The "Real Reason" Pretty Women Are Single?

[@3bladeninja21]

A surprising amount of ladies have the "I'm single because I'm too amazing" mentality. It's crazy

[@roberth4395]

I don’t want to offend the first one and I don’t care if I do. However, she is a 4 with make up on my 1-10 scale.

[@philaman1972]

It's cancerous.

[@LordReginaldMeowmont]

Copium.

[@HaleyMary]

I'll never understand the whole "I'm so amazing" mentality. Even though I'm told by friends that I'm pretty, I honestly feel very average looking and I'm single. Sometimes I wonder if introverted women have it more difficult in dating. Being introverted, not in a shy way, but I wonder if being introverted and enjoying doing hobbies by myself threatens men who doesn't like a woman who is super independent? But, I don't seem to attract men who like independent women, either. I'm not trying these days though, either. I'm focused on my hobbies and my goals.

[@Ray03595]

@@roberth4395 can’t even rate her because she’s slathered so much makeup on her face. I doubt most people would recognize her if she took it all off.

[@josephmpalermo]

So many women are incredibly arrogant and entitled now days. It's become my number one red flag. Women that are humble, thankful, grateful...total unicorns.

[@michaelsix9684]

so right

[@BlueFish-kq9fh]

You're absolutely right. Sad but true.

[@zergilli9719]

Yes!

[@MikkoRantalainen]

I think being arrogant OR entitled is already bad enough. If you have both traits, there's your reason for being single.

[@ohplease6865]

Translation: insecure, will settle, low standards There are plenty of pickme girls like that. You just don’t want them. 😂

[@dcron6]

I think she's trying to say that arrogant women have a harder time getting men to be interested in them. And she'd be right about that.

[@pahakuutti]

Arrogant and delusional especially, is a bad combo to have for dating.

[@StefIsCold]

Not to mention she is plain boring and devoid of substance

[@turkson1]

Sighted on a Gent's lav wall: No matter how good she looks some guy is tired of her s***.

[@MarkPlace-wb5xg]

There's also the reality that a lot of guys are doing the math on what she looks like without the pound of make up, the fake hair, the fake eye lashes, the fake nails, the push up bra, and the Botox and realize she's not as good looking as she thinks she is.

[@XfiverX]

It seems like she's blaming other people when she's the problem and won't admit it.

[@robsolf]

A confident woman doesn't have to tell people she's a triple threat. A confident woman knows who she is, but leaves it to others to make their own assessment.

[@docsavage8640]

Guaranteed any group of men who actually talked to her would not rate her very high due to personality problems.

[@roberthaun6622]

Kinda like LeBron calling himself the "GOAT". 😂😂🤣

[@user-yv4mm6bx3c]

"Any man who says 'I am the King,' is no true king." This goes for women as well.

[@JerseyBoy489]

​@@user-yv4mm6bx3c no guy says this stop😂

[@user-yv4mm6bx3c]

@@JerseyBoy489 I've heard and seen it from both men and women.

[@Shah-of-the-Shinebox]

Women, no matter how pretty they are, should not be put on a pedestal. We are all human.

[@JackofClover]

Lol, now they all think that they are "smart" too. What a joke.

[@LamelKendrick]

imagine her with runny bowels

[@Ray03595]

@@JackofClovernot all. But it’s becoming too common, and probably why some complain online men like to “humble” them. It could be because they aren’t humble at all.

[@GOD999MODE]

It's usually attractive women under 25ish who think they're hotter s**t than they are. Once you're a fully mature adult and you've gone through some trials and tribulations in life, the facade of being a "triple threat" tends to fade out. As a guy in his 30s, I won't even think about considering you as a long term partner if you can't communicate to me in a meaningful and open way without showcasing your ego. I want someone who's conscientious and thoughtful. Not a stuck up prude b***h who thinks people are less than because they make less $ or aren't a perfect physical human specimen. I don't think most girls are like this, but there are some who are immature elitists.

[@dancallahan186]

The problem is that there are so many lonely guys out there throwing their money away at them on sites like onlyfans and stripper chat rooms that it empowers these nasty ego wicked women to be mean and conceited

[@new_game2589]

Some people confuse "being confident " with being insufferable.

[@essies4294]

They don’t, this is projection.❤

[@EricMoore790]

It is trendy for men and women to say they don't need each other. I think it would be nice to face life with someone.

[@StefIsCold]

Never hear men saying this, even “scary manosphere alphas” have whole girlfriends and wives- its clear what gender is confused about who they want or need lol

[@OneFreeMan17]

I disagree. Parents and schools need to teach kids life skills, so they don’t ever need to rely on someone else.

[@tommygunn6901]

Actually you both are right and wrong. Everyone needs to be taught life skills for when they actually want a relationship or marriage, they know how to conduct accordingly

[@Nanohamage]

i didn't see men claim "men don't need no women" the absolute worst argument i've seen is them claiming "there are no good women" which implies if there was they would want her very much so, obviously there are plenty good women but this is pretty much arguments on the internet

[@mikeloki2064]

@@OneFreeMan17 Needing to rely on someone else isn't good. Being able to rely on another person like a wife or husband is the key to a successful, happy life. Women and men in the best case compliment each other.

[@jiprider95]

Just because a man does not find a woman attractive or undesirable… doesn’t mean he is insecure. I did not find that lady in the video attractive, her personality doesn’t attract me. I am the type that goes for it. Lots of rejection and it is emotionally draining. But I t forces me to work on myself, emotionally and physically. Thank you Courtney 😊

[@TurnStyle72]

Exactly.

[@irene4633]

She wouldn’t even glance at you in public anyway lol

[@fjockey1]

If modern women used the word "insecure" any more frequently, it would out pace their use of the word "like."

[@fjockey1]

Yes, ebony babes can have thicker lips, but hers look blown up to 75 PSI. I don't think she was born with them.

[@TheTank8]

​@irene4633 that girl is not even a 7 and acts like she's 9/10. This girl is so full of herself.

[@jay-t1030]

Every time I see an attractive woman in public I automatically assume 4 things. 1.She’s dating someone, 2. She currently has a boyfriend, 3. she’s married, 4. Even is I approached her, she will reject me in an extremely rude and aggressive way. So why waste my time and energy approaching. I understand I miss 100% shots I do not take but at some point I’m like “What the point?”

[@billusher2265]

why do you assume information you cannot know?

[@ItIsMeJamesE]

Most attractive ladies I meet are married or in a relationship.. it's slim pickings out here in terms of high quality single women.

