"When we don't teach the history of the trauma, then we preserve the power dynamic that bred the trauma in the first place." She's amazing.
@josefinalarachavez4425 Жыл бұрын
🙌🏽
@makemoremstakes4 ай бұрын
Yes yes and yes
@fatkatwiththegap79202 жыл бұрын
When she said they don't wanna be healed they wanna be untraumatized that hit me so hard. Thank you Goddess. ❤️
@Dischordian2 жыл бұрын
Yes that was a powerful moment, and what followed.
@kimaparker6430 Жыл бұрын
Me toooo😮
@Red_Black_Key Жыл бұрын
That statement was a Diamond of Truth.
@RabbitHeart082 жыл бұрын
“Healing is not the eraser of the trauma but it is the revelation of the truth. “ This was all very helpful and articulated so so well. Thank you!
@catrinagriffin61412 жыл бұрын
This young lady had a message that is absolutely necessary for us all. She has definitely done some extensive inner work on the self. What we seek is on the inside.
@ennamorgan2 жыл бұрын
This has got to be the most moving, engaging, and enlightening TED talk I've ever listened to. Why does this video have only 18K views? And...Am I the only one who thinks she looks and sounds like, is equally insightful and articulate, and has the same last name as comedian Eddie Griffin?
@didicotton39002 жыл бұрын
Arguable the most impactful 18mins and 45seconds I’ve spent on KZbin ever🙌🏾. Thank you for your vulnerability and the skill to reach your audience not only with words, yet with feeling✊🏾
@pronotper2 жыл бұрын
This Ted talk changed my life! She is so beautiful and powerful. I would hold her and hug her forever. What an absolutely BEAUTIFUL SOUL. A light worker for sure! Her light is so so bright. I want to see more of her! Somebody give her a book deal. This woman is AMAZING! FR. I had to stop what I was doing and PAY ATTENTION. Her tone demands it in a soft way. I have never seen anything like it. Let's get her a book deal. Valisa, they missed out on time with ur beautiful soul. There loss! I know. I get it. I definitely suffer from what I call my mommy never loved me syndrome. Made me a people pleaser with NO boundaries. I will not forget this talk. EVER! LIGHT & LOVE!
@moniquesinned42102 жыл бұрын
When she said she has no image of being held ! I felt that because I don’t have a picture of my mother holding me either . Yeah I felt that 😢
@TabletalkwtoshToshTalks2U Жыл бұрын
I love everything about this discussion. Valisa you are a true teacher. Thank you for being you and showing people how to not become untraumatized but to do the work to become healed.
@brandontylerburt2 жыл бұрын
A gifted, viscerally charged speaker.
@sunshine-qk8qe5 ай бұрын
She talks to fast , and doesn't even take a breath between a sentence .
@brandontylerburt5 ай бұрын
@@sunshine-qk8qe Hey, I know that life can be really irritating sometimes. If you ever need to talk about it, I don't mind listening.
@QueenMother772 ай бұрын
Simply amazing!! ❤
@rosek315 Жыл бұрын
It is not an accident I found this talk today.. THANK YOU!!!!!
@Verena2022 Жыл бұрын
This is so powerful. When she explained most people don’t want to be healed, they want to be un traumatized, I absolutely lost it. Unlocked something I’ve been trying to access. I think this idea will help me move forward
@malcomalexander6927 Жыл бұрын
Wow. Just wow! 🔥🔥🔥🙏
@ronellistunstill922 жыл бұрын
This was the best one that day!!!!
@trueXMotionFitness2 жыл бұрын
This is the best Ted, TedeX talk I've ever watched. Even her Shadow Work/Meditation idea of the picture & the daises is a great idea. I'm going to try that. I want to look her up, too. I'm curious if she's written a book or had any other talks.
@t3b0g0 Жыл бұрын
It got better and better as I listened. Uniquely told, direct and concise. Welldone!
@kathleeneldredge6056Ай бұрын
This was a profound talk, thank you so much. I can relate and have so much love for her.
@jimonalimb2 жыл бұрын
One of my favorite talks from this day. Thank you for your vulnerability!
@mdw.4442 жыл бұрын
Truly agree
@chosenone599 Жыл бұрын
Powerful! ❤
@jme928 Жыл бұрын
Powerful. Thank you.
@thuggineternal Жыл бұрын
The shadow work video I needed to help me to finally understand shadow work. I shared it with my girls and told them to watch alone so they can cry freely.
@ronruthruff251811 ай бұрын
So profoundly good, and hard and true
@evek2122 жыл бұрын
this is incredibly important. incredible speaker. thank you
@tracyplant5098 Жыл бұрын
That was the best 18 min and 44 seconds I have ever spent. I have been researching shadow work and I am fully convinced I need it! Thank you so much for sharing!
@yasmeenbowie6638 Жыл бұрын
This talk was so powerful ❤
@iamlindavilela2 жыл бұрын
this touched me so deeply. the honesty, the vulnerability, the truth. may we breathe together more, may we open ourselves up to the truth and collectively hold more space for healing.
@TheSavonExperience2 жыл бұрын
One of my favorite folks. Look at god! I love!!!
