There is No Easy Autism | Ryan Arnold

There is No Easy Autism | Ryan Arnold | TEDxCNU

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The world was not built for me....
When people typically think of autism they think of low functioning, but high functioning exists and with it brings a lot of different struggles that are harder to see because people with high functioning autism are less noticeable. The idea behind this talk is to educate about how people can support people who are open about their diagnosis to lead a life of significance and as well show that people with ASD can live a life of significance too. “Even though individuals with ASD come across as “normal” and have the ability to do basic human functions, going through live with it is substantially harder than going through it “normally”. Current CNU first year student with intentions to major in Psychology and Leadership and minor in Childhood Studies. Advocate and Disney fanatic This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@HappyHoney41 6 ай бұрын

When I burned out at work... I reached the point of not recognizing people, not remembering names, getting lost while driving, and losing so much ability to do everything. I had to retire early. Now, I just stay at home alone, but after being retired for 2 years; I am starting to relax a little. I am surprised how much work it is to just take care of myself now. There's no telling what I am missing. If it's not in my daily routine, I forget about it.

@darbydelane4588 4 ай бұрын

Ditto. Female professional, age 57.

@gojiberry7201 6 ай бұрын

I feel angry and am going through a lot of grief. So many people got to achieve their dreams and I had so much trouble just getting through the day. I was promised by society that if I worked hard, I'd be rich and famous and whatever. I did everything "right," but crashed time and time again. Meanwhile, my parents always wondered, "She's so talented. What's wrong with her?" I just wanted to rest, but resting was lazy and not allowed.

@audreydoyle5268 2 ай бұрын

@@Amina90982 does he at least still stim? Please tell me you let him stim

@charlesedwardcheese6728 9 ай бұрын

For once I feel like someone actually understands what it’s like in my life I never got diagnosed though my families always been in denial

@SergioBlackDolphin 5 ай бұрын

It is normal to be autistic. It is not normal having to go through the pain of dealing with the environment not designed for autistic individuals.

@clinkedylinkedy1 10 ай бұрын

I appreciate this perspective as someone who got their diagnosis after years of "not fitting in" or "reaching my potential". Great analogy to explain masking to neurotypicals. My hope for Ryan is that he sheds some of the self deprecation. You will be the perfect you.

@ruthhorowitz7625 7 ай бұрын

Second grade isn't years, I wish I got diagnosed at that age, I got diagnosed at 57.

@sophiexmaee608 3 ай бұрын

I am 13 years old and I’ve been going through autistic burnout for the past 3-4 months. I’m so tired of masking and I’ve missed lots of school because of it. It’s so hard living in a world that’s not built for you. It’s not easy at all

@miravlix 7 ай бұрын

Obsessing over one's special interest is HEALTHY for him and it was unhealthy and harmful for his family to fight it. This is the REASON we talk about autism... certain things that work for "normal" people, is just UNHEALTHY for someone with autism. He is burning up his youth to be "normal" and he will age badly.

@mathilde4699 Жыл бұрын

So well articulated. Thanks to the brave aspie who painted a picture of what our lives can look like.

@tempelhof1986 2 ай бұрын

Fantastic work Ryan and I really appreciate you sharing your story and insight. You are an amazing person and you're definitely not alone. As someone diagnosed with ASD (Aspergers) myself I completely relate to what you are saying and if I met you in person I would feel honored to be your friend. Take care and keep being you!!! P.S. I have started un-masking in certain situations and it feels amazing.

@shantanushekharsjunerft9783 2 ай бұрын

I have never been diagnosed with ASD but I am fairly certain I have it. I am intellectually inclined and capable of understanding a wide array of subject areas in STEM. I don’t like eye contacts, makes me very uncomfortable. Having said that Buddhism has been an amazing tool for me! Meditation and reading Buddhist scriptures have profoundly reshaped my understanding of human nature and my ability to work with it.

@dao.808 11 ай бұрын

ryan, i just have to thank you for for reminding me that i am capable. you are an inspiration for our community. cheers, from brazil!

@mayan9718 6 ай бұрын

👏👏👏 Wonderful job! You spoke for all the people with ASD who cannot express themselves! A great way to see how one feels. I'm sorry for having those bad times of feeling not understood or included. Wishing you the best !

@everyonehasadream Ай бұрын

Most of the time, I am invisible, but when I unleash my SUPERPOWERS, everyone looks at me. 🙂

@lisawanderess Ай бұрын

What you describe as "burnout" sound more like what I experience as "meltdowns"...burnout is usually the paralyzing exhaustion that comes after too much social interaction or post meltdown or after stressful times...when I am exremely tired, want to stay in bed all day, lack all motivation to do even minor tasks and things that usually seem easy become insurmountable for days, weeks or months. The "meltdown" is the immediate reaction to stressful social interactions and/or sensory overload, the "burnout" is the lingering effects but way less dramatic.

@chrisegnoto 5 ай бұрын

So true, I want to cry. What was on the board when he said what has been said to him....to the T. Also, well...stuff. I do my best to mask which is one of the reasons I have a channel. I can stop filming or edit when I need to and try to put on a better performance.

@owenleynes7086 13 күн бұрын

i learned from someone who idk if they were autistic or not that its ok to not always fit in. they just were unapologetically themselves and people either liked or hated them and they were chill with that and thats how i go about my unmasked life, if someone takes issue with me i can brush it off very easily cuz i have a bunch of other people that love me for who i am and those are the people i care about. everyones got haters everyones got people that dont vibe with them and thats ok. you dont have to live up to some standard you created in your head to fit in.