Why 60% Of Expats DON'T MAKE It In The Philippines

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The Black Filipino TV

The Black Filipino TV

Күн бұрын

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@BIGGWILL369
@BIGGWILL369 5 күн бұрын
Way more cons than pros to live in the Philippines. The older you get, the less bs you want to deal with.
@edwardlawler9487
@edwardlawler9487 5 күн бұрын
People don’t understand 3rd world is 3rd world
@thomasodetinape4180
@thomasodetinape4180 5 күн бұрын
And it's exponential BS in the Philippines
@edwardlawler9487
@edwardlawler9487 5 күн бұрын
@ rapid 3rd world shenanigans is real it ain’t changing either
@thomasodetinape4180
@thomasodetinape4180 5 күн бұрын
@edwardlawler9487 it is, getting worse.
@Billybritt-s4t
@Billybritt-s4t 4 күн бұрын
And the USA is not 3rd world gtfoh
@guambroker
@guambroker 5 күн бұрын
You need an asset that makes income enough to survive anywhere.. secret is asset and cashflow is in US, and spending in Asia.. live well brothas
@Buildsolarhomes
@Buildsolarhomes 5 күн бұрын
@guambroker.... Make that 7 - 8 "Income Producing Assets" !!!!!!!!!!
@pernelltlllman
@pernelltlllman 5 күн бұрын
Yessir!!
@mattyghost3409
@mattyghost3409 2 күн бұрын
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@ThaMidwestBrutha
@ThaMidwestBrutha 5 күн бұрын
Cons: 1. Traffic 2. The cost of Rent is equivalent to some pricesses in the States(higher up in the mountain subdivisions) 3. Bugs(roaches & ants & mosquitoes) 4. Some of the food 5. Lack of certain usa Standards 6. Immigration expense 7. Mobility(too many people on the street) 8. Water outages 9. Brown outs 10. U need a steady income of at least $2000mo or more depending on your level of comfortability. 11. The street dogs, omg the barking & free roaming. 12. Limited shoes & clothing sizes. 13. Electricity 14. The faucet water is horrible(do not drink it at all). 15. They need a Walmart & Home depot. Pros: 1. Low cost of living 2. Health care cost is very affordable 3. The people are very nice(omg the women) 4. The ocean & beaches 5. Crime is low. 6. The chicken is amazing 7. McDonald's taste better idk why. 8. Limited sugar in pops 9. Dollar value(Cash Money Talks BS walks) 10. The Malls 11. Wet Markets & their variety of fruits & veggies 12. Its a few more....
@pernelltlllman
@pernelltlllman 5 күн бұрын
I disagree with a couple of things, but only because I live in a condo and don't suffer brownouts myself. But you are basically spot on
@ThaMidwestBrutha
@ThaMidwestBrutha 5 күн бұрын
@pernelltlllman elaborate please share your thoughts, I wanna know!!!
@pernelltlllman
@pernelltlllman 5 күн бұрын
@@ThaMidwestBrutha No, your good. Like I said, just a couple of things that you had listed ( which I do know affect a lot of expats). I am just fortunate enough to not have to deal with brownouts, and water shortages, because of the condo that I live in. They have a generator here. That's all. But really everything you mentioned is indeed correct.
@JamesHickman-g5c
@JamesHickman-g5c 4 күн бұрын
Unless you're in a western bubble, 2K is a bit high, and rents are much less than USA, but you have to live outside a high rent district. A woman will be your greatest single expense, especially if you like to party a lot. You also need a high tolerance for noise, not just barking dogs.
@dsrrellgriffith1161
@dsrrellgriffith1161 3 күн бұрын
I lived in Cebu city for 7 years until last year,,,visiting 30 years,,,I had no problem with internet, rent is dirt cheap, i had no problem with bugs inside the condo i rented, if there was noise i went to the guards, outside noise can be bad if ongoing construction is near u. No problem with barking dogs, you have to be careful that u are getting real medications and not fake, very few brownouts, some have generators, i also ordered a lot of my clothes through amazon who delivers to the Philppines and shipping costs not bad at all, etc etc. It all depends where u live in the Philippines
@cmehustle
@cmehustle 5 күн бұрын
My first trip to the Phillipines is coming up in March. Im really looking to retire eventually somewhere in Asia. I think its important to visit a place to scout if thats something thats for you. I do see value in listening to youtubers and people who have been there before you, but you have to get your own boots on the ground.