[@467076]

Get that last one out of your head. You’ve seen way too many KZbin videos. I guarantee you don’t know anyone who’s gotten in trouble for asking a girl out. Ask woman out, who gives a shit. If you get rejected who cares. No one will ever care or know except yourself.

[@Ezero8]

Same, I have the exact thoughts.

[@MarkRose1337]

What's thing 3?

[@theRulekeeper]

I’m 29, 6’6, in shape? And make multiple six figures working fit myself in the trade industry. I can pick up almost any girl at bars but dating girls is a headache. They all talk down to me because I don’t gave a degree or assume I have no money because I work a trade they don’t shut up about their degree and job and look down on all non white collar jobs. I’ve lost count of the amount of times girls have straight up said negative things to me about my job

[@michaelsix9684]

they are programmed to say these things, how sad -- you can't fix that either

[@gabriel-gc4uf]

I'm 5'4, out of shape and barely make 3 figures, but I still get laid a lot because women find me fun to be with

[@daveblackman816]

She seems to ignore personality. Not all about looks. Not good to be shallow

[@jehu4067]

She forgets the fact that a lot of pretty women have HIGH UNREALISTIC STANDARDS

[@kevinb8881]

​​@@jehu4067 And that's what makes them the epitome of stupidity!!!🙄

[@jurassicthunder]

if she's above 7/10 she is a public property. her hypergamy is never satisfied bc men above 7/10 are either in relationships already or playing with lower chicks. so they have three options: lower their standards for men below them, go femcel or become a 304. and we they never lower their standards. I'll even go as far to say they would rather be a 304 than to lower their standards.

[@jurassicthunder]

if she's above 7/10 she is a public property. her hyper, gamy is never satisfied bc men above 7/10 are either in relationships already or playing with lower chicks. so they have three options: lower their standards for men below them, go efmcel or become a 304. we know they never lower their standards. I'll even go as far to say they would rather be a 304 than to lower their standards.

[@jurassicthunder]

if she's above 7/10 her hyper, gamy is never satisfied bc men above 7/10 are either in relationships already or playing with lower chicks. so they have three options: lower their standards for men below them, go efmcel or become a 304. we know they never lower their standards. I'll even go as far to say they would rather be a 304 than to lower their standards.

[@agemmemnon100]

She is the only reason why she is single.

[@Jay-ef2ii]

All women have options when it comes to dating. They can date hot men, and unattractive men. All women have options when they are young. August 2024, USA

[@ChineduOpara]

​@@Jay-ef2ii Facts!!

[@Unkown_Meli]

Jay-ef2ii No. People have boundaries

[@Snarge22]

Insecurity in men? Think about how men are so often dismissed by women and society. It's frequent, often instant, and sometimes with malice. Not fully financially stable? Not generous or selfless enough, not entertaining enough, not strong enough, have modest social skills, not always kind or sensitive, not attractive enough, no confidence and not charismatic enough? You are disqualified! Surplus? You're gone. And by God don't ask, or expect anything, or have standards of your own. Never be a burden, just deliver. And if war breaks out? Your life belongs to the Government. Women will complain about the insecurity in men, yet never give it any real thought.

[@OneFreeMan17]

Preach 💯👏🏻

[@JACQUEZ23]

Goddamn this comment should be pinned tbh

[@LatimusChadimus]

Like I always say, outside of boys who have never talked to women outside of their immediate family, there is no intimidation. We are either disgusted, we are annoyed, or we are not impressed. Just like the only time men would feel inadequate would be in the bedroom because they are with a girl that's been everywhere. If you are not the bowl like me, you aren't going to impress these women in that regard. Menards intimidated if she makes more income because men don't care about that. Men just don't want to be disrespected by women like that who have the inflated fragile egos that they claim men have

[@Phantom840]

Exactly correct, not to mention the girls own insecurity (far more common tbh) which makes them hypocritical - only they're rarely called out for it.

[@troyberg6248]

Fact is, illustrated by your argument, men legitimately have more to fear hourly than women do. Women fear rape and homelessness. Everything else (while they're fertile) is deemed theirs until biology says "NOPE. You didn't put up [children] so shut up." All the while men pay into Social Security for _their_ future maintenance also.

[@davesmith2312]

NEWS FLASH LADIES: YOUR YOUNG AND PRETTY LOOKS ARE TEMPORARY AND WILL FADE EXPONENTIALLY AS YOU AGE! Be a beautiful soul... that NEVER goes out of style

[@Casual_Talk]

Amen!!! 🙏🏾

[@Snake369]

nope. why grow or improve as a person when you can just shame others into submission instead

[@heyhey11793]

“You have a beautiful soul” is THE best compliment anyone could ever get and if you ever hear it in a true sense you’ll never forget it.

[@iwkaoy8758]

@@davesmith2312 knot if day dye young

[@Jay-ef2ii]

@@Casual_Talk Women will focus on looks while they are young. They will care about the heart once they are 78 years of age. August 2024, USA

[@Danbecker000]

"I'm so pretty, but no men will even approach me! I have everything a man could want, they must be insecure if they don't approach me." Maybe they don't approach you because of your ego. It's like when you hear a really abrasive woman saying, "Men are just intimidated by me because I'm so strong and independent." It's like, no, there can be a million reasons why someone doesn't like you, and your attitude is a big factor. Also, some women that are really conventionally attractive expect passenger princess treatment, and a lot of guys don't wanna deal with that.

[@tehlaziness]

Also my personal opinion is she isn't nearly as attractive as she thinks she is...

[@coolnut99]

@@RicochetForce The true triple threat for women is hot (e.g. not overweight), young (under 30 or looks like so), and undamaged (few to no tats, low BC, etc.).

[@neurathal0n534]

Not to be too nitpicky here, but you won't get a sense of someone's personality until after you approach them

[@BlueFish-kq9fh]

@@neurathal0n534 Not necessarily. You can observe the way they treat others. In the case of women, you can observe the way they speak of men in general. In the case of this woman in Courtney's video, who the hell needs to "approach" her after watching that video?

[@Danbecker000]

@@neurathal0n534 You can hear words out of someone's mouth and decide not to approach them. You can see how someone acts and decide not to approach them. You can also just look at someone and decide, "that's just a person, not a woman that's waiting to be hit on." There are many reasons not to approach someone other than "OMG, I'M SCARED TO TALK TO PRETTY GIRL." You can get a sense of someone from listening to what they say, watching what they do, and how they interact with other people. You ever see a hot person treat a service worker badly or acting a fool and you go from, "Hey, I wanna get that chick's number" to "Wow, she's a real jerk; I should avoid her." And you never approach that person. If I see someone kick a dog, I don't need to approach them to see if we'll really "click," or if I would grow to like that person. I'm sorry, but whenever I hear someone say, "It's not me, it's the rest of the world that's the problem," I assume that they are their own problem.

