"It's so hard to find good women in the modern dating scene. The only way I can find decent women is by starting a podcast which is so misogynist that women feel compelled to come on the show to debate me."
@itsgabibelle2 жыл бұрын
it's the only way women won't run away at the sight of him
@Faucetofstone2 жыл бұрын
I'm not convinced they don't just pay these women to come on.
@peachy_lili2 жыл бұрын
@@Faucetofstone I am like 89% sure they are being offered money off the street, yes.
@vortexlight83872 жыл бұрын
Dnt be misandristic, u just cant handle the opinion of a strong independent man.
@Faucetofstone2 жыл бұрын
@@vortexlight8387 lol
@strangedoingsinthenight2 жыл бұрын
the new generation of commentary KZbinrs makes me so happy, cause it's less like "oh look at this dumb thing" and more thoughtful and analytical. I wasn't expecting ya'll to actually articulate your thoughts really well and not just be like "oH LiFe hAcKs r SilLy" (not that I don't love that, cause I do). but its really refreshing and it makes me happy that people like you and Jarvis are rising to the top!
@monstercameron2 жыл бұрын
there was no analysis here, they made straw man arguments for ~20mins from a clip and not the actual podcast.
@EATYOURSOUL1002 жыл бұрын
@@monstercameron yeah these commenters watching the video are very closed minded and don't add any value. Like many here in the comments. I took time to watch these guys who are apparently "misogynistic" to understand why they came to certain conclusions.
@ensignd.crexote53502 жыл бұрын
Boys who take advice from that incel podcast, will be a danger to all women in the near but distant future. Sorry ladies.
@AlonzoCalPolyPomona2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@Bizarro692 жыл бұрын
so true!
@hayley582 жыл бұрын
"im living in a very emotional reality, nothing is fact for me and im confused all the time" sounds like me the first time i went to my therapist
@bizziegrace2 жыл бұрын
tshirt quote idea tbh
@manboy47202 жыл бұрын
that just sounds like the normal way to be alive, to be honest.
@daughterphoenix2 жыл бұрын
It really do be like that
@ook46982 жыл бұрын
i relate to this quote more than anything
@parrotstories2 жыл бұрын
@@manboy4720 yes normal for people who need therapy or counselling
@maddierose6332 жыл бұрын
misogynists find one shitty analogy and run with it, even though it makes no sense
@maddierose6332 жыл бұрын
the lock and key, bank robbing, horses in a stable. they all make absolutely no sense and compare women to objects or animals because they don’t view women as human.
@sayeeed13032 жыл бұрын
@@maddierose633 INAITLY heterosexual men and lesbians view women they are sexually attracted to as objects. It is natural.
@sayeeed13032 жыл бұрын
Misandry is glorified and normalized to the point where it goes unnoticed. Telling the truth to women or about women does not mean you hate wome
@SuperNuclearUnicorn2 жыл бұрын
@@vortexlight8387 hopefully they stay independent because that means they're staying far away from any poor woman unfortunate enough to cross their path. Same goes for you, hopefully you're so independent that you just leave women alone so you don't make them uncomfortable
@metadata57602 жыл бұрын
Yes, it absolutely makes sense. You just do not want to understand it because it's against your values. A woman's chastity makes her more valuable to men (whether you want to accept that or not), therefore if she's easy to fuck, fewer men will want her for a relationship. A guy is valued for status and looks, and social proof is a way to amplify your attractiveness. A guy that has had attractive girlfriends or can sleep with attractive women can use that as social proof, and other women will automatically find him more attractive if they notice that. While a virgin will have no social proof and considered less attractive. You see? It's completely flipped for both genders.
@Xetreia2 жыл бұрын
Men like this get mad about the “privileges” that women (getting out of a ticket, men paying for dinner) will occasionally be given, which is something that only occurs because they are sexualizing women and and expecting to be rewarded. I would rather pay for my dinner and get a ticket rather than need to worry about being assaulted walking home or having someone put something in my drink
@thrilla722 жыл бұрын
Men worry about getting assaulted on the way home. It happens more frequently to men in fact
@unclewiley19862 жыл бұрын
@thrilla72 That is blatantly untrue. Men are statistically more likely to be victims of all violent crimes EXCEPT sexual assault and rape. That doesn't mean it doesn't happen, but they aren't the majority.
@thrilla722 жыл бұрын
@@unclewiley1986 My goodness, it's the same underhanded debate tactics. The comment mentioned fear of being attacked walking around at night. It was not about specifically sa and rape. Thankfully those crimes have lower rates of incidence. Would be wonderful if it never happened. Great strides have been made but unless we enter the world of minority report, how do we stop a few horrible people ruining things.
@unclewiley19862 жыл бұрын
@thrilla72 You deleted your comment, but I was still able to see it. I'm guessing it was deleted bc you realized OP specifically said 'assaulted' and not 'attacked'. I'm not responding to call you out or anything but to let people know that may have been why you posted your original comment.
@botanicalitus41942 жыл бұрын
@@thrilla72 Guys actually dont worry about it and thats why it happens more frequently to them. Guys are much more likely to put themselves in openly dangerous situations bc they feel invincible. More guys join gangs, commit crimes, join the military, walk alone at night with no protection, partake in dangerous activities like drugs and daredevil stuff...etc. GirIs rarely ever choose to do any of these things (because from a young age girIs are taught that if they get assauIted then its their own fauIt for not being carefuI). Guys get hurt because they make dangerous choices, but most of the time when girIs get hurt its specificaIIy BECAUSE they are girIs. Their gender makes them the target. For proof, look at % of maIe and femaIe active duty members who get assauIted. I say % bc femaIes are less likely to choose to go to the military, so guys die and get assauIted in larger numbers. But if you look at % (compare the % of femaIe active duty members who get assauIted vs maIes who get assauIted) you see that girIs are targeted more. Same thing with gang vioIence, vioIence against the homeIess, vioIence against drug users...etc. Its still bad that guys experience this vioIence, hut at the very Ieast since the reason they experience it isnt inextricably tied to ab immutable characteristic like gender, they have some agency over their safety.
@Niceice_2 жыл бұрын
does the fresh and fit podcast realize that women in relationships are still their own person and not a piece of property?
@eraflowski2 жыл бұрын
they ARE?!?!? no longer an alpha male :/
@jeffcash20362 жыл бұрын
I doubt they realize women have brains
@evane85342 жыл бұрын
no. no they do not
@Faucetofstone2 жыл бұрын
At their core these guys do not believe women are people.
@ghosthunterofc2 жыл бұрын
@@Faucetofstone yeah since you dont belive men are people too
@iamsteam2522 жыл бұрын
I don't like how they're like "You women have the privilege of getting things for your looks." But he's exactly missing the point just by an inch. We women are EXPECTED to always look pretty. And If your not condemned as pretty, you're thrown off to the side as just some bitch. If we're considered "Fat", we are lucky to even get with a guy and if we do anything a man doesn't like, they say "You should be grateful I'm even talking to you! Other men don't want to be with a fat bitch like you!" It's a REAL PROBLEM. Beauty standards keep on rising to unachievable points, and our worth is based entirely just on our looks. So yeah, you're exactly right. It IS a problem.
@kayladean5972 жыл бұрын
@@vortexlight8387 so I can't have a pretty man as a sugar baby? 😭
@kayladean5972 жыл бұрын
@@vortexlight8387 Maybe if you helped fix the wage gap between men and woman guys would have more of a selection of sugar mommy's to chose from did you think about that?😈
@sayeeed13032 жыл бұрын
Your are not obligated to fulfill that expectation. It is a personal choice and a lot of women put so much time, money and effort into thier looks cause that the only thing that have to offer to society. Now let's not get started on what men are expected to do.
@sayeeed13032 жыл бұрын
@@kayladean597 no such thing as gender wage gap. How about equality in work forces like construction, plumbing, firefighting ie all the dirty jobs that require society to function
@oiurehj2 жыл бұрын
@@kayladean597 Please, you wouldn't like a younger man with 0 money who would rely entirely on you. You're just creating a generation of men that no woman would merry.
@caidalee19942 жыл бұрын
It’s so disheartening to see how men just seem to view us as sub-human. Like, I really don’t think Myron would look at me and then himself and think that we are the same amount of human. Obviously it’s not everyone, but it’s enough to be a big problem, and it’s loud enough to be heard by the next generation of boys growing up and learning how to treat women. Guys, please remember: Yes we are women, but we are humans first.
@r.walker79862 жыл бұрын
not men, nerds, forever scarred cause no one dated them growing up.
