Twitter Pick-Up Artists

[@Molly-555]

I like his videos but I just wish his face was different

[@reduxdev]

why do you think drenny goodzalez is ugly

[@goavs7438]

fair play

[@PolarNoodle]

true

[@BobbEditz]

Yesh

[@pringleonthefloor25]

gotta wait for a month again

[@noodlepoodle3582]

"Master Opener of Women" sounds like a poorly translated description of Jack the Ripper

[@Catandgoose]

LMAO

[@kindapunkyrocky]

im crying

[@Emma-rw8yo]

i was thinking he was gonna make that joke lmao

[@nonymouswisp8176]

My boy Raiden would never do this

[@duolingoowl8294]

it sounds like a really bad way to describe someone who has performed a lot of C-sections

[@dancetx]

Someone on twitter once said: garbage men and pickup artists should trade names

[@abigailsalmanac]

OH MY GOSH 😂

[@vinylcreeks]

Holy frick dude🤣🤣

[@kirbwarriork3371]

I started doing that and let me tell you, the results are fantastic.

[@StNick119]

Underrated comment

[@skinsey85]

That took me way too long to work out in my head 🤣

[@elice7158]

It's crazy because every single thing these dudes say about women is extreme projecting; being easily manipulated, emotionally unstable, sex driven, etc

[@APoliticalConfusionAndMess]

Okay, Karen.

[@dannydevito7000]

@@APoliticalConfusionAndMess you are proving their point.

[@jaketaylor5686]

@@APoliticalConfusionAndMess Okay, Viktor.

[@thedestroyasystem]

@@APoliticalConfusionAndMess okay Kevin

[@broomhilder]

Have to agree; i wish more guys could understand that going into a conversation with an entire script planned out doesn’t help you to actually get to know the person. You end up looking crazy, either responding in ways that don’t make sense or by inconspicuously giving off “I’m forgetting everything you said ‘cause I just want to hump” vibes

[@fishwithknees]

It's so funny that the joke responses to the first tweet and the ACTUAL responses have such a difference in how they're written. The joke ones have good punctuation and wording and the genuine ones look like they're written by a 7 year old lol

[@ilikecurry2345]

It's as if, in order to be a slimy creep, you have to forgo all your basic education and replace those thoughts with boobs.

[@vexusmorpheus932]

It's hard typing with one hand [joke]

[@gay.people.dont.exist.327]

@@vexusmorpheus932STOP 💀

[@Azarxii]

and then they say that woman are children

[@spocite]

⁠@@vexusmorpheus932this is the hardest i’ve laughed at any comment in a LONG while

[@potatoman7594]

*walks up to woman in store, sweating profusely* “doritos? d- do you like them?”

[@WhoTookSpecimen]

"o-oh.. those are lays?" *begins to shart sweat*

[@thepyjamallamaloewen7655]

@@WhoTookSpecimen *faints*

[@potatoman7594]

@@WhoTookSpecimen guys one thing is clear from this comment section, we’re all getting girlfriends 😎

[@sourgreendolly7685]

Y’all are making me wish I was single 😂

[@bookshelfhoney]

A guy once tried to hit on me in the tampon aisle!! Fellas. NOOOOOO

[@evanweaver1060]

“How do you open?” Coroner: “obviously a Y-incision.”

[@Pope_of_the_Church_of_Tea]

I just finished my last anatomy exam of med school, and that was pretty much exactly my instinctive first thought. "I guess it depends on what structure we're trying to access..."

[@subtlekage]

these pickup artists are literally just y/n and these girls are the fictional characters they’re obsessing over

[@ailia8487]

Fr they're literally writing fanfic in their responses

[@elbowsbuns1896]

💀💀💀 i hate how accurate this is

[@whoswallowing]

@@elbowsbuns1896 why would u hate facts

[@sourgreendolly7685]

Dating sims taught me everything I need to know about dating, wym?? 😂

[@sourgreendolly7685]

@@whoswallowing It’s a figure of speech

[@SearaChar]

Honestly the joke responses would have actually worked on me waaay better than the actual ones

[@elafimilo8199]

Mutual injury is so sexy 👍🏻

[@Disguised_Cat]

Even the one where the shelf falls on you-?

[@mrdeadmemes]

@@Disguised_Cat don't forget the one where they sweep your legs and hit you in the ribs

[@SearaChar]

@@Disguised_Cat especially that one

[@negligible_reality]

@@Disguised_Cat i would literally marry him on the spot if he accidentally dropped a shelf on me 😍

[@NickGalbraith]

I'm imagining Drew's stock image search history is something like: "hot dog" "car" "seductive cowgirl"

[@sourgreendolly7685]

i-is that not normal??

[@KlueTran]

why "car"?

[@worstusernameintheworld9871]

@@KlueTran vrom

[@wiraydh]

@@worstusernameintheworld9871 vrom

[@KlueTran]

@@worstusernameintheworld9871 sorry I still haven’t the slightest idea of what you guys are telling me. Pardon me.

[@bennettloni1630]

Feel like "have you tried Cool Ranch" might unironically be the best pick up line

[@RemixedVoice]

"IT'S TIME TO RANCH IT UP!!"

[@BradyR95]

I think it's the only one that could start a real conversation that isn't "please leave me alone"

[@Georgia.is.Artistic]

The common mans’ “do you like jazz?”

[@a.m4520]

Umm what? Just let people grocery shop in peace. Plus how is that even a pick up line. Most "pick up" lines are either creepy or cringy A F

[@whereisawesomeness]

Of the options in those threads, absolutely

[@alexsm3882]

Drew wasn't lying when he said he procrastinates his videos until the absolute last day of the month lmfao

[@yurinoworry]

I was the 421st like, sorry :(

[@roundsdm]

& now we’re going to do an entire video on a tweet i saw earlier lol, honestly loved it though, A+ message.

[@carebearsyd8814]

I was literally coming here for this comment

[@RogueAstro85]

I don't even need the notification bell because I always know I'm getting a Drew video the last day of the month

[@Iron678Maiden]

He didn’t like this comment hahah

[@GlitteryGhost]

My favorite opener was "Hey... You guys like toothpaste?" It wasn't a sexy opener it was just so unexpected and really funny.

[@SoftFryMildlyOverSalted]

As a woman I can confirm that I would definitely at least not hate you for saying this and may even continue talking to you which sounds like not much but is still infinitely better than whatever those "alpha males" could come up with

[@crackerjack0349]

At that point you get my attention. Are you downing tubes of toothpaste or something

[@GirlGuts.]

​@crackerjack0349 one time I saw a guy eating a tube of toothpaste in a goodwill parking lot so it's not out of the question

[@MathematicalVoid]

Reminds me of a quote from Teen Girl Squad: “Um, hi. I like music, and, uh… cloth.”

[@Burning0Lilac]

I literally cannot imagine a worse pickup line than that future wife one. There are like 4 red flags in that alone.

[@lizzyizzywizzy]

hey gorgeous woman i don’t know, let me make a comment about your body being for my enjoyment only because eventually i’ll own you ;)

[@amandarogerson9132]

You. Me. A pizza. And my bed..... (while he winks)

[@mastermarkus5307]

@@lizzyizzywizzy "BTW, if you get fat, I'll think you're gross!"

[@morley364]

Any man who steals my food- and on top of that makes a comment about my weight- is someone I will purposefully spend my life avoiding

[@wizzem7890]

@@mastermarkus5307 "Haha negging what's that I would never can you sit on my face now?"

[@nomorepikachu]

i feel bad for the women whose photos this dude uses for his tweets

[@heetucola1087]

I was thinking the same thing, like I just imagine these random girls logging into twitter to find their selfies being posted by this predator to ask other men how they would try to "open you up", that creep should get banned

[@ems786]

Yeah, it makes me realise once you post something online it's not fully yours anymore. Such a yucky experience using a photo for these purposes...

[@lancer434]

They probably pay the more specific ones like the Dorito one there’s no way they just saw them in the grocery store they paid her to pretend like they’re getting the Doritos

[@_sch_eme_]

@@lancer434 lmao no dude they just stole the picture from the actual people who took it. They didnt have anything to do with it exept stealing it and being super creepy i cant believe you think he took the pic wtf

[@leoultimaupgraded9914]

Id say maybe they use some ai generated photos but that would be wrong since all the Ai generated photos I’ve saw are just of the face and not the entire person so knowing this I couldn’t even imagine being one of the women and seeing someone tweet about my photo in that way, Id probably literally throw up.

