These Texts Should Have Stayed Private.

[@augustinA1804]

People have forgotten the meaning of privacy

[@khadijahbegum3546]

Yh but if the ex has done something to the other person then they have every right to expose it karen😂

[@Greasy2240]

@@khadijahbegum3546sure if the ex was actually abusive.

[@tbp_Nxon3727]

@@ME-qv5uk yea it's really weird

[@khadijahbegum3546]

@@ME-qv5uk first of all she don't owe you an explanation 3rd of all with yo American ahh, victims can be scared to report or reveal the truth and might blame themselves so don't argue with me bruv and also that's why your countries failing look at you guys😂

[@FallenAngelHiroko]

Pry--vah--see? What's that?

[@TammyBoy]

It's crazy how setting boundaries as a male is considered abusive by some.

[@welpitsnoemi]

She’s a surfer. Saying she shouldn’t surf with men (pretty sure she has buddies she surfs with or has surfed w for years since she’s a professional) and shouldn’t wear bikinis??? Putting her on the spot like that might not make him the biggest abuser obviously, but he’s definitely pretty insecure. He knew what he was getting into and he can’t ask her to change a big part of her life. that’s incredibly inconsiderate. And frankly, he probably shouldn’t be in a relationship. He sounds like a damn teenager

[@Mama.bear.]

This behavior is not just annoying, it’s also harmful. It makes real victims of actual abuse look like liars who can’t handle someone having a bad day. Real abuse is rampant and devastating. This whiny, vindictive behavior makes it seem like women (and men) can’t distinguish abuse from boundaries and that victims are out of their minds. Awful.

[@spacedaze1860]

I agree with that she shouldn’t have done what she did and that it was probably revenge of some sort. I think what she did is probably equally wrong…. But this IS an abusive way to talk to someone. She surfs for a career and he was mad at her for posting pictures in a bathing suit, like dude, she’s a surfer…. Get over your weird insecurity and don’t put it on her. Also, if your partner ever tells you who can and can’t be friends with, leave. I’ve seen abusive relationships that end in extreme physical violence, and those men are not always that mean contrary to what you might think, especially not at the beginning. But even though they aren’t always that mean at the start, they almost all start out by being controlling. 🚩 And how do they gain control? Focusing on small things first and then adding more and more over time until you’ve lost all control without realizing it.

[@sr28774]

Very true!

[@llcooldrockindahouse4631]

Tell that to female dating strategy and the radical FEMS. They are the ones who are pulling the strings.

[@Agk3los]

A nobody who dated a famous person throws out said famous persons private conversations for attention. That's all that really needs to be said about this. She doesn't think he was an abuser, she just wants attention.

[@daintyGorilla]

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💯

[@tbp_Nxon3727]

Yeah gold digger

[@ajdoyle9559]

She definitely does think he's an abuser but feminists have changed the definition of abuse to any behaviour that they dislike rather than actual abusive behaviour.

[@clerpington_the_fifth]

which is why she waited after jonah had a kid to shitpost, right, totally not stalking him like a psychopath at all

[@sebastianmosqueda5959]

​@ajdoyle9559 Further perpetuated by the people who agreed with her about Jonah's "abuse"

[@drivinginthedcbaarea]

Imagine being such a miserable person that you try to ruin someone else’s life out of spite… absolutely insane

[@samiyoddinmohammed1202]

sarah is clearly just leaking those for attention. she is a clout demon.

[@tannerbryan1890]

True, it definitely stems from some issues within that person.

[@LarsMach]

In Germany, it is illegal to publish private communication. So simple. Gets you up to three years in prison, but just ends with fines in most cases.

[@rethgual8227]

Als ob

[@EstelleWalter]

7:40 this guy is a keeper 8:15 if the guy has to lie to your face because you're insecure with your body, this is a red flag. Intimate relationships rhyme with honesty in my world.

[@Ilovedeiselguzzling]

the point you’re making is spot on, if you date to marry then you should go into it keeping in mind that marriage is the conjoining of two people. even if you think it’s something small, something you’re holding back (unlike the guys shown in this video) can be catastrophic if it’s not dealt with in a healthy and mature way

[@curiousrex5183]

Agreed!

[@ytrando12312]

Also, she asked he didn’t bring it up randomly AND he said SHE fat shamed him after gaining only a few pounds! Wild

[@Kashie7]

Bruh she must done something wrong

[@j_freed]

Yes, people want a partner or a marriage to 'fix' their own problems, when it's this exact opposite: 1) you show up with major issues handled, knowing and expressing what you both want, and 2) you put the other person first & therefore you don't obsess on 'getting things from them' like some needy & dependent little child that refuses to deal with reality.

[@dracofury1173]

“I mean this is just so unhealthy! Much like traditional dog food…” Those transitions are hilarious. Never change Brett.😂

[@christinestreeter8566]

I’m so tired of women saying their victims of abuse when their not. She got into a relationship with a guy, didn’t want any of the things he wanted, the relationship ended because of it and she got mad that he found a woman that wanted what he wanted and now she’s bitter about it. That’s not abuse. We need to start telling woman like this that they aren’t the victim and they need a reality check.

