The Art of Effective Communication | Marcus Alexander Velazquez | TEDxWolcottSchool

This presentation is intended to challenge its hearers to evaluate their current methods of communicating for the purposes of saving time and emotions, as well as increasing the effectiveness of one’s communication. Effective communication can be defined as the delivering of information that is accurately received, in the least amount of time, without being an emotional burden. We can conserve our time, which is our greatest asset, by effectively communicating. Marcus Alexander Velazquez is a public speaker, event host, musician, actor, author, voice-over talent, and screenwriter. His music has been publicly endorsed by the likes of Former United States Secretary of Education Arne Duncan and Anita Padilla of Fox News. He has also been interviewed by Univision and Elizabeth Czapski of the Chicago Sun-Times regarding his positive music. He is an avid mental health advocate, having been through 3 years of counseling to navigate the ins and outs of his own childhood traumas. He's been an Assistant Trainer for a Leadership Development company and currently serves as a Disciplinarian at Mansueto High School in Chicago - a Noble Charter Network school. Throughout all of his ventures, he is focused on renewing the minds and hearts of everyone he comes into contact with. Marcus' hope is that his life experiences will allow him to gain rapport and trust with audiences around the world so that he may speak into their lives. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

[@ashutoshkeshri2371]

1. To be understood, not heard. Speak with the purpose of understanding and feeling not just hearing. 2. Don’t be verbose, try to explain with minimal words in a simple manner because it’s about your audience. 3. Einstein said try to explain most complex things in a simple manner. Act like that 4. Be an active listener. Try to include questions in your communication 5. Save energy, save words, save emotion, save relations. 6. Try to identify what you speak to whom. Understand your audience. 7.Your actions nullify or promote what you preach. So, it’s important to have a good reputation. Your words fall flat if audience has no trust in you. Apologies if anything is missing.

[@ramabethyl2418]

Humility is key to effective communication. 1. You can always be wrong. 2. It is not about you, it's about your audience.

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Yup! You got it!

[@v.dargain1678]

And both parties has to have interest . The speaker must be interested in his subject . The listener , on the other hand , has to be interested in what is being said . Without interest the meeting is just catharsis of the mouth vocalizing to a brick wall.

[@macysondheim]

Speak for yourself. Maybe YOU can always be wrong, but not me. I take the time to research & make sure what I’m saying is factual before I just spew out a bunch of nonsense.

[@tonybroman]

I would politely disagree about #2. Each time we speak, it involves us in some way so it is always about us as well - being understood involves communicating. That's what makes it so powerful - it's always personal for primary or secondary internal reasons. It is always important to check on understanding with the listener and clarify in both directions - speaker and listener - to arrive at a place of mutually shared clarity.

[@peachwhite7404]

it's about everybody, the speaker and audience to become better at speaking.

[@oluwagbemigadaveed590]

Effective communication Saves Time, Saves Emotion, Saves Relationships…This is Gold!

[@thedadziefamily8430]

Awesome. 1. Communication is a 2-way street 2. Its only successful when audience are able to receive and understand the message. 3. Be humble while at it 4. Its not about you. 5 Tonality matters.

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Hey my friend! Thanks for watching! I'm glad you learned those 5 lessons from this talk! I hope it helps going forward!

[@ImantoGs]

Thank you soo much, was searching for this

[@arseniowicaksono3450]

I got scolded by my boss for talking long sentences and you just reminded me of how many things i should work to improve my communication skill. Necessary and important, thank you Marcus!

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

It's my pleasure! I'm glad the talk was able to help you! If your boss thinks your company can benefit from communication consulting please shoot an email my way - officialmarcusalexander @gmail

[@mustafabeau4782]

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[@casekendrick2367]

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[@mustafabeau4782]

@Case Kendrick thanks, signed up and it seems like a nice service :D I really appreciate it!

[@casekendrick2367]

@Mustafa Beau happy to help =)

[@ramabethyl2418]

"Misunderstandings could lead to the eventual lost of relationships" trueeee 😩

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Unfortunately, very true.

[@gabthefab]

Theres so much beauty in a blabbermouth! Effective communication is important, but we can't be so effective that we sacrifice enthusiasm and creativity for productivity... especially in our interpersonal relationships

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

This was beautifully said.

