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[@Payday-ky7mb]

I’ve been divorced two years from a cheating wife and have never looked at her social media not once since the divorce. I know she is waiting for me to look and see what she’s doing. My strength comes from not looking at her social media or anyone associated to her. I can tell you I was told on several occasions from her I wasn’t doing enough. At least four maybe five times debt collectors have called me looking for her. I don’t know what’s going on with her and the new supply and I don’t need to know. Once again, my healing comes from not knowing and minding my business.

[@naturallaw8377]

Same here and I can agree this strategy works .

[@ShalomISmyname]

Yes! Been doing the same since my divorce 7 years ago. He still Hoovers, I give him NOTHING to work with

[@shirlspark_stardust]

I agree I left the narc husband for cheating and abuse I have never checked anyone social media at all just my own this creature trying to come back a big no and no contact.

[@browneyes9507]

Debt collectors lol - she ain’t doing good 😂 That was your assurance… Be strong 💪 stay no contact

[@nosakhareobakpoler9825]

There you go!!! 👏🏾 I was tempted to check the socials but I know it will bring me more harm than good. Carry on and stay strong

[@11216mel]

I don’t even care if he’s falling apart, as long as my life is falling into place. Thank you LORD 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@lorettamoore5509]

Amen, sister

[@Bubblestwin]

Thank you❤

[@kss.7659]

Say it Louder for the ones in the back🗣 Whatever my ex is going through is none of my business🙏🏼❤️🙌🏽

[@JerronJackson-uo1im]

@@11216mel Right. Perfectly said 💯. They can suffer in silence 🤐. ... 😂

[@daughteroftheking100]

💯💯💯

[@Fireman713]

The Narcissist Collapses when you move on!! 😂💯

[@laurenSmith-bf4fc]

U think so?

[@mariadelacruz1301]

i agree 100%

[@basicinfo2022]

@laurenSmith-bf4fc yes my ex did when I finally started seriously dating someone else.

[@Everydayheros]

It never was about you, it’s about the individual (the narcissist) you was just a bonus! The devil has the narcissist in its snare. Whoever else get damaged with that is just overkill. IT WAS NEVER ABOUT YOU. the “collapse” it’s only running from the torment.

[@rde4017]

Yep, complete collapse.

[@beedido439]

That’s hilarious! “You’ve gotta let your closure be that they’re stupid” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 so true.

[@Glitter504]

Most low IQ I have ever seen in a human was the ex dusty narcissist an old dusty😂

[@ZoeBranning]

Let them suffer with their new supply! They know they don't deserve you. FULL STOP

[@lala5061]

💯

[@Taylabunny-c1d]

When i tell yall this woman really help me discard the narcissist i watched her for years!!!! Her videos and teaching really make a IMPACT!! and i hope she see's this comment!! Thankyou!!...it was very hard financially after i left him because he was the sole provider, but i packed up my kids and left with what i could bring and ask God to do the rest...the salvation army domestic violence program has been helping me tremendously im currently housed under thier program after leaving the narcissist....and going through therapy!! Im very happy and at peace now!! ❤ Please leave if yall can it really only gets worse with a narcissist!! Goodluck.

[@1010QUEEN7]

She helped me also and I'm so glad I had to step out on faith too God will take care of the both of us ❤❤❤

[@Taylabunny-c1d]

@1010QUEEN7 yes he will!! Thankyou!!

[@browneyes9507]

Once you take the first step, GOD will do the rest you’ll be amazed at the strength you really have. I left the abuse 5 yrs ago never looked back. What a freedom 🎉

[@nosakhareobakpoler9825]

You ain't never lie. I went back thinking my ex was not a narc but boy was I wrong. I'm gone again . Number changed

[@EarlineBlack-hh5rj]

It is helping me in every way thanking 🙏 God for her , when I was looking for some information on what I was going through and up popped the lady and a few others, so much helpful information and I’m on my way to better LIFE ❤AMEN 🙏

[@annesworld4007]

Blocked for 6 months now. Yesterday he left a voicemail saying "pumpkin". I guess next month he'll send another one saying "snowman" 😂😂

[@rochellemack642]

Jive TURKEY IS NEXT LOL

[@annesworld4007]

@rochellemack642 🤣🤣🤣

[@pressncurl]

😂😂😂

[@number1dogmom932]

Sounds like you still want him. Why do you care?