@Sheba-jw3uu2 жыл бұрын
@@r.walker7986 facts lol
@trash35702 жыл бұрын
No one dated me growing up and I don’t have a seething hatred of woman lmao, I think you are generally kinda right tho
@randomlygeneratedname71712 жыл бұрын
The brain of a man is observed to view women as objects who he doesn’t have a close relationship to like family. It’s up to a women value themselves because at basic level he just sees meat jiggling at him. Some men can resist that view of women but that’s not the default.
@YouWillGetThereBuddy2 жыл бұрын
@@randomlygeneratedname7171 Why are you saying this as if it is something to be proud of or accepted. This is a disgusting to say the very least... Men just keep proving how much they should not be respected on any level.
@andrewkoster65062 жыл бұрын
Imagine being so fragile in your masculinity that you melt down because a woman calls you "bro". And then calling yourself an alpha and trying to present as a leader to other men.
@carolinpurayidom45702 жыл бұрын
the women seated in those podcast looks so defeated and miserable someone please help them
@_o66292 жыл бұрын
Defeated?? Nah they done with myron's BS.
@sixbytex2 жыл бұрын
@BIG BAD OGRE holy shit i would love to see that
@andrewkoster65062 жыл бұрын
Great example of why you shouldn't debate bigots on their platform. They have nothing of value to say, and going on their podcast just creates more content for them.
@leothecuisinart Жыл бұрын
why are they there? are they getting paid?
@The_Memer6969 Жыл бұрын
@@leothecuisinart fame I guess.
@TaraMooknee2 жыл бұрын
this is super cute (if you forget that this video is about fresh & fit)
@polly-fe3pq2 жыл бұрын
OMG TARAA
@polly-fe3pq2 жыл бұрын
@@ikilledthemoon copy paste ur comment here i wanna read it
@kuurakarppi77782 жыл бұрын
@@polly-fe3pq Here is his comment. 💅 Have fun. It's absolutely ludicrous. Jude D "You people are weird. Fresh and Fit is extremely useful content. Let me address some of the points made in the video: 1: Attention for women is like sex for men because it's a part of how they get validated by men. While men get validated by women through sex. Women get sexual attention for free and mostly leverage that as a weapon against men, which is why they crave attention and resources from men of higher status (hypergamy). That's why you often find average women that have a huge group of male 'friends' they keep around for whatever they might need and it's mostly one way friendships in the direction of the woman. Women very often keep men like that around for free validation and string them along with the hopes those men might get sex. 2: I don't watch F and F much anymore (I actually started watching them after realizing I couldn't stand their disrespectful behavior towards women in short clips) but when I did I noticed they mostly kick out women breaking the rules, and they're generally not disrespectful at all towards women. The only time they are kind of is when they're all introducing themselves and the women get roasted. But everyone gets roasted, including fresh and myron and chris and the fat guy. Only ones that don't get roasted are the women that actually work there. They don't really interrupt women constantly. Only when the women constantly say contradictory bullshit or when women act solipsistically and pretend their personal experiences represent realtiy. The woman on the couch is late to the show. So she ends up on the couch. She's not being interrogated or anything. The only way you end up not on the couch is if you're famous like Asian Doll (except she was being disrespectful to the rules by interrupting and got kicked out) 3: It probably is too many people on a podcast. But that's why they say 1 person speaks at a time and only the hosts can interrupt if the show is going in circles. 4: The women on the show get to speak their point of mind but they constantly say things that are objectively stupid. Like claiming women like soft feminine men who are emotionally available. Okay. Women that are outliers think there's a significant amount of men that can be successful being that way because women are mostly passive. But most men that are that way have an extremely difficult time reproducing. Women will keep insisting that their objective perception of reality is fact until the women around the table are polled and it is always revealed that the woman that's speaking is just being solipsistic. The women are allowed to roast anyone, but not disrespect the rules of the show. They're even allowed to be disrespectful to the hosts, but when they do it's always over a disagreement, and not because what the host is saying is objectively false or outright stupid. As far as interrupting goes, I used to think Myron would only let guests like Rollo Tomassi or Coach Greg or someone like that interrupt but in reality they let women on the show interrupt if they are regulars that don't harm the quality of the show. In fact, they clearly don't like ANY one interrupting but will give regulars, even regulars who disagree more leeway. Most people interrupt and say stupid things or derail the conversation. 5: 7:50 only about 40 percent of men have ever reproduced. 80 percent of women ever have reproduced. So yes, men must live in a reality based world where their feelings are secondary while women get to live in a feelings based world where they don't suffer immediate consequences for doing things that do not provide value to society or harms her value. That's why so many women will argue by saying "I feel like" rather than providing facts. There are numerous clips of women on the show claiming facts aren't real. Society isn't really built FOR men. It's built for women, men are just the bureaucracy of a society that's owned and dictated by women. Men are the executives and low level employees, women are the shareholders. 9:40 Neither sex would have inherent value as 'people' if men didn't intrinsically place value on any woman. 9:10 Hypergamy is oppressive towards men because it forces men to compete within patriarchy. If men didn't have to compete you could be a loser that does drugs all day and plays video games, has no money saved up, and have a viable shot at reproducing. The privilege of not having to compete in a dangerous world in order to have a chance at finding an equal is invisible to those who have it."
@a.j16992 жыл бұрын
@@ikilledthemoon where's ur comment I wanna read it
@tigerofficial4462 жыл бұрын
Just a triggered lady and her simp bestfriend whining over other peoples opinion😂 not tryna hate or nothing, but damn let people speak there mind if they want to
@meepmeep33082 жыл бұрын
"Women want attention, men want sex" oh yes because sex isn't attention 👩🏾🦲🔨
@lecherouslibrarian99242 жыл бұрын
My parents definitely made me think that cishet sex is just women paying attention to men. 💅
@kidCashOnline2 жыл бұрын
Completely missed the point
@dylantoney69712 жыл бұрын
@@kidCashOnline hol up do you AGREE with these egotistical idiots LOL
@Nickelberkelium2 жыл бұрын
Both of his statements are stereotypical.
@aiaikawa40122 жыл бұрын
"attention is to women what sex is to men" No im pretty sure sex is to women what sex is to men 😭 like yea there are many ways in which we are different, which can be societal or biological, but we're not THAT different. These ppl always make it sound like men and women are two whole different animals. Like no 🤨
@ectoplastiic2 жыл бұрын
*"women can rely on their looks and don't have to try and compete"* like the burden to live up to the standard of aesthetics for women isn't also something women literally have to work for. Women don't just come out the womb with a contour, bbl, and false lashes. I'm sorry like look at the women he invites on his show!? They're all gorgeous and it's all through them spending MONEY, and tons of time(purchasing their makeup, skincare products, clothes and the time to actually get ready doing their hair and makeup before that podcast but also the countless hours spent over their lives learning to do it skillfully). He doesn't have anyone on his show that is "naturally" that polished looking (like I bet they're all still pretty without makeup, but i doubt him and his viewers would say the same). ALSO it's not like these women living up to beauty standards on his show are off the hook for misogynistic treatment lmaoooo. Everything about this is such a joke.
@chazberri43572 жыл бұрын
Exactly this! The consequences of being a conventionally unattractive woman are far steeper than being a conventionally unattractive man. Men get to be ugly. Women do not.
@Kayla_P992 жыл бұрын
What are you willing to bet he doesn't realize that they're wearing makeup/ how much they're wearing?