[@friendnamedfive4526]

Pretty women will say "men don't approach me because they're intimidated". It's not that. When you date an exceptionally attractive woman you have to deal with other guys constantly sniffing around. Cashiers in shops will chat her up right in front of you. If you're out at a bar and you go to the bathroom, when you come back some guy will be trying to talk to her. It's tiring. And they have infinite options so there's always the chance the right guy will come along and she'll leave you for him. Kinda like a Ferrari, I guess. Nice to look at and spend a day with but would you want the hassle of having one?

[@jdarnellsix]

That's EXACTLY true. It's fukin annoying

[@friendnamedfive4526]

There's also the fact that every woman today is a 10/10 queen who deserves only the best. Any man she's with, she's "settling" and a better deal is always around the corner. The grass is always greener elsewhere. I have no problem attracting women but they are so obnoxious today that I no longer have any interest in them. I don't look at them, I don't talk to them and I'm quite happy. Dating today is depressing.

[@troyberg6248]

Facts, well stated. Men will go out camping and boating as an alternative to or escape from the condo or the property. The latter being the "more work" some judge may hand over in divorce settlement. TIME one can't have back. [Note: Ferrari tune-ups were running $US 2K last time I looked. Pirelli tires for them also around 2K. Then eventually it's sold to pay the lawyer. I've never had that "need for speed" feeling.]

[@doberchic]

@@friendnamedfive4526 How's that goon cave life lookin? LOL Solid L aura you got there.

[@michaelsix9684]

seen this many times, the hassle of this woman isn't worth it usually

[@makavelijr24]

Single women keep women single. You can’t make this up.

[@CourtneyRyan]

Honestly this is a problem I see a lot. I might make a video about it!

[@makavelijr24]

@@CourtneyRyan that’s good to hear. If I can make another suggestion. I think if you do a video asking married men why did they marry their wives. They three things that tik toker mention some men do not care about. I’ve been with my wife for 10 years and married for 4 and we’re expecting our first child.

[@makavelijr24]

@@RicochetForce I know exact episode you’re referring to.

[@jamesg3808]

In other words, "misery loves company."

[@watamutha]

I would say the reason why women are single is that, at most, they want 30% of men. If the women aren't fast, all those guys get taken up quickly. And since most women arent ok with 1 guy getting 2 girls, they stay single.

[@hyabusa22]

Any woman that claims she’s the whole package or a 10/10 or anything that gases herself up is delusional and no man worth his salt is attracted any of those things. I gave it a shot with one of these “whole package” women and all I heard about was how much she’s amazing at everything. She started at a 9/10 for me, the personality brought her to a 2/10.

[@facelessandnameless]

I’ve had the exact same experience as you with these types of women! Haha

[@Ray03595]

I’ve never heard a man or woman who is the “whole package” have to state it. Usually if they’re the whole package they are very kind, and humble as well. (To me, if you don’t have these traits it’s impossible to even be the whole package) I was not getting that vibe from this woman.

[@nytracus9680]

She's average looking at best for London, that's her problem. Men don't care much about her iq or confidence

[@Lefty217]

there's almost nothing more repulsive than a gassed up mid who is feeling their oats.

[@heyhey11793]

@@Ray03595Absolutely can’t be the whole package if you’re not kind.

[@JackGordon86]

An insanely pretty girl I approached agreed to go out with me. At one point she volunteered the reason she agreed, which caught me by surprise at the time, because I was the only one in over a year who had the confidence to walk up and talk to her like a normal human being.

[@neilt6480]

I did approach a stunning woman back when I was young and dumb after being cajoled into it by the group I was with. I went over expecting to be crushed, and of course my expectations were met. I never made that mistake again, even with moderately attractive women.

[@scottverge938]

@@neilt6480 Sounds like you surrendered your manhood right there. Rejection is a part of life, you don't just give up.

[@jazzyjake99]

@@neilt6480A mistake? Dude you were just turned down by that one woman, chill. It’s dumb to assume that every woman you approach in life is going to be that way.

[@neilt6480]

@@scottverge938 About 50 years ago, at the urging of those workmates I ran an experiment where I was to talk to ten women a week in various settings until I met someone who would date me. My coworkers (men and women both) gave me lots of advice and tips, but nothing worked. Despite avoiding overly beautiful women, after ten weeks and 100 straight rejections, I called it a day. Things got better when I spent a few years backpacking through Europe and North America.

[@BWater-yq3jx]

​@@neilt6480 A few years? Wow. But sounds like you discovered some truths there. Such as certain situations can drastically alter results.

[@dat868]

I think most of us men also know our limitations. The prettier the woman can sometimes mean higher maintenance. And yes, men are worn down over being rejected or being labeled as "creeps" for simply showing interest in the opposite sex and also knowing that her standards are so high that very few men can meet them so why waste the time in trying?

[@VideoGameRoom32]

Looks and personality are important. Not just Looks

[@CourtneyRyan]

Totally!

[@garthwood5104]

Back In The Day™, my mom had a saying about women like this: "Looks can get the phone ringing off the hook, but personality keeps the conversation going." Having dated several women in my life that were supposedly "out of my league," I came to my senses and married a smart and wonderful lady who isn't full of herself. 32 years and counting!

[@milforddekalb6429]

True beauty is found in their personality/character

[@mannytorrez2138]

@@CourtneyRyanhello is there ac way to have a chat I have some? About my relationship

[@ryandunn7020]

I've dated a super independent woman for 7 years .. she made more money had a higher education... I never cared for or put much thought into her being better than me... it was nice she had her shit together and was beautiful.. but it wasn't the driving force to why I was with her. But.. She had a whole slew of poor qualities that add up over time, the low self-esteem, the insecurities and the depression from her education, and the need to chase money.. and so on and so on.. I had to walk away from that relationship after success went to her head... I still see her every now and then.. and she's still miserable even after all her accomplishments.

[@alexanderg5386]

Depression from education?

[@BlueFish-kq9fh]

@@alexanderg5386 Modern university education is infused with Marxist ideology (feminism, atheism, trans-genderism, misandry, etc.). Stay in these academic circles long enough (which is what most of these "strong independent women who don't need a man" tend to do) and depression is more or less inevitable.

