This Will Make Your Family Hate You

[@sweetbopeep00]

this kind of parenting doesn’t prevent bad behavior, it teaches the kids how to lie and deceive the parent

[@anthonyweber4986]

Seriously, all having controlling parents has done is teach me how to lie and hide my behavior

[@highwaythruhell7882]

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[@dominicpointer8123]

Exactly!

[@OvertonWindex]

A valuable skill!

[@floppavevo5920]

can confirm i do know how to lie and deceive my parents

[@LintSplinter]

Parents like these are always confused as to why their children don’t talk to them anymore when they move out.

[@2kchallengewith4video]

how many subs can i get from this comment? current: 172

[@osbdndke]

So many bots smh

[@groovy8431]

ikr

[@soft-boiled8545]

Remember when the comment replys were people actually replying to the comment and not advertising and bots? Me neither

[@riptidev10]

@@soft-boiled8545 comments have been trash either way

[@Mugenri]

He doesn't ever once mention talking to your kids like they're also people.

[@wkcreasman]

Well put

[@livingcorpse5664]

Holy shit you're right. Like damn, I can understand doing this if you actually suspect that your kid might be on drugs/dealing drugs or other serious crimes but he made it seem like he was trying to normalize doing this all the time even when you think your kid hasn't done anything.

[@theBrid-gv8je]

He is a cop so, you know

[@heyyou9137]

No, kids are programmed bio machines that are turning into a perfect being in closed rooms, but it only works if they are controlled and isolated from their personal space

[@radicallybean]

Which is fucking nuts

[@LegendaryDorkKnight]

The thing LOTS of parents fail to understand is that if you DON'T snoop into your kids' things and invade their privacy, they're far more likely to trust you and share the more sensitive topics with you. When you search their stuff, you're essentially telling them you're looking to condemn them and making them not want to tell you stuff.

[@coxalex23]

You are so very right.

[@grimreaper686]

Yeah its reverse psychology and also literally anyone will hide things much more if they are under suspicion of hiding things. They will be like well I have to hide it better theres no turning back now.

[@Random-sk6hm]

Exactly. My overprotective parents made me not trust them and I never tell them when I'm struggling

[@arthurneddysmith]

Parent here and what this cop advocates for is disgusting. He's an awful human being and a worse parent.

[@josephisvr2947]

but i mean kids DO have drugs and nic and all types of shit. i see them every day without fail. your crazy if you think that their not going to do those because they trust and love their family.

[@interrobang9513]

This doesn't feel like a psa, more so a guide to cleverly hiding drugs

[@highwaythruhell7882]

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[@airplanes_aren.t_real]

Ngl I kinda want to try this, I don't have anything to hide but still sounds pretty fun

[@MidWitPride]

I doubt any kid that has parents like that would hide the drugs in their room.

[@TacoLoverPerson]

I legit want that Mt Dew bottle with the hidden compartment

[@what.5693]

@@MidWitPride that’s what I really don’t get Regularly search your kids room for shit and they’ll hide everything somewhere else Hell, they might just leave a bunch of “containers” around to draw your eye so you don’t get suspicious

[@azzy6687]

Gunsley's kid is straight-up trying to get high in every way imaginable just to escape the pain of having him as a parent

[@CL-vb2qt]

Bro is huffing sharpies at this point

[@huntinghighandlow8703]

Mans is prolly turning on his car just to huff exhaust

[@redneckfarmer8011]

I know people in my small town like that

[@Viccobalta]

Me as a teenager

[@germanfisch]

@@huntinghighandlow8703 sniffing glue can be pretty lowkey so that works too

[@mrfortnite4769]

So basically no privacy. That’s a great setting to raise a kid.

[@NegusInParis01]

Fucking pull off their room door too while you're at it

[@YourLocalAverageSquidMan]

And removed the walls as well

[@nkf2399]

@@NegusInParis01 and why not install some nice 24/7 ultra 4K HD camera's with audio too

[@beatsofangel]

@@NegusInParis01 my parents did that because I dyed my hair lmaooo

[@xfabkwood9321]

make their siblings secret police

[@billiejones2635]

I like how they didn’t check under the bed or in the pillowcases which are like the most common areas to hide things but instead ripped apart every random knickknack

[@CocoWantsACracker]

Yes! And also how he says: "Top to bottom, left to right" and skips the mirror right in front of him. I'd have taped something to the back of it if I had something to hide from a Gestapo parent like this.

[@MelissaZ-es2rw]

True. My 5 yr old is already hiding sweets under his bed and pillow for the "hard times" when we tell him no more lol.

[@gumballsreturn]

Lol​@@MelissaZ-es2rw

[@anaysia21]

@@MelissaZ-es2rwaww that reminds me of the first times my niece and nephew did that, my nephews first time that i know was there for was putting them in little backpacks they were given (before they started school), hed forgotten they were in there though so when we found it they were all melted together 😆

[@wosso3342]

"Journals are good to go through." This guy really knows how to treat a child

[@salemcrow5078]

Actually communicating with your child? Absurd!

[@bigwendigo2253]

Don’t forget to make fun of your child for anything embarrassing in there as well as punish them for any wrong doing like curse words (dang, crap, etc)!!!

[@kanesnod6994]

@MA why put all your personnel secrets online where things can be hacked, hence why russia still uses hard copies

[@NotJpTem]

@MA a lot of people, sometimes locks are more useful to some people than phones.

[@thatonedud7233]

if someone has hacked your phone they most likely dont know you or even seen you but if someone finds your journal its more likely they know you and can black mail you and stuff (replying to 2 persons above me)

[@henrikhumle7255]

What he's actually trying to say is: "It's important to search your child's room regularly, in order to teach them the valuable skill that is hiding their shit in a different room."

[@EthanL21800]

I hid my weed in my parents room

[@wowimstillalive5878]

@@EthanL21800 power move honestly

[@EthanL21800]

@@wowimstillalive5878 tf they gonna do say it’s mine?

[@amandaking4654]

@@EthanL21800 that is the most powerful idea I’ve ever heard of 💀

[@prexcher7742]

@@EthanL21800 fucking legendary bro

[@Norrsky]

I was a correctional officer. The way he's training parents to search their kids room is the way we were trained to search cells. Not just actively searching but the way he told his kid to leave to room. Do not treat your kids like they're inmates

[@UnitSe7en]

I was thinking this while watching - He's conducting a prisoner search.

[@Stbanzz]

Have you ever worked with bill cosby

[@beardeloso9513]

I work in a psych facility and we have the exact same methodology to searches. Both in rooms weekly and belongings when they’re admitted. I hate having to flip through diaries and yet he’s saying that it should be the norm for parents. Breaks my heart

[@tbone9051]

Yep. Treat your kids like they’re inmates and they will try to escape. Make them feel at home & comfortable and they will want to stay

[@bradcallahan3546]

why did you stop being a correctional officer?

[@T-Lex18]

The part where he says to check the journals too just angers me, I remember when I had stayed with my step-mother for a while and she had gone through my mini journal while I was asleep and I woke up to being told that she had called the cops on me for writing how I did not like the way she was abusing me and how it made me depressed, it was a vent journal and she apparently called the cops and had told them that I was suicidal and needed to be escorted to a hospital, I was traumatized, my trust had been completely ruined I was completely ashamed of expressing my feelings through any means after that and I do not write in any journal anymore as I now tend to unhealthy bottle things up instead and I was humiliated as the cops thought it necessary to have me in handcuffs in escorting me from the house to the hospital even though the only thing I was doing was sobbing in confusion and hurt and it only served to make me more depressed as the first time I was in that hospital for being “suicidal” I felt scared and alone and I did not know what was going to happen to me, I certainly did become suicidal after that, invading your child’s trust of privacy does mentally damage them in ways you might not realize, im still dealing with a lot of mental health issues that stem from that particular incident in my life, please do not be that kind of parent, if you suspect your kid of something have a calm and comfortable conversation with them and not in an accusing way but in a way where you let them know they can trust you and that you only want to help them, that lets your kids know you really care and that you do love them.

[@SnakeNamedJake]

Man I feel really bad for you, I hope you're doing better now man!

[@addison_v_ertisement1678]

Please use a period.

[@an.1381]

​@@addison_v_ertisement1678why tf would they need to use periods its not like they are in school and u completely ignored all of her story

[@addison_v_ertisement1678]

@@an.1381 They need to use periods because their sentence is almost entirely incomprehensible.

[@jenniferrodgers4048]

I had a very similar experience. I’m so sorry you had to deal with that. No one should ❤

[@theredeyesamurai773]

"And also, It's very important to be respectful of the child's property" Doesn't fold clothes, leaves mess

[@LirylCrovyn]

Looks through the kid's diary...

[@davebryan1890]

He's giving him the deluxe police experience

[@jadendk7710]

Proceeds to yell at child for the child not folding their clothes

[@spicyramen6870]

Lmao wow so invading your child's privacy and looking through everything in their room is being respectful?

[@flow185]

@@davebryan1890 Premium All Inclusive DX police experience, by Gunsly

[@levothy]

The worst part for me is the fact he’s telling you to check the journal. That’s all your secrets and the most private thing you have, that fully ruins your kids privacy more than ever.

