The GIRLFRIEND EXPERIENCE / Are You Buying Her? (in the Philippines)

The Girlfriend Experience, or GFE, or TGE, begs the question - are you buying her seduction in an LDR in the Philippines? If you took the red pill, a paid relationship with a married man of the older man younger woman type, or an age gap with an Asian woman might be perfect, but a girlfriend for hire, date for hire or paid gf might be more common than you think! A foreigner with a Filipina might be married to the game, or he might have a paid companion.... ‪@TheFilipinaPea‬
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[@TheFilipinaPea]

👉My videos and the effort I put into them are 100% free for everyone to enjoy, and all I ask is that you leave a thumbs-up on any videos that you like and subscribe to my channel - I have never, and will never, ask you for anything else. For those of you that still wish to support my channel further, however, I’ve posted my links below. Thanks! 👉 Support through PayPal: www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=GC9T7PMLZ3BDW&source=url 👉 Patreon: www.patreon.com/thefilipinapea

[@paulcarlisle7892]

Wanted to let you know I’m happy. Thanks for all the info. Best of luck to you.

[@glennraydavis]

My gal is a hard read... I'm happy, she can keep her complexity as her own .. I don't need to know... What I do know, is, she buys me clothes and that makes me happy...The language barrier hasn't been that bad as she does know some English, just not enough to explain things to me quickly and I have spoken a few words in Talagog, Not enough to have an in-depth conversation... My security for her is my wisdom and knowledge, not my money. She is security to me with her down to earthy solid intelligence and her work ethic... She has been paying her own way for the five years we have been together... You know and I know it's not always a scheme all about the money and {Sex! Is fleeting}... Nice but it's not everything... Go for the total package... Riddle;, We live together next door to each other... Not married... Born in 55 and born in 72. My Date...

[@glennraydavis]

Lady Pea Yer Hilarious... I heartedly Approve of your Comedy...

[@semperfi-1918]

I know one thing. I maybe taking care of her college education but it was done with care and lots of prayer. Were fully commited to being married next year. Great video. And i know ours is legit as shes all for getting married in the Philippines. Which shows her commitment. As well as mine.

[@dragonson72]

Not saying all men are like this but with many western women, a man takes them out on a date, buys them dinner, maybe flowers, things are going well and after the date ends maybe he gets a goodnight kiss, the man might get lucky and have sex with her and if it does not work out there is drama from her, South Asian woman, not that there won't be drama are more practical the "Exchange of services" concept works for them as well as the men, if a relationship comes out of it great, if the man wishes to purchase after renting even better. Some western woman are of the mind that you take it out for a test drive you plan on buying

[@neilfisch6533]

American women would be horrified by you while most men are shaking their heads, "yes." You are so direct and no bs. I love your channel.

[@Pr3ct]

Well, like as The Guess Who so beautifully sang: American woman stay away from meee eee.

[@user-DrJoe-Future]

Ditto that!!!!!

[@aphilippinesadventure9184]

Few sets of women put as much effort into peddling their poon as American women. They are horrified by competition that is more honest and primal. They know they cannot compete.

[@heatherfeather9951]

Actually I know of many Asian men who detest Asian and Filipina women. Apparently, when men have problems with women, they always blame the woman (usually her race or nationality) instead of looking inward. If an Asian man tells me that he hates Asian women and only likes white women (and many have) I see that as a huge red flag and I don't just automatically assume that Asian women are evil. I actually interact with Asian women before making rash and negative generalizations.

[@Doctor_Martain]

Women in the USA will be getting a wake up call as travel restrictions lessen and men start fleeing.

[@donwilliams6712]

Good points Pea. I married my Philipina Wife over 3 decades ago, and she was way, way 'out of my league" and still is, but as I gave her loyalty, love, and financial stability she has remained with me all of these years and raised my kids. It was a huge win win for everyone involved.

[@fruitloops3718]

When a woman withholds sex from her husband she has in effect voided the marriage contract. So it's only reasonable to expect she's going to get divorced. And since she gets half in the divorce you now understand why men don't want to be married anymore.

[@paulvandervelden4087]

exactly....how many times can you be cut in half.

[@ianrichardson3228]

She gets half? More likely she'll also get half of your half before you have paid all the legal bills and expenses. Hopefully you'll get 10% of what you had before the marriage! Just ask any highly recommended divorce lawyer...

[@DeaconBlues25]

@@ianrichardson3228 Divorce is greater than love. Don't believe me? Love is grand, but divorce is a hundred grand!

[@davidwhite2085]

You are amazingly spot on. I had never heard a woman admit or even consider issues like these.

[@marktreissman3244]

In a divorce she gets half PLUS spousal

[@johnreid9506]

I'm in a relationship with a Filipina. I do give her some financial support. I believe we are truthful to one another that we really love each other. However if money is her primary incentive so be it. It's a price I'm willing to pay.. Thank you Pea

[@thomaswright1057]

Yeah, I don't have a relationship overseas. But I think I could live with that situation as long as it is honest. We all pay in some way, time, money, emotional support..... just depends on the expected medium of exchange ? Men are traditionally the provider in a relationship anyway which is the same thing.

[@dangarcia6760]

Guys, the GFE is the same all over the world, the cost for that GFE in the Philippines is the difference!

[@canderson718]

Retail at wholesale prices!