[@ozzie3126]

Absolutely so.

[@dawnjohnson9726]

"Their" is possessive and "they're" means they are.. please

[@remigal899]

Exactly.

[@ShaferHart]

Online they will always find at least some validation. They've been trained to expect it. Plus people are way too judgy online like they're saints. Jonah actually comes off like a Saint here but heaven forbid he gets frustrated with his girlfriend and had yelled at her and she recorded him. That's an immediate death sentence even though yelling is an appropriate response in some situations (not desirable, but understandable).

[@spacedaze1860]

I agree with that she shouldn’t have done what she did and that it was probably revenge of some sort. I think what she did is probably equally wrong…. But this IS an abusive way to talk to someone. She surfs for a career and he was mad at her for posting pictures in a bathing suit, like dude, she’s a surfer…. Get over your weird insecurity and don’t put it on her. Also, if your partner ever tells you who can and can’t be friends with, leave. I’ve seen abusive relationships that end in extreme physical violence, and those men are not always that mean contrary to what you might think, especially not at the beginning. But even though they aren’t always that mean at the start, they almost all start out by being controlling. 🚩 And how do they gain control? Focusing on small things first and then adding more and more over time until you’ve lost all control without realizing it.

[@meleebrawler6462]

It’s really hard to paint someone in a bad light when what they’re saying isn’t even remotely bad.

[@tbp_Nxon3727]

She just wants attention she doesn't care about him

[@kadygirlforever]

How DARE he have boundaries!?

[@spacedaze1860]

I agree with that she shouldn’t have done what she did and that it was probably revenge of some sort. I think what she did is probably equally wrong…. But this IS an abusive way to talk to someone. She surfs for a career and he was mad at her for posting pictures in a bathing suit, like dude, she’s a surfer…. Get over your weird insecurity and don’t put it on her. Also, if your partner ever tells you who can and can’t be friends with, leave. I’ve seen abusive relationships that end in extreme physical violence, and those men are not always that mean contrary to what you might think, especially not at the beginning. But even though they aren’t always that mean at the start, they almost all start out by being controlling. 🚩 And how do they gain control? Focusing on small things first and then adding more and more over time until you’ve lost all control without realizing it.

[@MegaMilenche]

@@spacedaze1860 Darling, not all of her pictures were her in a wet suit, surfing or with a board in her hands. She had plenty of from bellow up at crotch shots. Those don't promote the sport. Those promote her as a sexually desirable woman to other men, who are not her boyfriend she's in a relationship with. And a person has a right to tell you not to be friends with somebody if that friend is a meth addict or some crazy shit.

[@afriendorfoe]

People need to realize when you go public to bash an ex (even if your ex sucks) you look bad just as well. It means you can't cope with the ending of a relationship well. Please don't post private conversations publicly. If you feel like you've been wrong then get lawyers and the law involved. If you can't afford that then seek therapy.

[@Lifeangel2908]

It’s not actually true. The people who had actually been bad, they get their ways. My ex had told the lie he made up in his mind that I divorced him, because I wanted money, and nobody questioned him because I come from a less wealthy family. While nobody knows that the time when I was living at his house, I was spending my entire salary at his house, for his married sister, and when I got divorce, I didn’t ask for a single penny as alimony. I didn’t even take back the engagement ring I bought for him, I didn’t take back the money I spent on his choice of wedding function, while I was out of my 3 years savings just in blink of eye, I didn’t even keep my engagement ring. I gave everything to him, but for everyone I am the villain.

[@someordinarydude9147]

She looks horrible. She deliberately waited for the perfect time in his life to try and ruin him. She waited. She perfectlly framed it. She only sent out the perfect tid-bits without context. She knew what she was doing.

[@edwardmartinez6730]

hell no, you dont like me talking about your behavior shitty or otherwise dont behave that way. I owe you or any one nothing for saved face. Its called Integrity.

[@fanofeverything30465]

@@Lifeangel2908 I'm sorry 😞

[@ozzie3126]

Truly

[@davidchambers44]

The timing of this online meltdown cannot be a coincidence. Just as he's moved on and found happiness with someone else. It's so stupid that people like to bring all their private conversations and arguments online. Like they require validation from strangers to make themselves feel better.

[@chloeperson2704]

It must be jealousy because he’s fully moved on and happy with someone else

[@ozzie3126]

Can’t imagine being as bitter as her.. Such a poor taste to blast all that out especially as they welcomed a long-awaited baby

[@JustapErson]

Imagine waiting til your ex gets married and has a baby before trying to humiliate him online. Absolute evil person. I imagine she's been enjoying ben and jerrys the last few weeks.

[@sarahcaitlyn88]

It's funny how often when they do that... It backfires 😅🤭

[@Mist3rEM]

Calls him "chubs" because he gained 3lbs and he's supposed to be ok with that, but she has a problem with him pointing out she gained 35lbs after SHE asked him what he thinks?? I swear if women didn't have double standards, they'd have no standards at all...

