Beautiful, High Character Women

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

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[@---nj7hl]

Yes Thy Body is Your Temple. And Your Actions should match your words. Female here. Your female speaker is very Inspirational. You should have her on your podcast sometime again. I may not be Perfect but I try to walk the Godly way. I try to be Positive and take care of my body, mind, & Spirit. Blessings:)

[@perism1586]

Listen with your mind. I like this video too, a lot of truths discussed & exposed. They're keeping it 💯

[@goprimate]

This is a very healthy tribe, I feel like listening to these conversations is like vegetables for the mind💪🏽

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

Thank you!!

[@perism1586]

💯

[@kaitemarie5404]

I like that. Vegetables for the mind...

[@Deanna974]

Haha, aw, I like that comparison 😄

[@josuearguelles8824]

Agreed ❤️

[@rveal242]

You can tell her character is a great positive soul! I wish her well 🙌🏾

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

Thanks Shaad

[@yaboijeremiah]

That’s Jesus man 💯

[@ScaryToRemarry]

I’m glad she is being highlighted! We need more women of God 👏🏾👏🏾

[@jaz6789]

Okay this girl is so beautiful and classy,I love the depth. Hafeez you are really on point about over eating. I don’t care what nobody says I love Hafeez passion. More ladies like her.

[@kaitemarie5404]

This girl understands what I'm talking about. Spiritual women should not be frumpy, over zealous, unrealistic, holier-than-thou women. Sometimes these kinds of women have the worst attitudes and can be bitter and jealous and very self-righteous. Godly women They be just as warm, inviting, intelligent, fun, and beautiful as other women. With standards and boundaries. Being able to converse, dress feminine and appealing without having to show everything, and have a nice aura and spirit. It can be done and should be done. She should have interesting hobbies, know how to socialize and enjoy a drink, go to a concert, travel, etc. I agree that a LOT of training is needed to create attractive Godly women because too many are out here trying to be holy Mary and have no sense of their own humanity, down-to-earthness, fun, and light-hearrtedness. You can folow God and still be a pretty, charming, interesting human being.

[@stephaniemensah1858]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@Restyoursoul287]

Love this exposure of high quality women

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

You're welcome!

[@ballamolelekwa6441]

She's so Christian man, and I love that she relates almost everything to the Bible!

[@berrymckockiner5883]

But she's not a virgin, I hate these types of Christians

[@yaboijeremiah]

Big facts

[@cathylianaelizabeth2770]

This episode is one of my favorites. A woman who TRULY has a relationship with God in these types of spaces. It is really awesome to see. High value woman of Christ!! Yes sis. 👏🏽

[@truthshetold]

It's funny because in my single walk with God, I began to shy completely away from my beauty. God said "My men are still men" 😏 I was becoming so holy that I forgot to be "hot" lol. Becoming an old maid 🤷🏾‍♀️ Balance is great just not so obvious

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

Exactly

[@SoulfulNaomi]

Same sis. Modest yet stylish ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@truthshetold]

@@SoulfulNaomi precisely

[@potlakomonageng103]

If Devine femininity was a personher aura is glowing through the damn screen

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

IT IS

[@innocentnortey1195]

Loved this interview, the way she was able to articulate her points was a good demonstration of her intelligence. I actually agree with her system of being friends first, i think hafeez even said in the last interview that its good for networking, if its meant to be then it will be. I think she was merely expressing the concept of being in no rush and allow time to do its thing, which especially isnt a problem if youre speaking to multiple people at a time.

[@queeneva1985]

God still have sons for his daughters…never settled because you are afraid to end up lonely…when you meet the brother you are meant to be with, there would be no confusion for both of you…sending Kingdom love to this beautiful sister 💖

[@lubnan08]

Beautiful

[@donniematos760]

I just want to say thank you I'm 16 years old and you guys have helped me a lot especially with my generation and how they say masculinity is wrong or having a masculine character is wrong

[@sarab9319]

Hafeez, I cannot tell you how grateful I am for you bringing on these types of women; it's truly an answer to prayer. As a dedicated Christian young woman, I've been seeking excellence in every sphere of my life from a very young age (about 12), and it's so inspiring to see beautiful high-quality women on your channel. I will definitely be sharing this with the likeminded girls I know. Thank you and keep up the good work! It does more than you know.