[@shereejohnsonj]

Lmbf because I had the narcisit i dealt with tell a family member that I his girlfriend was mad because I turned off the internet I just laughed we broke up 2months Pryor I guess the giraffe didn't get the memoirs been now 6 months I dont need to do no phone number changing thank God.

[@browneyes9507]

He knew immediately When I left for good- he messed up . He immediately went down and back to the streets, he was nothing without me and he knows now since I’m away. I changed my number and moved away 5 yrs out thank GOD🙏🏿🙏🏿🎉

[@TheCurlyBeauty]

My divorce was final last month! Glory to God! During our whole separation, he's been spiraling on social media, contacting my close friends, and trying to explain himself to anyone who would listen. He's pathetic. He's had no access to me in over a year, not a mumbling word from me. He has no supply to feed off of. The closure is knowing Im free from that delusional skinless, spineless bottom-feeding bird.

[@lala5061]

I couldn't have said it better myself 😂I like the end statement Im a have to borrow that one 😂

[@corrinemanuel1906]

I don’t need closure. Jesus gave me mines all I can say is I wish you nothing but the best but not with me. Let go and let God he will get you through it all Amen🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@montellhorton748]

❤

[@number1dogmom932]

Exactly ❤

[@palmiraortiz5146]

💯❤ I feel the same

[@slaybibleministries]

One thing I never cared to do was go look at my ex husband’s social media! Still don’t. So glad God freed me and our sons!

[@basicinfo2022]

8:00 when youre no longer accessible and ignoring them.

[@carvinbethea.9115]

This lady has been my source of healing for im already over things but I still come back to get more gems

[@kimberleyhartley6631]

Thank you for the truth on narcissists. Healthy, whole, safe, and normal relationships are the best way forward.

[@sandramcleod9723]

I've blocked him everywhere and healing. Thank you. Yes I held the relationship together and it was exhausting

[@nilaja-itsmylife]

Congratulations on 100k!!!! That’s amazing!!!! Well deserved 😃🥳✨💃🏽💯🥰❤️🙏🏽🥳🥳🥳

[@Yukajoseph]

Amazing video A month ago, my partnership of five years came to an end. The choice to break up with the person I love is something that really gets to me. Even though it's all for nothing, I've done everything I can to get him back, and I couldn't imagine my existence without him. I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I still can't help but miss him and think about him often. I don't know why I am saying this here.

[@QueenJessica-z5j]

Saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult; I know this from my 12-year relationship ending. But I was unable to simply let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counselor, who was able to help me regain his affection.

[@Yukajoseph]

It's interesting! How can I contact a spiritual counselor most efficiently, and how did you find one?

[@QueenJessica-z5j]

Father Obah Eze is a wonderful spiritual counselor who has the ability to bring back your ex.

[@QueenJessica-z5j]

He can assist you; he is Father Obah Eze, and he possesses immense powers.

[@Yukajoseph]

I just sought him up online thanks to your helpful information. remarkable I just checked Father Obah Eze online, and he's really genuine. Thank you again ❤

[@basicinfo2022]

9:50 "I dont need closure from you cause youre stupid" lol 👏

[@seameology]

Our divorce wasn't even final before he got bored with the new supply.

[@browneyes9507]

@@seameology 😂😂😂

[@lala5061]

That's cuz it ain't u and he know it 😂...he gonna have a problem with that for a long time 😂 and that proves it he can't even keep the next chance he get 🤣

[@seameology]

@@lala5061 he had a big problem. Was single for about fifteen years and went through a million women.