[@RigmanZ11]

Unfortunately many families don't believe their children should have privacy. Unfortunately for my family, I just treated them worse and worse until they finally gave up. Now I have next to no relationship with my parents and have a hard time emotionally connecting with anyone. I really can't blame them though - most of humanity is dumb as hell and has no idea what they're even doing for themselves to begin with lmao. I turned out okay enough though. Not happy with my life but I'm at least not a criminal, and I keep to myself and don't cause problems for myself or others!!

[@SplendidCoffee0]

@@RigmanZ11 I’m happy that you’re breaking the cycle!

[@RigmanZ11]

@@SplendidCoffee0 at this point I've chosen to not have children anyways, so even if I were to be just like them I at least wouldn't end up making someone else grow up like me and many other people did. Although I still try to question my beliefs every day and always try to be adaptive, because we can never be too sure what the future holds for us regardless of what we do or don't want 😝

[@orangeismyfavoritecolor]

When I was a lot younger, my mom found one of my sketchbooks while I was on vacation with my grandparents, and it was pretty much like a diary to me since I drew all of my thoughts and feelings into it, as well as drew pictures of shows/video games/etc. that I loved. What she did was look through EVERYTHING in that book, and then posted them ALL to Facebook without my permission. I was so angry with her, and I couldn’t do anything about it because I was states away. To this day I don’t show my art to her, and feel the need to hide anything that might have a close tie to myself. Mind you, I used to show her my drawings all the time when I was little, but ever since that happened I’ve stopped entirely. I know it sounds stupid, but she really broke my trust.

[@jorm1652]

that’s the equivalent of a parent secretly listening in on their child’s therapy sessions, only to use everything they said in private with their therapist against them. fucked up man. hate the fact that i live in orange county with that fuck head.

[@slaper12x]

As an ex correctional officer, this is note for note exactly how we used to conduct searches in cells. Fucking tragic and disgusting that this is being done to children, don't treat your kids like prisoners when you should be talking to them like a respectful human being

[@Shonda72]

I agree. my parents searched my stuff, but it was justified because when I was 12 or so, I was stealing their cards and stuff. Least for me it was justified. I can't imagine having this done to me for no reason

[@digiiiii]

bro fr my parents changed my doorknob so i cant lock it and they're always suspicious that im "hiding something" i trusted you id tell you everything, i really would. i love my parents but i dont trust them with personal things about me.

[@heyoyo10gaming4]

You're like the third Ex-Correctional officer I've seen in this comment section

[@YukariAkiyama]

@@heyoyo10gaming4 good cops seem to swarm the stupid ones

[@GYCLIPSESY]

@@heyoyo10gaming4 I feel like we should be seeing more there are a lot of prisons in America

[@UnpaidInternNo.9472]

"Make sure you respect your child's property" *literally less than 5 minutes later* "Make sure you go through their journal too"

[@UnpaidInternNo.9472]

Also "What appears to be a highlighter" got me good BREAKING NEWS: IF IT WORKS LIKE A HIGHLIGHTER, IT IS TECHNICALLY A HIGHLIGHTER

[@SwaggyG_2102]

This is the type of parenting that guarantees you a one-way ticket to an old folk's home when you get older.

[@Marryjanesbud]

That’s only if they get lucky and the kid decides too stay in touch. As an example a major reason I moved to South Korea is family issues. I’d rather just not see them in my day to day life.

[@duck1sgood]

thats an overstatement. Youd be lucky if your child even looks at your face

[@314rft]

"Then we'll put you in the crooked home that we saw on 60 minutes!"

[@yokootersmellfunky]

being too overprotective and not caring about your child is a great way to not be loved by your child

[@xeagaort]

I dunno my dad was like this growing up and I hated it, obviously, and I, quite literally, hated him but now that Im older I kinda appreciate his strictness. Maybe it helps that he mellowed out with his age. At the very least i know for a fact that him being like this stopped me from doing *anything* illegal because I know he would find it somehow and I would disappoint him. It made me focus on school. There was a time that i despised him for it and I rebelled in college but at the end of the day I dont mind that he was like that.

[@flicker031]

The worst part about this is when the kid grows up and has issues, the parents will not admit its their fault.

[@daytonmauk8907]

yup.

[@dcbooster]

@MA Aight fam have fun with that. The point is that doing what the cop is showing is a quick way to never hear from your kid again the moment they can get out from under your thumb.

[@somusircar4124]

@MA That's only if there's a legit reason to suspect that the kid is doing some illegal shit or getting themselves in trouble. However, if you're treating your kid like your property and invading their privacy and even going as far as to read their personal diary without any rhyme or reason all that time, even if there's literally no reason to suspect any wrongdoing, then maybe you are a piece of garbage that doesn't deserve kids. That's exactly what Charlie is saying and if you agree with the guy in the video then maybe you're already an abusive parent and if you're not a parent, then thank god.

[@debban6397]

@MA Seems like you need better company yourself. Get the hell out of those Facebook groups Soccer mom.

[@aidengray3998]

@MA Really? My Dad was explained what risks there were to drinking and smoking, and I *still* don't do either. My mother tried to stop me masturbating because god, and I have a porn addiction.

[@majortellandrus2552]

A message to parents: regularly searching your child's room causes them to feel the need to hide from you. If they are displaying negative behaviors this won't solve them, all it does is make them double down and dig in just to rebel against you.

[@dylanpiazza6358]

Yup, i was raised in a household like that and actually pushed me to rebel when i hadnt dont anything like that before.

[@chunchunmarupapachiru5425]

Is there any parents that watch cr1tikal? That'd be cool

[@ng_reed]

not to mention, it destroys any trust in the relationship. if my parents don't trust or respect me, why should I do so for them?

[@raeishimura]

This kind of behavior is why parents have kids that leave and cut all contact with them. I know a guy whose parents did that sort of crap. Any chance they had that he wasn't around they would root around his room for anything they could find. They did all kinds of crap, like this, and he hasn't spoken to them in over 15 years.

[@chunchunmarupapachiru5425]

@@caroline537 that's cool to know, I'm adopted and can't be anymore grateful since I fell into the right hands (my parents can be fierce sometimes but they still love me). And yes, I do get that. These whole "adoption" things are sometimes frustrating to think about since there's so many to organize. You must love her so much. She's lucky for that. Sorry for my English and have a great day!

[@Gr8fulBee]

I work in a prison, this guy is treating this kid like an actual inmate, even some of the cell inspections I've done have never been this drawn out... This guy seems like the kind of peer that I would hate to even work with, let alone be RAISED by...

[@josephisvr2947]

Source "Trust me bro"

[@goldengold8513]

@@josephisvr2947where is your source for being a real human?

[@KnightGlint]

"You have every legal right to search your child's room." And your child has every legal right to move out when they're 18, break all contact and forget you ever existed.

[@thomashornstein7085]

this statement is just as true as it is sarcastic. sure, don't be a complete douchey overlord when it comes to your child's privacy, but you have the final say when it comes to raising *your* child. Your the freaking parent for goodness sakes, not the government or the schools. but anyways, i agree with allowing children some liberties, but instead of yelling at them if you suspect something, sit em down and have an honest heart-to-heart conversation with them. they'll respect you way more if you treat them as human beings rather than pets you can control. sorry for the rant and advice, hope this helps in your child raising

[@obviouslyaim9007]

@@thomashornstein7085 I think knight was just talking about action and result, Kids are human beings too and naturally want free will, obviously if someone is going to order you around and give you no other choice your going to hate that person, there probably wasnt a slave in the history of the world that wanted to stay with thier master

[@obviouslyaim9007]

except for the isrealites but that was after they left

[@CanIGetaGame134]

Man that comment was kinda cringe. If my kid was fucking up and not following my reasonable rules, smoking weed in the house, failing school, etc., I’d probably be glad they’re gone. Doesn’t mean I wouldn’t still love them, but if they kept fucking up over and over again simply to *spite me* for being “uncool” I’d have no problem telling them to get the fuck out lmao. Like your comment sounds so whiny: “oh yea? You won’t let me do what I want?! Then I’m leaving and you won’t get to pay for all my shit anymore and deal with me!” Like okay, good luck son 😉

[@redeyedtiger]

@@thomashornstein7085 he wasnt sarcastic

[@Scendence_]

"We want to respect our child's privacy." "So your child's journal is a good place to search."

[@mrchromexxx]

ikr thats what pissed me off the most

[@minecraft-hw7kh]

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[@HobbesHobbiton]

Now seeing this guy do that made my blood boil

[@wafflesthearttoad6916]

“Make sure you read and memorize allllll their secrets!”

[@ashkebora7262]

6:50 ? He says "property". He might be aware he doesn't respect privacy. lol

[@uerbfcdfyuv5497]

Damn Nursing home speedrun world record holder looks sick ngl.

[@afr0kat680]

LMAO

[@thataintfalc0]

any%?

[@house_cocoon]

@@thataintfalc0 nah this seemed pretty glitchless to me

[@patrickriarchy6054]

That would require actually caring enough to put them into one. Not just leaving them a Denny's while on a road trip with their name and birthday on a piece of paper in their pocket.