[@brumtownmiller6130]

This is why to me your one of if not the best manosphere channel. You hold both men and women accountable and you seem like you have the betterment of men as a real focus. You not only help men do and be better but you also teach them how to find and interact with good women to have great relationships.

[@reenaree1953]

Men on youtube shame women for being emotional, want them to be rational. And then want women to be feminine ?? This is delusion. Men are delusional themselves.

[@brumtownmiller6130]

@@reenaree1953hardcore redpill men basically want a man's brain in a womans body.

[@jaysworld9500]

This is a woman that's taking her healing journey seriously. She has show us what a wife look like, you have to be one before you become one.💓💓💓💓💯

[@emanipettiford868]

this is the type of down to earth and spirit filled conversations I love to see👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@LilyOfTheField]

I NEVER make a man wait for sex. I tell him I want my 1st time to be with my husband. If all things look good to me, how long he “waits” to walk me down the aisle is strictly up to HIM. Also, women become”fun” when they feel safe. A Christian woman waiting for marriage is in protection mode until she feels her physical/ intimacy convictions are going to be respected, protected, and honored by the man she’s dealing with.

[@Greenrivers14]

Yeah that's how people get their heartbroken, they don't wait for the person they feel completely safe with.

[@PalestineLivesOn]

That's beautiful and a man whose intentions are good will respect that decision and still pursue you. This is how you separate the lustful men from the long term men.

[@anvu5523]

Andrea is beautiful. Very ground to earth.

[@ChapterofRomans]

“Religious women want men to follow their process” WOW!!!!! Speechless on that one

[@Introvertedalpha]

Great insights! Loved the point about only focusing on one thing vs being well-rounded.

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

Thank you!!

[@A_LivingTestimony]

Would love to see Chris back more often though it was called the roommate(s) for a reason

[@ThatLady365]

Love this. I have always felt like the problem is actually respectible people meeting each other.

[@JoKnowsLife]

Yesss keep it 100! My number one is physical. Then financial. Then spiritual and emotional.

[@tyrelldowdell8770]

This conversation is amazing! I’m glad we can hear both sides of dating a religious person. Hafeez has a lot of good points here. Especially when he mentions how women want you to be like pastors or their fathers. This was great 🔥🔥🔥

[@XRS_0125]

This segment brought up a different perspective of people in society. Thank you for the instructional video!

[@shaunwoods3303]

Excellent conversation. The biblical literacy was everything. Great episode.

[@zoezanyoh_]

Love this, especially the part about building yourself up in all aspects.

[@originalceo]

💯 real talk, thanks for keeping it authentic. I wish more Xtian men and women had these convos IRL

[@thulanimpete7144]

With regards to "very religious women" with high expectations, I feel another major factor is that they mostly attend legalistic churches, by that I mean churches that push the idea that you have to be perfect, not committing a single sin and almost anything the world finds fun is demonized, but a robust understanding of grace will reduce/diminish those expectations because we're called to sanctification (a life long process of maturing & being more like Christ with the presence of slip ups), not to perfection and being exactly like him.

[@jmercer1751]

This was a great conversation Hafeez!

[@julianbroughton]

I understand getting to know someone first as a friend but it doesn't take that long to find out if you vide with someone as a friend. After a month or two you know. A lot of times you can tell instantly.

[@avahart2301]

Character and intention take time to judge. It's definitely not instant.

[@julianbroughton]

@@avahart2301 that's the whole point of dating. Even seeing someone's character doesn't take that long. The problem is people tend to overlook the evidence right in front of them when it comes to character. What she said was that she needed time to see they worked as friends. Basically chemistry.

[@avahart2301]

@@julianbroughton "people tend to overlook the evidence right in front of them when it comes to character" Very true. I completely agree with this! Also - in the beginning - sometimes play pretend in the short-term if they think they can get what they want quickly.