@Bereadyalways123
@Bereadyalways123 4 күн бұрын
Learn some Tagalog,,as a foreigner and as long as you have money all is well, be guarded, thevPinay lady is more deadly than a great white shark , but very clever and a CONVINCER a total,CHARMER, Z you will think OMG paradise, but this is FOOLS GOLD,,and you will be SEDUCED by the sweetness and kindness but these people are OSCAR WINNERS past masters of charm…
@coolsense5356
@coolsense5356 5 күн бұрын
After living in Manila for two years I experienced all the good and all the bad of the Philippines. I had plenty fun but at the end of the day that fun was based on how much money I was spending. Everything there is based on your willingness to share your dollars.
@kingmaafa120
@kingmaafa120 4 күн бұрын
That part
@Ytorisv
@Ytorisv 4 күн бұрын
But of course.
@kingmaafa120
@kingmaafa120 4 күн бұрын
@@coolsense5356 with Internet 🛜 social media - a lot of Phillipines 🇵🇭women as with other women worldwide are making their own $ 👍
@Usernotknown21
@Usernotknown21 2 сағат бұрын
Like any other places in the world huh?
@coolsense5356
@coolsense5356 2 сағат бұрын
precisely
@lancefogle1433
@lancefogle1433 5 күн бұрын
FIRST, MAKE SURE YOU ARE IN GOOD HEALTH AND HAVE A GOOD AMOUNT OF MONEY FOR HEALTH AND DENTAL CARE. MAKE SURE YOU DON'T HAVE TO WORK AND CAN COVER YOUR BASIC NEEDS. DON'T RUSH INTO ANY RELATIONSHIP, TAKE YOUR TIME AND DO YOUR HOMEWORK 😊
@marcom2248
@marcom2248 4 күн бұрын
And don't forget: renting is much cheaper than buying.
@Slim1423
@Slim1423 4 күн бұрын
Makes sense since i hear expats can't own property in the Philippines .​@@marcom2248
@zackbog
@zackbog 3 күн бұрын
No point in moving now because no one will have enough money if ss is all you have
@lancefogle1433
@lancefogle1433 3 күн бұрын
If your only source of income is SS, IF IT IS NOT AT LEAST 3000.00 A MONTH YOU WILL NEED MORE THAN THAT TO BE ON THE SAFE SIDE!
@lqdxoni1
@lqdxoni1 5 күн бұрын
i think another issue is the fact its hard to just relax get a coffee and slice of pie also the need to always go out and do things worse yet they get wrapped up in the white knight syndrome and they try to save a bar girl
@Eduardo-m2i
@Eduardo-m2i 5 күн бұрын
hahahahahaaha
@JohnThomas-li2vi
@JohnThomas-li2vi 5 күн бұрын
You hit all the facts right on the head
@Jeffyinthehills
@Jeffyinthehills 5 күн бұрын
I live in the Philippines and gave a good province girl. As far as I am aware, I have never even seen a bar girl. I have never been to a bar over here for sure. The problems you mentioned depend on the decisions of the individual expat, not all expats have the same experience. My biggest issue is not finding a good cut of beef. I live outside Tacloban on Leyte
@thomasodetinape4180
@thomasodetinape4180 5 күн бұрын
​@@JeffyinthehillsTyphoon alley
@JamesHickman-g5c
@JamesHickman-g5c 4 күн бұрын
It's actually tiring and often stressful, not exciting, to have to go out or travel a lot. Not ashamed to admit, I enjoy being a homebody (save a LOT of cash that way too), and working with my hobbies. I cannot be with a partner who is inwardly restless and has to always go, go, go. If you love dealing with heavy, slow moving traffic, more power to you. However, I must have AC in this hot climate. It's hard to understand how expats do without it. Finally, if you want to live a long, healthy life, right diet and exercise are a MUST. Get up and get moving. That all being said, the Philippines is not the greatest place on earth, nor the cheapest. Travel to other countries or, at the very least, spend several months to a year here before you commit.
@aries6303
@aries6303 5 күн бұрын
You're doing a good service to future expats...This is a great reality check for those future expats...moving to another country requires a lot of thinking, planning and research about the country you plan to settle in and also to read and learn from the others who have been living in your prospective country of destination....
@MichaelMCNeal-b1s
@MichaelMCNeal-b1s 5 күн бұрын
The biggest thing that the most important thing is a steady monthly income every month. Most of us can't retire yet so to just pack up and move to the Philippines and knowing that you financially don't have a steady income. understand if you have a lot of money saved up. And you can just pick up and leave. The money you have saved for a long time will run out. If you don't have a steady income that is what I believe is most important.
@Traveltip247
@Traveltip247 5 күн бұрын
Exactly. Most of the ones that make it have pension or retirement. I’m prime example. I was working remotely during and after pandemic. Once I had to go back hybrid the party was over. I tried ways to make money remotely but just didn’t happen.
