The Best Thing That Never Happened to You - Part 1

The ladies of “The Real” reflect on a life event that they are glad never happened - even though at one point they wished it would. Can you think of an event you're glad didn’t come to pass?
Loni Love, Tamera Mowry-Housley, Jeannie Mai and Adrienne Houghton share their biggest life-changing moments →→→ • My Biggest Life-Changi...

[@samantha9852]

"What's meant for you will always be yours." I agree with Tamera. 💯

[@12markito]

Samantha my mom told me this and I remind myself this all the time.

[@--zozo--]

Correction Loni' you are not just Nationwide. You are international. I love you guys.

[@cynthiapaul754]

Yes listening from Canada

[@julienneriviere6723]

@@cynthiapaul754 me too.. loved this show been watching since season 1

[@habebaawad3191]

Yeah I 'm watching this show from Egypt

[@jwil1482]

Soon as I read the title it reminded me of Beyoncé’s song “Best thing I never had” man that’s a good song😍❤️

[@raiya_w]

The best thing that never happened to me was getting accepted into the nursing major program. All my life I thought I'd have some type of career in the medical field, partially because my mom had planted the idea in my head. But half of me has always had a passion for fashion. I'm now a business management major and hope to open my own fashion boutique some day 😊❤️

[@riseup6112]

That's awesome! You are going to be successful if you enjoy it

[@delaney9718]

Girl! I believe in you.. and I hope you made it!

[@Jordishness]

Very glad Loni gave a shout-out to the president of CBS who let her out of her contract, bc that RARELY happens in the industry.

[@fack1002]

Loni is international 🎉heyyyyy Loni from Jamaica

[@ToyaRR]

Girlllll so true. Have to give her a shout out from St. Kitts as well.

[@liby1999]

Also love from the Netherlands Loni🤗

[@shantelwest8968]

yup watching from jamaica too

[@MusiicRebel]

Also from JA🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲

[@javiruiz4405]

Not really

[@TheOtobong]

I enjoyed Loni's story. Lovely!

[@lumieredarling3739]

The best thing that never happened to me was God swatting away man after man who I wanted to be in a relationship with. After God stopped every one of those potential relationships, I would find out something crazy about the guy (one was a huuuuuge stoner, one drank too much, one had an anger problem, one was manipulative, etc). I would get so angry when things would never work out, but God was protecting me.

[@eliceosei6443]

LumiereDarling preach it babe , He always looking out for us 🙌🏾❤️

[@pollyrocks567]

Same sis, God will really show you who you’re not supposed to be with

[@christinainthecity]

Yes!! A man's rejection is god's protection

[@ladyesha]

Amen sister 💙

[@shayda546]

God isn’t real. I’m sorry but wake up boo

[@shaythareal2382]

What’s for you will always be for you. It will never pass you.

[@ioanica8411]

That was the best story I've ever heard from Loni. It was such a perfect example of the best thing that never happened to you. ALSO, not only are you nation wide, you're INTERNATIONAL!

[@kitten7669]

Loni you are international!!!! Watching from Kenya

[@victoria_njeru]

sam ia me too!! 🇰🇪

[@kimberlyk2623]

Yass girl!!

[@Lisa_Flowers]

Me as well!

[@sophiangobeni7368]

South Africa yeaaah Loni!

[@ChooseU4ever]

SeokJin's ho South Africa 🇿🇦 in the house

[@lionelluva]

First, the Rock was def speaking the truth. God is sooo on time, so what is meant for you will happen in His time. Second, I’m so happy for Loni. She’s a wonderful comedienne. Lastly, I think Tamera would’ve played a good Ashley Banks, but I def see why Tatiana Ali was chosen.

[@Minzies2]

Alexandra Griffiths ngl Tamera doesn’t have that personality to play Ashley she would be too boring for the role

[@lionelluva]

Sasha J I believe she would’ve been just fine for the role

[@zora99ny]

Sasha J I don't even think Tam is a great actress but it sounds ridiculous for people to say Tam couldn't play Ashley because she's boring. Ashley was literally the most boring character on the show until she tried to start a singing career (and until the new dry Aunt Viv was cast). Uncle Phil, all the kids and Geoffrey were funnier and more interesting than Ashley. What exactly was so fascinating about Ashley?

[@zora99ny]

Melanin X Yes, I watched the Fresh Prince of Bel Air. What was so interesting about Ashley?

[@ayidas]

Exactly!