[@PappaBear_1234]

TikTok has killed off a whole generation of people… we gotta do better

[@CourtneyRyan]

It’s rough out there

[@vlv723]

Its not just TikTok, its social media in general

[@PappaBear_1234]

@@CourtneyRyanwe still need a face counter in the corner… lol

[@Individualati]

@@CourtneyRyan You don't mention that women like her who are superficial, materialistic and vain are not able to have a genuine relationship. They will never love or be loved. They are INFERIOR women. They can only be bought or rented as trophies, by similarly vapid men. I suspect you are similar to her, just not so extreme and obvious. You embrace that "high standards" fallacy. Confidence does not mean ultra ego. She's not all that good looking either.

[@lalosalamanca8574]

​@@CourtneyRyan you know that normal girls don't post their life stories on tik tok. There are 4 billion females on the planet, with different personalities and characteristics. Your trying to to group all women in to one box. That is naive and foolish and naive advice . You lack life experience and you seem to get all your ideas of tik tok. Your young and immature and your giving men advice. Wow. People need a reality check

[@steveo13757]

I remember watching Katie Couric interviewing TV reality Host Patti Stanger aka The Millionaire Matchmaker. Katie asked her why is it so hard for men to find a woman. And Patti’s response was…”It’s the women that are the problem”. I’ll never forget it.

[@keithbieberly6445]

Don't forget humility!

[@abodz9702]

Being in a relationship with a very beautiful attractive woman that men swarm around and constantly tempted and hit up, isn't fun. You gotta watch your back. Even from friends.

[@2xcrzkxk]

Not if she actually likes you you don't. You'll lose friends not her if she actually likes you. Remember, really attractive women who take relationships seriously are used to random ppl constantly trying to get with them & aren't phased by it. They're looking for real same as you

[@RickMoraOriginal]

People who are perceived as being very attractive, intelligent, and/or confident also are pre-judged as being high maintenance and not worth approching. Unfortunately, we have all encountered people like this so many times, it is difficult to overcome that bias.

[@michaelsix9684]

they usually are high maintenance and demanding because they can get away with it

[@williamholden4312]

That is absolutely true. You won’t find a 9 or 10 out there that won’t refrain from getting what she wants because she can and she will.

[@The_LightArrow]

That would be more of a stereotype than a bias, but unfortunately more often than not it does prove to be true

[@yemengoto4905]

True! A diamond doesn't say it is a diamond.

[@joshuabenitez3260]

You hit the nail on the head with rejection fatigue. I've been rejected/ghosted so many times I just feel ugly and I question if I am a creep for approaching. Nowadays I'm just doing for me and every now and again I see a woman I find attractive, but I no longer take that plunge anymore.

[@lawrence31415]

A major issue with today's dating is that several men and women choose not to put in the time to get to know someone; they just want instant results. Modern dating is a difficult, but not unbeatable, numbers game.

[@LisaFenton-h7f]

True! Instant results is so much pressure.

[@lawrence31415]

@@LisaFenton-h7f I don't know if I would use the word "pressure", but some people definitely try too hard to impress others; too many judgmental folks these days!

[@The_LightArrow]

There are plenty of men willing to put in the legwork but they are often seen as "boring, safe, and/or a simp" so most of the time they will be overlooked in favor of someone that just goes for the coitus makes them feel terrible but excited (the butterflies) then leads them on indefinitely because he has a menagerie of options

[@Ioncekickedapregnantwomen]

When a girl saids men are intimidated by her what she’s really saying is that I have a shit personality and even a shitter attitude, I refuse to work on myself because my looks should be all that it takes to attract a man (which is ironic since a man looks is never alone enough for women) but because a guy doesn’t wanna settle for a half relationship it just means he’s intimidated.

[@Casual_Talk]

😩💯💯💯

[@ajtaylor8750]

While I totally understand where she's coming from, what this woman is missing is the attitude that some of these women tend to have. When a woman that has the so-called "triple threat" is aware of it, she tends to be quite condescending and arrogant towards men and it only turns men off because it lacks any true confidence. While there are indeed weak men not secure enough in themselves to date a woman that is pretty, smart, and confident, there are also a lot of men who know that sometimes these types of women have a big head and brag about how great they are instead of just letting it show naturally.

[@LisaFenton-h7f]

Arrogance is NOT attractive in women--or men!!!

[@timopartanen7262]

Very first thing that came into my mind when I heard men being intimidated by her confidence, was that the man probably didn't see someone confident, but someone annoying.

[@williamholden4312]

😂

[@rayg.2431]

Ha, that's the first thing that popped into my head too, "She's effing annoying!" Hell, if she was a guy with that kind of personality, I'd say he was a f*****g douchebag 😀

[@charlessteadjr1839]

Most men know what comes with a triple threat .

[@acuellaralfaro8246]

PROBLEMS+++

[@asdfxcvbn746]

a triple headache.

[@SnookisInfant-gt8xu]

Bodies, bodies, bodies

[@jondrake1977]

That they could lose the title without being pinned? (:

[@j0hns0n33]

They don’t need a man, they think their the men, and treat men like tools.

[@shahidmufti795]

So I've actually learned through time that perhaps being single all my 49 years of life has been the greatest thing that's ever happened to me. Think about it, no nagging ex, no psycho ex, no alimony, no lost child custody battles, no financial loss and bankruptcy due to divorce, no crazy wife or girlfriend, no crazy in-laws, no girlfriends or wives potentially cheating on you, no kids disrespecting you as a father, and on and on and on.....

[@brutus8123]

You’re assuming all women are crazy and psychos…

[@omegamale7880]

No need to work a job you hate.

[@yemengoto4905]

You're absolutely right because you live a total peace without owing anybody unconditional love like a slave.

[@sagemage8651]

When I was a young man I wouldn't approach VERY beautiful women for 3 reasons: 1. They already had a lot of guys chasing them. 2. They already had a boyfriend or husband. 3. They would consider me beneath them and reject me immediately. Of course all this was in my head and may not have necessarily been the truth. Because of these thoughts I wouldn't approach.

[@75pdubs]

Reason 3b you’re a dork

[@75pdubs]

I don’t know any very attractive, sweet, nurturing woman that is single that wants to be in a relationship. They have their pick of the litter in men and are always taken.

[@williamholden4312]

9s and 10s don’t belong to you they belong to the community.

[@alicia_nicole]

I do. They don't leave the house often. That's it. That's why they're single

[@stevemiller1517]

It was and is the truth.

