The Battlefield shift : When life unfolds in unexpected ways | Vaishalli Dagar | TEDxKIET

Mentor to thousands of defense aspirants through her Insight SSB platform : Vaishalli Dagar answers her most frequently asked question of why she didn't join the defense services despite being recommended five consecutive times.
In her talk, Vaishali defines her journey of resilience and buoyancy, highlighting the notion of self-belief and determination that allows one to overcome any hurdle. She emphasizes the importance of staying true to one's convictions and adapting to life's unexpected turns. Vaishalli Dagar, a renowned defence mentor helping defence aspirants fulfill their dream through her platform : INSIGHT SSB. With an impressive AIR 26 in the CDS 2-2018 examination and a remarkable record of clearing defence exams five times consecutively, she has received recommendations each time, highlighting her consistent excellence. Hailing from an Army background, Vaishalli has always harboured a deep-seated aspiration to serve the nation, and she is actively doing so by sharing her wealth of knowledge through the INSIGHT SSB app and her KZbin channel.
Her success as a mentor is evident by her students receiving more than 200 recommendations. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

[@insightssb]

Thankyou for giving such a Wonderful Platform for Sharing My Journey.

[@Balle_baaz]

You're actually very strong ma'am 💪💪 We promise..that we will try our best and make u feel proud ❤🎉

[@madhu9.]

Mam ...you are a warrior without uniform..... great👏🏼

[@ambarrajawat5023]

Incredibly inspiring, Vaishalli! It's true that sometimes our life long dreams don't work out, it's because something even greater is in store for us. Can resonate with this deeply. Always proud to be a part of Insight SSB! 💪✨

[@ChandanKumar-hh4ql]

thanks a lot ma'am 😊😊😊

[@sarohabhumika859]

Lots of love and power to you my super lady😊❤ May God strengthen you always 🧿💞 I pray for you good health and wellness always 🫂 Will See you soon with good results mam...you are really a 💎 I literally don't have words to express how much i look forward to you...your hardwork..your personality..your family...means everything mam❤️ Stay same my vaishali dii💗🧿

[@pratiksh.yamishra]

Finally finally we came to know about the reason behind your not joining forces .. you r a fighter ma'am... Very inspiring ❤❤

[@himanshusharma-cs1bq]

She is gem of a person. She still does same amount of hard work to collect current affairs for us so that we can become officers and achieve our dream. Thank you so much mam😊😊

[@Anjalikumari-mn8kg]

"today i am standing on my heels " when you said this mam i got tears in my eyes ❤❤❤ I am veryy lucky to be your student . Mam just want dil se ki you stay happy and healthy as you are ❤❤🌺🌺🌷🌷

[@Shreya_Rathore]

I was literally crying while listening to your point of arthritis and thinking how difficult it was for you to tell the reason of not making through your dreams, and I felt that heaviness in your voice too while you were telling that reason, 😢 At last you find your reason for happiness, but I felt a void in you, for not getting into the academy, despite giving your best. It was making me impossible to believe that at such a young age, how one can be diagnosed with ARTHRITIS. I felt god played unfairly this time. "Kuch nahi, bas aapke haathon laakhon logon ki help krwaani thi unko, or khud k bajaye un sab ko academy pahauchte huye dekhwaana chahte tha!" ✨ Ma'am, you're just amazing, I'm swayed by your humbleness, down to earth nature and by your fighting spirit, you're truly an inspiration.❤ Keep smiling and keep fulfilling the dreams of many aspirants like us. ✨ @insightSSB rocks!!!! 🤘😄

[@khushisharma4411]

Firstly the tears and that sadness in your voice mam when u talked about your health and how your dreams shattered...then the joy when u talked about your loved ones ....lastly the happiness and the smile when u were talking about INSIGHT SSB that how it gave u the goal of your life....u r such an inspiration mam....I'm felling so much blessed and proud to be a student of yours. And for sure I'll too make u proud...

[@harshavardan3649]

I have also always wondered why you didnt join the service even after getting recommended 5 times .Having gone through something similar not medical though here I was feeling that I was a Victim and now I could also empathazie with you. Thank you for sharing your story. By doing that youve shared Confidance and Solidarity and feeling of “Its Okay and find another thing that you love”. Thankyou once again.

