The Consequences of Being a Pushover

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[@adarius971]

Is it me, or is there a growing push to remove consequences for actions?

[@carlosdasilva2409]

Only if you have a coochie though

[@soukenmarufwt5224]

Only for women. Cause trad cons can never admit woman are the problem. They always blame men and defend even the worst women possible

[@veritasliberabitvos454]

Only for women

[@estuardo2985]

Only for certain demographics and even then it is a sliding scale for the I'm a victim Olympics.

[@Lord_Shadowfang]

There is ABSOLUTELY that. It's one of the problems with modern society. If there are no consequences, you can't learn from the mistakes. If you don't learn from the mistakes, you don't adjust your behavior to improve. If you don't improve or learn, your mind is the same as it was when you were 5 years old. In other words... Humans are stupid and just want to continue being stupid.

[@allisonstevens9592]

I don't understand how this lady who is foolish enough to give 250k to a stranger is smart enough to make 250k

[@soil-play]

I know, right? How can such a gullible moron make so much?

[@sterlingarcher857]

I'm sure her "half" of the savings contributions was definitely not half

[@meeechelle2731]

She didn’t make it. She liquidated her house and put herself in massive debt 😂

[@sianais]

​@@meeechelle2731Not her debt, her idiot husband's.

[@A_YouTube_Commenter]

She allocated her beer and pizza money for a few years.

[@scott3322]

This lady isn’t “in a bad place”, she IS the bad place. Run Brian, run!

[@Youbeentagged]

Well, if Brian decides to stay with her now, he deserves it almost just as much as she does.

[@HaydensJourney]

He’s a bum. He can’t leave her. She supports him.

[@Leahmoonbeamflower]

He’s not running anywhere. I don’t think jogging is his thing….

[@Xtian982]

@@Leahmoonbeamflower 🔥 flamed him

[@Jenda-ld8dj]

She is not a lady. She is a woman. A "lady" does not behave this way.

[@PaperPlateClorox]

If someone half your age calls you “King” or “Queen,” it’s a scam.

[@driley5004]

The accuracy of this

[@Kacszu]

I could see it being used as a joke do not allways but defintly most of the time

[@chimagamer4157]

or they are your peasant in a modern monarchy

[@rogersepeda4378]

If they ask for money it’s definitely a red flag 🚩. I remember messing with these scammers when I was single . They would always ask for iTunes cards . This one person messaged me said her uncle took away her iTunes gift card and she asked if I could get her one and I’m playing along and tell her sure , how much ? She said not much just $300 and I told her ok np , I’m at the store rn . I told her I got them and I asked how do I give them to her and she said just send a picture, I told her I can’t because my camera is broken, and she said use someone else’s camera, I told her oh all our cameras are broken ( forgot to mention I told her I lived in the barracks ) because of the line of work we do . She stopped messaging me lol . Then one chick also mentioned about her missing iTunes card, trying to hint to me that she wanted me to buy her one and I just told her “ well damn that sucks , hope you find it “ .

[@a.r.mproductions5616]

Man I could probably scam so many people if I wasn’t someone with good morals.

[@unumwetwetwe]

thinking the same lol

[@alix6xgorg839]

To make sure it's truly your morals that are stopping you, scam someone.

[@guilhermehank4938]

I admire evil people for their capacity to trick and manipulate so many so beautifully. I would do it myself if I had no moral bone in my body

[@erueka6]

Seriously I'm a non empathetic sourpuss at my middle ground and I'm willing to help or end someone for something important but scamming and essentially mental torture is something too far I wish I had the confidence and grit to do so but don't at the same time.

[@dwightrenfield2241]

You admire evil? That’s really pretty sick.

[@InfamyOrDeath-__-]

I just can’t understand a person like this, giving strangers money is beyond ridiculous. There’s something seriously wrong with her.

[@lefthand4943]

And she is an adult like men I didn't click the ads when I was 5 and I only give money to others that is not a lots. It is disapointing to see this.

[@SearcherRyan]

No matter how much i'm down in the gutter and wanting validation, im never gonna be this fucking stupid lol. Thats modern natural selection

[@Spanu96]

From my experience, dumb people work for money only to waste them on things, cigarettes and drinks. Giving them to someone who can put them to a better use is no crime if the person who is giving the money has nothing better to do with them. After all, why most of the people who are managers are dumb? One has to ask what can a dumb manager do with so much money? If that dude was smart he invested those money in stocks, dividents, etc. After he lost nothing of his own.

[@jorgeabrahamaguilerareynos9264]

I would've loved to see your comment with a donnation to TBYS. Not saying supporting creators is wrong, just that it woul've been funny.

[@Savage_Thinker]

The church has been doing this for 1000's of years

[@WoozyTozy]

huge W for the scammer guy

[@Man-xk9rz]

You gotta make that bag somehow lol.

[@thegatorhator6822]

Scamming trash humans is based and should be encouraged.

[@preciousagulefo899]

@@thegatorhator6822😂😂😂😂😂

[@yukhzia]

@@thegatorhator6822I agree with you

[@MrSiringtonThe4th]

@@thegatorhator6822love it ima try this right now

[@WinterSkyyy]

I watch Catfished and the lady who believes she was dating Johnny Depp actually blames Johnny Depp for being scammed! The level of denial, reflection, blame, & unwillingness to accept personal responsibility is unreal.

[@LaloSalamancaGaming69]

Shes just like amber heard 😂😂

[@Khorne_of_the_Hill]

How does she come to such a crazy conclusion lmao

[@shadowfax9177]

Oh my that is hilarious 🤣. Humans.

[@arushreddi5419]

Lmao

[@halcyonzenith4411]

Is loneliness really that bad, so bad that it would drive a person to stay in a relationship with a woman like that?

[@Lord_Shadowfang]

It's not. I've been in a relationship with someone who lied to me. I left her. I'm alone. It's really not that bad. Humans are just disgusting and weak. Let 'em suffer for what they choose to put themselves through, and punish them for forcing anybody else to suffer for something they have nothing to do with.

[@Random_Booby]

For some, yeah. I’ve had people in my life who were so afraid of loneliness that they dive headfirst into a toxic relationship.