[@s3r3n3tymusic]

Their like “she doesn’t know what she wants, she’s a child” until she consents to have sex then she’s fully capable of her own thoughts. So she’s not to be treated like an adult until you get what you want, yk…like a child.

[@dr.doctor_]

Original comment, dont trust Dark ("Spam KZbinr").

[@rpg500e]

I'm not so sure these types of guys are too much into consent...

[@galaxyocicat5660]

If she's just a child, then these types of men are pedophiles by that basis.

[@astronaughty492]

It's moments like Drew reading the "ACCORDING TO PHYCOLOGY" tweet that make me believe he would be great at voice acting for an animated series.

[@riabouchinska]

Hell yeah I want to see this happen in my lifetime

[@vilek_7235]

he should become the narrator of an animated show that interacts with the main characters

[@wetmanux54]

good voice, bad face

[@ghostt98]

​@@vilek_7235like the ones in ever after high??

[@stickcultist]

Sto prva bojna ponos je Hrvata, bićemo tu sad i poslije rata Kad zatreba zemlja ova, krvlju našom da se brani, za dom spremni su Hrvati, i komšije Muslimani Od zlotvora branićemo, naša polja naše kuće. Nek stotinu naših strada doći će nas još tisuće Kad pozove domovina, preko vatre, preko leda, da idemo i kličemo Bog, Hrvati i pobjeda I nad Tuzli i nad Savi, crven, bijeli, plav se vije, ali i u Herceg Bosni, Hrvatsko nam srce bije Možda jače bije ovdje, gdje to reći nismo smijeli, ali ništa manje nismo, Kroaciju mi željeli Svejedno je dal smo oni, što se ispod križa mole ili braća muslimani, sve nas iste rane bole Proći ćemo teške bitke, hrabro čak i kad se gine, i na kraju umit lice, u ledenoj vodi Drine

[@monocell.]

Saying you’re good with women because you ask them out a lot is like saying you’re good with money because you’ve applied to the lottery 6000 times

[@Overseer2579]

Lol yeah

[@phantomkate6]

I am the best criminal defense lawyer in town. I've had over 5,000 clients! ...Who are all in jail now.

[@Overseer2579]

@@phantomkate6 😂😂😂 for real

[@emiliew5553]

i'm a great doctor. i've treated 800 people before they died or found a new doctor

[@randominternetguy3537]

He said 4k approaches. SMH my head

[@Dr.Gummik]

Pickup artists should learn the art of picking up a phone and contacting a therapist.

[@toothfairy10133]

underrated comment

[@elliewuzzup7689]

Seriously. Sounds like a LOT of them have self esteem and anger issues, and could really benefit from therapy. Maybe it would help them be less objectifying and terrified of rejection.

[@cmarquino]

SERIOUSLY THOUGH

[@fern4959]

FOR REAL

[@kimt1776]

Absolutely!

[@taitrahedron]

I get unironically excited every time squarespace is the sponsor because I know the hot dog is probably getting something new

[@Barkerfam6]

Oh good- I thought I was the only one!😆

[@countyfactswailuigi]

epic hot dog

[@thatsit5049]

One day I’ll meet that hottie!

[@fishyjell]

hot dog!!

[@gummidon1618]

Love you hotdog 🌭

[@cacophonousantiquarian8803]

I love how these self-proclaimed pick-up artists have this plethora of tactics, lines, and strategies, and not one of them involves behaving like a decent human being.

[@michaelburch530]

or they do, followed shortly by acting like a total douche.

[@cacophonousantiquarian8803]

​@@michaelburch530and then they whine that women hate "nice guys."

[@heatherduke7703]

They never believe us when we try to tell them we actually like men who are nice to us and treat us well 🤦‍♀️

[@engelbrekthaakansson4100]

​@@heatherduke7703 It's always so awkward getting asked by very entitled men how I've had relationships. (They word it in a more disgusting way I assure you). My answer is always, they're people, what do you mean. Hang out, talk, be a decent person and do stuff you like together. If it clicks, it clicks. They really are stuck in thinking it's some puzzle game to solve.

[@suemccashland]

the best way to completely kill an innuendo: just pretend you absolutely do NOT understand, and demand they explain in detail what they mean. they get awkward real quick

[@TheGong00zler]

YESSSS HAHAHHA

[@thebacteriawasbeatentodeath]

Or just stare unblinking into their eyes until they leave

[@alcestad5714]

I don’t even have to pretend, it *will* take five minutes for me to process because my brain is busy with “A PERSON IS SAYING WORDS TO ME OH NO” 😂

[@THICCTHICCTHICC]

My favourite thing to destroy a conversation. That or asking them to explain a really obvious punchline then saying "I don't get it"

[@dinkusstinkus4396]

I don't think that technically counts as them getting awkward though, I think that just counts as you being awkward.

[@katieyt23]

“And you’ve identified that what she’s actually doing is begging for your attention” lol this is so true please they really think this

[@bellabell9677]

Joe from you be like

[@antitheticaldreamgirl]

@@bellabell9677 all the tweets in this video are just him on different accounts

[@thedestroyasystem]

@@antitheticaldreamgirl at least that means fewer people who think this way. Though the fact that there are any at all astounds and disappoints me

[@nicomoist5336]

A common response from them would be: "Well she shouldn't wear those type of clothes if she doesn't want to be hit on! *Victim blaming noises* >:O"

[@katc2040]

@@nicomoist5336 lol or just "she shouldn't be so attractive then" LMAOO I've literally had guys be like your vibe is so inticing like bruh that's just you

[@LacroixboiMarx]

The only unrealistic part of this is HR actually doing something about sexual harassment in the workplace.

[@megczaban6814]

OOF

[@heiideolso989]

So true hr is usually full of misogynistic men or women who are just trying to keep their head down

[@randomcat7246]

@Mostly Anthologies That’s really good

[@bunnycrofts8127]

HR's job is to protect the company, not the employees. Hope that helps.

[@Vasharan]

Well, _obviously_ this scripted segment wasn't set in Blizzard or Activision...

[@dearlily325]

Why would you admit to desperately wanting sex with someone you believe has the development of a child

[@afjer]

The answer could be in the question...

[@cam4636]

@@afjer Literally this; scroll back far enough and most of them will have a "well a 13 year old COULD have the mind of an adult" somewhere in their history

[@koii319]

"Youre very mature for your age" ahh dudes

[@beautifulenigma1724]

it's like when I was in my early 20s, guys would come up to me in the bar and go "what are you, 12?" (cuz I look quite young for my age, and they would almost always say 12) and then were surprised I wanted nothing to do with them afterwards. Just grossness all around

[@Brandoon296]

I love how Drew’s idea of a sexual harasser is just him in a Hawaiian shirt

[@tyllo444]

The shirt assaults their eyes!

[@sourpatchordnance2249]

Don’t forget the crooked buttons. Crucial detail.

[@gaanadelrey]

A shirt which I'm assuming he already owned lol

[@GordonSlamsay]

I call hawaiian shirts 'booty tapping shirts'

[@kaikai9122]

*giggity intensifies

[@paytinii4833]

I think this video was the perfect example of how to joke about something while still taking it seriously. Sometimes when men make videos about incels or just generally creepy dudes it feels insensitive. Like they laugh at how ridiculous these guys are but it doesn’t feel as silly to watch as a woman when you’ve actually experienced these things.

[@LnRit02]

strong agree. i will also say it gets so tiring to watch how many male commentary youtubers milk “alpha male” or pua content for cheap cringe laughs, because when they don’t offer any real commentary about the underlying social problems that make that genre of content popular, it feels like they’re just trying to pander to their predominantly female audiences. as though to say, “thank god i’m not like THOSE men. i RESPECT women because i’m not CRINGE like these losers haha.” It’s low hanging fruit, and it often reads as performative for clicks and brownie points imo, but it WORKS and I see so many girls eating it up bc the bar is truly so low. there are SO many videos that feel like that, from like...BIG creators. and even if they come from a place of good intentions, they don’t bother to talk seriously about 1) the internet culture that breeds this kind of thinking/behavior among lonely young men and preys on them for money and 2) how exhausting and dehumanizing it is to experience the impact of that culture as a woman. drew did a great job here balancing the humor with genuine talking points, which was refreshing to see.

[@kaeemproductions]

@@LnRit02 @paytinii you both hit the nail on the head with these comments. it's not funny when its weaponized against you and your entire gender... incels aren't just harmless "haha" virgins, but a genuine threat. women get murdered for just turning a dude down, and its these types of dudes who do it. when you reduce women to an object to be won, not even having her own thoughts and feelings, it doesn't just fester online but gets dragged into face-to-face interactions too.

