Most of you are chasing the wrong person. If they leave, make them do 100% of the effort to get you back while you're out finding the new person that will appreciate you way more than the ex ever did.
@ShannaFae20236 жыл бұрын
Rock N yes!
@Husnu6667 жыл бұрын
Chris Seiter. you the best in this field so far. i have been listen to many break up recovery gurus out there and have actually been in certain programs out there. but i wish i had joined your programs now, because i like your approaches more convincing and helpful. you genuinely want to help out people who are devastated with broken hearts, and i deeply believe that all your videos have helped me channel my feelings and goals during the break up. all your videos are funny, and it kind of heals in a way and brings hope when everything is being lost. i really highly appreciate what you do, and really highly recomend your channel over others. your videos are not just reading from a pre-written scripts they seem to come from the heart. when my ex texted me , i was really lost, what he did with his texts were toatally killing me. and because of this video i knew what i had to say. at that time, i was already on a program of 1 to 1 coaching, and i asked the coach of what i should respond with, he didnt tell me how to respond. but his way worked too. but then again, i find your videos especially this one really good. thank you so much Chris. May God bless you. Ameen.
@pensandnoodles6816 жыл бұрын
3:43 lolol I was watching it at 1.5 speed too, so even funnier. It says something about your style of presentation that I don't even want this advice bc I'm not in this situation right now, but I just watched several of your videos
@danam3588 жыл бұрын
you're very detailed chris love it ;)
@leahc83474 жыл бұрын
Yup, Chris is one of the good guys :) ...
@chempanda63887 жыл бұрын
How are you? Isn’t that a common one too?
@jennifermayhue45214 жыл бұрын
“Why did you unfriend me?” 6 days no contact. I said I’d assumed I’d been blocked and then told him I was no longer interested in being friends. Back to day 1 no contact now lol
@quezlive14518 жыл бұрын
Ok so I was talking to this girl for about a month and a half, we went on 3 dates and texted almost everyday during the time we talked, we really liked each other. About 3 dates after our 3rd date (it was great) I noticed her text weren't as fun or exciting as they usually were, I eventually asked her "if we started dating were you planning on telling your parents?" (Her parents didn't know about me cause they're kinda strict) she never replied after that, so about a day later I asked her why she wasn't replying and is everything ok, she never replied to that either. 2 days later I asked her "do you like me or not? I really like you and I want to make you my gf but if you're not feeling it anymore just tell me" she said she realized she's not ready for a serious relationship yet, she wishes she was but she's not 100% emotionally there yet (I think she's scared cause the only other relationship she was in lasted 2 years and she got cheated on) so a couple days later I asked her if she still would want to hangout and take things slow, she said she's not open to putting herself out there yet and that she's very cautious because of everything that's happened to her. She also said if I want a serious relationship I should look for someone who also wants one cause she's not ready. After that I did no contact for 16 days, I sent her a memory text, I ended the convo quickly but it was great, the next day was even better, we texted throughout the whole day, it was as if we never stopped talking, we were flirting and making jokes the whole time but the two days after that were kinda boring because she was busy, so we texted for 4 days straight and I sent her one last text on the 4th day, she never replied after that though, it could be because she went on a road trip to Florida the 4th day, she's currently in Florida right now on vacation but she has yet to text back all though she still watches my snap stories, what should I do?
@emanuel_soundtrack5 жыл бұрын
I am curious about that 2 years later
@melissaa33357 жыл бұрын
thank u chris!!!! appreciate it
@تاننمةىىىرؤ8 жыл бұрын
amazing chris
@CharlotteLutzka8 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your videos Chris :)
@anyanwulinda35306 жыл бұрын
Chris... You are so funny... U are cracking me up with your display
@munirazaira54655 жыл бұрын
Sebastian is the best!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 * . *
@mathildakamara71437 жыл бұрын
Chris you are simply the best. Omg 👍🏻🙏🏻😘
@ryank03515 жыл бұрын
After 3months of no contact she text me "hmm". What is this mean?
@chrisseitercoaching5 жыл бұрын
This situation they are wanting to see if you will reply, with that minimal effort do not reply. You deserve more than a Hmmm after 3 months!
@chrisseitercoaching5 жыл бұрын
Looking for you to make conversation it seems
@lenoremann71715 жыл бұрын
the acting thing about texting cracked me up. lol..
@chrisseitercoaching5 жыл бұрын
Hi Lenore...thanks for dropping by
@Bubbles84798 жыл бұрын
Hey chris do you do one on one advice? like coaching for something like that, if you do i would be very interested in it :)
@debraaugustine66475 жыл бұрын
Chris seiter thank you so much we are back together
@chrisseitercoaching5 жыл бұрын
Hi Debra....that is awesome!
@lightofdawn96376 жыл бұрын
Wow.. if my ex texted anywhere near that level of ... nothingness, I'd most likely lose brain cells and have to put him into the 12 yr old child category.
@nikkiraske67594 жыл бұрын
Chris love you 😃
@christopherm34776 жыл бұрын
Chris the Sebastian thing is over the top.
@chrisseitercoaching6 жыл бұрын
I thought it was kind of funny :) .
@christopherm34776 жыл бұрын
Chris Seiter I’m not ragging on you. I think you speak well. But if you know someone who was shot by a sociopath it makes you hypersensitive to the epidemic of domestic violence.
@chrisseitercoaching6 жыл бұрын
Thanks Christopher for the feedback. I will work on that!