[@shashavengesayi6055]

We love you Loni!! And Tam Tam I'm happy you did sister sister

[@kimberley3577]

Shasha Vengesayi heyyy Ravenclaw

[@stephaniemantilla6268]

I don't know what my childhood would have been like without fresh prince....and SISTER SISTER!!! Everyday after school, wait for my mom to come home, she'd cook dinner, we ate and then watched our shows together. Best part of my childhood.

[@teetawn9454]

What a sweet memory with your mom.

[@rebeccalove2065]

Loni is slaying that hair and makeup look , she looks beautiful 😍😍😍😍😍

[@MsClarissa2012]

Y’all keep saying it wouldn’t be right if Tamera played Ashley Banks . Well it’s because you’re use to seeing Tatyana Ali and now you can’t imagine it. Tamara knows how to act , if she was casted she would have pulled the part off and then you would be saying you can’t see any body else as her role.

[@MsMockingbird06]

I could actually see her playing that role and making it her own. She’s a great actress and can sing if they would have chosen to still take the character in that direction, but Sister Sister was great and if I’m not mistaken the twins had some creative control?

[@nasiarena5208]

exactly!!!

[@johnnymyzkyyyy]

Clarissa Alexandria nah it’s because we know it ain’t right

[@KL-nw9mi]

Clarissa Alexandria I think she would have been so good

[@sonatashinome4672]

That’s very true

[@DeniseF]

You've got Irish fans too Loni 😘

[@richelle7142]

My mum once failed a big exam in college, and in the summer while she was studying for a the make up exam, she saw a poster in the library for an essay competition, and she won and met the Queen.

[@anonymousxalimo2286]

Loni gurl... you're international. Belive me you, we love you outside of the US to!!

[@SanyaTheShe]

Going through a really tough break-up currently. I needed this.

[@Chaptersaudio]

How much do I love this topic! Sometimes when you are in the middle of something that seems so difficult and you feel depressed, sad or confused, it is hard to understand the message that all of what you are going through is happening for a reason. Without going into detail, 2017 was a REALLY difficult year for me, from start to finish. However, had I not experienced everything from 2017, it wouldn't have resulted in where I am today in 2018. Which is much happier, healthier, secure and at peace. I think we can all relate to this. Everything happens for a reason and timing is everything. Sometimes we don't get what we want WHEN we want it, in the package we want it.....but in time the Universe will deliver exactly what you need.

[@YPM498]

Belinda Joy Exactly! It’s hard to see while you’re going through it but afterwards you see why what you went through was so important

[@Jujubeanz33]

Amen to that!

[@kortneyj5612]

Not the universe, but God.

[@Msladyrae92]

I got a call back to audition for the bad girls club 🤦🏾‍♀️ I was 22 at the time and I was actually not a “ bad girl “ but was playing it up to get chosen. I ended up not moving further than the callback. I love who I am And where I am in life currently and that def wouldn’t have happened if I went on that show.

[@milcahnd]

Loni you are international.... Trinidad an Tobago 🇹🇹

[@patr1ckk3ll3y]

*Imagines Tamera saying "Mind ya bidness thats all. Just. Mind. Ya....bidness* 😂😂😂

[@zoala001]

I didnt get a job after my graduation. I was so devastated that I booked a ticket right after I heard the news and traveled to middle east. I met my husband through that travel. we are married now for 2 years and he is the best.

[@kateannehoffman8525]

...and little did they know, they are going to win an Emmy this year. love you lots girls!

[@Andeavor]

International, Loni, international.

[@UrbanDecayLova247]

See this is why it’s so obvious when Loni lies, her demeanor is completely different when she’s telling a true story vs a fake one

[@bethyselfmoon]

Tanya B yup

[@momusic3327]

Tanya B so true

[@taviaa.66]

When does she lie? I never watch the show anymore on TV but sometimes I watch the small clips on KZbin. So I have no idea.

[@asdfghjkl-oo7lv]

It's Just Pica Same

[@UrbanDecayLova247]

It's Just Pica most of the times with her dating stories..

[@stillwaiting4peace]

best things that never happened to me : in France when you want to be a doctor you have to pass a certain an exam where there is only 90 places (and we were a thousand student). I ended up 150 out of the thousand, i was DEVASTATED but got picked for midwifery school, so i was like "hey, i guess that's what i'm supposed to do !" went to midwifery school : it was HELL 🔥 the school treated me like sh** but thanks GOD they did, 'cause i'd have been settling for something that wasn't meant for me, today i'm planning on trying AGAIN to become a doctor 'cause i figured that, that's what i've been created to do so i'm still on my journey but i have faith you guys !!! 💪🏾 i CAN, I WILL and I MUST

[@Aara-1]

stillwaiting4peace good luck.