[@worstusernameintheworld9871]

I'm glad to finally see a comment that is so accurate to what I've been thinking this entire time. In fact, I was kinda iffy at first about watching Drew's video because I thought it would be just another "haha incel weird" video but it was actually really informative and points out the issue all while cracking actually funny jokes for once. Don't get me wrong, I don't have anything against the dudes making content about "alpha/sigma/omegaverse" whatnot, but as a girl, it's very nice to hear from someone who understands (or at least can mostly sympathize with) how bad the situation actually is, because these "alphas" are not funny, they're horrifying. just a random reply as to why i really like Drew's content, I like his balance of humor and information. :)

[@socialworksucks3333]

Agree with all these comments in this thread. Part of what stuck out to me in this video that felt different was essentially the language used for calling out the mentality/behaviors for what they actually are...i.e. predatory, sexual harassment, disrespect/no regard for a woman’s autonomy, etc. Not just “this alpha male is a joke, this guy is ridiculous...” type of commentary. Like no, the language we use is important. These “pick up artists” and the rhetoric they push is actively harmful, dangerous, demeaning. Constantly playing off the whole “alpha/beta/sigma/whatever” concept as solely a joke downplays the severity.

[@vrish1420]

damn yall think everythings insensitive now

[@RoxxyKaosGG]

I love how so many guys think being emotional is only crying. Dude, anger is an emotion, too. Flipping a table and screaming is being emotional.

[@sourgreendolly7685]

being so desperate that they believe this crap is also emotional lol

[@eduarda2534]

YEAH. Every guy that say "You are more emotional, I'm more logical" isn't actually logical, they either have a emotional block or angry management issues. Every single one of them.

[@christalcavanaugh]

@La Verdad I don’t want them at their worst or best 😂

[@Pomagranite167]

Thats my father. He's fianlly starting to realize to realize maybe he IS emotional, and if his daughter is good at science and math, perhaps she understands the concept of logic as well! Lol

[@Pomagranite167]

@La Verdad "if you don't love me at my creepy hitting on you while getting a doritos bag at the grocery store, you dont deserve me at my punching a hole in the wall during an argument!"

[@AngryReptileKeeper]

I've just gotta say... coming up to me, snatching something out of my hands and then insisting that you know what I want better than I do is a _really_ good way to get me to immediately become hostile.

[@maddieivy2782]

My biggest pet peeve throughout middle/high school was boys snatching my items out of my hands in an attempt to flirt. They think they are being cute, but I cannot fathom how anyone would think that move would work

[@stitchesandhockey]

Genuine thank you for bringing up the fact that men like this often script the woman’s response and get angry and all too often violent when she goes off script. It’s so scary and uncomfortable to experience.

[@APoliticalConfusionAndMess]

Aw... I'm so sorry, Karen.

[@dannydevito7000]

It really is disturbing, Im glad Drew is raising awareness about how abnormal and gross it is. There seems to be a big movement to renormalize sexism and It disgusts me.

[@gan5920]

@@APoliticalConfusionAndMess how did you get here

[@solala1312]

I feel you, it's actually terrifying when you get into a preplanned convo and can't escape quickly.

[@gsiya4023]

@@APoliticalConfusionAndMess well found who follows those pages , master opener here

[@whiskeywolfgang]

Ah yes, the three emotions women value 1. Fun 2. Intrigue 3. Good emotions

[@eventua8474]

the last one is a package deal

[@anshi5098]

4. Content (optional)

[@twilightmilk8556]

5. Profit

[@deadass849]

6. Sigma energy

[@childeater7327]

4.dark souls achievements

[@mgreen2541]

4:18 "since it seems innocent" He's implying that his intentions aren't actually innocent, but he's pretending they are. That's so scary

[@clev7989]

Didn't even notice, great point!

[@eyesofthecervino3366]

Also, a woman would have to be braindead to not immediately know why this random dude is aggressively congratulating her on her choice of doritos, lol.

[@eyesofthecervino3366]

@@loli_cvnt5622 Isn't hitting on someone so subtly that they don't even realize it just an epic fail, though?

[@ajness9526]

Women tend to feel that most (if not all) random approaches by men aren’t innocent.

[@oxxy6678]

It's very stupid and convoluted, but it's not "so scary" lmao. How does wanting them to think hes not hitting on them make it TERRYIFING

[@sheridanlefanu.]

Once when I was 14 a boy around my age who I had never seen before in my life walked up, said "Are you from Tennessee? Because you're the only 10 I see. Can I have you number," then looked down at the floor like he was about to start crying. And he was still a much better "Casanova" than any of the grown men in this video.

[@wiggard]

best pickup line ever. I'm going to use it one day.

[@rosen_venus]

It's actually kind of endearing, in a weird way, when a guy tries to be suave but comes across as completely out of his element and awkward. But pity dates a good relationship does not make. It's better overall if they just learn to have some self confidence and act normal. These guys never learned that so they're stuck being awkward forever, trying to figure out why they still aren't pulling even though they said the "magic words" correctly.

[@wiggard]

@@rosen_venus Definitely. Being funny, even at your own expense, can make girls be interested in you, but not much more than that

[@screamingbegins4688]

thats actually adorable

[@Joel-Haver]

This video got me yelling and screaming and smash things!

[@breakfastisgreat6450]

Sound like Batman after he got bit by the spider bro

[@uncomfortablecat]

Did you smash things, Joel?

[@user_2793]

Bruh

[@AsherLogan129]

Twitter has that effect on most people Not all, just...most

[@noisynixx]

Man up!

[@megumin4564]

"Pick up art" is just another way of saying sexual harassment 99.999% of the time

[@Loderyod]

*100%

[@megumin4564]

@@kosta5706 oh sorry imma delete it it's irrelevant

[@eddy0010]

@@kosta5706 it’s sexual harassment if you have no social awareness and don’t know when to flirt. And you can get a girl to be attracted to you in many ways besides genetic looks, something tells me you didn’t realize that

[@noriakikakyoin1423]

@@kosta5706 I really hope you never talk to a woman again

[@kosta5706]

@@noriakikakyoin1423 your mom

[@alexvankeulen7171]

I keep track of the months not with a calendar, but with Drew's upload schedule

[@portorolla4157]

drew uploaded? why, it's gotta be the next year then

[@discoshark7767]

You mean Danny’s?

[@alliexcx5576]

je emoji pas de me me dire quand même quand tu

[@thepumpkin3203]

you mean kurtis

[@busesimsek2105]

Yeah, I did say to myself "oh wow, November ended already??" when I saw the notification

[@gradyjones7017]

I find it funny how his rant against wokeism is just a rant against sexual harassment policies

[@yumalove7223]

Wokeism?

[@gradyjones7017]

@@yumalove7223 what other term do you think I should’ve used?

[@morganpetts9608]

@@gradyjones7017 Probably should have just said "woke culture" like the actual rant says

[@seigeengine]

Imagine writing "SEXCALATION SYSTEM" with a straight face.

[@portorolla4157]

shit I couldn't do it :(

[@MoonPie92517]

SEXCALCULATION SYSTEM, did it second try

[@PanAndScanBuddy]

Sounds like an escalator at a Mega-Brothel

[@Liex59]

@@MoonPie92517 I don't believe you

[@konstance13]

Sounds like a ripoff DENNIS system

[@beckypotato3295]

I love that these guys can "predict" how a girl would respond to their pick-up lines, because one time I was at a coffee shop reading a book and this guy came up to me and asked me "do girls like androids?" (as in the phone, not the robots) and I was just so confused about what he meant that I just kept saying "what?" lmao. Needless to say, it didn't work and he just gave up and left.

[@thebacteriawasbeatentodeath]

Do you have any idea of how he wanted you to respond? I'm genuinely curious because I have no clue what the pickup line was supposed to be

[@bookshelfhoney]

Do girls dream of electric sheeps?

[@thebacteriawasbeatentodeath]

@@bookshelfhoney I'm scared of what's about to come next

[@peterhacke642]

Can you, as a representative of girls please answer that question. I´ve only had Android Phones since my iPhone 3GS. Or maybe it was Mark Zuckerberg. You´ve missed your Chance with a Billionaire.