[@memethief4113]

@@house_cocoon a true any% speedrunner would have used the coma cheat to timeskip

[@nightrealm04]

9:40 "Now we know our son isn't just a criminal, but an extremely untalented one when it comes to art" -Art Institutes in 1940's

[@OneHundredFiftyTwo]

That escalated quickly

[@Brrrstrument]

People who Know:

[@Luke-zv6bb]

@@nightrealm04 the iq is crazy

[@RoKer13]

As someone who is actually a counselor, if I had a nickel for every time a parent asked me “why does my child not like me/want to spend time with me” and then they tell me “oh I have their passwords to their social media, life 360 app, search their room, etc.”, I’d feel pretty financially secure. And it’s always kids who are well behaved too. And this is stuff parents have told me, if not just one parent doing all of this shit. Literally the biggest problem everyone has when it comes to any kind of bad relationship is COMMUNICATION. If you are concerned, TALK to your child without accusing them randomly. It’s not hard, that’s how being a decent person works.

[@HobbesHobbiton]

Parents: Communication? But why would I wanna talk to something I don't view as human?

[@RareTS]

yup helecopter parents love to pretend like the kid's hatred towards them is just coming out of no where then wonder why they want to get as far away as possible from them as soon as possible edit: I had a friend who had parents like this searching his room, checking his texts, alarm on window, literally like a prison. 1 year ago he only smoked weed and 2 days ago he shot up coke for the first time. Dont do this to your children, it will likely make everything much much worse.

[@God-ec8ni]

maybe youre just bad at counseling. not gonna be surprised if there are alot of kids on your counseling that would try to unalive themself

[@skeath]

@@God-ec8ni bro what

[@r011ing_thunder6]

@@God-ec8ni is this one of my parents? Because I swear they think they’re a god too. I can’t even question their intentions or vent about something personal about one of my parents without getting made out to a bad guy.

[@MindozaGaming]

Ah, the cop makes a good point, we should just send our kids to jail then they'll be safe from all drugs

[@aureosp1600]

even then there's more drugs in jail :D

[@jonathanoconnor450]

@@aureosp1600 ohhh, so THAT was the joke. Thanks

[@Awfulchunk]

@@jonathanoconnor450 its WAY EASIER TO GET HIGH IN JAIL AND FIND DRUGS then on the street.

[@somerandomanonymousdude3650]

@@Awfulchunk no wayyy 😱😱😱

[@joshuaspector8182]

I gotcha dawg. What you looking for 😂

[@trentonrekdahl4966]

"Legally, you can search your child's room. There is no legal problem with that." Legally, you can also tell your child they are disappointing and worthless. There are absolutely 0 legal issues with this as well, and I encourage you to take advantage of that while parenting them.

[@zFrizzi]

XDDDD Legally, you can move out and never talk to your parents again, and I encourage you to take advantage of that.

[@deathtaco4095]

That definitely sounds like the words of cop that gets mad when people tell him he needs a warrant and takes it out on his son

[@tony_5156]

@@deathtaco4095 hey oinker, no warrant? I plead the 5th!

[@NarendraMnr]

lol. Exactly

[@ganii1804]

Noted.

[@aghdbabdhshd]

The teen drew a goofy edgy drawing of a kid with a gun to their head as a BOOKMARK, this dude REMOVED HIS PAGE FROM THE BOOK BRO

[@BlisaBLisa]

i didnt even think of that ur right thats fucking rude lmao

[@Joemunji]

Despicable

[@sourceeee]

Ah yes, the most important parenting lesson of them all - making sure you instill trust issues into your child before they’re able to live on their own

[@osbdndke]

Perfect parenting if u ask me

[@youtubestudiosucks978]

@@osbdndke yeah, if you want to make a serial killer. They are forced to learn to get away of any evidence by their own parents. Run

[@sourceeee]

@@osbdndke /s

[@WastePlace]

@@osbdndke don’t be surprised when your kids grow up to hate you then

[@bluefxi2603]

whats so bad about searching their room?

[@robro_1030]

"Respect their privacy" "Check their journals" Perfectly balanced, as all things should be

[@Berserk1Manga]

@@aaronlandry3934 whoooooooooosh

[@rye872]

@@aaronlandry3934 yeah, it could, but if you're worried about your kid maybe you should, y'know TALK TO THEM! Get them therapy, if you think tossing your kids room every 6 month is how to be a good parent then you might also need therapy.

[@jeffbezos9135]

@@aaronlandry3934 If your only clue to having a suicidal child is reading their private writings, you have failed spectacularly as a parent.

[@Sirmatorz]

@@aaronlandry3934 that’s a you case then Talking to them is better than to doubt their trust and flip their room upside down Dude if you really wanted your parents to read your diary then do the dumbest thing alive and just straight up tell them and show them Or Give them hints unless they are the shittiest parents alive they would notice

[@AdamBlade17]

He said "respect their PROPERTY", not their privacy...

[@michaelpontifex6797]

Never been into writing journals but reading your kid's journal is on a whole another level than searching room itself

[@GwennSpider]

indeed, my mom actually used to check my room and found my journal and started to read it out loud, making fun of what I wrote and I literally never again talked to her about private things in my life :c

[@lights0030]

@@GwennSpider holy shit what an horrible thing to experience, that is just so mean.

[@cr24sh]

@@GwennSpider that's just fucked up

[@LHZOZ777]

@@GwennSpider oh my god this is horrible :((

[@moister3727]

Never wrote journals for the very same reason, i'm also bad at writting so nobody will understand it anyway, even me.

[@Engineer_Gaming245]

My dad is ex army and we don't talk anymore, he got violent with me and I left. He regularly performed inspections like this, and refered to the house as a military base, just to give you some perspective

[@Jws20]

You had a cartoon character for a father

[@cal7961]

Gross

[@Justin-yt7pi]

That pfp with that flag… 😒

[@IoraTera]

@@Justin-yt7pi transgineer gaming

[@marquiseh5128]

Me to myself: don't say it don't say it DONT SAY IT

[@OrigamiAhsoka]

Bruh his kid isn’t just a drug dealer, he’s the entire black market

[@gkpoo1773]

this 40 year old teenager

[@OrigamiAhsoka]

@@gkpoo1773 yes

[@2006IZ]

@@gkpoo1773 motherfuking .onion in the house

[@scootydad8093]

Not for long, he’s about to kill himself remember?

[@OrigamiAhsoka]

@@scootydad8093 true, he’ll sell everything on the black market first, that’s why it’s all in his room

[@NoLeftTurns965]

This isn’t just bad parenting advice, that’s exactly how correctional officers search prison cells. That guy was literally telling parents to treat their children like criminals. How has he not been fired yet?

[@blueglue52]

Dudes like him excel in law enforcement wym

[@Orudaiken]

Cops treat everyone like criminals. Including their own children. They just assume everyone is as depraved as they are.

[@coffeeenjoyer9099]

prob wasn't his script but idk

[@Notius]

@Chad I Had Your Mom When She Was Tight Thundercock Nah it's just basic psychology, if you treat people like prisoners they will feel like prisoners. It's a great way to lose all trust and make sure they never contact you willingly once they move out.

[@kayden232ou]

@Chad An Older Meme But It Checks Out Thundercock Are you defending him...? If so wtf dude.

[@skiiman534]

That “teenager” would be a perfect cast for a new Netflix series

[@2kchallengewith4video]

how many subs can i get from this comment? current: 172

[@jamescoyne4559]

Yeah that’s Jotaro levels of teenager

[@alexisea8874]

true

[@isaiah9759]

Lol This das is the dad who always talks about when they where a kid

[@YourLocalAverageSquidMan]

Very true

[@neonishere123]

So you can get in trouble in Gunsolley's house for: -having an empty container -having keyboard cleaner -having drawn anything related to drugs or suicide (aka being an edgy teen) - having small plastic bags (they COULD have had drugs in them at some point) Wild. Living here would be miserable lmao

[@0thewings]

oh and remember, you can't have balloons and whipped cream in the house because that 100% means your kid is doing whippets and their brain will explod

[@addison_v_ertisement1678]

Why would people have plastic bags if not for sandwiches or other food?

[@CocoWantsACracker]

@@addison_v_ertisement1678 Boardgame pieces. I have a wealth of ziplock bags from smaller parts of electronic devices, as most boardgames don't have trays that organize small components as neatly grouped together as I want.

[@Zombaealien]

A lot of tiny bags are also used by jewelry stores that hold earring backings or clothing brands that put extra buttons in there

[@TheRealBillWilliamson1]

As a prisoner in Gunsolley’s house, I was put in solitary confinement for having a plastic bag in my desk (he thought i was selling coke outside in the backyard)

[@drewvonawesome8851]

Parents that do this will unironically call their kids "their property".

[@penguengu9530]

my mom is like this and unironically refers to me as "the maid" lol

[@sucyshi]

Well my parents property ran away and made a life for herself without them send a way better life they will ever have

[@LuneKidYT]

@@penguengu9530 holy shit ;m; hope you're taking it well, sending love from africa -w-

[@Extremezotako]

Yeah

[@spencercillgore9226]

True, true.

[@deadlikedisco4726]

I've been to jail. This is literally a shakedown. Even then, the corrections officers were doing their jobs and didn't sit us down to talk about drawings or empty bottles. Parents out there, you're not a CO. You're a parent. If you do this kind of thing, prepare for your kids to never talk to you again once they leave the house.

[@kettles827]

Whats a CO?

[@colorblockpoprocks6973]

My father literally IS a CO and he isn't quite this bad lmao

[@colorblockpoprocks6973]

@@kettles827 corrections officer ^-^ people who work in prisons to keep inmates in line and whatnot

[@kettles827]

@@colorblockpoprocks6973 ahh ok. Thanks ^w^

[@IOwnCows]

Yup. I was a CO in a jail. Can confirm that this is literally just a shakedown. I didn't even like doing it to grown men, I can't imagine how someone could justify doing that to a kid.

