I am 21 years sober and drug free. My niece got married this summer and my sister called me to tell me ,"You didn't make the cut" and she said you cannot come to the wedding because "You have a problem with alcohol and marijuana " I said no I don't. I just can't be around pot and I don't care if people are drinking around me" she didn't change her mind. My other sister told me around the same time of the wedding, "you are the Only person I know in my many different circle of friends who does not drink or smoke pot" 21 years sober and still in my family I am the odd one out, both when I was drinking and now sober. I wouldn't be 71 years old if i hadn't stopped drinking. I would be dead. I own and operate my own small business and am self supporting thru my own contributions, when I was drinking I was unemployable. I am trusted by my clients to care for their animals and homes, when I was drinking I couldn't be trusted at all, with anything and always seemed to need to be bailed out of something I had done because of drinking and drugging. One Day at a time I am free of the wreck drinking and drugging made of my life. One Day at a time I make the choice to not drink, not smoke pot, and forgive those who still judge me, however misguided they are.
@margaretsteedley60095 жыл бұрын
Hi, I’m 20 years sober and I’m 72. I agree some of my family and friends still think I shouldn’t be around alcohol. Oh well, I’m glad you are sober and I’m so grateful I’m sober?
@marychristinehuston75895 жыл бұрын
@@margaretsteedley6009 yes. We have much to be grateful for overall. Thank you.
@sandib42344 жыл бұрын
God Bless you,you sound like a wonderful person.I have family that seem to treat me the same way,so i stay away from them and pray for them.Enjoy your life and don't worry about what other's think,that is their problem.
@cathykeith63014 жыл бұрын
It amazes me how unforgiving people are especially families when you ask for forgiveness and they have done plenty wrong themselves great job was to stay in the sober. I ruined my life my career and my relationships oh for what wine. Congratulations I’m trying but it’s really hard
@evelynbaron20044 жыл бұрын
I think a lot of people don't realize they are physically dependent until it's too late which is why I am not a big supporter of harm reduction programs; they set you up for failure. I have one living relative I'm 65 sober 5 yrs and she is in the 12 step program and doesn't speak to me because I was functional and it took a long time and ... I was probably an alcoholic when I was sixteen even though I hadn't had a drink yet so no way to test the thesis ... I do live one day at a time and a small dog and my work and friends keep me focussed and present. Yes I miss my sis. I am glad she is in the world and I leave it there. Is that easy? No. But necessary. Best best wishes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@dianamao63475 жыл бұрын
9 days sober, longest I’ve been sober in 1.5 years
@fernandapartridge51745 жыл бұрын
Keep going.... it’s very much worth it. Nice work! ❤️
@Whizzy-jx3qe5 жыл бұрын
I am seven yrs sober,mindful drinking is just another term for controlling alcohol. Mindful drinking is not appropriate for those with a dependency on alcohol as it could end up masking a deeper issue and a person not seeking professional help.
@jt82805 жыл бұрын
Diana hope you are doing well.
@loustandards28275 жыл бұрын
I gave it up as well, after being hospitalized and placed on suicide watch for four days. That's the tragedy part. The happily ever after is I am now 3 1/2 years sober and have discovered that my efforts have inspired some others in my community to stop drinking also. I cling to my streak with a loving endless hug. Every day is another day I can add to my total, and every day it's my new favorite number. You owe it to yourself to know that feeling. It becomes a quiet secret reason to celebrate each day, in your mind and your heart you come to find that you are so much stronger and more powerful that you can even conceive. You owe it to yourself to know your mettle, and conquering booze is a great way to harness that knowledge. I am proud of you, Diana!! You got this! "We love you, and we need you. We get scared, and even angry sometimes but please forgive us, because we love you, and we need you so much more than we realize, so please don't give up."- Humanity
@dianamao63475 жыл бұрын
Lou Standards I really appreciate your words of encouragement, I can say I am 44 days clean today and I am really looking forward to continuing my streak. I will say some days are way harder than others but it’s words like these that keep me going, just knowing that I am not alone in this and that people come out in the other side. 😊🥰
@pamgordon7452 Жыл бұрын
I loved this. Professional women especially need to hear this right now. Thank you!