@lesileeflynn7244
@lesileeflynn7244 4 күн бұрын
Thank you ....this is rarely considered.. It high time that us men wake up to the hash reality of moving aboard!!!
@keinlieb3818
@keinlieb3818 5 күн бұрын
That home sickness can be a struggle. Making new friends in the Philippines is also a struggle when it comes to language barriers and cultural differences. I was lucky to get over that by joining the army when I was 18, and my 1st duty station was overseas. Granted, I had other soldiers to make friends with, but I still struggled with home sickness. However, I couldn't just leave. I had to learn to deal with it.
@emilyacana341
@emilyacana341 5 күн бұрын
Where ever country you go there’s always a problems.
@Dragoncam13
@Dragoncam13 4 күн бұрын
The friend thing depends on your age group tbh,a dude in his 20s who grew uo with tech is gonna have a much easier time than a guy in his 40s
@JohnThomas-li2vi
@JohnThomas-li2vi 3 күн бұрын
The guys in his 40's are talking about real human relationships, connections and meetings of the mind, with real flesh and blood people, not a reclusive computerized, online AI relationship. No offense.
@Dragoncam13
@Dragoncam13 3 күн бұрын
@@JohnThomas-li2vi yeah and online actually gives you a reason to hang out with these people in person and put you in those circles. Older dudes are at the heavy disadvantage
@keinlieb3818
@keinlieb3818 3 күн бұрын
@Dragoncam13 I got involved in a chess club, a fishing club, and a motorcycle club. I'm in my 40s and have been able to make a good number of friends. Just gotta get out of the house. Though, I do struggle with the language barrier.
@Buildsolarhomes
@Buildsolarhomes 5 күн бұрын
The best way to "research" is to GET ON LOCATION and explore boots 🥾 on the ground. Minimum stay 3-4 weeks.
@tonyanderson4400
@tonyanderson4400 5 күн бұрын
Speaking nothing but the truth. Good advice. 🙂👍🏽
@FlyRich72
@FlyRich72 5 күн бұрын
What I find is that the ones who don't make it don't plan properly. They trust the wrong woman with things they should trust no one with, their money. Gets a woman and start simpong and do too much for that women. Also addiction because vices are cheap for a westerner and they overindulge in all of that. Glad that you actually talked about that because many channels seem to not talk of that. First time I was in Angeles years back and seen an American on the street begging and I was shocked!
@jerryG-p3w
@jerryG-p3w 5 күн бұрын
I found the ones that are the closest in character and personality to the locals are the ones who make it. most wont.
@pernelltlllman
@pernelltlllman 5 күн бұрын
Some of these guys that come here act like they have never had a woman before. Buying houses, etc. Crazy. And then the woman kicks them out. 😂
@Ytorisv
@Ytorisv 4 күн бұрын
Could have stayed in the states for all that.
@wadenobisemartuccianimatio8366
@wadenobisemartuccianimatio8366 4 күн бұрын
No country is perfect but I choose Thailand and Vietnam for me
@dpanman
@dpanman 5 күн бұрын
Good video, Jay.. I've been spending summers in the Philippines with my fiance for the last two years. I use the time there to scout best places to live and learn about a lot of the things that you mentioned here. When I finally make my move, I will be well versed in most things. I do not advise a guy to just pack up and venture half way around the world into the unknown. There are negatives, and you may encounter that everyday..
@mikekinsella2822
@mikekinsella2822 5 күн бұрын
Over indulge is pretty much death to your budget.
@jimmyjames1411
@jimmyjames1411 5 күн бұрын
It’s pretty easy if you’re not an A type, are easy going, can live a humble life or like the locals, and are not argumentative.
@pernelltlllman
@pernelltlllman 5 күн бұрын
Hey! What are you trying to say? 😂. I am type A and I love it here in the Philippines. But yeah, I am still learning to try go with the flow here as much as possible. I have gotten pretty good with coming up with work arounds for much of the aggravating things here, except the " sorry Po out of stock". 😂. But I don't miss the US at all. And the dating opportunities can't be beat.
@paulmusso1982
@paulmusso1982 5 күн бұрын
If their budget is 2 K a month and they can’t make it how are they gonna survive in the US ?
@misutasutanto6312
@misutasutanto6312 5 күн бұрын
I will keep working in the u s and live in decent life
@keinlieb3818
@keinlieb3818 5 күн бұрын
Living a western lifestyle in the Philippines is definitely expensive. They come here to expecting the same lifestyle for half the price, and that just isn't realistic. It's actually more expensive to live a western life style in the Philippines vs. the US. Especially if you want western style foods. Beef is absolutely expensive here.