[@nastassjam9168]

Engagement is not marriage😅 That’s about the only thing I disagreed with. Men and women absolutely need to feel desired and you can do that without sinning. It’s that sauce that takes you out of the friend zone. Great episode😊

[@koeppelparts5287]

20 min in and there's so much gems i can start over again... With so many negative examples of our people on numerous platforms, I'm truly Thankful for the positive examples you're providing. Great conversations with Ladies and Gentlemen

[@cloudnationmedia8326]

Congratulations to you on all the new success and opportunities. I'm happy to see you thriving. I can't let you off the hook though. You can't overlook Chicago as part on of the big 3 Hafeez. Peace and blessings brother.. @Hafeez

[@mr.wesseh8179]

I enjoy the roommate conversation each time man! To comment on potion of the the conversation on relationship and time frame and desires between both male and female. It’s extremely important to be more open and genuine to each other about what you want. Get to know each other by taking sex off the table and be more clear about where your are heading to. During the period 3-6 months depending…it’s enough time to know If both partners are attracted to each other physically, emotionally, sexually and spiritually. And, desire to be with each other for a long lasting relationship that there’s not much time is wasted nor one is being really hurt.

[@liftedones]

If you go back to the interview with Pat Bev David, pat discuses establishing your non negotiable before entering marriage to avoid divorce, I don’t see anything wrong if a women non negotiable is to become friends before moving into the next stage of the relationship

[@Eman14128]

Setting expectations upfront, pbd was right ,what catches alot of marriages , people do not do thier due digence until , they are in the marriage , too late then ,it funny we will do research on career, house , goals, dreams ,but when it comes to a life partner, people completely forget those things.

[@arleneliftschrist6240]

Wow that was really good reminder at 55 mins a friend is a friend no expectations

[@iamgoddessoflove]

The way you love yourself is how others will show their love to you! 💙KZbinr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

[@danieltheprophet3097]

Love this interview. Very insightful. The topics on the Bible incorporated made it even more🔥 Her perspective on a man inspired and lead by God was also 🔥🔥 Separates him from other men.

[@tyressereid4784]

All i have to say is roommates to the moon This quality of content is exceedingly Supreme for both gender. I see what you have in store Hafeez, man of God is a man indeed.

[@dexter9459]

I love this conversation, it’s funny 😄 😄 seeing hafeez struggle . Nothing more to say

[@yayah.1181]

This was a great conversation although there are actually a number of things said by the young lady that I did not agree with and that I feel like she didn’t fully understand. I love how both sides could articulate how they felt in such a mature way. That’s one of the things I love about this podcast.

[@brandonasif4074]

Just out of curiosity, what was the biggest thing you disagreed with. Me personally, when they was on the topic of a man being friends with a woman before being in a romantic relationship is kinda odd to me. I dont really think men and women can be friends. A man can't relate to a woman in the same way as his homie. For instance, talking about sports with a women is not the same. Somebody is gonna end up getting friend zoned for years unless there's clear communication

[@yayah.1181]

@@brandonasif4074 that was one of the big things for me as well. You can’t establish that this a friendship but at the same time we are working towards more, that’s counterproductive. The man will definitely become bored or turned off because essentially that’s child’s play. Both parties need to feel desired from the jump and it needs to be a distinctly different type of connection from jump. We are grown. I wholeheartedly disagree that engagement is the same as marriage and nowhere in the Bible does it state that it is the same. Like Hafeez said, if it were, then you could have sex during engagement, I think her argument there was a little weak. Tbh I think she may have been using the Bible to back up her personal opinions instead of being factual when it came to quite a few things whether she was aware or not. That’s just what I saw. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@brandonasif4074]

@@yayah.1181 Yea I was thinking the same lol. We cant judge her hypocritical though, we all ain't perfect. if Jesus didn't resuce me from my destructive path, I would've gone down alot of dark roads unknownly and I wouldn't have even cared that I did. I did not care about the sins I was committing, until I got saved.

[@yayah.1181]

@@brandonasif4074 right & no judgment here. Just analysis of the conversation and on where I stand with what was said.

[@sharonpizarro_]

What an excellent conversation.

[@tatijenee5796]

IMO, this was the best one yet!

[@tbinspired]

Wow she’s beautiful!