[@LadyDiamond-gv3bk]

The lights on but no one is home took me out!!!!! 😂😂😂😂

[@robinlewisart_1997]

We don't see it because we are no contact . They are watching us

[@number1dogmom932]

Exactly

[@eriecatiz]

Facts

[@hosealynch3221]

True talk.

[@PhyB33]

😂😂😅 Who sits around waiting for someone to fall apart? God is unconditional love. Pray for that person & move on. That's it! Vindication comes from God after you love yourself enough to LET GO & move on. We overstay our welcome in people's lives when God has given us many signs to move on. Wishing for someone's life to fall apart is going backwards & not of God . FORGIVE YOURSELF & that person! Stop monitoring the demise of someone's life. LET GO & MOVE ON. God Bless.🙏🏾🥰😇💜

[@MarkFlanagan-h1o]

You should be my gf 😁

[@VicariouslyHealing]

I’m glad you said something, this is exactly what I was thinking by reading these comments. Like where are the videos on how to healthy help them

[@julesgreen5079]

💯 The moment we left God departed from them. I don’t care what anyone did to me I don’t want anyone to be permanently removed from God. I stay praying for them and keep it moving in love ❤️ it’s why we were told to pray for them. This is good vs evil. It’s spiritual

[@number1dogmom932]

Exactly!!!❤

[@ppe8488]

You see that backwards flying pigeon with the feathers missing.. that part! 🙃🤣🤣🤣

[@lorraineamaker9416]

Hoovered got no response so he reached out to my youngest sister, saying why we can’t be friends. As you said MS. Why would I wanna be friends with a viper. No thank you. Blocked 💯 4 yrs n.c.

[@yemedemure414]

We work together. Last time we talked I accepted a job transfer but decided not to mess with my retirement pension seniority benefits etc. When he see me I’m going to sashay right past the silly frog raccoon!!! 😂😂😂😂😜✌🏽✌🏽

[@staceydelbucchia2576]

lol...elevator does not go to the top floor...lights on..no one is home...praise God...sending you a big hug Miss Tea🥰😍

[@POE482]

😂😂 My mama used to say, "there's no tobacco left in that butt!"

[@haneefahmuhammad3447]

Speaking facts as usual. But those glasses....love the frames....they fit your face perfectly....❤

[@vivianperdue4329]

I wouldn't know and not looking. I wish him well in any path he takes, just not with me

[@fashionjas4309]

They are big clowns!!

[@itz_kale7791]

I went no contact with NPD family members and because of this they are not getting supply anymore and they are making themselves sick but, I won't take the bait. I was hoping they would find a new supplier so someone else can see what they are like but, they are very covert. Thank you for discussing this issue that often goes unnoticed.

[@JerronJackson-uo1im]

I'm glad I heard this message. I'm only reminded of the narcissist for learning purposes. I happened to run into a lady who knew of myself and the narcissist. She said she heard about the new supply, rolling her eyes. Then she quickly said the narcissist wanted to know if, he would let the new supply go, would he get another chance with me. Gross. That told me all I need to know about that. 😮😂😅

[@nolief3315]

Facts. I was flat out told by the narc herself… “the grass was not greener on the other side” and the new supply she discarded me to be with was not what they appeared to be. Guess who has not been given her that desired attention during the discard and after the new situation fell apart and still now while she trying to resurface?!? ME!! And it hurts, but I’m not trying to cause pain, I’m simply moving forward having accepted what it was. It hurts bc she Fd up and she know it.

[@browneyes9507]

@@nolief3315 yes she knows - let her deal with the decision she made don’t go back - you will regret it .. stay strong 💪 & keep moving..

[@viewerwatching5712]

Leave that trash where she is at, if you go back it will be much worse. She should be blocked with no contact.