@JamesHickman-g5c
@JamesHickman-g5c 4 күн бұрын
@@keinlieb3818 Is there any one western lifestyle? Probably not. Good food, exercise, and sunshine is all you really need. Well, AC, too. People that say 'western lifestyle' often really mean 'tourist mode' where they feel compelled to travel and eat out a lot (did we do that in the West? I didn't). True, some foods are expensive or even impossible to find; however, eating healthy is not hard if you cook at home. Actually, I don't believe it's western lifestyle that breaks the bank, rather it's being with a woman who is too expensive for you and/or treats you like an ATM. Many expats couple with a single mother or bar girl, and pay a premium for that.
@Ytorisv
@Ytorisv 4 күн бұрын
​@@misutasutanto6312💪
@JoeBidet-sq5dc
@JoeBidet-sq5dc 3 күн бұрын
​@@keinlieb3818100% facts
@damncars2618
@damncars2618 5 күн бұрын
Today's my 5 year happy anniversary. 66/24. If you're a good person and plan, it's possible to have a wonderful life in the Philippines.
@thomasodetinape4180
@thomasodetinape4180 4 күн бұрын
@@damncars2618 Nope
@arbogastosambumbia7649
@arbogastosambumbia7649 5 күн бұрын
One million percent agree bro. Thank you.
@Passport-X
@Passport-X 5 күн бұрын
I almost thought this was an old video. You're looking much younger bro. Life must be good for you over there. God bless!
@TheBlackFilipino
@TheBlackFilipino 5 күн бұрын
Thanks! Appreciate the support!
@jerryG-p3w
@jerryG-p3w 5 күн бұрын
Attrition rate is much higher than that. in the nineties. They have an unrealistic picture of the place.
@xxxxz4862
@xxxxz4862 5 күн бұрын
Sadly, guys don't visit before actually planning thoroughly.
@obadiahphoenix429
@obadiahphoenix429 4 күн бұрын
Great info brother J...electric, gas & solar energy generators was one way i personally prepped b4 i started to invest resources into my first property in the province of Bohol...also installing a sufficient 2000 liter water tank to elleviate periodic water outages was a real helpful investment fella's...for communication starlink will be my next viable project option on my return next year in February 🤔 Province living isn't for all but 4 a brother like me from a large metropolitan city(Htown) the serenity & slow pace is just what was needed for my upcoming retirement in a few years...besides im only 20 minutes away from Tagbilaran City & 30 from the nearest international Airport on Panglao/Dauis Island 😌
@backtothePI
@backtothePI 5 күн бұрын
I had some dental work in the Philippines and I was 40 late. The dentist and her assistant showed up 5 minutes after I did. This is kinda the norm cause the traffic is horrendous.
@demetriusallen3494
@demetriusallen3494 4 күн бұрын
40 what late ?
@daviddarden1915
@daviddarden1915 5 күн бұрын
Great information, that will help many to make it in the Philippines 🇵🇭, thank you 😊
@kombotmarine1304
@kombotmarine1304 5 күн бұрын
I love it here I am in the top 1% of people here financially in america I was lower middle class or upper lower class and struggled to save I had enough for bills but not much more to go from that to a top 1%er it's just night and day different the quality of live I can afford here
@eliottrobinson8288
@eliottrobinson8288 5 күн бұрын
Nice video Jay. Very informative.
@kanointhephilippines8082
@kanointhephilippines8082 5 күн бұрын
No matter what you did in your home country and how successful you were, this place is different. Yes, we can speak the same language but the culture difference is much more than new expats realize. You must come here and crawl, walk then run, there is no shortcut to the learning curve, it takes 12-18 months before you start to understand the culture here. New guys need to take the first year and focus on what they want retirement life to look like and learn about the country. Dating and finding a new wife should not be your number one goal at the start, give it time and when you do start dating go very slow with everything especially marriage. If you can make it past 8 years you should be good to go, for me the 8th year is when everything seems to hit at once and you realize just how hard living here can be. Be patient, and be flexible with everything and always have plan a, b and c for every possible scenario that could arise here. And yes you can live well on $1500 a month, especially in a small town or province. Life can be very good here but it takes hard work, time and a little luck.
@edwinholcombe2741
@edwinholcombe2741 5 күн бұрын
Amen!
@chaddavis6230
@chaddavis6230 4 күн бұрын
I think you are spot on. I would assume that for those who have never lived outside the US, this would be a big adjustment. I believe this transition would be much easier for those of us who have served overseas in the military. Many may find a soft landing in BGC or Thailand, might make this transition a little easier.
