The Best Relationship Advice You’ll Hear Today with Jeff Guenther, LPC | The Mark Groves Podcast

[@nitakh77]

I love this! I am always wo confused about the difference between codependency and needing normal support, love, and reassurance.

[@viccinagli3874]

I love you Mark! And the people you interview... you speak my language ❤

[@orielwiggins2225]

Great episode with a great therapist and creator. He's one of my fave social media regulars and with the monthly fee for the deep dive on each mini video.

[@sarahu5990]

So many ads...

[@antmarino1]

It’s KZbins fault, they have upped their ad placing 😤😤

[@ammu.live100]

Please help 🙏🏼 Guys I'm going through relationship problems. I met a girl on Instagram, she started liking me and got very attracted towards me. Then we came in a relation and fell in love. But now she is acting weird. She use to love me a lot but now she is acting cold & don't want to be with me anymore for no reason. We never fought, we never argued, I never disrespected her still this happened to me. When I asked her why? She said that "I'm not having same feelings for you now & want to move on" Now she is ignoring me on social media and don't want to meet or hangout. I asked her for a chances to make this better but she is not willing to do so. We both are from different colleges & have no common friends. I don't know what should I do now. What's the reason behind this. I just love her and she gets irritated whenever I try to explain her what I feel for her. All she wants is just to come out of this relation. I feel so miserable & defeated as this was my first love experience. This was first time I came much closed to a girl. First date, first hug, first kiss and ofcourse my first breakup. I don't know what went wrong. I am perfect & I knew it and even she use to say this. She use to appreciate me a lot. She use to say that the only thing a girl wants is love, care & support and you give it all. Your the best boyfriend, why didn't we met before. But then after few months she said things are not same anymore and "I don't have same feelings for you anymore". I don't feel the same when you hold my hands, huge me, kiss me as it use to. Is this a reason to break-up. With this reason I can change girls every month. Why she has no sense of commitment and responsibility. Why can't she see my love for her. Why can't feel my pain. why? She is not a bitch like many girls around me in college. She is a decent & very humble and that was the main reason why I came in relation with her. Please & tell me why is this happening and what should I do. I knew its easy to say move on but I'm not able to.

[@punkmeathead3792]

The fact that you’re on a KZbin video posting this worried about what one girl thinks proves you already lost.

[@sarahu5990]

Focus on yourself and giving love to you. You're watching a good podcast here. 👍🏼

[@sunnyblue7800]

If she says she doesnt want to be in a relationship with you anymore and you keep on texting her, why are you surprised that she doesnt respond? Respect her decision and give her the space she is clearly asking for. You dont get to decide if her reason for breaking up with you is valid or not. If she says she is not feeling it, thats that and you need to be respectful of her boundaries. On the plus side you will have time and space to connect with people that actually want to be with you. Why would you want to stay with someone that does not appreciate the time spent together

[@winternightmarecrochet]

Please stop contacting her. It seems to me she made it clear she doesn't want to talk to you. Give yourself that opportunity to move on and learn from the relationship.