the one habit you need: how to set systems (vs goals) ft. tidy with me

You all loved the first systems video, so here is part 2: Breaking down how to create your own system for optimal productivity, peace & calm. 🤓Thank you Skillshare for sponsoring this video! First 500 ppl will get a free 2-month Premium Membership skl.sh/rowenatsai20
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- 0:19 Choose systems rather than goals. - 0:40 A goal is a specific objective you achieve or not sometime in future. What is waiting to be achieved someday, is a goal. - 0:45 A system is what is done on a regular basis that achieves odds of overall happiness in long run. What is done everyday, is a system. - 1:00 A goal is a result to achieve, a system is the process that brings those results. System is the practice, while goal is performance. ===== - There are 4 steps to change outputs by changing systems of inputs (each step is numbered in order). 1) 2:09 Identify the why. Reflect on where you are and where like to be. To learn this, a great framework to try is current state vs desired state gap analysis. 2:44 1st in this analysis, find where you are currently in situation, answer questions like "how am I feeling?", "how do I spend time?", and "what is currently driving me?". 3:13 2nd in this analysis, find where you are desired to be in situation, answer questions like "how would I like to be living in an ideal world?", "why do I have this desired state?", and "is my desired state rooted in my values?". 3:48 3rd in this analysis, looking into the gap in between by answering questions like "why does the gap exist?", "why close it?". Also set up systems for your desired state, what makes the desired state work. 2) 6:04 Identify the how. Learn the process to get from current state to desired state. You might try a system to help you get there (the video doesn't provide much more info). 3) 6:57 Execute the what. Learn the process to get from current state to desired state but much more detailed. What actionable steps, where make adjustments, and what small incremental changes can you commit to. 4) 8:03 Assess and adjust. Take a step back and make adjustments to the system. Celebrate small wins. Build systems that best suit you. 8:53 If you desired to build deeper relationships with friends, build a system. Leave phone out of sight during meals, listen during conversations, and ask deep meaningful questions. ===== Likes are appreciated so more people can read this.

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Thanks!

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God bless you lol

[@pulchramutatio6509]

Your amazing

[@improvementtime6586]

Thx

[@porrokin3588]

thank you!

[@Tj-qb5sf]

GIRL, Im gonna go take a shower, then come back and rewatch this and take notes. IM GETTIN MY LIFE BACK TOGETHER❤️

[@ms.smccreath5176]

You got this ;) wishing you the best

[@goldennaps7070]

Forever Never felt that

[@user-op6nf4ns6t]

Wow❤

[@rainwater.1493]

Go girl!

[@jaydope4823]

How'd it go?

[@meganeff]

My boyfriend and I always say “no way of knowing” when one of us asks a question, which means that we don’t Google it until we decide on an answer ourselves & give a reason for our answer. It’s just something silly we do, but it’s so fun!

[@NenaLavonne]

meganeff 😊♥️

[@jemand8462]

that'S REALLY intelligent! I hate that people google everything before trying to find it out. And then feel so clever because they "know" it but forget about it 1 minute after

[@nerudaad]

Very good! Generating Effect will help you remember the right answer. AsapScience Channel has a resent video about it.

[@doris6718]

that is so cute, what a great idea

[@picklepirate]

I love that! I bet that helps with critical thinking and feels amazing when you surprise yourself with having the right answer

[@AriellChristiain1]

Your first video on this literally changed my life. I know people say that loosely but I mean it. I saw the first systems, essential, etc video. I watched it 3 times. Then listened to it REPEATEDLY for three days straight. I went out and bought atomic habits and essentialism. And read a section a day. It has truly been a blessing. Also as I move about I consistently mumble “two minute rule” when I try to push off doing an easy task haha my room has STAYED CLEAN! With depression/anxiety keeping a clean room is an accomplishment worth crying over. Either way I am grateful for you. I am always self reflecting/taking on self development. Your video(s) help me pair my self reflection with ACTION. Thank you!!!

[@carolinafortuna6811]

Thats amazing. Good Job!!

[@honeydewsoo8397]

happy for you!! :-)

[@mayflower1139]

what is the link of the first video

[@ramsesmedina3159]

So proud

[@0rangeZest]

Yay !!! I recommend “The Power of Now” by Elkhart Tolle after you read atomic habits

[@sakumarie8633]

Heyy, do you like to start a podcast? Cause your topics are so interesting omg. And how about writing a book? You are very inspiring

[@talispereira]

Really nice idea.