[@DonVigaDeFierro]

It's not, but the idea is sold to men who know no better. As they say: Hell is other people. Being alone is many times much better.

[@kevinleewilliams5119]

Some people have this feeling called love and it makes them stay with people that they shouldn't, human beings have all kinds of emotions that overpower their logical thinking and that's okay but you can't let your emotions guide you into despair.

[@Lord_Shadowfang]

@@Random_Booby That's kinda what I did. Lost my virginity to someone that was not at all right for me. She continued to lie to me about things, so eventually I got fed up and dumped her. I should have known better. To this day, anytime I think about what happened, one word comes to mind. Desperation. As far as I know, she never cheated on me, but I have suspicions that she may... I just have no way of finding out. She was not as open as the person in this video. She was very secretive, and I work. So a lot of it was deception, but I still allowed her to get away with things that I shouldn't have, such as lying to me. After she did that several times, I did away with her. Looking back, I realized she was lying to me about a lot more things than I realized. Had I stayed in a relationship with her, I may very well have ended up in a video like this. I know that loneliness is better than a bad relationship. It just took me a while to realize just how bad the relationship was. For people who are deathly afraid of being alone? They just need a good math tutor really. =-)

[@bellegold2956]

She cheated on him, stole joint money and lied to him……. Yet the show try’s so hard to make it seem like she’s a victim.

[@SentinalBais1]

Dude it's not cheating... She is falling for an obvious romance scam. If i found my wife did this honestly i would laugh at how dumb they are divorce then and don't tell them it's a scam. At least you will be able to save half your assets lol

[@vindictiv6880]

​@@SentinalBais1it's intellectually cheating. While no physical act was done, she was planning on doing it and has feelings for the catfish.

[@barlauch9292]

She is a victim, she was scammed. But she is also a cheater. You can be both.

[@goldenrosey4347]

​@@SentinalBais1 but it's the mindset. She didn't know it was a scam. She thought it was a real guy, a real guy she was gonna meet. A real guy she admitted to having thoughts of doing "some things with. " she WAS cheating until she realized it wasn't a real person. That's like saying I wasn't stalking a guy, because I wasn't watching my intended target.

[@SentinalBais1]

@@vindictiv6880 yeah i know, but honestly my wife/girlfriend is that dumb i would want to split on that alone lol

[@markmonster8113]

She transferred the money thinking she was going to shack up with the new guy and leave her husband in the mud. Now she's trying to get away with it. What an evil person. This man should leave asap. Better be alone than with an evil witch.

[@bvang0520]

If my wife cheated on me with a scammer and sent our life savings to them, I will hold that over them until we die regardless if we stay together or not.

[@ava4689]

Yes

[@toxicbatwing9828]

Or divorce and take everything with the TV show evidence of her infidelity and stealing the joint money to give to some random dude. Leave her on the street with nothing.

[@DeliciousDogMeat]

just keep suing her for the rest of her life lmao

[@davialmeida4442]

**Three years after divorce** Hey Karen, remember that time you spent all our money to a scammer, cause I certainly do. I'll always remember, watch your back

[@GIChiyo]

Everyone should avoid ANYONE that describes themselves as "quirky"

[@joress]

“Quirky” could also mean “Autistic”. But this woman is just delusional, stupid and unfaithful.

[@heyitsmyTeeTa]

😂😂😂 for real!!!

[@princessmarlena1359]

📞 “The animatronic characters doooo tend to be a bit ‘quirky’ here, at night…”

[@itisreal6649]

Badger reference???

[@simpdefendmlady6579]

I avoid people who are ists e.g. traditionalists, feminists, progressivists, communists etc.

[@SwitchMonkey]

Sarah is a naughty girl. A lying girl. And now she’s crying “I’m a victim!” What about the guy she lied to?

[@TheHighborn]

If the "bot" was a real person, and interested in her, shed not be crying

[@user-yp3uq7zb3j]

Hilariously, she is under the belief she is a catch

[@CircumcisionIsChildAbuse]

"im a victim! he was supposed to be the man I run away with! i was supposed to ruin my boyfriends life- but I ruined my life instead!" XD

[@EscargoBay]

​@@user-yp3uq7zb3jwhen hordes of simps are lining up to buy pictures of her feet, do you blame her for thinking that way?

[@dylanmonstrum1538]

Typical woman. Scuuuuuum.

[@brickbreaker9581]

My buddy in his 50s told me that he was going to see this pretty girl over the coming weekend, I told him it was a scam and he got mad at me, I told him she wouldn’t show up and she would ask him for money, he thought I was a wrong. The next week when I seen him he told me I was right and that’s exactly what she did. We both laughed

[@Vic2point0]

My favorite interaction with a scammer was when they told me to go to a specific website to sign up for a $100,000 government bonus and I told them "All you got was a measly 100,000? I already did it and got, like, a million."

[@DesignRhythm]

...and here I get angry paying $4.99 for a dog toy my dog won't play with.

[@CircumcisionIsChildAbuse]

XD cause you weren't raised being handed everything did you? this woman likely had a family that gave her a lot of financial support. she screams "daddy's little girl" with her behavior and life style. thats why she wants all this endless attention despite looking like Lizzo.

[@michaelp9707]

Just get an old shoe and put a 🔔 on it and tie the strings to a stick

[@DonVigaDeFierro]

​@@michaelp9707I'd rather not have my dog associate shoes with toys... again...

[@mycitysucks8096]

😂 I buy toys, but my dog likes sticks instead. Cat likes bottle caps

[@chrissmurray255]

Is that a Nigerian dog? Are you sure he's still got the toy, and hasn't sold it on for 80 cents on the dollar? Is he moonlighting around the neighbourhood scamming others for toys? _These are important questions that need answering!_

[@bumponalog5001]

It should be legal for him to take her to court and have her wages garnished until she pays him back.

[@WintervilleWatchwoman]

Agreed

[@CharleneOrtizTraining]

Even if it was this guy would be way to weak to do that.