[@Mottleydude1]

Yup. That’s been my experience too and you know what? I see nothing wrong with that. Why shouldn’t a woman be attracted to a man that can provide material well being? Most of the American guys looking for a traditional Filipina for a wife do so knowing perfectly well they have that advantage to offer and they use that advantage. A middle class American man earning a median income of 3 million PP represents a huge level of economic security most Filipinas have never had in their life and the American man knows that. Where as in the US you’re just a middle of the pack fella economically speaking.

[@jimsullivanyoutube]

Females are females. This is simply location arbitrage.

[@colinwoodford1308]

🤗Pea that’s truth in your topic. the truth is out there but nobody wants to admit it😁💰💴

[@bobpeters61]

In the U.S. the parties are known as the Sugar Daddy and the Sugar Baby.

[@markthompson8532]

Many of times I have heard it said that men don't pay for a woman to come, they pay for the woman to leave.

[@markbrown1622]

Now we're talking about real money! It's very expensive to pay her to leave. My ex was a housekeeper. She got to keep the house. 😜

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Hahahahaha

[@Steve-no8fd]

@@markbrown1622 Well said Mr. Brown and so true!

[@darrenb1619]

@@markbrown1622 ouch

[@eelenavarguss]

The biggest obstacle to getting a woman is remembering how hard it was to get rid of one.

[@benitodominguez2157]

So honest, so true and unapologetically straight to the heart. You live in a cheater's paradise but for Filipina's it's survival and we should all as visitors understand that so thank you 😊👍.

[@trentstravels]

Feminists should not get upset with what you said. Both people in a relationship should take care of each other, in their way & a woman who stays home & gives care is NOT subserviant. Subserviant suggests you are doing something for someone & get very little, if anything, in return. If you are looking after your household, giving care to you & your family, you are doing something that benefits you & your family, not someone else. The most important job anyone can do is bring up a decent & well rounded human being, but the feminists of the world look down on women who make the perfectlty valid choice to stay home, take care of the kids & family, because why? They don't get paid for it? Feminists claim to be supporting women, encouraging them, but really, they are not, puting down those that choose to stay home, give their kids, & husband love & support, which, by the way, they need, particularly kids, who are 100% dependent on their parents. And a good husband provides protection & financial security, &, hopefully love too. The world needs more love, not screwballs who think life is about work, work, work, & thinking of "number one".

[@nodrug2]

I'm on board with you 100%. My take on your comment is this. We have forgotten the traditional roles of man and woman in a relationship. Like Pea says men are the ones who get up in the middle of the night with the baseball bat. Women are so important to having children (duh only women can give birth) and then nurturing them. They should be held in the highest respect and treated properly. Then they should respect men equally as we have traditionally gone out and brought back the bacon and provide the physical and material security, it's a partnership of equals and both sides should respect each other.

[@kenkneram4819]

The vast majority of feminists that I've met are incredibly stupid. Those that weren't were from an older generation of feminism that actually respected men and our inputs OR they were smart enough to understand that what they were spouting was bullshit but they had an agenda and it usually involved a fundamental hatred of and foaming animosity towards males.

[@Murph_.]

Pea, I'm totally offended! You said you would offend everyone, and you didn't offend me. That's offensive! Seriously, another great video. Never stop telling it the way it is. There are so many people talking about this subject, but they ALL evade some part of the conversation. I love how you put the information out there... ALL OF IT! Thank you for... well, just being you.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Hahahahaha Oh my goodness, getting offended over not getting offended - that has to be new, even for the western snowflakes 😂👍

[@MVProfits]

"Pea, I'm totally offended! You said you would offend everyone, and you didn't offend me.". Yeah, what gives? Why did you leave us out Pea? ;)

[@Miphen0707]

Ha ha ha ha “Western Snowflakes”that is so funny Pea. Thank you for all your great videos. I hope you will be blessed abundantly.

[@kelvinmcneill9923]

Nice one Pearl, You are so wise for you age. (Age ?). Relationship are very complicated, we just try to find a measure of happiness in the midst of complications. I guess..love you Pearl..😘😘

[@KutWrite]

@@kelvinmcneill9923: Who is this "Pearl?" Is that "Pea's" sister?

[@john_sparks]

This is one of your biggest truth bombs ever, Pea. Powerful stuff. Enlightening for those who have not already been down this path. It wasn't long after my divorce that I realized I had merely been involved in a 20 year GFE. Then my closest friends and relatives finally opened up with their true opinions of my ex. Even my Dad told me, "Son, I knew from the start she was only with you for your money." When I asked my own father why he didn't say anything, his only response was a shrug of the shoulders and "None of my business." Thanks, Dad. Now I look back on brief relationships and even the longer ones before and after the divorce. I'm not sure I've ever had anything but a transactional based relationship. True love? I don't know if I would recognize it if I found it. I have somewhat given up on my Philippine dream. I'm focused on work and other things and just waiting until the crazy borders open up -- maybe next year. Meanwhile, the filipina I most adore is right here. Your last video helping the poor food vendor on the street in Cebu touched me deeply. How can a woman with such passion, compassion, empathy and insight also be so coldly pragmatic, logical and informed? You are amazing, Pea. How much for the lifetime GFE?

[@James-akaRhino]

Quit being a simp bro

[@kbsquare]

The GFE is a real thing, and after 35 years of marriage, raising a family, caring for and sharing with each other, and now financially secure (sometimes I earned more, sometimes she did) ... this partnership I've lived is way more than just a GFE. So am I describing a relationship that encompasses the GFE and the BFE? Yes, I am.