[@hugooscar3720]

That's why more men are going MGTOW, no wife-happy life.

[@tannerbryan1890]

It’s true. The direction of society is going to result in a world of a lot of people dying alone and isolating. It is what it is, just gotta make yourself fulfilled and happy on your own.

[@jackbutler2309]

One of the biggest problems in relationships right now is texting! People need to pick up the phone or meet in person and stop hiding behind a screen. This would solve so many issues!

[@kymo6343]

IDK dude I actually think it saves butts, then we can read exactly what was said instead of 'He said, She said'.

[@littlesunshiiine]

I hope no one's ridiculous enough to pick Bebe Rexha's side in this. It's like.. girl, you ASKED the man. And he answered. Get real. 🙄

[@teressamasipa3359]

People are definitely on her side because "men are toxic" 🙄

[@bradwhite5884]

Agreed, if someone's answered your question then accept it, if they are concerned about your weight, just take it in as is and put it into concern, don't label someone as whatever they call people as such like fatphobic or such, yeah call them out for being fat shaming or saying bad thing about your weight, but those so say "you look like you gain a bit" or such, so yeah

[@yuujin2490]

Also, what even is a name "Bebe Rexha" 😂

[@dabio9222]

@@yuujin2490 Her name is cute and you like it. With every step you take, Kyoto to the Bay - strolling so casually! You're different and the same; gave you another name! Switch up your battery!

[@yuujin2490]

@@dabio9222 huh? TLDR

[@TheTuftyOne]

The fact that these conversations took place over text and not in person shows a lot.

[@lisamona6208]

The “I waited for her to have a baby so that she can see the screenshot and leave” is a complete bull crap of an excuse- if this man was GENUINELY abusive and harmful, why would you wait until a potential victims has a CHILD (which means that this whole relationship will be extremely difficult to get out of) if this girl actually cared about potential abuse she would’ve immediately text the women about the man BEFORE any marriage or pregnancy- This really just exposes her as nothing but an attention seeker, and jealous that the dude is much better off without her. The second “drama” was barely anything, the man literally was honest and said seek therapy if you’re insecure and yet she decided to post to Twitter about it? I’m glad she’s getting the backlash and that not everyone is completely brain washed.

[@kymo6343]

Yeah this. I kinda think it was douchey of him to try and tell a surfer he can't have a surfer for a partner that was dumb but if she really thought he did something abusive she should have told the other woman well before she got pregnant...

[@MegaMilenche]

@@kymo6343 Not all of her pictures were her in a wet suit, surfing or with a board in her hands. She had plenty of from bellow up at crotch shots. Those don't promote the sport. Those promote her as a sexually desirable woman to other men, who are not her boyfriend she's in a relationship with. And a person has a right to tell you not to be friends with somebody if that friend is a meth addict or some crazy shit.

[@seriouslyidk]

​@@kymo6343he impregnated his new girl within a month or two they started dating. So she wouldn't have time to get to know him.

[@Joya_Day]

​@@MegaMilencheI deleted my Instagram awhile ago and I was wondering about this! Glad you provided insight.

[@Crazycooco]

I love how she exposes the truth

[@daughterofsekhmet81]

I read the Jonah Hill texts a couple weeks ago and kept thinking I must be missing something, I couldn't seem to find the part where he was being abusive. The surfing with guys part _was_ a little short-sighted since he did start dating her knowing she was a surf instructor, but that was the only part where he was in the wrong. Other than that, all he did was tell her what kind of relationship he wanted and outlined certain behaviors he finds unacceptable. He literally said if you want to do X Y and Z that's fine, but if so then I am not the right guy for you. He left it up to HER to decide if she's willing to modify these behaviors and continue the relationship, or just call it quits and go live her best life. Someone tell me exactly what is wrong with that?! NOTHING! He didn't force, coerce, or threaten her in any way, and he even tried to stay friends with her after the breakup and paid for her (much needed) therapy. Yes he came off as angry at her towards the end but I can't blame him cause I've been in his position. I got pretty fed up with my ex too after countless good-faith attempts to communicate my boundaries to someone who was dead-set on being the victim and calling me controlling for even _having_ standards and expectations in the first place. I think it speaks volumes to both of their characters that Jonah is now a new father engaged to a respectable woman, while little miss surf chick nobody is airing the dirty laundry of her long-dead relationship in a desperate attempt to stay relevant. Lord I'm so thankful to be a boring married 40something, the dating scene nowadays is an absolute shitshow. People wanna enjoy the security of a relationship while continuing to act single and I'm sorry, but that's NOT how any of this works. Relationships require mutual respect, boundaries, and consideration, not "I'm gonna do whatever I want with whoever I want whenever I want and if you have any problem with that then you're ABUSIVE!" If you're not willing to stop hamming it up with members of the opposite sex and posting thirst traps, either stick to casual hookups or find some chump who hates themselves enough to put up with that crap cause no self-respecting man or woman is going to.