[@name.7463]

Honestly if you’d write books they’d be the only books I’d buy from a youtuber and I’d buy all of them I’ve learned so much from you

[@millennialstray4215]

I know it’s your JOB but the sheer amount of products gave me anxiety ): makes me want to declutter my own beauty products

[@angelest9065]

There's no way only one person can thoroughly test that amount of products

[@misfitmia]

Millennial Stray I felt that too

[@eveyluvvs]

Millennial Stray Sameeeee

[@lindielive3370]

I came here to say the same, it's a lot. I don't mean to sound negative but Rowena should donate some of the products. Minimalists how are ya'll doing? lol

[@tagaway6173]

I was wondering how I can trust her recommendations when her face/skin goes tru so much work!

[@pumpkinwaffles7569]

Yesterday i realised that I need to change my evening routine and go to bed earlier in order to make my morning more productive and finally stop being late everywhere And it feels like you read my mind tysm💜

[@joshshortt9599]

I've been taking James Clear's advice and writing down my intended actions, and the time and place in which I will perform them. It seems to be working so far. One thing I've noticed that's crucial for an effective system is to focus on one thing (which Rowena mentions a lot). The moment I give attention to other things time flies and before I know it I've made no progress on what I really want to do. Focusing on one thing is like dancer pose in yoga. In order to maintain your balance in dancer pose, you have to pick one spot on the floor and stare at it, if you look away you lose your balance. EDIT: I want to be 100% honest with everyone here and say that LITERALLY the day after I left the above comment I TOTALLY failed to follow through on the intention I had written down for that day.

[@khadidiatou1980]

Please my dear remind me the name of the book

[@aamandazittlau5505]

Hahaha I read “James clear” as “James Charles” and was really surprised/impressed by his insight. I was like damn the beauty community is getting deep😂

[@joshshortt9599]

@@khadidiatou1980 Atomic Habits

[@Chinchi0123]

Aamanda Zittlau lol literally me too

[@cultivatingwellness4028]

@Josh Shorty This is great suggestions, thank you. I will definitely jot this down 🤗

[@Lysana7]

*ADVICE FOR YOU, ROWENA* !!! You should have a catch-all basket when you come in for all of your skincare from work... so you don´t put the skincare all over your apartment... then all you have to do, is sort through said skincare basket at some later time... hope this helps :) XX

[@ms.smccreath5176]

Too add to your point. If she built her own tribe of ppl or friends who can follow a checklist she provides for reviews. She can get through all of them and save Space and Time :)

[@adskinadskin8163]

Who else got distracted by the video and the voice over? So many tubes of skin care 😱 I can say that I enjoyed watching the cleaning up process😅

[@DevScript01]

Being solely focused on the goal can literally ruin you life. A lot of people deny the value of building processes by creating habits done every day that lead to the end goal, and it's one of the things that I talk about in my channel a lot.

[@LiahYoo]

Unrelated but your new rug 💕

[@gabrielnito6606]

Facts

[@cassandrag.7588]

Right! I was thinking that too! Her aesthetic is so gorgeous 😍😍

[@J_young_824]

I knew it it was you~ yay! I love both of your vlogs! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@bataanonjohnleynardlucenad295]

"thinking less, doing more". Hits me hard

[@JJJettplane]

Whoa! You have a whole drugstore going on there. I've never seen a larger home collection then yours!

[@tee7121]

Omg she talked about lavendaire!!! My two favourite youtubers right now. 🌸

[@marvinskywalker9607]

I'm a guy but I learned many things from both of them. I really love Lavandaire and Rowena Tsai! ♡♡♡

[@lafanna9001]

I've been feeling like a mess lately, feeling that there's so much things to do, yet there's 'nothing' to do. Sounds confusing right?😆 Overall, I'm feeling overwhelmed lately due to the transition of being a postgraduate student to a person looking her first permanent job. And I'm glad you shared with us this system, Rowena. I'm gonna try to re-evaluate my life using the system and hopefully will feel better. 💖

[@laila1379]

I am in the same exact boat as you rn. I just graduated back in December and now I am in the process of just applying to jobs and waiting to hear back. It is a lot of waiting and I am just wishing for the wait to be over. I have been trying this new system rather than goals method to get more clarity in my life and focus on personal goals but it has been hard. I am cheering you on and hope you get your first permanent job soon!

[@jessatalubay4163]

my, my. same sentiments

[@ms.smccreath5176]

Hey how'd it go? Don't stress if you didn't hit your target the first time, keep going :)

[@sophiecox5570]

Hi Anne Amy Sometimes, it’s ok to decluter our lives from people too

[@beatrizalbano5533]

I've never seen so many products outside a store!