[@OrthodoxDAO]

@Chris Murzda things where the same in 1989, probably in 1989 BC. I refer you to LL Cool J - Big Ole Butt

[@freedomliberty7611]

The truth doesn't care about your feelings. Great job again!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Yes, and someone’s opinion doesn’t change the facts 😂👍

[@mattfagin7641]

@@TheFilipinaPea on point

[@eugenegue9089]

I have never had any relationship where the woman was giving anything without getting more in return.

[@KutWrite]

That's good in business, too. Everyone should feel they left something on the table.

[@pietromora2297]

You are right sir 👏

[@Hfil66]

Ideally, any relationship, the sum should amount to more than the parts. If the relationship works (no matter whether is is a concious transaction or a subconscious transaction) then bot parties should be feeling they are getting more out than they put in. If this is not happening then the relationship should be regarded as a failure.

[@mcluvin65]

I would love to meet some of the women you are referring too, I am sure they would say that being with you was the most grueling 2 minutes of her life.

[@ShooterBrown]

Lol and you never will. Great whit buffalo. 🤣

[@soulstice69]

American women would snob this video and call it sexist and not politically correct. But that would be hypocritical, as they are working ALL the same angles here in the US. Yet somehow they have the audacity to think they are superior to the Filipino women who monetize their beauty. Unlike American women, many Filipino women obviously grew up in a Third World environment where there are far less options to escape poverty. So if anyone is to be judged, it's the Western women. Pea nailed it as usual! Then followed it up with more hilarious movie references. You are truly the whole package Pea!

[@darrylknight2675]

I just love that phrase "Looking for her Prince Charming, while being paid to kiss all the frogs". Made me laugh

[@thomascanady6836]

Spot on...or maybe some of us are toads...

[@BruceCinader]

I just have to comment that you thoroughly impress me for several reasons, not only do you really know your topic and not pull any punches, but you do not speak on a third grade level, but have the vocabulary of a well educated American and the humor to go with it. I never have to guess at what your trying to say, because you say it so well. Thanks for the great vlogs.

[@bisonpaleofossilriveradven3528]

Well educated American? 😂 There are many ways to become educated. Speak at a third grade level? How many languages do you speak? How many do you speak fluently? Perhaps you did not mean to come off a bit as an arrogant American but you’re close in my opinion.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Well thanks Bruce! They do say I have an American accent, which is no surprise because we’re taught American English in school rather than British English, and I spent years in an American call center 👍😊 My humor matches my taste in movies, which is also western

[@KutWrite]

@@TheFilipinaPea: Ah that explains a lot! I've been hoping for a "History of the Pea" video some time. If you don't get a stipend from the Philippine Tourism Agency, you should!

[@Stephon723]

@@bisonpaleofossilriveradven3528 LOL LOL LOL. I wasn't going to say anything. It reminds me of when I used to work for UPS I'd knock on someone's door and say mrs. "Whatever their name was" got a package for you can I get you to sign here. And they'd look at me in shock and awe and utter those cringe-worthy words "Oh my! You read so well" and just like Bruce, they're always completely oblivious to everything else that they just said. I was usually far less offended in far more amused at their ignorance. It reminded me when I say dumb stuff the people from the South before I moved down there and learned that they do have electricity and pave roads and all that other good stuff. Empty wagon makes a lot of noise

[@TheFilipinaPea]

My background video is already out - it’s my “Q&A” from months ago. If you want my story, it’s there 👍 kzbin.info/www/bejne/kJe5fZl3qdxpn7c

[@ALoa-ds4ru]

Funny the "GFE" is called marriage in the US.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Exactly, and it think it’s the same in a lot of places! At least here in the Philippines, you get a better benefits package, and the severance pay is reasonable

[@jeremywheeler8417]

Sad but true

[@Stephon723]

Very true. Hilarious I was just speaking out a long drawn-out version of this same comment. I should probably go back and read it and correct all the speech-to-text typos. But it sure enough is. And I'm really just realizing it over the last two years. Sucks to find out through the School of Hard Knocks. I will save my son from this if I do nothing else. I will teach him the truth he will know his worth and his value

[@ArcanistBlack]

Probably get more for your money in Filipines

[@jwalche]

At least you get GFE in the beginning, maybe for the first ten years?

[@thefilipinojoe]

I love how you tell it like it is 💕 I am 58 and still single. I've been in relationships, but never married. I am adamant about protecting myself, my happiness, and my future. I always say, I'd rather be happy and lonely than married and miserable. 💕

[@joeschmoe5769]

It makes no sense to say that you are happy and lonely because those words contradict each other. Loneliness is a form of miserableness. I am 55 and still single. I too have been in relationships but never married. The biggest difference between us is that I am more logical.

[@cahillgreg]

@@joeschmoe5769 Shush now.

[@noelsingletary]

Sounds like you're a MGTOW too! I have been MGTOW for 5 years. Being lonely is no fun but I have adjusted to it. I'm thinking about going to the Philippines very soon though. Hey! What could go wrong?!!!

[@anthonybrowne3942]

@@joeschmoe5769 I'm 74 yo and I was married but not now. I'd ratter be happy and married, but since I'm not, I'd ratter be happy and alone than married and miserable. I think he met alone instead of lonely.