@edwardkenny23565 жыл бұрын
223 days sober today. Thank you for your truthfulness, your story.
@thepropagatingfalcon57645 жыл бұрын
Day 6 in about an hour.
@williamk80485 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the talk. I'm sober 49 years in AA.
@louiefoster78845 жыл бұрын
49 years in AA without understanding the concept of anonymity. That is SAD!
@j.n.35775 жыл бұрын
Regardless, congrats William, that is awesome!
@Onlinesully5 жыл бұрын
That's more than impressive William.
@st3ff9115 жыл бұрын
@@louiefoster7884 lol it's about other people, not yourself, you dingbat.
@starlight_Sky7775 жыл бұрын
Congratulations @william Kennedy very inspiring & fantastic achievement Much love to you xx
@KA-mq4wj4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. It’s 2am and I’m drinking my 8th beer. I drink every night. I have drank 8 beers every night for the last 4 years since I’ve been separated from my abusive ex husband. I drink to numb. I drink to escape life. I have PTSD. I’ve lost myself. I’m a shell of my former self. I’m a walking zombie. I cannot function and hate myself. I hope one day I can overcome this horrible addiction
@julieaw174 жыл бұрын
I hope one day you can too. KA ...do you have someone to reach out to ? There are many groups , friendly supportive understanding and knowledgeable. 🙏🏼🙏🏼
@treye7053 жыл бұрын
I am seeing this comment 9 months after you posted it. I hope that you were able to overcome this issue and if you haven’t it’s not too late. God bless 🙏
@andywallace12202 жыл бұрын
Get some Naltrexone and follow the Sinclair method
@sleeplessinstockwell2 жыл бұрын
How you doing now poppet?
@maria_maric2 жыл бұрын
You will overcome it. It’s not going to be easy, but you will.
@lennyanders16395 жыл бұрын
I quit drinking 13 years ago and took it to the gym, train hard everyday and have never been happier.
@lennyanders16395 жыл бұрын
@AC Michelin Good luck to you brother, exercise everyday at the same time and it will become a habit and take over where the alcohol has left off. AA meetings helped me in the beginning just as a good place to go instead of a bar and to be among people who are also going through the struggle.
@lennyanders16395 жыл бұрын
@AC Michelin You are welcome, you are on the right path, all the best to you and your family.
@lendrury27715 жыл бұрын
@AC Michelin I drink at the gym Workouts are better
@amazingsweet41255 жыл бұрын
What do u do if u go on outings?
@infowazz4 жыл бұрын
that definitely worked for me. i need to get back to it!!! riding a bike also was immensely helpful.
@somella2 Жыл бұрын
Mushrooms completely changed my whole life. I became a better version of myself This experience gave me a lot of confidence about myself and my body. A bunch of bad thought/behavior patterns were broken. One of these were pretty bad OCD that made me wash my hands a lot. It gave me a lot of hope that thing will be fine, this is one thing that I heard throughout the trip; Everything is alright. The main reason for the trip was my severe depression and it definitely helped me(although it's not gone). Before all I could do was lay in bed. Now I am trying to rebuild my life one step at a time which wasn't possible before.
@JamesBrownn1 Жыл бұрын
Overcoming the power of addiction is no easy achievement. Every day can be a struggle against inner turmoil and outside pressures, exerting influence on you😢
@SuggarChona Жыл бұрын
A lot of people have testified about this and I really want to give it a shot. I put so much on my plate and it definitely affects my stress and anxiety levels
@SuggarChona Жыл бұрын
@JulieAkinDoes he make deliveries across the states??
@kayceeken5550 Жыл бұрын
Tripping is not really bad but find a good mycologist Who will teach you the right things you need to know
@jasperdudek Жыл бұрын
Mush_pharm is the best, he's been my supplier for anything psychedelics.
@mikeforcerer85377 жыл бұрын
I gave up alcohol 3 months before my daughter was born. I'm now 16 months sobers and feeling great. Best decision i've ever made
@penelopewelch8315 жыл бұрын
And how are you now? Are you well and able to change things for yourself and put energy into yourself so you both benefit?