[@BarnacleBoy42069]

I love how parents immediately assume their kid is doing drugs as soon as they are classified as a teenager lol

[@bootynut1002]

I swear if my mom thinks I’m doing drugs I’m jumping out the window again I barely even leave the house 😂

[@itsNep_]

@@bootynut1002 Again?!

[@Garrillagamer]

@@bootynut1002 if jumping out the window is a common occurrence for you id assume you were on drugs too

[@krazymeanie]

Well I mean with all the school shootings teenagers of this generation been doing is good to be precautious at least. Not to the point of invasive privacy but not completely oblivious to the possibility of danger either. Not all kids are angels.

[@toohightohigh3640]

@@bootynut1002 that sounds like something a teenager on drugs tryingg to convince other people that hes not on drugs would say -_-

[@GlitchManOmega]

Growing up, my room was never randomly searched for contraband or anything like that, but there was a distinct lack of trust between myself and my parents when it came to money. Every Christmas and birthday, half of the paper money I'd received would be immediately confiscated and "put away for college," and during the rest of the year for the large and most part I wasn't even allowed to spend my own money on things. Naturally, once college started I immediately became an impulse-buyer to make up for lost time, and to this day I'm still trying to tone that drive down. The most ridiculous example was when one classmate in 11th grade was trying to sell me his old PSP and a handful of games for $130, which was a great deal by 2008 standards. I had an ATM card at that time, but because of my upbringing I had the misconception that if I walked up to an ATM and withdrew my own money, my mother would somehow immediately know about it because she had to open the account with me, a minor. Long story short, I had to BEG my parents, at the age of 17, to access $130 of my own money from an ATM to buy this handheld game device from a classmate. And they, who know absolutely nothing about the video game economy, agreed to do it after several days only if I could negotiate the price down to $120. I had to lie to this classmate during that interlude and keep saying I "had my wallet in my other pants" or some BS because I'd have been embarrassed to tell the actual truth. Thankfully in the end, I got the PSP and paid my classmate the full price we agreed on without mommy and daddy knowing, but I felt like a complete fool for having to go through that whole damn process.

[@Magicalwolfgamer]

Dang!! Wtf

[@varakai4933]

Not gonna lie, the pipe highlighter and mountain dew hidden compartment are great products. Would buy. Thanks officer. Also, parents like this would drive their kids into drugs and alcohol as they'd want to act out. A complete lack of respect and privacy doesn't make you a better parent funny enough.

[@Rabbit-the-One]

Yeah, they were. I had stuff like that when u was in school, and I loved it. Wasn't really of any use to me though because no one rifles through my stuff. See what I did there? Gunsley? Rifled? Yeah, you saw it

[@loganwithlightsabers3051]

I would see shit like that at smoke shops and my dumbass thought they were like actual Brisk tea and Coke cans lol

[@yellowmustard7482]

Those higlighter bowls are cool, but not very fun to smoke through imo

[@lootjunior]

for me the best thing was the scale, cops will never look for a cd scale, way too much work to open everything

[@thegoat682]

theres no way that highlighter pipe is worth it... you smoke out of it once and it will stink up your whole room if you keep it there

[@icehoof]

On a smaller note, I like how he's saying to respect his kids belongings while just throwing his shorts in the drawer and unrolling all of his socks

[@imrank9282]

EXACTLY, literally disrespecting his things and making him fold all of it again while saying that

[@sorryifoldcomment8596]

Exactly...and he's showing the kid that's how to "respect someone's belongings." Teaching him all kind of messed up things about what "respect" is and what actions qualify as "respectful." If that kid ends up in a toxic & abusive relationship - either as the victim or the perpetrator - I won't be surprised. If this is how he treats his future partners, with this kind of "respect," then he will be a horrible partner himself...and a shitty father too. Hopefully he can break the cycle, but it will be in despite of the terrible lessons he's being taught right now.

[@stinkmonger]

and looking through their fucking DIARY

[@Anarchristian_Beanz]

He's probably the same parent to yell at them for having unfolded clothes

[@DrahcirII]

@@stinkmonger I went digital years ago because of that exact thing

[@red_doggo7219]

"We'll talk later" So many years later and this phrase still sends chills down my spine.

[@johndiaz8905]

It's why you follow up with, "Yes we will."

[@davebryan1890]

" I'm not angry just disappointed " was the worst one for me , it was a nod to let you know that although mum wasn't angry your dad will be home soon and he most certainly will be

[@dewmontain123]

🤣 we were bad. They dont make em like us anymore

[@pewricospaceshipper]

this.

[@krismuttz]

i wasn't even a bad kid. just expected to be perfect so this video just hurts

[@moth-wf4yu]

If you try and turn your child/parent relationship into a prisoner/warden dynamic, your prisoner won’t return to their prison the moment they’re given the chance

[@shadeshadow2347]

Can’t fathom why the kid would feel the need to hide anything, look at how respectfully gunsley treats all of their belongings. _Clearly_ this is an open and accepting household

[@NoahgusBakery]

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[@jcrimson.]

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[@NoahgusBakery]

@@jcrimson. xD

[@_Aidelweiss_]

throws all of his boxer to the floor and dont bother to putting them back, "also its very important to be respectful to the child belongings". no shit

[@minecraft-hw7kh]

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[@barleyteaa]

My dad always told me that children must respect adults' authority no matter what, and even when adults disrespect children. Anyways, this is the seventh year he's tried to contact me.

[@leahbairos9680]

Good for you for getting rid of toxicity in your life. I'm so happy that I managed to also get rid of the bad relationships in mine. Good luck in your future, you deserve happiness and love. :)

[@moatasemkassab4517]

In my own culture, utmost importance is put on the parents rather than children, you can get emotionally abused and physically abused and you will often be scolded for making your parents angry and the blame will be put on you as a child/teen. I've always stuck with this parenting motto: Treat your children greatly in childhood and they will treat you better further into adolescence and adulthood. The problem is, people tend to think they treated their children better in childhood when they ACTUALLY didn't.

[@cheezbiscuit4140]

Child molesters love that rule

[@13game3]

If that is the worst thing he did I would suggest you respond. People change. They evolve. I look back at my own life 10 years ago and think I was an asshole. But of course he might have done worse things that are irredeemable. Just give it a thought.

[@steelsymen5529]

@@13game3 they gave it a thought and it seemed the answer was no

[@whatisupbruh2738]

“As a parent you have every right to search your child’s room. There is no legal wrong there.” If the only thing stopping you from being unethical or immoral are laws, then there are bigger issues at hand 😒

[@highwaythruhell7882]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/iXO0fWevqbSYaaM NEW FOOTAGE RELEASED :)........................

[@keaganmon6272]

Big oof

[@airplanes_aren.t_real]

If your moral compass is solely reliant on how your actions will effect you instead of others that's a problem

[@Nib_Nob-t7x]

its not unethical to know what your kids are doing it's called caring

[@anthonypincelli4007]

@Jack Wrath nobody even knows who tf that is weirdo gtfo

[@Slime_Goblin]

My parents did shit like this all through growing up. Took away my door and curtains for over two years just so that “I would have nothing to hide” among other crazy shit. It created problems that didn’t get solved in our relationship until I was well into my late twenties and after my twin brother hung himself in our apartment. If you’re a parent, don’t treat your kid like this ever.

[@raedewav]

I feel an unbelievable amount of sadness for this dude's kids.

[@angelcarrillo980]

I have an unbelievable amount of hope this dude has no kids.

[@sakuramune_]

@@angelcarrillo980 yeah

[@kimbaldun]

Looking from the hairline the dude either recently got a divorced or has no kids, either way he' still won't make a good parent

[@who_k_nows]

i was laughing the whole video because this is literally exactly how my parents would treat me. the funniest part is charlie’s spot on commentary. i moved out at 17 and haven’t talked to my mom in 2.5 years 👍 do this if you never want to see your kids after 18

[@sakuramune_]

@@who_k_nows and end up in a 💩 retirement home 🤣

[@raye48]

Looking through someone's diary or journal is the absolute lowest of the low. You're looking inside their head, and most likely one of the only places they feel comfortable.

[@wife_7617]

This, this is the one opinion in this comment section I can agree with

[@stentor9640]

bUT iTS LeGaL

[@KagomeVasquez]

Yeah I had that happen to me. My mom and aunt did it and I was so mad they wanted to make fun of a story that I wrote for myself, not for someone to read. People need to know boundaries.

[@p0p525]

God I hate that Happened once and it gave me an anxiety attack Don't do that....

[@p0p525]

@@wowimstillalive5878 Holy fuck thats awful, but yeah ideally do it on your phone

[@sillylittleowlguy2392]

Great job Sgt. gunsley, you just taught me how to properly hide all my things from my parents

[@Worjestershire]

*bob's head* "duck yeah!"

[@Worjestershire]

@Not gonna lie those wise words pissed me off, and for that, I am suing you! See you in court on Tuesday!

[@heronekkotheanimer7386]

You hide outside your room. That is a sigma grindset for you.