[@Janeboulton_airline]

Effective communication is key - absolutely love this

[@zarinaspace]

Communication is the backbone of anything. It’s absolutely relevant and effective communication can have lots of useful benefits.

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Well said!

[@DrDorothyParker]

Listening to this speech was so emotional for me because I was guilty for doing most of the things he said donot do. This was an eye opener for me. I need to take effective communication classes asap. Thank you!

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

I'm glad my talk helped you! I have an effective communication course that will be online in 2 weeks. Would you be interested in taking it?

[@ourkidsoageng5153]

2 keys to humility..... listen to other people’s opinions, it is not about you but about your audience!!! You have to know what you are talking about and how you say it!

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

I'm glad you took so much away from my talk! Use it wisely!

[@LOUISESAGUN]

Sir Marcus Alexander, thank you! I've learned a lot of things from this very helpful technique on how to have an effective communication, such as communication is the backbone of anything. It is completely relevant, and effective communication can provide numerous benefits. Sir, you have a fantastic stage presence. Marcus!

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Thank you so much! I'm glad you enjoyed my talk and were able to take things away from it! Now just put them into practice!

[@lucy7917]

Really useful video - I have made some good notes. Nice and straight to the point, like your message! Thanks Marcus :)

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Glad to help! If I can help with any other communication issues please send an email my way! - officialmarcusalexander @gmail

[@georgew.5639]

I had to practice this on the phone yesterday afternoon. I had to explain that I didn’t receive what I needed. And I had to clearly explain to the other person what it was I actually needed.

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

I'm glad you were able to put this into practice! Thanks for watching my talk!

[@claudiakritzinger6690]

This is so good! I must do a presentation for my studies... about effective communication. The message that this speaker gives is so amazing. Thank you for this video you are helping me so much🌻💪

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Awesome! I'm glad you enjoyed my talk! Please let me know if I can help in any way!

[@yuvarajbadiger700]

Yes, it wasn't all about communication itself. Great that you pointed out that, our actions will either promote or nullify our words... Very true!

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Thanks for your feedback and for watching! I hope the video blessed you. If I can help with any communication issues and/or questions, please send an email my way - officialmarcusalexander @gmail

[@mrhandsome504]

Great video and well spoken, this video gives so many tools to people to go forth in society and be great buy practicing & utilizing effective communication.

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Amazing! I'm glad you got so much out of my talk! Thank you for watching!

[@ramabethyl2418]

Albert Einstein said "If you can't explain it simply, you don't understand it well enough"

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Simplicity is key.

[@RashaadGenie]

My faith!

[@translate_with_detra]

Im listening to this while studying for the "Art Of Communication" Lecture's exam

[@jeromegonzales4834]

Binabati ko po lahat ng BSIT 1A jan whoooo. Nuod Nuod for activity 🤣

[@Adetuetue]

This was awesome. I felt you were speaking to my inadequacies. I have a lot to work on communication. Thank you Sir.

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Happy to help! I believe all of our communication skills can always get better. Progress over perfection!

[@caige8622]

Thank you for the new knowledge sir.

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Happy to help! I hope my talk blessed you!

[@aliciagriffin3416]

Effective communication is the key to success

[@legitbayan8071]

Shawtout sa mga BSIT-1A na manunuod naway may maintindihan tayong lahat.

[@ryanfrizzell736]

Good video. With this I’ll improve my communication and it will be better received by the people that I talk to. Thanks!

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Awesome! I'm glad my talk helped you!

[@airagracelopez8682]

Very well said!!👏

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Thank you so much! I hope my talk helped you!

[@mishasamorodin9150]

This needs 40 billion views or more.

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Wow! Thank you so much for your comment! I'm humbled, and I hope this video gets 40 billion views as well!

[@hayyanyousufkhan6032]

A proper explaination of the 7 C's of communication. Well said

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Thank you so much! I'm glad you enjoyed my talk!

[@rosifyy07]

Great stage presence and love the way you speak Marcus! Wish I had the same quality, it's hard to deal with fear of speaking in public

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Thank you! I didn't start off that way. Lots of practice and learning. I go more in-depth on effective communication in my online course. This is an excellent resource for you to increase your communication skills. You can check it out here: ww w. BeABetterCommunicator . c om

[@kweenjames6621]

Thank you!!!

