Tiktok Teacher FIRED After Exposing Himself

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Michelle McDaniel

Michelle McDaniel

Күн бұрын

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@Michellemcd543
@Michellemcd543 6 ай бұрын
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@lovethesweetrosesofreality4418
@lovethesweetrosesofreality4418 6 ай бұрын
Love you and all your work your such a funny lady just wanted to let you know youre amazing and wonderful But lets be real you know that already 🥰😃🥰😃 Cant wait to see more videos
@lolaamandaann1675
@lolaamandaann1675 6 ай бұрын
Hey can anyone explain to me why this is so bad. Like I understand that this is not appropriate in anyway, but what makes it so bad? I am still young not yet an adult. I understand a little so forgive my ignorance. Is it the potential to be a predatory situation? Or is it just his words and movement?
@bongoloid4407
@bongoloid4407 6 ай бұрын
cha rizzzzzz ma, i hate i know this, kill me please
@savantofillusions
@savantofillusions 6 ай бұрын
Dad is like, 'you're not her husband'.
@lovethesweetrosesofreality4418
@lovethesweetrosesofreality4418 6 ай бұрын
@@lolaamandaann1675 it is important to understand the value of knowing we dont know everything cuz no matter what we should always continue to grow as we never stop growing I do understand where you are coming from when we are younger we dont understand stuff fully at times Ik i didnt it is concerning Behavior because pedophiles will tend to become your friend first before making any moves and him being a teacher should understand why this behavior is inappropriate and he should understand not to behave in this manner as it is seen to grownups as predatory and testing the waters we don't know if he is a pedophile but his actions would indicate a possibility of grooming students and him as a teacher should understand the importance of boundaries
@melodychance9399
@melodychance9399 6 ай бұрын
I don't think it's appropriate to put your underage students on your social media... nor is it okay to have students touch and mess with your hair, regardless if you're a man or woman! Regardless of his intent, there's a reason these boundaries exist, and it's to protect the students! He should understand that to be honest...
@pettykittyfam
@pettykittyfam 6 ай бұрын
If he was truly a good teacher he would understand.
@nolabelz
@nolabelz 6 ай бұрын
Exactly.
@TheBLGL
@TheBLGL 6 ай бұрын
I’m far more concerned with him putting his students’ face all over social media than them touching his hair tbh.
@JDMimeTHEFIRST
@JDMimeTHEFIRST 6 ай бұрын
If I was another student, I would be weirded out by that.
@girl.anachronism5639
@girl.anachronism5639 6 ай бұрын
This is exactly it.
@naev.3344
@naev.3344 5 ай бұрын
Even if he isn't a predator, his behavior blurs the lines too much and make the students more vulnerable to someone who is a predator who uses the same "bestie" tactics he uses to ingratiate himself with the students.
@AmandaLovesOldFords
@AmandaLovesOldFords 5 ай бұрын
Exactly! This is groomer behavior if done by the wrong person. Children need to learn what appropriate relationships with adults look like, and this ain't it.
@brookerangel-legris
@brookerangel-legris 2 ай бұрын
Oh yes, excellent point! 😮
@diehardeaglesfansince1994
@diehardeaglesfansince1994 6 ай бұрын
i think he likes the attention of lil girls crushing on him....
@TheePrincessBrat
@TheePrincessBrat 6 ай бұрын
This. There was this coach at my HS that clearly liked girls crushing on him. That in itself is a red flag. When kids crush on me, I make sure to be even MORE clear about boundaries. A child that admires you will do anything for your approval, that’s something to be very careful with.
@samiraschadt8480
@samiraschadt8480 6 ай бұрын
💯 percent my man!
@jasminer.6721
@jasminer.6721 6 ай бұрын
Yes!!! Cause theres no way he cant tell that most of these girls probably just like him. He likes the attention ew
@PrettyDope
@PrettyDope 6 ай бұрын
Which is the biggest reason this is weird and wrong. My head is spinning trying to figure out why so many don’t see the issue here
@IzzySalami
@IzzySalami 6 ай бұрын
@@TheePrincessBratI also had a teacher like that. He knew a lot of us were crushing on him… He never put an end to us talking about him in such a way. It didn’t take long for him to get fired for messing around with one of the girls on his track/cross country team.
@princeorii7815
@princeorii7815 6 ай бұрын
He’s not trying to be the cool teacher. He’s trying to be the sexy teacher all the girls have crushes on.
@dez6278
@dez6278 6 ай бұрын
100%
@Natasha-pg2jm
@Natasha-pg2jm 6 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@jessebarnes1963
@jessebarnes1963 6 ай бұрын
Yes, exactly.
@seleciaa
@seleciaa 6 ай бұрын
Exactly. He gives off f**ķ boy energy.
@lonesparrow
@lonesparrow 6 ай бұрын
🤮
@kimcham9949
@kimcham9949 6 ай бұрын
Ok. So, nobody notices that his hair is SO URGENT, that HE WON'T EVEN PARTICIPATE IN TAKING DOWN HIS *OWN* HAIR??? HE CHOSE TO *EAT* WHILE BEING 'SERVICED' INSTEAD!?! 🤔🤷🏾‍♀️
@RainbowSludge
@RainbowSludge 6 ай бұрын
He’s manipulated these girls. They think an older adult man is their “bestie”.
@kaylaburnett207
@kaylaburnett207 6 ай бұрын
Yeah that part
@carolrivera1229
@carolrivera1229 5 ай бұрын
I peeped that too 😶‍🌫️
@dystanysam9896
@dystanysam9896 5 ай бұрын
what really bothered me was when , he mentioned that he didn't have any time to do his own hair during his free time or when he got home after work
@reanndacli3421
@reanndacli3421 5 ай бұрын
Yeah he literally says “my team would help me take my hair out” during their free class time. And somehow some were students from other classes too lol
@devinsauls9137
@devinsauls9137 6 ай бұрын
He flat out called these middleschool girls his besties! Like what? They're little girls! He couldn't find someone else around his age to unbraid his hair instead?
@TheePrincessBrat
@TheePrincessBrat 6 ай бұрын
Worse, middle school
@devinsauls9137
@devinsauls9137 6 ай бұрын
@@TheePrincessBrat Thanks for the correction. He is still wrong for that
@sergeipohkerova7211
@sergeipohkerova7211 6 ай бұрын
His goal was attention and to brag about how 'close" he is to his students. Mission accomplished. 🥊🥊🥊🥊
@ThePinkPanth3r
@ThePinkPanth3r 6 ай бұрын
Hes just like drake, what's wrong with that?
@TheePrincessBrat
@TheePrincessBrat 6 ай бұрын
@@devinsauls9137 yes, even if this were college. He needs to respect proper boundaries. I’d bet anything some of those girls don’t have good male role models and/or have a crush on him. I’m sorry but he’s young enough to know why it’s wrong. At his age, he would’ve experienced when things switched over to teachers not being allowed touch students.
@Ericartmanschili
@Ericartmanschili 6 ай бұрын
As a parent and human, this dude seems like a walking “cool teacher” groomer. No way
@peterking167
@peterking167 6 ай бұрын
🤔 groomer because he's a guy or groomer because a he's got a better relationship with kids than you do😂
@chocolatte522
@chocolatte522 6 ай бұрын
My problem is that his story doesn't align with the video. It's hard to believe the whole "just so happened to not have time to do my own hair for an appointment" when every girl is using the same rattail comb in different colors. I bought a similar pack off Amazon. And the girls are all in braids. No middle school girl in braids is bringing a comb to school lol. Include his snacks, it's pretty evident this was a planned event. Why he didn't admit as much is beyond me, but it's deceptive to try to twist the narrative if you thought what you did was so innocent. It's also gives suspicious vibes because as far as we can see, there's no one else in there: no boys, no other teachers. Just him with several 12 and 13 year girls who crave male attention. It's definitely giving groomer vibes.