@myfaveisdabestestyaaas76739 ай бұрын
Food for thought indeed
@brejarrells2266 Жыл бұрын
Amazing speaker and deep work needs to be done
@casssiaaaaa2 жыл бұрын
You are extraordinary Valisa, thank you for sharing
@sakesenpai Жыл бұрын
Powerful, simply that
@carlosangulo11 Жыл бұрын
Great video!! Thank you 😊 🙏🏻Unconditional love to all ❤️ ♾️ 🌌
@Selfmagnet Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing I was in tears I can relate 😢
@famousace46522 жыл бұрын
She’s so powerful
@Stinkwolff832 жыл бұрын
Incredibly powerful!
@liv74922 жыл бұрын
I wished this was longer, this was incredible. Thank you Valisa
@tm27field Жыл бұрын
Fantastic presentation, thank you
@Qumi2222 жыл бұрын
Thank you queen✨🫶🏾. Sending you healing and light. I wrote a page of notes for myself, my 3 daughters, and their dad. I love you, I see you🖤
@NallahBrown2 жыл бұрын
"A highly politicized society. A society that needs everything to be immediately categorized. If it's good or bad, right or wrong. What does that do for us? It helps us get around having to emotionally process anything because it desensitizes the way we feel and prioritizes the way that we think."
@geekgirrrl9 ай бұрын
Bars frfr❤❤❤❤❤
@Liveonpoint99 Жыл бұрын
Empress, you nailed this talk! I needed these reminders. I have gratitude for your spirit allowing you to be "awkward". it was authentic. Thank you for sharing your story and your wisdom.
@iuogvftulvclhg Жыл бұрын
wow that was by far the best ted talk ive ever seen! thank you for the wisdom!!!
@teahgurl Жыл бұрын
This made me cry smh…
@SamSam-qx7dv Жыл бұрын
😢 So powerful
@tm27field Жыл бұрын
Love her personality
@domatello_2 жыл бұрын
This touched me in a special way.
@8no1likeme-infinitestar652 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU BEAUTIFUL SOUL
@tanishawrites11118 ай бұрын
Valisa, I hear you and I see you beautiful sister. Please know I felt seen by the telling of your story AND our ancestral trauma history. May the Most High continue to operate through you and bless you as well all those that extend from you. Peace & Love.
@zumbajenn1 Жыл бұрын
I am new in my shadow work journey and I am so thankful to have stumbled across your video! Thank you for helping me to understand what shadow work actually is. I hope you continue to educate on this topic. You’re wonderful!!
@chara82312 жыл бұрын
Brilliant! I am speechless. I have to watch it a second time just to process everything🙌🏿 I need to get started on my shadow work for sure💯 The speaker was amazing!🤗
@nnylasoR Жыл бұрын
Sooo good. So, so good.
@keishahines6733 Жыл бұрын
This sister blessed me! Thank you for this informative, powerful lesson! 🙌🏾
@HaleyVPackett2 жыл бұрын
Valisa Griffin is amazingly gifted, I was incredibly moved by this presentation. Such an empowering and revealing talk, thank you for sharing this.
@coreen7179 Жыл бұрын
I have listened to many Ted Talks and this is by far one of the most powerful, insightful talks I've heard. Though somewhat understated, it certainly opens up the door to the exploration of this "unconventional" modality of inner healing work. Unfortunately, our western societies have not embraced anything that appears to be outside of our faith based teachings and norms, making it difficult for those who can benefit from this work to actually receive it. It's time we stop demonizing every practice we don't understand and start the conversation on how we can best serve our communities to promote healing from trauma regardless of it's cause. Thank you for sharing.
@deellaboe437 Жыл бұрын
The best Ted talk
@camishajrobinson Жыл бұрын
Needed this so much. Thank you ❤
@michaelapatton53792 жыл бұрын
THIS MESSAGE WAS SOOOOO NECESSARY FOR ME, THANK YOU SOOOOO MUCH!!!!!
@sherececocco Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your energy Valisa! I have a message for people who call others out of their name, I am sorry your parents failed you.
@AtypicalType2 жыл бұрын
This hit me right in the heart. Thank you.
@PrettySkyEarthAngel Жыл бұрын
💕✨ Thank you for this very unexpected Galentine’s Gift! I am grateful to have come across this message. Love & Light. 💕✨
@spiritrain3343 Жыл бұрын
Very Powerful!❤️💪🏽
@sethawarren2 жыл бұрын
Wow… speaking nothing but her truth. Powerful words from a powerful speaker. Thank you.
@Attention2Love11 ай бұрын
Wow. This is great.
@dimples165211 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your lesson. My last name is Griffin from my father and he never met his older sister, but you look just like us and we're from Jacksonville FL. Again thank you.
@rozz90852 жыл бұрын
Brilliantly weaved. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@maki93962 жыл бұрын
Powerful. Deep. 🙏🏾
@haydenseitcher70792 жыл бұрын
so powerful, thank you
@luvlichi2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful Goddess you're soooo loveable. Your voice and your energy is important. You are more than enough and I'm grateful for you sharing your journey. Keep shining... love, light & life to you always ✨️ ❤️
@abieml952 жыл бұрын
INCREDIBLE! Super deep on a personal level and on a societal level. Definitely keeping this in the archives!