@hippiecheezburger54575 жыл бұрын
Is your baby okay?
@siriolsen78055 жыл бұрын
health issues could be a symptom of mercury poisoning. Anyone struggling should google Andy Cutler, read the article by Rebecca Rust Lee on the Weston Price website (just google these tree names and it will come up) And read the Cutler success stories by googling this. Please do, it really is the only safe way and yo will learn why it has helped so many. Wish you all the best!
@marttoks5 жыл бұрын
Ann, you are amazing and shining your light! And what a son you have. Congrats!! 🙏❤️
@alexawermuth12193 жыл бұрын
@@hippiecheezburger5457 he wssnt pregnant his girl was 😂😂
@anewhorizon56225 жыл бұрын
Wow, an inspiring story. I began my sobriety journey 11 days ago....
@patricklawrence22075 жыл бұрын
Well dun 1 day at a time hav u tried t AA meeting
@jamalsinjab51374 жыл бұрын
Good for stay strong.
@patricklawrence22074 жыл бұрын
@@jamalsinjab5137 OK thanks its hard times now corona virus no meeting but we got our phone and we can listen to shares and talk to other members 😷👍
@patricklawrence22074 жыл бұрын
Hi well done 2 u are u still sober pal
@patriciasantiago89554 жыл бұрын
stay strong one day at a time
@jeffzweygardt4152 жыл бұрын
You got me! Made a grown man cry. I wish everyone could watch this.
@KathleenGage6 жыл бұрын
At 35 years sober, I know for fact, you lose things when you sober up. Things you wonder if you can live without. These are the very things that were killing you. In hindsight, the loss turns into great gains. The greatest gain is a life of accountability, integrity and peace of mind. Nice job on this TedX talk
@markg.42465 жыл бұрын
Amen sister! Sobriety has been the greatest adventure of my life.
@AutomaticDuck3005 жыл бұрын
You save a lot of money and time. You might lose friends but you can always increase the number of friends you have. You can't get back the time you've spent.
@siriolsen78055 жыл бұрын
health issues could be a symptom of mercury poisoning. Anyone struggling should google Andy Cutler, read the article by Rebecca Rust Lee on the Weston Price website (just google these tree names and it will come up) And read the Cutler success stories by googling this. Please do, it really is the only safe way and yo will learn why it has helped so many. Wish you all the best!
@kitssch5 жыл бұрын
I appreciate this so much ty
@kellyclark-easley55905 жыл бұрын
Notable! Thank you. Your words give me deep thoughts, Much needed. Love an light on your journey.
@If-Cats-Could-Talk8 ай бұрын
Thank you for this. She spoke her message beautifully. Speaking about these things to so many takes courage. I recently relapsed. I thought after 1 year or so sober I could drink socially once.. well that didn't work. I pray for anyone suffering from alcohol addiction. May we all be lifted from this burden and instead use our time, money and energy to make the world a better place. Blessings to everyone ❤
@77greenmama3 жыл бұрын
So eloquent, beautifully spoken. The heavy lifting of getting sober...and the shame of female drinking. I’m on that journey now and this really hits home.
@LEIGHPFOSI8 жыл бұрын
Hearing you speak of your son and his love for you warmed my heart. Very very much.
@tootseug5 жыл бұрын
I'm interested to know, how old was your son at that time?
@carolnewlands86305 жыл бұрын
You just told my story!!!!!!!! "But it's only wine and if it were dangerous all of Europe would be alcoholics"..that is what I told myself ...7 years sober...God bless you..NOW write THAT down!!xo
@nancyclarke67937 ай бұрын
I recently read your book "Drink" and was impressed by your research and your personal story. I grasped your message immediately. Having been sober with AA for 15 years, I am struggling with sobriety again at 67. I have also worked with some other programs. A high bottom for sure. I have read in the past many of the books to which you refer. I am confident and hopeful. Thank you for your honesty. Nancy
@zendavid22055 жыл бұрын
in dark difficult times, her son reminds me that reaching for gratitude can heal my perspective..thank you
@kevinramsey97585 жыл бұрын
My first time sober - I loved telling everyone about my high bottom. My second time sober was while living in my travel trailer. Life is awesome now but omg what a bumpy ride back to sanity. Bless you AA.