[@shereejohnsonj]

I dont need closure. i closed the door havent ran into him, and i am not looking .

[@BethanyThomas9]

If you are good supply they gone keep hovering! It ain’t you it’s them! Stay away don’t let them change you into a them stay beautiful and stay sweet don’t look at people the same or think about how they treated you

[@pamelathomas5324]

You ain’t lying he keep calling my daughter and I keep telling her not to answer them calls and block him. He wants to know how I’m doing. Sir don’t worry about how I’m doing. I’m doing amazing since I ain’t been fooling with u now gone on and stop calling my child u demon

[@shereejohnsonj]

I jumped ship. Yes, you can't keep fumbling this Scorpio. Thank Gid for my discerment of spirit and my god talking to me

[@heartofthestreetsproductio8578]

I went no contact haven’t talked to the narcissist in 2 weeks she texting me right now trying to Hoover me back in I blocked her and she changed her number just so she can try to come back and finish me off I blocked her creep ass again .

[@vmw0710]

I'm at 32 years no look back. She crazy dawg💤

[@tinaureta9891]

I LOVE YOUR GEORGIA ACCENT AND STYLE. My Grandma Taylor was a Georgia peach. She passed and I miss her so much. You brought me a beautiful memory of her telling me all her TRUE Advice

[@ChefSharay]

Happy Sunday Ms T. They definitely going through it. It’s sad though.. They texted me and told me like what am I suppose to do you moved to another state…🤷🏽‍♀️

[@browneyes9507]

😂😂😂😂

[@cynthiaclark9729]

😂😂😂😂Every time I talk to him which is rarely he’s in a meltdown. 😮

[@free2bme604]

That why they often go back to the recycled supply . They don't have the energy to love bomb again and she's definitely not Grade A like me . 10 months and he's still with her . Seemingly living their best life

[@risinggoddess559]

THANK YOU MS T. I LOVE YOU FOR ALL YOU DO AND MAY GOD CONTINOUSLY BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.

[@rosemarywilliams6044]

Always know when he falling apart ,He's blowing my phone up!!!,Sorry can't help you!!

[@number1dogmom932]

Y’all enjoying this because you still have feelings for these folks

[@rosemarywilliams6044]

​@@number1dogmom932No,I'm enjoying it because I no longer have feelings for a demon!!!😂

[@paulmess07]

I appreciate all the knowledge you are giving us. I'm learning more and more everyday and I see a light at the end of the tunnel. God Bless you 🙏🏻

[@JohnM-f9g]

Wow. So much truth to this. I am just now learning about the hurtful affects from a former narcissist female friend that I truly respectfully loved. After I ended our friendship, she of course went crazy on me. I found out soon after she was recently arrested for burglary, a year and a half before that, arrested for ID theft and access card theft, and in between that, her company that she always boasted about failed after two years, SIX years ago, because she played games with the tax people. She has been 86ed from every establishment in our area. If you have a heart, like I do, it's sad to see. Warm vibes from Los Angeles.

[@MNJGaGa]

Love your energy.

[@katethegreatfromanotherstate]

Youre a hero. Love u lady

[@acedegenerate2254]

Everything she is saying in spot on the truth. 140-150 phone calls from a blocked number. Now getting calls from a real number. Nobody speaking and the number comes back to her name. She lost custody of her son and is an alcoholic.

[@LorraineBravo78]

Thanks!

[@christophermacdonald3879]

We Love you too miss gorgeous

[@Barkentin]

i know the new supply, i told him to be carefull, now he feels the pain what can not be fixed can not be fixed🤗❤

[@kayakins3051]

I love you Telsha!! You are real girl! Great video!

[@juttalarosa4944]

Love you Mrs T❤! Watching your videos for years- they healed me ( and made me laugh 😂) Thank you from the bottom of my ❤ Greetings from Germany!