[@ScaryToRemarry]

I lived in Arizona 15 years. There are beautiful women there. This was a great conversation

[@acidman5]

She is the black version of Jamie Sullivan. Such a beautiful woman with a beautiful soul. Her character is as beautiful as her outward appearance Only the romantics will know my reference.

[@bethanydanielle1]

Really enjoyed this conversation! ❤

[@Quittlatae]

She’s exudes grace!

[@princepokima8602]

Conversation! Conversation! Love it men

[@knowledgeandproclamation2591]

My wife is from Phoenix! Definitely beautiful women there

[@Ayaymeer]

The music in the background I thought was unnecessary for the whole podcast it was sorta an ear sore but I loved the conversation and everything that was said!

[@JAKEBrakeModel94]

Love the conversation about the church and men. You all should read “Why men hate going to church”. It’s really good. It outlines how feminine the church has become

[@eb5351]

2 good people that can have opposing views on some things but still be respectful. Nice

[@bobwebber8466]

Hafeez, you are very inspirational. I will be meeting you one day. Keep up the great work. From the UK.

[@beth5795]

I love this! I was watching your channel 2 years ago, and seeing the growth just make me so happy for you!

[@patriciadalao6026]

Hope you guys have more events near Cali/West Coast! ❤️

[@ballamolelekwa6441]

This is fun, I love it. I'm learning a lot about God but at the same time getting to learn about relationships. Big ups Hafeez.

[@hezcobar]

Very insightful conversation, enjoyed hearing both sides!

[@WinnWinnin]

I love this! Thank you!

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

You're welcome

[@jpdag05]

Love this conversation! She is very articulate, and I greatly enjoy the greater infusion of christian values into the conversation. She does seem to be giving a LOT of weight to a descriptive passage (Joseph and Mary) vs. a proscriptive one (1 Corinthians 7) in the discussion about engagement/betrothal. Gotta be careful about that, but its honestly a pretty minor point. Overall, definitely need more conversations like this!

[@jaleelexson1111]

I think most people go for physical first is because of them 4 it’s the only one you can’t change. The others you can work on. Your face is your face. You can tweak your body but face you can’t change naturally.

[@loganbenson4730]

Jesus, she's gorgeous.

[@virginiaa.2926]

Great message! Thank you for discussing these topics.

[@kimbellas6874]

I really need a UK version of this

[@itsrudiano]

You both know your Bible. Really enjoyed this conversation!

[@pela907]

Really?!...you think they know about the cessation of the charismata?!...

[@trevor828nc]

Great episode Hafeez!

[@WheresWes]

Good conversation but the music in the beginning was very distracting. It was hard to focus on the conversation

[@Demetra321]

Andrea, continue to let God be your guide and your standard, especially while dating. "Fun" is relative. FYI I've been married 22 years.

[@hospitaladministrator3359]

Wow, she’s gorgeous.

[@rmdglobal6268]

Hafeez aka Mr Pepper Soup. Good episode

[@jasonprudent8083]

This was really good!

[@juliang1792]

I love the fact that you bring more amazing woman on this channel, in comparison to these red pill coaches and rappers who are still continuing chasing toxic women at the end of day. This teaches us both man and woman how to become the best version of ourselves and showing man what type of woman you need to have in life to succeed 💯🙏

[@berrymckockiner5883]

Lol what?!?!?! Most of the W he interviews are low rung

[@brumtownmiller6130]

@@berrymckockiner5883 how?

[@berrymckockiner5883]

@@brumtownmiller6130 they're typical feminist, I don't need no man, 50/50 type of W

[@brumtownmiller6130]

@@berrymckockiner5883 I don't watch roommates religiously so not gonna say your lying but I've not seen those types of chicks on here or hear the roommates promote those types

[@anthonyt425]

@@berrymckockiner5883 I disagree, most of them are decent I would say. There’s been a few low class women here and there but they’re far few and between.

[@azucarweber2456]

Please interview Dr. Michael Daf, black femininity princess please 🙏

[@mymomsgarage3816]

I love these videos! You incorporating the value of God on top of building yourself is beautiful! God bless you!