@ronbaldon8125
@ronbaldon8125 2 күн бұрын
For me being in the ExPat community I have found that the Philippines has everything that I need and want. Besides doing 6 months of researching everything about what real life is like. I had visited the country 2 times in the Past 10 years. Plus having a good friend who when he was in the Navy was stationed at Subic Bay back in the early and mid 80’s and married a Filipina then moved her and her daughter back to the states told me he loved it and was always telling me to go there and see for myself and this was decades ago.Unfortunately he passed away before I made my 1st trip here so it always stuck in my mind to one day come here And I did in 2017 & 2018 and once I got here to Manila it reminded me so much of New York in terms of population and that big city vibe. Now being here in Malate for over a year I have been thru power outages and typhoons . So I look at that as the cost of living here . Yes the infrastructure compared to Long Island is inferior but it is something you deal with. I came here not to meet a Filipina to marry being 68 yrs old I just was looking for a nice partner that we can share time with. I have gotten use to Filipino time in terms of being patient for things like food or waiting at the BOI to renew my visa stays . I have learned getting older to take your time smell the roses or for me to just sit on my balcony and look over Manila Bay and contemplate life and the fact that I achieved what I wanted and where I wanted to be in my retirement years as it was either Thailand where I have been to twice before or here and personally I made the right choice. And it was very close but what took me to making the Philippines 🇵🇭 my choice was remembering what a great friend told me and having Filipino co workers more recently telling me to come visit the country during vacation.
@jlmarc01
@jlmarc01 5 күн бұрын
Good stuff Jay. Hit it on the nail
@benjaminspann1892
@benjaminspann1892 5 күн бұрын
Thanks for the information 👍
@moreycleveland2472
@moreycleveland2472 5 күн бұрын
IF YOU PLAN TO FAIL YOU FAIL TO PLAN
@pernelltlllman
@pernelltlllman 5 күн бұрын
Preach!!
@thomasodetinape4180
@thomasodetinape4180 4 күн бұрын
@@moreycleveland2472 There is no planning on that place. Time doesn't exist.
@GUITARTIME2024
@GUITARTIME2024 4 күн бұрын
You're screaming, old timer.
@andrecureton6862
@andrecureton6862 15 сағат бұрын
I know I will face many challenges this is why I'm mentally and physically preparing myself to move to the Philippines this is why I'm so grateful for KZbin channels like this to keep me mindful the Philippines is not paved with gold. This is exactly why I'm not a materialistic person not even here in the United States I'm very frugal with my money I live simple but I know I will live a better simple life financially in the Philippines
@lamonttaylor5061
@lamonttaylor5061 5 күн бұрын
I have expat friend still living in the Philippines the good life .
@pacthesharwell3598
@pacthesharwell3598 5 күн бұрын
Prince , said it best ? Act your age not your shoe size ...
@ynottteris
@ynottteris 4 күн бұрын
Thank you for your thoughts on this, I'm considering visiting for 29 days from the U.K. I've watched a lot of pros and cons, Philippines videos and to be honest being a country boy used to working farms whilst growing up, the countryside doesn't worry me too much, what worries me the most is unwanted attention, I'm not after a relationship until after i have decided 100% that the Philippines is for me.
@xxxxz4862
@xxxxz4862 5 күн бұрын
Visited in September. There are a lot of older guys there with younger Filipinas, which is disgusting. Also, finding a job there is almost impossible, Homelessness is rampant, and people beg and harass you for money. You need a reliable source of income, like a good pension or remote job. Also, don't move to another country for a woman. Go because you want more.
@CrisCris-y7q
@CrisCris-y7q 5 күн бұрын
If they are over 30, they are not so young. If you can't get a good sort, it's on you. Don't complain coz if you could, you would do the same.
@axizcorp
@axizcorp 5 күн бұрын
Lol. Tell something Filipinos don't know. 😂
@Hannoshobazz_Neolmech
@Hannoshobazz_Neolmech 5 күн бұрын
Age gaps are NOT disgusting in a COLONY. The Philippines is NOT a Country.
@Sandra-c5g5m
@Sandra-c5g5m 5 күн бұрын
Yes, agree, disgusting fools, expats with young girls going to dump old guy 1 day, when she won't care for his old age remedies
@utubes720
@utubes720 5 күн бұрын
There are a lot of older guys with younger in the United States too. It’s not “disgusting”. You sound way young and lacking life experience.
@Awkwardturtle6000
@Awkwardturtle6000 5 күн бұрын
Rule 1: Don't move there for a woman. Move there for other reasons, such as higher quality of life. Rule 2: Be in tip-top physical health before cementing yourself.
@benjaminkful
@benjaminkful 5 күн бұрын
The Phillipine's is one of the best places to be in the world
@thomasodetinape4180
@thomasodetinape4180 4 күн бұрын
@@benjaminkful No, it's not.