[@beckypotato3295]

@@thebacteriawasbeatentodeath lmao absolutely not, I guess he wanted me to say yes because he had an android? But I guess we'll never know

[@maririvperez5320]

Guy: *treats woman like a child* Girl: *doesn’t want to date a person who treats them like a child* Guy: “why are all women so triggered?”

[@thedestroyasystem]

gotta love how the people who complain about everyone else being “triggered” tend to react worst to criticism lol

[@googleoogle]

those dang whoremones 😔😔 /j

[@fart63]

The most disturbing part to me is that they think women act like children yet try to date them anyway… says a lot about you buddy 😬😬

[@1234bobfox]

You say that, but I would never allow those men around a child

[@KreeZafi]

@@fart63 EXACTLY what I was thinking too! It's incredibly disturbing that they are trying to sleep with people who they view as having the mentality of a child

[@hedgehog3180]

My funniest encouter with someone like this was in War Thunder where some guy spent a month sending me a hey every time I started the game, never carried on the conversation any further, then called me a bitch when I hadn't become his girlfriend. It was a lost cause in the first place since I'm a lesbian but like I'm just intrigued by the completely lack of efforts paired with these expectations.

[@joebidenofficialpotus]

Of course it's war thunder

[@romancatholicgameing]

LMFAOOAOAOAOAOAO *New DM from an unknown number* "hey" *_5 seconds later_* "omg why don't we have 7 kids yet???? you ungrateful pig!!!! 😡😡😡😡" *You cannot text someone that has blocked you*

[@queenofzenk]

basically, it's code for: find a girl and poke at her to see what trauma she might have and exploit her attachment issues.

[@screamingleak3725]

cheer up mate

[@no_peace]

Mine involves needing to own a bunch of firearms

[@vegeta2428]

Cry

[@GlatHjerne]

Predatorpilled and Based

[@americantoastman7296]

@@screamingleak3725 shut up mate

[@alexsiemers7898]

“Garbage men and pickup artists should switch names” - someone in the Kurtis Conner comments

[@Dethamaranth]

i think of that joke every time i hear the word "pickup artist"

[@ember9361]

unironically this

[@snoovian7951]

I watched the kurtis conner video right before drew uploaded this, perfect timing

[@HK-tl2yy]

"Did he not want to be pepper sprayed in his good eye?" Thats my favorite line 😂😂😂

[@florencembah2626]

That had me 🤣

[@AxxLAfriku]

I recently revealed the genders of my two girlfriends. It got a lot of hate and now has 30 times more dislikes than likes. I am really sad that people can be so mean. Sorry for using your comment to talk about my problems, dear hl

[@hydrangealynx]

@@AxxLAfriku deserved tbh

[@clev7989]

My fave is when drew clutches his head and says "they're so gooood" Its the way he worbles that makes it so fucking funny to me

[@clev7989]

@@AxxLAfriku I'm so confused, how can you reveal the gender of your girlfriends? Are they both trans? Because if so that's a really shitty thing to do

[@adamkane4217]

In addition to being really funny, I admire and appreciate Drew's way of pointing out how problematic toxic masculinity is by shining a light on how deeply silly all of those people are.

[@jaydougan8497]

the best opening line ever: "you wanna get flirted with?" she says yes, you're in. if she says no, just finger gun away

[@Mari_Oh]

That's hilarious!

[@kris.........]

This would save everyone so much time and bad vibes 😂

[@oliviamarie2137]

unironically this could work

[@ilikechococookies342]

Unironically I would appreciate this so much

[@MissE_Art]

It’s… perfect

[@ricequin]

Not even my gynaecological surgeon would have described himself as a “Master Opener of Women”. If he had, I definitely would have never allowed him to cut me open.

[@rizahawkeyepierce1380]

Lol I might have because that's hilarious

He is tho, he has a diploma and everything!

[@jkenzienye3732]

😂😂😂

[@ana7icia]

LMAO

[@barmetler]

@@rizahawkeyepierce1380 Depends on the inflection of his voice lol

[@maxiom7476]

I use to work with this girl who was the sweetest person I ever met. I liked how she treated people and how she could have genuine sympathy for someone she never met before. I admired her when she was going through a hard time and grieving the loss of family, how she could stay so determined and strong. Without trying, she made me want to be a better person and see the world how she saw it, because the world seemed to be a better place to her. One day after work I asked her if she wanted to go out to eat with me, and she gave me the spill that she wasn't interested in dating anyone she worked with and that she wanted to spend time out of a relationship for a while and she had a lot of stuff going on. I told her that I understood completely and just left it at that. It sucked. I was pretty disappointed, but I didn't treat her differently at work, and we didn't make it awkward. We just kept being friendly coworkers until one day after work she approached me and asked if I still happened to be interested in getting dinner some time. She told me that she hadn't stopped thinking about me asking her out, and how when she turned me down, I respectfully accepted her response and didn't hold it against her. We dated for several years and we're about to celebrate our one year wedding anniversary soon. I know all situations and people are different. But I think a lot of dudes problem when talking to women and asking them out is taking rejection personally. If you really like her and think highly of her, you wouldn't get angry if she respectfully turned you down.

[@tannerschmidt7211]

It’s this crazy concept that when you respect their boundaries and treat them like an actual friend they become interested In you.

[@nabilayasmine3319]

some man just see woman as.... well, not actual people who has feelings and personality. and that's usually where the problem starts. glad to see you're doing well with your wife!

[@ormendahl]

This is the sweetest thing and you’re also 100% right. Best of luck to you and her 💕

[@maxiom7476]

@@nabilayasmine3319 Some men struggle with being disappointed or heartbroken and find it easier to be angry when it comes to getting turned down. And thank you friend.

[@emmaanderberg7523]

The world needs more people like you, thank you for sharing this because it gives me hope.

[@foxhitsdrums]

just because a woman is somewhere outside of her house doesn't mean she is inviting you to hit on her like how are these men so stupid

[@shabath]

Main character syndrome. To them, you exist in HIS world.

[@Charlie_THE_Misandrist]

​@@shabath *it’s world

[@moatrboat]

desperation

[@adrenalineactivate]

Fr and I got angry male comments saying like "so what we're not allowed to talk to women now?? *insert words to insult women *" Like... Um no. Do you go to the grocery and start having a conversation with random man in an isle?? Heck would YOU like it if your doing some shopping and a random guys bother you trying to start a conversation while your just trying to do some chores then he gets personally upset because you don't give them the attention they want?? Or do you only do it to girls you find hot?? These men think their "nice" for being "decent" to women and think they deserve something for even trying to hit on a women.

[@PedraamJam]

you need an invitation to talk to someone?

[@EnigmaticRPG]

Obviously, dating is 100% like videogames! All you have to do is Talk 3 times and throw a food item at her, then BOOM, level 4 relationship. She will shower you with complements forever, no matter what, and you can take the items in her house without it flagging as Stealing.

[@lethaldream50]

was drinking when i read this comment and after reading the last bit i am not drinking any more

[@arthropodqueen]

marriage is when they water your crops

[@doylerudolph7965]

Congratulations on your sobriety

[@wolfetteplays8894]

@@doylerudolph7965 that’s not something to congratulate

[@TheeeSogg]

Fun fact you can clip underground and jump up under any npc with the women tag and you can talk to them 20 without her ignoring you after 2 letting you get to level 4 very quickly

[@alexd4566]

Oh man I hate the “I can’t even be sexist or harass women anymore because of this SJW/PC culture” mentality. Just recently, a famous comedian in my country proclaimed that “flirting and seduction is dead” after a celebrity got convicted for STALKING one of his female employees. This celebrity sometimes literally sent 70 messages in consecutive order, many of which were gross and obscene. And him being convicted somehow means that “PC culture killed flirting”. like WHAT???

[@KreeZafi]

Reminds me of a post I saw a while back that said something along the lines of "men will say PC culture ruined flirting but then their idea of flirting is telling the waitress her body is way too sexy for her to be doing this job"

[@poop6914]

Same in my country, these actors felt so comfortable just talking about how they enjoyed playing the rapist role in a movie.... and now that they're getting held accountable everyone is just like "you guys are just soft" "feminists ruin everything" "cancel culture stupid" bro they fr hate women and dont view us as human beings

[@bobbobbo5278]

Ikr? Like obviously harmless flirting is fine if you don’t push it but these people think harassment counts as flirting and its so irritating

[@PanAndScanBuddy]

Jesus fucking Christ

[@illansuu9572]

Yeah in the end there is a very clear difference between a bad flirting attempt that made the other side uncomfortable and sexual harrasment.