[@Zflayre]

I'd like to preface that this is not an attack towards women. Moreso, it's advice that I genuinely hope is helpful to getting you that safe and loving relationship you dream of. I think i speak for a majority of men when i say that those 3 traits aren't a deal breaker. (Pretty, Condident & Smart) And it's actually a plus. What I think a lot of men find to be dealbreakers is: When they have those 3 traits but they're also blind to the negative traits they have -Combativeness -Stubborn -Vindictive -Materialistic -Emotionally immature -Lack of Self Awareness -Lack of/low empathy -Refusal to follow the man or be a team player for fear of being called a "housewife" and shamed by single women I'm sure there's more but remember women, if you're trying to get a man to love you and commit to you, you have to have the traits THEY are looking for, not the opposites.

[@bobromasr1711]

Exactly on the money !

[@Vergil14]

I’ve learned that when hearing ladies like that speak on social media, to take what they say with a grain of salt. Everytime the blame is placed on men, it should be understood as projection. Also, I did like what you said about how singleness isn’t a punishment. But sadly, what people don’t always willfully acknowledge is how much being single is seen as being a pariah. I’ve been in church long enough to notice how the older generations treat younger single people as weird for not having someone in their life. Some churches even see a single man who wants to take a position in leadership as a weirdo and single women as a problem. Then young people who are single tend to be quick to leave instead of encouraging their single friends. I think what’s missing is people actually trying to encourage people and be honest about what can be done.

[@pace1195]

Additionally, the church leaders don't use the networks and experience they have to help the problem. They just keep to their own small in-groups and complain about why butts in seats are declining year over year.

[@EyeOfScrutiny]

It’s not so much about being intimidated by smart, intelligent, beautiful women, it’s dealing with their condescending attitude.

[@tjames9120]

Congrats on 750k subs on youtube Courtney! Crazy how much the channel has grown and how many people you've helped. Compared to your early videos its clear you've grown as a person as well. You are much better at communicating your thoughts and opinions in a healthy way. Saw your husband hit 1 mil somewhat recently too. Well deserved 👏

[@CourtneyRyan]

You’re so kind, thank you! 🥹

[@GoodGuyPlayer2]

Confusing "confident" with insufferable... that's pretty much it.

[@allonsrensen5837]

There may be a hint of truth in this - however, I think the primary reason this happens, is that a lot of men have had numerous bad experiences with "high value women" turning them down, so they feel their effort is way better spent on more average women, who may actually give them a chance. Imo it has very little to do with being intimidated, but way more with using your time on something that has a reasonable chance of actually leading to something.

[@stephanechouinard5867]

Sorry that’s not a high value women for men. Men want feminine women. And that’s final. A woman with degrees for me is nice but it’s not what men want. The world has convinced us this is high value but in reality a good feminine and nurturing woman is the most valuable thing any man in the world can have. Men will die and move mountains for that. I was successful and my ex was successful at her job and everything became a competition. I DONT WANT TO COMPETE. I will take a jobless, ugly feminine women over any beautiful, career driven independent women any day. Been there done that. Now I know.

[@CyberDancerDany]

As a woman who’s single and has a bunch of guys throwing themselves at them, I will say that lots of times guys get intimidated. Most people would say I’m kind and caring. I’m single because I’ve dealt with guys who were intimidated by me even when I accepted them for who they were. These guys were so insecure a relationship could not come out of it. I also dealt with jerks who gave me trust issues. Not only that having so many guys talking to me makes it hard for me to chose someone.

[@stevec3526]

A woman’s looks catches my attention. Her personality, character, and intelligence KEEPS my attention. Men don’t find these women intimidating. The men just find them damned annoying. Young men are avoiding college because it is expensive, no guarantee of finding a good job, and the environment there is extremely anti-male. DEI..

[@stevec3526]

I have college degrees in 3 different fields.

[@pj20050]

Too many women chasing too few men

[@williamholden4312]

80% of men are invisible.

[@Frontline35]

From what I've seen in person, a lot of the very attractive women do not get approached in public, but they get a million messages online. The chance of picking up a very attractive women online is very low. Women get so many messages, they aren't going to read all of them.

[@scottclark3761]

If you put yourself on a pedestal like this, then you're a turn off. What she's missing is what most men want most. Loyalty, kindness, empathy. You can be smart, confident, beautiful and be a complete sociopath. The qualities she mentions are the bare minimum, and she's treating them like they're the ultimate goal. Who wants to date an ugly, stupid, insecure person? No one. Being attractive, competent, and confident is the price of admission, not the trophy. She's gor herself muddled up a bit.

[@falsificationism]

Guy here. I'm not sure "confidence" is anywhere in my top 10. Beautiful. Smart. Humble. That's the triple threat for me. Am I weird?

[@simontmn]

No, no you are not. Excessive "confidence" is a big turn off. Humility is attractive.

[@theurbancamper5410]

You do want someone with confidence that can be a helpmate with whatever curveballs life throws at you. You probably don’t want someone who behaves like a child and can’t be relied on as a partner. That said, I don’t think that’s what these boss babe types are talking about when they claim to be ‘confident’.

[@falsificationism]

@@theurbancamper5410 seems like a tortured definition of confidence to me, but per your definition, I certainly agree. I want a capable, mature partner for sure!

[@vlv723]

It's also the high standards the women are looking for. I'm sorry that not all men are 6 feet and make six figures.

[@jamesg3808]

There's a difference between high standards and petty standards.

[@LABoyko]

When you describe yourself as a "triple threat, " you are describing yourself as a threat.

[@MreMeatify]

This got me laughing. It is reasonable to run from danger🤣

[@Ryan66437]

If she'd said intelligent, healthy and happy or something similar I'd be all behind it. The confident portion carries far too many negative connotations these days. Might be a problem with me though, I apparently make the more scarred women feel safe. That's good of course, but I've already tried several times with them and it doesn't turn out well.

[@StrumVogel]

I just don’t want a woman make me feel disposable.

[@jamesg3808]

In other words, you want a woman who respects you.

[@kubasniak]

Good luck with that.

[@jepb6990]

I totally agree.

[@acuellaralfaro8246]

As you mentioned, we can not generalize, but there is a very common reason why this type of women are single, and it's basically this: THEY ARE VERY PROBLEMATIC. High value men will always prefer a more traditional woman who provides peace of mind, loyalty, kindness and love. But a woman who thinks that deserves the whole 🌎 it's a nightmare.