@jonahquestionmark
@jonahquestionmark 6 ай бұрын
​@@peterking167 dawg a teacher shouldnt let his underage ass students touch him no matter how close he is with them. boundaries like that exist for a reason. grown ass men shouldnt be "friends" with kids in the first place.
@urfavfemme
@urfavfemme 6 ай бұрын
@@jonahquestionmarkreal. im a female, and my female teachers never let kids hug them (male as well). they know that phsyical touch can either lead to accusations, consequences, or both.
@I.D.I.O.C.R.A.C.Y.
@I.D.I.O.C.R.A.C.Y. 6 ай бұрын
​@peterking167 why would adults want "good relationships" with children? You exposing yourself or what?
@BlkBrd579
@BlkBrd579 6 ай бұрын
The boundaries of teacher and student is blurring with this “teacher” I’m not comfortable with him calling them his best friends or them having his personal phone number.
@Izamota-q5v
@Izamota-q5v 6 ай бұрын
Yeah that's weird af we used to play with our teachers hair in middle school but we weren't her "best friends", have her personal number, or get posted all over his social media...
@StArDragonB
@StArDragonB 6 ай бұрын
phone number? dayum🥲🤢😭
@jasminer.6721
@jasminer.6721 6 ай бұрын
​@@StArDragonBthe more i hear about this story, the weirder it gets. Theres literally no way to explain away giving kids your number and calling the little girls your besties in texts like dawg????
@Lindsay_Abbott
@Lindsay_Abbott 6 ай бұрын
I love when your mom makes an appearance or you tell stories about her! She always makes me laugh. 😂
@DailyCommentorr
@DailyCommentorr 6 ай бұрын
I remember back in the day when if you found your teacher’s social media and asked her about it, we would be met with, “You don’t know me after school hours, and I don’t know you. If you see me anywhere, no you didn’t.” Rude and harsh at first, but really they were just establishing a hard boundary. Seems like it was necessary lol I also wanna add this was to us as students. They would always tell us of the moments they ran into our parents and vise versa and how happy they were to have ran into each other (I had pretty lit teachers PreK-Middle school)
@leanne7570
@leanne7570 6 ай бұрын
I'm a teacher. When I was in college, it was hammered into our heads that our social media presence could get us fired. We were repeatedly told that anything we Post online needs to be 100% appropriate because we are role models. Whether or not this teacher had inappropriate intentions, he should have known that posting this type of content is a huge problem.
@Bliss-l1t
@Bliss-l1t 6 ай бұрын
That is so true. I was in an interview for a school one time and the principal went to try and find me on social media and was upset I didn't have any. I told her one I don't need any and two people lose their minds on the Internet.
@juliacole5023
@juliacole5023 5 ай бұрын
Underrated comment. The only thing getting attention is this fake outrage. This is the ONLY sensible comment
@kaelynsmith1242
@kaelynsmith1242 5 ай бұрын
Literally is in the employee handbook at the school I work at, you can 100% get fired for what you post on social media working for a school system
@ghostgube92
@ghostgube92 6 ай бұрын
I had a teacher like this that everyone loved, years later he was caught off school grounds with a student in his car. She was 16.
@meowbao3
@meowbao3 5 ай бұрын
Campus, like in college
@Anna-vi8jl
@Anna-vi8jl 5 ай бұрын
My HS had a shop teacher that was affiliated with our FFA program, he was always very nice to me would tell me he missed me and would ask why I didn’t visit him more. I was going to take his class my senior year, once the year started he was gone, turned out he had a relationship with a student and I was hesitant to believe it UNTIL the same student and him walked into my job one day 😅
@ghostgube92
@ghostgube92 5 ай бұрын
@@meowbao3 Sorry, no, it was high school.
@juliacole5023
@juliacole5023 5 ай бұрын
That was them not him
@ghostgube92
@ghostgube92 5 ай бұрын
@@juliacole5023 still inappropriate 🤷🏻‍♀️
@Jessica-go6cy
@Jessica-go6cy 6 ай бұрын
I mean he wanted to stir the pot, the pot stirred back, I mean he set the tone in his videos and in that classroom. So now he’s crying online lol I can’t
@lynnetastic
@lynnetastic 6 ай бұрын
👏🏽THIS!
@gem9535
@gem9535 6 ай бұрын
“Oh no, consequences!”
@Chrom_LV
@Chrom_LV 6 ай бұрын
Exactly... Like he believed a whole school district was gonna believe his delusion that he's the "unprofessional, eclectic cool teacher" that can go viral and cause outrage and they will just have to deal with it... He literally asked for it.
@karip4676
@karip4676 6 ай бұрын
The "cool" teacher at my high school ended up dating students after they graduated and turned 18 and ended up marrying a girl 2 grades above me...keep in mind he was definitely past 30 when they got married
@AnimatedBlast
@AnimatedBlast 6 ай бұрын
😢😮
@HorganBlatt
@HorganBlatt 6 ай бұрын
Gross asf
@radioactivegum2298
@radioactivegum2298 6 ай бұрын
Same thing happened at my school. Dude got caught and killed himself
@RedRoseSeptember22
@RedRoseSeptember22 6 ай бұрын
It's not unheard of :/
@allier1867
@allier1867 6 ай бұрын
yeah. same in my school. they lasted one academic year because higher ups found out.
@WiltedKuwaitSalad
@WiltedKuwaitSalad 6 ай бұрын
The touching is weird.. I mean even if he truly has no ill intent it’s still not appropriate at school imo.
@Doerphlein
@Doerphlein 6 ай бұрын
I saw a take from Heymisskelsey that this is a tactic used by groomers to create a closeness between them and their victim. Asking for favors that involve touching them that not is nonXXXual. It's one thing if a teacher is helping a child with their hair but a normal grown men don't ask little girls for help.
@TheePrincessBrat
@TheePrincessBrat 6 ай бұрын
@@Doerphlein this man at church would always give me and my sister these super tight hugs, that always went on a little longer than normal. When I finally spoke up for us, and told him we wouldn’t do that anymore, he got _mad_ . I’m positive he was a creep, this is just a little anecdote about touching Breaking physical touch barrier is a huge huge part of grooming. How will they make you think it’s normal when they touch or kiss you, if they haven’t first made you comfortable with crossing physical boundaries yet
@girl.anachronism5639
@girl.anachronism5639 6 ай бұрын
This. Exactly this.
@zenasaunders1984
@zenasaunders1984 6 ай бұрын
Yeah I definitely feel like this is him indulging his like of girls doing things for him. Get some ladies your own age, on your OWN time to do that. It wouldn’t be hard.
@genevievec.8002
@genevievec.8002 6 ай бұрын
That's where it got weird to me. I've had cool teachers who were definitely not as child friendly in conversations (highschool) as they probably could or should have been, but I cannot once recall a teacher ever touching me, or asking me to touch them. I tried imagining a female teacher asking a student to put her hair in a ponytail for her or something, and I still thought it was weird.
@Ashley-kw8sf
@Ashley-kw8sf 6 ай бұрын
Popular teachers get away with too much. At my high school, a coach was suspended because a student, who had graduated a year or two previously, said they had an affair while on a volleyball trip. And it was CRAZY- there was a school assembly to raise funds for HIM! Other student asking for our lunch money at an assembly because he couldn’t KEEP IT IN HIS PANTS! It’s a slippery slope without boundaries and this was like 2004. My friends and I were the only ones that seemed realized how wrong the whole thing was.
@MamasBadger
@MamasBadger 6 ай бұрын
Did it go to trial
@robmckay5700
@robmckay5700 6 ай бұрын
Teachers are teachers Friends are friends They should never been confused
@itsjstjane
@itsjstjane 6 ай бұрын
Had that in middle school. He married someone my age which is 20 plus years younger than him. Married her once she turned 18. Groomed her since 13. So yeah pretty glad he was fired
@TheePrincessBrat
@TheePrincessBrat 6 ай бұрын
This is exactly what I said in one of my comments. They’ll be low key until she turns 18, then he’s trapping her with marriage and a baby. And she won’t know any better because we don’t get that she’s mature for her age and they’re really in love
@Cuttypie201
@Cuttypie201 6 ай бұрын
Happened at my high school! Just that he wasn’t fired, it was a few years after graduation tho that they got married. Still super inappropriate!
