Tips To Make You More Confident: Elevate Your Look, Control Your Body Language & Train Your Mind

[@JamilaMusayeva]

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[@daquytx8139]

My father taught me that if you are having conversation with a group of people, find a topic that everyone can talk about and avoid side conversations or only talk to certain people in that group. That’s etiquette.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Indeed. Also engage in a dialogue, do not make it a monologue.

[@mirelasemanjaku]

Also decency and common sense. Which surprisingly it lacks in many people 🙁

[@glacey4906]

What if one person in the group speaks to you directly (and all others are quiet ie a question?). Do you reply to that one person or involve the others?

[@annacastellano4512]

@@mirelasemanjaku [[

[@dh5057]

Letting your daughter choose from 2 appropriate outfits will make her feel like she has choice (it also help her learn to make decisions!) and will make your life easier!

[@IM-uh5tk]

2:22 Looks matter. Look the way you like. 5:12 Train your body. Have an open body posture, a good stance, maintain eye contact, smile more often, mind your hands. 7:52 Educate your mind.

[@sallybabybabybaby]

Thanks

[@rebeccatom2188]

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[@sparklelee8730]

I love how u style your outfits .it's elegant literally caught my eyes and u do have a soothing voice

[@Madawi08]

agreeddd

[@ShivangiNaithani]

Her voice is therapy with education

[@momoblood]

I started working in my confidence like a year ago and you couldn't be more right! I have another tip i'd like to share: doing things alone, i found that by doing things alone i was able to become more confident! I wasn't being judged because i know i wasn't judging other people, and that has helped me become a little bit more "fearless" of social interactionsince i struggle with social anxiety and that really boost my self confidence! :')

[@lucaberret5042]

One thing about the smile: although it does communicate friendliness and openness, in some countries such as Russia it may have the opposite effect and cause people to not trust you or think you are odd because it is less socially acceptable to smile at someone you are not close with.

[@B3bita1215]

Really? wow that is crazy. Nice to know, because I am always smiling.

[@CitricAcidBurn]

That's quite not true. People tend smile less at strangers there, but smiling and friendliness are absolutely socially acceptable.

[@thatonellamawhoissoobsesse8138]

What about foreigners visiting Russia? Like What if they're tanner but hold obvious Western foreigner traits? ie. Loud, excited plus the smile?

[@heidiheidi0]

@@CitricAcidBurn As a Russian I can confirm this.

[@heidiheidi0]

@@thatonellamawhoissoobsesse8138 Being tan has nothing to do with anything that has to do with being western. Russia isnt a western country. If someone is loud or excited all the time, they might think they are from the US or UK or, at the very worst, just not very bright. It would be a little weird to smile at a stranger or to smile at a customer who one doesnt know well. It comes off as cheesy or trying too hard. They might be suspicious that you are hiding something.

[@Nssi._rdg]

Thanks Jamila, I came here after your recommendation. Thanks alot dear❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

My pleasure 😊

[@joshuac5074]

I'm in love with the 3rd tip as it is what I'm lacking, curiosity of what other people do is the best way to maintain conversations and to develop

[@adishreeram380]

It’s important to educate your mind but I believe that at times of you think you cannot contribute to a conversation, you could at least listen and learn something. A confident person is also humble enough to accept that they may not know about something and are open to learn.

[@poulomi3366]

I had a toxic evening, but after watching your video i am honestly feeling so good.. thankyou you are very soothing to mind

[@jimlims]

She is so polite and modest🤍

[@wormsquish]

I find that it's so soothing to watch your videos. Your voice and demeanour is so relaxing.

[@miskaball1734]

Thank you Jamila for today’s video. I would appreciate if you could teach us how to speak like you, softly, elegantly, with the right speed and intonation . I believe it is also very important piece of self presentation! 😊😊

[@efanden]

Thank you Ms. It's so calming to listen to you. I love learning things so the last part really rings a bell. It's such a confidence boost to know what people are talking about !

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are welcome

[@julyajunglin5110]

Thank you Jamila, after watching some of your videos, I have learned so much and I really feel better and stronger. :) You’re a very beautiful woman

[@groomistagroomy5437]

Happy Teachers’s Day to all KZbin teachers who works hard to just enlightened our path and help us to clear doubts also thanks to KZbin to provide such a beautiful platform where we can learn, earn, and entertain ourselves 🥰🙏

[@maryammalik9027]

I loved learnin this , thank you , you’re super polite when u speak and u speak clearly, I liked that

[@farinahmed821]

Thank you for sharing this video.As a teen girl,it is really needed by me.You are so helpful.