[@taras3702]

Being alone and being lonely are two very different matters. I prefer to be alone over being around people around whom I feel lonely, like my ex-wife. Life is much too short to be married and miserable.

[@mikeoreilly4020]

I just laughed out loud from 3 or 4 things you said like, "Bang for the buck." and some others. Great job, Pea. I can say from personal experience, that transactional relationships can blossom into wonderful unconditional relationships if the two people are right for each other.

[@jackdale9249]

bloody unlikely ! this is NOT pretty woman the movie where a whore becomes a rich mans wife

[@WildMidwest1]

@@jackdale9249 Apparently Mike hasn’t digested the red pill yet. He doesn’t understand that once a man climbs the “provider” ladder it becomes damn near impossible to jump onto the “stud” ladder. Better to start over with a new woman and use wisdom gained to turn the tables.

[@lorismith6398]

Mae West has nothing on the Pea when it comes to the ' double entondre ' !

[@claytonking101]

The gfe doesnt just happen in SE Asia. It happens all over the world. Thank you for this very direct video. Keep up the good work Pea!

[@47boogieman67]

As far as I'm concerned Miss p. As long as both parties are happy it does not matter if it's love or just a arrangement. As long as both parties are happy

[@SuzySuziko]

I really want commend you for being able to not only see this all so clearly, I know the truth of all you say, but I am amazed you are able to say it so clearly. Brilliant!

[@fretworkband3204]

The feeling of “love” ebbs and flows in any relationship. Some are just in love with the concept of “love”. Most will never know unconditional love from their mate yet they continue to yearn for it. And the beat goes on....

[@timg5463]

I believe almost all romantic relationships are transactional. If each person is not getting some needs met there would be no relationship. How many western women leave their husbands when his financial situation takes a turn in the wrong direction? That, of course, is not the only example and probably not the most frequent one. I am sure the best hunter got the best women in the cave man days. That is how it has always been.

[@ivanskirchak4935]

When the hunter goes to work, the caveman who knows what a tongue is for comes in and takes care of business. 😂

[@davem1430]

which is WHY no MAN should EVER EVER get MARRIEND in the U ass A...EVER !! (and finally, MOST are "learning" that MARRIAGE in the U ASS A is nothing but a SCAM !!)

[@tmmartin50]

Knowledgeable anthropologists are likely to confirm your statement about hunters and access to women in a prehistoric clan. Hunters expended far more calories than they gained from the meat they brought home. From a strictly nutritional POV, hunting didn't make sense. From a social POV, it conferred status and access to females.

[@tomster7574]

What you state is true but it is still a vast minority of relationships where that happens. Even if they make the most noise are and are in the public the most they still are the smallest portion.

[@ryanspeier602]

@@user-sy6jf4hm3t I have to disagree on a more broad perspective. Emotional connections in and of themselves are still transactions. Your emotions are received and reciprocated by the other party, hence a transaction is taking place, yours for theirs. Ones desire to please or comfort another are either being fulfilled or declined by the other party, hence a transaction of emotions. Just because both parties have the same goals does not mean it is not still a transaction. The concept she brings up multiple times about the "Grey area" is where you can put that view. I think your putting a far too narrow view on the term transaction. Emotions can be viewed as a barter transaction, the exchange of my services (my emotions) for your goods (your emotions) and a mutual desire from the second party my goods(emotions) for their services(emotions). Financial for emotional transactions are just the same, my finances(your motivation) for your emotions(my motivation). Emotions = Investments. Trade safe.

[@joehart7260]

Any successful relationship with a woman is a partnership, you work together as a team. In some ways It's the two of you against the rest of the world, and when it works it works well.

[@aicy5020]

What a beautiful story. Sounds like A little house on the prairie. Do you have any more like that?

[@joehart7260]

@@aicy5020 Sounds like you've had one too many bad experiences.

[@CarsonBoyd]

Way to stand in your confidence, Pea! I love how direct you are willing to be. ❤

[@CarsonBoyd]

You occur to me as extraordinarily honest.

[@michaelshaffer2813]

I'm now 61 years old. I've been married to the same woman for 42 years now. Do to my experiences I believe you are correct in all that you've said. As I ponder these very questions I've begin to realize that I'm running out of time.

[@ManOfAdventure2011]

"More bang for the buck" in SEA! Love that pun. It's obvious why your channel is so popular. You aren't afraid to say what you know to be true.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Someone has to say it, and I’m not afraid to 😂

[@ManOfAdventure2011]

@@TheFilipinaPea yup. That's why I continue to watch your content.

[@dragonrln]

@@TheFilipinaPea And we respect you for that.

[@kennethboehnen271]

Yep. You have a real You Tube niche. No real competition, and can take your channel in many cool directions after the country reopens. If your channel was listed on the exchange, I'd buy stock 😉

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Hahahahaha Well thanks for that!

[@Phucket24]

Loneliness is a horrible feeling and this loneliness will create unusual relationships as long as both parties agree I don’t see anything wrong love your videos and great eye opening content

[@terraincognita1130]

Superficial relationship can't cure loneliness, else for people who lie to themself.

[@bisonpaleofossilriveradven3528]

I agree.

[@themaincat85]

Loneliness is definitely a monster. No fun. Pea is absolutely in her content.