@purplelove3666
@purplelove3666 6 ай бұрын
Eww I never thought of my teachers as being attractive ,ever! ,eww
@Chuck_EL
@Chuck_EL 6 ай бұрын
​@@Cuttypie201 that's scary how much that happens
@DavidKen878
@DavidKen878 6 ай бұрын
@@Chuck_EL Remember when Drew Barrymore had a newlywed couple on her show and later it came out they met while he was her teacher? Her team deleted those videos from her channel with a swiftness.
@goodnplenty1873
@goodnplenty1873 6 ай бұрын
So very inappropriate. He was so unapologetic, he's giving narcissistic groomer vibes all day.
@Gaia_Seraphina
@Gaia_Seraphina 6 ай бұрын
Finding Neverland?
@ChechiDLR
@ChechiDLR 6 ай бұрын
Interesting point, yeeeahh, ewwww.
@CharmmilePalmer-iu3ji
@CharmmilePalmer-iu3ji 6 ай бұрын
How for undoing hair I understand calling your teacher bestie but undoing hair that's nothing wrong to me
@AIBot929
@AIBot929 6 ай бұрын
That's a reach since nothing else has come of this to make the accusation that hes a groomer or narc. It is inappropriate yes, but that doesn't make him a groomer or narc ... maybe just stupid
@psychokitty7268
@psychokitty7268 6 ай бұрын
​@@AIBot929The OP didn't accuse him of being a groomer. OP said "groomer vibes."
@AS-cc8mp
@AS-cc8mp 6 ай бұрын
If I was a parent I would be pissed to see my kids face on their teachers social media. Totally wrong.
@blackqweenmars
@blackqweenmars 6 ай бұрын
He had written permission to do it
@violetviolent7980
@violetviolent7980 6 ай бұрын
I strongly agree, and if you point that out as a parent, they call you "weird"
@gem9535
@gem9535 6 ай бұрын
@@blackqweenmars Not from every child’s parent, ain’t no way. Especially on his livestreams.
@tomsheppard378
@tomsheppard378 6 ай бұрын
He had written permission to do his hair, oddly specific
@blackqweenmars
@blackqweenmars 6 ай бұрын
@@tomsheppard378 Fr idk why people are mad about that
@kaymattingly8565
@kaymattingly8565 6 ай бұрын
Him texting them is too far . I work in school counseling and literally just had a whole talk with a group of middle school girls about why adult "friends " texting minors is inappropriate and if that happens their parents/other safe adult need to be made aware
@AmandaLovesOldFords
@AmandaLovesOldFords 5 ай бұрын
Exactly! This is not an appropriate relationship between an adult and minors.
@darkmongolia5134
@darkmongolia5134 6 ай бұрын
Why can't teacher JUST teach the subject they are being PAID to teach anymore???? Glad the teachers are outing themselves so parents can know what's going on with their kids.
@irmooflorien5399
@irmooflorien5399 6 ай бұрын
I was an educator for YEARS. I even worked at an international school where I had to care for boarding students after traditional hours- I would NEVER EVER let my students touch me like this. Man woman, elephants it’s not appropriate
@blackqweenmars
@blackqweenmars 6 ай бұрын
Have you ever hugged a student or given them a high five though?
@RatClowns
@RatClowns 6 ай бұрын
​@@blackqweenmarsa high five is a ridiculous comparison my guy
@RatClowns
@RatClowns 6 ай бұрын
@@blackqweenmars and also yeah unless the kid specifically asked for a hug or was in a tough situation, hugging a student would be weird too
@blackqweenmars
@blackqweenmars 6 ай бұрын
@@RatClowns makes sense
@irmooflorien5399
@irmooflorien5399 6 ай бұрын
@@blackqweenmars touching your hair is WAY too intimate. Dont be obtuse
@starbird3939
@starbird3939 6 ай бұрын
I feel that the line was crossed by recording himself and his students-basically using his class and kids as content in the same vein as parent vloggers. And then he added a whole football field by asking his “friends” (aka: kids) to fuss with his hair AND text the kids. Gross.
@TheBLGL
@TheBLGL 6 ай бұрын
I’ve always been told you do NOT even take photos or videos of the students without their parents’ permission, much less post it on social. Even with the emoji covering the student’s face, I’m not sure it’s legal….
@saraha.1336
@saraha.1336 6 ай бұрын
It's very common for teachers to call their students friends. It's dumb but I'm pretty sure the school tells them to
@ChyTeaLatte
@ChyTeaLatte 6 ай бұрын
⁠​⁠@@TheBLGLright, the school I went to then worked at was pretty serious about not publicly posting pictures of students due to safety, especially in cases of foster students or kids with parents who had lost custody. As well, there’s always the risk of someone using the video of the minor to groom/abduct them with the details about them gathered from the videos.
@jasminer.6721
@jasminer.6721 6 ай бұрын
​@@saraha.1336Well this teacher was also personally texting the kids telling them how good friends they were 🤢
@spookyjones6577
@spookyjones6577 6 ай бұрын
@@saraha.1336? Not when I went to school. All my teachers made it very clear that we were not friends.
@TheJarlath9
@TheJarlath9 6 ай бұрын
my daughter ain't gonna braid no teachers hair dude should have boundaries
@space_pollution
@space_pollution 6 ай бұрын
I never liked teachers like him, they act all buddy-buddy with students but they clearly had their favorites (the popular kids, shockingly) and didn’t even try to hide it. They just felt like they peaked in high school and want to relive their glory days.
@elihinze3161
@elihinze3161 6 ай бұрын
Teachers should not be crossing the touch barrier with students. The fact he thinks these are "little things" being blown out of proportion is concerning.
@vvalariesal8725
@vvalariesal8725 6 ай бұрын
Even if I knew for a fact the teacher wasn’t in an inappropriately close proximity to my child, I would still be infuriated because he would be still exploiting my child for his own social gain 😡
@ChechiDLR
@ChechiDLR 6 ай бұрын
Exactly
@impposter560
@impposter560 6 ай бұрын
Oh, good point
@ssjup81
@ssjup81 6 ай бұрын
But, he said in the one video that he got the child's parent's permission before putting it up. If he does that with any videos involving his students, and the parents have no issue with it, what's the problem? I personally don't think it's right since I don't believe minors should be in videos, but it seems like he's getting permission, as he should, before doing so. That's actually smart.
@vvalariesal8725
@vvalariesal8725 6 ай бұрын
@@ssjup81 only for that one student. I’m sure he didn’t do that for every one in his video
@gem9535
@gem9535 6 ай бұрын
@@ssjup81 This was a livestream, though, so I doubt getting every child’s permission was even possible.
@dayshahaynes408
@dayshahaynes408 6 ай бұрын
I think it’s important for teachers to have a great relationship to succeed in CLASS. Not slowly create a personal relationship that has a “bestie” title while having their phone number.
@blackqweenmars
@blackqweenmars 6 ай бұрын
The phone number thing is fine. I have my coaches and teachers/former teachers numbers. Some times you need to get into contact but email is too slow. Texting is completely appropriate if used correctly.
@teemarleyheaux6764
@teemarleyheaux6764 6 ай бұрын
He clarified he doesn’t have their phone numbers. They are work emails. To his teacher account, read from his phone.
@chelseashurmantine8153
@chelseashurmantine8153 6 ай бұрын
Yuckyuckyuckyuckyuck so TRUE! Teach these kids science not waste their school time with “fun” aka your own dang chores and primping. That’s like my science teacher stopping to shave his beard like what the heck I’m trying to learn physics
@chelseashurmantine8153
@chelseashurmantine8153 6 ай бұрын
@@blackqweenmarsyes but clearly this guy’s not appropriate and doesn’t have boundaries like that.