[@russelynwilliams9698]

Hey! I was born in Phoenix, AZ. Okay sir thank u! 😊

[@mskymelliott7879]

I love this podcast 🥲

[@thatkatia]

Balance is key! Enjoyed this Kingdom talk 💭

[@chriss6945]

Just about done with the interview. This was a good one! I actually like how they talked about “relations” (if you catch my drift) in the video. If you watch at 1:17:00… I believe she said that she has indulged in some “relations” with men she found highly attractive. Most likely attractive on a physical level. This is why men get upset and don’t want to go through the process. The old adage is the women break rules for alphas and make them for betas. So, she indulged in “relations” in the past with men she found physically attractive, but then she is going to make other men wait for marriage before they can have “relations” with her. I’m in no way judging her at all. By all the means. However, this is why men don’t like to wait, because other men didn’t have to wait.

[@avahart2301]

But you're implying that 'relations' is the prize, when an amazing relationship should be the prize here. If an AMAZING woman had 'relations' in the past with an 'alpha' as you call it, and not much more, but is offering you the potential of an amazing relationship (which is rare! way more rare than sex), why the frustration? This is the type of argument/conflict, I feel, that exposes people's true intention.

[@chriss6945]

@@avahart2301 I don’t think women realize this makes men feel less than. Lol. Having one set of rules for one man and another set of rules for another man. Let’s take “relations” off the table and flip it. Let’s say in a past relationship a man gave his partner gifts, flowers, love notes, took her out, declared his love for her and treated her like a queen. Then, for whatever reason, the relationship ended. Then, for the next woman, he doesn’t do any of those things upfront and says, “before I give you those things that I gave my previous partner, we must wait a year or wait until we are married.” If a man did that to a woman, the scenario I said above, she would feel slighted and would feel less than. She would think, “Why do I have to put in all this work to get what the other woman got? Does he not like me that much?” That is how men think when you give your body to a person so freely and put the next man through trials. We feel as if you don’t like us as much as you did the other man. Women don’t seem to get that.

[@truthbearer7891]

Its the 21st century and unfortunately it’s not that many female virgins left outside of femcels. Almost all attractive women have given up their virginity by college. If you want to find a wife material your best bet is not going to be finding a virgin but finding one who is in her early 20s who has decided to be celibate till marriage and if you’re lucky she’s had only 2-3 partners before you. Its sad that this is the reality of the world we live in. Where even the exceptional ones like this have a past

[@chriss6945]

@@truthbearer7891 true. I mean… do you agree what I said above tho or am I just flat out wrong? Lol

[@ChapterofRomans]

Amazing observation! I thought that as well

[@islandgirlxx3465]

What a beautiful sister❤

[@ChapterofRomans]

Hateez, you did your thing on this one! I really appreciated your knowledge and application of the word, using context. I enjoyed your push back. She did not rightly divide the word AT ALL. She just used it to support her argument.

[@diplomat2623]

1000% agree with this conversation.

[@scaggly9239]

She is breathtaking.

[@russelynwilliams9698]

If I were on the show when Hafeez asked how the woman of God would show the guy she wants him, I would have asked Hafeez for an example of how that should look. The way I feel like I am showing a guy I desire him yet still desire to please God may not be enough in his eyes so it's great to get the man's perspective. I dated a gentleman who I grabbed his arm leaning in on him at the movie theatre and he had absolutely no response. I had to ask him to hold my hand while we were dating. I looked him in his eyes because I wanted to kiss him and he gave me a response of being uncomfortable. When I addressed it later he said he only likes to get physical behind closed doors. I thought the things I was doing showed him I desired him but later I found out they weren't enough. We want to show the man pursuing us we desire him without losing our comfort of security as women so how can we do that and still honor God?

[@tahirihachiaa1626]

Frienship first and then relationship ♥️🔥

[@jasonpompey6731]

Love this channel

[@BJ-fu4zy]

I got customers that laugh a lot like him, and then I feel like I'm forced to laugh cause they're laughing lol. Big per peeve. Great episode though

[@OMPrograms]

I love her vibe!

[@Thatbul]

She’s beautiful 😍

[@SpartacusQuoVadis]

I like this one 👏🏾

[@clg076]

There’s no guideline or textbook way to long-standing relationship’s. She’s gotta get more open, and that doesn’t mean sin.