[@itsdaksha]

I love how you mentioned about people wanting security and acting single.. so true! Well said

[@inhale1]

Women: Why won't guys open up to us emotionally and properly communicate? Also women: Blasts private conversations out to EVERYONE on the internet for attention, likes, clicks, and sympathy.

[@samiyoddinmohammed1202]

then they blame toxic masculinty for male depression and suicides

[@davidchambers44]

This. Unfortunately for a lot of men, the risk of being mocked and ridiculed or having their reputation ruined is to much of a risk. So they just don't bother telling anyone.

[@samiyoddinmohammed1202]

sarah is clearly just leaking those for attention. she is a clout demon.

[@SR-ti6jj]

Tbf, this is one delusion women, not all or most women

[@jacknelson927]

Men are t allowed to open up and cry these days we would be humiliated for it

[@007odc]

Someone pointed out the hypocrisy of how Jonahs ex got praised yet Keke palmers boyfriend got shamed for putting things out…thats the definition of selective outrage and double standards

[@btb554]

I think it's mixed. In left leaning spaces, it's like you said. In the right leaning spaces, it's the opposite. Comments under social media on this issue is a mix of both.

[@katiehasearthshine]

I’m glad to see that Jonah was very communicative; it gives me hope that people actually _can_ have healthy relationships. Communication and honesty is super important in any relationship you may have! (Not just romantic ones)

[@samiyoddinmohammed1202]

if a woman doesnt want her man to flirt or have sex with another woman. is that wrong because that would mean she is controlling what he does with his body. what bout if he is looking at other woman. isnt it controlling to tell him what to do with his eyes. its respect when a woman has boundaries but its controlling when men do it.

[@floki5182]

​@@samiyoddinmohammed1202stop trying to make sense of liberal and feministic logic. Cos there is no logic to begin with.

[@lurkingllama8364]

And look where it got him.

[@DroneStrike1776]

Jonah is a narcissistic a--hole. There's so many horror stories of encounters with the guy, from making servers talk to his assistant and not directly to him, to bullying people on set. Don't let all this stuff fool you.

[@blah914]

his list of "boundrary" basically amounts to that she couldnt do her job and had to drop her career

[@MintyOr3o]

this actually reminds me of my ex so much, she really just gave what was clearly not real reasons for wanting to break up and i sent a very similar message, so while i still loved her she turned cold as stone immediately. makes sense though, i could see she clearly also had feelings for my best friend (who she is now dating after we really broke up) (also if u think it was bc i didnt try to worl it out on phone or in person, she literally wouldnt let me and hated to talk aka didnt want to show emotion. i tried to talk to her in person and she refused)

[@emwols]

You are better off without her man don’t worry about it. People that put the effort into a relationship and are confident in themselves will always find someone good

[@Grabthar191]

Your best friend violated the bro code. He has no honor.

[@SD-mi2vc]

Women have no honour dont expect them to have good morals

[@PermanentHigh]

You dropped that "best friend" of yours I hope

[@ImBiscuitHD]

From experience, Get away from this, even if you still care about her, run so far away from the both of them!

[@abdelrahmanmoustapha4420]

We just need to start having these private conversations in person, no texts or calls. Edit: it was already mentioned in the video, commented too fast.

[@Christopher-qq4dl]

Lol

[@Transformers2Fan1]

In person can be recorded just as easily as on the phone.

[@WailfulSeeker82]

This right here is one of my biggest fears that I have about my previous relationship and why even a year after the breakup, i refuse to delete the text messages incase something comes up and i have to defend myself. This world is screwed up

[@warpedreflection3650]

There's a lot of times texts have helped people prove their innocence.

[@ajdoyle9559]

Trust you instincts and hold on to the text messages. They could get you out of jail some day.

[@jaded5957]

The irony is that all she achieved was to make herself look like a bitter and petty bunny-boiler ex. What man would go near her after this?

[@chokloconqueso8446]

this is a great channel. it provides rational & measured analysis of pop culture with a nod to traditional, common sense values. for ppl like me who know OF pop artists & celebs like Bebe Rexha but dont care enough to follow their careers this channel is the perfect place to get a quick, entertaining rundown of pop culture news with entertaining commentary highlighting the relevance to broader social trends. im here for it 👍🏽

[@JB-1007]

Boundaries are things you set for yourself. STANDARDS are what you set for the people you surround yourself with. There is a difference.

[@justobserving4862]

No, you gaining weight doesn’t mean you aren’t beautiful or aren’t loved, you gained weight it is what it is, weight gained can be lost it’s not a big deal. I wouldn’t assume he was hurt being called fat or chubby, he wasn’t trying to get revenge, he was being a good honest partner that wants the best for their partner. I don’t want a partner that will lie to me

[@rachelm2961]

My husband and I have both had this conversation with each other. Having kids and working swings will do that. It's life it happens. changing some habits can help with losing weight. We need to stop being so sensitive over it and just focus on changing the issue.