@blackqweenmars
@blackqweenmars 6 ай бұрын
@@teemarleyheaux6764 then I don’t know why there’s a problem with that. There are many valid reasons why you might need to contact your teacher outside of school.
@Runaaxe
@Runaaxe 6 ай бұрын
As a teen I wouldn’t have thought twice about this and would have thought he was a cool teacher. As a mom of a daughter, absolutely not. So incredibly inappropriate. I also would be so pissed if I found out my child’s teacher was recording and posting videos with my child on tiktok. Not to mention his weird other videos he’s posted 🤢
@blackqweenmars
@blackqweenmars 6 ай бұрын
He had consent
@silververnallbells191
@silververnallbells191 6 ай бұрын
@@blackqweenmars Just bcuz they had consent to film does not mean they knew exactly what he was filming. The parents were probably trusting that it was all above board classroom lessons.
@gem9535
@gem9535 6 ай бұрын
@@blackqweenmars sincerely doubt he had permission from all of those girls’ parents to LIVESTREAM them.
@gem9535
@gem9535 6 ай бұрын
@@silververnallbells191 This, plus my point.
@SonjaUnapologetic
@SonjaUnapologetic 6 ай бұрын
Him crying and the kids being so emotional that they’re separated from they’re “best friend” is giving , ‘A Friend of the Family’ vibes. The Jan Broberg and Robert Berchtold story.
@spyterpig
@spyterpig 5 ай бұрын
I think there needs to be a federal law saying filming for social media in a class should be illegal.
@leafpony12
@leafpony12 6 ай бұрын
Teacher here, every school district has a conduct code that outlines the expectations for teachers and students. His behavior of filming and posting students on his personal social media account is inappropriate, allowing the students to touch and unbraid his hair is inappropriate. His job is to structure and implement lessons involving his content. If he was a hair tech teaching braids sure he can do that, however, he is not teaching hair.
@7604zm
@7604zm 6 ай бұрын
Also a teacher. I’ve seen esteemed colleagues make social media videos at school all the time. I don’t partake, but it’s not inherently inappropriate. Not sure what’s up with your district? Touching, however, is more of a grey area. Kind of weird to have your kids do your hair but I also can’t really say it would be terrible if this guy wasn’t a walking red flag.
@amypetty5013
@amypetty5013 6 ай бұрын
And if he was a hair tech, all of his students would be adults, not kids. That said, I think we should stop assuming that if this was cosmetology class, that the students would be working on their instructor's hair.
@DavidKen878
@DavidKen878 6 ай бұрын
@@amypetty5013 Exactly. People are arguing whether or not this is appropriate, but I'm just trying to figure out when stuff like this became normal. I've never heard of a teacher taking their hair out at work, let alone letting students do it. I've never heard of anyone taking out their hair at work in general. Not to mention going live while doing it. In what world is that professional?
@Lady_Papillon
@Lady_Papillon 6 ай бұрын
Let's not forget even when hair techs are learning the craft, they use plastic heads NOT people to practice (like mannequins)
@amypetty5013
@amypetty5013 6 ай бұрын
@@Lady_Papillon Yep. I said the same thing. Students aren't going to just work on their instructor's hair in that scenario, for many of the very same reasons.
@swampsick
@swampsick 6 ай бұрын
One of my strangest middle school memories was watching a group of 7th grade girls give our young female teacher a scalp massage at the end of science class. At one point she kind of moaned her ex-boyfriend’s name and then claimed they must have triggered a memory by tapping a certain area of her brain. 👀 I ain’t trust no one
@acat674
@acat674 6 ай бұрын
EW
@TanairiValenciaa
@TanairiValenciaa 6 ай бұрын
Brooo same, like almost same. But it was 8th grade and the boys were massaging my math teachers head and she was like “oh yes I love this” it lasted a long time and it was the last week of school so everyone was kinda doing whatever they wanted so no one really paid attention or cared but it’s always been in my head
@user-is7xs1mr9y
@user-is7xs1mr9y 6 ай бұрын
She needs to be on a registry at the very least 🤢🤮
@jnicasio
@jnicasio 6 ай бұрын
That is hella creepy.
@m.m.i.9586
@m.m.i.9586 6 ай бұрын
That is so creepy! 👀
@boosqueezy2418
@boosqueezy2418 6 ай бұрын
totally inappropriate to have your students doing your hair-whether you’re a male or female teacher.
@Jupitertx79
@Jupitertx79 6 ай бұрын
He should not be fired he's getting kids to learn and I haven't seen any grooming behavior. I remember kids doing things like this with teachers that they liked and that was back in the 90’s😊😅
@nerdycurls6253
@nerdycurls6253 6 ай бұрын
​@@Jupitertx79 hair isn't crazy but he IS texting them and posting them all over the Internet. That's not okay, he 100% isn't keeping a professional boundary with those kids.
@gem9535
@gem9535 6 ай бұрын
@@Jupitertx79 Teachers have rules for a reason and he’s breaking them a lot of them.
@AnimatedBlast
@AnimatedBlast 6 ай бұрын
@@Jupitertx79this isn’t hairdressing class.
@DavidKen878
@DavidKen878 6 ай бұрын
​@@Jupitertx79 Please explain what your definition of grooming behavior is.
@Dorothyann436
@Dorothyann436 6 ай бұрын
Its scary how many of us 👨🏾‍🦱👩🏾 people are ok with teachers being inappropriate with our children.
@alisahail9607
@alisahail9607 6 ай бұрын
I’ve been a teacher and my mom currently still is. Even if he only had the purest intentions, texting students and building personal relationships with them is absolutely inappropriate. Keeping the students safe from predators comes before anything else and if you’re a teacher and you’re opening doors with students you shouldn’t, you need to go. I think the school should’ve said something sooner regarding the social media and perhaps he should’ve been disciplined before this moment. But, any teacher, or adult in general, should know that students / children are not your friends and you can’t let that line be crossed.
@catus-cactus
@catus-cactus 6 ай бұрын
It reminds me of the white preschool teacher who decided to wax a little white girl eyebrows because she had a unibrow, or the black elementary school female teacher who braided a black female student’s hair because she didn’t like her “coming in with ponytails all the time”, calling herself doing the mom a ‘favor’. When the mothers saw back, they immediately and rightfully complained and the teachers were reprimanded, don’t remember if they were fired. Boundaries exist for a reason and parents always have the right to speak up.
@paulaunger3061
@paulaunger3061 6 ай бұрын
Reprimanded, not fired. 100% right.
@blackqweenmars
@blackqweenmars 6 ай бұрын
This is different though
@Baby_ghost__b
@Baby_ghost__b 6 ай бұрын
Why she thought it was normal to wax a little girl? If i was the mom i would be soo mad.
@kgty1295
@kgty1295 6 ай бұрын
@@Baby_ghost__b teachers from boomer and gen x were next level. I never felt right complaining about my teachers knowing what my mom and grandma went through as kids.
@Baby_ghost__b
@Baby_ghost__b 6 ай бұрын
@@kgty1295 yes but the teacher shouldn't touch somebody kids without permission and even more for the beauty standard. I know the comparison is weird and don't have the same historical but what if it was a teacher that didn't like someone's hair and decided to curl or straighten it? That is wrong.
@AaronOnTheTrails
@AaronOnTheTrails 6 ай бұрын
I was just talking with someone yesterday about how the easy A "cool" teacher is the most overrated aspect of high school. They're lazy and insecure at best and are groomers at worst.
@Catmom-gl5nt
@Catmom-gl5nt 6 ай бұрын
I was my middle school gym teacher’s pet because I a) was dependable and willing to help with supplies, and b) because she had a mastiff and so did I. We exchange dog pictures during rained out gym sessions. That was the most personal we got, I knew nothing about her personal life, but everything about her dog. And that’s the way it should be, boundaries exist for a reason.