[@WillyEckaslike]

post nut clarity is when u wake up and realize it wasnt worth it

[@ianjustin4389]

@Cam montreuil engines you do know that Viagra was created some 20 years or so ago right?!

[@pamelaharo7946]

I think nobody should feel offended just by hearing the truth, we need to accept reality like it is, and that also may happen everywhere, but we are talking about the Philippines here. It's a good video as always. 💙

[@guitarista666]

Very thoughtful, Pea. I've concluded that the feelings that really matter in a relationship are simply care and concern for the other person. Other feelings may exist, but they should be secondary.

[@mahad813]

Married, GF/BF, FGE or single, there is money involved always and it is called love tax. Depends on which one is cheap or expensive🤭

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Love Tax! Thanks, that’s a new one for me 👍😂

[@Alex-lq6np]

Love tax sounds better than "fine "if you get basted of Swedish police during your immoral sex- activity , with a streetwalker Love tax + fine .

[@alekstufa1026]

Been there don that 16 years marriage. Boy that was a MARATHON OF THE ANCIENT GREEKS HAHAHAHA

[@alekstufa1026]

It's about being happy anyway you would do at. Myself I would rather have a girlfriend or life partner being comfortable for me

[@alekstufa1026]

@@Alex-lq6np But that is wrong to ponish people for this things should be legal I think we are behind with civilization as a society we still live in somehow between democracy and dictatorship society even in the western countries

[@ralphstewart4025]

I subscribe to "relationship life cycle management". Different inputs and outputs over time, as relationships go through different phases. Best relationships are "win-win" where everyone gets what they need to be happy. Keep them compartmentalized, separate from each other. Everyone is unique, for example, there is only one Filipina Pea....

[@TheFilipinaPea]

That’s a great philosophy - everyone has needs, and they will always try to fill them, no matter what 👍

[@KutWrite]

@Ralph Stewart: You sound like an engineer!

[@borandell9915]

Very interesting point. I'm in a 30-year marriage. It is definitely an evolving experience. Our wants and needs do change over time, and if we are attentive, it can be managed to a Win-Win. It's rare, but it can work.

[@Bogie6588]

Thank you for the truth, Pea! Another excellent video!

[@ronschubert6240]

Great job!!!! Like the way you ended the video. Keep the videos coming!!!! Thanks Ron

[@themacker894]

LOL! The scene from Fast Times was simply hilarious. You're very creative, and I love how you used the double top. That movie brings back many good memories.

[@ralphstewart4025]

You do such a good job of 'Peasplaining'...you're a genius, really. Everything "spot on", again...

[@todd7756]

Peasplaining...a new word!!

[@TheSheltoncarpenter]

I absolutely love your content. All of it, I haven't seen a poorly done video yet. Keep up the great work, Pea!

[@loneranger668]

Bravo! Pea, your social analyzes are becoming like a fine wine; kick back and enjoy it...

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Wow, I like the way you said that! Thanks 👍😊

[@lunchbox6576]

I've made the exact same points you made for about the last 20 years to my friends both who are married and single and those who are divorced and none of them disagreed with any of those points. Also considering the divorce rate marriage should probably be reserved for individuals who wish to have children.

[@buellrichardson5222]

I will have to say that you have definitely hit the nail on the head. I think every relationship is a GFE to one extent or another. Even with 2 people who love each other deeply there is still the GFE. They may not call it that but it still is.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Exactly, Buell - and it’s okay to admit it 👍😊

[@russelldale7888]

@@TheFilipinaPea better the experience the better the pay no brainer

[@kendallhclement]

Just absolutely brilliant, Pea! I love the ending too. Truly awesome video. Keep 'em coming. Thank you!

[@stigrichardhansen]

You always have very good points and no disagreements can open for any discussion here! You are a very clever person and always knows what you are pointing out!

[@csscott9803]

That hair keeps getting gorgeous every time 😂🔥

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I’ll never cut it (until I’m tripping on it) 😂

[@johnreed4401]

@@TheFilipinaPea ok repunzel

[@CYMRUKID69]

Everything about filipina pea is gorgeous.

[@jperry3956]

While in Korea during my years in the military, I had a live in "girlfriend". She was called a Yobo, a wife for rent. So every month you pay the rent, buy food, give her some spending money. In return she gives you a hot meal and warm bed any time you can get a pass off post. But it is commonly know that if you aren't with her, she is making money the oldest of ways. it is commonly done, and known that those women don't love you, they are doing what they have to, to survive . Some young men get confused and think there is love involved. Most, not all, of those type of women are just looking to get State side. "I'll be number one wife" , "you takie me state side". That is the hitch all they want is a trip to America . and all life's problems will be solved. Wrong, so wrong and here is why. Korea back when I was there, as in the Philippines, Americans seem rich or flush with cash but only in your country , here the exchange rate for the dollar is ..... well one dollar so these grills get over here see that living on an E-5's pay is just as hard as living on Filipina pay in the Philippines. Now none of what I've have said is all inclusive, many find love and live happily ever after. Consider though most of those relationships didn't start on the strip. Any way thank you for your content Pea.

[@aicy5020]

Doing it to survive? They are hookers, my friend, nothing more nothing less.