[@Tim_G_Bennett]

For sure, this sort of video reminds me of the quote "for every pretty single woman, there's a man out there tired of her crap".

[@zenigatago]

@@Tim_G_Bennett same can be said for the 'pity queens'. Lowering your standards can be costly.😢

[@tomstupka2774]

Courtney you’ve hit the nail on the head!! I see a ton of reels where women want a man who is at least 5’10 or 6’ and makes X insane income. I’m 5’6”, athletic (gym 5-6x per week), active lifestyle and work in medical sales making +150k on a bad year. I’m ruled out for my height by most of these “beautiful women” and know a lot of guys that are taller that want a woman 5’2” or shorter. I love a confident woman, but she needs to fit my active lifestyle and be career driven too. A lot of these girls aren’t getting up at 4am with me to fit my life. Everyone needs to accept they’re going to have to give a little on their “demands” if they want to find someone. I dated a woman that was 6’2” briefly because she didn’t care about dating someone shorter, and she wore heels on dates. I am very happy to have found someone in the world of picky women out there, but the standards some of these women expect are drastically limiting their pool. They are leaving themselves with a small pool of men, who likely have ruled them out too because they can be picky too. I hate to say, the tall wealthy men in their 30s are picking up younger women in their 20s ladies! One of my coworkers in his mid 40s married a girl in her early 30s so he could have a family

[@Akilan.11]

Hi Courtney! Hitting 'like' right away was a no-brainer because your dedication to creating meaningful content is truly inspiring. Your videos have become a part of my weekly routine because they offer so much more than just information. Keep up the fantastic work, and know that your efforts are deeply appreciated!❤️

[@CourtneyRyan]

Oh my goodness you are so kind! Thanks for being here 🤍

[@lauradeneault3525]

I like that you approach things in an healthy way. It's so refreshing 😊

[@XfiverX]

Women who are never single: 1 Don't play games. 2 Able to regulate their emotions. 3 Enjoyable to be around.

[@PatrickGsASMR]

and don't post on tiktok

[@scotthearts9634]

​@@PatrickGsASMR I second this one! 😃😃🥰

[@TomNook.]

Don't gaslight

[@MessageInABottle869]

It seems like she and so many others focus on the people they don’t want to date instead of look into why those who are confident and not intimidated don’t want to date you.

[@OcbaPaul]

Being single isn't a punishment, but long term singleness, or what I call "chronic singleness" really is or feels like it. Specially considering some of us have no desire to be single any longer.

[@Seowie]

When I first watched your videos in the past, I thought it was very nuanced to a female's perspective but over time I realised you gave a very unbiased explanation to the difficulties faced by both gender roles; be it a by-product of their circumstances or environment etc. Well said!

[@Rzr543]

A beautiful heart and a beautiful mind are absolute deal-breakers for me and it’s very rare to encounter those today. Personality, character and being a lady. Unfortunately, the majority of North American millennials and Gen Z women are bereft of these qualities and have absolutely no idea what being a lady means and they seem even less interested in becoming one.

[@michaelsix9684]

their mothers failed them

[@KevinMcClave]

Good insight, Courtney. Nuance is in extremely short supply with virtually any topic.

[@jkbrown5496]

What is called a man being "insecure" is really just the cost/benefit analysis coming out high cost, low benefit. Smart, beautiful and confident are excellent traits for a dinner party guest. And a fine escort for a social event. But really, what's she likely like at home?

[@ZmQuad]

@3:56 … I think this summarizes a lot. I think 1 of the biggest issues with dating right now, is very few women know what real confidence looks like. They confuse confidence and arrogance. That being said, many women also conflate status with confidence. A women who will only date successful men, is the equivalent of a man who has “standards” of dating only supermodels. If I take that approach, I can complain that “women are the problem” if my standards are built on total superficiality and ignorance

[@AuroraBoreas]

I threw in the towel a long time ago. I'm at the point in my life now where women are staring at me in public and I don't even give them a second look. The juice is not worth the squeeze.

[@01SHADOW]

Burnt out on rejection is the perfect phrase because I'm definitely there

[@sethaaron95]

In my opinion, the standards are often too high across the board between men and women, in part due to the influence of social media, porn, etc. there's a great book that Aziz Ansari did with a sociologist called Modern Romance, breaking down these issues, and in it they talk about how just a few decades ago the majority of marriages were people who lived within a few miles of each other, and Ansari's own parents were an arranged marriage, his dad has 3 women to choose from and talked to each of them for 15 minutes. Arranged marriages are obviously not ideal, but I think it illustrates the point of how high modern standards are and more so the wrong standards, men and women are dissecting every small detail of their partner down to their height, salary, physique, waist line, body count, social media presence and followers, and we flag every little thing each other says as green and red while wondering why there are more single men and women than ever recorded. we need to stop living in fairytales and ideas of finding "the one", as if on a planet of 8 billion theres only one person who could possibly meet your standards to be mr/mrs perfect. theres probably at least 100 million people that anyone of us could have a successful, happy long term relationship with if we would just open our eyes, but in stead we stare at our screens, all our lives. what a waste of eyes. we post tik toks about dating and gossip. what a waste of lips.

[@consciouscrypto3090]

I remember this one guy I was going on a 'coffee and a walk' date with and he was irate when I mentioned that I was glad we'd made it out of the wind tunnel. He was upset that I knew what a wind tunnel was! He had never heard of the term and I guess felt some kind of way about my knowing a term for something he'd encountered before and never known their was a name for. It was just a sign that he was insecure with a well educated woman, despite the fact that in general our conversation was totally mundane. I definitely learned over the years that I did best with really smart, well-educated men not because of what I was selecting for but rather for what the men were selecting against.

[@stephenenglish2211]

There is an old saying..."Sleep with 9s and 10s, marry 7s and 8s". While you shouldn't evaluate people based solely on looks, the reality is when you meet an extremely attractive woman who is single and in her 30s, there's a good chance that she's high-maintenance and not a great partner. Does that mean it's true of all very attractive women? Of course not...but it's something to keep in mind, that women who are very attractive and see themselves as very attractive, but who have problems finding a long-term relationship, are often in that situation because they believe they can always do better and will be more likely to move in if a relationship isn't perfect and something they think might be better comes along. Many men have the same problem, but men are also more likely to "marry down" than women are if they find a relationship that is comfortable for them rather than ideal.

[@simontmn]

The 9s & 10s with great personalities do tend to marry young, and stay married!

[@civlengr68]

The triple threat: Beautiful, confident, smart vs. what men want: fit, feminine, friendly.