@gracefulslumber84412 жыл бұрын
@@Kayla_P99 Or he'd be like "no you guys choose to wear that" 💀
@leafyishereisdumbnameakath42592 жыл бұрын
@@gracefulslumber8441 so it isn't a choice? When a man works out, is that a choice? I bring that up because feminists often make fun of men going to the gym. Not all women obviously. Because tons of women of all shapes use he gym. Look I'm not discrediting womens' experiences at all. I'm just asking questions. The "women don't get to be ugly" was really sad. Honestly I feel so bad for y'all. But to be fair women have makeup. And ugly man has nothing except maybe facial hair and that's a big maybe. I'm not making a comparison that men suffer more, that's pointless and stupid. I just want to say I see tons of women with no makeup and that's makes me happy. You're beautiful for what it's worth. I understand where these toxic beauty standards come from for women and they're there. Noone should expect the impossible. And for men also. But I'm talking about women rn. I also have one question though? I wear jacket and pants and shirt. I've seen women dress like this too. I've gotten dirty looks from women for having my chest exposed slightly due to a lack of a second button. I dress modestly and like a normal person. I don't even wear sweatpants anymore although those are normal too. Yoga pants too. I guess. So why are so many women dresses with bellybutton exposed, or a long jacket and invisible short shorts? The guy equivalent is sleeveless tees or being shirtless. And of course any of the following women things I listed. Also styled dyed hair. Is this men's fault too? Men fashion designers not making normal clothes for women? Because I see tons of regular women. They don't catch my eye as much (not in a sxul way just observing) but that can't be it. It can't be for male attention you make it very clear it's for yourselves. Idk what I'm trying to say I guess women just have a lot more to express themselves with. Idk I'm not trying to make anyone feel bad and I love all of you I'm sorry if I offended anyone I just wanted to be honest. Also if you know any other attention seeking men clothes I failed to list then sorry
@leafyishereisdumbnameakath42592 жыл бұрын
@@Kayla_P99 I wish you didn't have to wear makeup. Women are normal people and shouldn't have to. Btw to clarify my earlier comment, if you wear something out of the ordinary it's for attention. It's so someone will notice or it's something "that expresses you". We're all the same noone is special. We are all taught this time and time again. In the real world. So if you think what I said about the clothes is sexist, I hold the same standard for men and women. Of course religious wear is exempt from this. This is my opinion, if it makes you happy then you do you. I doubt women haven't been made fun of either during school. I also might be one of the most insecure people ever I'm realizing as I get older so maybe that's me. As I said I'm not shaming any of you for something you can't control, I'm just being honest in how I judge people. Spaghetti straps for women is even ok now but exposed shoulders for men isn't. In my book. If you think I'm a bad person for this that's fair and I completely understand where you're coming from. I don't want to ruin anyone's day the most important thing is that you're happy. And I hope you all are. If you hate me I completely get it but I won't lie. Not all men are like this. Just me
@patricksinger3572 жыл бұрын
It's a little depressing how many defenders these guys have, even just in this comments section. Their "facts" sound like they fell asleep about halfway through one meeting of an evolution of human behavior class I took 15 years ago. I *would* be interested to see their sources; do they post bibliographies in the descriptions of their podcasts? :p
@thrilla722 жыл бұрын
Yep, they have linktree under all their videos. You can go click on a video and look.
@CamishaLove2 жыл бұрын
No. It's just that Myron has a lot of asstistics - pulls a lot of his statistics out of his ass. 🙄
@andrewkoster65062 жыл бұрын
their sources are their aggrieved sense of privilege
@thrilla722 жыл бұрын
@@andrewkoster6506 Check their linktree. What you interpret from those studies is debatable but they at least have some evidence to support what they are saying.
@Rose-xe4ct2 жыл бұрын
@@thrilla72 So you agree? They draw fale conclusions from the studies and their interpretation is questionable, yet you still agree with them? How can someone be so unintelligent. I’m surprised you have enough braincells to remember how to breathe!
@brad14262 жыл бұрын
A lot of these types of dudes pretty much describe issues that arise from late stage capitalism/depression/low self esteem/etc, but then when it's time to come to a conclusion on exactly why this problem exists, they go "It's the women and feminists! They've done this to ME!"
@SuperNuclearUnicorn2 жыл бұрын
I've realised that, generally speaking, unintelligent people try and find simple reasons for why their lives/the world sucks. It's scary to realise that the world is complex and random and that you're entirely unimportant so instead people pick a certain group and say that everything sucks because of that group. Just look at conspiracy theorists blaming Jews or "the deep state" and saying they control the world, or these guys acting like their life sucks not due to major societal problems but because women won't suck their weewee. It's almost like a messed up form of escapism where they can ignore the big scary world or their personal failures and blame something else
@monstercameron2 жыл бұрын
This video and comment section is filled with disengenuous people. If you've ever watched their content they tell men to be their best selves. Get in shapre, get your money on point etc. Then when that is complete start dating. The red pill is not about pity. It's about understanding the mechanics and playing the game with the right tools. Whenever they talk about feminism its to point to the fact that it has given women the freedom and the power, but also the responsibilities that go along with it and there is a negative side to unlimited female sexuality. Unlimited female sexuality leads to polygamy and females would rather share a top dude/high value male/alpha. The perfect example is groupies for rockstars and famous people.
@tamialeslie71872 жыл бұрын
People who how aren’t lifeless incels don’t watch them lmao
@monstercameron2 жыл бұрын
@@tamialeslie7187 how can you judge something you don't know? make it make sense
@destroyerofsimps65742 жыл бұрын
@@tamialeslie7187 you are obviously ignorant and it shows by your comment. Fresh and fit are all about self improvement and the opposite of incels. They work to help men be the opposite of incels. Maybe you shouldn’t comment on things you know nothing about.
@SpLishYSplasH5 Жыл бұрын
My little sister is in 7th grade and she says that almost every boy in her grade watches Andrew tate, calls themselves alpha males, and watches this type of stuff and they believe it. It’s genuinely concerning how many super young kids are falling down this rabbit hole
@JujubaApplesauce Жыл бұрын
dude that's horrible... i feel really sorry for your sister for being surrounded by these kids, but also sorry for them... this is totally messed up
@analuizadefigueiredosouza7851 Жыл бұрын
KZbin shouldn't allow kids as viewers, parents/adults should supervise how their children use digital plataforms.
@smithsunleashed Жыл бұрын
Tf seriously? Wtf is wrong with the parents? They should monitor what their kids watch
@chapablo10 ай бұрын
There are way too many toxic male podcasts selling impressionable young boys on the idea of the dominant alpha male. Then they wonder why they grow up and women are repelled by them.
@NylaTheWolf9 ай бұрын
That's heartbreaking...
@FrizzKid05 Жыл бұрын
Myron is exactly the type of dude, who bullied and berated other boys in school for expressing their feelings and then turn around and pretend women are the ones who don't want men to express themselves.
@alrune8 Жыл бұрын
The whole "promiscuity" thing has always felt weird to me. How are men supposed to be promiscuous when women are supposed to remain virgins?
@A-RedHerring Жыл бұрын
Men and women are not the same.
@alrune8 Жыл бұрын
@@A-RedHerring Doesn't matter: in practicality, not in theory, how are men supposed to have as much sex as is possible if women are supposed to never have sex at all?
@ARTDEVGRU247 Жыл бұрын
Exactly lol
@dominikjunior1998 Жыл бұрын
Only top guys are promiscuous. Coz they have options. Like kings.
@alrune8 Жыл бұрын
@@dominikjunior1998 Of course but that still doesn't answer the question.
@TenderNoodle2 жыл бұрын
Gotta love how he says all women can fall back on their looks and get married to a man, as if that’s an option that all women COULD do, let alone want to. What about women who don’t fit the beauty standard in a way that they can’t change? Or queer women who would be incredibly unhappy with a male partner, or any partner at all? Even if his logic made sense it still doesn’t work for a large percentage of women.
@phosphenevision2 жыл бұрын
Also men could literally as well? Men can marry for money... there are rich women out there, there are rich gay men as well. They act like it's impossible for men to take advantage of their looks. It's not lol they just don't wanna do it because they know it's a shit deal
@phosphenevision2 жыл бұрын
@@the-anti-theist my mom always made more than my dad and they had a great relationship, stfu
@blakelopez63092 жыл бұрын
@@the-anti-theist That's a shit take. As long as someone has a job it's all good tbh. It's very hard for people to survive without both partners working and if one makes less that shouldn't matter. I don't care if my future bf/gf/ partner makes less than me. Although considering I work retail that's hard to do since my pay is already pretty awful but I'll still love them as long as they're kind and love cats :)
@esobelisk31102 жыл бұрын
@@the-anti-theist you say it’s an exception to the rule, but you haven’t actually demonstrated that there’s a rule in the first place.
@t_ylr2 жыл бұрын
@@phosphenevision Right men relying on their looks is a thing. Every guy has a friend who doesn't have a lot going for them, but they still do really well with women because they're handsome lol.
@christmastiger2 жыл бұрын
It's weird that guys like this say "Women get everything based on their looks and have to do nothing to get laid" and then will also complain "The top 20% of attractive men get everything based on their looks and have to do nothing to get laid" Red pill mentality is so flawed.
@thrilla722 жыл бұрын
The top 20% are the tall, rich, successful and charismatic men. 3 of those attributes require a ton of work.
@christmastiger2 жыл бұрын
@@thrilla72 sorry can you explain what you mean by that, I could read what you said several different ways
@thrilla722 жыл бұрын
@@christmastiger The top 20% do not get everything because of their looks. Those men have to put in work to be in the top 20%.
@kiralonely2 жыл бұрын
Basically it shortens to "Other people are treated nicely because they don't have shitty personalities, therefore, it must be THEIR fault for setting too high of an expectation of basic human decency."