@toobarahmankhan49984 жыл бұрын
My ex texted me a few days ago. I did an open and shut conversation with him. I wrapped up on the note saying "m busy. Shall talk later". So that went well. But I just want to understand "WHAT NOW?" Should I approach him now or wait for him to reach out again (which BTW is less likely to happen now)
@DeepDivingDiva3336 жыл бұрын
Hehe you’re funny , thank you!
@Eugene-wd5qd6 жыл бұрын
Hey , Heather.Thank you for your response. Literally yesterday she sent me message again: "Hello mean Eugene ".And I'm not gonna respond her.Take care Heather.
@shahryarkhan70005 жыл бұрын
what to do if your ex texts you" sorry for everything " after 6 months
@chrisseitercoaching5 жыл бұрын
So that is an interesting development. Looks like he wants to open up some dialogue. Explore it if you have interest.
@maimunasauda51574 жыл бұрын
what if he texts after no contact, "my friend is telling about us", what does it mean?
@minhafatima56843 жыл бұрын
I sent msg to my ex miss you too.. Have I did something wrong?
@KimBerly-sd4qe7 жыл бұрын
Chris, I did 6 weeks no contact and my ex started texting me, i mirrored his text except when he said “ I miss you “ I said “ what’s not to miss?!” He said if I ever had the urge I should call him... I said , you have my number , you’ll call if you want to talk . Two days later he suggested we get together, I said “ what did you have in mind?” He said “ I don’t know ! , you? I suggested coffee somewhere .... I got no reply .....wtf?
@christina72158 жыл бұрын
Ur So cute Chris. Funny thing is my ex is called Chris 😂😂😜
@daisyflower225 жыл бұрын
So is mine lol, my Father is also called Chris!
@leahc83474 жыл бұрын
Don't 😂
@ibahmalatjie42314 жыл бұрын
Mine too 🤣🤣
@yuandi94102 жыл бұрын
Hahaha that looks funny I mean when what ever who says whatupp I just answer I am good mdr 😂 😂 😂 never I would say a such a thing
@leahc83475 жыл бұрын
(Its been 4 mth nc) My ex said (replying to a text I sent) "Hey. Been busy, idk. Feeling weird. Why do you miss me?"... What should I say! Help!!
@chrisseitercoaching4 жыл бұрын
Hey Leah, thats an emotional conversation! Do not do this, you need to have positive conversations and keep it short fun and light, building up to having more meaningful conversations as time passes
@leahc83474 жыл бұрын
@@chrisseitercoaching Thank you so much!. Will keep that in mind. Its hard cuz he keeps throwing short negative stuff at me and I was trying to be postive in the very beggining (but even that came off wrong) but I can see now I was getting sucked in again... last thing is "Bc he doesnt know my intentions".. like even trying to be nice is a red flag, lol, rolls eyes. Need to be highly trained in the human mind, psycology, reverse psychology, nlp, communication skills, etc etc, to pass through this phase, lol, which I wish I was. Tbh, I feel it all broke down mostly to communication skills I think, but then again I wonder sometimes...
@vidhigupta65094 жыл бұрын
What if ur ex msgs n then after my reply he again replied after 3-4 days although he had seen it that day itself..... What to do?
@chrisseitercoaching4 жыл бұрын
Hey Vidhi, if you haven't done so yet you need to complete a No Contact period, if you are in the texting phase this is not too bad you just need to be talking about things that are of an interest to him
@DeepDivingDiva3336 жыл бұрын
What about when he says he wants to come over to give you your stuff ?!
@chrisseitercoaching6 жыл бұрын
DeepDiving Diva you let him, make the interaction quick. Don't show any emotion.
@DeepDivingDiva3336 жыл бұрын
Chris Seiter haha okay thank you... I ended up asking to meet at the park cuz it was just my sunglasses n to go cup!! since then we made up. No contact on my end worked. All it took was one full day. Then just simple , but friendly replies only when he initiated. I took more time replying too. 👏👏👏🙂
@johnnyoats39204 жыл бұрын
yo
@anyanwulinda35306 жыл бұрын
What if he i texted him first and he replied... How are you
@Naural20244 жыл бұрын
My ex text (Hey. How's it going tina?
@chrisseitercoaching4 жыл бұрын
If you are done with your No Contact and want to get this ex back, then watch some more texting videos to help you with your responses
@amjathaahmed25527 жыл бұрын
he say not to text and he dont want to listen etc.
@ritarubino9313 Жыл бұрын
Lol will he said want to! Right after 10 minutes apart Shawty The next day hey sexy I have not apply back at all so what now
@Eugene-wd5qd7 жыл бұрын
Hey, Chris! I stopped contacting my GF.After 2 months of No Contact she sent me a message:"God says to forgive so I'll forgive you but I want nothing to do with you.Take care"What does she really want?Thank you in advance for your response.
@heathersaarela5526 жыл бұрын
Eugene 777 .. It means she wants nothing to do with you.. Move on and find someone who does
@Eugene-wd5qd6 жыл бұрын
Hey , Heather.Thank you for your response. Literally yesterday she sent me message again: "Hello mean Eugene ".And I'm not gonna respond her.Take care Heather.
@cocoghost016 жыл бұрын
Lol my ex boyfriend's middle name is Sebastian 😂
@shannonland11378 жыл бұрын
so my ex now has a new girl and I'm currently carrying hym his baby but I don't kno wat to do? currently going threw the no contact rule but than wat to do next and can u please make video and respond
I read the article but now I just found out that he is now with another women mean while I'm pregnant and he has said he doesn't want me any more wat do u think i should do it seems to be a rebound relationship and I'm getting ready to have my child next month I'm confused not sure if I should keep trying or just move on and wat should I do about him visiting the baby