[@musicalone8123]

Courtney is nailing this one. The issue is more so the women than the men, and I'm saying this as a woman, albeit a lesbian. My experience with dancing around/approaching women is they have gotten extremely picky and are having trouble finding people who meet all of their standards as women are excelling more with women's rights improvements. There will always be guys who are running after women who are "out of their league," and sometimes we see women with men whom we wonder how in the hell he got her.

[@realistrick]

Men can be attractive for a variety of reasons that include but are not limited to just looks. However looks is the primary reason men are attracted to women. Hence why so many men appear to be dating women "out of their league."

[@pace1195]

@@realistrick If men can be attractive for a variety of reasons, why do women only go after the top tier of men? I think what you mean is men need a variety of reasons to be attractive. If he doesn't meet a certain threshold from a variety of checkbox categories, he is invisible. Most men are attracted to most women. Men try to get relationships from a wide spectrum of women: from those out of their league below themselves all the way to those out of their league above themselves. Women just see and remember the hits and don't register or flat out forget the misses. Confirmation bias is real!

[@troyberg6248]

@@pace1195 Richard Cooper's "435 Bullet Points" List.

[@realistrick]

@@pace1195 I'm not talking about tinder bro. Yes, on an app based solely on appearance, only the topmost guys get chosen. But in real world encounters which are still quite common, you see guys with a variety of phenotypes score hot girls.

[@realistrick]

@@troyberg6248 watch what women actually do, not what they say

[@JeffersonRah]

I've been rejected online and in person many times. It can get tiring but never take it to heart. The harder part is when you've been rejected by a woman who you really liked and had something going with you. That's when it get fatiguing and you want to take some personal time off.

[@worldmustburn6056]

Attractive women have the mentality of "if shit goes sideways in a relationship, i'll just pick another one of the 200+ guys in my DM"

[@alexanderg5386]

That's the guys fault for not regulating her social media or telling her to shut them down.

[@jesse_campbell]

@@alexanderg5386 Alexander Grace? Is that you?

[@aguyinavan6087]

The most valuable attribute that the women possesses whom are dating higher value men is modesty, in her sense of self-importance and everything else about her. If you're calling yourself the "triple-threat" , we don't want to come home from war of work, or just actual war, to a threat. A women is supposed to be a man's oasis, not his adversary. Watch Mulan's "a girl worth fighting for".

[@Vegaswill714]

My response to the woman in the video is that she is correct, but if a girl is unattractive, not smart and lacks confidence she will most definitely have difficulty with dating. People have to realize that dating is difficult for everyone..

[@pace1195]

Not true statistically. It has been shown even the worst women on dating apps will still get at least 5x the number of messages as the top men.

[@AL15IS350]

@@pace1195 "dating apps" are not for dating. It's a system designed to pander to women while the same system aims to take as much $ from the men as possible. How is it not bs that average guys on there literally have to pay for "premium" features to get "more" matches? Have you heard of the study that women find more than 80% of the men unattractive? They all go for the top 10% of men that are genetically gifted in areas they care about, even the very delusional ones that are not even qualified to be with those men.

[@ABenAbides]

People are complicated. You wouldn't believe how many people are struggling with mental health issues that society simply hasn't equipped them to deal with. I literally couldn't date for years after I fell into a funk after a falling out with some people who were close to me: I would meet cute girls who seemed interested and I just couldn't make a move. I needed to heal, and I think there are more people in that situation than anyone realizes

[@douglasrau5094]

I have never met a woman who says, "I'm single because men are intimidated by me" that I wanted to do anything with. No, dear, that is NOT the reason.

[@elvisquiff]

It’s not often I comment on your videos Courtney as I’m an older dad (48). I have a younger son who is 26 and he’s been in a relationship for 6 years. I think there are two issues here. One is timeless, girls will often go out in groups for safety and rightly so, the problem with this is it’s terrifying to approach a girl anyway but to add in a group immediately terrifies people and keeps anyone from approaching Additionally a lot of people used to meet in work (it’s where you spend a lot of your life after all) but now HR and law have left this so nuanced it puts people of both sexes off asking colleagues out (especially if that person male or female is a senior). This doesn’t leave them a lot of scope to actually meet people. I met my wife at a social club 22 years ago where we had a shared interest so my advice for both sexes would be forget work, look at your hobbies and anything you may do fitness wise and see if you can join something. Additionally go to events that colleagues or family invite you to. You never know.

[@austinpowers1999]

Imagine having a mask made up of a ton of Make-up and thinking that mask makes you look pretty

[@cbttrainee5961]

Love how sound and grounded your perspective is. Preciate you. Keep up the good work 👏🏿👏🏿🤙🏿🤙🏿🤙🏿

[@gordongekko2781]

The problems of the dating market always comes back to the same root cause: almost all of the single women want the same 10-20% of the men. The men at the top get all of the female attention, so where does that leave the top women? Ignored. Because the top men are too busy rotating. Once again, the solution would be for women to broaden their scope, and stop ignoring every man who doesn't look like a model.

[@chadbrunot6905]

Hey I'm a male and I'm trying to be a little more confident in myself and keep my head held high at all time and I've gotten smiles froms beautiful women that I felt I needed to approach but did not because I didn't want to be known as someone creepy.

[@james50227]

Can we all take a minute to realize that there is a good amount of people out there in relationships that have already lost desire for each other and haven't even been intimate with each other in months and some that feel trapped and have already started life with the wrong person. A lot of people settle for people they don't really desire but are good enough be with.

[@Nocturnal_Lorena]

I've learnt that happy girls are the prettiest & having confidence without arrogance attracts men & women no matter what my age is or which part of the world I am in. Even if I turn them down, I do it kindly & I end up gaining a friend even if it's temporary. You receive what you believe. That woman has a negative mindset. Thank you for this video!

[@palmer3977]

Arrogance is not a virtue.

[@adaltonian]

Courtney I don't even necessarily need most of your dating advice but I'm subscribed and keep up with your content just to hear some sort of sensibility on the internet. It's refreshing. Never change

[@BlueJayWaters]

When I was a free-lance videographer, I worked with several models, of various degrees of attractiveness and success. I was more awkward and shy in the beginning, but I became desensitized to the whole hot girl thing. I treated them like a client and honestly never even considered asking one out simply for my reputation and work. Since then, I am recently divorced, and simply aren't seeking a relationship. I find myself naturally able to talk with women who are probably out of my league, but there's no expectation. They know they're attractive, I know it, but I'm not there emotionally to care for a relationship. It lowers their guard. It appears those types of women just value what I would consider quiet confidence and professionalism. I can't say how to achieve that in pursuit of those women, but that's what I have experienced

[@fredrikbergquist5734]

It is chocking how lonely some beautiful and famous women are. Like when Madonna gets pregnant with her gym trainer that was the only man she could meet. A golden cage.

