TikTok hates your relationship

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[@laurajanespain7386]

Can you please stop talking? I’m trying to sleep

[@ndeez3894]

He never shuts up.

[@Holygroundgirlie.fanpage]

So inconsiderate of him, smh 🤦‍♀️

[@bigreputation]

literally!!

[@prosandcons-fl2cc]

no sleep for u

[@TenderNoodle]

I can’t believe drew would be so inconsiderate🙄 SMH

[@bslone9005]

Honestly Drew, your marriage must be a nightmare. I've been with my husband for 500 years and the way we live is pretty much the only way to have a successful marriage. It works for everyone because every relationship is the same. My advice to you is to do the exact opposite of what you are currently doing. Hope this helps!

[@AdrianskiASMR]

Wow, I cant believe you would say that. WRONG!

[@mrocks0515]

Immortals detected

[@Mikoeditsfr]

Uhm ackually very invalid opinion ☝️🤓

[@MarcBliss]

“Hope this helps!” is objectively hilarious

[@sanninlegends1843]

Elves detected

[@rzeka]

This is like when you tell your parents a joke and they turn it into a lecture, except instead of your parents it's the entire internet

[@sas.tronaut5055]

its like a whole neighborhood worth of people from a different country you’ve never been to come in and are all giving you lectures

[@CS_0-0]

This is a great comparison ahahaha

[@adesuwa9112]

Lmao yess exactly!

[@adesuwa9112]

@@sas.tronaut5055 🤣🤣

[@mirandabrumwell5318]

lmao I felt this comment so hard!

[@schnabelborg]

Drew, if you actually cared for your wife, you would divorce her, turn gay and find yourself a husband to engage more in her interest in men! Trust me, I know what I'm talking about, I've never been in a relationship.

[@thatnormalfolk]

⭐️⭐️⭐️ Thanks for this advice! Very helpful

[@thatnormalfolk]

This is not Yelp.

[@batacumba]

A lot of these people hating are prob angsty teens who truly haven’t been in relationships. It’s sad. I remember being a salty teen but not like that. Damn.

[@scpcow1597]

He should date danny

[@sian186]

​@@scpcow1597He can't be that egotistical- dating himself would be too far

[@aseips]

This is also exactly what Twitter is like. original tweet simple as "I like oranges and bananas" Replies be like "Why do you hate grapes" "What did lemons ever do to you?"

[@aseips]

Also totally wrote this while still on the TikTok section, lol drew is spot on with the Twitter take

[@tinyblueunicorn7807]

How dare you miss out strawberries

[@theunderstatement6842]

it's like peaches aren't even fruits to you.

[@ujjeshasrivastava5552]

Oh I know you think blueberries are too blue for you huh? Think about that the next time you see the local Domino's

[@st4rp0p]

Oh so you think I caused World War II? Well I think YOU'RE the reason serial killers exist!

[@hannahwilson8391]

Drew has gotten scary good reading the comments with terrible grammar with complete fluidity.

[@cheackertroop]

itonyacomment 🤷‍♂️

[@cheesecaked33]

I'm very jealous of his skill!!!! I will steal his skill on March 6th, at 5:37 pm!!!!!!!!!!!

[@lozenger8]

I know, right? It's genuinely so impressive.

[@Used324]

He was always scary.

[@nickwright4817]

Drew had got pretty awesome reading comment with the terrible grammar complete fluid.

[@_typhoid_mary_]

I have been married for 6 years and have only seen him in person twice and that was when we both had to shit and the same time and he opened the door on me. Never been happier to have our own hobbies and space ❤️ neither of us have ever looked at our kids. I only know he still lives with me because he does the dishes and I’ll sweep to let him know I still live there.

[@drewisgooden]

this is the funniest comment i've ever gotten

[@cheesecaked33]

@@drewisgooden bye

[@_Khanyi_]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@getschwifty5271]

True love, brings a tear to my eye

[@dunno-19]

no see this is the problem with our world right now, it’s visually obvious you two are entirely infatuated with each other. you have kids woman! have some respect, leave them now. i’m certain you two will destroy the patriarchy. hope that helps edward

[@mollymcnair7505]

My husband and I have the perfect relationship. He stays at home looking after the kids while I roam around the countryside looking for quests to complete. I haven't seen him in 2 years

[@theeleanorshellstrop]

my husband and I have the same relationship dynamic. I think he enjoys time away from me; I’ve been spending all my time at this tropical island as of late

[@mudfish6861]

Careful, you might return one day to find your husband died of a Mysterious Illness(TM) and your kids set off on a quest to find you and somehow ended up fulfilling a prophecy that marks them as the Chosen Heirs to the Great Throne and now they have to stop the Apocalypse

[@beelegg3278]

I once got called a scallywag over a internet fight and i couldn’t even be mad anymore it was great

[@PlaylistKid25]

lol

[@jblazerndrowzy]

Being called a scallywag or whippersnapper online is too silly to be mad about, it’s just hilarious

[@stevedenny7887]

Who were you arguing with? Davey Jones?

[@thecolourfulpill]

I once had a full on fight on wattpad (which ended up involving moderators who I was friendly with at the time) and at some point the other girl told me that I was born in juvie. To this day, this is one of the funniest things anyone has ever thrown at me... Because of me pointing out spelling mistakes.

[@Juniperfoxxy]

Dave profile spotted

[@newandroid2673]

I genuinely love people who say being a househusband for a woman is gay. Not because I agree with them, but because we've gone from "Fella's, is holding hands with another dude gay?" to "Fella's, are wearing jeans gay?" to the glorious "Fella's, is having a relationship with a woman gay?"

[@adrih8694]

My favorite one ever was a dude who said that any sex positon with the woman on top is gay. Fellas, is it gay to have sex with women????

[@thisisnotapplejuice]

they really took it full circle, "we all know that the most straight thing is being in a relationship with your homies, because then you're not submissive to a woman!!"

[@lucyandecember2843]

"Fella's, is it gay to be straight?"

[@Deddshot]

And as we all know the answer to each of those questions is *yes absolutely*

[@papertape7911]

Lucyan December the jury is out on that one.

[@Skapologist]

Man, Drew talked about the balance of chores being fair because he does the grocery shopping, and NOW he’s using Factor AND Hello Fresh so that he “never has to step foot in a grocery store again”? What a gross, obvious play to make Amanda take on all the responsibility in this relationship, we should all get upset about this.

[@yaboicolleen]

Oh good I didn't have to make this comment 😂

[@a.r.mproductions5616]

Bahaha 😂

[@tonyakriba6836]

Justice for Amanda

[@internetstranger-]

they both need to divorce. that's an unhealthy relationship. it's visually obvious that he hates Amanda 🤬

[@Cuarentaydos]

And he also said he cooked 90 % of the time. The AUDACITY.

[@haleiaboyton512]

i also find it interesting that every single one of these "takes" antagonised the woman in the relationship, no matter who was "more in the wrong" according to the video.

[@another_day4783]

most videos i see on tiktok the guy get the most hate people always calling them abusive or that they should break up them.