[@brindeeblackburn602]

These were my exact thoughts! Everyone was trashing him, but no one was talking about how she posted all her dirty laundry!

[@collinboyle8230]

Sets boundaries that are clear says it respectfully and removes himself from the relationship and this whole situation proves he's right for leaving yet if she was a man literally everyone would comment on how strong she is for leaving an obviously toxic situation if people were impartial like Brett is And used actual logic it wouldnt be a common mentality to be just insufferable romance is literally becoming a game and a dangerous one instead of being wholesome as it should be

[@samiyoddinmohammed1202]

if a woman doesnt want her man to flirt or have sex with another woman. is that wrong because that would mean she is controlling what he does with his body. what bout if he is looking at other woman. isnt it controlling to tell him what to do with his eyes. its respect when a woman has boundaries but its controlling when men do it.

[@c.j.lindberg8197]

I was a paralegal for 23 years and one thing I learned is that you never put anything sensitive in writing if you can avoid doing so. Use texts, emails, etc. for basic communication, not matters like this.

[@shulkyboi]

Brett dropping fire lately

[@mar_dma]

People have definitely forgotten the meaning of privacy. I saw a comment on instagram the other day of someone replying to somebody else, “shut up, you have no self esteem because your profile is on private.” Hmmm there are people out there that just want friends, family and people they know to see their pictures lmao that was so out of touch from reality 😂

[@aleffel9668]

Bigger issue here is why are these conversations happening over text messages. Like if you’re dating and can’t talk about these things face to face… yikes

[@PermanentHigh]

Imagine if he told her to her face and she later came out and exaggerated what he said. Good thing there's hard evidence of what he said

[@ladyelainefairchild3546]

I suspect they are aware it could be leaked.

[@Coyote-wm5op]

She held on to that for 2.5 yrs and released it to try and F up his current relationship.

[@c-rabbit08]

Ik she’s crazy

[@Ilovedeiselguzzling]

sometimes these videos are just fun to watch in general, Brett makes me think about this type of stuff that’s happening nowadays more than i normally would.

[@jake0391]

I would love to see how fast Brett can talk when she is really excited !!!

[@macngeeseyt6029]

Celebrities think the average person cares, but most dont.

[@tbp_Nxon3727]

I don't care it doesn't affect me in any way possible

[@NormanF62]

I expect three things from a relationship: honesty, boundaries and discretion. If those things don't work for you, fine we're not wanting the same things out of life. A man has the right to tell a woman what he wants. Thats being respectful and not controlling. If you both know what you want out of a relationship, you'll be happier together. Good communication is the key. Decide what you can live with and with what you can't live with. "Nuff said here.

[@vishnuvardhanreddykona]

I adore how Brett always ends each video she releases on a particular subject with a moral message, no matter what the subject is, and she always delivers it so that the viewer can learn something.

[@kturn16]

Brett's transitions into commercials are soooo smoooth 🤣

[@CADCoinHunters]

True

[@brianahuggins8335]

Brett!!! Your awesome!!! I'm 14 and have a entirely leftist family and you helped me form my own opinions on politics and I'm proud to say I believe in right wing principles. I look up to you so much ❤

[@jeanmarieh6912]

Briana, it's a good idea to listen to opinions from both sides in order to form your own opinions. It's fine to believe in right wing principles, but if you use Brett (and Ben Shapiro, etc) to form your opinions you're not getting a complete perspective. I am not on the same side now as I was when I first voted at 18, you might not be either.

[@racheljames7]

Keep strong, Brian. Read the Bible and say your prayers once a day, and that will help like you wouldn't even imagine.

[@f4gsforpele]

*You’re

[@aiaesthetics1124]

@@f4gsforpeleno

[@CryptoCrawdad]

@@jeanmarieh6912Briana, you’re lightyears ahead of your peers. You know the other side’s opinions because they can’t keep them out of your face. Listen to those who are ridiculed for stating facts and for their beliefs for supporting said facts. Use your discerning mind. Keep up the good work.

[@SequoiaWanderer]

And that’s why conversations like this need to take place in person.

[@dailywire_memes]

I feel like there isn’t a celebrity couple that have a normal relationship 😂

[@yugoslav_posting]

Lol I kept posting on IG for you to make a video on this. I'm glad I made a difference in society.

[@katehobbs9682]

Hasn’t everyone’s parents told them that you do not break up/address a serious conflict/have a heart to heart over text message??? I thought this was something everyone knew, that it’s much better idea to have a freaking phone call instead of immaturely avoiding conflict in a text. That’s how things like this happen.

[@mastersnet18]

Well she’s a millennial like me so no her parents wouldn’t have talked about texting since it wasn’t around when we were younger. Although it should be common decency.

[@spracketskooch]

I hate it. I've done it once, but realized halfway through what I was doing and wanted to move the conversation to real life. She refused. The disrespect I felt was immense.