@thrilla722 жыл бұрын
@@christmastiger To further expand, being successful career wise takes at least 10 years of diligent work (counting education, training and working your way up). Charisma is not natural for the vast majority. You have to figure out how best to communicate with different types of people. Even the looks, we are assuming that man has an athletic body which requires diet and exercise.
@ryancombs10642 жыл бұрын
Them saying that women rely on their looks is obviously not true for everyone, but even if you model, do sex work, are an influencer, are an escort, or do other things using your beauty and body, that’s a lot of work! There is so much that goes into that work, it’s a job dude!
@alien_from_andromeda2 жыл бұрын
a lot of important men in the world give LOTS of money to those jobs too
@hotdogwater90602 жыл бұрын
when people say “women rely on their looks” i’m like GEE I WONDER WHY
@user-gn4pk1qd2l2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, and they never want to talk about the psychological impact of being a woman who gets no attention for those aspects along with the psychological impact of being a woman who ONLY gets attention for those aspects. The truth is, none of us wants to exist in a world where we are that sexualized even if some learn to use it to their advantage. I wish more men wanted to hear from us rather than talk at us or about us
@maatonne Жыл бұрын
@@user-gn4pk1qd2l Why should they?
@djotchuiangela99555 ай бұрын
@@maatonne fresh and fit aboned what are you doing here go back to your incel please
@daddykyoraku81032 жыл бұрын
I was not expecting to see so many people defending the podcast. This comment section is crazy
@jessp82382 жыл бұрын
@@ikilledthemoon Please, just go to therapy.
@kuurakarppi77782 жыл бұрын
@やった-アリアナ Honestly don't bother with this dude, he's actually delusional and can't be rationalized with. He also has said women don't have value without men and some women are only good for sex. So really the bottom of the barrel kind of dude.
@windy20752 жыл бұрын
"Guys have it so hard :( we have to be all these unattainable stereotypes that we are reinforcing and pushing onto men on our own podcast :(((( anyways, females should be seen not heard and my fragile ego will shatter into a billion snowflake fractals if a woman wants to work or, God forbid, earns more than me"
@kuurakarppi77782 жыл бұрын
Hit the nail on the head! And also let's not forget that those standards were also created by men because women didn't really have any say in, well, basically anything. But clearly women are to blame! 🤪
@i10i602 жыл бұрын
Not to mention that FEMINISM is the movement that advocates for breaking down these stupid sexist standards against men. The redpuke gama males want to continue these useless baseless social norms that treat men like shit. Like how can they not understand this??
@views-kb6sv2 жыл бұрын
@@kuurakarppi7778 Yes, you do. Most women want to date muscular and tall men.
@i10i602 жыл бұрын
@@views-kb6sv No most women do not want that. Srry
@views-kb6sv2 жыл бұрын
@@i10i60 stats say differentl
@Molly.Molly.2 жыл бұрын
I'll never understand the whole "It's OK if a man is permiscious but not a women" If a men are having sex with a lot of woman those women have now all had sex with him, it goes both ways. So unless you want men to only be having sex with other men (so that women stay "pure") the argument doesn't work
@deasyastarr2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. So if all women wanted to keep this so called value by being completely obstinate before marriage or something, who would these men be being promiscuous with??? Only other option would be each other or to do illegal activities.
@inthewoodssomewhere64442 жыл бұрын
Also as someone who is a woman waiting to have sex so called “alpha” men don’t enjoy that about me either???? They will absolutely judge me for it but are also still condensending towards women who do have sex like we all know it’s not about the women it is definitely just about controlling women
@maliktp132 жыл бұрын
It isn't good either way.
@bananabrain29962 жыл бұрын
@@maliktp13 in your opinion. It's not an objective thing, aslong as everyone is consenting, informed adults no one is being hurt
@payneszn2 жыл бұрын
It's basically this. Women can have sex easily just by walking in to a store or anywhere and say "who wants sex?" And I guarantee men will come running. Now let's flip it if a random average dude did that noone would even look his way because sex is very hard for men to get. Therefore if a man is having a lot of sex he EARNED it. Women don't get to play the game (sex) on easy mode and get the hard mode benefits (not being called a hoe) but a man whose had to play the game on hard mode (make money, get in shape, be confident,) all these other things just to play the game and if he wins and get a lot of sex he gets rewarded not shamed. That's the difference. That's why he said privilege is invisible to those who have it
@youngrootv2 жыл бұрын
Ahhhh this collab is huge! Proud of you Gabi!!! Side note these guys make me feel embarrassed to be a guy 😅
@Mica_Macchiato2 жыл бұрын
Thank God there are normal people out there, I forget that sometimes 😅
@quiznos8172 жыл бұрын
This dude we don’t claim him, he is pandering to women for no reason. Facts are facts dissect the argument not just say you are embarrass to be a guy
@moosic2i2 жыл бұрын
Why??
@dimmak-qy8rq2 жыл бұрын
These two lack comprehensive and critical thinking skills. One with glasses is feminine
@esobelisk31102 жыл бұрын
@@dimmak-qy8rq lol ok
@djtheturtle13992 жыл бұрын
The clip where he's calling out that one woman for being "disrespectful" is so hypocritical and is exactly how people with conservative views always argue/debate. He says the most insanely misogynistic things about women but since he doesn't seem angry when he says it his fanbase will call him a genius for spewing what they want to hear but if a woman actually calls him out for the rhetoric he pushes she's a angry man hating feminist who can't see reality. Edit: I keep doing these essays literally seconds before the youtuber says the same thing lmao
@vortexlight83872 жыл бұрын
Your comment is soo misandristic, just because he puts out the reality between men and women, you seem intimidated. Dnt be insecure because hes a strong independent man.
@TenderNoodle2 жыл бұрын
Also notice how heated he gets when the woman said his feelings were hurt by what she said. He immediately feels the need to make it seem like she basically slapped him in the face or something, instead of admitting he was just hurt by her calling him bro.
@djtheturtle13992 жыл бұрын
@@vortexlight8387 do you know what misandry means?
@vortexlight83872 жыл бұрын
@@djtheturtle1399 do you know what misogyny means?
@vortexlight83872 жыл бұрын
@@TenderNoodle no its not "hurt" its just putting boundaries on people who are condescending.
@Karrott2cents2 жыл бұрын
It's still surprises me that these men are in their 30s and still hitting the same high school/secondary school playground ideals.
@watermelon..2 жыл бұрын
omfg YES. this literally reminded me of those boys in year 7 who are insecure because they haven’t gone through puberty yet so they cope by watching shitty podcast alphas or whatever. idk i always avoided them 💀
@ravyn_t89072 жыл бұрын
Myron Gaines, was actually on a sugar baby website I used to be on, and offered to “pay me for my time” 🙄🙄🙄… the alpha male has to pay for someones time… ugh… I’m so glad I never agreed to go out with him even if it was for money… anyways 😗✌️
@oo47582 жыл бұрын
Don't be shy, name drop the site 👀 mama needs a new purse lol
@queenofhearts75032 жыл бұрын
That’s called prositution
@miscdruid19942 жыл бұрын
This is so funny! His seeking profile just got leaked. Such a loser. 🌈✌️
@kuurakarppi77782 жыл бұрын
But honestly if you think about it, don't those dudes essentially pay for their hypothetical wife. I mean, that is pretty much what it comes to by their rhetoric.
@Hippidippimahm2 жыл бұрын
@@queenofhearts7503 captain obvious saves the day again
@HenyaStudent2 жыл бұрын
Watching these kinds of people speak ("alpha males") is so wild as someone who's an asexual Also "women rely on their looks" what looks lmao I'm ugly, or at least a plain jane Generalisations are so weird
@peachy_lili2 жыл бұрын
if you tried to tell these men that a "plain Jane" is cute to some people (hi! lol) I am pretty sure their heads would actually just pop right off their shoulders.
@HenyaStudent2 жыл бұрын
@@peachy_lili plain janes for the win tbh
@SuperNuclearUnicorn2 жыл бұрын
In the minds of these guys it almost feels they forget that women usually aren't gold digging instagram models. They probably hardly ever interact with normal women irl so they just assume they're all hyper promiscuous, super skinny with big fake tits and hate men. Kinda similar, a former friend who has basically never interacted with any kind of Ls, Gs, Bs, Ts or Qs and thinks they're all super flamboyant and all want to rape straight guys or assault women in bathrooms. (can you tell why he's a former friend?) The best cure for hate is exposure to those groups, but people like that build their own little world and never meet anyone who isn't a straight white man
@blakelopez63092 жыл бұрын
Tbh yeah, they all assume everyone thinks the same and lives in the same stone age mindset as they do. I say that as someone who is bi and nonbinary but also my main interest is finding a partner that loves cats, plushies, fashion, and art as much as I do :D The world isn't as black and white as those guys see it and I'd feel bad for them if they weren't spreading such awful messages on their podcast.