[@NelleFrom1987]

🤣💓

[@kairosculturedfoods]

I have been binging your videos all week I couldn't believe my eyes when I saw this I was so excited to watch it! Your videos came to me at the perfect time in my life. I'm so grateful.

[@larabarbatowolf1335]

I just live for u, ur voice, ur motivation, ur mindset, JUST YOU

[@ac5014]

Rowena, this came at a very needed time in my life. I’ve been “meaning to” really track and evaluate my habits and now I have the perfect guide! Shared this with a few of my close friends. Amazing as always

[@rhionnainwood7234]

This is such an amazing video, I feel motivated instead of overwhelmed! Usually when people talk about goals it just feels to me like an endless cycle of feeling that I'm not doing enough but I can understand the process and the idea that the systems are always adjusting is such a good mindset thank you so much!

[@batmanfan20101]

i agree! Ive been trying out my own systems the last few months and its been easier than I thought it would to keep doing them.

[@Silvermist322]

Thank you so much Rowena✨ feeling refreshed over here!!!!

[@HollywoodSunset]

Currently reading Start with Why, Atomic Habits was one of my fave books from last year and I live by the 2 min rule now and it helps so much!

[@healandmend.]

This is incredibly healing, especially for those seriously changing their life. This is one of those videos that changes you, at least for me, because it is exactly what I need ❤️

[@mikemaresh2417]

Your content has such a concise/logical flow but still impactful. Thanks for making this!

[@abbyz13]

This channel was such a blessing to find

[@demimitsioulis7044]

I look forward to my voice hugs every week, also i swear i forget to breathe sometimes when you mentioned it i was like oh crap have i been breathing *takes deep breath*

[@Gold.evii.]

You reminded me to review all my goals and resolutions for this year!! Thank you for always inspiring me to improve myself!!

[@FyreHeartStudios]

I watched the first video about this yesterday and was excited to see this one today! I actually spent an hour watching as I was pausing to take notes. I think this will be so beneficial for me as I'm working to change my outlook on life, and create a calmer environment in myself and around myself. Thank you so much for this!

[@musicgirl6397]

this is really coming to me in a positive way right now! i've spent the last few days thinking i want to do better by myself and be healthier all around, and this made me sit down and really consider ways to achieve that. thank you always for your thoughtful content, rowena! 💝

[@eggiv2678]

i love ur videos about creating systems and finding peace with urself! I think this is something everyone needs rn in the midst of pandemic:)

[@nichelleniks4526]

I just finished watching Essentialism because of you and it was incredible. You are such a bright light 💕

[@homebylisandra]

I have a great sense of happiness after watching this video it has given me hope , great tips but most importantly it brought me to your channel 👏🏼

[@Bri-ss1gu]

I'm seriously so grateful to have found this video and your channel in general. Thank you!

[@YOHOMEGIRL]

Watching your videos have become part of my favorite weekend morning routines- I love how informative they are, the editing- and most importantly when I finish watching a video I feel like I really learned something. I almost immediately want to implement it! Thank you so much for your hard work~~!

[@jadealyn06]

I’ve rewatched this video so many times and finally created my system. Thank you so much for your content! Nothing has ever made more sense. I’ve been too focused on the smallest of details and so focused on perfection. I have watched you, Lavendaire, and Muchelle B for years and always get great lessons. Now kind of “zooming out” to focus on the long term ways I can still have the life I am excited about while crushing goals. Figuring out what was working and what wasn’t.... I’m actually in awe. Thanks again Rowena! 💓

[@willl6317]

Been referencing this video over the last couple months to make sure I'm setting up systems for my life. Thank you for sharing this info ❤️

[@georgiam.3957]

I love seeing people organize their stuff lol , i also like organising my own stuff but sometimes i also procrastinate . Also your voice is so calming for some reason and it helps me relax at night when I've done everything that i had to do on that day .

[@ilaria1726]

I loved how practical this video is. Truly helpful, it inspires to take effective steps towards our goals! 🌞

[@Angel-oc7vr]

You're such an amazingggg person Rowenaa, thank u😭💜

[@foreverymood7746]

Soooo inspiring, as always!! The graphics are so simple, pretty and helpful. Love your apartment.

[@justjoselleivy]

Everytime I watch your videos, I always have my notes with me because I don't wanna miss any words of wisdom from you hehe. You inspired me to be better. Thank you for existing.

[@beyza2536]

Its crazy how all your videos are helpful and worth watching. That blows my mind. Thank u for the beautiful content.