[@CARPETMAN-zj9iv]

I think both the husband and the scammer should be able to sue her. The husband for obvious reasons. And the scammer just because women do it to man all the time. Even things out a little.

[@rebjr6615]

@@CARPETMAN-zj9iv on what basis could the scammer sue her ? i don't even think her husband could sue her since it's her savings

[@ZukMyZik]

@@rebjr6615it’s not her saving I doubt she had 250k by herself, it was prolly “theirs”

[@SlipandRip710]

You can look into Brian’s eyes and tell he’s been dead inside for years.

[@creolespanish34]

I am around her age and, I've had times where I was very active in social media. There's a natural mistrust in a mature person if, out of the blue, somebody very young and beautiful takes an interest in him/her, people don't fall in love without knowing you personally, no matter how witty, bubbly or spectacular your online presence is, even less if they are 30 years younger. This woman is not an elderly person, the fact that she doesn't have any of those firewalls in her judgement point to a lack of accountability all her life, where she has been spared of any consequences of her stupid acts. Now, she has effectively jeopardized her future and that of her in-significant one for ever, and she still insists she didn't do anything wrong. She deserves to be alone and miserable for the rest of her sorry existence. Her husband is not 'supportive', what he is, in my culture, is called a ball-less man

[@darkyunk]

I find it funny how EVERYONE in the catfished video is pretending to not see the elephant in the room, which is that she tried to cheat and made everything worse. They are acting as if she was an innocent victim who got robbed in the street.

[@DonVigaDeFierro]

They know this sort of person is too dumb to have an ounce of adult responsibility. And they claim it's our duty to look after them...

[@newhappythoughts1628]

@@DonVigaDeFierrothats the majority of the people on the Scamfish channel, including the men getting scammed.

[@ReemTahir]

@@DonVigaDeFierrothese catfished people aren’t too dumb, they are willingly blind. They refuse to accept the reality that not everyone gets to grow up and marry the Prince/Princess. Imo I don’t think that makes them naive or endearing. It makes them delusional and dishonest. Im not a fan of these foolish types of people.

[@poppyakers]

It's because she's a woman. If a man treated his wife like this - they'd speak honestly and hold him accountable.

[@ghostdemon7936]

I agree. The tiptoeing around her is futile. She's not an innocent woman. She's calculated and put her husband in financial strife too all for love and a leg over. Desperate housewife. Unlike single scam victims who o ly bleed themselves dry financially. But to do it when in a marriage is another level of betrayal alongside the cheating.

[@ben10pop]

The first thing I think every time I hear a story like this: HOW do THESE people have so much money to begin with??

[@DonVigaDeFierro]

Rich parents.

[@throwawaypt2throwawaypt2-xp8nx]

the thing is she cashed in life insurance, her retirement, and other stuff, she is in her 50s so that has been saving up her whole life, so yea

[@CharleneOrtizTraining]

Ikr! It's absolutely mind blowing to watch these people put hundreds of thousands of dollars in a trash can and burn it!

[@johnsullivan937]

@@throwawaypt2throwawaypt2-xp8nx That was the one thing I didnt get, how the hell do you cash in your life insurance if you're still alive? I thought the whole point was in case of a death it leaves your spouse with a safety net.

[@throwawaypt2throwawaypt2-xp8nx]

@@CharleneOrtizTraining deep rooted daddy issues

[@user-fd5ys5gb2x]

If stupidity was a crime, she would get a life sentence

[@madamlt5758]

I freaking LOVE the way you say it like it is. I watch the catfished show regularly and am blown away by the stupidity of some people! They’re not victims, they’re idiots!

[@customsongmaker]

She would leave her husband for this other man, if she could. She has given the past 20 years of her husband's savings to another man. If the husband stays with her, she will continue to ruin his life until he's broke. Then she will leave him.

[@EscargoBay]

100%. She would drop her husband in a second if he wasn't still providing for her.

[@Michael-yd7nt]

That's why he has to get out now. If he hires the most cutthroat divorce lawyer he has a chance to successfully argue her spending should count towards the divorce settlement.

[@RJT80]

I'd be in prison.

[@customsongmaker]

@@RJT80 That husband is already in a prison. He should just walk away. If he leaves while she's online, he might get a few hours head start before she notices.

[@EscargoBay]

@@Michael-yd7nt I've heard so many divorce hearings where one spouse hid debt from the other, and the court ordered that they both needed to share the burden. You're correct that he would need to act fast and hire a great attorney.

[@csselement]

hubby wearing a "best cat dad ever" shirt? yeah, it all adds up within the first 20 seconds

[@Lord_Shadowfang]

What he's wearing has nothing to do with the situation. Perhaps after this happened, in order to make ends meet, he sold all of his other shirts in a sporadic panic and that's the only one he's got left? Maybe it's his favorite shirt. Maybe it's just a random shirt. Maybe it has nothing to do with who he is as a person. You sound like the POS female that he's in a relationship. Only seeming to think about physical attributes. HMMMMM. Here's a tip. Don't judge based on appearance. It's pathetic. Just some advice.

[@professionalpookie]

😅😅😅

[@kevinleewilliams5119]

A man staying with a woman like this is a prime example of a male who is low in the mating totem pole so to even have a chance at getting laid, he'll put up this outlandish behavior from his woman lmao any man with a shred of confidence and ability to attract women would not even for a second tolerate this type of emotional abuse.

[@david-468]

What’s wrong with cats? I get plenty of tail using mine thank u very much

[@Lord_Shadowfang]

@@david-468 Lol. Now that's funny.

[@ElAlamein3828]

How do these Adults function in society? This is baffling

[@Youbeentagged]

Usually, I totally hate scammers, but now, I'm seeing life in a new light.

[@crescentblueee]

“Oh yeah, my husband and I don’t allow other people into our sex life. But if I spontaneously decided to, he’d be okay with it. And I don’t have to worry about him bringing another woman into our relationship, because he’d never do that! ☺️” This guy is getting scammed more than Sarah

[@RJT80]

I can understand women getting catfished but it's inexcusable for men. Men have options for sex and even long term companionship well into their elderly years with much younger women overseas. It's like throwing money at only fans girls when you can actually just pay for a night with an actual woman.