@thatvalensteingirl
@thatvalensteingirl 6 ай бұрын
Our freshman year "cool" teacher married a student a few years after she graduated. The way my jaw DROPPED when I saw her on Facebook, noted the name change, and then scrolled her pictures. He's literally old enough to be our DAD. In wedding photos, it looks like the Father Daughter dance. I'm so proud of little me for NEVER falling for it and avoiding him like the plague. Intuition win.
@dracofirex
@dracofirex 6 ай бұрын
My mom has a "cool" teacher. He would do magic shows during his lessons, turning the lesson into a fun little production. Never crossed the line, and made the lessons so entertaining that everyone wanted to be in his classes. It was COOL and above-board!!
@donotme8061
@donotme8061 6 ай бұрын
Not a parent but this is too far. I used to spend time in a math teachers classroom because I sucked at math and he was a super nerd. He genuinely cared about his students and even if you weren’t his own student, he would teach you math and let you play video games because he was also the advisor for the video game and anime clubs.
@melanchlooe
@melanchlooe 6 ай бұрын
when I was in 10th grade, I had a geometry teacher, 23, fresh out of college, and he would use the study hall period, where all the other students were in his classroom, studying and talking, and he would have me come in during my lunch (there were 3 classes in period 4 (A, B, or C) study hall, lunch or a regular class) and he would teach me the basics of algebra that I didn't understand last year, so I could have a chance at passing state testing. I passed with flying colors bc of him, and took pre-calc the next year, and passed that. he was incredible, and very appropriate.
@jasminer.6721
@jasminer.6721 6 ай бұрын
​@@melanchlooei love teachers like that!
@TheSpiderInUrWalls
@TheSpiderInUrWalls 5 ай бұрын
Yeah, it’s fine for a student to get on with a teacher, I have teachers I enjoy talking to, but they are *not* my friends. The only time I had a teacher’s number was on a trip to another country, in case we got separated. She deleted my number after that, and I deleted hers. It was a safety precaution. It’s weird how other kids think being that close with an adult that’s not a family friend or family member is.
@kimberlyhemminger3822
@kimberlyhemminger3822 6 ай бұрын
They also need to stop calling them friends or best friends in elementary school and just start them out calling them Mrs or mr. Why don't understand why they do that to begin with. My kid doesn't need to learn to be friends with their teacher. They need to learn that the teacher is an authority figure.
@katlouise12
@katlouise12 6 ай бұрын
What he doesn't understand is whether he has good intentions or not, his behaviour is grooming behaviour and makes the children vulnerable to actual predators (assuming he isn't one) because it normalises this kind of boundary crossing. That's why it's not acceptable whatever his intentions are.
@sixftturkey
@sixftturkey 6 ай бұрын
Clout chasing has exacerbated this ‘blurring the line’ between teachers and students horribly. Students are *not* your friends. This goes beyond just this teacher.
@Darkstar-se6wc
@Darkstar-se6wc 6 ай бұрын
Yeah, I’m actually more concerned about all the teachers sharing their queer activism, along with their sex lives, with their students.
@haleytruslow7200
@haleytruslow7200 6 ай бұрын
Texting students is NEVER a good idea.
@LittleMissInsantiy
@LittleMissInsantiy 6 ай бұрын
This is completely unacceptable. I would be SO pissed seeing a teacher put my daughter in his TT videos and asking her to touch their body ANYWHERE. And TEXTING my daughter? Hell to the NO. The school would get an earful from me.
@blackqweenmars
@blackqweenmars 6 ай бұрын
What if the texts were related to school things. My coaches would text us about games and stuff. It is no different from an email if used appropriately. In fact, texting is way faster and efficient
@Lucy_Heart03
@Lucy_Heart03 6 ай бұрын
@@blackqweenmarswas this during middle school? I finished middle school in 2017 so I not sure if time change, but in middle school no teacher ask our phone number. In high school it was a different story. These students in the video are middle schoolers.
@gem9535
@gem9535 6 ай бұрын
@@blackqweenmars In high school? Sure. They’re almost adults after all. But even then, my school specifically had rules, such as teachers not being allowed to text students after 10pm. These are middle schoolers, though. Completely different. These kids are CHILDREN-children.
@blackqweenmars
@blackqweenmars 6 ай бұрын
@@gem9535 Middle schoolers are adolescents
@Em-tj6rh
@Em-tj6rh 6 ай бұрын
@@blackqweenmars still considered children
@SwordManiac84
@SwordManiac84 6 ай бұрын
Rizz is short for charisma. Please Chel. Don’t let the short versions of words gain a new definition. It’s just charisma, swag, mojo, game. It’s just the new word.
@carolrivera1229
@carolrivera1229 5 ай бұрын
That makes so much more sense lol I thought it was short for drizz or something stupid like that
@andieallison6792
@andieallison6792 5 ай бұрын
That's what she said
@lapatti
@lapatti 6 ай бұрын
There was an attractive white female teacher in my daughter's primary school who used to ask students (8/9/10 yo) to give her shoulder massages. Only me and one other mother found it inappropriate and went to complain to her directly. She stopped (at least in our daughters class), but we found it was unsettling that the other parents would joke about it just because she was attractive and their boys would race each other to have the chance to massage this teacher. The problem isn't necessarily with the specific teacher, I'm sure his intentions are good and he's a wholesome person. BUT crossing these boundaries sets a precedent for these young teens who might not see this type of behaviour as a red flag because of that one teacher who used to be "cool" with them
@michellesmith7704
@michellesmith7704 3 ай бұрын
Gross
@dyeandcloth1920
@dyeandcloth1920 6 ай бұрын
Do we have the same mom? The second the *censored audio* popped up, I knew exactly what was going down 😂
@BlkBrd579
@BlkBrd579 6 ай бұрын
This would of been my moms reaction as well 😂
@NotchaMomma
@NotchaMomma 6 ай бұрын
I have no sympathy for him! Grooming is a real thing for boys and girls! I would definitely demand he loose his job and license for unprofessional conduct!!! He want adult friends go teach at a college where the students are adults!!!
@TheePrincessBrat
@TheePrincessBrat 6 ай бұрын
Even as an adult in college, the only male professors who tried to be super cool with me, were the same ones ogling me in class :/ It’s very abnormal to have this intimate of a relationship with a current student, even in college
@Catmom-gl5nt
@Catmom-gl5nt 6 ай бұрын
@TheePrincessBrat When I was in grad school I had a slightly closer relationship with a professor because we went to the same shul and I celebrated a few holidays at his house. But that was graduate school and I never went to a private event that didn’t include his wife and extended family. It also had no affect on his classes or my studies.
@TheePrincessBrat
@TheePrincessBrat 6 ай бұрын
@@Catmom-gl5nt I know there are exceptions. I haven’t experienced any with a male professor
@Catmom-gl5nt
@Catmom-gl5nt 6 ай бұрын
@TheePrincessBrat You misunderstand, I agree with you. I meant I only began to socialize with teachers as an adult and only in family settings, not one on one. For children to do so does nothing but leave them vulnerable to predators.
@TheePrincessBrat
@TheePrincessBrat 6 ай бұрын
@@Catmom-gl5nt oh okay. I thought u were just sharing a positive story. I always loved school, it was my safe haven. I’m glad I never had a teacher take advantage of that. I wish that were the case for all kids. It’s sad once i got to college, I couldn’t have the same bond with male teachers…I guess they figure you’re “legal”, so you’re fair game. I have great rapport with my female professors though. Our class was supposed to have dinner at her house to cap the semester, then covid hit 🥲
@vintagemel6358
@vintagemel6358 6 ай бұрын
I don't teach, but I volunteer with a middle school/high school youth group. For me, when the kids start to get more comfortable with me in a social way, joking around, hanging out, trying to draw me into their gossip, etc. I become more mindful of appropriate boundaries, not less. It's good for kids to have trusted adults in their lives outside of their families, but you maintain that trust by being an adult and maintaining the line. A teacher not understanding that is troubling.