@wadenobisemartuccianimatio8366
@wadenobisemartuccianimatio8366 4 күн бұрын
I choose Thailand or Vietnam
@thomasodetinape4180
@thomasodetinape4180 4 күн бұрын
@wadenobisemartuccianimatio8366 Can't support commies, have to be Thailand. But it's just too hot. Oahu is perfect for me. Climate cannot be beaten, anywhere.
@kombotmarine1304
@kombotmarine1304 5 күн бұрын
I wonder what part of manila your in just last week we had our first outage ever a transformer exploded right outside my building power was out maybe 2 hours I guess they were very quick to send repair crews to fix it it was maybe around 9pm I was surprised that anything happened before the next morning
@mikerussell7366
@mikerussell7366 5 күн бұрын
It's not that hard. You have to plan for everything. And be smart and spend money smart i am blessed like you I am a older guy and my wife is close to my age. I do not have the family help issue she keeps them away.plus all her kids have great jobs. You just have to find the right suition.
@MichaelMCNeal-b1s
@MichaelMCNeal-b1s 5 күн бұрын
A great video Jay .
@djdj-qx3hb
@djdj-qx3hb 3 күн бұрын
I went to the Philippines back in 2019 to meet my would be then wife and I was there for 2 weeks and spent more money than I thought I ever would😮
@garyt7232
@garyt7232 4 күн бұрын
The mistakes guys continue to make (retiring without enough 💰 or sending 💰 to someone on-line that they never met in person) never ceases to amaze me. Unrealistic expectations for sure.
@tlamore
@tlamore 4 күн бұрын
If you live in a city (USA) and move 15:32 15:33 to the Philippines you will not last long by yourself.. I will like to travel back there soon.. I loved that simple life.
@BenJack-f5g
@BenJack-f5g 3 күн бұрын
Unrealistic expectations is what my current American bf have now. He expects me to cook like a 5 star chef, expects me to just be okay after his meltdown or negative thoughts about me, and yes I am still with him though he keeps telling me I'm not the one. I'm one of the Filipina who don't ask for monthly allowance, so as my family never bother him financially because I am sincere in looking for a man who will reciprocate what I offer. Loyalty, Sincerity and Full of Love but not valued nor appreciated. No flowers on special occasions and always angry or drunk on my birthday 💔
@keithmason9450
@keithmason9450 2 күн бұрын
What's up jay..happy new year to you and kay.!
@TheBlackFilipino
@TheBlackFilipino Күн бұрын
Happy new year!!
@Kwameking1
@Kwameking1 4 күн бұрын
Thanks Sir.
@willieshoemaker8680
@willieshoemaker8680 2 күн бұрын
I been here over a year now. my top con's are 1 CLIMATE I'm from Seattle so hot and humid ALL the time is hard. I believe the phils is a harsh climate. 2 BROWN OUTS I don't live in the "province" but the out skirts of a city, some only last 15-20 minutes but hell the 12 hours brown outs are not cool, no aircon or internet. 3 MOSQITOS bring lots of OFF from the states, the crap here doesn't work that well. And buy a bug zapper they really help. 4 BOARDOM 5 LACK OF FOOD CHOICES
@davidwelch3887
@davidwelch3887 Күн бұрын
Health care, housing, food, Just because, they speak English doesn't mean there isn't a language barrier. Budget issues. Everything you faced at home. Remember day to day living. You're not on a vacation. Your Filipina's family 🤑
@michaelsanmateophilippines9438
@michaelsanmateophilippines9438 4 күн бұрын
Jay I been living in the Philippines Sense 2019 I love Manila and I love the San Mateo Isabela Luzon on the compound were My wife and I built our house we are what you call snow bird's 6 months in the Philippines 6 months in Las Vegas it's a great life just manage your money all expat need to learn don't be so generous on your budget
@Ytorisv
@Ytorisv 4 күн бұрын
No Wally World nor Home Depot fly back to the states for that stuff.
@JoeBidet-sq5dc
@JoeBidet-sq5dc 3 күн бұрын
And ship it via lbc
@nashkita77
@nashkita77 5 күн бұрын
Stay single. Having a woman complicates everything. I've been living here about 5 years off and on. Enjoy yourself. Be selfish and life here will be good. If you are concerned about brownouts, get a solar panel. Or 2.
@pernelltlllman
@pernelltlllman 5 күн бұрын
Yessir. If a guy can survive getting locked down for at least the first 5 months, they might realize no need to do that.Just casually date.