[@ENZOxDV9]

​@RJT80 nah you got it backwards. There is no increasing options for men getting older, it's a total redpill scam. As a man you inherently have much less options and therefore will find it harder to attract a woman. This inevitably leads to dry spells and subsequently, loneliness, leading to many being catfished into online relationships

[@RJT80]

@@ENZOxDV9 I literally did it myself. I married a Russian girl 11 years younger than me. Many women there just want a man who won't drink himself to death by 40. I was 40 when I married her. I have friends who are in SE Asia now, married and happy living in beachfront properties. It's absolutely real but not for everyone. I decided to go for it after an 8 year relationship ended mostly because of political differences that arose after 2016. My longtime girlfriend went way left and didn't want children anymore when we were both approaching 40 and had our last chance.

[@crescentblueee]

@@RJT80 Uh…call me a feminist or whatever, but I wouldn’t necessarily be proud of buying a woman 😅.

[@strav8337]

⁠​⁠@@crescentblueeewould you be prouder buying nudes from an onlyfan girl? Neither of the options are admirable but you might aswell go all the way if your gonna do it anyways

[@TheCentristChad]

She never even video chatted with him and gave him 250k!!?? What am I doing with my life? 🤣🤣

[@DanataD]

Haha. Ikr!

[@Ziggyhere57]

Damn got Chad rethink life 😂

[@Soundsofthewood]

I think this everyday. I work all the time and barely get by. Then I see some person making stupid videos or reacting to stupid videos and they can afford to life in condos.

[@TheCentristChad]

@@Soundsofthewood Making react videos is not inherently immoral. Give it a try if you think you can make money from it.

[@Soundsofthewood]

@@TheCentristChad if it's constructive, then I really have no issue with it. I'm talking about the ones that just show facial reactions or well really just rob another person's content.

[@BeachLookingGuy]

I would love to see the conversation that leads to her giving social security number to a stranger.

[@Fotel]

-hey babe look at my biceps gimme sec plz

[@laurendearnley9595]

One hopes she was only stupid enough to enter it into some fake form and not so stupid as to just tell him when he asked.

[@slavnat8446]

She is crying and sorry because she got caught cheating. And because she lost all her money and is dependant yet again, on the guy she tried to backstab. There, i put it as bluntly as i can.

[@stevenschnepp576]

Pretty sure it was his money.

[@kylespevak6781]

13:28 "I put all the blame on this guy for lying" She avoided accountability like an expert

[@bryana1041]

It's a female thing

[@ScientObject40]

@@bryana1041 I think it's more of a stupid person thing.

[@blackpow3r]

She literally had the temerity to say the blame is on the guy for being deceitful...like woman, were you not deceitful to your husband this entire time?!?!!?

[@clownphabetstrongwoman7305]

​@@ScientObject40it is both.

[@stevenschnepp576]

​@@ScientObject40 Potato, potato.

[@dakotahutchens1634]

This women literally decided to make every bad decision she possibly could and destroy her husbands life this guy needs to leave her pronto

[@johnsullivan937]

and what just let her walk off with half their assets after bankrupting him? In certain states she'd likely be able to get him to pay alimony as well. The dude is f'ed regardless. She completely drained their joint retirement, which means that dude is going to have to work til the day he dies.

[@GabrielAKAFinn]

@@johnsullivan937 Yeah, if his wrist wasn't completely boneless this would be a murder case. Then again, if you kill a person who is actively robbing you blind, that's more like self defense than anything

[@madmax5841]

@@johnsullivan937 Womanlimony

[@Alexander-xk2nb]

He'll probably delete himself. Doesn't seem to have a spine. Couldn't bare living w/o her, won't stop being hurt.

[@randomdeliveryguy]

@@johnsullivan937 half of what? She just gave everything away. Just implode the house and go build yourself up again like a man would.

[@captc0ck5lap60]

"Feet finder" I could have lived my whole life blissfully ignorant of this degeneracy. Tf is wrong with people?

[@pmsdgy1325]

I'm just sitting here cackling at every new revelation, each more depraved than the last. It's the complete spectrum of immoral behaviour condensed into three, maybe four people, it's surreal. Stupidity, narcissism, lust, greed, cowardice, oppertunism, delusion etc. It's our generations great shakespearean drama.

[@dbutler9319]

I was laughing at the thumbnail until I saw she was married. My stomach sank.

[@CircumcisionIsChildAbuse]

what about the jar of dicks? oh and to give you some context- thats not REALLY her husband. that's her roommate with benefits. if they had any sort of deep emotional connection you would not see this behavior- when you form a strong emotional connection you become possessive. and im not talking toxic possessive, im talking about 'you are mine- I am yours' possessive. Look at them...none of them actually feel that way about the other- if they did- they wouldnt behave like this- you don't SHARE your partner cause if you do its not YOURS. its nuanced- but the type of relationships we form if you lack any sort of possessive ownership- there's no real relationship at all- its just casual friendship/roommates. people who got married cause they didnt want to be alone.

[@WintervilleWatchwoman]

Same.. if she’d been single. It would’ve been funny

[@bobert13581]

the look of defeat and despair in the husbands eyes as he continues to be the 'good guy' is a lesson for us all

[@goldenrosey4347]

Ngl, I don't think so. I think have actually having inner battles thinking "should I leave her, should I not? " he feels the pain, definitely and I don't think it's flying by him as everyone thinks, not do I think he'll actually let this go.

[@tractorback76]

He may self delete

[@sjb5169]

It's so funny to already see a 50yo woman referring to herself as "quirky and weird" I mean I expected it with millennials and gen z but to see it already is great. 😂

[@davelifts1135]

This stuff happens all the time. I've had countless Interviews in my job where these people are beyond clueless and gullible. Believe me when I tell you, when they pull out these photoshopped pictures or google stock footage, its super hard to stay professional and to not laugh. And dont get me started on the NSFW texting they do in the worst grammar imaginable 😂

[@DataGeek903]

Its not her fault, its the patriarchy.