@thrilla722 жыл бұрын
So you are asexual? Is that not an outlier and an exception? If the majority of people were asexual, what would happen to the population?
@Skyscraper1252 жыл бұрын
I'm a 26 year old man, and I grew up with Lord of the Rings and Aragorn as an absolutely perfect example of masculinity in how it ought to be portrayed in *all* men. Someone brave, noble, and protective but not overbearing. Someone reserved but able and ready to be assertive, someone who is comfortable to cry over loss and sing poetry but also be incredibly aggressive in a fight. . Women can be like Aragorn too, don't get me wrong, just like Aragorn showed some more feminine traits as well. I more mean that the highlight of traits that make men "proper men" are all too often confused with a very 60s-70s mentality of masculinity that was mostly popularized by the vietnam war military given how much it messed up the G.I.'s heads. WW2 veterans cry when recalling WW2 events...I've never seen any Vietnam Vet cry, and it's a damn shame they got it in their head that it's wrong to show any emotion like that. Aragorn cried when Boromir died, and I find it very hard to believe he would never talk about Boromir again without some form of somberness. Aragorn didn't scoff at Eowyn or demean her when she took a sword with her to camp - he was just concerned because a good man is protective. Aragorn didn't belittle Eowyn or agree with her when she said that she feared a cage (That is, being the fair maiden that is helpless until death), he begged to differ and built her up as who she was, a daughter of kings. . his masculinity was not threatened by the idea of a woman doing something masculine near him. . nor should anyone's masculinity or femininity feel threatened when anyone of any gender say or do anything masculine or feminine.
@jessigirlrae16882 жыл бұрын
So funny, my fiance is a huge Lord of the Rings fan. We are even having a Lord of the rings wedding.... and he is literally the most masculine and kind person I've ever met? Correlation equals causation? Lets just say Yes for fun.
@Skyscraper1252 жыл бұрын
@@jessigirlrae1688 Haha, yeah... I posed this question to my fiance as well if there is a female character in a movie or show that perfectly portrays a woman in the same fashion (the best woman said woman can be type deal). I wouldn't claim to have an opinion on the matter of course, but it'd be nice to see a female character in a movie/show that is as universally recognizable to women as showing positive female traits.
@IHeartsDrummers9 ай бұрын
Very well-said.
@FlorSilvestre12 Жыл бұрын
It drives me insane how these types of guys promote viewing women as sex objects and then turn around and complain that women have it easy because we can get by on our looks. It's like lighting someone on fire in your living room and then blaming them for your house burning down.
@blakelopez63092 жыл бұрын
This is why I prefer men who are feminine and totally comfortable with that aspect of themselves. Men who proclaim that they are alphas and women are locks are the type of men that complain about their wife on facebook or end up as incels.
@peachy_lili2 жыл бұрын
it all comes down to insecurity and bluster. even if the women on this podcast aren't sharp enough or empathetic enough to recognize when a dude is just being insecure and weak, on a deep down level I think most of them feel it. that's why this is so strange to watch, they don't seem to understand why it's wrong but most of them FEEL that it is. they're just coming from the same heteronormative background that keeps them from having the understanding or language to clap back at these dumbshits
@Chloelol2 жыл бұрын
@@vortexlight8387 🤡
@peachy_lili2 жыл бұрын
@@vortexlight8387 if you think I would complain that my partner didn't defend me if a robber broke into my house you're delusional. it's not his job to protect me, it's our job to protect one another as human beings. you're just backwards
@oluglyrass2 жыл бұрын
@@vortexlight8387 the saddest thing is that “men are oppressed” narrative is actually somewhat valid if you include queer men in the conversation but just like you, most “””””alpha men”””” are queerphobic and other/berate them for being outside the gender roles that most straight men complain abt
@vortexlight83872 жыл бұрын
@@peachy_lili lool u wud leave him the next day 🤣 u live in delusion.
@samanthazeiger15532 жыл бұрын
YES. Talking about "the cons totally outweighs the pros" is something I'm always trying to explain. You are so good at articulating the argument I love it
@SuperNuclearUnicorn2 жыл бұрын
Honestly you can take all the pros of "you can get by on your looks" or "you can make money from being hot" and it's instantly outweighed by the cons of periods and pregnancy, let alone sexual harassment. I have a friend who is pregnant and talking to her I'm just constantly thinking "damn, I'm glad I'm a dude because this shit sounds scary"
@blakelopez63092 жыл бұрын
@@SuperNuclearUnicorn Honestly yeah I feel the same and I'm non-binary (afab) I hate the whole idea that I could get pregnant since it makes me uncomfortable and I don't want kids. I've had close calls after hookups and honestly I hate having a uterus. Sadly I'm not sure I can ask to be sterilized at my age since I haven't had kids (which is dumb)
@gracefulslumber84412 жыл бұрын
@@blakelopez6309 I wanted to be sterilized, too, but so many doctors are like, wHaT iF yOu ChAnGe YoUr MiNd???1!? Like what does it matter if I change my mind? I know I won't, but it was my decision and it is my decision. The whole thing is so stupid. Best of luck if you decide to pursue trying to get a doctor to do that for you.
@SallyMankus1302 жыл бұрын
While men may *tend* to have less cons women (white men at least...because for instance, if you want to play the comparison game there's more cons for indigenous men than white women), I would say the pros of being a human being in general -- man or woman -- greatly outweigh the cons. Granted, my view comes from being a life long practitioner of taoism, but it's also the closest thing to an objective truth in my mind. Also, her example "I might die if I walk alone home at night" kind of flatlines, considering that men are statistically more likely to be mugged/murdered by another man on the street.
@journeysilvers98382 жыл бұрын
@@gracefulslumber8441 I remember watching a Ted Talk of a woman talking about her experience trying to become sterile. At one point the doctors actually asked her "Your current partner may be okay with this, but what if you change partners in the future and that partner wants a kid?" As if the dudes wants are more important than hers. Like wtf? If someone wanted kids and I can't have kids, then we obviously wouldn't pursue a long term relationship? Why are women expected to cater their body to men?
@sierra38302 жыл бұрын
I saw someone on tiktok recently who said something that I think is really important, and the biggest issue with podcasts like this. It's that these people aren't actually talking about men's problems, they're just complaining about women. No one is saying men have no problems, because the way society treats men is also extremely bad and needs to change. But podcasts like this don't adress the actual issues. I really don't get how some people seem to forget the meaning of equality. Whether it's women, poc, and/or the lgbtq community, people always act like it has to be one or the other. But it doesn't, we're all people, and all we want is to be able to live our lives like anyone else. that got pretty long, so thanks to anyone who actually read it lol. Also I hope this made sense and got my point across? Im not always very good at that lol
@kuurakarppi77782 жыл бұрын
"It's that these people aren't actually talking about men's problems, they're just complaining about women." 📢📢📢📢📢 There's (at least) one dude here that has been commenting "mEn fACe VioLenCe tOo" when women are talking about themselves, classic right? And naturally this dude is here only arguing who has it worse. Not once have seen or heard any of these guys talk about WHY that violence is happening to men. And then when they are called out on it, they play the victim.
@tfkdandsvkc Жыл бұрын
Yes we'll said I totally agree they refuse to address the actual problems and instead turn the podcast into hateful tirades against women
@GemAndMoth2 жыл бұрын
It really sounds like he believes the soul purpose for a woman is to attract men (why else would a woman have an Instagram aka cheating?) and somehow in his messed up mind that’s enough to lead a fulfilling life.
@hypernovaneedsachillpill70882 жыл бұрын
Objectification is so much fun to go through, women really do love a guy who will treat them like a sex toy
@randomchick9012 жыл бұрын
I feel like a lot of this mindset is based on being stuck in the idea that things can only be the way they are. It lacks any imagination about what things /could/ be like and just accepts the status quo and tries to game the system
@metadata57602 жыл бұрын
He's arguing that a lot of the things we have are from a biological standpoint and not from a social standpoint, and therefore cannot be overwritten. That's the fundamental difference. Lefties usually think everything is taught, while people like us believe everyone has a firmware which cannot be overwritten without causing damage.
@randomchick9012 жыл бұрын
@@metadata5760 there’s not a single thing said on that podcast that was a “biological fact”
@metadata57602 жыл бұрын
@@randomchick901 I didn't watch the video, but those are only small sections. Their podcasts are usually 2-3 hours long.