[@owyemen9367]

People always put themselves in the shoes of the person Thats their gender no matter Whats actually going on so when a relationship has problems people Will automatically antagonize the opposite gender since its harder to put yourself on their shoes

[@EamonWill]

You're absolutely right! I wondered if anyone else had realized this. The world has become increasingly open with its misogyny in recent years. For a while women were making good progress with feminism, and now between INCELs and Alpha Bros banding together and gaining confidence and constantly screaming on the internet, views towards women are becoming increasingly hostile. It's gotten to the point of influencing government to take us back 50 years. And unfortunately, it's not just the men who are saying negative things about women. Even the women commenting who kind of made it sound like they were against the man, we're really bashing the girl for not being smart enough to recognize his red flags or not being strong enough to leave or whatever. And the men who were being criticized were the ones who seemed too feminine. Because what's truly awful is being too much like a woman. Because again, 'we hate women' is the overall theme. There is a very scary trend towards blaming women for everything and criticizing women no matter what they do!

[@chadlord3155]

​@@another_day4783 You are not living in reality

[@taylormorgan8995]

this!! they were straight up targetting the women

[@dearlily325]

"Everything is a debate now", you are right and thats probably why I have anxiety.

[@John34bruh]

Any comment with over 50+ replies I go “yep, there’s an argument going on”

[@Ihavethehighground69]

​@@John34bruhor it's a massive chain of memes

[@banifaradha7774]

I absolutely disagree with that oversimplification. It's like when I have discussion about something and some rando came in and just reply, "oh you both wasting time doing useless debate" Like, you need to be a really mentally challenged person to thinks that anytime there are discussion with two different opinions have convo is always assumed it's "all debate or everything its debate".

[@dearlily325]

@@banifaradha7774 thats not my point at all. A lot of discussion online isn't just a regular conversation, its usually gets pretty heated or unnecessarily intense when the topic at hand is some dance moves or something. I'm also referring to the way most people comment on a video that doesn't at all call for the reaction being made. The way people think everything has to be about them or they must express anger over something that isn't harming anyone.

[@sidasterdisaster]

@@banifaradha7774 me when I prove op’s point

[@pinkdarkboy7127]

One time I saw Amanda and her husband eat square food. She didn't say it, but I could tell from her eyes that she had been crying and was only eating squares because it was the only way to get her husband to spend time with her. Watching Captain Planet loudly on repeat in the living room just wasn't working like it used to. This is my fanfiction. Tags: Lemon, OOC, Crossover with Inuyasha, rated G

[@Sardonyxx]

This was a hard read, I can’t believe some people can be so horrible in relationships :((

[@akaashikeijiluvr]

INUYASHA LMAOO

[@corduroy799]

LEMON? Screaming and crying rn

[@alilordoftheskies5079]

Lemon AND rated G? What a fic 😭

[@yukikanegawa7470]

I haven't seen the lemon tag in so long

[@DAngeloWallace]

fellas, is it controversial to have a healthy relationship

[@AubstaWolfheart]

You're alive!! Hope you're well

[@cheesecaked33]

Drew gooden 😡

[@cozycasasmr4510]

I hope you are doing well 💗

[@FijianSouljah1312]

I love you and miss you :(

[@FijianSouljah1312]

My gf seen my last comment and now I retract what I said.

[@1977felisha]

We've been married for 28 yrs. He used to go hang out with his friends & pursue hobbies in another room of our home. Then about 10 yrs ago, I chained him up in our home & forced him to spend time with me. I can say, I've never been happier. And he makes me laugh all the time with his funny jokes, 'Let me go!', 'These chains are too tight!', 'You're insane!'. I love our life ❤❤❤ The internet is right...spending every minute together makes a healthy marriage.

[@malachilining2730]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@Itsjettondon05]

I’ve seen people make fun of a little girl, like an actual 5 year old, for having a skin condition so nothing on the internet surprises me anymore

[@ReddFoxx1562]

Ah yes, that time. I'm sure it's happened but I think you are being a bit hyperbolic

[@RainyFox-ot9qn]

are you sheltered? @@ReddFoxx1562

[@louise1992]

....is this comment satirical because if it is you are doing a REALLY good job and if it isnt im not sure that you watched the video.@@ReddFoxx1562

[@TPNsBiggestFan]

@@ReddFoxx1562how?

[@BirdGuy852]

​@@ReddFoxx1562have you not been on the world wide web before

[@krabiat]

"he based this entire rant on the assumption that she's pretending to like the movies" he based the rant on his own divorce

[@anerrorhasoccurred8727]

Fr. I was expecting him to throw out accusations against her yoga instructor too bc goddamn, you might as well get ALL the cliches in there 💀

[@miscelaineous5164]

What I was going to say! Mans was airing out his own dirty laundry projecting all his shit

[@mouthbreather9435]

@@anerrorhasoccurred8727 not the yoga instructor💀💀

[@dylanbarrett5454]

Clear example of his projecting lmaooo

[@calemdab3076]

​@@anerrorhasoccurred8727 did somebody say yoga?

[@shinji391]

What hurts me about this is, people can't even spread hate properly. They can't argue, they can't make a point, they can't form a sentence, and they can't accept when they are wrong.

[@alelarsen99]

did you type their on purpose to make me mad

[@haleymist09]

And the entitlement. Since someone posted online, the commenter must stop scrolling and project themselves onto the seconds-long clip.

[@mostlysondheim1930]

I have to take the bait. *they're 😉

[@LionsInBoots]

and then when you provide a point they can‘t refute they just start insulting you and calling you anything they can to try and get at you

[@YehudiNimol]

*they're

[@felsics9441]

People advocating for these codependent relationship dynamics are in for a shock when they experience their first break up and realize their identity was 100% baked into their relationship. It’s important to be your own person 😬

[@calisongbird]

Word. 👌🏼

[@Random-sk6hm]

WRONG. It's healthy and NORMAL to be completely dependant on your partner. This is how it SHOULD be according to nature and evolution. You have NO IDEA what your talking about.

[@Sammy38]

​@@Random-sk6hmbait lmao

[@tomhomunculus]

​@@Random-sk6hm you should look into codependents anonymous :-) our biology built us for interdependence (community), not codependence.

[@shelbyb9965]

​@@Random-sk6hmget better bait 💀

[@SimBits]

"The only 'gay' thing here is using a STRAW at HOME 🤬" is the funniest thing I've heard in my entire life 😂

[@Justsomegamergamingandstuff]

"Your relationship doesn't need to make sense to anyone, except you and your partner. It's a relationship, not a community project"

[@justsomeguy4955]

Unless it involves killing babies. Otherwise, I agree with you

[@Justsomegamergamingandstuff]

@@justsomeguy4955 why do you care? It doesn't affect you personally, just let people do what they want. It's not up to you what other people do in their personal life

[@justsomeguy4955]

@@Justsomegamergamingandstuff also, you agree with killing actual babies wtf?