[@brondlini5459]

🤡🤡🤡

[@nikhiljugdan724]

He was a evil man. She was a quirky strong woman who deserves all in life. Yes, patriarchy to blame here.

[@randomfish2054]

She cheated on him. If that’s not a sign of infidelity I don’t know what is

[@koopa5504]

@@nikhiljugdan724 Exactly!! We have to protect such a beautiful and smart soul, poor woman! She was brutally forced to send this lunatic money… quite horrible what some women have to go through :/

[@ImperialSenpai]

I mean you don’t see this in actual patriarchal countries.

[@prestongarvey4259]

"He's my soulmate, he's my better half" lady, he's your only option

[@DonVigaDeFierro]

"He's my piggy bank".

[@A_YouTube_Commenter]

He is my co dependent enabler.

[@jr1088]

The husband is “ok” with what she does because she’s beaten him down for 22 years and probably goes psycho and cuts herself or something like that when she’s told no. So sad to see

[@willbilly8738]

My ex was like that. Dipped as soon as she started cutting

[@stvia]

What bugs me the most about this is that they keep showing the scammers pictures everytime they mention him, making him seem like a horrible person to people who will see him in real life. Even though it is clear and I'm sure the showrunners are aware of that the scammer probably isn't using his own picture. So why keep showing him as if that guys the bad guy?

[@MrPigeonnn]

Isn't it obvious? Why would they let the scammer use their publicly posted pics?

[@MrNoName7474]

I would appreciate a disclaimer/reminder saying that, but then that’s admitting or implying there could be fault and media is never going to turn down an opportunity to show the scammer profile photos for people to make their own judgements about the situation. There was a shooting at my school and I found it disrespectful how all the news flocked over anything they could find on the killer. So disrespectful to the victims. Never cared for the news, but certainly don’t as much now.

[@ales141]

I think they meant to show what was that woman fooled with, and not necessarily to imply that the person in the picture is actually the scammer

[@missmgmnt]

Giving HUNDREDS of THOUSANDS of your joint income to your "friend", whether you met them or not, is unforgivable. I wouldn't be filming some cutesy B roll with my SO if they pulled that shit. Damn!

[@peekaboo1575]

He deserves that for being such a pushover, lol.

[@Senjougaharaesu]

In my country 250k is huge amount of money, most people will never have sum like this in their entire lives. Watching stories like this is always crazy to me, cause i simply can't imagine such irresponsible and stupid person being able to have such savings.

[@KidArkx]

Its the same way in America 😂😂

[@RyuzaChuden]

It’s decades of work she threw away

[@Unsavoryy]

​@RyuzaChuden That's the thing though, she took out life insurance and liquidated all of her assets. She didn't just put herself into debt, she ruined her future! 😂

[@telmnstr]

Someone in Nigera probably retired for life on her gift.

[@peacefuldecadence328]

That's the Dude's responsibility to make sure his assets are secured he handed her the keys to his existence now he has to face the consequences of her destroying both their lives you don't give a kid a hammer then be surprised he smashed everything.

[@ECARTMANN]

In a fair world the money she threw away on the scammer would count as her share in a divorce.

[@RoninCatholic]

A girl stealing my money? Normal. A girl cheating on me? Unacceptable, but commonplace. A girl cheating on me _and_ stealing my money to _pay_ the guy she's cheating on me with? Hell.

[@javi--420]

Her husband is taking more L's than a alphabet nursery rhyme😂

[@angelbear_og]

There's only one L. This analogy makes no sense. (Also: "an", not "a".)

[@g0d638]

@@angelbear_og 🤓🤓🤓

[@angelbear_og]

@@g0d638 🧠

[@Pintosonic]

Usually it’s men that gets caught in scams like that and no one bats an eye. The fact that she claims “he’s just a friend” is laughable. Guess who is going to foot the bill in the end?

[@brianchecketts9792]

"Foot the bill"... lol. I dont think ber feet pics are going to turn that kind of profit... ROFLMAO

[@sterlingarcher857]

It's actually not, check your stats again. It's women. Sad, pathetic lonely women.

[@CharleneOrtizTraining]

Almost every person on their channel is a woman.

[@brianchecketts9792]

@@DOWNTOWN_SNIPES I know... I just thought it was a funny pun.

[@butwhole4186]

@@brianchecketts9792 Did you see her feet pics?? or smell them

[@RohnJambo717]

Her husband must have 0 self respect and self worth to stick around after this.

[@PaperPlateClorox]

Brian looked extremely angry even though he wasn’t saying anything. Be sure to do a follow up on his police interrogation video when she ends up missing. 🤣

[@cherryhazard8002]

Poor husband, that man is absolutely whipped. You deserve way better, dude.

[@mado-wh4jv]

He got what was coming to him

[@cavalieroutdoors6036]

No, he doesn't. If he deserved better he would've caught this LONG before it got to this point.

[@mado-wh4jv]

@@cavalieroutdoors6036 Exactly, this chick doesn't seem smart at all, their savings must be under his name so he must have realized the mysterious 60k withdrawal.

[@dbutler9319]

He absolutely does deserve it

[@zombyroid]

Honestly he doesn't deserve better. He stayed with this girl after she may have screwed them up for their golden years finances in hopes of cheating on him with a younger guy. This is infidelity in one of it's worst forms. She was so desperate to cheat she was willing to ignore a red flag the size of texas. He's fine with taking this crap from her or he would leave. He doesn't deserve better because he doesn't respect himself.

[@zg-it]

The husband was like, he kept her busy and I didn't have to listen to her, it was money well spent

[@tomcoop9750]

😂 oh no lol

[@madelainepetrin1430]

He could have taken a long vacation with that 250K!

[@mandiehuns1602]

Looking at this man when he is told of these things his wife did filled me with an overwhelming hopelessness and grief on both his behalf and the behalf of the state of our society.

[@andrewhoffman1087]

18:51 I almost spit out my coffee, because that is just so hilariously B.S. "Brian (the husband) is Sara's SOULMATE!?" If you're willing to cheat on your "soulmate," if hate to see what you would do your best friend or family!

[@sardonically-inclined7645]

I feel sorry for him, because that's money he won't get in a divorce settlement. Otherwise, I'm just laughing at her.