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Thank you for watching! I hope my talk helped you!

[@harishms4438]

Anyone here to write a summary for your assessment?

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

For what school?

[@harishms4438]

@@MrMarcusAlexander VIT university

[@harishms4438]

@@MrMarcusAlexander r u the person who spoke in the above TEDx talks 😳

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

@@harishms4438 yes 🙂

[@harishms4438]

@@MrMarcusAlexander 🤣 epic moment I will sure tell about this with my teacher

[@karenmaecamacho4644]

Thank you sir Marcus Alexander V. For this very helpful techniques on how to have an effective communication , I've learned a lot of things 🤗.

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

I'm glad you learned a lot! Put it to good use! Thank you for watching my talk!

[@lynethannrule6648]

Well said!☺️

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Thank you so much! I hope you enjoyed my talk!

[@andredshn]

Effective communication is one my top goals and I won't stop until I communicate confidently and straight to the point. Thank you for this Ted Talk. Let the journey begin! :)

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

That's a great goal to have! I hope my talk equipped you to accomplish your goal. Please let me know if I can help at all. Thanks for watching!

[@richard2428]

@@MrMarcusAlexander thank you Marcus

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

@@richard2428 it's my pleasure!

[@charmieoljolaripal6970]

I'm here because my prof told me to, this speaks volume. Wow 👏 communication is really important

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

@charmie Thanks for watching! I'm glad my talk blessed you. Did your professor assign this video to you or your entire class?

[@charmieoljolaripal6970]

@@MrMarcusAlexander yes

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

@@charmieoljolaripal6970 awesome. If your professor would like to involve me in your class, please have him send me an email - officialmarcusalexander @gmail

[@charmieoljolaripal6970]

@@MrMarcusAlexander I will, thank you so much for sharing this to us specially the students 💓

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

@@charmieoljolaripal6970 it's my absolute pleasure. I'm actually in the process of creating an online course for effective communication that would help you and your fellow students. I hope your professor will email me so we can discuss it. What school do you go to?

[@TheFilmBuilders]

Effectively communicated.

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

lol. Thanks for watching my talk!

[@DigitalDrillDown]

I'm working on my communication to more effectively build relationships

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Excellent! I turned my TEDx Talk into an online communication training program. It will help you effectively build relationships.

[@angelabellepador4513]

Information should not only be received but also understood Navigate your questions

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Great points! Thanks for watching my talk!

[@angelabellepador4513]

1. Wasted Time 2. waste emotions 3. misunderstanding 4

[@ma.ginacabreros5325]

WHO'S THERE FOR THEIR PURPOSIVE COMMUNICATION?

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Thanks for watching! I hope the video blessed you. If I can help with any communication issues and/or questions, please send an email my way - officialmarcusalexander @gmail

[@chungniataitalo8793]

Yes here ❤

[@eliseo6364]

writing a paper about it rn

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

@@eliseo6364 nice! I'm the speaker from this video. Anything I can help with?

[@eliseo6364]

@@MrMarcusAlexander wow! hello! thank you very much for your talk :) some reference materials would be very helpful :D :D

[@Matthew8473]

This work is a marvel; similar to a book that's a marvel of thought and expression. "The Art of Saying No: Mastering Boundaries for a Fulfilling Life" by Samuel Dawn

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Thank you for your kind words!

[@abogadoscontralacorrupcion9182]

Enhorabuena Marcus

[@markeshiaanderson6781]

Whew you definitely dissected some of my flaws 😩

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Lol you're not alone! We all struggle with communication in one way or another. The goal is to get better, not perfect. Thanks for watching my talk!