[@nikitarana4323]

This TEDx talk is a true reflection of your strength and dedication. You has overcome tremendous challenges and continues to support your students in achieving their dreams. Your story is not just inspiring, but a powerful reminder of the impact one person can have on many lives. 💯💯💫💫

[@shrishtichanda1124]

She is working hard for us to make our dream come true. So let's work hard to make her proud 💪💪🔥🔥

[@KavitaGarhwal-re4dm]

This story inspire us a lot because we have many excuses that not clear the exam . But you clear this exam in only 2 months + ssb interview. Thanks ma'am 🙂🙂

[@sabhiyakhan9809]

One of the best speaker, motivator, person, teacher ever I have ever seen and that's you Vaishali mam❤❤

[@rudrapratapmisra2461]

Really very much inspiring ma'am I'm a student of ma'am, she always puts 200% for aspirants like us ... Always pushing us to get what we want .. thanks a lot for everything ma'am.. it means a lot to us 🙏

[@RachnaJakhar-ed1ey]

Everything happens for a reason........mam......❤❤....now you can feel it also......you have blessings of thousands of students......

[@vanshikatiwari3768]

Loved when you said ..invest in relationship who stands with you. Truly inspirational.

[@devashishnegi6676]

You nailed it Vaishali Dagar. Such a motivating story of yours. Huge respect from bottom of our heart🫡

[@Akshay_gaur_028]

It requires a lot of courage to bounce back from a situation from which many can give up You inspire thousands of aspirants Keep doing the great work❤❤

[@nindia0016]

Salute mam . Thank you so much mam for being their with every defence aspirant.

[@anjalithakur6219]

You are incredible. Really proud of you mam . Despite of having health issue you are still supporting the aspirants.

[@SWETHAK-is9td]

It takes whole courage to live a life apart from what you dreamt off! You are truly inspiring for millions.

[@somanshumishra138]

Radiant like a sun 💥💥# Vaishali Mam🫡🫡

[@nishi5224]

There is this thing "Everything happens for a reason " , If you would have recommended that day , it would be permitted to only your life mam, But now , your thought is changing many lives around you and it gives an incredible meaning to your presence in this world 🌎

[@abhi25088]

Really ma'am you are a great influencer ❤❤

[@nidhirawat2491]

sometimes things doesnt workout bcz there is something much more bigger than you had ever think , mam is inspiration and the light in the life of those who wants to join fauj . vamos 💝

[@divyatkdkumari2248]

Invest your energy in those relationships who always be there in each and every situation either your parents , friends 🥰 . Thank you ma'am to remind me that I am not talking to my friend from last 1 months due to some misunderstanding but not I'm going to start new journey with my friend who is I really really wanted to be with him ❣️ .

[@atulsingh4471]

Truly inspirational story. Hat's off to u ma'am you r indeed doing great in your life by guiding us.❤

[@passionatevloging]

Mam literally i got tears in my eyes when u tell your medical problem May be bcz i fell some type of family members connection as a insight ssb member Great inspiration for us mam❤🙏

[@sandeepkaur6352]

You are a true inspiration for all of us ma'am ❤

[@piyushattar26]

More power to you ma'am 😁 Thankyou for guiding us and making our way easier towards the academy.

[@prayagraj7386]

Just want to say thank you so much mam. I will also message you that I have achieved it mam because of your Hardwork and smart work that you put in those video (BTW I'm from NAG Batch) You are TRUE fighter mam

[@nidhisatija]

Love U and your Zeal! Jai Hind 🇮🇳 This stood as Ray of Hope in Darkness to me ❤

[@shivendrakumarverma553]

Superb speech ma'am ❤ Jai Hind ma'am 🙏

[@bhuvanask553]

She is the best❤

[@VishaL13YadaV]

So inspiring ma’am u are truly a lady warrior who was made for Defence forces🫡 but due to some circumstances u were not able to do so but u made sure that u inspire so many to join the forces. Through ur masterclass teaching and with your help there are thousands who have joined academy and forces all because of ur efforts… We are blessed to get a teacher like you ma’am ❤️🙏🏻