[@nejinaji]

And prison guards

[@Charles-cb3lo]

in the air vents

[@AQUASTEEZY]

My grandfather (who fostered me) used to search my room all the time. I always thought it was amusing that he thought I’d be stupid enough to keep shit he shouldn’t find in the room with me. He usually would just find stuff that was never even hidden but he disagreed with but it was all very arbitrary. He got really, very upset when he started finding post it notes saying shit like “nothing here!” “Look harder” “did you think it would be that easy?” He actually confronted me on these antagonizing notes and my response was simply that if he didn’t invade my privacy and show me that he doesn’t trust me; he wouldn’t be getting humiliated in this fashion. Suffice it to say that we don’t talk anymore.

[@CocoWantsACracker]

I was fully expecting the final sentence to be: "So he stopped and later we laughed about it". I'm sorry that wasn't the case.

[@Xkhaosxzeus]

Sgt. Gunsolley literally said it's ok to fully take advantage of someone as long as it's legal. Great parenting advice that builds sociopaths

[@jlancov8890]

I mean, it's legal for the child to lock the parent out of the room, so how about installing several bolts onto your door to shut them out

[@bbrycee.]

@@jlancov8890 that’s probably what I would do if I have a parent like gunsolley or whatever goofy fucking name he has

[@MrMug-vj1up]

@@jlancov8890 i wouldve tried that if my dad was sane and wouldn't just break my door down with an axe and take it off its hinges

[@Rudansfm]

lmao yeah

[@the_rose_garden01]

I mean, he is a cop. You really surprised?

[@elteay1]

When he said “make sure to take advantage of that while they’re under the age of 18” it just feels so manipulative and like this guy treats his kids as objects and not actual people. It would suck to have this guy as a parent.

[@cicelypatterson3927]

and who knows what will happen AFTER the kid turns 18, he will most definitely try his best to continue this abuse of power when he is an adult

[@itsjustmenova]

@@cicelypatterson3927 I had parents do something similar. When I was 18 I managed to move out and just like that I never saw them since, and have never been happier. I guarantee this is the reality parents will find themselves if they treat their kids like this

[@hellothere3071]

He’s most likely following a script meaning whoever wrote that script put that in. Doesn’t at all mean he’s a bad parent.

[@mysteriousstranger5873]

One of my friends had a stepdad like this, the first major argument they had after he turned eighteen ended with him getting kicked out

[@pinhead7422]

@@itsjustmenova yo congrats, that is a big W right there.

[@valoressbqiskrnrjbx5025]

I'm extremely glad my mom treated me like a human being and not a criminal on parole. I think if i had to grow up with a parent like this guy, I'd have willingly eaten lead 13 years ago and just hope for a re-roll on the rng to get a better parent.

[@matureenough34]

It’s heartbreaking when a kid tries to take their life, even when they don’t roll a critical hit and end up paralyzing or disfiguring themselves! It was cold where I grew up and there was one time where I dressed in white, showered with my clothes on, and walked into the forest behind my house hoping to not be found till next spring. I pushed though the urge to sleep, and got home, but many of my toes and fingers have irreparable nerve damage as a result.

[@GamerGrill420]

I wish my mom was like that, she'd go in my room while I wasn't there so that she could call me and yell at me about whatever I did wrong, she also removed the door to my room because I couldn't keep it clean, which allowed the dogs to get in and destroy my taxidermy fox tail and ears. Oh and she got so mad at me and my brother because our room was messy (we used to share a room when we were younger) she ripped our closet door off of it's hinges with her bare hands, later on she said "it was either the door or you guys." I was around 5 or 6 years old at the time I believe.

[@zeaxanthinepoxidase]

i feel like ive already seen your comment before under another video. might just be me though

[@valoressbqiskrnrjbx5025]

@@zeaxanthinepoxidase I get around

[@zeaxanthinepoxidase]

@@valoressbqiskrnrjbx5025 mm.

[@hellishwinter3397]

Was raised like this, I'm an adult now and if you want all of your kids to leave at 16-18 y/o and never talk to you again raise them like this. (don't matter if one of them was a prized golden child that got everything they wanted they will see your ways for what they are and leave as well)

[@sagemoore2935]

My parents were like this with an additional step of intrusion: they took notes on me. My behaviors. My habits. Everything. Notebooks filled with daily journals about what my mood was, if I got in trouble for anything, what they found in my journals or room, what I ate, when I woke up, when I went to bed… I just found their logs a few months ago, and I haven’t said a word about them. I think I might wrap them up and give them to them for Christmas just for some dramatic spice.

[@pandovolt3227]

Do it. Show them you ain't a fucking prisoner, you're a human.

[@johntaco861]

Or do the good ol classic “cut them completely out of your life once you’re 18 or have a home of your own.” Trick

[@lifereadguy9933]

Oh man, I'm sorry you're going through that

[@bruh.5620]

cap

[@nathanieldeez4370]

U better do it bro, u need to confront ur parents about this. Taking notes on u like ur some fucking experiment or prisoner is just wrong, and also give them some powerful speech along with it so they can really feel how u view/feel about them. What they r doing to u is just awful and an invasion of ur privacy. U gotta get it off ur chest

[@alcidesprieto1967]

No one wonder Gunsolley's son does so many drugs. Imagine having a parent like him.

[@TheDeanofLean]

All the drugs it's probably why he looks 30 years older.

[@MechEagle]

That a fact btw ... Strict parents do creat worst kids i saw in my life !!!

[@WestCoastWheelman]

He's probably selling weed to Kevin Spacey next door.

[@plantain.1739]

Honestly the fact he seem to be into weed is a fucking miracle. I'd be doing heroin, personally.

[@MUIDYLANICE]

I feel like being such a horrible person to your child while also constantly telling them to not do drugs would just make them do it out of spite

[@Sterben1269]

"you wanna be respectful of your child's property" "you have every right to search your child's room" this man is a walking contradiction....

[@yuhhuh]

Man says you wanna be respectful but acts like the worst parent in history.

[@Johnyakuza572]

"I have no belief, but i believe you're a walking contradiction, and i ain't got no right" - Phineas, 1995

[@Sterben1269]

@@yuhhuh fr

[@Sterben1269]

@@Johnyakuza572 haven't heard that in a while

[@TheSilentWalkerz]

He acts like his house is a prison. He acts like there should be a search for contraband items

[@jeremypayne5078]

*"Hey there, fellow kids. I sure do love playing Tetris on my good ole PlayStation."*

[@RenegadeBilbo]

As a parent, this is absurd as hell. Kids deserve to have their privacy unless something is done to break that trust barrier. Even then, that's not a good reason to literally prison cell search their room.

[@NahkriinAhziid]

You’re so right. It’s a far better idea to let them know if you’re concerned about anything and talk about it

[@PurposedLensPhotoMedia]

Exactly! If ANYTHING, the lack of trust a parent has in their own child by searching his or her room is an indicator of that parent's parenting skills or lack thereof. 😢

[@erikmckoul2478]

Even if someone was a bad parent and constantly searched the kids room this is terrible advice for that, it would make more sense to do it while the kid is gone.

[@crazedsamurai8995]

yeah and you wonder why parents kids hate them lol and don't talk to them

[@wilbs5970]

Exactly!

[@madaemon]

"This may be a sign of suicidal ideation." Well, with you as a father....

[@sdk2571]

If it was me in that position. Those intentions won't be intentions any longer..

[@Corsoux_Dev]

@@sdk2571 they would be actions

[@dumpsterchild131]

can’t be sad if you’re dead

[@CalcMaster900]

I used to be a prison guard. This is literally how we were taught to search cells at the Academy.

[@Heezbungus]

BRO

[@GlidingZephyr]

My Dad is a retired Game Warden, and he never once invaded my privacy like this. I'm not saying he was a perfect Parent while I was growing up but you get the idea. One thing he told me on his day off was how he could get away with breaking into and searching a vehicle without a warrant. If an animal (e.g. a dog) was left inside, and he could prove probable cause for the search in Court, he could list his initial reasoning as: "Animal in distress." He caught quite a few drug traffickers that way, but he never misused any tricks of the trade like this guy.

[@HobbesHobbiton]

Skjsjkskjs yeah, the parallels between how literal prisoners and how this cop treats his kids are alarmingly similar

[@pedroguzman8036]

5:50 "Kids use this to get high, and so do I" *Sniffs* So wonderful

[@noahspizza4003]

"If you have to be reassured that whatever you are doing isn't *technically* illegal, then it's probably very immoral..." Charlie with wisdom

[@tunafish5462]

This reminded me of "technically it's not incest" meme lol.

[@Felix-xw6du]

Well… I’m sure Jesus has much wisdom to tell

[@downfromthereeefters]

No it’s not immoral to search a room in *your own house*. Parents are morally obligated to ensuring their kids aren’t doing bad things so it’s the opposite of immoral.

[@jillianisabell1248]

@@downfromthereeefters It’s one of those things of just because you *can* doesn’t mean you *should*

[@sambhavsingh7415]

@@downfromthereeefters it goes both ways. If you severely comprise your child's privacy then the mistrust will go both ways. Your child won't trust you. And the people who are best at lying usually have these kinds of parent. There's a limit to restricting your kids and most of other problems can be ironed out by having honest conversations with their children.