@nicholnunn8074
@nicholnunn8074 6 ай бұрын
Yes! Adults should be guiding kids to understand why getting too friendly with adults is a problem. I hate that so many people are missing this point.
@Darkstar-se6wc
@Darkstar-se6wc 6 ай бұрын
Seems to be an issue with a whole lot of teachers these days.
@anq4274
@anq4274 6 ай бұрын
Teaching is like parenting, you can't be the friend of the children.
@brylcreemy
@brylcreemy 6 ай бұрын
I had 2 teachers that would bring outside work for students to optionally do to help them. (stuffing envelopes, making hook rugs for the teacher [or the teachers’s children], etc) I hated that because the students who did those tasks *clearly* got preferential treatment. Those 2 teachers didn’t even try to hide that helping them on non-schoolwork was helping those students grades.
@NaomiDollxoxo
@NaomiDollxoxo 6 ай бұрын
The braids, not the weird part to me. The “best friends” then the following tiktok after being fired…😬
@insertname193
@insertname193 6 ай бұрын
Yeah, the hair thing was inappropriate but the best friends comment, the live-streaming, and the texting stuff are really what sets off red flags
@StArDragonB
@StArDragonB 6 ай бұрын
exactly
@nicholnunn8074
@nicholnunn8074 6 ай бұрын
I think this is why he is catching so much heat. Had he just acknowledged why people thought it was inappropriate and apologized I think we would be seeing a different response.
@luisataylor8089
@luisataylor8089 6 ай бұрын
I agree. Bestie is a bit much for the student/teacher relationship
@ariesunicorn8225
@ariesunicorn8225 6 ай бұрын
I work for a corporate firm that have let us know numerous times, that we will be collecting our last pay cheques if we mess around and create a social media platform bringing them any type of shame by our actions. This guy is making videos with his bare tattooed chest on display, making inappropriate skits inside of his place of employment, along with the infamous live stream of him allowing his female students to take out his braids. Making social media content in school should be banned.
@nettaleanne
@nettaleanne 6 ай бұрын
I’m telling you; attention seeking will have you jobless! One of the first lectures in the program I’m in was about our socials.
@MSinistrari
@MSinistrari 6 ай бұрын
My job makes a point of stating if you list it on your social media as employment, then your posts potentially can reflect on the company even if it's not related to work. So we've made it a game of list your employment as a fake company from movies or TV with the more obscure the better. Mine's Captain Spaulding's Museum of Monsters and Madmen.
@blackqweenmars
@blackqweenmars 6 ай бұрын
I don’t think it should be banned. Social media is great if it’s done appropriately. Our school posts on social media and parents/guardians/family members love to see what their kids are doing at school and at extracurricular activities as well as finding out the prom/game/concert/other dates for activities. Social media has a time and place in the school.
@genevievec.8002
@genevievec.8002 6 ай бұрын
​@@blackqweenmars It's not that you can't have social media, it's that your actions on social media reflect on the company you work for. So even if it's unrelated to work, if you start saying stuff that could negatively affect the company, your job is at risk. I.e. if I'm on LinkedIn and show as part of the company, and I'm posting about the industry, or congratulating someone on a position, promoting a useful tool, sharing educational information, etc. that's fine. If I throw in a couple posts about how R Kelly did nothing wrong, now there's a problem because that statement reflects back to my employer.
@blackqweenmars
@blackqweenmars 6 ай бұрын
@@genevievec.8002 true people tend to let their guard down on social media so if you posted something for the world to see you, can’t be mad when the world judges you for it
@haleytruslow7200
@haleytruslow7200 6 ай бұрын
During my first year teaching, our team lead was a guy like this. SUPER popular with the kids AND parents. He would spend time outside of class with the kids.. going to dinner at their houses, taking them to play sports on the weekend.. looking back, I don’t think it was okay. I LOVED my students but once the bell rang I wanted to just be at peace and not be around kids anymore lol. I really wonder if anything bad happened to his students :(
@shawntanac3172
@shawntanac3172 6 ай бұрын
I think men can just really genuinely care about their students… I guess we don’t really know his back story maybe he couldn’t have kids or something.. who knows . I’m just saying there are men out there that just care about their students.
@kayleestephens6774
@kayleestephens6774 6 ай бұрын
​@@shawntanac3172yes. We had a nice teacher like that and he said he tried to do extra for the kids because he didn't have a dad growing up and a teacher helped mentor him and keep him from going down a dark path, and that's why he decided to be a teacher and mentor kids who needed guidance and good adults around them.
@SunshineTheLover
@SunshineTheLover 6 ай бұрын
@@shawntanac3172there absolutely are but unfortunately rules arent for the good and well meaning people out there. we gotta restrict the good to stop the bad
@margodphd
@margodphd 6 ай бұрын
​@@shawntanac3172But there are safe ways to show it. Our history teacher organised trips for us, took us to exhibitions, gave us wonderful opportunities to volunteer collecting memories of people who survived Concentration Camps or being exiled to Siberia. He did all he could to make us more interested in his subject. What he didn't is picking and choosing which students to take on "special" outings based upon his personal preferences nor cross boundaries and we were 17-19, not 12-16. There's ways to show care that aren't predatory nor playing unjust favourites.
@molsauce
@molsauce 6 ай бұрын
Simply put, he wasn't fully engaged in his teaching because he was constantly filming himself and thinking of his next content idea.
@talesfromatiredmind4785
@talesfromatiredmind4785 6 ай бұрын
I had a cool teacher like him in highschool. He never let his students do his hair mind you (because he was bald) but he did set himself up to be the cool teacher in the school by having more parties, making relatable jokes, and generally just trying to be approachable. In my senior year he was arrested because it came to light he had groomed and had a relationship with one of his former students.
@spiritsfollow4976
@spiritsfollow4976 6 ай бұрын
Not only is the hair thing inappropriate, it also sounds like he contrived a reason to end class early to do it. Exploiting these kids’ labor when he should be teaching them!
@MalcomJuliaMorgan
@MalcomJuliaMorgan 6 ай бұрын
its the "yeah i got this...its great to be king" look on his face while they braid his hair that is really unsettling to me.
@SigynRegn
@SigynRegn 6 ай бұрын
This is next level paranoia.
@oliviadollin-goodall3352
@oliviadollin-goodall3352 6 ай бұрын
Yes exactly. He looked so arrogant and the fact that he’s filming, it’s so cringy.
@jasminer.6721
@jasminer.6721 6 ай бұрын
​@@oliviadollin-goodall3352yup him saying hes gonna be "stirring the pot" tells it all right there.
@OceansbutalsoLakes
@OceansbutalsoLakes 6 ай бұрын
@@SigynRegn if you want to work in close contact with kids, your employer and parents of kids SHOULD be paranoid about potential red flags. He’s risking his job just to engage in borderline creepy behaviour and broadcast it, so that’s a sufficient red flag for me and most people.
@spookyjones6577
@spookyjones6577 6 ай бұрын
@@SigynRegn? Not really. This guy is a walking red flag
@RajetsuKiba
@RajetsuKiba 6 ай бұрын
Even if is isn't grooming them "for himself", he is prepping and setting up those young girls to have blurred relationships with male authority figures. I think it is important (especially for teenage girls) to know where the line is. A relationship like this with a teacher, even if he himself did nothing wrong, can make it hard for the students to understand when alarming behavior is happening. It is great that he has a good relationship with his students, but calling them bestie, being in a group chat with them and having them do your hair is not how you should model a relationship with an older man.
@nicholnunn8074
@nicholnunn8074 6 ай бұрын
Say it louder for the people in the back!
@Adardidnothingwrong
@Adardidnothingwrong 6 ай бұрын
That is an excellent point.
@margodphd
@margodphd 6 ай бұрын
The fact that he doesn't recognize that is very alarming. He's incredibly self focused.
@maryamdear2122
@maryamdear2122 5 ай бұрын
The fact he’s defending himself so hard is GROSS. He is giving major groomer vibes.