[@5Dascension84]

THANK you for this message 🙏💖💯🙌👏 I love your positive energy and wisdom 🙏💖💯 GOD Bless you ❤️❤️❤️ AMEN 🙏🙏🙏

[@charlesmatthews6822]

Tell the truth sis! You spot on, They'll trying to use your own family to try to convince you to give them another chance

[@lucindadiggs7922]

With the feathers missing!😭

[@jackiemiles4448]

😂😂your comments " backward walking pigeons" literally cracks me up!!! Too funny you are !!

[@renecarroll6791]

Happy Sunday

[@christophermacdonald3879]

Bebe, you are absolutely adorable

[@SethunyaLyvelle]

Clock Tea Ma’am 😂🤣💯🫶🏽

[@FREEATLAST-7]

THANK YOU AGAIN FOR ALL THAT YOU DO

[@lakeetrathames2745]

Love this❤ You’re such a inspiration in my life ❤

[@azailialankster657]

Ms T. Lol you always keep it 💯 and be cracking me up at the same time 😂 I love your content! Keep it coming Sis💕

[@nosakhareobakpoler9825]

Speaking so much facts sis!!! Keep em coming

[@ms.deedee990]

I left my narcissist ex 2 months ago after he tried to suffocate me. Now he on Facebook with the new supply calling me names and a drunk. I can't make this s*** up. All because I am no contact with him.

[@LC-gu2sc]

Stay gone, it's hard at 1st but gets better

[@ms.deedee990]

@LC-gu2sc thanks I'm at peace, but now he is doing a smear campaign on social media. I told people don't tell me what he is doing or saying.

[@rde4017]

Every narc accusation is a confession. So now you know your ex is an alcoholic.

[@millionaire2631]

You look amazing! 🤩

[@APeculiarDiaryVideos]

Speak! So so on point, woooooh!

[@MusicVibes4Ever78]

Damn if all of this isn’t accurate. I could care less about her or her social media. When you go no contact, gotta be thorough with it

[@frederickacollinsjr]

No birds in the bed or head!

[@GavinBeaton]

So true Sister we have the high vibrations

[@MichaelHallalwaystrue]

You look so amazing ever time and ur dress code is no 1 thk you have a lovely day

[@shanettahunter2682]

The narc call and said he miss the dog !!!

[@ammoywright169]

😂😂😂mine told me tell the cat she love her

[@shirlspark_stardust]

😂 lop they crazy

[@number1dogmom932]

I gave mine visitation rights. So?

[@basicinfo2022]

The narc has me blocked on everything again. Its been for 4 months now, and no hoovering.

[@rochellemack642]

Y HAVENT U BLOCKED HIM ON EVERYTHING? R U WAITING 4 THE HOOVER & U Want 2 RESPOND!!!! DONT DO THAT!!! NO CONTACT & PRAYER WORKKS

[@basicinfo2022]

@rochellemack642 I dont want him to have power or control over me by blocking him out of bitterness or anger. I'm detaching and let him go. I will ignore him if he breaks no contact.

[@georgina1921]

Telsha… 😂😂😂 Girl, you are hilarious!

[@katethegreatfromanotherstate]

Id like to see a podcast with you and Theo Von because of your awesome ways of speaking

[@TraciBinIT]

This! This content answers So Many Questions! 🤔🫢 Seriously, thank you! The binge eating stopped when we got together. They would mention not understanding how anyone can pass up eating the whole bag of family sized chips!?!?! I was like, wutdafuq?! Question: Who eats an entire Bag of Family Sized Snacks in a SINGLE SITTING?! 🤯 Answer: They do, prolly’ right now! Let that sink in!!! 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

[@kurtdwarika5448]

Hello my friend, Kurt from trinidad, God bless you, rock with your girl,like button hit,smiling.

[@titedent2010]

Its 7 months now no news from her and she seem very happy whitout me and i was her main grade A supply for 8 years

[@iknowfool4590]

I was considered the downgrade supply and my ex narc still stalks me till this day after ten years, I just want to know why?