@themysteriouswarlock2 жыл бұрын
@@metadata5760 then why are you even commenting if you didn’t even watch the video? How foolish
@tfkdandsvkc Жыл бұрын
@@randomchick901it shows how dumb they are and how they can't expand their reasoning and thinking it's pathetic
@breaunnalj28292 жыл бұрын
"Men can't just rely on their looks" okay but explain male models tho
@504gucci42 жыл бұрын
Really ? Explain over 1000 of female strip clubs, and not that many male strip clubs. Explain majority of only fan models are women. Hooters,twin peaks & other restaurants do you see men in muscle shirts and shorts ? No? Exactly
@breaunnalj28292 жыл бұрын
@@504gucci4 sorry, I just now saw this comment. I'm not saying that women don't rely on their looks, or even that they do/don't rely on them more. I'm just saying that some men can as well. Or really, anyone that's good looking can. Tbh I don't really understand the point of your comment since I didn't claim or argue that women don't rely on their looks.
@504gucci42 жыл бұрын
@@breaunnalj2829 some men vs majority of women , ok
@breaunnalj28292 жыл бұрын
@@504gucci4 okay? The statement still stands. I don't understand what the issue is. I'm not even saying your wrong?
@roxassora27062 жыл бұрын
@@504gucci4 You misspelled "some". "Some men vs. Some women"
@jojol.26302 жыл бұрын
Ugh. Even if I didn’t have the option of dating women, I’d rather be single than with a man who thinks like Fresh n Fit do
@shamelessdab2.0882 жыл бұрын
Don't worry most 1st world women will be single because you think men wanting you to be feminine is some sort of attack on u
@faultytv21802 жыл бұрын
@@shamelessdab2.088 This comment is so irrelevant to what the OP said. What are you even talking about, dude?
@shamelessdab2.0882 жыл бұрын
@@faultytv2180 ask someone who has the patience to teach u
@livvy3w42 жыл бұрын
@@shamelessdab2.088 I think someone touched a nerve lmao
@annbhatt49492 жыл бұрын
@@shamelessdab2.088 lmfao exhibit A of someone who doesn’t get the point per usual
@ariels.hamilton90332 жыл бұрын
The self proclaimed alphas cling onto that key metaphor so hard (because they can't justify their views without comparing women to literal objects)
@TrueImmortality Жыл бұрын
Woman: Has an opinion These freaking guys: dOn'T bE dIsReSpeCtFuL 😆😆😆
@sadesbieman89992 жыл бұрын
Men like these always wanna blame women for their "problems" instead of recognizing that the Patriarchy is what is really to blame. Men created the standards that make them feel inadequate, don't blame the women who may or may not be influenced by the world that men like these guys created. I was talking about this subject to my girlfriend the other day. I do feel bad for men who are draining their bank accounts because the patriarchy tells them they always have to pay for a woman's dinner, but you have to blame the social convention that men created and not the women who live in it. Most women will make an attempt to pay but because the man is overly insistent that they will, there's really no point in fighting back so you might as well take the free food. This system does hurt women too because whether the guy paying expects anything in return or not, the girl might feel like they do have to make the investment worthwhile even though they offered to pay. This is just one example of a 'mans issue' that is often blamed on a woman instead of the real perpetrated that is the patriarchy. Even if a woman expects a man to pay for her dinner, it's only because the male created social culture she lives in told her the man should pay (also the social culture probably has deep roots in a time where men who ran the world wouldn't let women have money of their own. This is a man created problem, so stop blaming women and actually fix the system that's weighing you down)
@brynna86192 жыл бұрын
Also some men don't take no for an answer with the physical side after dinner has been paid for.
@263492 жыл бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@i10i602 жыл бұрын
Yeah! Preach it from the roof tops!
@i10i602 жыл бұрын
@@ikilledthemoon I'm sorry you weren't able to discern this from my previous comment; but I was not referring to you, I was referring to the original comment.
@i10i602 жыл бұрын
@@ikilledthemoon Yeah and do you study evolutionary psychology? I do. And this-massive- over-simplification of the origin patriarchy you've presented is very telling. Patriarchy arises first and foremost from the fact that men are biologically stronger than women. In wild environments, often brawn is much more relevant than brain. So the men were able to subjugate and rape (extremely common) women. So for this reason, women would choose stronger males to mate with, who would protect them from weaker men (who could still easily over power the woman) as a form of mate guarding. This is again still too simplified to explain the complex evolution of patriarchy, its causes and the resulting feedback loop that have existed for centuries. Thanks for reading tho.
@TotosTales2 жыл бұрын
The lock analogy is also terrible because from a lock making standpoint it’s actually insanely impressive to create a lock that opens to multiple keys. Skeleton Keys are pretty standard and not impressive at all
@Jeremy-ql1or2 жыл бұрын
A lock that can be opened by multiple specific keys isn't hard to make. You just have a single tumbler. That way, only a small segment of the keys needs to be the same, then the rest of it can be different for other locks. Or you can have no tumblers and any long flat piece can unlock it, like those cheap bathroom door locks you can pick with a small screwdriver. You don't want to take those locks home to meet your parents.
@TotosTales2 жыл бұрын
@@Jeremy-ql1or very intent on maintaining a bad analogy. People are humans not inanimate objects
@CheeseHenderson Жыл бұрын
@@Jeremy-ql1or please, KZbin. Add a block button
@maatonne Жыл бұрын
@@TotosTales That's what an analogy is LMAO, if you compare humans to other humans it's not an analogy anymore...
@TotosTales Жыл бұрын
@@maatonne find better and more accurate objects then
@gehinkun2 жыл бұрын
Im amazed how these bros still dont get it. Yes, patriarchy is bad for men too. Yes, feminism addresses that too. The theoretical groundwork has already been done, my dudes.
@views-kb6sv2 жыл бұрын
How can there be a patriarchy when men have a disadvantage and women can be in positions of power?
@gehinkun2 жыл бұрын
@@views-kb6sv lol
@views-kb6sv2 жыл бұрын
@@gehinkun It's a serious question.
@cyberneticfish8086 Жыл бұрын
@@views-kb6sv because it forces men into behaving "manly", lest they be seen as feminine. Men are less likely to seek treatment for mental health issues, are more likely to successfully commit suicide, more likely to commit violent crime, etc because emotional vulnerability and seeking therapy/help is viewed as a feminine trait. Ever notice why most insults directed at men tend to be emasculating or feminizing (sissy, pansy, pussy, etc)? That's because under the patriarchy one of the worst things a man be is feminine.
@views-kb6sv Жыл бұрын
@@cyberneticfish8086 That just sounds like toxic masculinity, not patriarchy.
@nevs.38302 жыл бұрын
How can someone say that all men are keys and all women are locks.. aka: all men will sleep w anything that moves and all women are selective BUT THEN IN THE SAME BREATH he says that there are women out there who are shitty locks?? Meaning that there are women out there who aren't selective ??? You can't have it both ways. If you think all women are selective, you can't also say that some women are not. And also, men can be really selective too. The analogy just FALLS apart as soon as you apply actual facts to it. Fact is: people are people. Some are selective abt who they sleep w, and some aren't. That's a FACT. Men like this BLOW ME lmaoo
@ARTDEVGRU247 Жыл бұрын
They don't have the intellect to think that deeply, Nev.
@maxmayfire99582 жыл бұрын
“We don’t get the privilege of relying on our looks” oh boy wait til he hears about models 😅
@jaxsmolenbee46832 жыл бұрын
A pencil sharpener that sharpens every pencil is a good value pencil sharpener. A pencil that gets sharpened by every pencil sharpener is a sad low value tiny pencil.
@rachel_ellingson2 жыл бұрын
yes thank you! I was desperatly trying to think of an opposite example! all so stupid cause at the end of the day we are not inanimate objects created with only one soul purpose that determines our value
@lecherouslibrarian99242 жыл бұрын
I'm definitely stealing this and saying it to people.
@carlwheezer28082 жыл бұрын
the amount of men who think like this is terrifying tbh
@Amanda-j3yАй бұрын
Porn is making it worse. The subconscious is a very real thing
@bluebrrypie2 жыл бұрын
these misogynists ALWAYS forget lesbians, bi, pan women exist.. when they say ‘women like attention from men’ when i’m out here like no i would rather die than get a man’s attention lmao.