[@katehobbs9682]

@@spracketskooch Oh gosh, yeah that sucks. You were in the right tho

[@macklively7539]

First time passing through Nashville today and I'm excited to see where my favorite host gets her inspiration ☺️

[@nicholasharding5746]

This is perfect. When I tried to establish healthy boundaries pertaining to me working 2 jobs, cooking every meal, doing all of the cleaning, and taking care of her 9 horses every night, she decided I was being abusive and went on a 3 month long narcissistic binge of attention grabbing on various platforms. Love the message, Brett.

[@ignitionfrn2223]

That is a drama that has gone down hill !

[@alaska4939]

Something I really value is honesty. When I first started going out with my boyfriend, we made a point of being honest with each other. We were going in life, what we wanted out of life and what happened in our past. He has a little more baggage than I do but he still let me know that early on so it wouldn't come up later and shock me. We're honest with what we like and don't like about each other. We like to joke around and sometimes I take it a little too far and he lets me know if my comments cut a little too deep. we're honest with each other about what we like to wear. I tell him when I want him to dress it up a little more and he tells me he doesn't really like it when I wear heels.

[@tylermcfarland8831]

As long as you are a good person, and there is nothing bad to expose, it might be better to text. They can warp, twist, and misremember words said in person, but you will always have text for evidence.

[@IrishZOMBIE117]

I'm just here for Bret's ad read transitions. Pure gold, every time.

[@mystisxxc4742]

I love how smooth the transition into the ad reads are

[@daintyGorilla]

She’s a natural !!!❤ def found her true calling and So young! Suck a lucky woman hope some day I figure out wtf I need to doooooo

[@NyssaOwens]

She's becoming famous for them lol

[@fuyukoyamomoto]

Same I love her so much she is awesome

[@DeadRobit29]

I am always honest with my wife when it comes to her weight. She gained quite a bit during the pregnancy and she is slowly starting to lose it. I always tell her the truth when she asks if I think she's gained or lost. And she has been losing quite a bit and it shows, and she is so happy she's finally seeing the results I've been seeing this whole time.

[@PoolKid75]

Some people feel that they are better able to express themselves in writing than they are able to verbally. For this reason, text messages should not be seen as 100% negative without at least some context.

[@zero-il9on]

The level of toxicity, keeping all those messages for 2 and a half years to now show them to the world, something private should be kept private. Glad it fired back at her, Jonah was not being wrong, glad he left that toxic woman. She was pulling an Amber Heard again, he should take this to the law, she’s trying to do the same as amberturd.

[@vinnyfalcone]

This is “swifting.” Like Taylor Swift who writes a song about every ex. Making your private life public is awful behavior. This appears to be a thing in the social media world. I really believe this sphere is ruining social behavior. We are lost.

[@vinnyfalcone]

@@gg8264 Fill me in.

[@verucasalt4535]

I gotta say, my favorite part of this video was when I found out you have a dog named Tater. 😂That's so adorable!

[@QTpatootie95]

Thank you for saying this. As someone who was violently r@ped with a knife by my first partner, and who quietly pressed charges and have never publicly exposed ANYTHING this being called abuse makes me sick.

[@Kathornix.official]

I may be more on the Left but I love your videos you speak true facts you are the GOAT keep it up Brett!

[@Kathornix.official]

This comment is probably completely irrelevant to the subject but 🤷‍♂️

[@Sapphires1985]

Ive never had a respectful text like these from anyone...well done to these men...

[@ClatyonSilvey]

“If your partner breaks up with you because he thinks you have different values, make an exit plan”

[@ruthcarvalho6417]

"That was fun, and those people are crazy"...agreed!

[@mattYYC]

It’s super evident that Jonah speaks to a therapist the way he responded. His text was well thought out and clear. This was clearly a text from someone who cared for her, but has reached their limit. There is no victim here, just a person they didn’t like being dumped.

[@brianlinger4653]

Not only therapy but I also suspect that he's dealing with lawyers, agents, managers and contracts every single day. You learn to communicate in a crystal clear manner when your life is full of people and situations like that to avoid any misunderstanding, lost time, money, hard feelings or requiring additional therapy ect. I think you also learn to be crystal clear in communication when you're dealing with a bipolar individual (Sarah) who is likely to twist words, feign misunderstanding and push boundaries. I also suspect that his boundaries are not only because of what he wishes to have in a partner but also because of him being of Jewish faith and a celebrity. When the paparazzi get involved, they can turn all of her behaviors into money making tabloids and I suspect that Jonah was more focused on privacy, marriage and kids/family while outsmarting paparazzi media by giving them nothing to talk about in the first place. Having a celebrity partner isn't a good fit for everyone and I think he was trying to be clear what behaviors can have a negative effect on the relationship as well as his career. Couples constantly in the media often end up divorced and he may have been trying to avoid all that from start.

[@nitro8865]

People need more honest relationships like this

[@sidekickz2180]

Brett: you can't have your cake and eat it too Bebe Rexha: did you say "cake??"

[@dabio9222]

No. She isn't fat. So let's goooo, pedal to the floooooorrr!!! There's limit out here, there's no limit out here! *NASCAR music*

[@alexenadot89]

It is so common now that there is no respect from celebrities for their own influential position that they hold, that it isn't valued anymore so it doesn't matter anymore to learn to think and speak more wisely.