[@britonjade]

Those kinds of "pick up artists" genuinely scare me, teaching men to think of themselves as predators, that women "don't know what they want". They genuinely contribute to actual women being assaulted and raped and it's terrifying and disgusting.

[@kaemincha]

Yeah, a lot of the tweets about "emotions changing" and women being essentially programmable gives me very much "no doesn't really mean no" vibes... Super creepy.

[@florencembah2626]

Exactly, they should be arrested

[@florencembah2626]

@TRIPESKA Music Group Not everyone is like that

[@GingerGenower]

@TRIPESKA Music Group I have noticed women dumping men with an inflated sense of self. not intelligent men tho

[@umehanibokhari1001]

Absolutely. It teaches them that they deserve control over women. Such accounts need to be banned.

[@iosifstalin4831]

I am going to quote a genius who once said: “Pickup artists are the 1% of bacteria that Dettol doesn’t kill.”

[@mushu_beardie2556]

At least, like that 1% of bacteria, they can still be killed by viruses ;)

[@raed8905]

This feels like the maladaptive daydreaming of someone whose never actually met a girl

[@clev7989]

As someone who's daydreaming is extremely maladaptive, my daydreams are way fucking cooler and well written than this.

[@gordonramsayslambsauce]

@@clev7989 I have maladaptive daydreaming and bro my daydreams are so cool and have awesome plots. Though, mine is more of a 24/7 condition than a by-product of being an incel so I wouldn't know much about how these freaks see it

[@questionmarkquestionmarkques]

maladaptive daydreamer speaking, i cant imagine a maladaptive daydream with such a boring premise

[@lethaldream50]

i have maladaptive too and i gotta agree with all the other commenters that i cant imagine an mdd being this awful and boring. but then i think about who we're talking about here and no you're right

[@djoctobeat5204]

Maladaptive daydreamer here, this is a bad plot. Where’s the angst? Where’s the character we end up having a crush on irl? Where are the SHIPS? Idk man, seems kinda boring

[@screamsformemes]

I hate that this exists, I'm physically cringing. But I'm also glad Drew drags them properly.

[@DARTHJETER]

I'm physically cringing from your pfp

[@pittherson3260]

@@DARTHJETER well, atleast this person still have better common sense than these pick-up artists

[@DARTHJETER]

@@pittherson3260 I'd put them on the same level of common sense

[@althepal234]

@@DARTHJETER who cares

[@zippythepinhead7264]

@@DARTHJETER you disliked this video (probably because he’s talking about you) and you’re subscribed to steven crowder. hold this L

[@rachelwilliams6119]

"You have to be extremely aggressive in getting what you want" This is exactly why women are afraid to be alone literally anywhere, even in broad daylight. seriously what the fuck

[@hannahtfdthbkktffrd]

Oh my gosh exactly. I’m genuinely scared to go places alone and this is why

[@user-qd6xv6cy5n]

exactly!!! I'd run for my life 💀

[@ScottyMika1]

Incel’s, incel’s and weebs, they are just awful people

[@johndoe6260]

The guy is basically saying "go rape women" without actually saying it, it is disgusting

[@victoristratevmi]

@@johndoe6260 i live in your walls

[@toothfairy10133]

i've had so many customers, old enough to be my grandfather, hit on me randomly. i get carded for energy drinks so i sure as hell don't look like an adult. it's mildly terrifying and one of the reasons i started dressing down for work. all that changed was that i got told to dress up more by strangers though.

[@sarahg1002]

I have a theory that when men realize they're getting older, they panic. So they hope to get with younger girls so that they can feel young again.

[@Maria_745]

Drew's impersonation of a pickup artist is really perfected by the shirt with way too many buttons undone

[@Highfalutinloyd]

The only thing missing was the shirt being so tight that the buttons are strained to the point of flying off if he exhales too hard, and the cloth between the buttons refuses to lie flat.

[@teco1074]

idk if i’ve said this before but i genuinely really appreciate the fact that drew puts captions in all of his videos! it’s a small thing but it makes it so much easier for me to follow his talking

[@paws9849]

Ur username 😍😍

[@QuinnEthanR]

I didn't even realize!! I don't usually turn captions on on KZbin bc they're usually autogenerated and just make it harder to follow. Thank you so much for pointing this out!!!

[@paws9849]

@@QuinnEthanR same though, I'd completely given up on KZbin CCs but it's good to know Drew has us covered

[@fred-youtube]

@@QuinnEthanR The auto genearted ones have gotten way better

[@sapnasana6804]

Same my hearing is really bad and English is not my mother tongue so it's really complicated to watch videos without subtitles so I usually have to wait a day before being able to watch the video so they generate the subtitles But for Drew I don't have to so that's awesome

[@taylifts]

This is a small thing but I love that when Drew plays out a convo with a lady he doesn't, like, put a towel or a bad wig on his head or even change his tone. It's v refreshing for some reason

[@faceyl]

I know right?! I like that as well. I think it's because he's not trying to look or sound like a sexist unfunny stereotype of what "woman are like"

[@eurekamreum5458]

I thought I was the only one who noticed that. I really appreciate it too.

[@teenabaskar7000]

.

[@icybeverage9276]

Some of the people who use the weird towel thing just use it to quickly convey that the character's a woman through common images, because it's easiest when working with quick sketches (tiktok, yt shorts, whatever they use on instagram). And on the other hand, some people are just gross.

[@Idk-do1ui]

@@faceyl The towel really isn’t even sexist. Yes, women having long hair is a stereotype. But’s it a pretty basic and obvious stereotype. Most women tend to have long hair. It’s like putting on a fake mustache to represent being a guy. It’s a simple and common characteristic to represent that gender. Unless someone uses it as some kind of insult or ridicule, there’s nothing inherently sexist about it.

[@tundestreats9891]

Thats so gross bc if they majorly treat women like children. Why... are they attravted to people they view as children??

[@ramsei6165]

"u see this woman vibing on the beach alone. how do you open?" i walk up to her and tap her on the shoulder n say "hey watch this" and start shovelling sand into my gob

[@sweatyskeleton7390]

I'd remake Jaws, but cast myself at the shark so she knows how strong and fast I am

[@aur9035]

@@sweatyskeleton7390 remake as in live action? Orrr

[@sweatyskeleton7390]

@@aur9035 LARP right before her eyes. I'm not gonna take the long route, waiting is a beta's game

[@aur9035]

@@sweatyskeleton7390 Not a beta, strong, fast, dumb AND disjointed. Sounds exactly like every woman's type.

[@sweatyskeleton7390]

@@aur9035 Precisely

[@sophiarain5946]

No Drew, you CAN hit on people in a grocery store As long as that grocery store is Whole Foods and one person buys celery while the other buys rosé

[@linneascameraroll]

omg

[@mbalimafuya1878]

I recently rewatched that video and I’m so happy I got this💀

[@anastasiatomi9854]

Also don't forget that after you get married he has to criticize your stretch marks

[@heetucola1087]

what is this referencing?

[@brianahodnett]

@@heetucola1087 cody ko's 'You' and 'Dharr Mann' thats cringe videos.

[@kristindraws]

for guys who swear up and down that women aren't funny, it's amazing how some of them rely so heavily on rehearsed lines to get a women to even talk to them in the first place.

[@ddjsoyenby]

almost like probaly secret murd3r3rs aren't funny.

[@bananasinfrench]

Lol right maybe they just don't have taste

[@soberserotonin1850]

lol good point

[@AirLight1646]

Haha got em

[@JDascrambler]

I’m not seeing your logic. Can you explain what you mean?

[@velfaern1716]

I don’t understand why a woman being alone means she needs someone to come sexually harass her lmao people are nuts

[@AntiVectorTV]

"She thinks her choices are her own but really it's social conditioning, primal drives, emotions, sociological factors, etc." Newsflash: that's everyone.

[@Scanny524]

Not for an ultra cool sigma male who doesn't care about the social order. They totally aren't influenced by other people. Nope. No way. Totally defined by their lone wolf opinions.

[@kaywantsfood]

@XenonZed that was the point of their comment? It was a joke? A joke can be things other than "setup, punchline" It can be "irony, punchline" or just "irony" It can be "sarcasm, punchline, irony" or anything else, really.

[@Mars-dw2zc]

@@kaywantsfood they were adding onto the joke my dude chill tf out

[@Punkini]

Dude literally just… said they were living human beings? That’s how everyone makes choices lol. No one is their own being unless they have literally lived in a void. Every choice you’ve ever made and every thought you’ve ever had is just the outcome of everything you’ve experienced. Nothing is new.