@shirleycolee8616 жыл бұрын
'Our secrets keep us sick' - so very true. Thank you, Ann Dowsett-Johnston for an excellent talk. So sorry about your lovely, dear, wonderful mom, that happened to too many women in that era.
@godwinmuhangi88032 жыл бұрын
Inspiring talk
@Bishop5551006 жыл бұрын
I'm in tears listening to this because of my family dynamics. Thank you for sharing.
@jaybee85816 жыл бұрын
I empathize 100%. I'm an alcoholic and drug addict, clean and sober since 28-1-1994, one day at a time. Life has never been easy, even after becoming clean and sober, well especially after becoming clean and sober. There is nothing to hide behind, no drink or drugs to mask my life and emotions. Rehab and AA helped me so much, I am eternally grateful to both. Rehab introduced me to AA. I tried many times to self-detox...............never worked, before rehab. The Serenity Prayer: God, grant me the Serenity To Accept the things I cannot change Courage to change the things i can And Wisdom to know the difference. It is so, so dear to me. Living my life one day at a time and trying to live in the moments of each day is how I do it. The past is gone, the future is unknown, so living in the present clean and sober is such a gift.
@erfroot38294 жыл бұрын
Boring BS
@tylertyler822 жыл бұрын
AA was a joke to me. A room full of self-pitiers. Constantly talking about what losers they were (their words not mine). AA is not for everyone.
@cherylschumaker1366 Жыл бұрын
Thank You for gentle reminder...love the sernity prayer for many reasons....
@pounamubts78025 жыл бұрын
Ann Dowsett Johnston YOU got everything back... others nearly lost YOU - Welcome Back ! Thank you for your courage !!
@brittanyparsons33925 жыл бұрын
As a recovering alcoholic and a speaker, I truly appreciate this story. Thank you for sharing! You’re an inspiration!
@Gurp70793 жыл бұрын
6 weeks sober and i feel so awakened, physically and mentally
@lauraleewright2646 Жыл бұрын
Bravo! Ann, I am also you! Your message is important and true.
@peta71667 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your talk Ann, I am just now seriously addressing my problem with alcohol before it’s too late. I grew up in an alcoholic household and never thought I’d be on my way to raising my children in the same environment after the domestic violence and emotional turmoil I grew up with. Enough is enough now and I am kicking my relationship with this poison to the curb in favour of a more healthy lifestyle and to be a better role model for my kids. It’s a hard slog but an even harder slog is dying a slow death from liver cancer or winding up with alcohol-induced dementia as my grandmother did 😢
@totallyrandom11266 жыл бұрын
You can do it. My sister is sober 25 years BUT it all started with day one....stay strong.
@Clearabove6 жыл бұрын
How is it going?
@Quinefan5 жыл бұрын
I recommend "The Easy Way to Control Alcohol" by Allen Carr.
@steveguzman3755 жыл бұрын
How’s it going? Is it going well?
@brianpenner16235 жыл бұрын
What a loving and wise son you made.
@kathrynmaree77836 жыл бұрын
You can add me to your list as well You got me back.... Today I stop drinking Thank you for being such a brave, witty, articulate, kind woman and sharing your story
@whyimarko6 жыл бұрын
i'm trying to keep from drinking too. all the best to you - good luck! i
@brihutchison21555 жыл бұрын
7 months pregnant/7 months sober! Longest I've been sober in over 10 years... it's been nice to remember what clarity feels like... despite the occasional prego-brain moment!
@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr28235 жыл бұрын
Stay that way. You can do the same things you did before, only you'll get bored fast if it's all booze-centered.
@beingbernard137 жыл бұрын
thankyou for your courage and grace....i'm sober now 25yrs...the gains are my life vs not a life...
@surfsupmama37639 жыл бұрын
That was one of the most beautiful, heartfelt TED Talks I've seen in a while. Thank you!