[@Justsomegamergamingandstuff]

@@justsomeguy4955 no, I don't agree or disagree with anything, actually. I just don't give a shit what people do. I'll care if and when it concerns me personally. Do what you want, I couldn't care less. I let important things bother me

[@justsomeguy4955]

@@Justsomegamergamingandstuff Did I say fetus? I said killing babies. I didn't say anything about abortion. Take a freaking joke and stop assuming everything is about politics

[@kh0di]

It's fucking crazy to me that Drew is always making these videos when Amanda clearly wants him to just stop talking to his computer and come play stawdew with her

[@siilih8156]

yeah him ignoring all of Amanda's signs is so visually obvious

[@cheesecaked33]

Yes!! He is being a bad partner to all of us!!!! Thank you for pointing this out

[@Raspieberry]

Right? They should get divorced.

[@rachelagron6172]

You can see from the look in her eyes that she actually hates Marvel movies

[@lillipup_tamer1148]

She wants him to play neopets with her too.

[@philipkingswood5800]

The fact that Amanda is stealing his pre-made meals is unacceptable and shows his relationship is toxic and he should leave her for me.

[@Random-sk6hm]

I ABSOLUTELY disagree. She is a WOMAN and should be cooking everyday because he will be fixing the toilet in 2-3 business years. He's the toxic one and is treating one of our veterans in such a HORRIBLE manner! Don't even get me started on his defence of genocide

[@emgonzales1799]

Parallel play is a real thing, it's just existing near each other while doing your own separate things. It's a great way to hang out and spend time with a person.

[@meg-sk4qv]

I'm starting to think we were never supposed to know everyone's opinion on everything all of the time

[@tychopanda]

To quote Bo Burnham: "Um… Is it… is it necessary? Is it necessary that every single person on this planet um, expresses every single opinion that they have on every single thing that occurs all at the same time? Is that… is that necessary? Um… Or to ask in a slightly different way, um, can… can anyone shut the fuck up?"

[@sophiaanderson3064]

This comment is underrated asf

[@houseofhas9355]

I understand what your saying. But tell me what do you think of pasta and genocide. Do they go together. I am not asking for commentary. I am seeking philosophical insight. 😂😂

[@batacumba]

@@houseofhas9355 I too wanna read that comment thread 😂

[@alechs]

​@@tychopanda "Can I interest you in everything all of the time?"

[@maydoubled]

14:23 I once saw a tweet that was like, "You're a grown man and you still use an umbrella?!" One of the replies was, "What, getting older makes me waterproof??"

[@gooeydude574]

You mean your anti-water force field hasn’t developed yet?

[@maydoubled]

@@gooeydude574 No, but that's probably because I haven't thrown a traditional coming-of-age parade yet.

[@shay5479]

HAHAHA I LOVE THAT RESPONSE

[@mikeoxmall69420]

​@@gooeydude574 no I think I'm a late bloomer

[@manologamerss5801]

What? You really don't know how to flex the rain clouds away yet? Shameful.

[@potfur_z_bagna]

The "In what universe is this better than living alone" comment about the stay-at-home husband is so fucking telling. These men view a partner as someone who's supposed to do things for you so your comfort of living is higher. If they don't or GOD FORBID you do something for THEM, it's not worth it - living alone is better. Holy shit.

[@spoofilybeloved6729]

favorite lines: - “what are you shitting, grenades?” - “you need to be dating your boys”

[@aliensandwhat8497]

DREW I AM SO GLAD YOU TALKED ABOUT THIS!! I am part of a princess program that dedicates itself to bringing joy to kids that have cancer(its called the PrincessFoundation) and literally whenever we post on tiktok the amount of hate is so confusing? Some people are like "you dont even look like Belle!" or "that child looks so ugly" to LITERAL CANCER PATIENTS who are CHILDREN. It blows my mind. Tiktok is just an ammalgomation of hate.

[@MrsWeasly123]

literally tiktok is so fucking cruel it's unbelievable. i feel really bad for the people who get posted on tiktok without their consent only to have their looks attacked mercilessly. it's such a cesspool

[@genericname2747]

At least you know that the people getting mad are all idiots. Because normal people wouldn't get mad by you helping kids with cancer.

[@wonderfulchaos5472]

I remember some girl posting about her experience being SAed on TikTok and all the comments were calling her ugly and saying she must be lying because no one would want to SA her. It's terrible. I hope the people posting these sorts of comments are young teenagers who will eventually grow out of it, because the thoughts of adults sitting behind the screen doing this is vile.

[@Mel-nw2ko]

People forget it's a public place where actual human beings can read their comments and then they voice their most disgusting inner thoughts.

[@melodye14]

That's so sad. Thanks for the work you do! I'm sure the kids love it.

[@constipatedfrog5578]

"How often do you even need to fix a toilet? Every couple of years?" actually my sims household has broken theirs three times in a week now

[@sleepyote]

The commenter was a sim

[@remr3m755]

I made my sim max out handiness and get the goddamn trait for the amount of times they broke the toilet and shower. had to make sure those bitches never broke down again.

[@lilynote2016]

LOL 😂

[@cotom-dunkery5558]

To be fair though, that's like a quarter of their lives if you have aging on lol.

[@GirlXO]

Yeah same why does stuff break all the time? Sometimes I feel like they break more often than they get dirty which would be interesting irl

[@rachelreii5952]

How dare a person be in a happy relationship. Im actually happy seeing other couples happy. Its a nice thing to know healthy love still exists.

[@Yourhandleneedstobeatleast]

Makes me sad 😔☝️

[@stars_acc]

the thing about angry comments is literally so true. i replied to a comment on a tiktok about people making r*pe 'jokes' and i get people defending people who say in response to the question "if time froze for an hour at your school wyd" something disgusting that heavily implies r*pe. its so fucked up

[@DustyHoney]

Doing a chore your partner hates is an expression of love. That’s all.

[@bardofvoid174]

Absolutely!

[@Kil408]

She probably does chores he doesn’t like as well, hella stupid

[@TheMindofagenius1]

just to preface, i'm not in a relationship, so i may not know what i'm even talking about.... but like what if they both hate the same chore the same amount? does it boil down to "who's the bigger person"? xD

[@bardofvoid174]

@@TheMindofagenius1 I mean that's kinda the point of the video! Solutions range between anything that ends up working best for them both, whether that's like- "I do a chore we both hate and you do another chore we both hate", or the one who hates it less does the chore, or they randomize it, or they have somebody that they both agree does less overall to do it, or hire somebody, or find some way to eliminate the chore entirely- solutions would range based on what you *can* do for the chore and what sustainably works for you both. ... assuming they find a solution that works lmao, it could also end up becoming an eternal point of contention, but the point is kinda minimizing the amount of time of contention or the minimizing the contention itself.

[@TheMindofagenius1]

@@bardofvoid174 see, that's what I think would "ideally" happen, but the more I live on this earth and between "humans", the more I see shit that just SHOULDN'T "ideally" be happening, so I try to not place any kind of expectations or theories anymore, especially when it comes to relationships in particular =P

[@madison31505]

can we talk about how drew is so good at reading grammatically incorrect sentences like they’re normal?

[@mangomonet2464]

I was genuinely impressed he did it all in one take

[@krow8940]

timestamp?

[@heavenlything]

spo9nglubohb

[@noahatlas5240]

It gives griffin reading a terribly formatted yahoo

[@junebuggy1]

@@krow8940 4:39

[@Grapes-nk2vk]

Instagram reel comments sections are a hellscape.