[@smu7270]

Randomly came across this video yesterday. I never really had goals and so this make more sense to me. I love systems, a systems thinking class during my masters changed my life honestly. I made a list last nigh on how my days were going to look like and today is Day 1 and I already see a major difference. I was already kind of on this path but this video made it seem more tangible and helped me organize my ideas. Thank you!

[@deedeeribeiro8411]

I dont now how, but every week Rowena puts out a video with the element that I'm missing from my life. When I saw the title of this video i felt like my prayers were awnsed and that even tho this week was hard it was going go learn and improve from it especially by seeing this video. Thank u so much 💙💙

[@Tuvivlogs]

Watching you organize your house is soo relaxing. It feels like you’re putting together my mind.

[@queenofparrots2449]

your videos, especially these system vs. goal videos are so helpful to me! also, i'm an elementary school teacher and this i use often: clean desk/work space means clear mind. the students really benefit from a tidy learning space.

[@Chris-mk6lb]

Thank you so much. This was such a timely video for me. I've been going to therapy for the last years and made significant progress mentally. but I have trouble implementing change in the day to day and it's been frustrating. So the idea of separating goals from systems makes so much sense and this video is just the extra little nudge i needed to get started. Which is what I will do now. Thank you.

[@quelindoshow6932]

This is by far your best video! You explained this so well, and really helped me incorporate this into my life. I really like your other videos also but this one my mind was blown! Thanks for much for sharing

[@rubi1993ify]

What an incredible video! Thank you for making those with so much effort ✨

[@NancySolariLivingFullOut]

Thank you for making this video and helping us to keep a tidy space and peaceful mind. These two areas of life are so important for overall happiness, and using systems is a great way to live full out!

[@555sharp]

Omg the west elm dresser that's been on my wishlist forever 😭😭 great video btw! Thank you for always giving me calming motivation 🥰

[@juliaciulpan1597]

I just want to say this was one of your best videos yet, in my opinion. I wanted to write almost everything you said down, your voice just perfectly emphasized each word and turn of phrase (so jealous of that amazing reading voice). Also really appreciate your detailed description box, as always. Top tier content, you should be proud of yourself, and thank you. Sincerely, a fellow sweet potato. That should be a thing

[@kamellasowards5225]

Thank you for sharing your wise words and content! I also find myself so motivated after watching you! May the new year bring you many blessings. I love you!!

[@zelayadivina]

Andddddd 2 years later I’m back still watching this video. Thank you so much for your wisdom and creativity!

[@mahll222]

Dear Rowena, your advice and method inspired an aunty of 50yrs old like me so much. So helpful and useful. Sending you loads of HAPPY blessings and 💖 ... keep up the GREAT WORK. From your senior fan/aunty here.

[@JuliBlixt]

Love this! It's so satisfying watching someone tidy up! Especially coupled with great tips and advice!

[@WellBalancedWallet]

This is great. I’ve learned that my life moves so much smoothly when I use a system. Thanks for the tips!

[@ChelseaVampyre]

👌 second time I’m listening to this one. I totally agree with this and do my best to keep it in mind. I’m not perfect at it but practice definitely makes perfect. Viewing it like this makes it so much more obtainable.

[@cassandrag.7588]

I just found your videos and honestly I'm so inspired and delighted by your aesthetic. It's extremely relaxing so thank you so much for sharing ✨✨✨

[@misfitmia]

That bit towards the end about wondering... 👏🏻 I reach for my phone right away for any little wonder that goes through my mind - I should just let my mind wonder more and slow down on seeking the tiniest bits of knowledge

[@sparkestar]

I'm going to use this video to help rethink my system I want to make to be more present in the morning. I tried taking morning walks, but it seems to not be quite the "how" that works best for me... Also, your videos convinced me to start reading Atomic Habits and I'm finding it so helpful too!! So glad that your channel is promoting these kind of positive thoughts towards having the well-being and being purposeful.

[@Angelblive]

A lot of powerful advice and tips thank you so much for creating this in going to go check out the rest of the series now 🙏🏽

[@idalisrideout]

New Subscriber here! I’m so happy I found your videos when I did. I have been trying to live with more intention lately and have been doing alright so far but watching this really helps to give it more structure(I thrive w/structure lol) which makes it seem so much less scary. Definitely going to get these books you mentioned. Keep going! Love your videos

[@logarithmic7]

Thank you for introducing me to this concept! It makes so much sense why i've not had success with a couple things i've set goals for years!