[@returningtoperfection]

She is highly attractive. Her beauty radiates from within. She is a good sign where to put my hope.

[@ebai0512]

Loveee this one! 👏

[@yemia9230]

"They be eatin'!" 🫣🤣

[@lubnan08]

Great video. Hafeez is right. There is no hope for a relationship if there is no attraction. As a woman, I can see how men can be turned off by religious women. I am trying to have a good mix of both. I am very turned off by a guy who only talks about religion. I don't agree with her with being friends. You have a get along but friendship doesn't equal desire.

[@brandonasif4074]

100%. Took the words right out my mouth. Super religious women aren't well rounded. Do you think Christian men should be friends with women. Me personally, I don't see the point. The only thing I would want to talk about with a Christian woman is the Bible. Can't talk about sports with a woman the same way I do with the homies

[@lubnan08]

@@brandonasif4074 100 percent. Agreed

[@returningtoperfection]

This sister has been well educated by Adonai. She is a high prize and I guarantee you she is a high mark to the enemy, because she has the anointing to liberate many women.

[@OnMyChillz247]

Hafeez makes a great point about God wanting us to treat our bodies as temples including with what we put in out bodies because not only does the bible constantly promote fasting. There are also dietary laws in leviticus chapter 11 instructing on what meats we are and aren't suppose to eat. Lots of Christians don't even know that just like Muslims we aren't suppose to eat pork either as well as shellfish such as crabs, lobsters, clams etc.

[@brandonasif4074]

Well man who call himself a christian isnt a Christian until he places all his trust in the bloodshed of Jesus Christ and realized he is hopeless without Jesus and cannot save himself. And the dietary laws of Leviticus ( not eating pork, etc) is directed to jews in the old testament. In the book of Acts, God has declared all animals clean. It is not a sin to eat pork in the new testament. And I am under the new covenant. So I don't have any dietary restrictions

[@OnMyChillz247]

@@brandonasif4074 Matthew 5:17-19 Yahusha ( I prefer to use Jesus's hebrew name) says how he he has not come to do away with the old law but to fulfill it. Then from verse 20 all the way to the end of the chapter people make the mistake of thinking he is changing the old law to the new when he is just simplifying the old law not changing it. Now the verse in acts you are talking about is acts 10:13 which is taken out of context because if you continue to read the chapter Peter still had doubt on what that vision ment and it doesnt come full circle until verse 28 where Peter realize that what God ment by do not call something unclean which God has made clean he was talking about Man not food so Peter couldn't deem gentiles unworthy of being Baptized

[@brandonasif4074]

@@OnMyChillz247 when God told Peter kill and eat, obviously he's not talking about killing and eating a man. In the book of Romans, it says we are not abound by the law. Christ has set us free. And that doesn't mean we should continue to sin. Because the Holy Spirit will convict us of sin. That's if your a genuine believer. You have to rightly divide the word of God. Jesus was a jew who came to teach jews. We are under Paul's gospel which was revealed to him by Christ. Follow Paul. The blood of Jesus Christ is good enough to cover all your sins. U can't earn your salvation. Because Jesus already paid the penalty that was meant for you

[@OnMyChillz247]

@@brandonasif4074 that's not necessarily true. Yahusha's sacrifice is taken out of context because we are all born into sin we all fall short of the glory of God, every single person who has ever walked this earth or who will walk this earth has or will transgress against the laws and sin. Now look at our sins as like a huge debt that cannot be repaid and yahusha's sacrifice like a debt relief program that's what yahusha's sacrifice is suppose to be and why it's important to believe in him. It's suppose to relief us of the debt we all owe for the sins we've committed but that does not mean we are relieved from following the laws. Believing in yahusha simply does away with the punishment We're suppose to face for unknowingly sinning against the old law but to cover yourself in the blood of yahusha is to also come into the knowledge of the old laws and follow them... like I said yahusha himself said he did not come to do away with the old law

[@OnMyChillz247]

@@brandonasif4074 and if God truly was talking about food to peter why literally in the next verse was Peter still hesitant? Why did he have to reflect so much over what God said? Just to come to the conclusion that he couldn't deem men unclean

[@Yemifolorunsho]

This is great!