[@himanisant7474]

I'm sooo soo proud to say I learned from you. You have been a true inspiration, and I'm so honored to have had you as my teacher during this important chapter of my life. Thankyouuu ma'am ❤️🤞 stay happy n healthy!!!!😊

[@aanchalsingh1516]

Mam you are my inspiration from ur smart work strategy I starting finding defence exam quiet easy 💖💖💖

[@anonymous-pe7bo]

Indeed inspiring story!❤

[@samruddhiwaman1753]

Amazing to hear mam your story man.......I am proud of you ❤.........you are strong and brave........I am sure that your hardwork for us will be worth it❤️

[@bishnoibajrang]

Really inspiring, got enrolled today to AFCAT batch and got to hear this ted talk made me feel great, after this batch I'll to be one of your student serving nation....

[@Vaishnavi-iy4og]

Mam while watching ur ted talk I really got goosebumps and emotional at the same tym thnk u so much for sharing ur story and also thnx a lot for the efforts u put in for all of us

[@user-vv3fd6jo1x]

Thank you Ma'am for sharing this with us. Your words and efforts inspire me every day, every moment spent to work upon oneself. Thank you for this magic. ✨

[@nidhivatsa1197]

Mam, We will live your dream and make you proud... You are our true inspiration.... Lots of love❤️ ... And wish you a very happy and healthy life Mam❣️

[@mansinegi234]

Ma'am you are really an inspiration for all of us we all are grateful for having mentor like you u have helped us in many ways whether it's about providing us Last min current affairs vids ,free notes , pyqs , daily que practice,diy, timetable, motivation...u r great ma'am🥺the best example of beauty with brain ❤️

[@sudhanshukumarpandey]

now I know her well she is an awesome lady with immense positive energy

[@olal_ooo1185]

That's your calling, your destiny, your fate..So inspiring and lovely story to hear . I admire you so much 🫡

[@ncc_journey]

Jai Hind mam Today I was feeling lack of something inner me but when I gone through this video, the line which u said " You can do it " inspired me a lot thanku so much mam❤😊

[@abhijittalukdar9431]

Thank You Mam❤

[@sarahramdinfelhmar5749]

Bawling my eyes out because she’s so strong! Great personality 🥹🫶🏻

[@Amanahlawat647]

Great mam 🫡🫡 One of the legend woman🗿🗿 Very inspiring ❤️❤️

[@aasthasoni8799]

That's truly an inspiring story ma'am and I am soo glad I came across your channel through which I got a chance to be under your mentorship...We as your students can see the amount of hard work you do for us. Thank you soo much for everything ma'am will make sure to make you proud❤❤

[@gopikaanilgeetha6198]

Salute You Ma'am 🇮🇳

[@user-si3ko6wc5l]

She is the best teacher n motivator thank you mam❤

[@nupursingh6559]

Really inspiring a true officer she is 😊

[@ruchitakotkar4340]

You are truly an inspiration Mam 🙌

[@bhavananaikar6101]

The pain of dreams getting shattered 💔 but god's plan is always the best.

[@Rogeraspirant]

I don't have any words for you mam, you are really great person for me you are not only my motivation but you are like a god, sister, mother for me. Thank you mam

[@tanu32489]

Very inspiring mam love u❤❤❤

[@saisoumya215]

Thank you for sharing your experience with us ma’am, extremely proud to be your student ❤

[@ANSHITATHAKUR-pm3kg]

She's a gem ❤❤❤

[@NehaVerma-rs9rl]

When u give the trailer on telegram in April...from that time I am waiting for your story...really very inspiring ❤❤...hats of to u mam💟

[@kashishgawde9430]

Besttttttt ✈️❤️

[@user-rp7kf1hm8o]

Mam one of your students here. You inspires and inspires always.

[@_Supriyagoyal]

Truly an inspiration!! Thank you so very much ma'am for your efforts!