[@stillwaiting4peace]

Araa Mohad thank you 🙏🏾

[@sevnmi314]

tu peux pas repasser l’exam? C’est deux chances normalement non

[@zulyreyes01]

The best thing that never happened to me was getting walked out on when I was pregnant and being heartbroken! I now have conquered each goal and dream! Moved away, working for the best airline in the world, in the process of buying my home, back in college and traveling the world! Also found the love of my life and although we are not together right now, I know he is the only man I’ll ever want to be with!!! Dodge a major bullet when my ex left! Happy he did !

[@SomethingLikeThat64]

I’ve experienced this! I graduated college and have been applying to teaching jobs non stop. Had an interview at 2 schools and the school that I really wanted to work out at turned me down. However I did get a job offer (that I accepted!) and I’m so glad that the school that I previously wanted turned me down! My school pays more and the kids are younger so I know I’m going to have a great time!

[@lilliannaortiz8183]

Omg Loni looks extra beautiful today!!!! That hair girl!!! 💛😍🔥 loving the look!!!

[@aubreyrachel8090]

My favorite quote that I use on my social media is "Everything happens for a reason " I love hearing their storys

[@Sillyshianne123]

all their stories are nice blessings, mines are failing a bunch of classes and still trying to find myself lol

[@Sassy_Princess]

And look at you now Loni. Everyone loves you and I have no clue who Roy the comedian is. Congrats on winning Roy. Congrats Loni for finding your path💙 and Tamera, you pretty much got your own show! Acting but still. Y'all were the main characters✨

[@phoebekafuid9356]

Loni, I'm from Ghana but living in Myanmar. Started watching your show when I was in Malaysia. You're international, Boo

[@jadaforsee1820]

I didn’t use to, but as i get older i truly TRULY believe that EVERYthing happens for a reason and i try not to get so upset about things that i THINK are good for me that don’t happen bc i know now when one door opens another closes !

[@BreannaMae]

Back in 2003 I entered into a singing/songwriting contest. The rules were you had to come up with three original songs, which were judged on best written lyrics, composition, arrangement, production value, vocals, etc. Whoever had the best songs would be offered a development deal with a major label. So I wrote, produced and sang the three songs for the contest, which were voted to be the best by the judges. I won the competition as a result and was offered the development deal. As you can imagine I was ecstatic, to the point where I drove to my parent's house and told them about winning this competition. They were not happy at all, as I was going to drop out of college and pursue a music career. There was a pretty major argument and so I ended up not taking the offer. I was really depressed after that, which put a strain on my relationship with my parents. However, it turns out that a year later that record label went under and was bought out by Sony Music Entertainment. Many of the artists signed to the failed label (especially the newer artists) lost their contracts during the transition. I would've been one of them if I had signed that contract. It was less than a year later that I was offered a record deal by another label and became signed. I've been working in the industry ever since and am soon to have my own record label.

[@nette3800]

Lovely story Loni! My fav story from her, glad she didnt joke around and talk about some sexy guy she didnt date or whatever

[@FionaKayy]

YOU'RE WORLDWIDE LONI! SENDING YOU LOVE FROM LONDON, ENGLAND!! 😘

[@promisthomas7597]

Loni’s makeup looks soo sooo good dang girl❤️😊💕

[@fitts92]

I needed to see this today, just at the right time!

[@bookbag6432]

Amen I needed this.

[@Alexlittle9]

This made me cry💜beautiful🙌🏾

[@anewloveofficial9137]

It's true and I also believe that everything really happens for a reason.

[@JasonB95]

Loni girl you ain't nationwide...you WORLDWIDE!!!! This guy from Guyana sends love.

[@oneindadome4]

The Rock is a beautiful man and sooo manly

[@itwhoitisme7810]

Jennie looks AWESOME

[@connie7192]

I love this show lol! 😂😂😂😂😂

[@Nicky14music]

Loni looks bomb! I love that type of my makeup on her...everyone look amazing!

[@valaseye8677]

Loni is international! Hi Loni from Ghana 🇬🇭

[@nunyabusiness3516]

I love these ladies!

[@iLoveyoouJTito]

I love when they talk about themselves 😍😍😍😍😍

[@ggll5240]

Awww good for you Loni!!

[@tanisoneye6639]

Who else is a Loni ans Tamera fan here in Nigeria???? We looooooooooooove you ladieessssss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@ellaskills]

Yes Loni you're international. 🇳🇬 ♥

[@positive_mind4]

I needed to hear this !

[@MalasiaPatterson]

Love these stories!