[@AnimeLoveLover123]

On the side of people trying to tell you how to parent, not posting about your kid online will not save you. You can be hanging with your kid at a park and you will have random ass people come up to you and try to tell you how to parent. I can't tell you how many times I had someone go out of their way to give me, a stranger to them, parenting "advice". AND I'M NOT EVEN A PARENT! My sibling and I are 10 years apart, so I often took them out to play when they were young.

[@-piras]

I love the moment when he assumes that people commenting on how to have a healthy relationship on TikTok have actually been in a relationship before, very kind of him honestly

[@cuviefien]

my exact thought

[@jotunn30]

i mean some of them are so specific that they must be projecting past relationship trauma, hopefully.

[@sxhizornsmn]

@@jotunn30 biggg emhpasis on 'hopefully'

[@georjiep4338]

Fr it's probably a 12 year old

[@AmandaFreitas1998]

@@jotunn30 I thought the same, but sometimes people are projecting just the idea of what a perfect relationship for them would be, not whay they really have been through

[@akiramakara2062]

Hearing Drew say, _"And 5 people agreed?!"_ is my entire internet experience, and I've never felt more seen. Edit: stop validating me, its gross

[@miuleauna4967]

I get absolutely HUNG UP about it. Like in an anthropological way I can't stop thinking about it, I'm like "who are these people? What do their lives look like? How did their thoughts and feelings come to agree with the most insane takes ever come to man? They need to be interviewed... for science!"

[@LanceWillMakeIt]

@@miuleauna4967 yeah same -- but sometimes i like comments cause i think they're funny, not thinking about how they might be taken seriously

[@imbadatdis]

the first thought i had was thank god only 5 ppl agreed, ive seen so many vicious comments and every single one of them were way more stupid than this one and it has like hundreds of thousands likes🥲

[@hamtaru]

5 people is still okay. ionce saw someone being accused of grooming cuz he dated a 17 y/o while he was 18 and that comment literally had thousands of likes ;_;

[@elias_xp95]

@@hamtaru Tiktok is crazy. They're so quick to call people paedophiles and murderers xD

[@gabeisawesome879]

If you're sad when you see happy relationships, you're just lonely and being reminded of that makes you sad. That's normal. Just don't lash out at people and pretend they're doing something wrong.

[@MrJuan_Vzla]

In my opinion, social media has become toxic. Everyone is an expert on how others should live.

[@leobe2104]

The only social media I have is Pinterest. To me it's the least toxic

[@Acd815]

@@leobe2104agreed as long as it’s not showing me women who have the “perfect body” cuz man that shit gets me and send me to my own little rabbit hole and then I start to starve myself once again 😫

[@direcircumstances]

I recently saw a cute, lighthearted tiktok by a single mom, basically joking about how she thought she would have no dating prospects since she's 31 with 3 kids, but ever since she started posting her life on social media, she gets a bunch of DM's and comments from guys in their 20s who are super into her, calling her a MILF, etc. To be clear, this woman was not bragging or acting arrogant, she was just making a funny observation about something in her life that she found ironic. I thought this was completely harmless, but apparently not, because the comment section was FLOODED with men viciously trying to tear her down, saying that single mothers are low-value women, damaged goods, etc., and insisting that any younger man who shows an interest in her was just trying to "hit it and quit it," not have a real relationship. Bruh I was shocked. She was just minding her own business, lip-syncing to a silly song, and making content about her life that other single moms might find relatable. But NOPE, the manly man man brigade had to show up and make it clear how much they hate women. Fucking disgusting behavior, honestly.

[@taliaroses]

Oh yeah, the misogyny is insane with them

[@catsplat1272]

I'll never understand how single mothers are "low value" when it's the men abandoning their kids

[@waddle623]

@@catsplat1272 Didn't you know? If a man does something bad it means the woman is bad even if she does nothing wrong.

[@butoutofcontext]

Men™ ruin everything

[@Makasennn]

BUT WHO'S DOING THE DISHES!?!

[@Claire-lu8hf]

I’m worried for all the kids growing up on TikTok. Constantly seeing extreme hate comments is either gonna make them cruel or extremely anxious. I can’t imagine being 14 and navigating this mess

[@LuvFearlessly]

We survive Facebook and Twitter. They’ll be fine.

[@arianamitchell7050]

@@LuvFearlessly we barely survived that era. teen suicide skyrocketed then, i cant imagine being a teen now where everyone rages so easily its insane

[@3FuzzyBunnys]

I’m 23 and the TikTok negativity even gets to me. As someone with (not under the new TikTok definition) intrusive thoughts, it’s been HORRIBLE for my self image and self esteem to constantly see people criticizing others on minor issues (if they’re even issues at all). I feel so bad for teenagers who are still developing and are seeing this constant flood of negativity.

[@shpup]

@@LuvFearlessly its worse now honestly lmfao back then ppl used to just call others gay and fat, nowadays ppl will send a whole essay detailing why exactly they think youre gay and fat and also toxic and less than dirt

[@alannahood4107]

exactly. i'm 17 y/o and i feel like i've noticed this very strange "woke-ification" of bullying among people my age (both online and irl) in recent years. there's this assumption that bullying must have gotten better since it's becoming far less acceptable to body shame people and such...but bullying is still alive and well, it's just like probably worse now?? at least it used to be simple. you might get called ugly or weird or annoying or fat or something like that... but now it's like, if someone thinks you're weird or ugly or annoying or fat they're going to instead say that you "have off vibes" or "exude problematic energy" or "are giving off internalized misogyny vibes" or "seem like a bad person" etc. etc. and just make a bunch of very strange and presumptuous value judgements about you so they can publicly be an asshole while avoiding any criticism they may get for doing so.

[@Tribdinosaur]

I hope you have millions of teenagers who watch your videos, because you are a net positive for impressionable people on the Internet (as well as a few other commentary video makers like Chad Chad, or Jarvis Johnson)

[@Your.Average.Multistan]

Ikr! As a part of his and Chad Chad's younger audience, I think they're a great influence for people my age

[@Eg-wo4cg]

​😮

[@thisguysSTINKS]

@@Kat_MacGrath moist critical sneak

[@Random-sk6hm]

I hope he DOESNT have millions of viewers because he's CLEARLY in an unhealthy relationship with Amanda. They need to get divorced cos he's abusive to one of our veterans. Don't even get me started on his defence of genocide

[@deletedflame8424]

Normalize just enjoying someone's presence tbh. All my closest relationships (platonic ones too) include hanging out doing completely seperate things but like together.

[@confusionandcreation6036]

The reveal of "we're not even halfway through" at 10:30 was more genuinely shocking to me than I'd like to admit. Had to collect myself for a bit lmao

[@GippyHappy]

I yelled out loud NOOO 😂 I genuinely had to skip ahead I couldn’t sit through that comment, the vibes were absolutely rancid.

[@Lamphia]

@@GippyHappy what do you mean thats top tier comedy im tempted to write to the head of any psycology department at my college to cement it as the perfect example of projection and insecurities. the layers. the drama. the completely made up narrative clearly reflecting their own experience. its pure art

[@Fluff_Noodles]

​@@Lamphia Right?! It's ridiculous how insanely specific that whole rant was! A masterclass in projection.