[@ocdidi93]

She kept them because he was Jonah Hill, to use them against him later, her claim to fame.It’s just sad and pathetic.

[@KATNYC_718]

The amazingly smooth transitions to the ads lol you are too good at that Brett 🤣🤣🤣👏👏👏

[@maubraymzoma6616]

Psycho behaviour at its finest, she is definitely bitter about the break up.

[@marwynthemasterful6369]

I didn’t even know it’d been 2 1/2 years. She’s so jealous of the new girl. Jonah is an idiot for thinking a surf instructor isn’t gonna post bikini photos/surf with men though.

[@Sup.hyfer1]

I love the transitions to the sponsorships 😂its anazing

[@bryanwoods3373]

What kills me is people trying to say Jonah weaponized therapy to control her. Men can't even learn anything for their mental health without being toxic. But we know a woman saying the exact same thing is just standing up for herself and setting standards.

[@mirandaandrew7964]

You are my only sorce of news i can trust and I love it. Its like she is my older sister giving me the tea.

[@racheljane_]

The second story with the artist (Bebe Rhexa, had to look that up). Seems pretty clear cut. It seems like her relationship ended, and she was looking for any way possible to be the victim in the situation to gain public sympathy, and that’s the worst thing she could come up with. Big red flags for her as a person. I can understand if someone is very insecure about their body, maybe has body dysmorphia, then any comment or acknowledgment about their weight that feels negative in nature will be upsetting and can cause a spiral. But in the message her ex was nothing but respectful and loving. It’s truly sad she would post that private conversation, and further damage their relationship and any trust they had. The Jonah Hill/Sarah Brady story on the other hand, I think is much more nuanced than many conservatives are making it out to be. The initial message shared from Jonah Hill about “boundaries” seemed to come after they had already been in a relationship for awhile. He sought out a relationship with her, when she was already public with bathing suit photos and surfing content since it’s her career, and already had her lifestyle kind of set. These triggers and trust issues he had seem to be from past relationship(s), as outlined in some of their messages. He waited until they were in an entanglement and she felt very strongly for him (they may have already been “in love”), then got triggered by something which sparked issues, and then this message of “boundaries” came. It’s like “I will seek out a relationship with you because you’re gorgeous and I can see that online, wait until we are in a relationship entanglement and you really care for me, and then drop all the ways you need to change yourself and your lifestyle, at the threat of me leaving you if you don’t. And I will frame it in this super casual way, which gives me the upper hand, when I formerly have been very intense with my feelings for you, like an emotional pull-push, to trigger a fear of abandonment that will have you changing yourself in order to sustain our relationship.” Honestly I think conservatives who make this super cut and dry of “he a strong male who has boundaries and that’s fine” really don’t at all understand the nuance and subtleties of toxicity and control in romantic relationships that can exist. Yes, I agree that her posting these things publicly and the amount of what she was posting seems manic, as you said, and it’s clear she is toxic and has a lot of issues, and is wanting to gain public sympathy as a “victim”. But when you read through the messages it’s clear he is pretty calculating and toxic himself. It came to light he was texting and sexting her when he was already in a relationship with this new woman, but was still talking to her and they were very much still emotionally involved. When confronted with this he initially lied, deflected, and justified his actions, rather than taking accountability for it. It’s clear he is manipulative and there are major red flags there for him as well in how he handles himself and tries to deflect in and control a relationship. I don’t know if I would go as far as to call it abusive. But pretending it isn’t toxic and he doesn’t clearly have problems is an issue on our side.

[@MegaMilenche]

Darling, not all of her pictures were her in a wet suit, surfing or with a board in her hands. She had plenty of from bellow up at crotch shots. Those don't promote the sport. Those promote her as a sexually desirable woman to other men, who are not her boyfriend she's in a relationship with now. And a person has a right to tell you not to be friends with somebody if that friend is a meth addict or some crazy shit.

[@Joya_Day]

I was in an ACTUAL abusive relationship. Physically and mentally. I had a lot of therapy to address this, so I could go on to be in an actual healthy relationship, and I am!! The only issues with these communications are the you statements. They should be making it statements from how they feel, and try to avoid those "you" statements. It's difficult to do and try to avoid. I doubt many people understand that type of communication skill because I had to learn it in therapy. Its mainly to avoid making the other person feel like they're being attacked, so the conversation doesnt end up being an argument.

[@AlexOtto]

Well Bebe did say in one of her songs that she’s a mess, she’s a loser, she’s a hater and a user sooooooo She’s a mess for loving him? All jokes aside I like her music I’m just disappointed in her.

[@therealshino4607]

This is why I keep information to fight back.

[@bloxybling]

Your the only one with common sense left in humanity❤ what is wrong with people🙄

[@WCS_GodF4th3r]

As soon as I am on break from my job with my dad, this video comes out. PERFECT 👌🏼

[@joec7217]

Jonah Hill is such a sweet guy. It's very heartbreaking what happened

[@warpedreflection3650]

Back in he day people used to say don't air your dirty laundry. In other words deal with things privately.