[@stormisechamp5249]

Compulsive talking (or talkaholism) is talking that goes beyond the bounds of what is considered to be socially acceptable. The main factors in determining if someone is a compulsive talker are talking in a continuous manner or stopping only when the other person starts talking, and others perceiving their talking as a problem. Talking too much does nothing. Endless talking and overloading with talking going beyond the bounds of what is considered to be socially acceptable will not solve the many subjects of the Christian faith. If secular people or religious people discuss anything with people who have compulsive talking (or talkaholism), they are going nowhere. People really underestimate the Christian faith believing that compulsive talking will solve the many subjects of the Christian faith. Actions like walking, thinking, or talking can not solve the many subjects of the scripture. Mixing the ouija board with a talking show. If people record 4 hours of just talking in a talking show, it would have no effect at all with ouija boards. The amount of talking has no effect at all on what is behind the ouija board, poltergeists, and sleeping paralysis. The drawback of talking too much is that people get overloaded. Compulsive talking (or talkaholism) just overloads people with information. People really underestimate God, talking is not enough for many subjects of the Christian faith. Western people overloading each other with information is just a waste of time.

[@HowToHappy]

Exercises & Reflection Questions 1. How often do you use the phrase ‘if it makes you feel better’? 2. How can you better validate others’ experiences? 3. What other methods might you employ to help others feel grateful in trying times?

[@lucy7917]

1. Quite often - especially when talking to friends who may be upset or experiencing something unpleasant - 'well if it makes you feel any better then, X comparison' 2. By being empathetic. By not comparing another's experience with something I have been through in an attempt to deflate what they are experiencing. By simply listening to the person without trying to interject my own comments and thoughts. 3. Remind people that they are doing their best and their best is all that matters. Life is never easy but the sun always rises in the morning and tough times never last! Thank you for this comment! I found it helpful to pause and reflect. Have a lovely day! :)

[@ayashakumarimandal8681]

It would have been great if u would hv displayed the video transcription

[@nikkakhristellelacay6455]

PRESENT!

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Welcome! Thanks for watching my talk!

[@anirudhatalmale5575]

Super helpful

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

I'm glad my talk helped you! Thanks for watching!

[@ramabethyl2418]

No two people are ever the same.

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

This is very true! I hope my talk helped!

[@ninojamesporfecio2766]

💛💛💛

[@themixer-8403]

I need your help summarizing this video because I am required for a scholarship

[@davebranzuela400]

How he organize the speech

[@angelabellepador4513]

Hindrances are long extra words

[@alindayokaricel8619]

What is your favorite part of the video explain ?

[@XabiiboAbdi-db5sh]

Bro was nervous asf 😭

[@jusbeatzradio]

🏆🏆🏆

[@johnmarkkellyedora3543]

kamusta mga BSA-1B

[@angelabellepador4513]

nag take notes ko

[@miqueiassilvanascimento7331]

Ótimo conteúdo

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Gracias!

[@chungniataitalo8793]

Im very bad at this thnk u ❤

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

It just takes time, focus, and practice! You can do this! Thanks for watching!

[@amirulariffofficial8042]

Inefective communication 1)waste time 2)waste emotion 3)misunderstanding Effective com 1) need to have goal 2)simplicity

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Great takeaways! Thanks for watching my talk!

[@professordrabhijitsayamber2299]

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[@iversonrabina3446]

Shot out sa BSPA-1D jan noodwell!!

[@JohnRD.116]

Has anyone have a summary for this? Plss I need it for my studies 🙏😭

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Hey there! This is Marcus, the speaker from the video. What school do you attend?

[@altheaglynnzafra6516]

Hi BEED-2A. Attendance check daw bi 😂

[@izypro7785]

Asa nga school

[@altheaglynnzafra6516]

@@izypro7785 ahahahha sa Cebu Technological University-Tuburan 😂

[@izypro7785]

@@altheaglynnzafra6516 Aye hahah same CTU CITY OF NAGA

[@angelabellepador4513]

know what you really want to tell

[@fictophiliatv7752]

What are the keypoints in this speech?

[@ChuukeseStink]

Listen to the speech and maybe you'll find out?

[@angelabellepador4513]

be straightforward

[@angelabellepador4513]

define your words clearly

[@jackieschreiber4605]

I need immediate help. I am using the Velazquez TEDTalk for a paper. I have to: Practice citing multimedia sources by providing APA citations for the video as both in-text and in a reference list in APA format at the end of my paper. HELP

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Yikes. I wish I could help you, but I know nothing about that formatting. If there's anything else I can help you with regarding my talk please let me know.

[@sonicgaming624]

7:00

[@sabinoluevano7447]

this guy for sure is a good communicator, but I feel the doesn´t fully connect to the audience. But the things he says, most of them, are important.