[@Michael-yd7nt]

If he were to move quickly and get a good lawyer, he may actually have a case to not do a 50/50 split. Spending large amounts of money right before divorce does not look good in court. He could argue what she spent should be counted towards her half of the assets.

[@johnsullivan937]

@@joebadger6969 EXACTLY. What the hell is the guy even supposed to do in that situation? People are saying he deserves it, but wtf? If the dude divorces her, she can STILL get her paws on half of his stuff/assets, PLUS could force him to pay alimony. The dude is destroyed, clearly. But the ENTIRE system is set up to benefit women at every turn regardless of their decisions that led to the divorce (sometimes they can even initiate it and still get a payout!), while treating men like a pay pig wage slave. It's honestly disgusting. That dude looks genuinely dead inside.

[@telepathicdragon]

@@Michael-yd7nt that's a really good point. It should make it an easy offramp

[@silviaconsonni586]

That's probably why he won't file. I don't know if the money is his or the couple's, but either way, that household has already f**king bled money. He is doing something reasonable, and by reasonable I mean the act of "putting on big boy panties" even when you shouldn't be dealing with the consequences of something like that. The choice of playing along with something enough to not having to face it alone. I don't know if at least, pushing the victim card a little bit more than she is supposed to, Sarah can get some legal protection. I don't know if now he even decided to become the only person in the household who will legally be able to make larger purchases.... Who knows. We don't know what these people work at, and how they got all that money.

[@justme8841]

He did that to himself

[@darkma1ice]

The irony of her “liking the attention” is that had her husband gave her that same attention she would’ve been disgusted by him, he would’ve been clingy and gave her the ick

[@RileyByrdFlock]

Is that ironic? It seems plausible

[@KG-tt3nl]

​@@RileyByrdFlockhow is that plausible when that's your husband? It's ironic and disgusting

[@juanzuniga7616]

Thank you for pointing out that these people deserve everything they get

[@thielnineteen]

I live in Texas and can absolutely agree with the wreck analogy. I actually had to swerve into a turning lane today to avoid rear ending someone who almost hit a dog in the road and waited way too long before braking. Welcome to Texas!

[@FreePigeon]

The fact she went to selling fetish pics says as much about her as her cheating. Instead of learning new skills or getting a job, or another job, or a better job, she goes to fetish pics. My mother learned to sew and sells her sewing stuff, I sell my crochet stuff and it makes a tidy little bit on the side. It's not like there isn't anything else she could do.

[@DonVigaDeFierro]

You imply they have a single marketable skill. They are the type to fuck up a menial cashier job where the register does all the math, and end up hating capitalism.

[@princessmarlena1359]

@@DonVigaDeFierro they could f* up an empty room

[@dinoblacklane1640]

Most women quickly release that they only value they have is being a whore

[@HaggisMuncher-69-420]

She has those gamer girl headphones which means she's at least seen the kinds of girls that wear them. Typically young, attractive women thotting on the internet for simp bux. She bought those headphones because she could see herself as one of those younger girls.

[@ObviousRises]

As a guy women who earn a honest living is an extremely attractive trait.

[@denzelmartin6201]

Died laughing at "she's quirky!"

[@vajoynus]

I'm pretty sure she just meant "fat".

[@paxtonlux6698]

I wonder if she created the profile and sent the money to someone she knows in order to get away with stealing all his money. I knew a girl who did that but got caught.

[@neo7566]

Seeing the shirt on that dork- it all makes sense now. Any man that wears a shirt that says "Best Cat Dad Ever" IS A HUGE SIMP RED FLAG.

[@em_the_bee]

What if it says FATHER OF CATS, does that count?

[@ThatKidTony]

Imagine having so little respect for your partner that you allow someone to send messages like that, without shutting that shit down, immediately. Regardless of if she "just wanted to be friends".

[@johnsullivan937]

He literally said in the interview he just found out about it that day. She lied and changed her story multiple times during the episode. She was going behind his back, obviously trying to cheat on him.

[@peacefuldecadence328]

He doesn't have an ounce of respect for himself how the f do you want her to have any for him? It's on him all the way he is in charge when something bad happens to a company it's the CEo's fault can't be mad at a subordinate cause they are only executing whatever plan you had so that's on him if he brings the money he is in charge of knowing how the f it's spent and saved she is a dum. Reta.. creature for sure but he is beyond that.

[@vergil1us]

She is full of 🧢 She well intended to cheat and would leave if she was completely sure about that "guy" ("guy" because he totally exists 😂) it's so obvious. And even more proof is, as the comment above said, she changed her stort multiple times.

[@harryharry9602]

That man should be awarded a medal of freedom for his contribution to justice and equality.

[@rebjr6615]

so sad that he had to endure her. you can see the sorrow hanging over him and he tries to hide it :(

[@chrissmurray255]

The worst thing about his video is the way that The Catfish Team were constantly showing pictures of "the scammer" and everyone was saying he was a really evil guy. *Hey!! Newsflash!!* That picture is some random guy off the internet, and NOT THE SCAMMER!! The poor bastard.

[@HH-bi8dt]

I hope in the full program it's made clear at some point? Otherwise the guy in the pictures probably has some kind of defamation suit, surely, right?

[@darinlunderman8063]

Its karma that she got scammed as she is a big, fake person herself, but the fact that her husband also has to pay for it is where its simply unforgivable. If he ends up snapping and doing something extreme to her, I couldn't be able to say that it would be a shocking outcome.

[@lordheadass9958]

I always think I'm a dipshit then I see stuff like this and feel a little better about myself

[@gretasstolendreams2154]

Yup yup

[@Lunar_Capital]

For real, you can always stoop lower.

[@DonVigaDeFierro]

If that is the baseline, then I must be a fucking genius.

[@beatnik6806]

Seriously if you always feel like that then you probably are..

[@-MakeItGood-]

Hahaha yeah… yeah.

[@user-zn2bl4xr5l]

This is why intelligence is important.