[@jcm85]

Thanks so much, Rowena! I was waiting for the right time to open this and just had my breakfast and I feel so relaxed on this Sunday morning :) ready to take on the day! "I'm just wondering/thinking/curious" is what I think and say out loud the most to the point where it annoys me and I'm like - can you be LESS curious? Consumption overload is a real struggle I've discovered these past few weeks! 😅

[@SunnyDaysRComing]

Rowena: zooming in on the messy parts me, an actual hoarder: man i wish that were me

[@TotallyMH729TsMH]

this randomly popped up on my KZbin feed and am I glad that I clicked! Thank you for this! ☺️💜

[@Maiden_Warrior_Crone]

I came back to watch this video. I watched it about 6 months ago and accomplished everything I wanted by following your directives. I learned open -water swimming, started a brilliant new lifestyle, and met the love of my life. I will now integrate a system to save money. I'm ever-grateful to you, not least because I love how you present information. Bless you. Love from Croatia.❤️

[@sanjanaaprakash331]

This is fantastic Rowena. I was wondering how to reset and restart everything about my life and this video came a rescue. So thoughtful and doable system. A billion thanks!!!

[@rundmc2514]

I’ve found Atomic habits to be sooo inspiring and enlightening and I love that you are creating content on these topics that are so important to me at this stage in my life. I find your videos to be sooo relatable but more specifically so raw and so real and open and thought provoking. It is so great to have your videos to learn from and get inspiration from to help me on my own journey. I wonder if you have any plans to do videos on mental health topics and therapy ( anxiety, cognitive behavioral therapy etc) because I suspect you would be great at helping people in those ways too.

[@maestro2033]

Soo much to unpack you did your thang here. God bless you for the wisdom you’ve released today.🙌🏽

[@poweredbysoul6630]

Hi Rowena ✌🏾Just discovered your channel today:) I appreciate how much work you put into your videos. From 2014-2018 I was mostly goal/outcome oriented, and lately have been trying to be more process/system oriented. I’m currently in the process of reading Atomic Habits. Great book. Great work Rowena!

[@these.twenty.somethings]

I loved this. This has helped me change my outlook on growth thank you!

[@christel7579]

I love ur "untidy" space. It looks lived in and real. It's perfect for videoes. Sometimes I hate organizing videos where there's barely a mess to begin with

[@ajjynomoto]

Omg i've been waiting for this video!!!

[@RayIniego]

Seriously, thank you for this. Concise with just the right amount of details. This can be a gamechanger for me!!! 🤗🤗🤗

[@magicminthm]

you have such a soothing way of talking! i just discovered your videos and i am loving them!

[@wanyyg]

thisss is so helpful! just learnt about system and get myself more productive and making good use of my time! thank you for this!

[@tanguerafeliz5096]

This video and script was sooo good and so packed with valuable content. Worth rewatching a couple of times. Thank you. Would love full book reviews too!

[@srushtishetty8529]

Rowena, Hi! I watch your videos for inspiration and you do that very much. This one is my absolute favorite. I took notes off of this and I plan to abide by it. Thank you so much and I do hope for the best for you. xoxo

[@ME-ql4ns]

I feel blessed right now 🤭💚 Organization, decluttering and having a tidy place is something I am born with. I just can't start my month or year without cleansing and letting go of the things that I don't need or don't use anymore. Honestly my closet and everything that is mine is a symbol of organization as it comes naturally for me. Thank u universe for giving me this amazing strength, that gives me more clarity and a feeling of refreshing 🍀💚

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Wow! I just came across your KZbin channel, and I’m so glad it was on my recommended list. You’re a life saver, and your videos are so pleasant and cozy to watch. Thank you much, love from Brazil. 🇧🇷

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Thank you for your organized and humorous video. You make me feel calm and motivated. Thank you!

[@EllaRingrose]

*You are Worthy of everything your heart desires.* Make a Decision of what you want, Back it with Burning Desire and take Aligned Action. Your Life will transform before your eyes ♡ Adores this Rowena! You can really tell you put a lot of effort into your Videos, the aesthetic is on point!

[@TheNicnac89]

I don't think i've ever commented on any youtube video before and i'm 27.... Bless you, you total game changer!! xxx

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It's always a pleasure to watch a new video of you 😘

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I came across your video when I needed it. I can't thank you enough xxxx

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Your voice is so calming to listen to 😌

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thank u! I´m so grateful for that. I´ve been feeling stuck and didn´t want to do even the things I like doing... your videos inspired me and now I feel motived ;)

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Thank you for a well planned video, simplistic breakdown, and list of sources and resources.

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Rowena, I love all your videos thank you for sharing and making a positive change in your own way.

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I love how open you are to us, we feel so connected to you. There's no such thing as perfection, so f*** haters👏🏼

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