@WyndolB5 жыл бұрын
Your son is amazing. I hope you are well and I am so grateful for hearing your TedTalk. Your insights are quite helpful. Blessings
@CTeale16 жыл бұрын
I loved this presentation. She stated an international problem, gave her experience, and even gave a solution to the problem. I sincerely hope she stays active sharing this information with others. Also, her presentation skills are exceptional!
@Red88Rex8 жыл бұрын
Whether or not you get hired again, you did the right & noble thing.
@suzannenichols69006 жыл бұрын
Time to be her own boss.
@AuroraBoarder15 жыл бұрын
Hopefully the book will make her rich enough to not need a job!
@nicklaus245 жыл бұрын
See similar problem in India. Especially metros. It is not an easy fight - personally (went through a tough time) and being subjected to so much marketing impressions. But thank you for this. It did help me to stay om course. The happiness that we get from alcohol or drugs, is a momentary high. Win a pitch. Hey lets celebrate with a drink. And no one stops at one. Bottom line.
@siriolsen78055 жыл бұрын
health issues could be a symptom of mercury poisoning. Anyone struggling should google Andy Cutler, read the article by Rebecca Rust Lee on the Weston Price website (just google these tree names and it will come up) And read the Cutler success stories by googling this. Please do, it really is the only safe way and yo will learn why it has helped so many. Wish you all the best!
@nicklaus245 жыл бұрын
@@siriolsen7805 please elaborate
@nazbrit8 жыл бұрын
Beautiful! Read her book last year as one of the first on my journey to sobriety. A great book and I stay on the path to Freedom every day. Not easy, but Life is so much better without grog in it, and I feel and look 5 years younger, as well as having more money in the bank. Thanks Ann.
@cleanrider14118 жыл бұрын
how'd you do it ? sobriety ?
@nazbrit8 жыл бұрын
Sobriety and helping people. Also a great community on www.hellosundaymorning.org (helps people quit drinking or moderate) and the website is sponsored by the Oz government. Yes, really!
@rl58477 жыл бұрын
Great site, been a member for 3 weeks and it has been a life changer.
@nazbrit7 жыл бұрын
Really good to hear that, Rob. Met up with another HSMer yesterday evening, in London. Wonderful, honest community and Life gets so much better when we quit drinking. It's amazing!
@heenybell77497 жыл бұрын
I won't
@Randomgirl252575 жыл бұрын
Really powerful message! I had never thought about how young women are not eating as much before drinking (as men are), AND are drinking something twice as strong! Experience is wisdom. Thank you!
@liontazi32805 жыл бұрын
Lindsey Lampe alcool make the cancer
@marttoks5 жыл бұрын
Ann, you are amazing and what a fantastic son you have. Lots of love and joy! ❤️🙏
@tomatlanta26652 жыл бұрын
She is Brilliant - A Fab Speaker!
@Alabastergirl5 жыл бұрын
I respect you tremendously!!! Telling the truth and confronting all the lies and deception. 🦋
@rhondagriffiths5705 жыл бұрын
That was so fabulous!!! I was tearing up at the end! Thank you for being so brave! I’d hire you in a heartbeat! You are going to help so many people!!!! GOD BLESS YOU!😇💜🙏👍☀️🌻
@gmvalentine6265 жыл бұрын
Yes, that ending had me sobbing.
@joaninha34848 жыл бұрын
Heartfelt talk. Your son sounds amazing.
@jaydee53264 жыл бұрын
he is amazing i promise
@BlkDiesel9 жыл бұрын
Such a powerful video by Ann Dowsett-Johnston, her story really resonated with me. As I have been on my own journey with Alcohol and have just began my sobriety this has been such a great video to reinforce my decision to be sober. Thank you Ann for your candor and your powerful story.
@melodeelucido820110 жыл бұрын
Well said Ann. Thank you for your courage
@Ana-lh9sd Жыл бұрын
Amen i wish you all the power to keep going
@debsmith19366 жыл бұрын
Alcohol ruined my Marriage. It was nice to her a woman’s perspective. Thank You.
@martycarmichael38855 жыл бұрын
Deb Smith. My ex-wife wouldn’t stop and ruined a 21 year marriage. Alcohol can be vicious.