[@CircumcisionIsChildAbuse]

she has lived a protected life- intelligence has little to do with it. she has never really struggled. what kind of person has hundreds of thousands of dollars to hand to someone? think about it. she has had her entire life handed to her by most likely a well off family.

[@Lunar_Capital]

Common sense is not so common 😂

[@CircumcisionIsChildAbuse]

hope is a dangerous thing to hold onto.@@Lunar_Capital

[@angelbear_og]

But what do you do when you're not born with a sufficient amount of intelligence to know better than to send a quarter of a million dollars to an obvious scammer? In a way I pity them. Probably good the guy is just a "cat dad".

[@johnsullivan937]

@@CircumcisionIsChildAbuse having retirement savings plus life insurance of 250k is very different than living through life with 250k in your bank account. I know it sounds like a lot, but that's really not all that crazy. Also keep in mind that was likely their JOINT retirement/life savings. In other words she bankrupted her husband. They didnt look like they lived at some multi million dollar mansion, they were normal middle class 50 year olds that had some money saved up in their retirement fund. Money that they'll never get back. The dude will likely be working til the day he dies paying that off.

[@Patriotofliberty69]

The worst thing this woman has ever done was marrying Brian. She ruined his life.

[@draganstankovic2438]

Well, he is still not leaving her so I guess that he deserved it. He would allow any other woman to run over him, maybe even worse than this. I could maybe have some empathy if she was at least hot but this .... come on man. If he didn't have her, that money would probably be spent on OF or something like that. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. He got fooled more than twice for sure so I guess it's as much his fault as hers. Being simp has price and Brian paid for it dearly. Still, it doesn't seem like he learned anything so similar thing will happen again. Should we feel sorry for him when it happens again? At what point is it also his fault?

[@prathyushareddy9404]

Dare l say, she r@ped his life.

[@MrDark086]

18:56 dudes got that looong dead stare. Thats the kinda look when youre contemplating a toaster bath or droppin your wife off at a Donner party. Hope dudes alright

[@r.lamont8120]

That woman is evil and her husband is so weak that he must have no friends or father figure. She is the type to divorce and say her ex was abusive. He is the type to let his wife turn their son into a daughter.

[@imissyoujimmy]

Its better to be lonely than miserable (or humiliated)

[@deepstateglobalgala]

Damn, youre right. 😢

[@ali18y84]

I don’t know if she is necessarily evil but she definitely comes iff as incredibly stupid and low IQ

[@nikhiljugdan724]

What are the odds she isolated him from whatever friends he had

[@madmax5841]

Do you also call women in his situation weak? I thought so

[@cherryhazard8002]

Saw this episode from them some months ago. Some women would rather give fake Chad free money than build a home with a man that loves them I guess.

[@dirtedeuce5936]

Women always looking to upgrade

[@grippercrapper]

Exploiting hypergamy. It’s the newest economic sector. Plenty of growth to be had.

[@triggerverse01]

Monkey branching she tried and failed

[@danielvilllareal9726]

​@@grippercrapper😂

[@cynthiaholland13]

Beware y'all. That's that incel language. I'm praying you guys escape the dark place of the manosphere. One day you will look back at this stage and just cringe. Just hold on and keep maturing. You're going to make it out of this bitter, miserable period of your life.

[@ejc5105]

The cat mom and best cat dad shirts are the cherry on top of this mountain of red flags and dysfunction.

[@21area21]

I have absolutely zero remorse for these types of idiots. Them getting robbed is actually a huge benefit to society. Someone smarter and better make use of those resources that would have otherwise been consumed by fools.

[@abigailloar956]

"...mouth breathing, obese woman, in her 50's". Brutal

[@vlindstrom]

This is a classic example of two really unfortunate looking people who are with each other because they have no options. If this husband had done the same to her, she probably wouldn't leave either. They're both rancid, and have zero viable options for partners aside from each other. This is a match made in hell 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@dannyfletcher]

Don’t blame them they literally are perfect for each other. Social media has women like her thinking they can aim so much higher which leads to situations like this

[@kehbab]

Have you not seen the video? The woman has men who are easy on the eyes, work out and talk to her all day She could easily move up #slay🥰

[@RoninCatholic]

Except that for every one of her, there are ten of him. She could easily snag another fat pushover if she was motivated.

[@vlindstrom]

@@RoninCatholic there are more women than men, and more fat women than fat men. Neither of them is in a position to be choosy. Both pathetic AF

[@pingu6028]

she has options - just not better ones

[@GrumpyCat-mw5xl]

I’m glad you did a video on this catfished. It’s mind boggling how much money these people are losing in romance scams

[@weirdphax5406]

i wouldn't divorce her cheating, id divorce for blowing our money

[@lancevance2005]

The catfish channel is a gold mine of delusion. It's hard to feel sad for a lot of the people because they really deserve what they got.

[@jimmyboy131]

Actual victims don't deserve the crimes that are perpetrated upon them, no matter how naive or delusional they may be. Crimes are crimes, and victims don't deserve to be treated horribly.

[@CircumcisionIsChildAbuse]

i dont think this counts as cat fishing. after a certain point- this is just fraud. catfishing was always just a term used to describe people GENUINELY wanting a relationship but LYING to get one. so you pretend to be richer/smarter/taller/prettier- but it was never to get money- catfishing always involved wanting some sort of relationship or pictures. it wasnt a fraud like this.

[@estuardo2985]

well the guy in this case, even with his faults, didn't deserve it even if he made himself susceptible.

[@DonVigaDeFierro]

​@@jimmyboy131There's a gigantic gap between a victim of crime and a victim of their own stupid choices.

[@MissJenX666]

The episode that kills me the most is the Johnny Depp one. That woman actually thinks Johnny owes her an apology! 😂

[@InkWarrior]

Just by reading the title, I gotta get a drink before hitting 'play'.

[@griz312]

Title just screams, “Good Lord”.

[@JM-vp8zc]

Make it a double

[@DObscura-yi5es]

This scammer hit the jackpot.

[@raysa1642]

OMG! A mix of two of my favorite channels on KZbin! So excited

[@rivcogent]

I remember back in 2002 playing Diablo 2 that there were people running around with female character names asking for free loot and SOJ’s, and then later one of them admits he’s a dude after a guy gave him a tarnhelm to “help a girl out”. That was an awesome learning experience to realize a lot of people claiming to be female online are dudes.