[@kikib7310]

The nex is still stalking me after (6) years I’d say because it’s not all unicorns and rainbows over there with the new supply& probably can’t believe I haven’t reached out nor responded to any of their hoover attempts in all these years mostly likely never thought I’d walk away 😂would be my guess either way I don’t care not my circus not my problem

[@VICK18009]

😂 Grade A supply. I was front seat when it happened.

[@MsChellaJay]

Hi, when you spoke about narcs dating people who are obese, can you go into detail about that? What is the point of them dating people who don’t like how they look? My narcissistic ex cheated on me with women 100+ pounds heavier than me often and when I found out about all of the affairs, I found that these women were huge and barely posted themselves online. Why did he do those things?

[@Postive732]

Hi,😊😊 Love your personality 😊

[@GailArmstrong-q5q]

You're beautiful and I love your glasses!

[@NigelCookeArt]

Me too😮

[@kariroderick1507]

when the narcissist realizes no one wants them what kind of health problems would they get? My ex of 26 years has always had high blood pressure but never took anything for it. he did have a headache and heart palpitations before he left.

[@IAMinfiniteandfree.]

Why do you even care?

[@kariroderick1507]

@ I am just curious about the spiritual side and the effects of health problems that come with narcissism

[@EarlineBlack-hh5rj]

HOVERING IS his problem 😂, since May 8,2024 I got an INJUNCTION and the police 👮‍♀️ removed him from the HOUSE,he will be allowed to come back in June 2025 , he watches our house 🏡 like a HAWK 🐦 he tells his friends that I’m pulling my car 🚘 close to the front door 😂😂😂😂😂he can’t stand that I’m in this house and he can’t come,he loves using voodoo and I love 💕 using GOD 😂😂, it ain’t no FUN 🤩 when the RABBIT 🐇 got the GUN 😂😂😂😂😂

[@claudia3539]

Ex doesn’t have nothing negative to go to .. only think that he did was cheat cheat and cheat

[@kvaldez9070]

Did she say backwards walking giraffe abuse 🦒🤣🤣?

[@TIMP-g2k]

So true. 😂😅💯

[@waymanharris9430]

Wow, she just emailed me after 8 weeks just to say hi. I deleted that email without a response.

[@tanyakashyap6944]

You look great 😃👍🏻

[@jazminecapel8677]

Idk if I was the narcissist or just severely heart broken from 16 years…cause I couldn’t cope. But my ex did a lot of back and forth and I never got closure. But he still hoovered saying we family and his family. My ex discarded me, tried coming back then found the new supply and made babies with it within 3 months

[@ИринаХаралампиева-т9ю]

Right now, me. ✌️

[@voicirussell460]

Excellent!!! Excellent truth!!! HalleluYah!!!Amen!!! Prov.1:20-33)))))*** 😁🌎🌍❤️❤️🔥⚔️⚔️

[@JacquelinePletscher-x9w]

Backwards walking giraffe 🦒 l Bahahaha. I am borrowing that

[@charlesrivers9509]

I had past ex go through this several times like bomb went off in her life and she wld stay in bed fr a week being all sad , and incoherent, i cldnt figure it out , i had tell this dirt ball wash her ass and everything , then couple days to a week shes back to normal ,or what atleast looked normal , I overlooked it like it was mental break down , cause narcissistwill use that too when they going in downward spiral or breakup , back then i cld never find anything but it makes sense now, in the end I found out she had drug issues , gambling issues and sex addiction and she was alcoholic , so be wise

[@kayakins3051]

Yes!!!

[@ChosenlightWarrior]

After the divorce didn’t happen now he took my child and won’t allow me to see them and there’s no court order existing 😢

[@AnnMarieCrew]

“I don’t need closure from you cuz you just stupid”

[@Fullgrace061]

That’s the truth he killed himself