@watermelon..2 жыл бұрын
and women on the aro or ace spectrum
@c.a.r1691 Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, they probably would say that you're an exception, not the rule
@selenagomez25042 жыл бұрын
There men have no idea what intersectionality’s or nuance means at all, like the whole pros of objectification(as if that outweighs the cons) along with the talks about how “men are raised to do blah blah blah” like those aren’t two topics that are widely discussed in feminism, these men don’t actually care about tackling any sort of “men’s rights issue” and just want to cry and yell at women
@ThexDynastxQueen2 жыл бұрын
Having been in these circles, yes they really don't care to break out of the harmful dichotomy they know is hurting them so they're only upset at women/feminism for not being able to drag them out of a binary they won't let go of. Like bruh grow a spine already and actually fight gender roles not all wahmen for being able to get out the box a little bit or just go join the Amish, they have everything yall want.
@hayley582 жыл бұрын
my first time here but i subscribed so fast because gabi seems so fun, im excited to binge her old videos!!
@Happygirl13552 жыл бұрын
Same here. I love her already.
@user-jn4oe9sb5z Жыл бұрын
Fact based reality? Nah as a women I can simply chose to ignore facts like gravity, I am typing this from my ceiling right now
@maatonne Жыл бұрын
You must be really smart.
@Fuvidabo9 ай бұрын
lol
@djotchuiangela99555 ай бұрын
No those fact are based about " what they want to hear"
@EllisBrehme8 ай бұрын
I was once seeing a guy who was like, "Women get more privileges than men in some areas. For instance, I will never be invited on a yacht, but women can be. The only way I'm going to be invited on a yacht is if it's mine." And I was like, did you... not consider that maybe if a random woman is being invited on a yacht, maybe she's not being invited based on how cool of a person she is? It's not pretty privilege, it's objectification.
@Lena-xy8id2 жыл бұрын
It's so weird that men like that always are like "women can just do sex work and be super rich" but if that were true then they would do it
@metadata57602 жыл бұрын
A lot of women could make way more than their job in way less time. But they innately they know that prostitution or OnlyFans will decrease their value, and are afraid of the social consequences.
@iJustWannaBeNameless2 жыл бұрын
@@metadata5760 or they just don't like it lol
@metadata57602 жыл бұрын
@@iJustWannaBeNameless You think they like going to a 9 to 5? There are attractive women working as waitresses, working for way less than they could make on OF. Any attractive woman would do it if there were no social consequences.
@iJustWannaBeNameless2 жыл бұрын
@@metadata5760 i doubt everyone likes the same thing. sure the stigma sex work has stops some ppl from doing it, but ppl may not like it for not wanting to be open with their sexuality, for having bad body image, for not liking taking photos or videos, for wanting to avoid harassment etc.
@Vickynger2 жыл бұрын
@@iJustWannaBeNameless exactly. like, i dont wanna sleep with strangers for money. but then again, i also dont wanna work in retail. everybody has their preferences.
@randomtinypotatocried2 жыл бұрын
As someone who transitioned from being seen as a woman to a man in society (I'm a trans man), I definitely notice the world is a bit easier for me to advance in my career and I stop having to worry about walking around at night. It does suck not being able to get out of tickets anymore
@keeweebir2 жыл бұрын
Personally, as a trans guy who doesn’t pass, bc I’m out and openly trans, I’m just more afraid lol
@thrilla722 жыл бұрын
You are lucky then because growing up as a guy, the threat of violence is real and frequent. The statistics on street violence support this.
@thatoneperson81542 жыл бұрын
@@thrilla72 which gender is commiting this street violence?
@RmonK20002 жыл бұрын
@@thatoneperson8154 you shut him up 😂😂
@kuurakarppi77782 жыл бұрын
@That One Person 🤣😂👏👏 can't mental gymnastic his way out of that one haha!
@MsGabiCat2 жыл бұрын
i’m actually shocked that despite the crazy amount of commentary vids i’ve seen on this podcast, not ONE person has said that this guy sounds just like noel miller💀
Question: who do you pay more for their labor? the engineer who just graduated or the one with 15+ years in the field? humans get better at things with experience, because we aren't keys or locks or cars or whatever inanimate object people want to compare us to. I also just don't get the logic of discouraging women from having sex. They're shooting themselves in the foot because if all the women suddenly decided they were right, they'd only get laid once in a blue moon and the sex would be awful because she wouldn't have any experience! Then the shoe would be on the other foot because if a good key unlocks a lot of locks, then a bad key is the inverse: one that can only unlock maybe two max. Their analogy is inherently antagonistic, for one to be good the other has to suck but it takes two to tango (or suck) sooo...why do they want that to be reality? oh right, misogyny! :D why use logic, when you can base your entire world view off your feelings of inadequacy?
@stormfischerr2 жыл бұрын
unfortunately you forget that women are really just expected by these men to lay there and take it during sex. if anything, these guys will take like two minutes to “pleasure” them by pulverizing them w their fingers 🤦
@ARTDEVGRU247 Жыл бұрын
Well their whole idea is that the guy will teach the woman and even if she sucks in the beginning, like you said people get better with experience...she must get that experience with HER MAN, not 100s of one night stands
@treasuredwisp8 ай бұрын
They always try to act like they're being so logical, but their logic is completely subjective and arbitrary. Consistency and objectivity are important.
@wildheartzensoul13432 жыл бұрын
The level of insucurity that these men have absolutely blow my mind.. I mean do they realize how obvious it is to the rest of us?
@liseyboop2 жыл бұрын
a room full of pick mes with a narcissistic man is truly a terrifying experience edit* that being said being in a room with one powerful narcissistic man can also be a very terrifying experience.
@liseyboop2 жыл бұрын
i know it’s not all of them but like how do ALLL of those women let that conversation continue between the host and that girl?? if i was sitting there i would’ve interrupted so quickly and the fact that none of them did shows the internalized mysogny and it’s sad edit* also could be a lot of other things to play why each individual didn’t speak out so i don’t wanna take away from the nuance of that
@liseyboop11 ай бұрын
@@eidunooo that makes a lot more sense
@lisa.2222 жыл бұрын
it's funny how he speaks about women generally as if there's not women who are diffrent from one another. some women like women, some women are straight, some women are not looking to be with anyone and so on.
@souless-sneaks33812 жыл бұрын
Deadass💀
@ARTDEVGRU247 Жыл бұрын
They're idiots, Lisa. Sorry you have to suffer through this.
@Roman_Adrian2 жыл бұрын
5:59 - When a weak person has no good argument or answer for a VERY good question; they will pick away at the way it was asked or who asked it, instead. It's a form of retreat, through fallacy.
@roguestowl22802 жыл бұрын
Myron should speak for himself, some of us men can coast through life on our looks 😎 (not me, I’m joking)
@atravelerdoesstuff2 жыл бұрын
Collab of th century ladies and gents (and all else 💖) We are watching history in the making 😌 Ok but fr I'm freaking out holy frick!!!
@pearq97482 жыл бұрын
i feel bad for men. they’re getting bad representation 💀 these alpha males are the pure reason men are hated so to all the people who aren’t like this im giving you love
@stevesmith73392 жыл бұрын
The problem with the "silent majority of men" is that it is neither.
@stop--2 жыл бұрын
This wiped me out. Lol.
@nicholashlibka98892 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video. Even though I was NEVER this bad it was definitely a wake up for me. I can sometimes blame “feminism” for my problems in life and you showed me why I should just learn how to deal with myself.
@FinnA072 жыл бұрын
WoW, you really helped Jarvis get some subscribers, he now is passing the million crazy how this video pushed him!
@sporeperth90062 жыл бұрын
I stumbled upon this podcast late at night falling down the youtube rabbithole, and as a male i was so disgusted with what this "Alpha" was saying i had to turn it off. Much love to all from Australia!
@jeremyross9698 Жыл бұрын
Women totally have it so much easier easier than men though. Why, other than fear of walking alone at night, not being taken seriously in the fields and subjects they got PhDs and did extensive research in, being expected to want kids and being treated like they're monsters if they don't, being constantly devalued or ignored because they're "too emotional," being expected to look flawless all the time, being told it's their fault they got assaulted because they dressed a certain way, women totally have it so much easier than men.