[@brokenlegs8431]

That "we'll talk later" and especially the way he says it 100% lets me know his kids have never, ever, been given any real opportunity to tell him anything other than what he wants to hear

[@cicelypatterson3927]

anything that kid says will be treated like it came from the mouth of the already hardened criminal, whatever he says is always a lie or an attempt to trick him. So incredibly sad to see

[@SamnissArandeen]

@@cicelypatterson3927 Dealing with it *as an autistic person with next to no support for it growing up* in my case

[@TheDenOfTimbsStudios]

Now that may not be true, for all you guys know (and I say this because my dad was an officer) he could made this because the police office wanted him too.

[@jasondrouin3255]

What😂 he’s a cop trying to be an actor, so it’s not exactly natural

[@TheDenOfTimbsStudios]

@@jasondrouin3255, trust me it’s a lot harder to act.

[@j.franknorris2346]

Police officer here. If you take this route to parenting, you have essentially turned your kids into suspects and you have failed as a parent. Take an active role in yours kid’s life from day 1, be open and honest with them, and treat them like they’re a human being. Do that and they will be less likely to engage in substance abuse in the first place. They’re your kids, not inmates. Absolutely horrible advice from this sergeant.

[@squigglefifi6125]

Yep - I could do easily hide drugs from my very trusting parents, but I don't want to be anywhere near them, lol. My friend also has super trusting parents who give him privacy, and while he does smoke marijuana, once they found out, they just sat him down and talked and they've been trying to help him quit - and he WANTS to. It's a lot healthier than struggling with stuff and not telling out of fear of punishment

[@rachaelbunny6198]

Dude, for real. Doesn't it seem like common sense that treating your children like this is just an all around bad idea? I mean, for God's sake, there's a MONUMENTAL differentiation between being a good, loving, strict, caring parent vs. being a fucking Nazi who forces their children to live under tyrant rule just because your career is with law enforcement. My mom was a cop, and she never changed her parenting style or utilized her job as a means of specific punishment, like homeboy is literally *telling and encouraging* other parents to do. Just, wow. How sad.

[@jlancov8890]

For real, it's worrying how many parents might take this seriously, since my parents already do stuff like this, but less often and more fair than this, but at least I'm not treated like a suspect, the "Get them out of the room so they don't distract you from doing a thorough search" felt more like a reason to get the kid out of their room so they can't stop you from invading their extremely personal items, like a diary. The "child out of room" tactic seriously just felt like the child was going to be an obstacle in the journey of ripping open all of their secrets and forcing yourself into their personal areas

[@socriabbas454]

He took his job as a sergeant way to seriously to the point that the treat his house hold like a fucking boot camp. His childrens are cadets and his wife is his general.

[@Luffnin]

FTP

[@joshuashaw2923]

I get parents wanting to make sure kids are safe, and kids are stupid sometimes, but doing this every six months for NO REASON is unacceptable. And unless there’s been reason to believe they may be considering self harm, I would NEVER search their diary.

[@mikcon63]

"You have every right to search your child's room while they are under the age of 18". - quote from parent that gets 1 phone call a year on their birthday from their kids.

[@rootabeta9015]

"1 phone call a year on their birthday"... if the kid is feeling generous that day.

[@plasmaflippy9376]

And that phone call was probably cus another family member screamed on the phone begging them to do the call

[@Resi1ience]

If I had parents like this, calling them would be an act of deigning.

[@brendanm6921]

@goggles789 literally nobody here is even coming close to suggesting that parents shouldn't intervene if they suspect their child of planning a terror attack. Jesus.

[@bradenaurelion3033]

My parent was also a cop and did this and similar stuff and can confirm my brother and I are a maybe 1 phone call type of children now

[@Satanicks]

Fun fact: if you treat people like they are untrustworthy, you will get the same treatment back! Another fun fact: children are actually also people!

[@Ilivepuppys]

This is old but the brady bunch is a great show to show how parents should act, even when the older boy is found with drugs the mum believes him when she says they aren't his because he never have lied to her before and its him who wants to doubly prove its not him.

[@lorelei5038]

I really feel like parents don't understand that their kids are still people who are able to form their own opinions, and that their opinion of them is Not gonna be the best if you treat them with so much distrust and disrespect

[@nathangi7917]

Wait seriously!? Children are peopel!??! 🤯🤯🤯

[@firedragon21]

Wait children can even be considered as real human beings with real emotions? Holy shit this just changed everything

[@LongNguyen-xt1hx]

Parents these days eh? Treating them kids like they're criminal or sth

[@connortremblay1259]

There's absolutely no way that this guy advised that you read your child's journal and then immediately follows that up with "and this isn't actually illegal" without seeing the problem. Absolutely ridiculous

[@SpicyMediaReal]

The problem doesn't think they are doing anything wrong.

[@stentor9640]

Just because it’s lawful doesn’t mean it’s ethical, parents who do this kind of shit might end up with a real shitty and distant relationship with their kid.

[@hashbrown777]

The fact he needed to say "it's not illegal" means he knows it's wrong, he just doesn't care. I guess in his mind the ends justify the means Edit: Just got up to that part of the video, peng just said the exact same thing fml

[@SlayingSin]

I used to try and claim it was illegal for my parents to spank me or punish me for misbehavior. Sorry you are too much of a entitled bigot to appreciate the effort this man is putting in to ensure his child's saftey.

[@microwave7093]

@@SlayingSin spanking and punishing are fair. this isn't. teenagers are people too, and they need their privacy. if you suspect your child is doing drugs, then fucking talk to them. don't set up an entire guideline and make it a prison for them so when they come home everyday they have constant dread hanging over their head.

[@westy3783]

Speaking from experience, having your parents search your room as a teenager actually makes you want to do drugs FAR more. Now I have a propensity for drugs, and a real major anxiety problem about people being in my home/ room etc as an adult.

[@lucasqualls5086]

The parallels to how police conduct a cell search is wild, and definitely is a great metaphor for how they view their own children as prisoners, whether they realize it or not.

[@sebastianriz4703]

Lets not forget about searching your personal blood's room while you are dressed in uniform. What a douche

[@inkysplats1408]

You're talkin outta your ass, bud. My dad is a cop and he never goes through my stuff and he respects my privacy. He also raised me right so it's not like I do drugs or drink anyways.

[@megatronhasfallen9579]

@@inkysplats1408 reread the comment "bud"

[@enriquecolon1150]

@@inkysplats1408 I'm sure hes just talking about some cops and not all

[@uten3490]

@@inkysplats1408 who said anything about your daddy

[@TheDahaka1]

You can hear how anxious he gets when he's talking how it's not illegal to search the room of your child. He KNOWS it's wrong. He knows he's telling parents to not treat their children as people, but as property.

[@randomguy-randomness]

@JEÑÑY JENNY YA DRAFT BOT I'M TRYING TO READ, GO PUT YE KINKAY STUFF ON THE P-HUB YA BROKEN BATTERY!

[@BallisticSoul6]

@random guy we salute you for resisting the horny comrade

[@bigcconservativeguy2534]

Wishful thinking on your part. You're hearing something that isn't there. He's not on script and trying to be as tactful as possible. Thats all you heard, him looking for the best way to relate what he was saying!

[@ryankitchen8882]

Right??? It’s almost like he IS aware of how MORALLY wrong it is, he just doesn’t fucking care.

[@wheatleyede7628]

Lmao the conservative in these comments trying to say the police officer is totally normal during this video. No man this is the visage of a man who has secrets and lets no one near him have any. He knows he's awful but he hides it behind being a police officer.

[@wen6ys]

The only thing this teaches your kids is how to hide things even better /or in places you'll never look. Breaks all barriers of trust. My mom becoming paranoid of everything i did = me becoming very good at lying.

[@phoenix7015]

@MA If you're a great parent, your kids will be open to you. You don't need to search their room when they tell you the truth. If they don't tell you the truth then you are doing something wrong while parenting. It's a violation of privacy, so no, there is no need to search their room, especially if they don't want you to. I certainly try to tell my parents about my life, not to the point where it violates my privacy, but at the same time at a comfortable level because my parents raised me right. Sure, they're not perfect, but they raised me correctly and far better than anyone else probably would. I've seen you in alot of comments. Are you trying to let out your inner problems because your parents didn't respect your privacy or something whilst you were raised?

[@dirtydan9785]

@MA It *says* you should do this every six months. I.e. regularly. If you unironically think this is a good thing to do to someone "just to see how they're doing," get help.

[@BigBodyBiggolo]

@MA unless your kid is obviously nodding out or tweeking this is really unnecessary. I think you both have a good point tho. Somewhere in the middle would be best, and just talking about drugs and telling them that nothing is good to abuse, and everything can be used in moderation. Maybe draw comparison with their own life; like how sometimes you feel like playing a video game for an hour and all of a sudden 6 hours passed, that drugs isnt much different and before you know it all your money and time is gone and none of the fun sticks around and youre going to have thru withdrawal which is like being very sick for a week or more. If you remain the parent but still respect them it allows them to realize they make their own choices but youre stil there to help or punish when shit hits the fan. Peace

[@thaurerwethrinaer1769]

@MA Yikers, sir. Mental health professionals disagree - speaking of mental health, and this is definitely not the way you should handle things as a parent. Building trust + good communication > going through their stuff under the assumption you'll find something they're hiding.

[@technophobian2962]

@MA I'd rather have my parents communicate very well and make it very clear that it's ok for me to talk about my problems to them than have them search my room. Searching my room would make it less likely that I open up to them about anything.