[@Emxo333]

I loved learning that you are a big potter fan, me too! It was so fun waiting for all the books to be released

[@TheEmaile]

Hehe, Jamila moping in pajamas! Your mom is so sweet, searching high and low for a copy of Harry Potter for you! These are great tips! After watching your etiquette videos and reading some books on etiquette I started to take the time to present myself well FOR MYSELF. It made such a difference, as I had always been a frump when alone and only dressed up, did nails, hair, etc when with others. For me, the most important aspect of confidence has come from knowing that when I feel good, others pick up on that. Like you said, look good for yourself. Another thing that helps is remembering our uniqueness. That we are each beautiful and interesting individuals in and of ourselves, without anything added. That we owe it to ourselves and all the time and effort that has been invested in creating our being, from birth to adulthood, to recognize our importance and individuality. With this knowledge it's almost impossible to not have confidence. 😊

[@anneliduplessis5748]

Please please please do a video on jewellery etiquette!!! Like how much jewellery is too much, how you wear it, what works for you etc. Please!

[@salmaou9110]

Her vooicee is soo caaalmm !!!!!! DAAAAMMNNNN

[@muhammadzakaria8002]

Thank you, your decency, for recalling the boosting points for future upgradation.

[@ainnurzafirah4636]

your voice is so calm & soothing. do tell me can someone without patience do this, i mean the well etiquette? you look so proper. i really need your patience & calmness

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you 🙏🏻

[@Usernetttt5480]

Jamila you one of the energy givers in my life ✨

[@gwynethsantos8254]

I love the way you speak, it's soothing 🤍🦋🌻

[@vmoney7857]

thank you for all of these . also I love your voice

[@knightblox4280]

Please make a detailed video about how to teach etiquette to the kids. We want more videos about etiquette as this topic is least discussed.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

I will consider that ☺️

[@adhunaparui9408]

I really appreciate your effort for making this video. It helped me a lot. Thank you so much.

[@nidhi6028]

The video we've all been waiting for.❤️❤️

[@alexandraeverafter1015]

Thank you for this outstanding video on how to build confidence. You packed so much in only 13 minutes. Confidence has been my weak spot for as long as I can remember. I have always been perceived as the nervous one, especially when I was younger. People didn’t understand what I was trying to say, and my facial expressions and posture looked inapproachable. Because of my mom and all those videos on elegance, I have been improving. Yes, appearance makes a world of difference, and I feel more confident and productive when I am presentable. I am in my 40s now and firmly believe that education doesn’t stop at your last degree. I naturally learn at work because I am a proofreader. For example, I have been learning about business and culture from the material, and it feels like I am getting paid to learn from some of the most prestigious business schools. 😉 BTW, you look more presentable in your pajamas and hair up in a bun than so many people I see in public. You always look presentable and elegant. Period. 💕😊

[@fatihanusrat5584]

I love what you're wearing 🥺❣️

[@mahshidbitarafan3249]

Dear Jamila, I was waiting for your new video. When I saw the notification, quickly opened my KZbin. Thank you for all of your lovely and useful videos.

[@laigisele5879]

Love yr voice I think talk slowly is also a kind of confidence I always talk very quickly and brief when I’m nervous I wish I could talk like u

[@tanisha6406]

I really needed this. Thanks Jamila❤

[@amelblossom4160]

Ur voice is therapy , I love the way you talk and the way u sit . Ur so elegant ☕🍁

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you 😊

[@fynssp]

I think the idea of an Etiquette Movie club sounds great! Most of how I speak and think is influenced by movies (and books too! I also felt out of place back then because I haven't read Harry Potter haha)

[@mansoor3159]

Tysm Jamila for giving tips on how to become more confident because I am very shy person and I love your videos so much you are my inspiration♥️♥️😍😍🙈🤗☺️🤗🤗

[@mahimakammar7233]

You should always capitalize the first alphabet of anybody's name. That's an etiquette!

