]

or you can just be very proud of yourself

[@Max-vl5ti]

Got it. if im under pressure and i need to take a breath. i will not. Thanks for the advice!

[@DBZMacky]

I guess this is Michael De Santa's ability IRL.

[@ShahidKhan-bx1hp]

Without watching this video I can surely say that 'take deep breaths' will feature among one of the tips. That seems to be the favorite among KZbin gurus as a solution for everything whether it's public speaking, exercising, anger management, decision making or even simply living a fulfilling life.