@helenwalker57044 жыл бұрын
Mine too 😥
@frankielogan18634 жыл бұрын
🤦🏽♀️ on the same path If I don’t stop. I hope it’s not too late.
@deborahferguson11639 жыл бұрын
That was powerful. Thank-you !!!
@lucylingo87396 жыл бұрын
This has inspired me more than you could ever know. Put that on your list! Inspiring other women
@elizabethgitau40405 жыл бұрын
Am from Kenya and its the same big problem here.started AA yesterday.
@katherinem25125 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🙌 So wonderful. Almost 16 months sober here 🦋🦋🦋
@Shellyshocked5 жыл бұрын
❤
@divabartender55387 жыл бұрын
So many tears I love you I needed to hear everything you said
@imeldapearce5 жыл бұрын
This made me cry. Good for me, being able to feel.
@jessicawatson4035 жыл бұрын
Indeed this was powerful
@ttown7025 жыл бұрын
At least it hasn't made us do that. Definitely get emotional when I don't have a drink :/ I've been cutting back. It's So hard to stop. Im Still drinking a pint a day at least smh I know if I don't stop now it's going to get
@clarika20075 жыл бұрын
made me cry too, I am feeling more emotions these days and thank you for saying that. I am happier when I feel more emotional and connected to people and my work. I need to feel emotional, I am an artist too. I drink, but once or twice a week now, so this is great news, I am no longer depressed. I am happy with my life and very grateful each day.
@unavailablefloor6 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on the sobriety, strength and charisma! I'm so happy for you
@nancysadler96483 жыл бұрын
Best Ted Talk presenter I’ve ever heard. Spoke from the heart and not like it was a practiced and overly rehearsed speech.
@petmomful22606 жыл бұрын
I am very grateful that alcohol has no pull for me. My dad was a very abusive alcoholic and he basically traumatized all of us. Our family is a mess because of it, and I don't drink at all.
@TremendousSax6 жыл бұрын
petmom ful Good for you for being one of the few capable of learning from the mistakes of others and not keeping your family curse alive
@saysHotdogs5 жыл бұрын
My mother never drank or anything but I don’t drink because it ages you faster. It’s pure vanity that keeps me from alcohols door lol.
@karlaelvis98156 жыл бұрын
BRAVO FOR STANDING UP - shining your light into the dark corners of addiction - helping women everyone - you are a heroine.
@kristin48403 жыл бұрын
I watch these videos to give me hope. I’m the parent of a 23 year old drug addict/alcoholic son. I hope one day he is sober and telling a great story like this.
@janemorbaofficial Жыл бұрын
This is so riveting and truthful she has a wonderful way to share this story, we need to be aware of what is going on with alcohol and women. Wellness is key.
@celestelackay55123 жыл бұрын
I've never been a heavy drinker, but my husband is. I found myself drinking every day because I wanted HIM to have less to drink. Given that I have been unemployed since Covid hit SA in April last year, I have a good excuse to drink. I decided to do OcSober this year for the first time, mainly to show myself and my 17-yr-old daughter that I/she can do anything I/she sets my mind to. 17 days and I can't believe how wonderful I feel! I am 51 years old today, am the daughter of an alcoholic dad and a mom who really shouldn't have drank. Old habits die hard, but I am me. I start exercising next month, not to loose menopause weight, but to sleep even better, breathe easier and take advantage of the very real feeling of my regenerating organs, the return of my memory and energy.
@a.Janine.pretty3 жыл бұрын
Working on this myself… tough but feeling better about myself is worth it, healing my liver is worth it, being able to function alone without it is worth it and being able to live longer and happier is the best part of all!
@virginiasmith52786 жыл бұрын
wow this is an amazing talk! What an amazing woman you are an incredible role model and your son is an amazing man. The way you finished your talk I had goosebumps all over thank you for this gift thank you
@teacherrobin31926 жыл бұрын
I really admire this lady for her honesty and her very well spoken talk. Thank you Ann!
@tracigodfrey49652 жыл бұрын
BRAVO! And.....THANK YOU SO MUCH! You are a GEM!
