Talking to Strangers: Having a Meaningful Conversation | Georgie Nightingall | TEDxGoodenoughCollege

[@Sofia-bl9cb]

1) be the lighthouse -> maintain positive emotions so that people will be drawn to you (smile, eye contact) -how do i want people to feel? --> set an intention 2) be curious (notice, wonder, ask questions) 3) listen (for real) 4) ask great questions (discover patterns) 5) share the real you (express your real emotions in the moment) this was so interesting and helpful! thank you.

[@holissarbeni2652]

Thank you very much for taking a note.

[@harshalimore2938]

Thank-you so much for this effort ! 😍

[@Sofia-bl9cb]

@@harshalimore2938 ilyyyy

[@fedegoeswoods3142]

Very good talk, thanks. my biggest problem in having a conversation with strangers is i'm too slow: too slow to realize interesting things to talk about, too slow to realize i should ask more about something that is very interesting to me... Having better conversations would for sure help us more feeling less lonely.

[@gordongekko2781]

Same here. I've tried several times, but I have no idea what to say after my initial icebreaker.

[@takeuchi5760]

Same problem, but I think we should first know how to have good conversations with people you are acquainted with. So, it should be more challenging than a close friend and less pressuring than a stranger.

[@lindaaspey]

Great talk, wonderful messages. If we all had more meaningful conversations we’d feel so much more connected as a society.

[@ague6904]

Yesterday I was thinking about this, and this helped me clear my mind and set the goal of having more interesting and meaningful conversations, or at least trying to

[@hamishmchargUK]

Brilliant! but her constant smiley facial expression isn't going along well in delivering her beautiful messages. Feels a bit like I'm listening to a new generation model AI speech. Something is missing! Overall, it's meaningful.

[@blaiselevine1959]

Really thought-provoking talk, delivered so eloquently.

[@laurennemarieangel2332]

Great insights. I can feel that statement "I was surrounded by people and yet felt disconnected and alone"

[@zofiago6767]

It starts at 6:00 :)

[@GraceYocum]

Przydatne why did I not see this until it was at 6:03... 😂

[@zofiago6767]

@@GraceYocum sorry to hear that 🙈😿😂😂😂

[@Innamoramento9]

Great talk, going to have to hard-disagree with you on "how we do anything is how we do everything" because it's one of the most false and harmful ideas about people and leads to misjudgment. I know plenty of people who appear to be messy, constantly late to meetings and disorganized, don't have their lives together, but they are immaculate and singularly devoted, with great attention to detail as mothers and caregivers. A person might be uncaring and dismissive of schoolwork but passionate and full of expertise when it comes to a sport or hobby. How we do one thing is ABSOLUTELY not how we do everything. You'll greatly misjudge someone by thinking it applies to everything.

[@dr.j.parakka7453]

What if the stranger is a selfish , mean , and deceitful person? Is it prudent to open up with total strangers ? He or she could be a thug ! Doesn't privacy matter?

[@williedesmond8201]

You need to ask are you a teenager

[@patrickmccurry4538]

Thanks for a great talk, Georgie. Liked the way you expressed yourself.

[@paulgardner6239]

Georgie thank you for a great talk. I hope you're having a great day today. Please continue to pass on your message of conversation. I am an English man living in the Southern part of the USA and in 2021 the world is crumbling because we don't talk and listen enough to strangers.

[@williedesmond8201]

Yea usa the people are horrible for the most part apart from a few ,there just into making money and 1 upping their neighbor with there money

[@midniight]

Instructions unclear.... I'm now typing this from inside jail.

[@williedesmond8201]

You didn't talk the judge out of ur charge ,ur probably still in there you dosser enjoy the blokes in there don't drop the soap , ha Haha ha Haha

[@takeuchi5760]

This is one of the most helpful videos I've watched on communication. I can just tell these are the core principles of good conversation from observing people I know are good at it. I'm just gonna focus on these for a good while.

[@catpattinghouse]

My goal this year is to be more authentic, so I google "how to have authentic conversation, then I found this Ted Talk. Thanks, I felt quite inspired by the sharing.

[@myrnavides4640]

I love it!!! Im so glad I found this video!!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@deepakdinakaran180]

wOWsar

[@deepakdinakaran180]

!sar

[@deepakdinakaran180]

wOW!

[@wedseries_123]

Thank you 😊

[@sallee4723]

Great job Georgie 💜

[@oliverford5367]

She reminds me of Bridget Jones!

[@eeriehalls1924]

Bitches always wanna talk to me but IDGAF much so I gotta learn how to talk . That's y I'm here.

[@jpmcmullan8666]

“How could anyone be bored in a world where there’s so much to contemplate wonder and be interested in” -Neil Peart

[@ДіанаЦимбрикевич-з6е]

Those are some really good tips ! I'm not a fan of her style of talking, but the information is helpful.

[@rebeccaelliott9770]

Such a great talk. Lots of words of wisdom to take away.

[@pennyk1943]

Sorry couldn’t connect

[@letitia4423]

The opening question, I absolutely detest it and view the questioner as dim and uninteresting.. I love the work that I do but, it is such a small part of my every day living.. I would love one day to be asked intriguing questions from others but.. I would NEVER ask, "so tell me, what is it that you do".. Thank you for this talk, you have proved what I have always known about myself, I am a very interesting individual.. 😊

[@williedesmond8201]

Yea self praise is no praise, I doubt your that interesting, probably why people don't start conversations with you, I would not stay if you started talking, enjoy living in ur delusional mindset about your self lol.

[@kingviper3026]

way to quiet

[@missprosper9791]

This is very helpful!

[@evan.barnes]

very uncomfortable silence after the joke at 8:00

[@dr.j.parakka7453]

Jesus had said :" Do not throw Pearls and precious stones in front of pigs and dogs , lest they trample it and attack you."

[@williedesmond8201]

What are you on about ha ha ha ha ur American I guess lol

[@boujeknr7457]

I'm unbelievably bored by the way she talks already though..

[@williedesmond8201]

I'm bored reading your comment

[@boujeknr7457]

@@williedesmond8201 thank god I'm not giving advice on how to write exciting KZbin comments then

[@williedesmond8201]

@@boujeknr7457 doubt you could give an exciting comment on any thing, totally boring comments from you LOL GTFOH

[@washermashen1931]

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