[@cjay5995]

such an amazing story 😍

[@michelleh.3326]

Wowww! What great stories!!! 💯💕

[@tt-uv2hc]

Loni’s makeup is better 👀🙌🏽

[@deepalin2481]

yes loni and ladies

[@janeshiafitzpatrick2092]

I love them 😩❤️

[@Bingbangxox]

Crazy inspirational. ❤️

[@allsx510]

Tatyana Ali was my WCW , she was so beautiful and still is 😍😍😍

[@kurazfinest]

Loni you world wide girl ❤❤ I'm watching you in Australia

[@vanickkam1255]

Germany here Lonilove

[@tchannel9354]

Yes!!!loni is National!!i watch her from Germany!

[@maryamal-b7324]

Loni your actually Global !!! Love from Kuwait

[@mariannahunny]

Love from The Netherlands❤️

[@Tsitsi_K]

Loni is actually worldwide now😍

[@MsMockingbird06]

“Can you smell what The Rock is cookin.” 😂 Loni, thanks for that shout out to the president of CBS.

[@howdelydoo]

A world without Sister Sister is a world I don't want to live in! "with your funky little Miata" xD

[@marlonharrison5511]

I can't see Tamera as Ashley Banks.

[@marlonharrison5511]

Akbbba 1 What does being mix have to do with anything?

[@naimaismail4356]

Akbbba 1 I get what you mean but isn’t Hillary mixed? Ya I’m pretty sure she is irl so idk about that part.

[@UrbanAfricano93]

marlon harrison me either

[@JenJHayden]

Naima Ismail exactly.

[@JenJHayden]

A Harris exactly.

[@Deesnipe]

It’s weird that people say Tam couldn’t play Ashley Banks. But surprising I could see that working out. Tatyana did a amazing job in that role but either of them wouldve been great. Everything truly does happen for a reason!

[@mariscaopare4426]

You’re international Loni❤️ 🇬🇭

[@ladycoco473]

I'm lowkey happy that the fresh Prince of Belair casting chose a dark skin girl over a light skin girl

[@meltinwithmilton8968]

Thats ur thought process after that.. watch it again in hopes to recieve the message

[@rebeccalove2065]

I agree , it wouldn’t make sense to have someone biracial playing the daughter of two black parents , and not to mention Tamera doesn’t have the personality and sass to play Ashley Banks

[@li-jalove2175]

but Tamera is black AF I know she tries to act like a white woman but when you see her all you see is a black woman so it woudn't made any difference.

[@dreamergirlbaby]

Asha O Hilary is biracial so what’s your point?

[@zora99ny]

Asha O Tamera looks similar to Hilary so you're not making sense.

[@FarinaMyrtleRenato]

Loni you Gloooballll ... love from India 😍

[@yasminerodriguez7162]

Loni is my favorite 💃❤

[@nanjululamusombi6468]

This came at a perfect time for me. We march on regardless. :-)

[@teetawn9454]

True

[@theyJC]

Loni is a comedian and an engineer, and worked in corporate?!?! She the full package yall

[@graceotieno5055]

So inspiring

[@DilnaSebastian]

Loni you’ve got English fans too! All the way from Manchester x

[@JenJHayden]

adrienne quotes songs and im the only one who notices.

[@p.k.a.5557]

And now u International Loni Love..... Heeey Loni from Roatan, Honduras

[@conniechoward]

Tamera Campbell was my role model growing up lol she was so awesome and the 5th and 6th season she was gorge lol

[@ManPursueExcellence]

Connie Howard And you almost lost her for the Ashley Banks role 😂

[@kyletriola9197]

When I heard this I almost died cause I could see Tamera on Fresh Prince but Sister, Sister always has been most of my childhood.

[@brailbethaish09]

Go Loni!!!!

[@nnekaedwards1309]

Loni is worldwide

[@sammierose1150]

He’s half Pacific Islander too! 🤙🇼🇸

[@DCExpat-ro6es]

That's where I remember Loni from! She was on Star Search!

[@alisharoy1263]

Can’t get over how nice Jeannie looked this episode🤩🤩

[@yasminsayeed8125]

I know Adrienne will shade Lenny lol

[@daquanbrown7886]

@1:55 lol

[@rebeccalove2065]

Where ? What did she say I missed it

[@ashlene736]

Yes girls from south Africa

[@rya_xo]

I love him!

[@alanaestewart3333]

I LOVE you LONI LOVE ❤️

[@theonlygaymer4740]

I would've appreciated Tamera as Ashley Banks. But I like the way everything ended up being

[@MicheleAleczandria]

Either these ladies don't listen to each other or they are told to act excited because I've heard these stories before & they're acting totally surprised 😂

[@nt8253]

Loni is worldwide Sis...💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬

[@goldenexotic3354]

They look great