@CapriccioCello5 жыл бұрын
I quit drinking,about17years ago,was at AA,make a therapy,this saved my Life,and im very thankfull🙏and thank you for Sharing your Story with us!
@thomask48365 жыл бұрын
Ann, I have had my battles and finally in my mid 60's, I am winning. I have watched thousands of KZbin videos but I have never felt the compulsion to overtly applaud, until just a moment ago. I hope these words have found you doing very well! Take Care, Tom
@kevinbraden94456 жыл бұрын
I have not had a drink for over 14 months , and I'm so thankful and blessed that I'm able to say no I dont miss it and I want to live a clean life thank you lord jesus christ!!!
@TremendousSax6 жыл бұрын
Kevin Braden You replaced alcohol with a new delusion: good for not drinking though
@kevinbraden94456 жыл бұрын
@@TremendousSax it's called will power if you believe in something more power to you
@cynthiahawkins23897 жыл бұрын
One day at a time. Go to meetings, find sober buddies to hang with. Be kind to yourself. Get help. Ask. Don't be ashamed. Alcoholism (like depression) is not a 'character flaw"..in time, you may find that a sober life can be its own reward. That's what happened for me, and while I don't presume to tell people how THEY should go, that's what worked, in my case.
@rjjd60296 жыл бұрын
Cynthia Hawkins ,.
@tootseug5 жыл бұрын
Cynthia Hawkins: Really good advice! Thank you.
@siriolsen78055 жыл бұрын
health issues could be a symptom of mercury poisoning. Anyone struggling should google Andy Cutler, read the article by Rebecca Rust Lee on the Weston Price website (just google these tree names and it will come up) And read the Cutler success stories by googling this. Please do, it really is the only safe way and yo will learn why it has helped so many. Wish you all the best!
@simoneee315 жыл бұрын
Cynthia Hawkins THANK YOU!! Today is Day 1 for me and I’m going to take your advice. I’m tired of alcohol :(
@chrisskater16495 жыл бұрын
@@simoneee31 me too. I just started back in the rooms of AA. I had 15 months sobriety, took one drink and that pretty much lasted eight and a half years . Now I've just been asked to move out of my place soon am so and scared of being homeless again. It's hard not to drink because I feel I have already lost everything. Alcohol is the main reason for that though. Such a vicious cycle. Active alcohol addiction sucks
@celeste85095 жыл бұрын
I need to read this woman's book! "I drank much more than you are imagining." Grateful to be Sober, clean and happy 9 months today 4-11-19 !! Get a sponser, you cannot beat this on your own if you are the real deal 💔
@MrGreeneyedcat4 жыл бұрын
What a beautifully executed powerfully delivered heart felt message, spoken so many can intelligently understand alcoholism. Just my thought.
@jackiebrown70776 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. I'm questioning my drinking these days so your video made me think.
@thethrillofpattaya84046 жыл бұрын
Here is a little "food for thought" Jackie... Non-Alcoholics NEVER question their drinking (unless of course because of certain medical conditions). Good luck.
@olliuqnor6 жыл бұрын
Jackie Brown i’m questioning the same...
@NicciEisenhauer5 жыл бұрын
I wish you inspiration and grace on your journey... when you're ready. :-)
@monza80815 жыл бұрын
Jackie Brown Me too
@karenkaren31894 жыл бұрын
It’s possible to live without alcohol, I have for over eight years.
@karengriffin61688 ай бұрын
You are inspirational, families 🙏!
@kellykay2175 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your honesty and courage! Bravo. I especially appreciate you pointing out that so many women of childbearing age drink regularly. I'm in healthcare and its so epidemic in the midwest. I see how long term drinking causes anixety, depression, weight gain, and mood swings. I hope so many people watch this video. Much love
@pbrooks96 жыл бұрын
Very courageous woman. Inspiring to me!
@byrongraham31898 жыл бұрын
Bravo ! My older sister died from alcohol related illness at 43. Watching my mother go through that was an utter and complete nightmare.