[@unstabledefusion]

My parents went so far as to drill my bedroom door to the floor so that I couldn’t close it. As a socially awkward teenage boy who had few friends and was too afraid to even try drugs or anything, this confused the hell out of me and made me resent them for as long as I lived there.

[@jprofio]

The most frustrating part of this to me is imagine being a kid that actually bothered to fold all your clothes and put them away, then on a weekly basis your parents come in and wreck your dresser looking for drugs and just leave it like that. Not only does he invade the room, he trashes it in the process and doesn't even have the decency to clean up behind himself as he goes

[@ah8893]

That’s what happened w me then I got hit w “Why aren’t you folding your clothes!!”

[@thecheesegod2738]

My dad used to come into my foom and take everything and dump it out of trhe bedroom and make it a huge pile and watch me pick it all up and conficate whatever he didnt want me having for whatveer reason. Well now I ran away and never speak to them so 😂 thats what it does to your kids

[@0racleRose]

Thats what my mom did!!! I'd clean my room and she'd go through it, mess everything up, and make me clean it.

[@dalynbratcher9888]

@@Santiago-sh3cq Nobody asked to be born. "Oh well you live there, so you are their property!"

[@darandala]

@@Santiago-sh3cq So because you happen to be someones child you're invading THEIR home for being born and not old enough or capable of having a job? What the fuck kind of argument is that?!

[@NOTanAriral]

"Respect their property." - He says, as leaving every single one of his clothes jumbled together like a ball of gum.

[@eihodge]

Imagine coming home from middle school to find your room completely trashed every week.

[@noahplack9490]

@@eihodge “Son, we need to have a serious talk about this keyboard duster and empty thermoses. You’re a fucking monster and you should be ashamed.”

[@xcaluhbration]

He would've got a terrible, sticky surprise if he touched the socks in my drawers when I was a teenager.

[@HobbesHobbiton]

*_MMM_* Now this comment is personally relatable, time to add to that trauma checklist! ✔

[@matthewbibby8921]

I feel like the goal as a parent would be to become a figure that you’re kid is comfortable around you to trust you with important stuff that you can help guide them on. In this respect literally anything you do to make your kid feel uncomfortable around you is a step back from that.

[@superspooky4580]

Absoulty. You want your kids to trust you so if something is going bad they will talk to you about it and not bottle it up. If your kids scared to talk to you about small things imagine if they got someone pregnant or got pregnant themselves. Rather than telling you they would probably just put it in a bag and toss it in the river.

[@poppinpineapples3481]

As someone who had very severe depression during high school, this shit is pretty vital

[@toomanymarys7355]

You children are going to be fabulously awful parents. Please don't have kids. I don't have to search the rooms of my kids not because I'm their buddy buddy but because I'm a decent parent who raises them to be decent people.

[@boozle8125]

@@toomanymarys7355 You don't have to be buddy buddy to have mutual trust and respect

[@DanielLightspeedMcNair]

@@toomanymarys7355 you must be a fabulously awful parent if you seek out other people’s parenting methods to tell them they’d suck at parenting lmao

[@ronan2004]

8:58 as a child, you have every legal right to send your parents to a nursing home when they're older

[@YelloWool]

Kids need privacy. Not whatever the heck this is.

[@HobbesHobbiton]

Parents: But how will I know who my child is if I don't read their diary? 🤡

[@randomweinerhole1649]

Oh yeah a furry, now that's the kinda person that cares about a child's safety

[@nendoscantflip6]

@@randomweinerhole1649 Shouldn’t everyone care about child safety?

[@Blackrose-qn9hj]

@@randomweinerhole1649 ur the kind of person that just looks at a picture and is offended instead of reading the actual context.

[@randomweinerhole1649]

@@Blackrose-qn9hj Okay buddi

[@user-hu6ut9gx8j]

“Dead body in the closet, gonna wanna set that aside, have a little talk later.”

[@Raspieberry]

lmaoo

[@reesesollars1553]

This comment is golden

[@mastershooter64]

Lmao

[@chezzychills4428]

Thus goteth me deceased asf my lord

[@sakuramune_]

😂

[@Wallis_2001]

My jaw dropped when he said "journals are good to go through." I knew this guy sucked from the beginning, but that one hit the hardest. If my parents went through my diary as a teenager, I'm not sure I ever would've spoken to them again. That's a violation of trust that you can never repair.

[@marielovespepsi6534]

Spaltoonies know

[@palindrome1959]

A massive violation that would be very hard to forgive. Parents sometimes forget that they were once teenagers facing the same hurdles that their own kids are now going through. Either that or the parents are just garbage human beings like Sargent Gunsight ...

[@joltyflare]

Yeah. I think it's hilarious that this dude also suggested going through books. I've always had a few hundred books so that would take God knows how long to rummage through.

[@cruleo]

My parents went through my diaries and sketchbooks when I was younger. They were filled with sketches and stuff of my personal feelings, especially my suicidal thoughts and plans that i have always struggles with. They wouldnt even bring up any concerns with me, but I’d know that they went through them because I’d find my diary in my moms car when I’d always leave it under my pillow or my dad would seem angry at me. I remember once my dad, an avid smoker, found my cigarettes looking through one of my bags and he told me that the brand I smoked was terrible and basically said that menthol was for pussies (they were newports) parenting like this ruins trust and relationships

[@cheyenne3603]

Your Own Family members be hating and People that has access to you be Hating people that knows your name be Hating.

[@centerfield6339]

The journal bit! I felt for sure he was going to say "You have every legal right, but be very careful about violating boundaries when it comes to your child's journal." But no.

[@tjman1095]

I was raised by a woman with parents like this and she will absolutely testify that it only made her craftier at hiding things when she was a kid. Im too old now for the advice to matter but she told me that she never worried about searches after getting busted once. She had the world's greatest hiding spot and everyone else does too, to an extent. She gladly allowed her parents into the room and they would tear it up. All the while she gave them bs like "ooohh make sure you check my sock drawer. Its a good hiding place." She would just laugh at them the whole time they searched because while they tore apart her room, she knew her stash was safe and sound in the one place no parent would ever look. Their own bedroom. She had a couple of spots and 2 really good stash spots in her own parents room. They would never think to look in their own room. If she ever worried she knew one of the floorboards under her parents bed was loose so she would stash it in the floor. In her parents room. Under their own bed. Because they wont look for her things there it doesnt make sense as a parent unless you get clued in on it. She told me her mother still doesnt know where she hid everything.

[@Name-co5qi]

Genius

[@themakerstoolbox9688]

I used the PC that I built because I knew no one would feel confident cracking open something worth that much money. No matter how much my mom thought she would find something she would never look there. That being said she was generally pretty good at giving me my privacy.

[@Bionicbutter43]

Oh yea my mom looked through all my shit constantly! I then found the best spots to hide things

[@dewmontain123]

Just dont hide anything. That one works the best

[@tjman1095]

@@dewmontain123 okay cop

[@lich109]

It cannot be overstated just how much forcing yourself into your kid's life like this will cause them hate you and make any existing problems so much worse. Also this cop forgot to look under the pillows, so this sucks in every way.

[@hex.enigma]

His "son" probably had a fully-loaded gun under the pillow. Or yet another stash of narcotics and measuring instruments. Perhaps wads of cash and a list of names. Shame on him.

[@silentype3008]

He didn’t plant any evidence there so he knew there was no need to check.

[@principsagustus2318]

Dude was a rookie didn’t check the carpet either.

[@hex.enigma]

@@principsagustus2318 "There's always money in the banana stand, Michael."

[@francisbacon4363]

didn't pat down the mattress, bro went full jailor on the underpants but left the mattress and pillows alone, he's not just a bad parent but a worse cop

[@brainwater176]

“It’s not illegal to search your child’s room. So go ahead and take advantage of that.”

[@aaronlandry3934]

To be fair though, this is definitely something more for a troubled teenager rather than just a normal kid. This is for the concerned parents that will do anything for their kid, but their kid just got caught up with a bad crowd or isn’t very social and might have Depression. If parents find it early enough, they might be able to get their kids the help they need to live a good life instead of the life of an addict or no life.

[@bensadfleck9972]

cop moment

[@Gustoberg]

@@aaronlandry3934 would be better to try and build a good relationship with your child, searching their rooms, even if you are concerned about them, would nly do harm, and if not, would only be a momentary solution

[@aaronlandry3934]

@@Gustoberg Parents aren’t mind readers. They can’t know to talk to their kids about issues affecting them if their kid hides it from them. Privacy really isn’t that important if your child could die if their parent doesn’t find out and take measures needed to get their kid help. Yeah, the teenager will probably be upset in the moment, but hey, wouldn’t you prefer your parents finding out and sending you to therapy after them telling you they love you instead of you keeping it secret and ending up strung out on Heroin in a few years? My cousin was a meth addict and hid it from his parents. He died at 22 from an overdose. Reality is sad sometimes and I really don’t value privacy over seeing something that tragic happen to another family

[@metalgear6531]

@@aaronlandry3934 You assume the parents are actually concerned about their kid's wellbeing and not their own sense of power. The latter is sadly far too common. Doing this to save your kid from heroin is one thing, but this video is clearly meant for controlling Karen-ass genetic progenitors who just want to remind their kid that they see them as nothing but property.

[@StrawberryDusty]

My parents was like this, except *much* more religious. Turning 18 in a few weeks, I’m playing nice right now telling them what they want to hear but the second I’m legally an adult I won’t be talking to them ever again.