[@confusionandcreation6036]

@@Lamphia Honestly that fuckin monologue belongs in a period drama. Masterclass in villain writing

[@AngelBirdo]

Big props to Drew for acknowledging the fact that "men's chores" have to be done like once every six months at soonest, but when women don't want to cook and do the dishes every single day for their entire lives, they're lazy and entitled. Fucking insane line of thought.

[@mady8539]

You’re so real for this.

[@graffititurtle11]

@@darris1939 did you watch the video? There are literally dozens of examples proving that you’re the one living under the rock lmao

[@r4ts311]

@@darris1939 what world do you live in. huh?

[@salosalon489]

@@darris1939 people were crying about a woman not doing the dishes what do you mean. you are not under a rock, you´re a straight up a cave gnome.

[@quincyepic]

Three things first: I agree with you second: what did darris say third: (gets shot by the darris police)

[@minecraftjunky2001]

You'll never convince me Tik Tok isn't the worst social media platform. It is quite possibly the single best place to go get misinformed on a topic of your choosing, someone who read the first paragraph of a Wikipedia article will be happy to educate you

[@kitty-ds4el]

don’t forget how it ruins your attention span and sucks you into the endless scroll!

[@cometsfrogs3755]

even though Drew is always complaining about something in his videos, they’re such a beacon of positive energy for me

[@definitelynotmeg]

one of the biggest problems the internet brought about is people believing everyone wants to hear their opinion about strangers’ lives

[@gigisilk798]

I always go to the comment section and laugh at people who are either clearly bots or are 14yos whose concept of a relationship comes from the curated content on KZbin or TikTok.

[@Hip.Username]

I gotta say that's not the internet's fault, people have always wanted to give you unsolicited advice about your relationship and kids even if they've never been in a relationship or had kids or are too old to remember how many mistakes they made. The internet is just giving people more opportunity to do it and the likes they get encourages it

[@Aaron-tu5lt]

Irony

[@jashuawood7631]

Go tell your life story somewhere else xD

[@Anna-zt3jc]

that tweet thats like "we were never meant to know this many people existed let alone their thoughts" resonates so hard 😭

[@ND-kh5yw]

Drew: Amanda does more cleaning and dishes, but that's because I cook and do grocery shopping! Also Drew: Thanks to Factor and Hello Fresh, I never have to cook or go grocery shopping!

[@Tinkertessa5]

I was thinking the same thing hahaha

[@MamadNobari]

@@caseydakus7492 Slavery

[@Mintpuppy17]

That's why she is stealing them. He is starving her! 😥😥

[@v0id_d3m0n]

Hmmmm

[@amilederdnaxela]

"I Do 90% of the cooking" = She microwaves once a week.

[@KuR58]

I've really notice in the last few years instagram comments have become really unhinged. Not only are people generally insufferable but there's so many trolls, bots, ragebaiting..it's kinda crazy

[@m.d.s.69]

I gave up social media, except for KZbin obviously lol, about 4 months ago. Not only has my depression and anxiety gotten way better, I have a more optimistic view of life. It took a week to get used to not looking at my phone all the time, but now I have *remind myself* to look at my phone! 😊 I will never give up my KZbin, or my Pinterest - but getting off of Facebook, Instagram, Reddit and even Bored Panda has been awesome. I'm more social in real life and I like people again 😂 highly recommend!

[@Royaltyyvt]

I cannot express how happy I am to see SOMEONE make a video on how angry the world/internet has become. being online sometimes makes me feel ill for how much hate and toxicity is out there. everyone is so angry and it’s exhausting:(

[@kykycupcake1]

Couldn't agree with you more. It's so emotionally exhausting that it honestly follows me even when I try to log off and take a break from the internet

[@XxMCRroxnonstopxX]

The last time I went on Facebook (it's been years now) I had some sort of panic attack/break down (?) because it was like horrible thing after horrible thing and then there was this post about a missing 15 year old and all the comments were just people bitching about how the missing kid had a tattoo and what kind of parents let their child get a tattoo. I couldn't believe that was the problem and not the fact that this kid was missing! Anyway I haven't logged on since.

[@Rerizz]

One time i really just cried out of frustration because the comments wouldn't get the video at all. It's incredibly sad, just makes me want to log off.

[@jasmine-xk7ot]

I used to have insta and a very very regular presence there, and then i logged off. Deleted my account. I was going insane. It felt really empty at first but then i realised just how much i can achieve with the time i now didn't spend scrolling through mind numbing reels that i forget within a second. I started reading so many more books and watching KZbin because even this community is better than insta and one can only watch so much of it. Best decision I ever made

[@javishobbies7818]

Just ignore them, who cares about what some random people on the internet you’ve never met said?

[@justabridget]

I think one of the meanest yet most brutally honest and eye opening insults I’ve ever heard that just sums up these entitled people’s behavior is “When you die, they are going to bury your laptop”

[@littlepinkniki]

😂

[@americantoastman7296]

holy shit

[@imsadlol4528]

don’t get it

[@brintesiacirce9414]

@@imsadlol4528 their life is online. Therefore they bury the laptop.

[@lexsublime]

I love that tiktok so much that guys so brutally honest and I love it

[@quehagoconmividasos]

exactly! people who are cronically online seem to see the bad side of everything. There's always something to be mad about, and its not like "hm i disagree" it always scalates to something like human rights lol

[@levibee9451]

My wife and I have the perfect relationship. She stays home coming up with uncreasingly elaborate tasks to keep busy the swarm of suitors awaiting news of my demise, while I tie myself and my men to the undersides of sheep to evade the cyclops I've blinded.

[@laurync4342]

One common denominator in almost ALL of these videos and comments is that the hate is primarily directed towards the women in the relationship no matter what the situation is.

[@nataliaisabel3462]

yep

[@oiinahgiiusadurrybrahchuck7209]

Yeah sometime in the last 5 years or so, the internet has basically become the HQ for men/boys who hate themselves and project it onto women. Between that, the neurological, social, and societal damage of social media (including yt), and the fact that search engines barely even work anymore; mainly just work as a promotional platform for the highest bidder and generic pop blog websites… Between all that.. the internet is mostly just a useless sh*thole now.

[@anerrorhasoccurred8727]

They will write _literal fanfics_ about how evil the woman must secretly be 😭💀

[@Caleb5]

And that they push the responsibility to make him comfortable instead of a single comment saying that he should've stopped gaming to watch a movie with her (this is not my view, if he wants to game, game away) yet they were all saying she shouldn't hate on him for her suggesting (which I don't even think the video was about) they spend more time doing stuff together they never think that she's the one that needs the comfort or additional love but push for the husband to be the victim (there are no victims)

[@monochromicornthetuna4256]

I've been recently trying to stop watching reels with women because the comments are always going to be so misogynistic no matter what the video is

[@nat2501]

It genuinely feels like being part of some mass hysteria. I’ve admittedly caught myself a few times caring wayyy too much about someone’s opinion or lifestyle on the internet, and I think it’s just because social media has been training us for outrage. I pretty much deleted Tiktok once I realized what it was doing to me, and all my other social media I use pretty sparingly. but I LOVE the internet, it’s just too bad that it literally drives me crazy.