[@ianjustin4389]

Yep like AC just said they are bar girls who these dudes have taken in as live-in lovers. Men have gotta realise that they ain’t genies - they can’t turn sh!t into gold…

[@markcollins2666]

Germany was like that, as NCO's, we had girlfriends first, who we hired as maids which made them legit to be on post, in the barracks. They cleaned hallways, stairwells, common areas, which we all kicked in for. For extra, they'd clean your room, do laundry, but it was understood that she was one guy's girlfriend, And rarely did they want to go to the US. Life in the E-6 barracks in Mannheim, where maybe cooler heads prevailed.

[@russellbetts7499]

True when I was in Korea too

[@kevingonzalez3673]

Wow! Prostitution is legal over there?

[@jamesconnors8095]

You continually set the bar exceptionally high with your well developed subject matter and your honest delivery.

[@johnblack3497]

Caddyshack! Love it! Great video! Keep up the Great work!

[@fred-cp1hf]

If folks are being honest with themselves I think most would agree. Another great video lil one be safe have fun.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Exactly, as long as it’s honest 👍

[@nothing563019]

Good vid as usual. The transaction is exactly the same in the west -- you just pay alot more in the long run for much less in return, from a worse product.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Yes, we offer a better deal 😂😂😂😂

[@troyzeigler7536]

Excellent analysis. Well done as I have come to expect of you!

[@rich5350]

You are soooo on point sometimes! I’m a lawyer and I really think your debating skills are top notch! I have made this argument so many times before.

[@jimszczodrowski3695]

Life in general is give and take. not just relationships

[@Teacher784]

Almost every relationship hinges on what you provide to the other person, meeting their needs. People who ignore this usually breakup after the hormones die off

[@ralphkilling]

That was very deep Pea, your content is always an eye opener. I love your content, keep up the good work

[@mrcentralnj4294]

Saw the topic and had to click on quick as this is one of my favorite shows The GFE on cable. Excellent job as always. I like the escapism angle.

[@tman46544]

My friend and I were just speaking about this last night on the drive home from the casino. I mentioned that it could be best to just hire bar girls instead of having a girlfriend or wife once I retire over there. We both agreed that either way, it will cost money.

[@nodrug2]

Sex that you pay for is cheaper than sex you get for "free".

[@noelsingletary]

@@nodrug2 ABSOLUTELY it is!

[@sorendk1]

All I care about is how happy I am on a daily basis.. Doesn't really matter if its a steady relation or "something lighter". If I´m happy with her and she enjoys my company, its a win-win. Just like friendships without the sex, or actually any part of life.. If its worth keeping, keep it.. AND remember to be an asset to others yourself ;)

[@jlsharks5981]

I love your straight talk and no BS or PC and of course your humour. Pea you area breath of fresh air. Thanks

[@warrenbarnes9653]

Excellent essay, Pea!

[@andrewt.c.wilson808]

banging ( snicker )out truth bombs ... about inter-personal relationships .. all over the world ... most will lie to themselves .. and say no not me ... but it is a cold harsh reality .... yes there can be ... and are .. real honest caring relationships ... but that is when love is involved ... when real love is there ... a person cares more about their partners happiness than their own ... in fact .. when in love ... making your partner happy ... is what makes you happy ... told ya .. many times Pea .. I love your honest objective reporting .. and the compassion you have for those you meet ... GOD Bless you ... Pea ... Keep Fighting The Good Fight ... and I will keep tuning in ..

[@amossnowdaharleyman9179]

Another observation: over the decades I've heard men say they "never paid for it in their life". Ever bought a dinner for a woman, paid for a vacation, bought groceries.... All men pay for it: either directly or indirectly. Always have, always will. We may have most of the coin but women have all of the coochie lol.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

And the exchange rate is a bitch 😂

[@byronjones7263]

@@TheFilipinaPea Nah, the exchange rate is VARIABLE. Bwahahaha

[@jperry3956]

@@TheFilipinaPea West Virginia saying "She has half the money and all the p_ _ sy, do as you're told or she will wind up with all of both, and you with neither1 "

[@AWidgetIHaveNot]

And this frank message that most divorced men refuse to even consider. Add up the number of times you had sex with your wife and divide it by whatever you paid out in a divorce. Then add on top of that an extra $50 (or your billable rate) per hour for every hour of misery marriage caused which you wouldn't have had if single. If the number is lower than using a sex worker as needed I'd be very surprised indeed. And of course the wealthier you are the less appealing the numbers. Best ask Jeff Bezos if he received $38 Billion worth of blow jobs from his wife over 25 years. I'm just going to leave you to ponder that for yourselves.

[@TonyRule]

More often than not they pay with half their worth. And all their self esteem.

[@user-dl3qx8zl9z]

Love your work Pea. That was spot on.

[@MrThailik]

Great insight pea , love your channel . Keep going !

[@dariusslade4953]

Prof. Pea, life is filled with transactions. The hope is some interpersonal transactions are deeper and meaningful. Thanks!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

That’s certainly my hope as well 👍😊

[@dariusslade4953]

Prof. Pea your hard work to inform and entertain "US" is greatly appreciated. Hang in there! I can't fully understanding or know all your hurdles, but i do know when you pursue your passion, "it's a bitch!" 😉😊

[@kayakcobber524]

My little nephew likes driving motorcycle...he rents all the time and thinks about buying one. Well I owned bikes and can tell him: better to rent, always the latest model and good maintained. Many adventures.....