@babeakuscaesar2 жыл бұрын
Deep sis, damn near in tears her
@LilyRoseLavender2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for that Talk and your vulnerability ❤
@version.c87582 жыл бұрын
Wow, You are definitely meant to do this work! This is so powerful and illuminating... I wish I could find more of you. Thank you for sharing this part of yourself it really impacted me, at just the right time.❤
@WhoIsModernDoll2 жыл бұрын
Bravo! Thank you!!!
@stonedoliveees2 жыл бұрын
Hearing this was an inspiring Revelation ! Wow! Deep gratitude 🌹
@sistahleah20252 жыл бұрын
ALL PRAISES HONOR AND ESTEEM TO THEE MOST HIGH YAH BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTER OF ZION I ENJOYED THIS I NEEDED THIS MAY THEE MOST HIGH YAH CREATOR OF LIFE AND DEATH KEEP YOU FROM EGYPT YAH BLESS 💕💕💕💕🔥
@howwedc94752 жыл бұрын
Wow❤️So powerful how she took that message full circle.
@faatimahjackson4009 Жыл бұрын
This video is so eye opening. Came across this video as I was reading about shadow work and trauma.
@mayflower29042 жыл бұрын
Incredible
@Nialuv246 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤This is beautiful mama
@Egle3 Жыл бұрын
I feel you 🖤
@ternon832 жыл бұрын
Powerful, to the point, and full of nuggets. This alignment with this video for me is proof of a conversation i had last night, as well as 20 minutes or so ago with my brothers. The gratitude is real. I like all of it i like setting up for success and reviewing shadow with clarity n confidence is on brand for my experience. Thank you... the gratitude is real.
@natashaburrows77432 жыл бұрын
Wow what an incredible women. Had me in tears. So powerful. Feeling blessed to have seen this video 🙏🏻🥹🥰❤️❤️
@dartaansone40222 жыл бұрын
Good conclusion and perspective Bravo!
@tomlinwilding2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this. Very powerful
@johnluke372 жыл бұрын
It's beyond teaching the truth. It's morning The reality of what we have done to deny acceptance. Compassion and what freedom we can have in the human experience. Your description of the state of division where we mentalize in order not to deal with our emotions is spot on. Thank you.
@lakitamorrow51302 жыл бұрын
Awesome and full of healing. ❤
@yeet51482 жыл бұрын
Oh wow. I was not ready for this one, but I receive it. Wow!
@stacyburrell132 жыл бұрын
What a gift!
@tranayajordan85082 жыл бұрын
Yesss ❣️❣️💯
@ShaeMacMillan2 жыл бұрын
A brilliant talk that was delivered with power, intelligence and sensitivity. Well done on your journey to be untraumatised. Thank you for sharing your experience
@Tashaxox2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely love this TED talk! Hope to see more from her. This was very inspiring and important to hear.
@Its_saada2 жыл бұрын
So powerful!❤️
@b4realz232 жыл бұрын
Omg 30 yrs so much Insight I was not expecting it but I serious think this video changed my whole outlook basically my life thank you for these insights into how the smallest things can affect us soo much in a detrimental way and unconsciously as well, knowing that the shadow can rebel and control our life sabotage our conscious wishes I didnt realize really how deep we are all traumatized thank you "for ruining my day" jk (referring to the joke ) thank you for changing the way I think
@daviamcleish26592 жыл бұрын
This is a excellent video! So many lessons
@SmittenKitten28 Жыл бұрын
this is the best ted talk ive seen. thank you so much
@Mauieee332 жыл бұрын
This is just so beautiful!!!
@iva15312 жыл бұрын
Most articulate, incisive, insightful talk I've here so far.
@neutralitee2 жыл бұрын
This was amazing
@priscillaandhercats2 жыл бұрын
Those first 8 minutes… I felt as if you were staring at a mirror and talking to me directly . It’s been 28 years and not once from those 3 baby pictures that I have ,noticed I was alone . I have trauma alot of it and I cry when I try to explain myself and it frustrates me more because I don’t know where to start. For a month ? Shadow work has been very loud on my path and I’ve been puttin it on the back burner but a trigger made me do some research and here I am … thank you ❤ thank you so much for sharing your story . I’ve spent my time in earth trying to act like my past didn’t exist. But it’s an important part of me ❤. Thank you 🙏 for taking the time to explain this ❤️🩹
@Nimbus_112 жыл бұрын
This is the most intellectual talk I’ve EVER listened to! Thank you Valisa for being beyond amazing! You are truly on a vibration I aspire to achieve! I don’t plan on being on this planet much longer but for the lil bit of time I plan on fighting and staying, I’ll definitely incorporate your talk and lessons in my perspective in building a better world for everyone! 🥰❤️
@kiwyroxy2 жыл бұрын
Loved this talk. ❤ you need to write a book on this….and share your insights with the masses.