[@user-td9vx3ml1z]

I am just speechless. Cannot thank you more for being there for us, thank you so much ma'am❤❤

[@Letsjooon]

I am super super PROUD to say that I'm your student. We insight ssbian love you ❤ Definitely making through this time for you Vaishali mam. Much Much Love to you 🤍

[@spring_doll4859]

Really I don't wanna cry❤️ you are the strongest

[@sanyachauhan3333]

True true gem❤😢 Ma'am u make us proud and genuinely feeling great to be ur batch student ❤❤ Respect 💯🙏

[@nehachaudhary4059]

Thank you so much mam for sharing your story... It's very motivating and thank you for your hard work you do for us to make us good officers. ❤

[@tiadhiman7150]

U r an absolute gem 💎 all the best mam

[@kishori-zv3gs]

Ma'am you are such a great inspiration of so many student❤️👏

[@Patil_Subodh_29]

Such an inspiration for many ❤🙌💯 Hats off to you ma'am 🙌

[@mitalitiwari5656]

Thank you for all the hard work you do for us for absolutely no money. This service to the nation is unnoticed by many. We all respect you ma’am for every effort you put for us❣️

[@mohitkumarsingh2427]

❤❤❤

[@desire2420]

Mam just a goosebump of your story .Salute to you as well as yours husband and parents 😊🙌

[@raghavireddy7025]

Ma'am you are a true inspiration

[@ankit_ranjan_]

Thankyou so much ma'am for always inspiring us 🥺🥺

[@komalsingh123]

Thanks a lot mam for everything you have provided us to make it happen❤

[@pallaviyadav9185]

Mam u are very strong...we all are so proud of you❤

[@RahulgopeRahulgope-d5r]

Nice secccion mam l have follow your process and very very thank you mam

[@where_is_ashika]

This was a much needed one ma'am. Your journey is so inspiring. Grateful to have a mentor like you.

[@Ankitsharma-w3l]

JAI HIND MAM.... WE WILL MAKE YOU MORE PROUD!!

[@LRNR320]

Mam really you are great and inspiration of many one, there is no word to thank you 😊🙏🏻

[@anjalitiwari2028]

So proud of you! You have come a long way! May God bless you! All my love to you!❤😘🤘 Many Congratulations to you and Ajay!

[@Kajal_s8]

You are a warrior ma'am❤ God may have had other plans, but you rocked it anyway! Thankyou for being an incredible mentor and role model. Jai hind🇮🇳

[@neerjadixit4206]

Mam we love you so much!!! May God bless you 🙏❤

[@priyamalviya1410]

You're such an inspiration mam🫡

[@pandiduraim4461]

What a wonderful inspiration mam! You are very great. The live example self confidence.

[@ishitabhatt1008]

❤

[@omsawant9860]

You are a great inspiration ma'am, thank you for being such a great mentor.

[@souravmehraniya2832]

True inspiration ❤

[@yogya.bharti]

Lovely lovely lovely again ❤️

[@abhijeetrathi8203]

Very inspiring ❤❤🙏🙏

[@ajeetswami6005]

Great personality 🔥 Idol for every defence aspirant ❤

[@deepeshverma2298]

Thanku so much for guiding us maam i must say god has a different plan for you seeing your capabilities and your heart he doesn't wanna to let you go in armed forces but he knows you can lead thousands of young minds to your/their dreams which can be someone's whole life .❤ Thanku so much for guiding us i knew it has must given you a lot of pleasure meeting such aspirants . He doesn't broke you whole but he introduced you to what he wants to you to become a game changer ❤

[@architadwivedi1114]

Couldn't be more proud. The proud is of being her student.

[@SaketPrasadGupta]

Very very inspiring maam ❤❤❤❤❤

[@anupamasingh012]

Thank you so much ma'am for always standing behind all the defence aspirants ❤🇮🇳

[@praneetjhala7401]

Mam I value you, your work is really helpful for all the defence students.

[@anjaliparmar1575]

You are an inspiration to hundreds and thousands of us....thank you so much mam ❤️😊

[@RoyalSwag-ip7cm]

The best teacher and a real life warrior ❤

[@Userka812]

🥰Really commendable and lots of love to you