[@JustAnotherNamelessGuy]

so how is it going

[@mgb2172]

how did it go?

[@DracoFire3000]

my parents were forced to go to a class titled "how to tell if your kid uses drugs" or some shit as a requirement for school or a summer camp or something along those lines. They walked out halfway and my mom (a teacher herself) went absolutely ballistic at the organizers for it since it literally promoted rummaging through your children's rooms and confiscating everything "suspect".

[@wieldylattice3015]

Your mom sound like a bloody legend

[@MissYamIherexxx]

W mom

[@charlesbennington9951]

Have you ever known a parent that had children that ended up as a homeless drug addict ? Use a different lens to view the world and maybe you will see that not everything is so black and white.

[@yarn6616]

Giga chad mom

[@noworkjustgames3581]

big dubs

[@nsane9998]

"You see, this looks like a normal pillow but it's actually your child's moonshine distillery"

[@addictedtofindinghiraeth1471]

💀💀💀

[@Ryu1ify]

"You can actually buy one of these online. Links in the pinned comment."

[@elijah9260]

“You hate me?” “I’m a terrible parent?” “It’s a prison here?” “It’s not like I search through all you personal belongings, read your private thoughts, are suspicious of literally everything you have”

[@highwaythruhell7882]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/iXO0fWevqbSYaaM NEW FOOTAGE RELEASED :)........................

[@AxxLAfriku]

GAGAGAGAGA I just disliked my own face because I am unpretty. HOWEVER: I always like my GOOD videos however. No dislikes allowed where I come from. Don't be mean, dear sil

[@happyjohn1656]

Hi Ahsoka 8:26 PM 11/23/2021

[@fxdefiancy]

@@happyjohn1656 John, we talked about your drug addiction. Please, answer the calls from your therapist.

[@zel9061]

@Twitter Sucks He's still hallucinating about talking orange cats?

[@iiantixsocial]

My parents have the belief that they would only look through my stuff if they had a justifiable reason to do so. My parents know me well enough that I'd never do drugs or hide things from them. I'd tell them straight up instead of hiding shit. They have no reason to suspect me. I wish more parents had this mindset instead of treating their teenager as a rebel or a prisoner

[@maybefoxtart]

My parents did the same thing. Although they had this thing where they can see what I've searching up online and commenting on youtube. Sure it gets weird but they just want to make sure I'm not doing anything bad.

[@SloobyJr]

Charlie's absolutely right. This doesn't necessarily stop addiction, it encourages your children to get better at hiding it

[@matureenough34]

See this detailed plan to murder their untrusting parents and this loaded gun with enough bullets for each family member including the gun wielder? I’ve seen this before, you can buy this online, well, maybe not the gun, they could have bought it from Walmart or stolen it, maybe from an unsuspecting cop. Wait…

[@trugo_official]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/sHaQZZ5paNd8hNk...

[@DDracee]

even if they fail at hiding it, they're gonna jump in both feet the moment they get any ounce of freedom to indulge in the things they've been wanting to do for years instead of having a teen that tried it a few times, youre gonna get an adult that OD'd on heroine

[@joelpaltzer8732]

This line of thinking has taught an entire generation of addicts how to best hide it from their friends and family.

[@nataliemarlowe2516]

literally. i remember taping the coke baggies behind posters on my walls bc i was afraid of my mom doing this shit lmfaoo

[@phantom-xb6wv]

@@nataliemarlowe2516 degen

[@nataliemarlowe2516]

@@phantom-xb6wv pretty much yeah

[@squirrel_disaster]

@@nataliemarlowe2516 I hope you stopped doing drugs all together man.

[@nataliemarlowe2516]

@@squirrel_disaster i have lol. been clean for 6 months now

[@DavidStroodle]

remember folks: strict parents build sneaky kids. Open and honest parents build open and honest kids. Especially teens who just want to be viewed as an individual who can be trusted. If you always show your child compassion and understanding, honestly talking to them about drugs, realistic encounters with them, and promoting being SAFE above everything else, they'll feel more comfortable being vulnerable with you. After all, say you're a teen, you just got high at a friend's place and suddenly your 'friends' start acting really creepy and pushy. if your parents would certainly yell and scream and punish you for asking for help out of the situation, would you reach out for help? No. you'd try to handle it on your own and probably get into some very hot water. Meanwhile, if your parents were like my dad who always swore, no matter what state i was in or what i had done, if i called him and asked to be picked up or helped, he would do it no questions asked. Sure, in the morning, he would have a serious talk to me about what went down, what mistakes i had made, and how i planned to proceed in the future to keep myself safe, but he knew that the trauma and stress of being in that scary situation was enough of a punishment. All he wanted was for me to be safe. Now a days, i dont actively seek out drugs or alcohol, i know how to keep myself safe, and i know i ALWAYS have a safe place with him

[@tedsmith9726]

Yeah. Seriously the only thing this kid will learn is how to get better at hiding drugs

[@etherraichu]

Yeah, when I was a kid my parents did the same thing. Made sure I knew that I could always tell them when things were going bad. Made sure I knew how to stay safe. They recognized the reality that sooner or later, I'd try drugs and I'd get into bad situations. Fortunately I never needed to seek them out for this sort of thing, but I always knew that I could and that it would be okay.

[@jessicamcrill3815]

Man that is the exact opposite of my dad. Cool

[@sonicheroesenthusiast6121]

Giga based chad father

[@rararasputin8608]

I developed a set of default responses and a set of good bluffing to put up with them, helps quite a bit

[@TheOGPlatypus]

The best way to prevent adult addiction is to prevent child addiction. And the best way to prevent child addiction is to be an actually good parent who doesn't drive their kid to need escape.

[@CocoWantsACracker]

I also think there is a big part in knowing yourself and your child. Not every child is the same. Know how sensitive to addiction you as parents are, as it is partially hereditary, how sensitive to addiction the child seems to be, and communicate openly and honestly about drugs and the like. My parents were smokers (tobacco, not drugs) and my dad once told me when I was 10 or so: "Son, never ever start smoking. It is a filthy habit and it is bad for your health. I know I do it, but I'm addicted to it and cannot stop. Don't make the same mistake I did." I remember that to this day and the only smoking I ever did was a handmade cigar I brought from Cuba (which I shared with friends), and trying weed when I was 40, just to know what that was like. That was it. I am still grateful for the words my dad told me all that time ago. He himself passed away from smoking-induced throat cancer, giving his warning extra weight.

[@kandykitty1]

It's heart breaking to find out your child is using a empty bottle to hide drugs instead of storing piss.

[@highwaythruhell7882]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/iXO0fWevqbSYaaM NEW FOOTAGE RELEASED :)........................

[@apollo4950]

The comment bots on this video-

[@3mmmmmm]

@@イズミちゃん-h7t #was te for you too

[@imjustaguy4340]

Its more heart brakeing to know parents search there kids rooms, i would be SO pissed if mine did.

[@gameface6091]

@@apollo4950 Yeah, it's like I'm watching a crypto channel.

[@taylorndean]

i grew up with such such a major lack of privacy being extremely normalized- it took me most of this video to begin accepting that maybe this isn't normal parent behavior lol. to this day my mom insists that a small hole in my wall was created by me when i was a teenager to hide drugs in. as a teen i had never even done drugs 💀💀💀 thx for the war flashbacks i'm gonna call my therapist

[@HobbesHobbiton]

Yeahhh, only after doing a lot research and talking with my sister who's moved out have I realized just how much my parents messed me up. It's sad that kids can't recognize abuse until it's too late, you just grow up believing that your parents are "normal."

[@deaddegenerategeneration7441]

Oh my gosh literally girl watching this and reading the comments is giving me ptsd lool

[@09Maggio]

I watch your stuff your animals are cool

[@livingcorpse5664]

She sounds like a narcissist. Or she's speaking from experience and projecting onto you.

[@djfluba6975]

@@livingcorpse5664 r/raisedbynarcarssits

[@caesthoffe]

the belief that "kids don't deserve privacy" is WAY too common among parents. my parents told me that all the time growing up. my mom looked through my diaries, text messages, artwork i didn't want people to see. the only thing it did was make me better at hiding things. kids deserve privacy.

[@Gorilla572]

I feel really bad for you.

[@darwinwatterson4568]

well, i hope you give them the respect they deserve (which should likely be near zero). i have had my parents sort of barge in like this but even then it was never with the verbal intent to 'search' my room, nevermind personal writings to myself or others. that is extremely low, hope you never have to deal with that ever again

[@kaitlynmorgan4613]

someone should make an app that plays like some random mobile game thats a hidden texting app. itd be unlockable through clicking a certain part of the intro screen (and also protected with a password). because of my ex/ex friends dad, we both got outed as queer to him 😐😐 kids cant talk freely with parents like that, especially if theyre queer and the parents are homophobic smh

[@bHappyk]

I feel you. Most of my childhood I felt like I was spied on 24/7. I looked like an idiot in front of people trying to see if my parents weren't somewhere close by and couldn't have a normal life because of it, like spending time with friends, as my parents would ask the friends if I was doing something bad, which made me look like a baby who constantly needs to be looked after for. I stayed indoors most of my life because of it and now have problems socializing.

[@temkhuns.4159]

Parent like this can go to the deepest and the darkest of hell for eternity

[@Cringber167]

Watching this video, makes me feel insanely grateful for the parents I have.