@suesjoy8 жыл бұрын
Byron Graham so sorry for your loss. Bless.✨
@viridipupurea9 жыл бұрын
sharing this has been courageous, thank you.
@virginiahilman7786 Жыл бұрын
I applaud you i am 66 stopped drinking 4 years ago.
@juliahaw2 жыл бұрын
Literally tears streaming down my face at the end. Bravo and thank you for this beautiful talk.
@ireneoconnell69947 жыл бұрын
What a fabulous lady. Wish her all the best...great talk
@jbox06122 жыл бұрын
Thank you for telling the truth! We need to break the cycle.
@lourdesaguilar70715 жыл бұрын
I read your book in early sobriety. I related it to it so much and it helped me get sober. Thank you. 🙏🏼
@karienpenderis5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. It is such a truth - my journey to reset my body's biochemistry without alcohol starts today. I am so looking forward to live a life without this daily mind games
@amandaterry43819 жыл бұрын
Great message and good for you for coming out, inspiring others, and accepting the fight to protect future generations.
@brianpenner16235 жыл бұрын
What a loving and wise son you helped make.
@ryanmartin80724 жыл бұрын
I was sober for coming up 2 months and while away on holiday I drank on 2 of the 7 days, I have felt awful since and it has been a reminder of why I don’t drink, there are so many positives to not drinking and so many negatives to drinking, back to taking it one day at a time!
@vilhelmhammershoi38712 жыл бұрын
Wow! Ann! what valour! thank you for sharing!
@jessicaroberts8353 жыл бұрын
Great information to do research on. I've been sober thirty yesrs; my how things have changed!😀 What a wonderful son!
@drawsandpaints6 жыл бұрын
Powerful and moving. I am grateful to you, Ann, for telling it like it is. Thank you xx
@davidranny87379 жыл бұрын
THE POINT ..Any video and every video is an achievement full stop . however each individual that views it is different and learns something different because or their own life experiences . I see this talk as an amazingly thoughtfull piece or work by an amazingly strong individual and although I am a 37 year old man I can honestly say that I've been there . Even when I see comments that disappoint me I have faith in the human race that each time someone projects a negative consequence upon such an inspirational piece of though provoking life lessons learnt at work, in some way everyone learns more about them self. .
@pn.38463 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for being so honest, raw, and amazing!
@anneridley45454 жыл бұрын
Inspiring and humbling - you are an amazing person!
@robertganley3134 жыл бұрын
Excellent talk! We need to get this (USA) Country back! 30 years sober!
@wilbertohara41025 жыл бұрын
Beautiful and necessary book for professional women who are trying to cope spiritually!
@frankrawl87052 жыл бұрын
Your are an incredible women!!!!!!!! You have soooooooo much grace and love ❤️I wish you the best life has to offer ❤️
@lynnettemisciskia90755 жыл бұрын
Somebody else commented the last minute was important. It brought me to tears.
@debbiehorn42219 жыл бұрын
We have fuzzing thinking about alcohol, lol, good one. I went down that path also. Oh how true her words! Thank you, this is very good. Everyone should listen as alcohol has touched our lives, every single one of us!
@eddenoy3219 жыл бұрын
+Debbie Horn That is not true for everyone.But believe whatever you like.
@WingsWithFeet8 жыл бұрын
Alcohol is everywhere though. Even if you never touch the stuff you have been influenced in some way by its effects.
@hildafletcher25915 жыл бұрын
I salute you. We are given & expected to drink. Such a huge money maker.
@brigitteleyland6643 жыл бұрын
Ugh what an amazing and supportive son and family she has. Great talk!
@AimeeDenise_bct3 жыл бұрын
So much respect 🙌 to you for sharing your story to help others heal. 🦋 It's a true calling. I absolutely found my purpose in telling my story of borderline death ☠️ and life implosion 🤯 to healing my brain and body to get my life back! Much luv! 🕉 You can heal!
@lowdown46517 жыл бұрын
I'm in recovery and spot a jive tap dance story ,Ann is very very good honest down to earth thank you ms Johnston god bless.
@project10bball9 жыл бұрын
Amazing honesty
@pamelakoefoed37204 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your transparency and for making a difference!