@platonicplanetmoonasmr7348
@platonicplanetmoonasmr7348 6 ай бұрын
I think the main problem is his whole attitude about it. I mean, he even says like at one part “let’s stir the pot a little bit.”
@VSES-99293
@VSES-99293 6 ай бұрын
Michelle: Gives her mom a scenario Michelle: My teacher (a man) ask me to do his hair like take down his braids, is that okay with you? Michelle's Mom: No 🤨 Michelle: Also the teacher text me, is that okay with you? Michelle's Mom: HELL NO! (Proceeds to go off)😠😡 Me: 😆😆😆😆😆😆
@Jun11183
@Jun11183 6 ай бұрын
And then the music 😂😂😂 ❤
@salamzander
@salamzander 6 ай бұрын
I loved that 😂
@lizzym9133
@lizzym9133 6 ай бұрын
My mom would have done the same thing 😂!
@nicholnunn8074
@nicholnunn8074 6 ай бұрын
I’m so happy that was her mom’s response.
@gem9535
@gem9535 6 ай бұрын
I laughed so hard.
@stephanybrown3226
@stephanybrown3226 6 ай бұрын
Dude.... its a HAIR appointment they can take your braids out at the hair appointment. They are still doing your hair, it's their job? Creep is abusing his power. Instead of eating, you could have taken your own dang hair out!
@biancan.6956
@biancan.6956 6 ай бұрын
You’d be surprised how many hair stylists won’t take down your braids or wash your hair for you 😂 however that doesn’t make what he’s doing okay AT ALL. Definitely needs better boundaries!
@jasminer.6721
@jasminer.6721 6 ай бұрын
I agree fully!! I just wanted to say this comment kinda made me chuckle because getting braids taken down by the same braider is not as common as youd think sadly lmaooo. Some even ask you to show up with your hair pre-parted or blowdried
@GAshoneybear
@GAshoneybear 6 ай бұрын
I guess you don't get your hair braided because a LOT don't do that. Braiders most times want your hair taken out, shampooed, conditioned, and blow dried. Some of them want your hair parted.
@stephanybrown3226
@stephanybrown3226 6 ай бұрын
@jasminer.6721 Ah alright I didn't know that, I apologize.
@stephanybrown3226
@stephanybrown3226 6 ай бұрын
@GAshoneybear I didn't know that, I assumed it was like most stylists the more complex the more pay, but wasn't aware it isn't the same.
@sonyashus
@sonyashus 6 ай бұрын
Apart from the obvious inappropriate situation, I'd ask why is my child not studying at school, but working for free for his teacher. As far as I know in some countries kids are living in school, we didn't even eat in our school, classes and nothing else, but still....
@alicekasey8516
@alicekasey8516 6 ай бұрын
My daughter grew up in high school during the start of social media in 2008-2012 and BIGGEST rules were that teachers were not allowed to call students' cells or speak with them on ANY social media website (including Facebook) till the students graduated. It was explained to students that this is to keep with a good teacher/student boundary.
@Suzy24
@Suzy24 5 ай бұрын
Instead of acting like a victim he should have listened to the criticism and SINCERELY apologised for being inappropriate.
@krystynamotlasz2754
@krystynamotlasz2754 6 ай бұрын
I've never done a teacher's hair but growing up my mom wasn't around and my dad never learned to do hair. I'd go to school with my hair a mess and I would be distracted by it in class so my female teacher let me come in 10 minutes early and she'd braid it so it was out of my face😭 Random edit: we were also never alone, usually her children were sitting in her classroom until class started
@Adardidnothingwrong
@Adardidnothingwrong 6 ай бұрын
Honestly, I think this is part of the problem (I'm not blaming you or your teacher, btw). I think because of the system we live in, so many children aren't getting the love and care they need from folks at home (and that's not always the parents' fault either, depending on the situation) and often times teachers step in to fill that void. I've heard of teachers doing everything like hair, feeding students who were hungry, bringing students' clothes home to wash, dry, and fold because the child didn't have access to a washing machine and so much more. While it's wonderful to go above and beyond for students, I feel that it can blur the boundaries, and lead to teacher and student acting more like mother and daughter or big brother and little brother. I think that boundary setting and professional ethics need to be emphasized more in training.
@jjbean2989
@jjbean2989 6 ай бұрын
HAD THIS BEEN 4 or 5 little BOYS He wouldn't have allowed it!!!! So what does that say between the lines?????? DEFINITELY WEIRD. As an adult you definitely understand how this is a huge boundary. He ALSO is putting kids emotionally in the middle of this??? This man is a menace
@michaelwantsanothersliceof3698
@michaelwantsanothersliceof3698 5 ай бұрын
this is such a great point
@Chalize
@Chalize 6 ай бұрын
I don't even have Tiktok, but I'm up to date with all the drama there. 🍵
@Ashcinnamon
@Ashcinnamon 6 ай бұрын
I had multiple teachers like him. Men and women. Two are locked away for inappropriate relationships with students, one us out and on a offender list and the other went into hiding after allegations came out. These types of teachers are perverts. Ugh
@destinyblade6547
@destinyblade6547 6 ай бұрын
The “didn’t have time to take my hair down” excuse never made sense to me anyway. He doesn’t have enough hair for it to take more than 45 mins to take it out himself (and that’s being generous)
@sashamellon822
@sashamellon822 6 ай бұрын
Here in the UK you are only allowed to touch students if there is a threat to life, or injury or they are being very disruptive and you want to remove them from class. Having your hair done is none of them. I can’t imagine the USA being much different
@SunshineTheLover
@SunshineTheLover 6 ай бұрын
unfortunately our rules arent so strict in most places
@AnimatedBlast
@AnimatedBlast 6 ай бұрын
Actually you are allowed to touch primary school children. Reception teachers are now expected to help them use the toilet for example.
@AnimatedBlast
@AnimatedBlast 6 ай бұрын
Only in high school. Teachers now are forced to help reception kids use the bathroom. I’d just leave them 😂
@NaviFae
@NaviFae 6 ай бұрын
The teacher just posted another tiktok about a bald teacher getting his head bedazzled by his students and had no repercussions like this teacher had. he had fair points but either way that’s not professional weather your white black male female bald or not there has to be boundaries set in school and that’s clearly breaking them 🤷‍♀️
@Omi-gk4wd
@Omi-gk4wd 6 ай бұрын
I haven’t seen that video, so I don’t know the full context, but that sounds like something that may have been a goofy prank situation, “students, if you accomplish XYZ by the end of the school year, Mr. So-and-so will get his head bedazzled.” I’m sure his students are constantly roasting him for being bald, cuz kids are awful lol This to me is different, he just didn’t make time for his own personal care, so he had a bunch of girls do it for him and live-streamed it. Like I said, don’t have full context, could be totally off in this one, but they seem like pretty different scenarios.
@beesafesweetheart8738
@beesafesweetheart8738 6 ай бұрын
As a black man there is definitely something sensual about hair.. when i had twisties/dreads you get really close to who is doing it My girl used to get jelous about whoever was doing my hair R Kelly has a song called braid my hair lol
@NaviFae
@NaviFae 6 ай бұрын
@@beesafesweetheart8738 statement stands lol regardless of sex or race boundaries were crossed which is never ok in any setting especially schools. There was a student that responded to the vid she had excellent points as well.
@Poopoopeepee6969
@Poopoopeepee6969 6 ай бұрын
Did he use the race card?
@NaviFae
@NaviFae 6 ай бұрын
@@Poopoopeepee6969 the other vid he posted about the bald teacher he was trying to pull the race card he was comparing the situation to himself and saying that it was worse cause it was skin to skin and had no hair between him and students or something like that lol
@nurulmidah8710
@nurulmidah8710 6 ай бұрын
Yeah, it's inappropriate. That's underage girls that might catch feelings for this "Cool Teacher". And it seems that he would like that kind of attention from the underage student. Definitely 100% weird.