[@iheartamerica100]

I always appreciate when people can put why something is wrong into words that make sense. This video is funny but it's also so sad and frustrating to see these people exist. You were well-spoken, as usual, so thanks 🙏

[@ffiggy]

I honestly feel bad for these people on a certain level. They're delusional and lonely, and are often socially impaired for one reason or another. And pick-up artists see that and capitalize on it.

[@yashjaiswal2879]

but what's wrong in it... they are not harming anyone

[@m_b_a9567]

@@yashjaiswal2879 They are harming women though. There mindset is treating women like children and harrassing them then getting pissed that they don't want that. Plus sexism is definitely harming women and men who think like that.

[@wilsongarrido8707]

@Yash Jaiswal the problem is that they are. Even with just the twitter comments. Maybe some guy isn’t sure how to talk to women. Which is fine it’s a learning process as you mature. But they see all these comments that are thinker veiled misogynistic attempts to “woo” a woman. And the poor dude thinks “oh this is what they like” and he proceeds to just have the hardest time getting a date because he was given terrible advice. I can’t put it any better than drew did though, this video was so well spoken

[@jaypre9433]

@@yashjaiswal2879 they are absolutely harming people by spreading these dangerous ideologies to other vulnerable men who actually take this terrible advice

[@jamesr620]

me: hey you thick fish woman: *smiles, falls on love, shits aggressively*

[@Punkini]

Man just like a real Fish 😍

[@blacbamboo284]

of all the comments this made me laugh the most for some reason

[@hobisdimples94]

"Shits aggressively" had me wheezing fr 🤣💀

[@-cyndaquil]

Are we ignoring the “falls *on* love”

[@almondwaet7966]

@@-cyndaquil im imagining a girl slipping on some pink hearts and falling w her face to the floor 😭

[@Mousegosqueek]

For the first tweet: I would stand there awkwardly as I wait for her to move because I hate being in people's way but I want chips

[@begaydocrimes8224]

Literally no girl wants to talk to you in the grocery store

[@sourpatchordnance2249]

I’d go as far as to say that no one of any gender wants to talk to you in the grocery store, including/perhaps especially those being paid to do so

[@Nathi98]

I'm on a mission to get flavoured water & bread Not to give someone head

[@sadezem991]

idk sometimes i see some hot guys at the grocery store

[@vapid6311]

no one wants to talk to me in general so why not be a creep at the grocery store😎

[@shelbyb9965]

@Jason Lusk What industry, grocery stores? What does this even mean lmao

[@rizahawkeyepierce1380]

My favorite thing about "Womanese" is that these men would be horrified if you suggested learning about women by consuming media created by/for women. But if it were actually a different language that'd be a pretty good way to pick it up.

[@FocusedFighter777]

FFFFFF--- hhhaha, so spot on.

[@nivvv-hx2tl]

karen be spitting facts

[@rizahawkeyepierce1380]

Yes, my name is really Karen lol. I'm a millennial software developer who's terrified of conflict in any form.

[@rachelf5466]

Honestly though 😂 one of my pet peeves in media is how women are almost always portrayed as being illogical, irrational, and impossible to understand. We're actually very logical and rational, and not that hard to understand if you take the time to listen to what we say. Also it's super cool that you're a software developer because I'm one too 😁

[@blablup1214]

@@rachelf5466 I can't agree on that. I don't understand my wife at all and that all the time. Only thing on the plus side, I still have arround 50 years trying. ( I plan on going all Cyborg arround 80 and join the machines subduing the humans )

[@lexharrelson]

I hate how low my expectations are. Drew talks about treating women like human beings and I'm like, "Finally!! A really good guy!"

[@eurekamreum5458]

Same, bestie 😔

[@TheGong00zler]

Omg for real

[@thelakes7278]

The bar for men is in hell 💀

[@whoswallowing]

@@thelakes7278 it was on the ground and these fuckers brought shovels

[@FathomLordKarathr]

lol if only there was a woman out there who could meet even that low of an expectation and treat men like they were people instead of friendzoning us and treating us like trash

[@star2705]

The beautiful thing about just being awkward and sincere is that I don't _scare_ people. The worst they're gonna think about me is "aw, that person was awkward", and then never think about me again. Most of these lines will have a girl wondering if you're following her home.

[@Mikey-jv5fv]

My favorite part of this video: One the tweets: women who wear too much makeup = fake and gross // smash cut to a sea of retweets on the same account full of pictures of gorgeous women wearing plenty of makeup.

[@rddmad]

lmao true

[@hannahh.8422]

I once watched a video saying how men like women not wearing makeup and in the video every single example of a woman “not wearing makeup” was a woman wearing makeup.

[@Seri-dy5dd]

Most guys don’t understand makeup. They think girls who wear natural looking and well-applied makeup aren’t wearing any lol. When they say they don’t like makeup they are talking about bright colorful prom night makeup.

[@yourtrashtalkingbro9118]

True, honestly when men say that only 99% of the time they're being honest. They don't actually want women without makeup they just don't want women that look caked up because how much make up they're wearing. They want the no make up look, where you look like you're not wearing make up but at the same time you are.

[@valhallashock716]

My ex redpilled after I broke up with him. It hurt me so much to hear him talk about how much he hated all women, especially me. Anyway, I really appreciated this 20 minute video of Drew dunking on people like him, so hey thanks Drew

[@unemployedgringo]

Damn.. why is your ex still living in your head? Wtf...

[@idontknowmyname.9202]

men who called themselves redpill, blackpill, alpha, sigma, or any 'superior' title bs are truly walking red flag, all of them hate women eventhough a lot of them won't admit it, the hatred is already internalized in their head.

[@ourloveisgreat1398]

@@unemployedgringo because their ex talked about women in a creepy way?

[@heckingbamboozled8097]

@@unemployedgringo Because it was a memory directly related to the video. What, did the fact that they said "redpilled" trigger something in you?

[@meliswag1879]

@@unemployedgringo i dont know, if my ex started talking about how much he hates me possibly to the point of violence, i would be unsettled, so to speak

[@net_has]

gotta love how not only is it already insane that people are responding to that tweet with genuine replies, but the obvious answers of like offering to help her reach the top shelf like a normal person might do simply do not cross these people's minds. like hm i could be helpful but no, time to neg a stranger about her calorie intake that seems better.

[@haleyw5677]

The most disturbing thing about “negging” is that it is actually a tactic used by narcissists to see who will put up with the narcissist constantly putting them down

[@snakewithapen5489]

@@haleyw5677 emotional manipulation! Fun for the whole family :)

[@thevoyagesystem]

I think one of my favorite tiktoks was a guy being like. "You want to get to know a woman, pretand you're gay. Like....just get to know her like you arent attracted to her."

[@m_e_nere]

They're so close yet so far from understanding

[@crawlspacedweller]

@@m_e_nere thats literally called being her friend i cant breatheeee

[@emeraldfox76]

I once had a customer that was old enough to be my dad tell me that if I were his girl, I wouldn't have pink hair. I told him to fuck off and he looked surprised that I could possibly want to control my own hair color. The audacity of these fools... I've met a lot of that type of guy.. that think women are their personal dolls they can tell how to dress, how to look, how much makeup they can wear.. just stop it.

[@seigeengine]

It actually boggles my mind people walk around saying shit like that. The dude is basically saying "if you were my partner, I'd abuse you." EDIT: sorry, between rewrites I got confused what we were talking about a bit. Ignore it if you saw a pre-edit slip in subject.

[@emeraldfox76]

@@seigeengine You're good! I was at work at the time so I only just saw this. xD And you're so right.. some of these guys just have no decency at all. The look on my face is always "wtf".

[@Mari_Oh]

"hey, baby, if I were your partner I'd be controlling and abusive," wink wink ;-).

[@immortalsun]

People like that are terrifying. Should be locked up.

[@seigeengine]

@@immortalsun No, you shouldn't imprison people just because they say rude things.

[@KreeZafi]

You really hit the nail on the head when saying they don't view women as people. Men like this genuinely, without exaggeration, view women as subhuman. Also whenever they write out how they expect the woman to respond I am genuinely shocked, are they really THAT clueless? Do they ever actually talk to real people our in the world, or is their concept of social interaction based solely on media and pickup artists?