[@itskindofemily]

Fr I removed Ig from my phone because it makes me feel and act in an awful way

[@Yo-bd6cx]

i deleted tiktok because it was taking away time i could be sleeping and doing more important things in life, HIGHLY RECOMMEND

[@RD-dt7us]

Nearly all people are normal. Crazy just dominates online conversations, because it makes regular people so exasperated they stop replying. That makes it seem as though the tiny, tiny little fraction of really loud cases are the only ones out there. They're not. Also, make no mistake: this sort of thing gets heavily co-opted by fringe interest groups and authoritarian governments to stoke unrest. As trite as it may sound at this point; social media is one of the greatest threats to societal cohesion now. It's an entirely new issue in human history that we have to overcome.

[@viiuan]

luckily i uninstalled tiktok immediately after it showed fake badge notifs. everyone i see who uses it for more than cute animal vids seems to be going insane bc of it

[@YasmeenCheM]

Same here! Going on the internet used to be fun but now, it's an amphitheatre of people projecting their opinions left and right. And the saddest part is, I catch myself looking at comments to feed off of that negativity too often. I have since deleted Tiktok and took measures to limit my social media usage.

[@redhood320]

I’m glad someone is talking about these comments and stuff. It’s so frustrating seeing all this hate, especially the hate towards women.

[@em-vx4se]

i posted a tiktok of my mother like 2 years ago and someone literally said “that’s not your mom” ALL BECAUSE SHES POC AND IM WHITE PASSING. i’ll never not be flabbergasted by some of the people on the internet. like what do you mean that’s not my mom😭 yes she is!😊

[@some_random2225]

“I would know, I’m your real mom”

[@yourmotherssecret]

people are hilarious 😭 like what do you mean “that’s not your mom” as if you didn’t live with her for years, probably popped out of her, etc. like yeah, the stranger knows way better than you about your own family

[@nandinighosh7338]

This was actually so refreshing and relieving to listen to, the internet lately has been so tiring, and I’m glad Drew gave his take on the whole angry comment section phenomena that’s become so normal

[@deepwokensucks8664]

"Internet has been tiring" yeah stop living on the internet bro, you don't have to live in the comments or even look at them

[@LittleSprout73]

The Internet is so bitter over the smallest things, it's refreshing to see that I'm an still sane

[@AJ-pu9jq]

I was going to do my undergrad thesis on this phenomenon and intentional misinterpretation to spark a negative dialogue, but wasn’t able to find research specific enough to coherently write about it. It’s such a weird mindset, and one I’ve actively had to correct myself on sometimes due to the volatile environment social media has.

[@lamibonxd]

i think tiktok as a whole have ruined comment sections. toxicity is almost encouraged in comment sections there, n when reels became bigger, that same toxicity followed

[@finntracy3235]

@@AJ-pu9jq have you read the article "The things we do and do not say?" its by Zeeshan Aleem its really interesting

[@VarsVerum]

I feel like people who nitpick, micromanage, criticize and psychoanalyze everything about your relationship are the ones who have never been in a relationship LOL

[@greatestgianni]

Yeah or else they’d be worrying about theirs and not yours

[@MylotheZooLovingScientist]

Not necessarily. I imagine projection about their own feelings about their own relationship and all its imperfections or their individual insecurities and unfulfilled desires within the relationship could probably factor in, too, lol.

[@austinwhitmore8174]

Armchair psychologist moment

[@athinawalther2562]

This!! Or really bad ones

[@Biboche23]

Facts 😂 im always like do you even know what that is or you’re just jelly therefore unleashing your hatred on us

[@GoblinGoblinson]

I just watched this after encountering a nasty argument online, and it made me feel so much better

[@moatrboat]

i will find a IG reel of literally any animal doing anything, like a puppy is being booped or something and the first comment is *always" someone screaming ABUSE

[@cavanmorber3238]

I absolutely adore when Drew reads grammatical errors in the same voice as the rest of the sentence, implying that that is what the author of the comment really meant

[@whatisxoxo]

nothing like a drew gooden video to distract me from the ever separating distance between my parents

[@bonelessbananna5410]

🎉

[@hyewonity]

real

[@simppythesimp1370]

L parents lol.

[@DankrumStar]

❤❤❤

[@rockification]

yippee

[@Snowboarding182]

I kept finding funny or witty instagram posts by women, and go to the comment section to see if others think it was also really funny and yeah, it’s a bloodbath in there every time. 90% of the comments are men going „This is the problem with all Women!“.

[@annamay731]

Your takes are always on point. The Internet is full of unhinged people who thrive on argument. I used to debate people on KZbin after they showed up to argue about the most unnecessary things and I had to stop and switch accounts. I would say innocent things and have weirdos come out of nowhere to project whatever they had going on. It's wild.

[@5001Fergies]

Ive been trying to train myself to stop pressing the comments button on instagram because no matter what the post is, somebody is going to make it about how all women are evil, its so weird

[@1991-present]

Yep!

[@anerrorhasoccurred8727]

People with extremist/dysfunctional beliefs tend to behave in specific ways. They _really_ don’t respond well to anything that challenges their worldview, or if they see something that validates them, they’ll immediately run with it and start venting bc they usually have to keep their opinions bottled up. Or they just never shut up about it because their ideology is basically their whole life. That’s the reason for all the weirdass comments.

[@WinWinWoo]

Even sometimes with KZbin I find myself doing this. Like if there’s 90 replies for no reason. Toxicity I don’t need to get myself involved in

[@shay5479]

ignoring the irony here, commenters are really something else

[@1991-present]

@@shay5479 for real. I am continually taken back by the high levels of ignorance.

[@neverneverland5836]

These are the rules of the internet: Every reddit AITA post must receive comments seriously telling OP to sue the other party, and every tiktok relationship post must receive comments seriously telling the poster to divorce their partner.

[@peace_larva]

'delete the lawyer, hit facebook, get a gym'

[@hotsexyangel]

Although, I will say, most AITA married couples actually do need a divorce 😭

[@dragonsrule20201]

​@@hotsexyangel "so me (42M) and my wife (19F) got into an argument and..." 😬

[@harharharharharharharharha240]

Or they tell op to break up with them after the AITA post 💀

[@rayblay6295]

I saw an aita post where people in the comments were telling op to literally cut his mother off over her *almost* spreading unkind gossip. just a total disconnect from what relationships are like irl while acting like they know everyone's relationship and motivations from one post

[@networkrage]

i swear Instagram was purposely recommending so many reels that induced the most anger, distaste and hatred i had to uninstall the app and just not participate in this bs

[@flamingcheetopuff8434]

reels reminding you how lonely you are?

[@flamingcheetopuff8434]

@@Cerealbox352 salty

[@Cerealbox352]

@@flamingcheetopuff8434 im not angry? im just saying i dont post retarded comments i think you misunderstood my comment

[@Rainbowfox_]

“Gaming is the worst hobby you could have” imagine gate keeing hobbies

[@123dapizza]

You sound like a redditor falling for bait

[@emmakharris5369]

Parasocial relationships are out of control. I saw a TikTok made by a girl who lost 75k followers after revealing that she has a boyfriend.