[@DonVigaDeFierro]

Pfft. I used to do that when I was 16. Hell, my squeaky voice was sometimes enough to arouse the neckbeards and squeeze them out some premium stuff... I 1000% bet the husband in this video would have fallen for it. He looks _that_ desperate.

[@angelbear_og]

When my nephew was 9 years old he played girl characters because he knew people would give him stuff. It doesn't take a rocket surgeon to figure that out.

[@whitehavencpu6813]

I do that stuff a lot, and both me and my gf sit and laugh at these simps, its hilarious, especially the desperate indian "nice" guys. Its even funnier when my gf pretends to be the guy in love with me and girls start hitting on her.

[@GabrielAKAFinn]

Playing old school runescape back in the day would teach you how to dodge every scam under the sun. And 100k gp hurts just as much as 100k usd, you never forget

[@dankmemes8254]

The frogot about the G.I.R.L ancryomn 💀

[@EscargoBay]

The thing that pissed me off the most about this is her talking about having to sell foot pictures like it was a huge degrading inconvenience. Last time I lost my job, I had to take night shifts at a warehouse, which absolutely destroyed my back and knees. I was constantly exhausted and sore, and hated every minute of it. I would have considered it a divine blessing from god to be given the opportunity to sit at home and take pictures of my feet for a living.

[@ENZOxDV9]

They weren't even good pics as well. Looked like she just woke up and took them with her iPhone 6 and uploaded them raw no edits. Hilarious

[@titanomachy2217]

"Mmmm, the least erogenous part of a woman's external anatomy." Foot fetishism is so fucking weird.

[@summ.3433]

Let's be real, nobody is buying that shit

[@koopa5504]

@@titanomachy2217Tbh.. humans in general are weird, pretty sure you‘ve eaten the place a woman pees and bleeds from before, tell me that‘s less weird. It‘s literally where their „sewage“ comes from.

[@dakz9296]

​@@summ.3433you will he surprised. You never know what people will buy online. Besides, no one knows the owner of the photos.

[@gabiayala2495]

I remember seeing this video a while back & instantly thinking this would be perfect for a TBYS video.

[@jasonnong3305]

I thought the last few videos were crazy, this one is also crazy great vid as always

[@Normalizethis]

Undoubtedly, that “Cat Mom” shirt of hers is an irresistible Richard magnet.

[@sterlingarcher857]

"Richard magnet" 🤣🤣

[@joshuanibbe6709]

Brian should divorce her immediately after finding out 20% of life savings suddenly disappeared and finding out his wife had sent $100,000 to this random stranger, and she still has feelings for the scammer. I can't believe he puts up with this bs. If he divorces her, he can have a few decades of sanity left in his life before it's too late. Edit: I meant to say 80% of the life savings were spent on one guy.

[@A_YouTube_Commenter]

It wasn't 20%. It was 80%.

[@joshuanibbe6709]

@@A_KZbin_Commenter ok. Thanks for the correction

[@setpunks13]

​@decimusvitae why would you say he's LIKE her? She's obviously a manipulative, emotionally abusive woman who doesn't two shits about the poor guy. She stolen his money and given it to some fictional prince charming she was emotionally cucking him with. Then she has the gall to sit back and act like SHE is the victim? She is as much of a scammer as the guy who took her money. Her husband is DEFINITELY not on her level. Poor guy is probably in shock. What he should do is get a lawyer, divorce her ass and take EVERYTHING that's left. He deserves it

[@stevenschnepp576]

​@decimusvitae You say that like he gave away a fuckload of money, too.

[@tripmann268]

Your videos are better than ever man thanks for the value 👍

[@SurnaturalM]

The shirt saying "Best cat dad ever" told me all I needed to know about her husband. Pathetic.

[@TheMasterGamer94Meck]

The Catfish team just took a massive L here. They were all supportive of this terrible woman

[@AspireGMD]

They're always really respectful no matter how delusional the victim is, if you watch their channel. They aren't like the TV show one.

[@feliciavchong]

@@AspireGMD all the victims are the parasites that claim to be strong and independent. not a single man was shown unless he adopt the same mentality as females.

[@Geo-qh4wi]

When the catfished is woman - your husband should help you. When the catfished is a man - you should know better

[@CharleneOrtizTraining]

@@Geo-qh4wi exactly. It's a major double standard.

[@americangirlx4]

​@@AspireGMD The New Catfish is often very disappointing...can't hold a candle to the original. I think their current success is due to being the only show currently available on the subject.

[@CHESTNUT246]

she really thought she could monkey branch to someone better. both are at fault her for not being loyal and him for not standing up and having a spine.

[@marcoaraiza9381]

Steals 500k. Wow the person you stole from is just as bad as you stealing because they didnt stop you

[@batzgameguru]

If he stood up I'm sure she'd scream abuse.

[@Aladius]

Nope. She IS The asshole. He has some responsibility, sure, but who made The worst decision here was she. So no, it's her The problem here.

[@RoninCatholic]

It didn't set off alarm bells that the guy she was trying to monkey branch to to mooch off of...was asking _her_ for money.

[@carbagehealth9634]

or call him insecure lmfao@@batzgameguru

[@peteforce]

Thank you for another great video.

[@miguelrivas5898]

This is why I always say “ never leave the blender on while you are taking a huge dump” my dad said it, my grandfather said it and now I say it !

[@Bonaparta1]

Still can't believe that she actually thought she was talking to Johnny Depp lmao

[@Mikhail_Lokken]

Right like really he can get 10s why would he want -10s

[@3bluemom]

Zero accountability and now zero money! I dont feel bad for her at all.

[@GabrielLima-li8iz]

thank you. I think I really needed someone to say that to me

[@chrislile1725]

Honestly, even if he did leave her, he would probably have to give at least half if not more of his own savings to her. Along with this would probably be the house and possibly anything else of value, not to mention the possibility of alimony. As awful as it may sound, why risk it? He would lose either way, sadly.