[@mae5492]

@TRIPESKA Music Group you sound just like the guys in those tweets LMAO

[@mae5492]

@TRIPESKA Music Group did you get rejected one too many times bro

[@Jenninka]

@TRIPESKA Music Group MYSTERY METHOD genuinely curious how old you are because no one except you has thought about Mystery in 15 years

[@KreeZafi]

@TRIPESKA Music Group You know, whenever men in the 21st century say that women should "save themselves for marriage" it just makes me think they're awful in bed and want to trap women with a legal contract before they find out that they're committing to a terrible sex life.

[@ionastewart8814]

@TRIPESKA Music Group >"Women should save themselves for marriage!!!!" >Instantly tries to get clout on the internet by bragging about getting laid There's no such thing as "sexual market value" or whatever, but you still managed to find a way to have the worst fucking values a human could possibly have.

[@randomuserwitharandomname6183]

I really like when Drew talks about more serious topics, I wouldn't mind at all if he made a second channel to hear more about his opinions on topics that are not always fun to talk about, I feel like he has great insights. I understand why he wouldn't want to, but it would be great.

[@dananabread6632]

this

[@polipix_]

@@dananabread6632 wow you added so much by saying “this”

[@dananabread6632]

@@polipix_ ikr

[@dananabread6632]

@@polipix_ thanks for commenting for the algorithm! every little comment helps out drew's channel (god knows he needs the help) ;-)

[@lemoninacoconut6460]

@@dananabread6632 right?? drew needs all the help he can get 🙄

[@the.youtube.of.sam.gotter]

As a trans person I can confirm that they taught me womanese when I was inducted into the hall of womanhood

[@enzyme210]

Nah that's jokes😂😂

[@PissWarlock]

As a trans man, I grew up learning it. Now I work as a valuable informant in the men’s ranks.

[@thedeliveryboy1123]

I thought that said "hell of womanhood" which is still very accurate

[@frankisnot1148]

@@PissWarlock we're essentially double agents. Hell yeah.

[@PissWarlock]

@@frankisnot1148 I can confirm that I have killed at least twenty people in the field.

[@drewsmith6052]

I love how these videos come out on the last day of the month. He def doesn’t procrastinate at all or anything.

[@drewisgooden]

I'm very responsible

[@soapisnothere5471]

@@drewisgooden hi guy

[@chadtreversun447]

@@drewisgooden hi guy!

[@ramimosees1082]

@@drewisgooden hi gay!

[@portorolla4157]

@@drewisgooden hi god!

[@MB-ic3ou]

The part you said about how the first step is men just seeing women as people was so important. Men will go to the most unnecessary lengths to try and impress women when it’s just like dude just talk to me like a person and treat me with basic decency first

[@elbowsbuns1896]

For real. Plus the bar is pretty low.

[@sourgreendolly7685]

Right? I’m not looking to be impressed, I’m looking for genuine connection (well I’m not looking at all rn, have a great bf but you get what I mean)

[@SamVimes27]

That's exactly why no pick up "artist" has any value to society in my eyes. If you see a woman for the very first time in a Walmart buying Doritos, there's no reason at all to talk to her beyond "she looks hot, I want to bang her". Trying a pick up line on any human being in a grocery store is objectifying by default. If a guy reads this and wants some genuine advice for a conversation opener: think about the reasons why you want to date her. Are there any reasons you would tell your mother? No? Don't even try it. Yes? Just go for it. Be nice, show a healthy amount of confidence and respect her wishes. That's it.

[@stuffroom979]

It really is that simple but somehow still hard for so many to grasp

[@dannieon]

"Dont hit on people in grocery stores. No one wants that" after being harassed in a grocery store earlier this year and having a meltdown in the parking lot, I can confirm no one wants this. And its very validating and refreshing to hear this.

[@lost8257]

This is why I have headphones, no one will talk to me then, I don't even listen to music 100% of the time.

[@dannieon]

@@lost8257 I'll try it sometime

[@lost8257]

@@dannieon Fair warning, doesn't always work, had a chatty cashier once, lmao.

[@zc1312]

Aw, I’m so sorry that happened to you. I can so relate and I agree with your perspective.

[@sarah.weaver]

I've had so many try it's ridiculous. Scariest was one where he followed me, and then chased me out into the parking lot. Thankfully, I was faster than him, and got in my car, locked my doors, and laid on the horn. Scared him enough for him to run away. Then of course, less scary, more creepy, when guys use some bullshit line in the store- or my FAVORITE(sarcasm), when I'm trapped at a gas pump pumping gas- and I respond with "I'm very happily married, leave me alone" and their response? Either "that doesn't bother me if it doesn't bother you" or even worse "so am I, who cares?" 😳 What in the FUCK is wrong with these creeps! My good guy friend plays Pokemon Go, and one day we were talking about it. I told him I used to until there were reports women were getting raped at high traffic areas, so I stopped. He went off on this tangent that those guys prolly were just in those areas looking to rape anyhow. Which sure, fair enough point, those were high traffic, public areas. But that's not the point. I told him, when he read those articles, at no point did he, as a 6 foot 2, completely shredded, grown ass man, worry about HIS safety playing Pokemon. I can't step out of my house without having to worry about someone hurting me. I have a tazer for walking my dog. I commute on a trolley for 30 mins, I carry pepper spray. I go to school downtown in a huge city. Lots of homeless. Lots of random strangers. Lots of places to grab someone. Life as a woman is genuinely terrifying. For most guys, their safety walking 2 blocks to school from their trolley stop, or playing Pokemon in a public park, is the last thing they would ever worry about. Meanwhile, I speed walk, desperately clutching my pepper spray, and avoid being alone in public when I can. Most guys will never understand. And so many of them make it WORSE by just randomly singleing out and approaching women who are all by themselves. I don't care if we are in the chip aisle. Coming up to me and all but cornering me and berating me with ur come ons is creepy, predatory, and TERRIFYING. These creeps will never learn! Don't approach women who are all alone! 😭

[@RuniRiot]

Remember boys, this is a man who has a wife already. Listen to him.

[@meyague]

you mean to say he's married. to a woman. because a "wife" isn't an object to have, it's just a title for a married woman.

[@bayleev7494]

​@@meyague if i say that i have a boss, it does not mean my boss is an object i own

[@koiifsh]

​@@meyague his wife has a husband

[@Widdekuu91]

Youknow, in Dutch, the word for woman, female and wife is the same. And the word for husband, man and male is the same too. It's vrouw and man. If you get married, the only thing that changes is that instead of being 'een vrouw' (a woman/female) you are now 'his vrouw' and he will say; 'I am her man.' It's the one that you've picked to be yours and they have picked you to be theirs. If you really try to say husband or wife, you'd likely use the word echtgenoot/echtgenote which means "companion-who's-presence-I-enjoy in marriage." Genootje is a bit like the humanisation of 'little pleasure/enjoyment' and klasgenootje is your classmate. Someone who you enjoyed being in class with.

[@romancatholicgameing]

​@@meyague when did it become offensive to say that somebody is your wife??

[@Keekswinds]

“Does he not want to get pepper sprayed in his good eye” that made me chuckle

[@nosound5903]

I want that on a T-shirt fr

[@Eva_R966]

oh my god, the "young woman vibing alone" (13:01) example gave me the creeps because I have been the young woman vibing alone (at a park, not a beach though) and the way some random man "opened" was literally following me until i was away from other people and then started asking me to talk to him. let women vibe aloooone!

[@ggundercover3681]

these comments are feeding my paranoiaaaaaa. I am screaming

[@remywharton788]

@@ggundercover3681 I'm in your walls

[@pannnella]

@@remywharton788 no, I’m in YOUR walls

[@averageofficechair]

@@remywharton788 I am your walls

[@thenotsoamazinggracetnsag3463]

@@remywharton788 I’m in the floor

[@ruthizred9090]

I hate those pick up artist pages that are like "if you do this, EVERY SINGLE women will want you" like please nooooo

[@FrankRimes]

Pff, typical female response. Let me guess, you don't even believe that the brown note exists!

[@stardusst]

@@FrankRimes jesus christ your account is 15 years old

[@Aarmau_FcxShu]

Brown note?

[@tinniesealjiji]

@@FrankRimes whats a brown note

[@ruthizred9090]

@@FrankRimes 😂😂😂😂 lmaoo nooo you made me Google it rude lol

[@KIIB0]

Not exactly related to the content of the video, but I just wanna mention how much I love how comfy and familiar Drew makes the vibe of his videos. He doesn't go over the top with edits, cut aways, or noise- it just feels very homey.