[@ronjclm8590]

No. Motorcycles are pretty dependable and can last for decades. I should ride my VTX 1800c more. It's 20 years old with 15,000 miles on it. Taxes, tags, and insurance cost about $400 a year. I rode it 300 miles last year. So $200 for an afternoon ride. :-(

[@KutWrite]

@@ronjclm8590 Sounds like good support for what "Cobber" said, above!

[@eelenavarguss]

Many men say that it is better to rent a woman than to buy one.

[@bigjohnson7415]

I think he was alluding to women, not necessarily motorcycles!

[@kayakcobber524]

Thanks for the bike advice. But yes, I think the topic was about.....

[@scottlazzarini7370]

Love your work Pea... Keep telling it like it is!

[@cecilwampler1242]

The Fast Times at Ridgemont High scene was awesome! Great video.

[@rick32k]

I feel like all relationships, even the ones in the west are all transactional, but I feel like you get a WAYYYY better bang for your buck in Asia though.

[@Alex-lq6np]

Not always ;; not when you have to feed all of her family and buying a new house for her.Wouln't be more buck for a bang. I personally prefer going to bars in soi 6 in Pattaya.

[@dangarcia6760]

@@Alex-lq6np Absolutely! I will not be banging the whole family so they aren't getting any of my bucks!

[@TheWaterman1000]

@@Alex-lq6np You have a point. In that situation you better be upfront with her. In short make sure the big head and not the little head is leading the way.

[@suchasin]

@@dangarcia6760 They will...indirectly they will

[@craigsmith2755]

You certainly get a bigger bang than your Australian dollar.

[@teddymller1656]

Its like every relationship can be considered a transaction. Even "normal" relationships, lets say both contribute 50% to the budget the home is owned 50/50. The feel-good feelings is purchaced with attention and affection from both. That can be seen as spending time with each other. (time, time=money). So in that perspective every relationship is purchaced. I think we should try to be open minded. Trust the young girl (no matter the nationality) know what she is doing. As Pea, and others, have told us, it could be the girls choice for any number of reasons. As long both parties feel comfortable with the relationshio, no matter how fleeting. Just my point if view after many hours of schooling from Pea and life.

[@gumdeo]

Every relationship is either transactional, parasitical or abusive.

[@mikefoley1664]

Wow! How did I stumble on this channel? You love a good debate, I love your hair. I am now a subscriber, tomorrow a Patreon supporter. You are amazing.

[@Bane35755]

Great video, you're hitting the nail on the head.

[@jamesaspinwall]

You are gorgeous, smart and honest. I love your videos.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I’m so glad, James! 👍😊

[@Tmidiman]

Pure truth. And if anyone thinks it’s any different they totally don’t get it.

[@outlaw49x10]

Ummm. Ok

[@lockdown70]

This video and your insights are brilliant and spot on.

[@BigDogsRUSS]

That’s a nice article! Congratulations Pea! 🥰

[@Warf459]

Pea I have made so many angry with this same topic for many years. They really get mad when I call marriage "legalized prostitution under contract." ROTFLMAO!!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Well please direct them to this video 👍😂

[@bobpeters61]

"Most husbands know about their wives' activities with a foreign sponsor. She's not cheating on her partner without his consent." --The Philipina Pea. "So she tells him she must go out for the evening to comfort and old friend who's feeling down. But he knows where she's going as she's leaving. She's headed for the cheating side of town." -- The Eagles.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

That’s about right 😂

[@oranjelicht]

So when she comes home he knows that's where the food and luxury items come from.

[@mohamedtlass3842]

@Brett Connor a sperm withdrawal

[@fallonmassey4714]

You are sooooo funny!!! I LOVED your ending, very innovative, keep up the good work!!!

[@johannvandermerwe4826]

You are sooo sharp, Pea.... Excellent 👌👌

[@kekenidika1]

Just to let you know that there are other emotion in play here............ He is a close friend of mine, and believe me he has no reason to lie - well not too often anyway. So ........ here is this 70 year old guy who loves to fish - and he is actually my little brother................ He was sitting in his boat the other day when he heard a voice say, "Pick me up." He looked around and couldn't see any one. He thought he was dreaming when he heard the voice say again, "Pick me up." He looked in the water and there, floating on the top, was a frog. Anyway as he looked - he said, "Are you talking to me?" The frog said, "Yes, I'm talking to you...... "Pick me up. Then, kiss me and I'll turn into the most beautiful woman you have ever seen. I'll then give you more sexual pleasure that you ever could have dreamed of." He blinked as he looked at the frog for a short time, reached over, picked it up carefully, and placed it in his front breast pocket. Then the frog said, "What are you doing - are you nuts? Didn't you hear what I said? I said kiss me and I will give you sexual pleasures like you have never had." He opened his pocket, looked at the frog and said, "Nah, at my age I'd rather have a talking frog

[@AzerPaul]

Because I've lived in several countries with disparate cultures, I've seen the very different ways that the idea of "marriage" plays out. Generally they do not include monogamy, but do include life long attachment. So I get tired of Islamic and Christian and other Plato-influenced societies getting all bent out of shape over these questions. Just do what you naturally want in life and try to be kind throughout. That's all.

[@jerrylansbury9558]

Countries with " disparate cultures " ? So...which disparate culture you live under / in ?

[@gordo7877]

Wow! The biggest truth bomb yet! Thank you Pea.