[@sohnaminta.9264]

Omg

[@MyFatherLooksLikeAPallasCat]

I first read it as 75kg and I was horrified lmao!

[@alexysjamesfarmer3140]

omg soupytime i love her

[@littlepinkniki]

Oh ffs. What is the internet even?

[@michellevieiracordeiro]

Holy guacamole!

[@Resolver101]

I like how drew doesn’t blink in the skit where he ends with saying he doesn’t blink anymore

[@drewisgooden]

thanks for noticing

[@pyramidhead6998]

Not blinking is unhealthy and you should be ashamed for promoting an unhealthy lifestyle.

[@onezerosevensix]

thanks for noticing

[@chgeri2232]

I am one hundred percent certain that the reason he doesn't blink is to secretly try to tell us how unhappy he is in his relationship. I didn't even need to watch that part of the video to know that he should leave everything he has and get out of that toxic relationship (unlike mine). People like him who just accept the abuse and don't do anything about it make me scik

[@shaliekk]

That's amazing

[@orangegreen3769]

“It’s better to find eternal meaning through your children than temporary happiness thru a game. But you do you.” LOL the saltiness and jealousy just exuding from this phrase is insane. Like ok bro, you had kids and I didn’t, can we let ppl be happy? Go enjoy your eternal meaning with your children lmfaoo. One of the comments at 12:56.

[@fjodorf7341]

Loved the rant about the state of modern social media apps in the end. Algorithms are designed to make you pissed, because getting you pissed increases engagement. There is a way to not be exposed to this anymore btw - use apps without algorithmic sorting, like apps were in the old days. I recently moved to Mastodon from Twitter and boy, am I a lot happier than before. Just ... posts by my friends or people I actually follow, sorted by time. I love it. I hope we’ll have similar replacements for Instagram and Tiktok and stuff at some point. This algorithmic shit is not the way and it’s actively damaging humanity if you ask me.

[@sm1purplmurderedme583]

finally someone addresses the fact tiktok makes out every healthy relationship having a little dilemma into an abusive toxic relationship where their partners should go to prison lmfao.

[@caramella2103]

The biggest thing stopping me from downloading TikTok is the tendency of people to be so extremely negative on it. I sometimes see KZbin Shorts where very nice creators complain about mean comments from TikTok but on KZbin the comments are so supportive. Like what's going on??

[@jayzerbeam9733]

Same with Reddit lol, it's crazy some of the "advice" you see on there that's like the most upvoted comment in the thread

[@lucystoner]

​@Joseph Hinchliffe what is so annoying is that the internet has no chill. A little argument gets the same virtriol as a person beating someone up. Like please!!

[@goblinn9633]

honestly haha, the worldviews of tik tok seem so black and white

[@caramella2103]

@@jayzerbeam9733 Yeah, I get that. I try to stay away from the big, popular subreddits and join communities that I actually like. Seeing people post their plants or small achievements is so much better! xD

[@tomkemball-cook1923]

I feel like a big problem with Social Media discourse is ppl don’t stop to consider why something makes them feel a certain way and just vomit out their projected insecurities without thinking twice and the design of certain apps encourages it

[@cdw2468]

this is a great point, i think next time isn’t of arguing with some lunatic that replies to me i’ll say “why does this make you feel that way?” to really fuck with them

[@leobe2104]

I'd feel sorry for people like that if they weren't ao miserable to others

[@amemelia]

You can usually get a general just of why people comment things they usually do, usually insecurity and jealousy. Jealous because a couple have their own separate time, hobbies, friends while they feel stuck in a relationship they feel drained in. People really complain about the weirdest thing and as an outsider you really can look and go "your insecurities aren't good and the manifestation of hatred towards others is proving that"

[@JennaEmbers]

THIIIIIIIIIS. They don’t stop think, “Okay, i’m feeling upset right now, but does that mean it’s automatically on the creator?” Instead they immediately blame the content creator when they sense any uncomfortable feelings within themselves. WE HAVE OUR OWN SHIT WE ARE BRINGING INTO THE SITUATION IT IS NOT EVERYONE’S JOB TO CATER TO YOU. It’s been making me so fucking angry, Sorry lol

[@ALT-vz3jn]

A massive database of cringe is quickly building up from all the impulsive crap being posted out there… the wayback machine is becoming a black hole of 💩💩💩💩

[@_zander1025]

the whole “well he doesn’t like doing the dishes either” is such a weird point because like,,, maybe he does? like my boyfriend loves cleaning cause it calms him, but i can’t stand doing it, so obviously he’s gonna be the one doing the cleaning it’s just such a weird thing to assume lmao

[@sabaducia]

😂 this is what I was thinking! My husband **hates** cooking, and I love it, so it doesn't feel like a "trade" to us, but people make wild assumptions about me "having to cook all the time" and asking us "how do you balance it out?". Chill, guys. We're happily married just doing our thing omg.

[@jamesdagmond]

My wife and I don't even have any kids and we often do our own separate stuff in the evening. We've been together 10 years our relationship is stronger than ever. Most people need their own personal time.

[@echo_sprite]

And I really hate our relationship. Drew, I’m breaking up with you.

[@-bugbite]

Maybe this will be the pinned one

[@ratstanduser]

Get a divorce.

[@cheesecaked33]

I thought drew was dating me!!!

[@PersonTP]

Wait he's dating you?! I thought I was the only one!

[@lefishe6611]

He's dating you toooooo!

[@csales76]

I can always count on Drew to remind me why I avoid TikTok like it's a plague-ridden hospital ward.

[@meowmeowmortbird]

Because it is.

[@karkatvantass3730]

Random ass question but is the cat in your pfp internet famous? I got a website pulled up in another tab and it's icon is the same cat picture just edited a bit.

[@csales76]

@@karkatvantass3730 That's my Maggie, a fave rescue cat of mine. Maggie passed away about 7 years ago now. She wasn't famous (as far as I know), but tuxedo cats are fairly popular.

[@parkernielsen9145]

to be honest, it just depends how you use it, no better or worse than any other social media

[@KnappstersaurusRex]

TikTok is no worse than any other social media and the algorithm works better than most so you only see what you want to see very quickly

[@bethasaurusrex.]

What's crazy is that even in a long-distance relationship, my man and I will face time and do different things. He'll play games on his phone, and I'll be reading. It's still quality time.

[@matt98785]

Instagram reels comments suck so much man. So much negativity, judging and people thinking they know what’s going on in other peoples’ lives

[@sarahismyalias4672]

Drew gives me hope that there are still sane people in the world 😭

[@valenshinee]

love your pfp snuy mcdonal💓

[@areszverse]

@@ninjabanana0885 IM not the one defending genocide YOU are!

[@9sheri9]

​@@ninjabanana0885 🍿

[@naumangilani5831]

what do you mean by that?