@neen42
@neen42 6 ай бұрын
Your students aren't your friends. I taught college students for 5 years in my 20s and they weren't my friends. I became friends with a very select few after - as in maybe 5 out of about 1000 students afterward and made sure i wouldn't be teaching them again.
@Disneymumma
@Disneymumma 5 ай бұрын
If that was the UK safe guarding would have been on him as soon as he was posting a child on social media. You'd be throughly investigated by the police if you had kids doing your hair
@j.m.edwards1183
@j.m.edwards1183 6 ай бұрын
If his best friends are high schoolers, this is an even bigger issue.
@terrig2222
@terrig2222 6 ай бұрын
Also note how they only do this with kids from certain socioeconomic and ethnic backgrounds. If he worked at a school were parents pay 50 k a year to send their kids he would someone conduct himself differently .
@gigiarmany
@gigiarmany 6 ай бұрын
he just LOVES his status as the pretty ,hot ,cool guy teacher amongst the many female teachers, completely lost all boundaries & now openely grooming these receptive kids..unprofessional & creepy..😒
@meganrae2508
@meganrae2508 6 ай бұрын
Okay, seeing the full context of this, I rescind my comment on the short version. This is not the scenario I assumed it was, he’s routinely crossing boundaries.
@thecottoncandylette
@thecottoncandylette 6 ай бұрын
When I was in high school I did my teacher’s hair, BUT we were in COSMETOLOGY CLASS! The difference is it was for the class, and it was in a more structured and teaching professionalism manner. It wasn’t just random students in a random classroom!
@seleciaa
@seleciaa 6 ай бұрын
My "cool" coach in high school sent inappropriate texts to a teammate. I don't approve of the guy at all
@neoe5970
@neoe5970 6 ай бұрын
in czechia we are legally not allowed to film anything at school on our phones let alone post it on social media, a student/teacher can be legally charged if they do
@theoriginalbunnygirl
@theoriginalbunnygirl 6 ай бұрын
What's czechia? Is that Czech Republic?
@Darkstar-se6wc
@Darkstar-se6wc 6 ай бұрын
A law like that would prevent many inappropriately political teachers from being exposed over here, NTM actual cases of abuse by “educators.”
@spiralrose
@spiralrose 5 ай бұрын
I wish there was this law here in the US. Why wouldn’t there be is the question
@artiseen
@artiseen 5 ай бұрын
​@@theoriginalbunnygirlYuppp. Czechia is what those who live in Czech Republic call it. Czech Republic is more of an official name
@theoriginalbunnygirl
@theoriginalbunnygirl 5 ай бұрын
@@artiseen Thank you for responding!! All the other replies had nothing to do with my question and moreso about the actual post lol.
@youaintgettingmyhandle
@youaintgettingmyhandle 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for exposing him. This teacher was sketchy and skeevy to me. If he had time to peel an orange, he can unbraid his hair too. Shout out to your mama, Michelle. She’s just like mine 😂😂
@sergeipohkerova7211
@sergeipohkerova7211 6 ай бұрын
He should have asked his female students' older brothers or dads to do his hair 🤜🏼🤛🏼👊🏼😡
@fancybunnies5529
@fancybunnies5529 5 ай бұрын
Had a teacher like this when I was in high school, focused more on being the “fun, cool” teacher. Turns out he had a relationship with one of his track students.
@bossyspaghetti
@bossyspaghetti 6 ай бұрын
The obvious inappropriate nature of his relationship with these kids aside, It is not a teacher's job to be friends with their students! It is their job to TEACH THEIR STUDENTS! And he was not doing his JOB. Good on them for firing him.
@squiggly2440
@squiggly2440 6 ай бұрын
As a mother, this is weird as hell. He shouldnt be posting kids or having kids touch him, and having it as part of a "reward" for the class takes it to extra creepy. And if a woman had my son and a few other boys surround her to do her hair i would be PISSED. There is no reason for it. Reschedule the appointment. Take it out during your lunch/off periods. Ask them to take it out during the appointment. Dont ask my kid to touch you like its some sort of privilege
@TheePrincessBrat
@TheePrincessBrat 6 ай бұрын
Last comment I swear… if he wants to encourage their passions, as a teacher, turn it into an assignment. Have her shadow a cosmetologist and write a reflection or create a presentation. This would introduce her to networking, professionalism, improving communication skills, etc. Have her do something that builds skills and helps her with long-term goal setting. Improving students skills and knowledge is the only kind of “molding” teachers need to be doing.
@Darkstar-se6wc
@Darkstar-se6wc 6 ай бұрын
He’s a science teacher.
@TheePrincessBrat
@TheePrincessBrat 6 ай бұрын
@@Darkstar-se6wc all the more reason to question why she’s painting his nails in class. In that case, make her look up the chemicals involved in doing nails and how they interact or something
@nothingreallymattersanyone9
@nothingreallymattersanyone9 6 ай бұрын
One predatory behavior is blurring the lines when it comes to boundaries
@ellaelliott4415
@ellaelliott4415 5 ай бұрын
And convincing everyone that what they’re doing is perfectly normal
@jenip1017
@jenip1017 6 ай бұрын
I think he absolutely blurred the lines. These teens need to understand boundaries, especially with how things are on social media. Then here he goes, get a little too close with his students. I had a teacher that was my favorite in high school but I wasnt gonna sit there and give him an edge up ya know! Its sad because this teacher seems to have really been a good teacher that made poor choices.
@Cal-fb7we
@Cal-fb7we 6 ай бұрын
Watching this has made me realize that perhaps my third grade teacher giving kids candy for giving her back massages was not normal
@sierralorraine7003
@sierralorraine7003 6 ай бұрын
Dude is literally putting someone else’s kids online…that’s weird. I get the whole “cool teacher” gig but we’ve gotten to comfortable with kids because we’re on the same platforms.
@The_NonDescript
@The_NonDescript 6 ай бұрын
"Oh, I thought I called you on accident!" Gotta love moms! 🥰 Too wholesome. Edit: DAAAAAG, Michelle, she got 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 UP!!! Your face during the censored parts had me 💀. Still... super wholesome!
@kristin122
@kristin122 6 ай бұрын
Texting your students is not okay. Being their best friends is not okay. Having adult content mixed with your students is not okay. As far as taking down his hair, this is not a red flag to me. He seems like a fun and innovative teacher, that's great. My problem is, young boys and girls can have crushes on their teachers. It is natural, you can't stop that. But allowing these children to not have a clear boundary and believing their best friends is not okay. In their heads, thus could mean more to them and he should consider that. As far as no boys taking his hair out, I would imagen they didn't want to. Sure, boys can like doing hair. But I imagen majority of middle school boys would rather play basketball, darts, or be on their phone then taking out braids.
@futuremd40
@futuremd40 5 ай бұрын
He could’ve done this and not recorded it. 🙄 He put himself in this position.
@eliath5215
@eliath5215 5 ай бұрын
This guy is the textbook example of what my education classes say NOT to do
@dominiqueuniquenique9752
@dominiqueuniquenique9752 6 ай бұрын
Nope. Too familiar with the students. You can be a cool teacher, but keep it professional and don't cross physical boundaries.
@_politefrog_8892
@_politefrog_8892 6 ай бұрын
He should have been fired. He gives me the creeps with his sexual posts along with posts with his underage female students. Heck no!!!
@nicholnunn8074
@nicholnunn8074 6 ай бұрын
That video about the lunch lady calling him baby, and “security ain’t gonna stop him”. Yikes!
@user-ws6yy2xg1y
@user-ws6yy2xg1y 6 ай бұрын
Wow, as a parent I don't even put my kid on social media cuz people are strange If teacher puts my kid on social media I'd flip out.
@Milkugh
@Milkugh 6 ай бұрын
I would be very happy to know that my child’s school promptly looks into things like this. How many of us all knew a teacher that was very questionable but no one did anything about it for years and eventually they got exposed
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