[@thanatoast]

As someone who has a lot of female friends, it's kind of uncomfortable how often dudes catcall or harass women, but will run away when a guy shows up. Like they can't respect women as having the autonomy to say no, but the moment a dude shows up suddenly it's a problem.

[@alexbennet4195]

Yeah because they're cowards and are scared of someone their size facing up to them.

[@allyourpcarebelongtous8744]

That's the one that drives me most crazy. She's a person. She doesn't need someone else to tell you no for her. When she says no it means no the same way when you say no it means no. But so many people act like women can't have autonomy and therefore always need males attached to them to have any ideas.

[@bluerobin7051]

It's the bro code. You don't mess with another man's girl. Sometimes it doesn't make sense, but it all stems from the bro code.

[@bbyoonie]

@@bluerobin7051 then the "bro code" is rooted in misogyny. if you can't respect a woman's wishes when she asks you to leave her alone, and only choose to do so when a man shows up, it has nothing to do with some bro code, it's just on you for being an asshole and not seeing women as real people but instead as property that another man owns

[@bluerobin7051]

@@bbyoonie The presence of another man in a pursuing situation means you have to fight or compete. That's rooted in psychology. Now in that situation, the pursuer will probably apologize, but only to the man the girl is with. This tells us that yes, sexually driven men don't view women as having much agency. At the end of the day, it's the horniest of the few that is dragging the reputation of the normal majority. I think we should behave more respectfully, too.

[@violet7773]

The tweet at 4:22 is honestly so telling. "She'll respond because it seems innocent" This is why women don't trust men they don't know. This is why when men claim they're just being friendly, we don't believe them. Any good faith we have is used against us, so we learn not to approach conversations with strange men in good faith.

[@OltskuMP]

A female incel found.

[@breannaadams4058]

@@OltskuMP This is literally about safety. What part of not trusting strangers (in this case, strange men whose motives are unknown) says incel to you? They didn't say that all men are bad and should never be trusted; they said that they don't trust men they don't know.

[@mariannek6735]

I know right? And then they gaslight us and say we're overthinking and "no one does that". Like, other than personal experiences, it's ALL over the internet like this.

[@bluebrrypie]

@@OltskuMP an actual incel was found, it’s you.

[@mechanomics2649]

@@OltskuMP She isn't really wrong though. Why don't you put this effort into working on yourself?

[@Chiwowza]

Speaking for women everywhere when I say: if shit like this gets tried on us and we seem receptive of it and laugh, smile, etc. we aren't interested. We're trying to be polite so the situation doesn't escalate 🙃

[@Leig5H0T]

Understandable but probably not a good idea. If they're trying that on you they probably aren't very good at reading through that act

[@lethfuil]

@@Leig5H0T Very, very fair point. The problem is, that if you're not polite, some of those "men" get agressiv instantly. Also, if someone approaches you and isn't a dick, you might not be unnecessary impolite. I don't want to be an asshole, just because some people would make it necessary. But yeah, if it's the right people agression is a likely answer. Do, whatever you do it's wrong either way. xD

[@seabreeze4559]

the tactic called humour the crazy

[@elenyaellis]

@@Leig5H0T well it can be dangerous to directly reject some men. And its hard to judge the situation and person when they literally just approached you, so its a lot safer to stay polite, smile and get the fuck out of that situation real quick.

[@shafty1111]

I know I'm late on this, but I'd suggest an alternate solution. Say this: "Sorry I'm not interested." Probably helps de-escalate the situation more than faking a smile and pretending you are in fact interested. Just an idea.

[@xenosbreed]

Speaking for basically every woman I've ever met, straight, bi, or lesbian, guys who believe this stuff is an immediate red flag

[@dorothyallspice1862]

Yeah…

[@bbibbibu]

men will use words like “predator” and “target” and then will get mad when women speak out about being terrified to be alone in a room with them

[@dictatorshiki]

they look at us like literal prey but get their feelings hurt bc we don’t immediately trust every single one of them at first glance.. makes me think they’re just mad that we aren’t more susceptible to their creeping

[@KaliTakumi]

I'm glad someone has pointed how to all pickup artists for whatever reason treat women like NPCs and think that there's always a way to get a girl even if she is completely uninterested in you

[@mollymcdade4031]

That explains why their pick-up lines sound like NPC dialogue speed-runs

[@chickenfoot2423]

they genuinely leave no room for personality or nuance, just.... everybody is the same and we all operate on one hive mind fuelled by animal crossing villager one-liners

[@buckettproductions6253]

Dangit I knew I shoulda pumped charisma. I guess all I can do now is quicksave and reload every single time I talk to a woman.

[@sourpatchordnance2249]

@@buckettproductions6253 did u know if you step through the door backwards & rapidly unequip your armor you can wallclip into her bedroom

[@buckettproductions6253]

@@sourpatchordnance2249Thanks! bout to get try this on my gfs room she won’t let me in for some reason. Something about being an “insane, manipulative asshole”. Clearlyyyyy doesn’t know what she wants.

[@bumblebeepicnic6917]

Time and time again, Drew demonstrates exactly why he's happily married. The concept of treating women like human beings seems like it should be obvious, but I guess that's still not the case.

[@jamesbenz3228]

The high bar we men have to clear: "yeah I mean, I'm pretty sure that there female is a human person" Don't think I'm gonna make it.

[@fawnieee]

@@jamesbenz3228 the standard for men (at least from the hopes of women) is so fucking bad that it's in hell and Satan is using it as a limbo pole. I literally remember my friend gushing to me about how happy she was that her newest bf understood consent. _Consent._

[@jamesbenz3228]

@@fawnieee the amount of girls I've been with that are so thankful when I stop when they ask me to stop is pretty fucking staggering. I'm like, hon that's not something to thank me for that just means I'm not a creep. I hope your friend fixes her warped sense of intimate relationships, for her sake.

[@FocusedFighter777]

@@jamesbenz3228 Sadly that happens a lot. I for one is so thankful to be with someone who stopped when it hurts, and who has a BRAIN. I chose him for a reason (many good reasons in fact) and I am keeping him as long as he wants me to be his partner in everything.

[@FocusedFighter777]

@@fawnieee yeah, truth.

[@LilcatSwoleBunny]

who said the "master opener of women" has approached 4,000+ individual women? he totally could've just harassed the same poor girl four thousand times

[@_12k70]

For all the jokes in the video, Drew's final point really hits the nail on the problem, insecure people being influenced into becoming trashy people by other trashy people with the promise of the hurting to go away Which is all around even more trashy, Twitter trully is a dumpster fire

[@benmasta5814]

"Hey Guy" has always been my go-to line for picking up chicks.

[@leftenantthunder]

hey guy coming to from inside a giant whale

[@lillymacias1848]

you must get hella bitches then😀

[@ErinLastNameRedacted]

That’d work a lot better for me!

[@debsreno911]

Lmao! 🤣🤣

[@ajfergy5569]

unironically, this would probably get more results because if they get it you probably have similar senses of humor

[@cady4917]

"At their core, men like this don't view women as people." Dang, I came here for laughs and this video was actually so wholesome. It's really refreshing to see a guy who understands this and is hopefully positively influencing people in his fan base.

[@NeilLewis77]

Well in my opinion, it seems refreshing to you to hear a guy say "women are people too", because most guys just know this already and live their lives knowing it without having to say it. Our mothers teach us well. The problem is that the stupid minority of creepy men who treat women like objects are so loud and obvious and in your face at the supermarket that it starts to make girls think all men are like that. Yes there are alot of horrible creeps out there but I'm sure most men know better than to harass women. I know a girl that was harassed by two different men during one walk through the town center. It pissed her off so much and she ranted about awful and creepy and disgusting men are. Now don't get me wrong, I want those two guys buried for being such scum bags. But she also passed literally hundreds of men in town who didn't say or do anything wrong. Most men are basically nice. Not saints. But decent enough. It's that small percentage of creepy rapey type fly trolls that give us all a bad image I'm afraid. Am I wrong? Does anyone actually have statistics on how many guys out of 100 need telling that women are people too? With all due respect.

[@eveleen.]

@@NeilLewis77 You can just say 'Not all men' , your English teacher ain't around.

[@NeilLewis77]

@@eveleen. your right I went on a bit. But it's a touchy subject and I feel like saying "not all men are scum bags" doesn't come across right.

[@ihavenoidea2805]

@@NeilLewis77 did you really write a whole essay just to say "not all men"

[@NeilLewis77]

@@ihavenoidea2805 no I wrote a whole essay to say the vast majority of men are decent.