[@Buvvyz]

I do not get why people keep on throwing stuff at their favorite singers and I don’t get how people can’t reap boundaries ? and just I don’t get the internet anymore

[@jamesmccarthy5086]

As a guy who’s never had an ex, this gives some ideas on what to do lol

[@l84cabo]

There's a phrase for what these two women are doing. It's called, "Toxic Femininity." But we're never allowed to have THAT conversation, are we?

[@GogaieBombardier]

Jonah while they were together: If you don’t tone your hoectivities down by 15% and get rid of those ratchet ass tavern wenches you call friends, I’m breaking up with you. Sarah, 2,5 years later, after he had a child with a less hoey woman: I’m so abused and and controlled pls help GIVE ME ATTENTION!!!

[@samiyoddinmohammed1202]

jonah hill can doesnt have to be in the relationship. He can leave whenever he wants. people shouldnt tell him what to do. his body his choice , right feminists?

[@GogaieBombardier]

@@samiyoddinmohammed1202 I think you replied to the wrong comment mate.

[@brianlinger4653]

Not only "I'm abused give me attention" but also "hey ladies in social media land, you're probably abused too and if you relate to these text messages call me and we will persecute men together but I'm just here to help bring awareness." She really did try to play this off as victim and altruistic when we all know that she's actually the aggressor and was just trying to destroy Jonah at an important moment in his life years later.

[@Kevin_Oskar]

I've heard of women that have told have men to shave their face and dress more fashionably if they wanted to be in a relationship with them. Never heard anyone say thats abusive though.

[@ChatteNoireBlanche]

Most are not complaining that he has boundaries or specific standards. The problem is that he pursued someone who he already knew didm't meet his standards, so people critizes the inconsistency: if you don't want a woman who models, don't pursue a model If you don't want a woman who post photo in bikini don't pursue a woman who post in bikini (and don't like or send heart emojis to her surfing bikini photos). There are many women that are compatible with his standards but he intentionally pursue someone who doesn't and then gave her a manifesto on how she is not good enough for him

[@LeslieStinson]

Yes! This, exactly.

[@amymusa2]

Not to mention the age gap. He was nearly 40 and she 23

[@stars6531]

Finally society has united on something this is a historical matter moment of the 21st century

[@JVReySolos]

Jonah didn't do anything wrong 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@khadijahbegum3546]

Yh if a women did the same yall will call her crazy so stfu hypocrite😂

[@friendly.little.monster]

Whoa I was not expecting that from Mr. Hill. Mad respect for him now. What a man! 👏

[@skwwibles8582]

How in the Daily Wire going to find a hotter podcast host?🥵

[@BestStudent-su7vw]

Frrrrrrrrrr, she's the reason the daily wire has 13 yo boys watching them (hint: it's not for the stories she covers)

[@judebarron87]

She's so bad *sheeeeeeeeeeesh*

[@RaxeOnYT]

"He never tells the truth!" *Proceeds to show all texts that are very private*

[@KimchiYeo]

No Brett, you DON'T have to wear a ''bathing suit'' aka underwear when surfing, and especially a surfing instructor, they ALWAYS wear a skinsuit, or etsuit whatever you want to call it. besides she is litterally a nobody in the surfer world so she is not some influencer or whatever this is to get male attention and nothing more so yes it IS a red flag.

[@amadapedro9147]

God, if we all learned to express our boundaries so clearly at the beginning of our relationships, imagine all of the drama we could have avoided in our lives.

[@Hkfanboy]

Never underestimate a woman’s ability to rationalize bad behavior and avoid all accountability

[@jaded5957]

We're not *all* reading from the Democrat textbook, thank you.

[@dylanvanhoorne3191]

@@jaded5957 lol way to not prove your point at all thank you

[@donguillo_]

The perfect setup for dog food commercial. Burst into laughter. Thank you

[@kumeoii]

I burst into laughter as well!

[@gouki_da]

Same 😂

[@eal22108]

My friend threw her phone ((she has Tourette’s, it was a tick)) during a concert ((not gonna say who)) and it hit him in the head and he started bleeding and they cancelled the concert, I got escorted out with her and we got in huge trouble even though I didn’t do anything. I showed them the footage, because I wanted to film some of it, and the singer ended up coming and screaming at my friend and calling her all these names. We explained it was a tick and she Tourette’s, I have anxiety ticks and do things like that as well. This singer said, “Oh, I’m sorry, I didn’t know you were woke, let me get you something,” and seemed so scared and gave free T-shirt’s and let us leave. THE LIBERALS AND LEFTS ARE SCARING HUMANITY Yo, so KZbin deleted the rest of this comment; this isn’t my story, it’s a story from my friend group, it was two of my friends at a story, I copy and pasted it from our text group ((they said I could)), lol

[@antbanks415]

i wish these people who leak these messages get sued for slander