[@mansoor3159]

@@mahimakammar7233 happy😁👍🏻

[@elleari89]

Love you content ❤️ Can you do a video on proper outdoor picnic etiquette? In terms of what is ideal to eat, the picnic basket, cloth and glassware to use? Thank you 🙏

[@ramzaramzan9992]

Thank you for sharing this I wanted this so badly❤️❤️

[@bashful1e941]

111 comments it's a sign from the universe to be confident!

[@heavensgate6682]

Real confidence starts inside..

[@JamilaMusayeva]

I absolutely agree with you!

[@IoIita]

I’m a very shy and private person but thank you so much for these tips on how to be more confident, Jamila.

[@misskm4]

Same here

[@princessroxyvincenzo2593]

I love to look elegant and confident.

[@rimshaarif5867]

I started watching KZbin just to see your videos...Amazing💜❤

[@nenenopena5742]

Hi Ms. Jamila just now watching your video this is awesome thank you....

[@LetsGoSanjana]

I feel confident if I look good to myself ❤ I don’t care what others say

[@Bonjour_Lisa]

This video gives a lot of food for thought~ Some of your points of view merge with the common perception, yet I always find yours authentic ✨ It feels like some of them are linked to one: some people would naturally communicate a body language of confidence if they feel beautiful in their overall look, for instance. I would even feel confident when having a certain scent on my body; confidence may be connected to some of our senses being positively triggered. One thing that I agree with and would like to add something to, if I may, is that educating the mind also happens when being involved in a conversation which you lack knowledge about. The example of the Harry Potter book is very relatable… but there exists similar situations where the persons involved would happily educate you on something. Being willing to learn from them would be a sign of confidence; you are aware that you do not know one topic at the moment it is being discussed, and you publicly express it by asking questions. I would often ask questions after presenting a topic I am supposed to know a lot about, because we learn from people. It shows that you want to engage with the person and not just display your knowledge. And you can raise questions that she/he had not thought about; which would encourage her/him to learn more 🙂

[@aneesmughal2949]

Treat for my eyes and ears today 🙏

[@xfaroutzx3637]

I believe any situation whether a topic of conversation arises that I am not knowledgeable on is an opportunity to learn. If I do not know about the subject, I state that I do not know about that and I will ask questions out of curiosity to learn more. I think people greatly appreciate it and feel that you're genuinely interested, it is not necessary to always know something about everything to be able to converse and be part of a conversation.

[@wellwellmymichelle]

Jamila you are GOREGEOUS!Thank you so much for your useful videos!!

[@pearlslaceandgrace400]

Another enjoyable video, Jamila. A few small adjustments can make such a difference to how you are perceived!

[@Bangtanarmygirl]

Mənə güven haqqında danışdığınız üçün teşekkür edirəm,indi daha da artdı. Thank you for telling me about confidence,now it's increased a more.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Cox sag olun 🙏🏻

[@Bangtanarmygirl]

@@JamilaMusayeva çox xoş gəldin canim ♥️💗♥️.

[@iamladya_31]

Thank You for sharing Jamila 👋✨

[@DiamondSplendid-yy7dg]

It clashesform what were taught, a a person who was raise with what we have learning to be content for what I wear is accepting but a person who has a range of choosing it becomes more picky in thinking

[@classygirls3301]

Hi I am from Iraq 🇮🇶 I like your video 📹♥ Thank you 😊

[@dianachka100]

love the french vibe in your clothes and furniture.

[@thamiryschuengue125]

I LOVE 💕 your videos about etiquette at the table. It gave me so much more confidence in the meals at work . OBS: sorry about my English if I made some mistake. I'm your fan from Brazil ❤️🇧🇷

[@Lillium1155]

Duas!!

[@zakhsworld4972]

Coming from a 20 year old thank you I really needed this

[@salk2555]

I've started wearing makeup at home and I feel much better. Can you do more videos on elegant clothes that are easy and comfortable?

[@subhanshisingh3018]

You are a beautiful personality . I am enjoying learning from your videos, keep it up.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@aishwaryamariya4419]

Your daughter will be like a princess. Because you teach her everything she needs to be a princess. Please include your daughter in your videos.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you! I do not teach her. She only looks up to me. I try to be the role model

[@giftyboakye8554]

Thanks I feel so good now

[@charlesdickens3810]

Hello Jamila, Can you make a video on how to become and stay fit please? Thank you so much. This channel has helped me so much with my confidence and overall personality.