[@Erin-000]

Drew gives me hope that there are still people in the world 😭

[@brettley2480]

90% of the comments on tiktok are just people projecting their insecurities in an attempt to feel better about themselves. There's no way faster to make yourself angry faster than reading them tbh

[@keychains5806]

One of my pet peeve about these tiktoks is whenever an attractive or conventionally good looking person posts an "outfit of the day" or just storytime and people are like "I wish I had your body" or "I wish I looked like you" or even "I wish I wasn't so (insert insecurity)" Like the premise of the TikTok is not to look at the tiktoker body at all but the comments just..

[@specializedchemicals6669]

@@keychains5806 o m f g tell me about it!

[@thetoto4360]

@@keychains5806 A bit related to that my pet peeve is when a fashion tiktoker tries to share small tips and tricks on how to style and combine certain clothes which helped them and someone be like “uhmmm sweetie just let people wear what they want” or “lol don’t listen to them and just wear whatever” Like if you don’t want tips and are comfortable in your clothes…why you on this? They just wanna help people with their style, sharing experiences and opening peoples mind to certain options in styling You don’t think it’s applicable to you then just move on…

[@MIMO-if3hy]

Same with instagram comments too, just so negative for no good reason 😕

[@123dapizza]

Why are you allowing the comments to make you angry? Are you insecure?

[@ephemeralist_]

i actually like to live inside my partners skin like a parasitic virus so i can be with them and around them at all hours of the day and life and forever. this is what a healthy relationship looks like! hope this helps :)

[@Rubycon99]

Reddit is the worst for this (well, it's basically the worst for anything). "My car is making this weird noise, can anyone identify what could be causing it?" "Sounds toxic, you should get a divorce."

[@PinHeadSupliciumwtf]

Man if I ever became a therapist I'd ask every patient to bring me their social media comment history. So much of this screams projection that I wouldn't even have to ask them any questions.

[@deepwokensucks8664]

Or, your not a therapist so why are you trying to dissect some kind of meaning from other people's opinions, actaul reddit armchair psychiatrist talk

[@PinHeadSupliciumwtf]

@@deepwokensucks8664 German medschool covers psychotherapy/psychology. I'm not going to become one though.

[@deepwokensucks8664]

@Patho loge yes so what are you trying to analyze stranger comments for

[@PinHeadSupliciumwtf]

@@deepwokensucks8664 practice.

[@deepwokensucks8664]

@@PinHeadSupliciumwtf did you not just say that you weren't gonna go down path

[@westernhemlock]

People online have gotten waaaay too comfortable making wildly negative assumptions about relationships they’ve only seen a 15 second snippet of on TikTok

[@Zigby_]

15 seconds of video with no context is surely enough to form a complete and accurate conclusion on something you otherwise knew nothing about

[@BL-hw4mn]

Not just TikTok but posts on the AITA subreddit

[@user-rr2gk9ds4i]

@@BL-hw4mn at least they're asking for speculation

[@negligible_reality]

@@BL-hw4mn that's different tho, since those people actually encouraged this type of speculation by posting on the subreddit

[@Spaceman_U]

I felt that "you're not in the relationship", because my friends started to talk in tiktok comment language that I dont care about my friends but rather take the time to listen to my gf. Its ridiculous. Great video 👍🏼

[@madiziehr]

I truly never recognized how intentional the internet anger was until you brought it up. It's such a struggle, as you say, because the internet is such an incredibly valuable tool, but so many people take it for granted to say dumb shit and be mean. I constantly want to get off the internet, but find it's never the solution. I hope change can happen lol

[@Esitaro3670]

Social Media has become so toxic that the idea of someone being happy with their couple seems like horrible so they want them to become as miserable as themselves

[@poogissploogis]

I agree. People are so black pilled about happiness that they think any happiness they see must be fake. It's very unhealthy

[@MorgurEdits]

I also do not like the opposite of every single comment being super nice and cuddly, with like no meat but only positive buzzing :D.

[@Bergensape]

You made me think about how most people that feel like shit buy stuff. Promoting things that makes you feel bad and then blasting you with ads might be the tactic they are using, what a wonderful world we have

[@jarodgolgori3137]

someones projecting

[@hadesedits1501]

@@MorgurEdits W hating

[@Lulu-cz1gk]

If Drew’s life was a movie it would be claymation

[@bonelessbananna5410]

what

[@cc13556]

wait yeah

[@JeffKelly03]

I don't know why. I'll likely never know why. But this comment just clicked with me and makes so much sense.

[@dynamo_danamo]

What does this mean?

[@anaveeah]

why is this so accurate

[@agent__berry]

I feel like it’s gotten even worse as of late. Every time I see a cute post with a couple, the comments are filled with jokes about people wanting to kill themselves??? It’s fucking insane and I can only imagine how shitty the poster feels seeing all of that :(

[@123dapizza]

They should lol, and shouldn’t you be busy with middle school?

[@parkerbeck2335]

​@@123dapizza😐

[@n50409]

​@@123dapizzaWatch out, We got a bad boy over here

[@curlybebe]

Reels comments are literally filled with unhinged, misogynistic men, even in the most wholesome reels, I don't even understand why

[@mythcat1273]

If you can't fathom having alone time while being married you are for sure the type of person to constantly complain about being married but refuse to get a divorce

[@shay5479]

EXACTLY

[@Tiernan422]

I think the issue is so many people are so dependent on other people that they can’t comprehend not being with someone

[@batacumba]

@@Tiernan422 yeah I think a lot of people kind of skipped over the whole ‘learning how to enjoy your own company’ thing and that’s really bad. I know a lot of adults who are so scared of being on their own they move from one bad relationship to the next, it literally ruins their lives. People who try to hand wave that away or act like because they lucked out and found someone good that it doesn’t apply to them are foolish. They may end up suffering when their partner dies or leaves them. You never know what can happen, it’s important to like ourselves enough we can be on our own and be ok. Maybe we’d prefer a partner but we’re not miserable and lost without one.

[@mx.menacing]

It gives the vibe of people who would complain ON the wedding day.

[@pick2206]

u just made an unhinged assumption that this video was pointing out to be absurd....

[@mandymooncakes]

I feel like Drew always posts a video on the exact topics that I'm thinking about. Recently there hasn't been a single moment where I left Instgram or TikTok and didn’t feel either depressed or pure rage. I always tell myself not to look at the comments but I inevideibly do, and end up in a cesspool of hatred, toxicity, and stupidity. It is impossible now to go online without seeing a pointless and stupid argument or ending up in one.

[@deepfried7246]

Preach

[@Lybrel]

Delete TikTok

[@MegInWhispers]

delete IG and tiktok! you'll truly feel so much freer

[@arijj8629]

​@@Lybrelwhy would someone delete tiktok bc someone doesn't know how to keep their bs to themselves

[@monarch3495]

Drew reads your mind for video ideas.

[@nebularianwav]

your points about how having space in a relationship is important really stuck with me. for the past few years a partner and one “friend” i had were manipulative, guilt tripping me into ditching my closest friends and family to prioritize them, at some points even threatening me that they would hurt themselves or worse if i didn’t. when i first watched this video my mental health was at an all time low, and now that i’m here again, i’m glad to say it’s been a lot better and i cut off every red flag in my life. it’s weird for a random viewer to open up like this but i guess i just wanted to say thank you.