[@thomashouser6515]

Wow! Finally some honest talk! My wife is from Bacolod, we have been married 48 years. I was in the navy. In subic the pre marriage counseling told people only 1 out of 19 marriages of sailors to Filipinas would last. My wife and I were married in San Miguel. It helped that we new each other almost 2 years. I was 25 she was 30. All your points applied to us. We saw many horror stories through the years. How we stayed together? Dumb luck! We liked each other! My wife said it’s nice to have someone to come home to who cares about you! We had to be very determined to make it work. San Miguel was not subic! Very little comforts at San Miguel. Very remote! Thanks pea! Telling it like it is!

[@frankornelaz8234]

There’s a saying “The most expensive sex is free sex “ I think sex is overrated and the juice is not worth the squeeze. Take it from a divorced man and father. Really like the end of the video.

[@KutWrite]

Yeah, that line was a good start to the first Jack Reacher flick, too.

[@joehart7260]

What was it Shirley Valentine said : "All that huffing and puffing and you still come out with very little in the end."

[@jimsullivanyoutube]

For a man the ROI is always a losing proposition. It's simply a matter of just how bad the loss will be. Happy father's day.

[@jeffprice6421]

A line near the end in the movie saint elmos fire. "You always pay"

[@BillGreenAZ]

Bill Murray chomping on a "Baby Runt" candy bar. LOL>

[@davidjohnstclairnlpandhypn7918]

You know, Pea, I am generally enjoying your videos as a great üersüective on Philippine life and culture. When it comes to the relationship part with Foreigners, I still believe that a younger Filipina and an older Foreigner can build a relationship based on true love and commitment. No doubt and full agreement here that provided financial security and safety are essential, but in my opinion, the melting of the female and male part into "one" body, one mind and one soul" is the spiritual main goal and you would be surprised what can be possible when the financial safety is secured, what can grow between man and woman, even with an age gap!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Oh yes, I know for a fact that an older man and younger Filipina can find true love 👍

[@dconn74]

Good job again Pea!! Telling it like it is....

[@mikelcannon3694]

As usual Miss Pea, you are right and a very wise point of view. Thank you.

[@lorenzovillegas2457]

Totally hilarious when she removes her bikini top revealing another bikini top during the “Fast Times at Ridgemont High” reference. 🤣

[@jimle22]

Yea, but unfortunately she is no Phoebe Cates.

[@altoclef6688]

Which is why lot of big age difference relationships go south when the South East Asian young girl moves to the West and the supply and demand switches from buyer's market to seller's market. I see a lot of advice like "don't take her to the West" - I rather see it as the litmus test if you have emotions involved or not. Her being unable to stand (and understand) life in the West and wanting to go back is another thing. I'm talking about the females who trade for a newer model when they suddenly are able to..

[@JoeSmith-hu6nb]

That's what I have been saying. So what happens when a young, good looking, guy with his life in order goes to the PH?

[@jackdale9249]

@@JoeSmith-hu6nb he can meet , fall in love w/a legal , but very young girl and have true love forever! as a husband and wife !

[@dc8man2]

More Bang for your buck indeed. Another, eyes wide open video Pea. Well done ... as usual. Thanks for your work. No response required.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Well you know you get one anyway 😂

[@gerrygallagher716]

Excellent PP. U nailed it

[@Releasethekrakken]

It is very hard to just “casually date” here in the P.I. The women are either the Cinderella’s, who are all or nothing, or the women offering the GFE experience. If there are any grey areas where we can bridge the gap, they are very few and far between.

[@user-DrJoe-Future]

I agree, I found it almost impossible to "casually date" in the Philippines. From minute one, you are marked, tagged, and staked. Your social media accounts are being monitored, etc. It is very difficult to keep some distance and learn about a woman first. They say something like "What is there to learn about, I love you!" Whatever.

[@Releasethekrakken]

If you can find a woman who has freed herself from the grip her family has on her, you’ve overcome the first obstacle.

[@johnv5156]

This. comment needs more attention. 100%.

[@ianjustin4389]

@Cam montreuil engines in the 21st century and age of the internet, I think that now applies to almost anywhere in the world…

[@BIGMAN7917]

I like how you stay gorgeous as you tell it like it is...good or bad. This the first time im hearing of GFE. I still enjoy myself when im in the Phils. There's more to see and do in the Phils than just chase pretty filipinas😍😍😍😁😁😁

[@olyman63]

Great show Pea you speak from the heart ♥️

[@mikea.7646]

Great again Pea. Salamat!

[@BrokerBasil]

*1,371st* 😂 ... I've already used up all available superlatives for your work Pea. This video was just *so* well put together - scripted and delivered in a consistent, logical reporting pattern. You may have 75K subscribers now but if you keep up this standard you have so much further to go in whatever capacity you desire. I am chuffed to have been there since the beginning. ❤

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Superlatives are reusable 😉 Hahahahaha

[@whynot2734]

thank you for your honesty and pointing out we all compromise to get what we want and what we need. I have .Remember guys thumbs up and let the ads roll just wright your comments when it runs .lets help this lovely intelligent lady that helps us. I used her she used me but neither one cared we were getting are share. Night Moves BOB SEGER great song

[@timrichendollar6002]

Little Pea you are as honest as you are beautiful you got to love and respect that about any person keep them coming little lady, I really appreciate what you do

[@michaelmemley1529]

Awesome videos young lady! You are right on! Love your videos!