@the.lesbian.weirdo Жыл бұрын
"if i ignore reality the world will be whatever i want it to be" properly one if not both of them
@tumahaji8350 Жыл бұрын
You almost got me ngl 😅
@HeshPapaje3 ай бұрын
I almost didn’t pick up on the sarcasm😭
@nobodyaltyt1032 жыл бұрын
I actually went down the pipeline of alt right incel culture when I was like 13 through 16 but once I turned 16 I saw the problem with what I was seeing and my ideology and I try my best to get people out of that mindset so it's great that people are making videos about stuff like this to spread awareness to this serious issue corrupting young boys
@rexqt5337 Жыл бұрын
When you hit 30 you will have this mindset again
@nobodyaltyt103 Жыл бұрын
@@rexqt5337 no I'm not going back to that because I'm not a fucking child anymore and I don't deny reality and hate women
@xXBarbDwireXx2 жыл бұрын
12:00 what Jarvis is talking about is called Durden syndrome, based off Tyler Durden's quote from fight club "We've [men] all been raised on television to believe that one day we'd all be millionaires, and movie gods, and rock stars, but we won't. We're slowly learning that fact. And we're very, very pissed off."
@bshaw81752 жыл бұрын
holy shit this young and up and coming commentary youtuber Gabi, Jarvis, Nickisnotgreen, Jordan, ethan online probably WAY more that im missing
@Lilyjem392 жыл бұрын
Jarvis has actually been around for a while now! He’s starting to gain traction especially in the past year but I’ve been watching his content for 3 years now :)
@SuperNuclearUnicorn2 жыл бұрын
@@Lilyjem39 yeah plus doesn't Jarvis have a shit ton of subs? He's at nearly 2 mil while Gabi is at 15k. He's definitely not some up and comer, he's made it
@bananawitchcraft2 жыл бұрын
Chris James is a riot
@bshaw81752 жыл бұрын
@@SuperNuclearUnicorn alright my bad
@gracefulslumber84412 жыл бұрын
Chadchad is a good one!
@jillianw62842 жыл бұрын
I think it's so cool that Jarvis did this collab! He is so down to earth and in touch. Quickly become one of my favs as are you Gabi!
@sterneprinzessin2 жыл бұрын
An "alpha" guy skipped on me because I called him dude (after he acted flakier than a snowflake). Same as the bro example...
@lecherouslibrarian99242 жыл бұрын
I think that men like to be over comfortable with /display ownership over women by calling them pet names and get upset when women do it back.
@davidnissim589 Жыл бұрын
I've had women call me "dude" or "bro" and I've never had a problem with it. I don't know why these guys lose their shit over something so small
@BurntMaple2 жыл бұрын
There was a video of him just getting absolutely shut down by someone. You should try to find it. He was literally speechless 💀
@TangentialTif2 жыл бұрын
I feel so bad for these women getting brain washed by this guy, especially that girl right next to him.
@blakelopez63092 жыл бұрын
You sound like maybe you lack understanding of women and people who aren't men. It's good to educate yourself on feminism since it helps you not be a massive prick to others and helps you not force toxic masculinity on yourself :)
@ARTDEVGRU247 Жыл бұрын
They're not following any of this bs. Lol.
@theinventiveidiot2 жыл бұрын
Idk who this Jarvis guy is, but he's lucky to collab with you! Definitely going to sub to his channel, he looks like an underrated creator
@why71892 жыл бұрын
I love how all the incels in the comments are mad at you for assuming things about these dudes in the podcasts, meanwhile their whole brand is built around assuming things about women. The lack of self awareness from these """""alpha males"""" is astounding.
@AccountabilityPill2 жыл бұрын
Their brand is based on the facts in the dating market. The problem with you 🤡 is that yall love to think what they are saying are their opinions when it's clearly not. It's literally facts backed by the stats you ladies provide to the dating market which you can do research on. Remember that saying that the world doesn't revolve around you. That applies here. Just because you've seen or dated a few people doesn't make you an expert on how women think or want especially if you're a women. That podcast is nothing more then truth at I'd purest form which is why we have 🤡 like yourself on here saying these dumb things following the same females who don't do anything to elevate your life which is why again you are on here lol. See how that works. You females need to stop complaining and start holding females like this responsible for messing it all up for you and the rest. But nah. Women gotta stay together because yall have it hard 🤣 eith the own issues yall caused yourselves. Accountability is knocking
@stormz7612 жыл бұрын
His views are based on studies. Not feelings
@stop--2 жыл бұрын
These little boys responding to you have made my day. 😂 They just can't stop talking about their "facts" and "studies", can they? Yet they never have any valid sources except for some crusty incel articles who *also* have no sources.
@AccountabilityPill2 жыл бұрын
@@stop-- are you slow or what. Everything said has a link tree on their video description. If you actually watch the show you'll know they mention this very key thing all the time. The studies and research are all there proving that people like you are simply just delusional and keep making excuses for not doing the one thing you should've done before commenting. RESEARCH
@jessigirlrae16882 жыл бұрын
@@stormz761 Alpha wolves were proven to be wrong. How embarrassing. And post these studies? Please tell me its not the SAME one about the TINDER study thats proven over and over to be incredibly circumstantial and does not relate to actual life.
@Moon__Bunny__2 жыл бұрын
this collab?! **chefs kiss** ♡
@OfDoom982 жыл бұрын
They really hired the sisterhood of the rotating talked over women, these guys are insufferable loll
@aradgouklani2239 Жыл бұрын
14:00 as somone who used to belive in this kind of shit (young boy here btw) and actually got his beliefs challenged BECAUSE of these kinds of videos i really appreciate that they exist
@victoriasouth17839 ай бұрын
I’m Italian and even in Italy there’s that fucking lock and key saying that I’ve heard since I was in middle school. If I have to hear about that fucking outdated and stupid metaphor I’m going to rip my hair out
@kariel31892 жыл бұрын
Them: OH MY GOD WE'RE SO ALPHA, WE'RE SO STRONG AND SO MANLY Also them: gets batshit when being called "bro" Kidding aside, this makes me feel sad of what deeply unchecked insecurities can do to a person, I joke it's pathetic but they should pick all of that money and just go to therapy honestly, it's depressing, but I guess "mental health" is for omegas so one can only hope
@rosegoldhiips2 жыл бұрын
Omg I subscribed to you a few weeks ago because I watched your video making fun of Gus Johnson's "apology" and I'm very happy to see you collabing with Jarvis! He's a cool guy and his dog is a very good boy 😊😊😊
@Cat-fe1fg2 жыл бұрын
It's so interesting to see them get so close to a point but then they do some gymnastics to flip away from that point and spout out some nonsense. Time to binge your channel now 💕🥰
@hm-fy5iz2 жыл бұрын
how do i get on one of these podcasts ? i just wanna be the woman reacting into the camera like i'm on the office.
@ashleypisarts2 жыл бұрын
JARVIS JOHNSON?? That’s so amazing Gabi!! I’m proud of ya!
@AirCarlos97 Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad Jarvis addressed the mic thing because being a beginner podcaster myself, I cannot fathom the set up for like 15 people on mics
@nopeunid6 ай бұрын
I love finding collabs with KZbinrs I'm subbed to. It's like finding secret bonus videos.
@jennyfffurrr2 жыл бұрын
AHHHHH Two of my faves! You always put out great videos.
@mckenafountain6664 Жыл бұрын
“Women rely on looks” ah yes, so male models, thirst traps, and male strippers don’t exist ig🤷♀
@-Tixz-8 ай бұрын
He sounds like he read books from 19th century where women were just a person of the house
@leannezezeski-sass2773 Жыл бұрын
They preach about how shallow women are but these guys are the most shallow people I’ve ever seen. It really lets me down and makes me hate people and wish a meteor would hit us lol He claims that being a player, having money, and being ripped are the most important qualities a man should have and women’s are being attractive and young when me and what I hope is most people who aren’t sociopaths would list those important qualities as personality, kindness, intelligence, wittiness, compatibility, passion etc.. People that think any of their advice or opinion is reputable either has issues themselves or is hanging out with the wrong kind of women.
@MintyMido2 жыл бұрын
i dont post a lot of comments which im trying to get better with but it is So cool to see you collabing with jarvis Gabi!! (im seeing a lot of ~interesting~ comments but hey anything that helps the algorithm is still a win in the long run)
@Abolas4522 жыл бұрын
That room smellin CRAZY you just know it 😂 humidity 97%
@scarfbandit1772 жыл бұрын
I'm absolutely gobsmacked at the calibre of this collab. Great stuff
@averydonahue99342 жыл бұрын
this Fresh and fit man is just grating my brain like a block of cheese
@jazminayala87992 жыл бұрын
Hahahahha how Jarvis was getting slightly more annoyed everytime the guy talked loved
@zjschwartz60022 жыл бұрын
As soon as I saw this on my feed I got so happy. So glad you're finally getting colabs w huge commentary channels!
@EspiritoDeDafne5 ай бұрын
The core of a Lot of those "Alpha males" message is "life is harder for men, because of the differences in the way men and women are treated. So I'll devote my entire life to keep those differences and mock anyone who even suggest equality "