[@xavierpelletier2622]

Thanks for the part around 8:30 and onwards, where you say some men feel like leaving women alone from fear of bothering them. I do feel that way, and decide not to engage with women out of fear of making them uncomfortable. Then I'm told I come off as cold or uninterested. I understand women though for feeling that way. Times and moods are changing, and it is normal I guess, but kinda hard to navigate at times. And thanks too for speaking up about accountability. I find it easy to be written off or guilted into being evil as a guy when it comes to intimate relationships, even as one tries to be as open and objective as possible in conflict resolution. In any case, thanks for your work! Love your content.

[@RedArrow2007]

She insults almost everyone except her circle of friends. She feels entitled. She insults the men, and then she insults the women who date these "high-value men" because her friends are unable to find one of their preferred preferences. She insults the men high value men themselves for being insecure because they are not dating her friends. She insults people who may disagree with her as "insecure" because she knows there is going to be a blowback from her comments. With this kind of entitlement, they deserve to be single!

[@vincezeimis69]

Before cancer took her out, I enjoyed 32 years married to a beautiful, smart, confident woman. With her we raised three beautiful/handsome, smart, confident children. I was dated/approached/rejected by a whole lot of women before I met her. Now that I am back in the dating cycle again in my 60s, not whole lot has changed. I am still dating /approaching and being rejected by a whole lot of women. That is life.

[@citydogpack]

There are many reasons why. A big reason why the prettiest women have the hardest time finding a man is because the men in their caliber are busy being entertained by average to slightly above average women who will give them what they want for little in return. Now is actually the best time to get the prettiest girl if you’re an above average guy because the average and above average women are delusional and are busy chasing men out of their league and the prettiest girls are being neglected. The prettiest girls right now are the nicest and most appreciative when you take them on a nice date.

[@overcomerbtboj]

Thank you for a different take on the situation I don’t rate myself a 10 i’m not arrogant or conceited and i do value qualities in men that are not shallow- such as being loyal, dependable emotionally mature and stable along with confidence because insecurity in both sexes is a turnoff- and yes attraction is also important- if i’m laying in bed next to my partner he better turn me on physically so in that department he should be healthy, well groomed and want to go to the gym and be fit because i also work hard to stay fit and healthy and go to the gym for my health - that’s not too much to ask imo

[@citydogpack]

I agree and it’s ok to have standards as long as you have self awareness to understand what standards you qualify for. It’s just crazy nowadays what average-slightly above average expect. Even women I love and care about very much such as family members of mine. Not to pick on women thigh, I always say that if women desired men as much as me desire women, the delusion level in men would be 5x worse than women

[@overcomerbtboj]

@@citydogpack my theory about the average looking women is that they know they are looks challenged so all they have is below the waist and they are willing to give it up readily to bag a guy and it usually works- some of the most average women are the biggest 304s- that’s from observation

[@dlove130]

Great job. I only know my experience. When I hear women I have dated about intimidating men about their career or looks it always has more to do with ‘em feeling superior and thinking the guy feels inferior. We don’t we figure them out and take what need and leave what we don’t

[@lascenethepodcast]

She is like a 5 with make up. But she think is a 10. Maybe in other country she is pretty, but in Puerto Rico she can’t compete.

[@pahakuutti]

She looks very masculine to me, so maybe other women think she's beautiful.

[@OneFreeMan17]

Makeup in my opinion is absolutely disgusting

[@ChrisSadowski-pp1np]

Agree

[@lascenethepodcast]

@@OneFreeMan17 Makeup is like me with fake 100 bills or rent a Ferrari.

[@tomaszstramel3594]

Blame-shifting is probably among the most primal instincts a human being resorts to when faced with some sort of failure. It may be direct or indirect, like in the case discussed in this video. "I'm single because you're too intimidated by my looks, brains and sass." Notice how it also comes with a subtle diss towards successful competition: "It would be much easier If I were a dumb bitch with a pretty face." All that with the necessary caveat that is dead on arrival but the person doesn't even seem to notice: "I'm not trying to shame anyone or be mean."

[@yusikillah6175]

This woman is single cuz she's on tiktok lol. Nuff said

[@pnketia]

The fact that she said she is beautiful, smart and confident those are traits women look for in men! Men look for fit, feminine and friendly. Also as more women become successful they date up due to hypergamy and the men they are attracted to have options so they are not intimidated by any women, but instead use them for sex.

[@AngelofJustice412]

The irony of her implying that she’s single because she’s pretty, when without the makeup and fake eyelashes she probably wouldn’t even look female…

[@genek8630]

Those lips speak volumes.

[@vielumiereg9794]

I've given up on trying to date tbh. Obviously not all women, but a lot of women these days spend too much time on social media I think, and they've developed these exact types of attitudes. I can't tell you how many times I've been called a broke and useless "little boy" just because I can't meet someone's standards. Yet, if I have standards, then I'm just being sexist and haven't grown into a man yet. It's toxic and mentally fucking exhausting putting up with the insane levels of double standards. So I've just come to terms with being single and enjoying my own company.

[@queson52]

"I'm the complete package, but nobody will date me!" Proceeds to list 3 items only 1 of which most men actually care about.

[@Michael-vc2cs]

Couldn’t have said it better myself!

[@chrismoore9997]

I don't know why that girl is talking about "pretty girls" as if she knows, because she is not pretty.

[@simontmn]

She's a bit above average, but yes the video was her blowing smoke up her own butt.

[@maenad1231]

I actually feel like women who are good looking to the point of being complimented on their looks most days they leave the house (with or without their makeup & hair done and by all ages and both genders) have the hardest time finding men who authentically like them for who they are as people and don’t reduce them. Men also often have unrealistic expectations of them because they romanticize and idealize them the moment they see them and get mad when the woman is a whole 3 dimensional person with basic common flaws and want to punish her for dillusioning them and destroying their unfair fantasy And yes men love using humbling tactics even if you’re modest and only have basic realistic standards

[@Eaglespride123]

women dream about marriage from young. Then they reach their late teens and early 20s and have so many options. If they reach 30 and aren't married, they are solely to blame and something is wrong with them. Imagine having that many options and yet no one locked you down and marriage was your goal.