@utubes720
@utubes720 5 күн бұрын
$1,500 a month budget? Wow, that’s a risky plan. My budget is 5k, but I want to spend less than that instead of waste money. But I am also looking to home-base Cebu and only visit province life like a “vacation home” setup. Healthcare is my main concern. Thailand seems better infrastructure but the language barrier is a problem there.
@edwardlawler9487
@edwardlawler9487 5 күн бұрын
What’s the barrier issue? Food gym women what else are you talking about lol
@methemonkeyking
@methemonkeyking 5 күн бұрын
Been to Thailand many times, no problem with the language. If they don't understand English you have Google translate. Also, 40 million visitors a year. They have no problem with language.
@pernelltlllman
@pernelltlllman 5 күн бұрын
Well it's up to what a particular individual feels comfortable with as far as a monthly budget is concerned. While I do have access to more, I only allot myself $1,500 each month. I live in a condo in a gated community with 24 hour guards, and within 5 minutes walk of a SM Mall. I have a girlfriend and I go places for entertainment and eat out etc, and I still save almost 400 every month. I live about an hour and a half outside of Manila, but go there to hangout pretty often. So location is key, and of course what you like to do. But most guys don't need to spend more than $1,500 a month to live pretty well in the Philippines, unless they're money wasters and don't plan out their expenditures well. But if you want to live in BGC and eat western food daily, then yeah, your probably looking at $3,000 and up depending.
@utubes720
@utubes720 5 күн бұрын
@@pernelltlllman What's the name of your area? I'd like to check it out. And yeah, I have a hard time with the local food choices. I try to eat clean, and not a fan of the food.
@ad-jj3yv
@ad-jj3yv 5 күн бұрын
A 5k budget per month is alot, even as a tourist...you must be living it up in a highrise condo near the beach with a different Filipino each day of the week to blow through 5k in a month😅.
@quinnchilds914
@quinnchilds914 Күн бұрын
The problem is these men become lazy and complacent. They've exhausted all their resources and had too come back to the, "I told you so".
@clodismccuien8082
@clodismccuien8082 5 күн бұрын
To be honest I would go and live there somewhat like I was camping. I hope that's not derogatory
@clodismccuien8082
@clodismccuien8082 5 күн бұрын
Or I would bring my plumbing business there
@jamiestar3376
@jamiestar3376 5 күн бұрын
If you don't make on 1500 you shouldn't b3 staying Philippines and if can't cook you should stay America...the food has high sugars.. I found out cooking is better and drinking is worst thing can do .. look into God or giving some time to the kids
@TheAmericanPlug
@TheAmericanPlug 3 күн бұрын
I moved to the Philippines and left a year later. I couldn't tolerate the roaches; they were everywhere! In the airports, malls, grocery stores, and restaurants.
@thomasodetinape4180
@thomasodetinape4180 5 күн бұрын
Just not worth it.
@djdj-qx3hb
@djdj-qx3hb 3 күн бұрын
You got to have an income a pension or stocks or online work cuz you won't find a job in the Philippines if you're a foreigner
@ervinalexander1734
@ervinalexander1734 5 күн бұрын
Yes you're right about the medical situation Manila is the best city to move I'm a retired USMC veteran
@EmbraceVillainy
@EmbraceVillainy 3 күн бұрын
The abject poverty is the main reason why they leave.
@josiah5776
@josiah5776 3 күн бұрын
Dollar goes a LOT farther here. Here in Bohol, we have several power outages a month, and water outage almost weekly (due to a private company with growing pains that services our rental property). I lived off grid in the US and my Filipina wife is a province girl ... so we roll with it. Working towards setting up a homestead here like I had back in Arizona ... well with pressure tank, generator and solar. All of those are way cheaper than in the US. Yeah, some expats here are train wrecks. The main reason I like it here is that I never hear words like patriarchy, misogyny or toxic masculinity. Extra points that nobody knows (or cares) who Trump or Biden are. If you want Western luxury at better prices ... I recommend BGC (Bonifacio Global City) in Manila.
@JohnThomas-li2vi
@JohnThomas-li2vi 5 күн бұрын
For me the worse is having no expat community of our own, like a Chinatown or other ethnic groups that has a little space of tteir is wn.
@LumieSoucek-r2t
@LumieSoucek-r2t 4 күн бұрын
No retirement check coming.
@JoeBidet-sq5dc
@JoeBidet-sq5dc 3 күн бұрын
FYI There are more than 300,000 filipinos living and working illegally in usa And they fight tooth and nail to try not to get deported There is a reason for that If they are terrified of returning to the Philippines what makes you think you can live well being a foreigner with zero rights and protectuon ?