[@misslang3152]

💯💯💯💯👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Thanks for watching! I hope my talk helped you!

[@vanesasinadjan4058]

What are the 5 key Points of your presentation?

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Hey there! This is Marcus, the speaker from the video. What school do you attend?

[@ignacioairenea.4679]

Hi classmates 🥰🥰🥰

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Glad you're here! I hope you enjoyed my talk!

[@NikosBirbilis]

Was this effective communication?

[@rohanpaul9197]

Communication is just like a fuel in a vehicle

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Agreed! Thanks for your comment and for watching my talk!

[@rohanpaul9197]

Welcome thanks for this amazing speech

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

@@rohanpaul9197 it's my pleasure!

[@paradventures6073]

BEED2A

[@bonbon3871]

👂

[@TheGuyerLife]

There is something off to me about his speech.

[@lylethalburo1054]

shout out sa mga taga verallo diha no, unta naka sabot tang tanan hahaha.

[@johnlestergastador4407]

Taga bogo ka po?

[@antoniorapon]

Shout out deay ko sa PURCOM HUHUHUHU ug sa taga Verallo na way may maintindihan tayu lahat😘😘

[@johnkirtlopez1153]

Hello DLL students

[@janbhertcortez9173]

hi epic 1

[@thejester8125]

@0:07 *Aggressively Raises Hand*

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

lol! At least you're honest! Thanks for watching!

[@chyamckylev.389]

this is part of my activity and im confused af

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Hey, this is the speaker from the video, Marcus. What are you confused about?

[@chyamckylev.389]

@@MrMarcusAlexander oh thx but i already get it

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

@@chyamckylev.389 okay great! If you have any questions please let me know.

[@jhankennethsangalang6594]

LMAO SAME

[@keeptheplanesunderpilot]

bro spent 12 mins waffling about waffling, he talked for so long half the audience went bald

[@shanmae6818]

😯💜

[@user-ck3xl8gk8b]

why use many words when few words do trick

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Yes! I love this comment!

[@marylfrancefrias1288]

Attendance check sa mga BSAIS dyan haha

[@kimberlyharriott492]

Coursera brought me here

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Welcome! I hope my talk blessed you! How did coursera bring you here?

[@kimberlyharriott492]

@@MrMarcusAlexander : I'm taking courses there.

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

@@kimberlyharriott492 was my TEDx Talk part of a course?

[@kimberlyharriott492]

@@MrMarcusAlexander : Yes

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

@@kimberlyharriott492 interesting. Can you tell me the name of the course please?

[@delacruzjuvy1147]

Lf engineer

[@lunaty1072]

I’m I the only one who was forced to watch this by their teacher?

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

You are not, but I hope you enjoyed my talk.

[@heatherjackson160]

It wasn't until the last few minutes that he gave an actual teaching.. seemed that he talked a lot about what wasnt necessary.

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

Thanks for watching!

[@jeanrosepanaligan4643]

Hello bse student HAHAHAH

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

What does BSE stand for?

[@lunaty1072]

….

[@SirOddball]

The content is pretty reasonable. The intention is absolutely sound. However, be aware that this is pitched at such a basic level, and states the obvious so much it is quite painful. 4 minutes in he repeats the point he made 2 minutes earlier. Ironically he talks longer than is necessary about the points he is trying to make; makes a really good point, very clearly - then explains the point he has made for about 2 minutes. What's with the massive pauses after making a point - as if it is somehow a ground-breaking realisation. Better to trust in the intelligence of your audience than to think you have to labour a point to ensure they get it. A shame as there's some good tips in there.

[@MsSurigirl]

It is most likely for a more basic level than you are.

[@mirandastanley5902]

ughhhhh

[@ayathabib4632]

I only understood his questions. Other than that seemed he said so much. Lost me half way.

[@MrMarcusAlexander]

I'm sorry to hear that. Is there anything I could've done to help you understand the information better?

[@dalesilver1805]

lol they really give a ted talk to anyone, Hip Hop Artist and Actor might as well say "full time television watcher" or "vocational masturbator"

[@ProfBlaq]

Do you identify as these 2 titles?

[@lecoltetaylor1068]

Lmbo