[@kanika__12]

Wow your personality is so good

[@sapphire3141]

I’d love to know where you shop your outfits. So elegant and effortless ❤️

[@anujanandan2127]

Thank you Ms. These tips have helped me a lot! I am beyond grateful to you for sharing them.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Welcome 🤗

[@anujanandan2127]

I wanted to say this Ms. , you do look a lot like Audrey Hepburn. Flawless, effortlessly beautiful

[@addyramirez709]

She is so amazing:,)

[@emilianicheva]

Can you please do a video about how to look clean and put together and smell nice all the time? I would love to see your recommendations ☺️

[@ΜΑΡΙΑΠΑΛΛΗ-φ5ε]

You are looking great!!

[@vahid_bs1350]

Mrs jamila, your video is useful and interesting. İ love

[@isabellagiammanco1558]

Omg I am loving you channel…. Thank you so much. Xx

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are welcome

[@Papillon-k9k]

Wow, your mom sounds like a really good parent 💗

[@JamilaMusayeva]

She is ❤️

[@Papillon-k9k]

@@JamilaMusayeva That's amazing 🥰 Good parents are really important

[@sahithipulicherla110]

Perfectly described...

[@skyeclara732]

Hey I learnt new things 😊❤ thank you !!!

[@alejandracontreras5596]

Thank you Jamila for these tips, I really like your videos, you are so sweet and teach me so much 🌺

[@memorycelle]

Great advice - thank you! So true about the smiling more and having hands occupied. I wonder what the psychology behind having hands occupied means, because it does make me feel more comfortable when I do that.

[@arkanghelkerubin1980]

Hi, miss Jamila. I'm new here, greetings from Philippines! 💞 Thank you for the tips and knowledge!😇❤️

[@queenlove6218]

Thank you Jamila 💜

[@vanessaacquah1018]

I had a presentation yesterday during a retreat and I was shivering even tho is not my first time talking in public. But I don't know why I can't build self confidence. To be honest I'm a very shy person and I am putting in so much effort to build my confidence level .🙁😊

[@JamilaMusayeva]

With more practice, you will be better ☺️

[@vanessaacquah1018]

@@JamilaMusayeva Okay thank you so much❤😁

[@jarcialeite3026]

I love your channel! It has expanded my knowledge so much!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@suhilaelnagar7426]

U're such a beautiful kind of friend Jamila ❤️

[@salmaou9110]

Looovee uuu Jaamiiilaaa 😍😍😍💕💕💕❤️❤️

[@romacoco]

I'm turning 30 in September and I knew exactly what book you were talking about 😆

[@gurpreetsohal6657]

Make a video on your self makeup tutorial

[@chidinmaalariobi6495]

Maintaining eye contact is one of the area I need to work on myself

[@muhdabdullah8720]

when i see your style i also got confidenece 💕😍😍😍😍 stay blessdddd

[@oishisahoo2093]

So much to learn from you. Your videos are therapeutic

[@tamako5012]

thank you for turkish subtitles🎉

[@PrincessJuah]

Lesson #1 applies to me

[@violetaturner4998]

Hi Jamila, thank you for your video. It’s a well done & informative !

[@maricelg777]

I am new subscriber here. This is the first video I watched . I enjoyed it. Thanks beautiful 🤍🎀🌸

[@nehaboss31]

Jamila mam, i really appritiate your efforts.. but the way you dress up yourself is super cool and beyond words, i mean how can someone be so perfect❤👀 you are soo pretty 🤞🏼

[@filomenaalviar9311]

Thanks for all you do!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Welcome!

[@sayma6575]

This is the video I needed.

[@tishakataria8391]

Thank you so much Jamila for this video, I always admire confident people now I can also become one, whom others will admire . Btw, your outfit was awesome as always!!

[@prabhatmishra4976]

Amazing video 🌸🌺🌈💕🥳🎀

[@shareekhac]

Hey jamila your content makes every possible difference! Simply love your videos, so informative and thoughtful.... Can you do a video on how to speak any language like a native and not translate a foreign language to your mother tongue in your head?

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you. I will take a note on that ☺️

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you. I will take a note on that ☺️