@Yabani-Ra
@Yabani-Ra 5 күн бұрын
Wherever you go, there you are.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@ripley7t429
@ripley7t429 5 күн бұрын
The Adventures of Buckaroo Banzi, across the 8th Dimension.
@pacthesharwell3598
@pacthesharwell3598 5 күн бұрын
Xpats showed these woman abroad how to make tik tok , and youtube channels ? Know that's there new man ! My favorite youtuber ? Smart and beautiful , phillapena pea ! She dont need a man...
@GUITARTIME2024
@GUITARTIME2024 4 күн бұрын
Of course she has a man. You honestly think she can write those videos herself?
@malikkweli8627
@malikkweli8627 5 күн бұрын
So far on my research......... i like Davao or Valencia outside of Dumagette but, nothing beats boots on the ground....
@nineseven420empire3
@nineseven420empire3 5 күн бұрын
$$$ and women......
@moreycleveland2472
@moreycleveland2472 5 күн бұрын
ITS CALLED THINKING THE GRASS IS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE BEFORE YOU ANYWHERE FIRST THING YOU HAVE TO MAKE SURE YOUR FINANCES ARE CORRECT & IF YOUR FINANCES ARE NOT CORRECT THE WORSE THING YOU CAN DO IS TAKE YOUR ASS OVERSEAS YOU HAVE TO COVER YOUR ASS AT ALL TIMES
@jameswilson1522
@jameswilson1522 5 күн бұрын
Wow
@milkywaymusic
@milkywaymusic 5 күн бұрын
Unrealistic expataions lol
@easygoing4769
@easygoing4769 5 күн бұрын
I don’t blame you, if you lived in other southeast countries you will find that Philippines 🇵🇭 it cost twice expensive than anywhere else in the region
@byron8696
@byron8696 4 күн бұрын
Stay out the bars
@pacthesharwell3598
@pacthesharwell3598 5 күн бұрын
Living abroad is a young persons game...
@qwintisntial1792
@qwintisntial1792 5 күн бұрын
PEACE BROTHER Love your Channel 💯 Which City are you Living in ? WHAT IS THE BIG MEDICAL CENTER THERE SO I CAN CONTACT THEM ABOUT MY MEDICATIONS AVAILABILITY?THANKS IN ADVANCE!!
@369dabbler
@369dabbler 5 күн бұрын
Philipines sounds like a really uncomfortable climate…talk about hard work Shit food too
@thomasboutin6045
@thomasboutin6045 5 күн бұрын
Until you are here...living... I suggest that you visit
@Cimba217
@Cimba217 5 күн бұрын
🧠🧠🧠
@moreycleveland2472
@moreycleveland2472 5 күн бұрын
YOU BETTER TAKE A FULL PHYSICAL BEFORE YOU MOVE OUT OF AMERICA TO ANOTHER COUNTRY
@Bereadyalways123
@Bereadyalways123 4 күн бұрын
Lived there on and off since 1987, from the UK, foreigners must know how the FILIPINOS tick, and how the Filipino family is all powerful a foreigner can never be number one in any Pinays heart, as the saying goes UTANG NA LOOB simplel lang sana-all, learn the language is a MUST, your there friend until you have no money walang Pera, then the Filipinos will not WASTE their time with you, as nothing in it for them, forger the smiles and Mabuhay and yes Sir etc etc that is just a front Talaga.. Ray in the UK ingat ka
@Sniper416-yy8hu
@Sniper416-yy8hu 4 күн бұрын
That’s not universally true. You can find a woman who will prioritize your needs over her family’s needs. With regard to people needing money from you, make sure they add value to you, and do what you need them to do, first.
@Bereadyalways123
@Bereadyalways123 4 күн бұрын
@ Can you speak Tagalog ? Have you lived there more than 10 years plus, when you have then be as wise as I am.
@sindust150
@sindust150 Күн бұрын
well its not like Thailand and Manila is the place to be. the cost of living there is not cheap as you think. 6:04
@Jeff-sm8of
@Jeff-sm8of 3 күн бұрын
We can only guess what shenanigans these types are up to behind close doors in the dead of night in some remote Nakhon Gary Glitter
@Jeff-sm8of
@Jeff-sm8of 3 күн бұрын
Go to Latin America. You will be welcomed there.
@walteranderson2507
@walteranderson2507 4 күн бұрын
You bring up some very good points. I plan on moving to the D.R. by 2026. I go there at least two times a year. I have linked up with a couple of Expat Veterans groups there, and it also helps to know the language where you want to go. Good balanced and unbiased video 👍🏿 🛂✈️💺🌊⛱️This is the way!
@daysoff4ever
@daysoff4ever 5 күн бұрын
100 percent because broke no money or wonderful here
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